Mother & Daughter Caught In A Toxic & Violent Cycle! | KARAMO

[@myalamakayla07]

Wowww, THE MAMA IS MOST DEFINITELY THE PROBLEM!! This “ idc attitude” is crazy!! She literally proved the daughter point!!

[@Tjbands45]

That’s what I’m saying she definitely a bad mom

[@michellej4289]

I agree!!

[@Riyamiraaa]

@@Tjbands45 BITCH HOW IM A BAD MOM EVERYBODY WHO KNOW ME KNOW IM A GREAT MOM

[@khala2232]

You're a terrible mother@@Riyamiraaa

[@Logantaliaferro]

parents should do stuff that will hurt the children for the rest of there life

[@LivingWithTee777]

Wow. I feel so bad for the daughter because her mom is stuck in her ways.

[@BOSSLADY-cu8vs]

Right she not fooling me with that hug

[@Whatman-pe]

Shes to toxic

[@kyjay5961]

She's on Instagram laughing about everything

[@rysinclair836]

@@kyjay5961what’s her instagram

[@marrrweee]

@@kyjay5961oooooh that’s disgusting

[@sabrina21clark]

I love how Karamo handled this one. He saw both sides and didn't judge. And how he hugged the audience member who was crying.

[@carra542]

I love how he handled this as well❤ He has truly made me love him through this show. He is exactly what the people need!

[@aprilyoung6283]

I'm still crying, I'm just not seeing this. You have to say the right words.

[@sherrylawrencelewis2544]

This mother and my own must be sisters. 😮😮😮

[@twink6235]

Her mom has a nasty attitude, she talks to her daughter like a regular chick on the street. Sometimes you have to love from a distance.

[@knightclassic1]

She's only mad because she doesn't have a good black man, but I think she been rejecting them

[@TasteMyRainb0w]

FACTS. My friend moved far away from her mother. They're good now, but my friend still aint moved back lol

[@keymoten3079]

True

[@knightclassic1]

Her Mom had her YOUNG, that's the problem.

[@johobanana]

It sucks to be a child with an immature parent who is argumentative rather than a care taker. It's exhausting to know that you don't have the security of a parental figure, because they rather be right and argue with you than simply listen and understand. I know they don't have the tools to see beyond what they know and lack emotional intelligence, but it still doesn't make it right. As someone who has struggled with a dad who never takes accountability and uses his children to argue and sees them as a problem, I 100% feel for her and where she is emotionally. The see you as "too emotional" when in reality is you simply needing parental support and someone to comfort you.

[@knightclassic1]

So many Black Mothers rather not be a parent only because they don't have a husband or their daddy's ain't shit. But its what they choose to have kids with I guess

[@evezazzle5974]

Oh honey your experience is so relatable. I'm so sorry for the undeserved neglect and pain you endured. You never ever deserved that EVER ‼️ Wishing you a kind and gentle recovery and life 🙏❤️🎁💐🫂

[@blaquequeen6989]

I could write a whole lot to this comment but I’m not I’ll keep it cute just know I agree ☝🏾

[@knightclassic1]

@Gurlwithsomebody Babies having babies is what makes them Shitty Parents. I'm sorry that you're Parents did not love you.

[@keymoten3079]

Same here my sperm donor wasn’t a dad to me and he swear I’m to sensitive but was in jail since I was a baby and now I’m 31 he done nothing but quick to dismiss my feelings etc

[@FinDom1]

Too many Black moms think being the mom means you can say and do anything to your kids and they’re going to end up in a nursing home alone.

[@specialkay4329]

Do you have any experience with White, Asian, Africam, Euorpean? Do ya research. Black parents aren't the only ones mistreating their kids.

[@FinDom1]

@@specialkay4329 I said what I said deflect all you want with your whataboutisms.

[@specialkay4329]

@@FinDom1 sure you did. And ya big words arent big enuff to mask ya ignorance

[@specialkay4329]

@@FinDom1 whataboutisms!????? Wtf about other races and kids. Do u e er see any other race mistreat their fkn kids? I aint impressed witcha slick mouth. I got one too.

[@specialkay4329]

@@FinDom1 Who's deflecting???? You made a blanket statement, I responded with a question. YOUR response was deflecting. Now, it's almost night night time. Did you do your homework? Brush ur teeth before bed.🫠

[@realmnthrwknives]

the mom's attitude is so nasty. Not everyone should be a parent and this is a prime example. She choked her and thinks that's normal? Said shes gonna put holes in her? Like sorry not sorry thats a sorry excuse for not only a parent but a person. It's a difference between discipline and being a bully.

