i lost my mama suddenly during a two week hospitalization on 4/24/24. im a rn and was her caregiver for 5+ years. im still in shock and have an excruciating amount of guilt. i have lost all control of anything in my life, my daily routine is different now as i struggle to make a new one, i feel so alone even though i know im not (lost my father in 2013 and i am an only child) even though we bunted heads often i miss her so incredible much. ive been relying on ur videos often for comfort… thank you
@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty5 ай бұрын
I’m so glad they help! Come into the Facebook group and share what you shared here! There are people who completely get it and can support you as well! We are all in this together!
@mikeshipley35095 ай бұрын
You've got this "Mom" you are making a difference!! Bless you for the work you're doing❤.
@mariederice12605 ай бұрын
I still feel the void. When my mom passed, it turned my whole world upside down. We lived in a 2 family house for 50 years.
@janetgibson65315 ай бұрын
Powerful video!! Jackson is the beginning of your journey with helping people with their journey through their grief. So inspired by what you have given people, hope for in their grief journey. I lost my husband 32 months ago and still seek guidance in this journey. It is difficult and we need guidance. You have been there and experienced it first hand. These special days like Mother’s Day can be difficult, but we can get through them with support from Catherine’s Grief Support Group. It has helped me tremendously. These special days are a reason to make connections with helpful and safe groups to join in your grief journey, ,
@jennifershort31045 ай бұрын
I became caregiver for my mom. It was a given for me because I had helped her with caring for her own parents. I had moments of impatience because of fear or exhaustion, or whatever made me feel less than at the time. I am always learning from my experiences and I want to use that knowledge to inform what I bring to the world no matter what I do.
@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty5 ай бұрын
That sounds like a good plan!
@musestudio70755 ай бұрын
Thank you for this ❤️❤️❤️
@janetgibson65315 ай бұрын
I most definitely thank my mother for teaching me the most wonderful way of raising mu boys. Love them, listen to them and guide them. Help them through the difficult times so they can know that they have the strength to grow. My mom was so thoughtful, so not overbearing, but would listen to what I had to say. She made me the mother that i am to three wonderful young men. Thanks , Mom!
@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty5 ай бұрын
Well said!
@jayneweathers5 ай бұрын
Thank you Catherine. Touching video. My heart goes out to you and all who are grieving on this day.❤ I shared it with my friends and family that I know are hurting. My sister, recently, lost her son. He was in his early 50's, the prime of his life, and taken too soon. I truly wish I could give you all a hug. ❤
@bozidarkamatanovic18005 ай бұрын
I've lost my Mom 20 months ago. I'm a doctor and I couldn't save her from death. I froze... I couldn't react... Things happened so quickly. I know now that nobody couldn't help her. But I'm torturing myself with guilt. I can't forgive myself. Nobody understands how profound is my pain... She was my best friend and my biggest support.Nobody else loves you as Mom... I don't know the way how to continue my life. How to live and feel happiness again? Like my life stopped while I was watching her die...
@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty5 ай бұрын
The way to keep on living is to chose to stop torturing yourself. Think about forgiving yourself. What would your mom want for you?
@musestudio70755 ай бұрын
I had a very similar loss. The guilt can be crippling. Love to you ❤
@bozidarkamatanovic18005 ай бұрын
I miss so much our deep connection and non verbal understanding... our soul bond.
@sylviakahunde11485 ай бұрын
I pray God comforts you.kindly stop feeling guilt. Because it's God with the final decision always. Some things we don't have authority over them. I'm sure you have had done for your mother good things before. Jst think about the good memories. May God console you dear
@Stand4Israel5 ай бұрын
I lost my mother when I was 9 years old back in 2003 in a tragic fire accident. My grandmother who was my mom’s mother adopted me and raised me. Last Saturday I woke up to my grandfather telling me my grandmother was dying in the hospital 🏥. She passed away yesterday morning because of kidney failure, dialysis didn’t work and her heart health started declining aswell.
@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty5 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry. This mother’s day will be hard for sure. What was your grandmother like? Her name?
@stevenborg13115 ай бұрын
Lots of love ❤️
@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@cindyallison66805 ай бұрын
I loss my son. It is hard. I have two other adult children. They are not Malcolm. He was 27.
@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty5 ай бұрын
Sound like Malcolm was a one of a kind. What was he like?