Death Grief and loss of a son, a mothers journey

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[@teresamiller7263]

I lost my 32 yr old son 11 days ago so very raw as so many of you. I have a responsibility to him to make something good come from this, very beautiful and I truly hope someday I will get there. Mothers live their whole lives for their children. He was my 1 and only child and right now I just feel like I would rather be with him. I always thought I was strong but this is unbearable pain and I don't know how so many do it, find new meaning and purpose. I know I am not alone in this journey. Bless you all.

[@pollymidgley670]

Bless you ❤️🙏 I lost my 31 year son 4 weeks ago. I'm so broken, he was my best friend. I don't feel so alone now

[@Voltackle86]

@@pollymidgley670 God Bless you Polly. I just lost my brother, same age as your son this week and the pain is immense, but that pain is what tells me of how much I loved him and I don't shy away from it. Our loved ones were blessings and I will always be grateful to God for allowing us to have them in our lives.

[@pollymidgley670]

@@Voltackle86 I try, he's everywhere but he's not there to tell me what birds what or to laugh like only we laughed. 🦉. Bless you and thank you so much 🙏❤️

[@karenglenn6707]

My only living child is my 32 yr,old son. I cannot imagine your pain, I think I would die without him. My love to,you from one mum to another, I know it won’t help, but you are not alone. My sister lost her only child who took his own life at 18 and we have seen what it has done to her. I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. 😢

[@tracy4196]

I'm so sorry for the unbearable loss of your son. My 31-yr old son passed away 169 days ago. I know what you're feeling and I'm sorry. Praying for all the parents on this thread.

[@lovelytunes4me]

I have lost both my children; one in 10/2016 and the other in 12/2022. It is devastating beyond words, and I will never understand why they were taken before me.

[@christinaspottsville8499]

I'm so sorry for your loss. How did your children pass if I may ask? May the Lord use you to help others who have gone through such a devastating situation. Im so sorry for your loss.

[@Nan-59]

Both kids…. I cannot imagine. I’m so sorry 😞

[@mitramalekzadeh9988]

I know exactly how you feel

[@yasminmoledina37]

I am so sorry for your loss ...I lost a son in 2019 and know and understand your pain .....you lost both your sons I am wordless .then I lost my husband this year in January. I send you love

[@rubyparnell781]

I lost both of my children too. One 1999 and the other March, 17, 2024

[@mylifeisbeautiful5242]

Last August, I lost my dear 31 year old son. He committed suicide. In the morning, he left, and we never saw him alive again. He was found after 3 days, and the police did not let us see him. Depression killed him. For all of us, it was a shock, unbearable, and painful. I still can't get over the fact that he's gone forever, gone in such sadness and heartache, and we did nothing to prevent it. There was not even a premonition of trouble, and only now we realize that depression is a terrible wake-up call. I really miss him every minute and ask his forgiveness. I ask God to forgive him and accept the unfortunate lost soul of my son into the Kingdom of Heaven. Forgive me, my beloved son. Rest in peace, my love.

[@user-sn1ko6nv5b]

I felt your pain 💔💔💔😭😭😭

[@nitabe8653]

Unfortunately I lived this in August 2023. He was found afyer 3 days. Never saw him again because of the state of his body. Tomorrow will be 6 months since he's been gone. Today has not been a good day. But some days I get by ok. Take one minute at a time.

[@Nan-59]

@@nitabe8653 I’m so sorry 😞

[@Nan-59]

I believe God forgives. I sure do and I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s tremendous. My son overdosed on Christmas morning 2023. After six nights and lots of test he was extubated in the operating room where we said goodbye and we will see him later. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done . it’s also so very exhausting

[@D-rz4qz]

Forgive yourself dear soul.