[@onyijenny]

No, she's not. She uses the attitude to wave of what she went through. She was able to go through it alone, and she expected her daughter to do the same thing. She failed to know that her daughter was born in a different generation

[@jozey555]

@@onyijennyno. she fails to realize her daughter doesn’t deserve to be traumatized just because she was.

[@onyijenny]

@juziyahk when you go through a lot of pain, you won't care when people complain about theirs. Cus, you would assume it is minor. Within yourself, you believe that there's nothing you can not conquer. This is not you undermining theirs. She needs to heal for her to acknowledge how traumatised her daughter is. She needs healing

[@realmnthrwknives]

@@onyijenny Its not even about being in a different generation. She wasn't able to go through it alone she just thinks she can. Surviving and thriving are different so yeah she may be here today but she has not healed from her trauma and has reflected that trauma onto her daughter. No one can force her to be a good mother or even a good person, that is up to her to take the steps to look past her own ego. I don't think she's incapable of doing so, in fact i hope she can be better. But currently no shes not a good person or a good parent and its up to her to change the 20+ year pattern of her acting the way she does.

[@gabrielleyoung2445]

@hachiko070 I agree the mugging is disgusting. She’s not understanding it’s like it’s in one ear and out the other that’s why so many parents children relationships are so fucked up. And when kids start to snap back and defend themselves it’s because they feel as if you treat them like nobody.

[@yutaas6130]

The daughter is stunning. Red is definitely her colour

[@joyhudson5674]

Her mother is a bully and jealous of her. She needs to separate herself from her mom. When Karamo asked the girl “Do you think your mother loves you ?” And she said “idk” the mom didn’t even say anything. She don’t love her. She hates her ! When you don’t love yourself how can you love anyone else even if it is your child ? That mom needs help asap ! I don’t think she’s gonna change. She don’t even realize or care what she is doing is breaking her daughter down ! This is sad.

[@TeeBabyXOXO]

You preaching! 👏🏿👏🏿

[@asiabryant5742]

She needs to be emancipated I stg

[@babyeg3322]

An the fact that she had a smile on her face the entire time while her child was pleading out to her for love she just laughed thinking she was just being dramatic an the fact how she talked about her baby that was killed like get over it instead of understanding that it was terrifying to hear what happened even though she didn't witness it she was still traumatized by it smh she's no mother

[@IambadkidMonnie]

O to

[@IambadkidMonnie]

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[@nonibandz]

Sidenote the daughter is absolutely beautiful wow, and I truly pray healing on her bc the mom is just so nonchalant and disrespectful its sad asf

[@michaelamitchell1603]

Shes so pretty!

[@miyalol1862]

she’s beautiful fr

[@tamiyaking7074]

I just said the same she is soo pretty 😍

[@kemzz2x]

I need her ig

[@SmileGodLovesU]

I'm the same age as the mom and have been through some of the most traumatizing things. But to have that permanent stank face, attitude, and hardness towards my own child or anyone is just too much. This is why generations stay bound and never heal. I hope they find peace.

[@michellej4289]

I'm sorry. I would not be dealing with this woman

[@knightclassic1]

No wonder why We as Good Black Men choose to date other race. We got no time for nonsense with Black Women, If Black Women would leave THUGS, GANGSTA SWAGGERS, RAPPERS, DEADBEAT DADS Alone then this wouldn't be the case

[@ravendluna369jasso8]

The mom did open up at the end..... Life made her hard but she does have a soft heart ❤ she just needs healing with her daughter ❤❤❤

[@desteepooful]

Why is the mother so aggressive and removed from the emotional connection with her kids...that's so weird

[@dejahayden7022]

I know like even the way she came out with so much attitude towards her own daughter is crazy

[@Littlebigtime]

Trauma..maybe her parents talked to her like that.

[@Ghostaredead]

Is not weird she probably didn’t plan on having kids

[@lesley5380]

​@@LittlebigtimeI think she said her mum spoke to her like that.

[@craigebell2288]

She not a kid when she's jumping up in her mother face.

[@fslayer1290]

The mom is treating her daughter like she’s some chick on the street. This situation is super unhealthy and the daughter should probably separate herself from mom. Therapy for both is a must.

[@asiaeverette6591]

The mom takes no accountability for her action , the daughter seems so sweet and seems like she really wants to fix the relationship with her mom. It’s just so sad honestly we have be better as black women

[@DaisiaMone]

Mom is super toxic. From the moment she walked out and opened her mouth, nothing but negativity came out.

[@tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t]

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS BEING "TOO SENSITIVE." PERIOD. THE. MOTHER. IS. A. NARCISSIST.

[@questionresearch8721]

I was going to say a jerk.

[@kristoff1skalet176]

My biggest bully in my life gave birth to me

[@lny_143]

right ! no body realizes that that’s just who they are as a person and just need to allow people to feel the way they do ! i cry a lot when im mad and when im screaming i hear “we don’t care about that “ “imma 302 you” 😣🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s sad where i am but like i said in the comments the only thing you can do is get away from it and “get over it”

[@kristoff1skalet176]

@@lny_143 The "getting over it" part is the hardest

[@datkiddjophat4290]

I’ve heard that at a young age from mother & brothers & now im aggressive at times but I’ve learned to navigate it & just be mean

[@Unpackyourthoughts]

My whole life I was told I was too sensitive but as the oldest child I was the second parent. I was the one who went through & saw everything with my mom so this episode definitely helped me realize I struggle with feeling secure as well. Wow Karamo you did it again!

[@YourAverageChick]

You and me Both,I always wished for a mature parent and mines would get highly upset 🙄

[@BigDaddy1977100]

​@@YourAverageChick❤

[@eedyyasmine1976]

I wish i could like this comment 100 times because exactly that!!!! I broke down after watching this episode. All we want is security & not to feel anxious/ on edge anymore 😩

[@diamerist88879]

Yeah. I was told the same thing. Only to grow up realizing it was an emotional manipulation tactic so that I wouldn’t point out the unfair treatment I was receiving. We were never too sensitive. Only misunderstood.

[@edelthegoddess]

Yap, He's a star !

[@dntdnt368]

I'm a 45 yr old man, and I've never felt secure. I'm sitting here literally in tears because this episode made me realize that the odds of ever feeling security is close to none! What a super hard pill to swallow!

[@teetawn9454]

So sorry for that ! I hope you one day find the comfort and security you desire .

[@TeeCup22]

Man I hate to read this. I can’t imagine or fully understand, but I seriously hope you find some security within yourself. You deserve it, 45 or not ❤️

[@kristoff1skalet176]

Just reading this comment from another black man to admit this brings tears to my eyes too because I relate so much. Had a horrible relationship with my mom who was extremely manipulative and abuse... still shames me to say this due to the constant backlash "How could you say something negative about your Mom, you're ungrateful...etc.."

[@alice-fq8qr]

​@@kristoff1skalet176I always remember story about Stalin who forced his daugher to dance on his parties till she bled from her feet. Being parent is never an argument on its own, you should have been protected PERIOD!

[@kristoff1skalet176]

@@alice-fq8qr Thank you much

[@AllaboutMarjorita]

Watching the daughter and young lady in the audience cry broke me down. I’m over here balling 😢 I pray they can fix their relationship

[@EMPRESSPEACH888]

Omg me too 🥹

[@camirrahcharles2493]

Same here. ❤

[@jakie4444]

I don't the mother can kick rocks cause the moment the camera are of the mom will keep doing the same shit

[@jadynnewsome390]

This mother is very ignorant. The fact that she's treating her daughter like a woman on the street and she thinks its just a result of getiing "angry". Nah thats not anger, thats abuse, disrespect, and ghetto

[@craigebell2288]

The daughter acted like a woman in the street when she got up in her mother face.

[@Queen_Neo]

@@craigebell2288Maybe its just me but im not ready to have my mom literally threatening me and my life. If the mom is going to treat her like a bitch in the street she might as well act like one

[@jadagray8523]

@@craigebell2288 the mother started the entire altercation you make it seem as if the child started it

[@lny_143]

everyone around me have told me i’m too sensitive and that i cry too much , and it’s only building up anger and caused attempted situations . this is where you find your own peace and isolate . remove all negative energy and practice self love !!

[@ZoegirlBev]

Yes!!!

[@zay5060]

It’s obvious, she is soooooo jealous of her daughter

[@freyassoul]

Yeah lol I peeped that

[@horrorluver565]

Cuz she never snapped back from her baby like her daughter did… Shes probably a way better mother too and she can’t handle that

[@Riyamiraaa]

yaLL SOUMD DUB@@horrorluver565

[@ChynaWilliams-smith]

💯💯

[@trendyfr4476]

Factssss

[@bealambwouldya]

When ppl say you’re to sensitive that’s gaslighting & invalidating their experiences

[@nakailyaa.xox0]

this makes me feel so blessed to have my mom. she’s really my best friend & to think it’s mom’s out here like her who don’t deserve the right to have kids. her trauma is no excuse to be taking it out on a child. at her big ass age she need to go to counseling.

[@ravendluna369jasso8]

We all need healing ..... We all have childhood trauma.... It's so horrible to just judge without feeling empathy 😢

[@helgapataki4156]

The Mother is still STUCK at the age 17. Y'all ain't friends, you made a decision to have a baby so YOU have to grow up Mom.