[@LHaywood4677]

I lost my son on the 5th of this month and this type of pain is unbelievable.. I’m angry and don’t know who to b angry at.. He was brain dead as a result of being fentanyl poisoned..😔🥺 I miss him so much! A mothers love for her son never dies.. 💔🙏🏾My condolences to u..😢

[@Nan-59]

I’m so sorry 😢 My son overdosed on Christmas 2023. 11 AM. Days in the hospital … He had a neurologist, and was hooked up to electro to see what if anything was left of his brain. Nothing was left. So we inquired about organ donation. Then the organ donation team got on board and they started looking for recipients. December 31, 2023 at 2 AM in the morning we walked him from his room to the operating room where they pulled out his breathing tube. My daughter and I were with him my son‘s best friend and two of my nieces, who my son‘s godmothers. They pulled his breathing tube, took less than 10 minutes and he was gone. He fought the good fight. He fought his addiction for many many years. He was the best son I could’ve ever asked for. Ever. He was kind and caring and loving and generous, and a great friend to everyone. My son’s heartbeats inside a young man that’s 30 years old. I keep hoping and praying that that is going well and that there are no rejections of any of the organs my son gave. He was also a tissue donor donated his eyes. He gave so much in life, and then he also gave in death. This whole grieving a child is new to me. It’s only been over a month. I don’t like it, but there’s nothing I could do to change it.

[@mammybelle7302]

My boy died at the age of 4. I miss him so much. I'll always carry a shattered heart. 😪

[@jefferee2002]

You have people like me who care. I recognize your loss.

[@nickyborg2170]

NO ONE WILL NEVER KNOW THE PAIN AM GOING THROUGH ABSOLUTE HORROR

[@Betty77168]

I am sorry to hear about your loss.

[@jacquiewpb1932]

💙

[@mammybelle7302]

Sending love to you all 💕 🙏

[@bow2theprincess]

So sad to have just found her obituary. She died Feb. 9, 2014. I hope they are together again.

[@justChrisjones]

How old was she? Do you know?

[@gailrubin9029]

I lost my son 21 years ago and just started a You Tube Channel to dedicate to him. There are NO words but I felt I wanted to reach out and help people. kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYK1q3yBZdRghKM

[@karencrilly1633]

She looks so young wow thx for update

[@sallygard63]

Oh how sad.... 😭😭 At least she is with him now 🦋

[@terrikeck6509]

I just loss my 37 year old son Jeremy 5 weeks ago. Her words helped me so much. The bond between a mother and son is special.

[@user-vb6ku2wh3b]

My auntie lost her son ( my cousin) 5 days ago. He was 42. He was her life, her reason for breather, her avatar,her pulse and heartbeat. No words could ever describe how profiundly ,all encompassing the love she has for her son. She was the one who found him in bis bedroom. The family has had the wind knocked out of them. I wish i could take her pain away. She sleeps with her boys ashes. She cries over his ashes and sobs " the boy of my soul, the boy of my soul". My heart breaks for my beautiful, incredibly auntie. All she did and does is give to others. She lived for her boy. I hope there is some sort of afterlife, some realm, i hope she can be reunited with her boy. Who she used to be, wont ever exist. That proud, joyful mother wont exist. Because the day her boy, her son died, took that part of her, with him. My cousin Borja, i love you. My auntie, my soul breaks for you.

[@margaretmcguirk5270]

What a beautiful person she was, full of good advice. I lost my only child aged 36 years in 2017 the pain is unbearable, nothing can heal this grief. Miss him so so much.

[@pollymidgley670]

I've just lost my 31 year old son to manslaughter. I'm so broken, he was my best friend. I find comfort reading your stories. I don't feel so alone 🙏 xxxx

[@aliciamcmillan4272]

I lost my beautiful son a few months ago I'm heartbroken 💗 it is the greatest pain you can ever experience I'm deeply sorry for your loss dear. Ty for sharing your story with us.

[@debbie58ification]

I lost my son named Forrest, forever 29, on November 30, 2021. He died of a heroin overdose, and started abusing opiates two years before for back pain and the anguish of a life he once knew and couldn't have anymore after a moped accident. He was never the same after receiving his diagnosis. We miss him so much. It's still so fresh.

[@kimmefford2814]

I hope this reaches you. If you’re able, I’d really like to talk to you because I’m in the same set of circumstances with my child. I see your post here was a year ago though. It’s September 2023. Are you getting my message?

[@debbie58ification]

@@kimmefford2814 tell me about your child.❤️

[@RF1972.]