[@kristoff1skalet176]

In the black community it's damn near taboo to say anything negative about your mother no matter what they do to you. A mom can kill their child and the community will be like "Well, they must've done something to deserve it" 😮

[@123NopeNotMe]

Lawda mercyyyy... Rightttt.. Or "that's still yo mama"... Yup and she will ALWAYS be, I'm mature enough to understand I do not need a relationship with her..

[@niyathescorpio]

Preach

[@roselormeus9477]

This is literally what the mom said, that even if she's yelling at her daughter she's suppose to shut up and stay quiet as she does with her mom🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕

[@Sweetdreamz313]

Or that’s your mother but let a father do anything even if he’s a good dad the whole community will kick his ass to The curb lmao

[@andrearhoads6749]

Thissss omg

[@alana4988]

The daughter is gorgeous! Her mum must be jealous.

[@ForeverYoung20092]

Lol I don’t think so. Daughter is cute but nothing to be jealous of. I think the mom just has anger issues.

[@stormystormy5429]

The mama pretty too. Where you think the daughter got it from.

[@Jay-ir6ng]

@@stormystormy5429built like a imvu character but def pretty

[@stormystormy5429]

@@Jay-ir6ng she have real ssa and all she a beautiful blck queen. 🤎

[@cjdees6798]

Mom is pretty too

[@sudiesudie5110]

The mom is so disconnected from herself and her own emotions that she can not emotionally support or see her daughter. Trauma is so damaging. I hope they find the healing they need!

[@questionresearch8721]

Her mother is ignorant and immature. I'm ashamed this is a peer of mine. She is a disrespectful person.

[@death24314]

You know here??

[@questionresearch8721]

@@death24314 No. We are the same age. I did not express that clearly. I don't know her but we are peers. We are peer strangers.

[@lny_143]

my parents say the same thing to me when i express my feelings “get over it “ “stop talking about it and move on “ and honestly this has only made me more weaker and more insecure and the only way i can get over this is to not talk to them about how the way i feel and just “get over it “ i guess because me being in my feelings is only going to stop me from doing what i need to do , but i wish our close ones were more sympathetic and more understanding !

[@YourAverageChick]

They don't and will Never understand sadly. I'm almost 40 and Nothing I ever did or do was "good enough " and the stress put on me for being responsible for my 3 young siblings plus the "adult " that produced us failed to stick to the end of her bargain. I had to go no contact 2 yrs ago and it's been good and stress free 🎯 Maybe you need to find a group of individuals that are going through this as well and also get a therapist who can understand you.A good mentor is good as well if you don't have a "trusted" advisor. Good luck, sending Blessings to be Free🙌💐

[@lny_143]

so sorry u gone through this ! i do go to therapy at the moment and it’s okay . thank you !

[@michaelamitchell1603]

That's the same thing that happens to me or if I try to ask a question about my childhood, they will LITERALLY make me feel guilty for asking 😔 it's like we can't win but I do pray that things get better for you.

[@YourAverageChick]

@michaelamitchell1603 I hope all works out in your favor because Everyone deserves to be Heard no matter how old or young the person is 🎯 Children especially need to be listened to and that's why it's up to Us parents to guide when necessary ❗️Everyone has a Voice🗣

[@lny_143]

@@michaelamitchell1603 wow that’s awful . it’s really sad . thank you i hope things get better for you too ! no one wants to hear the truth about themselves and that’s none of your fault . it’s theirs !

[@Kassa-fk3et]

Karamo and Janae are low key matching and I support this! They look like friends that know each other for so long ❤️ I would love to be Janae’s friend. Bring a lot of positive vibes to her!

[@mahaliasmith599]

Same here it’s the mom for me she’s giving me narcissistic vibes.

[@dess1k532]

Facts where is she today ,? Lol

[@laurawilson4641]

The mother has a problem. She needs help. She wants control.

[@TeeCup22]

Every time I see someone with a terrible relationship with their mother I get so emotional. I cannot imagine having a mother like this as a daughter. How awful & tiring. 🥺 I seriously hope this girl heals & distances herself.

[@gabriellebrooks2065]

I'm glad you empathize instead of judging ❤ it's rough!

[@alicemarie7]

The girl in the audience crying had me crying hard 🥺😭😭

[@spoilerlover09]

Can we just acknowledge how beautiful the daughter is🥰 I hope she’s found peace and is living a happy life with her baby❤️

[@stephenchristian3636]

I totally empathize with the daughter!! I’ve been through some pretty traumatic sh*t as a child. Even at 34 I’m healing/ recovering from childhood trauma. I am a Cancer an was told I’m too sensitive by my Dad! I’m a physical abuse/ sexual abuse survivor

[@johnwyatt40]

I’m sorry 😞 😢 to hear that I want through the same experience and trauma and I just now recovered as well I’m praying 🤲 🙏🏾 for you and stay blessed 😇 up.

[@cosmoworldtheater]

I'm so sorry, I hope it gets better for you❤❤

[@cosmoworldtheater]

I'm so sorry, I hope it gets better for you❤❤

[@MrBeautiful2908]

There are not enough words to describe how toxic, immature, inconsiderate, careless, and disrespectful this mother is to her child. It just breaks my heart to the core.

[@taylorrsims]

the way the mom came out and was IMMEDIATELY confrontational and defensive spoke volumes. She immediately went to work at trying to invalidate her daughter.

[@queenleah8139]

I started crying when the daughter said “mom I wanna feel more secure” I felt that to the core omg😕💯

[@dynastykin394]

just when i was boutta say that one girl needed a hug so bad , he gave her one ♥️🙏🏾

[@elena6516]

As soon as she said "you're too sensitive" I lost it! This was the relationship I had with my mother and she used to say this shit to me all the time! No! We are not too sensitive it's that we constantly bring the same shit up over and over because you as parents can never take a moment to reflect on your actions and account and apologize for the trauma and pain you put us through! It's not about sensitivity it's about accountability, without that accountability we have a harder time letting go and moving forward. It really is simple parents if you say or do something shitty to your kids acknowledge it and own up to the mistakes you have made and work to change it so the relationship can grow and flourish. Instead of raising us as broken people learn to fix yourself and your own generational trauma before you destroy us completely because that is how we are left broken and alone trying to put a million pieces of our traumatized selves back together. If you cannot do that then don't get mad at us when we leave and don't show you the respect you seek. I don't care what type of authority figure you are parent, teacher, etc. Respect is earned not given, you cannot expect respect from somebody (in this case her daughter) if you (the parent) don't give it in return. We are human beings first and labelled child second. In my case I left my parent home 10 years ago because I could no longer take the abuse from my mother and her refusal to acknowledge not only the pain she put me through but her own pain as well. I am certain had I not left I would not be here right now, I tried to end my life because of this crap. No person, man, woman, or child should ever be made to feel like they are not worth living or loving (that's how my mom made me feel). Although I have come a long way (with therapy etc.) I still have moments of struggle and I am very much still a work-in progress despite 8 years of therapy. People don't realize how detrimental this is for us as kids this type of abuse and trauma shapes things for us later on in life, things are much harder for us later because of it. Yes the physical abuse hurts but the mental is so much worse, and is the hardest to work through and get over. That shit sticks to us like a virus that won't quit and we carry the aftermath of that chaos for the rest of our lives despite coping mechanisms. Words matter, words mean something so please choose them wisely especially when speaking to your children because sometimes if you go far enough those words hurt beyond repair. I hope this young lady leaves if she has to and finds peace in life, I hope mom also comes to terms with herself, looks within, and gets the help that she needs so that she too can be at peace as a person with or without her daughter.

[@sandrarice4197]

This mother chose the life of having her daughter at 17 and staying with an abusive man. She doesn't need to visit that on her daughter!!! This mother is brutal. Words cut like a knife!!! How dare this mother strangle her daughter and put her hands on her daughter!!! She didn't need to have children if she doesn't want to treat them correctly!!!

[@shakeah0527]

I felt this! I lost my mom almost a year ago and I’m glad her last few years we were able to learn how to love each other and respect each other’s differences before she passed. This hit home! Every child with parents who are u stable never feel secure, at any moment we can get a call. Sadly I got the call before my mom got the therapy that she desperately needed. It’s sad but hurt people hurt people, and being a mom is just a title.

[@LEMARIECH]

I could be wrong, but I believe the mother is stuck in her ways because she's stuck in her trauma and she doesn't have the tools to get unstuck from her trauma. Everything that has transpired between them, both mother and daughter, is a trauma response to what they both experienced. I feel so bad for the daughter because i believe she loves her mother and has clearly been traumatized by her mother's trauma, and she feels helpless. It's as if she has survivors guilt, but whenever she tries to communicate her feelings to her mother, she gets shutdown so she just completely shuts down. My prayers go out to her and her daughter and i hope they both are able to get the help they need. ❤❤❤

[@curtislaster2160]

So far, you are the only one on here making sense. Both of them need some work. She is not going to stop being her mom. Stop taking sides because both of them need our prayers.

[@Trixiesongzxoxo]

@@curtislaster2160what the hell are you talking about did you even watch the video?

[@curtislaster2160]

@@TrixiesongzxoxoThe entire video, try watching the entire video with an open mind and heart. The whole idea is both being on the road to restoration regardless of how you feel. It aint about you.