I am so sorry for your loss... How are you doing now?❤

[@elainemiller2297]

I lost my son 4 years and 5 months ago he was 24 years old. I miss him every second of every day. It's the worst pain to ever have to endure. Love you so much Gary xxxx you mam always

[@valduran5957]

I lost my son in April of 2016. He couldn't wait to go camping and froze to death. His friend made it out. We searched for him for 3 days. I felt the moment he past. I saw a huge flash of light. I miss him it has been the hardest thing I have ever had to endure. I meditate and try to do the best I can each day. Your story inspires me that this too shall pass. Thank you.

[@awanbiru9400]

Val Duran I pray your broken heart’s will be completely mend.

[@theresamarchiano1521]

Val Duran I’m deeply sorry for your loss. I lost 2 son’s. One in 2015 and my other 2018. If it was not for my faith in the Lord. I don’t think I would be sane. Especially here listening to all these beautiful parents who lost their children. Tomorrow I’m going to therapy because I keep getting flash backs. I don’t want to go. My family is encouraging me. I will try it. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you . God bless you. 🙏🏻💦

[@msspellbounder216]

Wow, my son died in a car accident. I felt his passing with a huge flash of light as well. Goose bumps.

[@gailrubin9029]

I lost my son 21 years ago and just started a You Tube Channel to dedicate to him. There are NO words but I felt I wanted to reach out and help people. kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYK1q3yBZdRghKM

[@helened6896]

God bless you, dear Val. I will pray for you. I encourage you to think of your son's joy. He wouldn't want to return. You will see him one day and we always have that hope, which helps get us through.

[@staciejean]

I lost my 22 yr old son Thankgiving morning 2019 to accidental drug overdose. When I first watched this video, it almost angered me the peace she had ..it seemed unattainable. It's been 7 months now and I try and watch this video once a month. It inspires me so much and i have made it my goal to reach this kind of peace that this beautiful mother shared with the world. A few things stand out..#1 Her son/ MY son would not want his death to destroy me! # 2, accept that we are not in control, (God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change) #3 Decide to allow my sons death to cause growth in me and use that growth to help others. (Change the things that I can) #4 Believe that everything in life has meaning( the wisdom to know the difference) I wish I could tell her, how much this 9 minute video has impacted my life. I hope to get the chance when I meet her in the sky🌠

[@kelleymcfadden9675]

I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo

[@radadrapatskaya496]

We just lost a brother to an overdose.. 42...a beautiful soul! May God bring some peace into your soul and the spirit of ur son live forever and be emraced by God

[@heyjudejwilson]

So serene, what a beautiful lady - I hope one day I can reach this state of peace and acceptance. My only son died this year and the grief is so raw. They say where there is massive grief, there is massive love. her words mean so much .....

[@helened6896]

God bless you always and give you strengthen just when you need it most.

[@h.l.phillips3175]

I understand and I hope this video has helped you also. Remember.. A child is a gift from God.....BUT ONLY ON LOAN. Be kind to yourself x

[@heyjudejwilson]

H D Thank you 🕊

[@h.l.phillips3175]

@@heyjudejwilson You're welcome. 💜💛

[@weecaine6629]

I'm sorry, lost my son. Still going through agony myself. Bless you

[@cherienewlove6209]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I lost my 29yr old son 2 months ago in a plane crash. It is almost unbearable. I tried to discourage him from being a pilot, but he had a passion and I had to let him follow it. I miss him so much. He never moved out of home and was about to start flying for Air New Zealand. I am devastated beyond words. Your video has brought me peace. Thank you. Cherie

[@lighttheway4694]

Hugs from across the world. I hope someday you and your son are reunited in pure love and joy.

[@kmm291]

I lost my daughter 6 months ago after losing her brother now 8 years ago. So difficult 😔

[@Lena-yj4il]

I can only imagine what are You going through...Time, only time will help.

[@kelleymcfadden9675]

I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo

[@kelleymcfadden9675]

@@kmm291 I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo

[@dede1382]

My handsome intelligent just died a week ago April 8th 2019. We love him and will miss him so much. I thank God for the time I had with him rest in peace my wonderful son.

[@donnamarrillo4234]

I lost my son five months ago. He was 13. He drowned in the lake near our house. It was my birthday and he went swimming with his brother. I miss my baby boy every day. I can only carry on now for my other two children and my husband.

[@Lena-yj4il]

So sad...

[@stephenfermoyle4578]

i am sorry you are brave

[@cindiroberts5652]

I've read when they pass on your bday it means your souls have a special connection. My son passed two days before mine.