[@michaelamitchell1603]

yup! generational curse is hard to break but the mother should be willing ESPECIALLY if she sees that her daughter is hurt beyond repair.

[@hazelreflection]

My favorite thing I heard from a therapist is “Every behavior is a need trying to be met.” This mom has clearly been through a lot a trauma and looks to me like she takes any opposition to her as a threat, and something in her feels like she needs to protect herself, even if it means getting violent with her child. She needs some serious therapy and healing so she too can feel safe and secure, because she’s clearly unable to provide a safe environment for herself or her child.

[@zakiaminnifee3721]

She stated on Instagram that she had a great childhood.

[@alexwilliams2276]

@@zakiaminnifee3721 You know how many people say that? This is a generational curse

[@kpatterson72570]

The young lady in the audience who got the hug… I can empathize with her. God continue to cover our children

[@DCKG]

When she cried about having to defend herself from the mother she loves hurts me so much… parents so toxic they don’t understand whatever we go through.. I’m your child. I love you. I need you. Guide me😭 that pain will never heal

[@perryplayz21]

When my mom found out I was self harming myself she told me to “stop crying you did this to yourself” and yelled at me all the way home… it was the worst feeling ever she didn’t hug me or cry or anything just was angry

[@cukeyiavicks5343]

😢 I am so sorry that you were treated that way by the one person in the world who is supposed to love you the most 💔. I pray that you find peace and healing regardless 🫶🏾

[@shian1771]

I’m so sorry you experienced that love 😢 That anger was directed at you but she was not mad at you, she’s angry with herself because she failed in some way as a parent. Either way she should have never yelled at you 🙏🏽 Many blessings to you love

[@KhadijahsMamma]

I’m so sorry, I hope you’re in a better place now

[@jalycehickman1921]

I’m sorry you’ve gone through that, I want to encourage you that you are loved and Jesus Christ died on a cross for you and love you so you can be redeemed from sin and be in alignment with the Father ❤ you have a purpose and plan to fulfill ❤ ”For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.“ ‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭29‬:‭11‬ ‭NKJV

[@Tinkvloggingshii]

Awww the girl in the audience broke my heart🥺 it’s sad to know other people go through this pain when nobody should have to

[@deviaunaashmore2291]

This is me and my mother. We forever at each other because she was taught to not have feelings and I embrace mine. I'm not getting over it

[@tyquanhumphery]

An to be honest there's a lot of mothers like this in the black community which is crazy to me because your creating trauma for your child that affects them in their adult life!!!!

[@death24314]

It's a generational curse. A Lot them were taught to be a "strong black woman" and "niggas ain't shit" so they past it on to their off spring. Sad really

[@nicoleraheem1195]

Exactly and they always tell you to get over the trauma

[@HarleiiQuinn]

they don’t care.

[@Queen_Neo]

My mom put me thru some shit as her oldest and doesnt like to listen to what I have to say. The only reason im even in contact is because of my grandmother. Unfortunately some black women really are stuck in their ways even with the tools in front of them

[@NEE2TIMESS]

The fact Mothers be so jealous and show so much hatred towards their daughters are so heartbreaking 💔😞

[@omgimover4075]

Shows like this make me feel blessed to have my mom. My mom is loving & caring person, never combative or violent. There are so many mothers out there who are jealous of their own daughters. They treat their daughters like a side chick. It’s so damn sad.

[@KUGHREEN]

This is such a reminder that deep down we all have an inner child still looking for our parents love and nurturing. Even as we grow up.

[@camirrahcharles2493]

I know that feeling all to well and I know that I will never get it. So I nurture the Lil girl in me with music to calm her soul. I also talk to her and say that what you felt then were valid feelings and that it's okay to feel hurt, to feel angry, to feel sad. Whatever it is that you're feeling, it's okay and she will be okay too. When I do this for my inner child, it helps me to move on even knowing that the little girl in me will never get the reassurance from my mom. It's okay, I'm okay, and my inner child is okay too. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@TeeBabyXOXO]

This is a sad reality for a lot of black girls/women including me. My mom is around the same age as her mom and she acts the same way. It’s really sad and incredible how alot of women from that decade share the same characteristics. They never see any wrong in the things they do, it’s despicable. I’ve seen a couple of episodes on her where the mother is the same as this one and the child is the one seeking hello/therapy from Karamo. I pray for the daughter because Lord knows it’s hell dealing with a mom like that, especially when she doesn’t take accountability or apologize. And make you seem like you’re over reacting and sensitive💔😩

[@oddstuff6137]

Have you seen the societal narsism channel?