[@donnamarrillo4234]

@@cindiroberts5652 I'm sorry. Many blessings to you.

[@mschlund1]

My son wad also a rock climber and an extreme skier....he became a class V kayaker in the last 2 yrs....the river took him in a kayaking accident 10 days after his 20th birthday in Washington. Logan was my only child...my entire world..my reason for getting up every day for 20 years. Logan Cole 5/4/95-5/15/15. Still broken forever

[@smi0215]

lost my baby brother 13 days ago, one moment I feel I have accepted it, next moment I am in the throes of pain just wishing to be where he is so that I could see him for just one moment to hold him and make sure he is okay.....time does not heal...love you Montu, my baby brother, love you forever thula

[@drlest717]

I lost my 12 year old daughter this past February 24, 2020 to a hit a run driver. She was walking in a crosswalk with her 13 year old sister, who survived but witnessed this tragic event. I so connect with your story and everything you shared. I have practiced meditation for over two years. It helps me stay centered, and grounded. All I knew about everything changed on February 24th. I am now dealing with all you expressed. I relate. Your son reminds me of me! Your story helps give me hope. Peace, love and light to you. Thank you for sharing your awesome son with us!

[@lisadong5268]

I’m sorry for your lost.. your daughters soul will always be with you!!

[@silvergirl3688]

It seems like some souls are not meant to have old bodies, they go straight to the Lord. Forever young.

[@simdough]

Thank you for posting this I am not yet where you are with my grief by I walk towards acceptance. I lost 2 of my children Gavin age 24 in 2006 and Ryan age 24 August 2012. it is truly hell on earth right now. Your video gives me hope.

[@Westymedia]

I never realized when I shot and edited this clip how it would help me latter in life in understanding grief and moving forward. Westy

[@stephenfermoyle4578]

and helped many people

[@glorfindelholm4639]

Can you please tell me the name of this amazing woman? Is there anything more to see of her?

[@Redsnapper123]

@@glorfindelholm4639 Cynthia Seefahrt 1946-2014.

[@rebeccarss]

I lost my son Michael a few weeks ago...the pain is so raw...thank you for making this clip..you are a brave woman and I hope one day to reach where you are...

[@helened6896]

God bless you continually and strengthen you each moment you need it.

[@beachbaby1427]

rebeccarss how are you doing now, 7 years on?

[@mangotree2110]

I lost my only kid 17 months ago today, his name was Michael too. I'm devestated and miss him so much. I wish he'd come to me

[@beachbaby1427]

We lost our oldest son Sunday. Ethan was 21.

[@mangotree2110]

@@beachbaby1427 Sorry for your loss 😥

[@TheViolet76]

What an awesome woman. Very wise and strong. Sorry for her loss. I have a long way to go to become somewhat like her.

[@msspellbounder216]

I needed to here this. I lost my son in a car accident a month ago. I am completely out of my head. Now I feel I got something to think about and work towards some some positive direction. I asked the universe for help. It lead me to this video. Thumbs up.

[@staciejean]

Hi spellbound..just sending my ❤ so sorry for your recent loss💔

[@patsypryor9850]

she lived 7 years after his death. My son has been dead 18 years. he died resting and working and loving his children.He was our only child gone at 28 .He was well loved and we look forward to seeing him again. time does not heal this wound, you have to decide yourself to stay or go when it happens.

[@jacquelinestewart3820]

I just want to be with her miss her so much.

[@throughmyeyes9940]

@@jacquelinestewart3820 she is with you, maybe now more than ever

[@centerforheartconsciousliv9154]

This is absolute truth. This is the time we are asked to live or ....begin our demise. There is truly no middle ground.

[@Redsnapper123]

She actually died in 2014. CYNTHIA S. SEEFAHRT. Sorry about your son also.

[@letyp5819]

My son died last Saturday, he was in a tragic accident but like your son he loved nature, he was in his last year at the university. I hope I can be like you in a few years. Thank you for your video.

[@teresakidwell559]

thank you. I lost my son 2 years ago. He was 23. This helped me

[@Tiktokmashupsandcompilations]

I lost my daughter 27 days ago and it’s as raw and painful as it was the very day she passed. Watching these videos gives me hope that the severe pain will lessen as time goes on.