[@SEXYTRICEY]

I am so sorry that certain Mothers are Jealous of their children, especially their daughters. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ! And You DO NOT have to deal with ANY disrespect, just because you are related or love someone. I AM SO SORRY! 🙏🏼♥️

[@kattiethomas4687]

Thank you brother for opening up a door to psychological healing.

[@Ormxnce]

1. I completely understand that the mom may be emotionally stuck at 17 still however you're no longer 17 you're an adult now. You are old enough and competent enough to know when you need to get therapy for your trauma not pass it onto your child the behavior exhibited today was extremely narcissistic 2. I'm SO so sorry to the daughter; as an oldest daughter and first child I completely understand what you're going through I truly hope that you get through this love and get the healing and help that you need to heal from all that traumatic stuff

[@butyoucancallmesam]

She hates her child. I could never speak to my daughter in such a matter.

[@teehee83]

Her mom is gross 😢

[@knightclassic1]

Poor excuse for a Black Woman

[@lindamanuel9073]

Girl, you need to pack up your bags and start a new life without your mother... I am so sick n tired of all the hugging towards the end. It's so fake and insincere just like the word "I'm sorry" for only the person to go back hurting you again.

[@gabriellebrooks2065]

What you say!!!!! I totally agree 💯

[@aprilcampbell4169]

Poor baby!!!!😢😢 I always listen to my daughter. She's the most important thing in my life. I want to love her always❤️.

[@stellarvgurl]

That hug gave me hope for them

[@ZoeBoat]

It’s the way her voice breaks when trying to explain the situation 💔 she’s hurt and I felt that.

[@stephaniej.stanley2141]

Mom is emotionally stunted at 17

[@ajeasnailz]

As a woman with a mom like this. She will never win.

[@KhadijahsMamma]

I hate mothers like this

[@Blue_Fire_1013]

Ever and the other siblings will take moms side even if she’s attacking them too

[@canishalashaetv]

​@@Blue_Fire_1013I AGREE....

[@lolabunniiii]

The black mother and daughter dynamic always brings me to tears because I feel so much for these young women and I learn so much about our black mothers. The older I get the more I understand from both perspectives and it gives me so much more respect and love for these women.

[@pay4739]

KARAMO!!! whew. i’m right there with the last girl, felt that. thank you for your kindness and understanding ..everyone needs it now and again. you got IT!

[@lexielexie8819]

Hair is slayed, natual beauty - the daughter.

[@intentional-joy]

Fake hair is natural beauty?

[@helpmegetto10kwithnovideos81]

@@intentional-joystfu they mean her face

[@lifewabby.]

@@intentional-joyno, it’s the fact she pulled the wig off and look gorgeous!

[@lindsaycarter8880]

The mom needs self reflection and healing! It’s hard trying to heal and the having to help soothe others as well!

[@TheAverycross]

God bless this beautiful young lady at 11:49 and 12:30. Truly. That toxic exchange between the mother and daughter on the stage must have had a strong effect on her, regardless of her own circumstances.

[@tamekans]

I feel so bad for the daughter 😢

[@naturalangie3001]

The mom seems jealous because the daughter is brave enough and has the courage to address her emotions.

[@canishalashaetv]

@@naturalangie3001 my story right now at the age of 31

[@eijirokirishima1882]

This little girl does not deserve this.

[@lowkeyren2051]

KARAMO BEEN EATING UGHH i’m always waiting and excited to see a new clip

[@kk2thurlll]

The daughter voice is so calm , I swear

[@maggiestock380]

The mom is stuck in her wheel of Generational Trauma. That defensiveness is from a lifetime of receiving the same maltreatment. Proud of the daughter for attempting to break that wheel.

[@laticiaspicer6399]

The mom says she doesn't care how her daughter feels... obviously she doesn't care how her weave looks either.

[@bealambwouldya]

The best decision I made is cut my mother off at the beginning of the year. Total narcissist. Always makes everything about what she’s been through. No accountability etc! Sis you gotta choose yourself & walk away.

[@soahsmith1995]

Amen !!!!

[@123NopeNotMe]

Owww Jesus.. A word a word! It's been 2 yrs for me... And ppl make it like "but that's your mama" and I say EXACTLY, that's what I'm saying.. She is my mom and should know and understand it's NOT OK to be treated or spoken to like that and to save the BOTH of us, I rather lay down my boundaries and be happy and healed without her relationship bc that will ALWAYS be my mom.. But I have enough women who pour into me that I no longer feel I'm missing anything. I've already mourned the relationship that will never be.. I'm healing and being the best WIFE and MOTHER to my kids (1 daughter) that I can. "

[@ZoegirlBev]

Wow I needed to see this❤

[@kyillamartin4871]

The girl in the crowd at the end is literallly me … she experiencing a lot of emotions at a young age

[@shiloh5654]

U can hear the pain in her voice that how u know she been through a lot and stuff with her mom is just adding on.

[@LesleOliver888]

She remind me of my moma growing up. Just aggressive, Picking fights, making me feel like im the problem when i wasnt. Which is now as an adult i keep my distance, unfortunately.

[@monharris28]

the daughter is a sweetheart, i was tender like that too, sensitive. my momma was also so hard but she mellowed out with age. she didnt know how to handle such a gentle young lady. im proud she learned how to love me.

[@ashleycrafter239]

Wooo omg this is so triggering...healing yet I can still heavily empathize with this young lady. I understand sweetheart. She's well on her way. She has some self awareness and that is step one. Mom also has self awareness, too! Love and light to these two. It is a long hard road to heal this type of connection, but if both are willing to do the internal work, it will be beautiful!

[@JamMasterKae]

that’s her baby! she just wanna know she’s safe, she’s felt unsafe since 7 years old

[@thedvineuniverse]

This episode jus made me want to be more mindful as a parent about how I’m raising a human being and they have super deep feelings too…

[@niyarenaee]

Everytime i watch Karamo, i think of myself and especially with the mom and daughters episode’s. i see me ALL the time. Karamo you are healing for me 🥺🥺🥺

[@angelastewart6470]

love the Karamo Show, because he really tries to help people and not exploit them and their situation, it feels different than any other show out there. Keep doing your thang Karamo. It's like it's your calling.

[@nr7645]

Wow that made me cry. I loved that he saw both sides. I can definitely see both sides too. Just two broken people. Definitely makes your reevaluate yourself too.

[@imawkward1005]

My mom is exactly like this. This woman will never change and will go home with the exact mentality she came in with. Also her going to hug the daughter felt performative asf

[@knightclassic1]

I don't understand of what's with these Black Mothers so vicious to their own kids nowadays, its been happening to many along with many of yours and Steve Wilkos and Judge Mathis episodes , wonder why our Children are so out of control these days.

[@FinDom1]

I’ve been noticing that too. That’s why so many kids are going no contact with their parents.

[@michellej4289]

what's " wrong with black mothers"? trauma....and not addressing it

[@death24314]

Because a lot black won't take the steps to heal from their trauma so they take it out on their kids. Generational curse. Their needs to be a intervention in the community cause it's only going to get worse as the years go by

[@knightclassic1]

@@michellej4289 The only way to address it is to Leave Black Men alone if you think All Black Men are no good anymore. Start dating WHITE MEN, it will Address it. White Men treats their Women way better like a Queen than Black Men do

[@katelynnsoard6870]

My mom is the exact same way. She’s a narcissist and it’s sooo hard to deal with it. I don’t have security, but if I say something, she doesn’t care. She’s even said she doesn’t care how I feel.

[@melissanguyen8973]

i feel like karamo helped a lot people I'm the last one my grandma told my mom not yell at me sometimes i feel bad after my cat died it's been the same

[@Wajeeha222]

I cried through the whole episode, at the end even harder for the mother. The trauma she’s about to uncover.. let her not give up on the work and keep loving her daughter. When he hugged the audience member at the end I really lost it !❤❤❤

[@DaGreatOne1979]

I can't judge this woman because I don't know her past but she definitely needs to love on her daughter more because she's not the enemy

[@myshavikes6263]

This is so sad. The mom is outta pocket, but I do see where it comes from. I hope the daughter is able to break that generational trauma and have a secure relationship with her own daughter

[@YourAverageChick]

This "mother" is pitiful by making her daughters feelings her own, not listening to her,smdh

[@QuebeeDasavage]

Karamos is awesome! Like he gets people and meet them where they are and lift them up… that’s a gift ❤❤❤

[@lyfewdee8495]

you can tell she loves her mom. her mom almost died that day to her knowledge when she got hit, her mom probably was depressed when she lost her baby, she saw her mom during these abusive relationships. she cares for her mother and doesn't want anything to happen to her so i get the security part fr.. she just wants to know her mother is safe.

[@kourtneyrenee08]

Yeah, I think the mom built up a wall and because she had other kids probably stuffed down her feelings. I hope they heal.

[@EMPRESSPEACH888]

Omg whew my mother all day I’m in tears whew

[@footgoddessjazzy5496]

That’s their favorite line “get over it “

[@alexandriaobong6753]

My mom got into a car accident that I wasn’t there for and I suffer from ptsd while driving on the highway because of it. Mothers have to understand your child feels everything!!!! My big sister died before I was born and I cry for her! Your mothers pain is your pain.