[@melissaalwine4229]

Lost my son Bobby to CANCER. Diagnosed at 15, died just before his 22nd birthday. It has been four years since I held him in my arms, the morning I found him. My beliefs mirror yours, although I am not yet at the place of peace you have found. Tomorrow is Mother’s Day, not a good day for me. Thank You for bringing me some peace today. Happy Mother’s Day to you💞

[@littleclay1838]

I lost my son fighting for his life in an apartment fire. He was 37, it hurts so bad. I have nightmares of him trying to survive, and get out. I want someone to blame, someone to fight. I have to know, and find it in myself that he would want me to be happy. We were making plans for Thanksgiving. Sometimes I can smile, but it doesn't last long. Wow, that was a huge exhale.

[@tracyhewitt5821]

My son passed at the age of thirty i know exactly what this mother is saying without faith we would not survive such an enormous loss i thank you for sharing your loss and your journey through this trauma xxx

[@Kim-tk9sb]

I can't stop watching her. I lost my 36 year old son tragically on Dec 30/20. She is so wonderful to listen to. So painful.

[@n.conaway2925]

Just went through the holidays after the loss of my 42 yr old son on Dec.8, of natural causes. How un-natural it is to have your child proceed you in death!! How surreal! Thank you so much for sharing and providing a tremendous comfort through your experience of loss. I know I will get thru it by the grace of God, but I will never, ever get over the loss of my only child......

[@rowenacastro5006]

I lost my youngest son, 17 year old. I am at lost and crying every day whenever I think of him. I miss him so much. My life will never be the same again.

[@junal27]

I lost mine this week, a few years older than yours, life will never be the same for any of us, my condolences

[@lisam1259]

seeing this beautiful mother's story has helped me in my journey since my daughter passed on her motorcycle. although only 18 she loves life and loved riding. this was 2 years and 4 months ago, I was devastated. but The good Lord led me to this video and she has helped me to understand and accept, she confirmed that we will see them again. there was someone out there that could understand my pain....if she can find the strength to continue on...I can. and I did. I saw ur video 2 years ago and today I am OK. I healed....i understood....I'm okay. now..I am...thank u.

[@datz2105]

I loss my son 9 weeks ago. I know it’s so early. How do you survive?😔

[@temimacohen1]

I lost my almost 5 month old son to SIDS a month ago. Please tell me the sheer agony will end.

[@chitowngirl8824]

I just lost my 32 year son on September 1, 2019. I couldn't sleep and decided to search for a video of ways to help me process and deal with my loss. I'm so glad to have found this one, because her story is so similar to my own. I miss my son terribly, and I to must go through the process of acceptance and healing.

[@ashokkumardas1634]

I have lost our 27 years son for him I feeled grief in every movement that can not be expressible.

[@mishijos7]

Thank you so very much for sharing. My son was killed 7 years ago, August 10, 2006. He was only 40 years. I love my son. I just came from the cemetery where I left him, flowers. How I miss my son. Yes, I believe all you said, life goes on, but my son didn't have to be killed by a jeolous man. My son was a very compassionate person.

[@countybunkin6591]

Romie Rodriguez So sorry, how are you doiing?

[@jamiMB]

Hi Romie. Sorry for your loss. I lost my son 2 months ago. He was 24. I am grieving like crazy. I miss him more everyday. This world is real hell. Please let me know about your feelings. I hope our sons are in a much better place and we will meet them soon

[@ladybeegeevee8548]

I lost my son 6 years ago. He was shot. I thank you for sharing. I'm trying to keep living..

[@h3llnite]

Thank you so much for sharing part of your grief journey 💕. From one grieving mother to another xx

[@goldysvlog]

I cried when go through your story,, I have lost my son last month, he was only 22 month old, the wound is raw still trying to be strong for my baby Evan, I love him so much and I know the day will come soon when we meet again.. Love you my Son, mumma missing you so much,, all way from India

[@helened6896]

I can't imagine it. May God sustain every person who looses a child or loved one. Only God can get us through.

[@MicaelaReyes]

This is beautiful. You are a beautiful woman. God bless your beautiful heart & Your son Danny. He loves you very much. Godbless you.

[@vaskenkaralian1804]

I lost my son sarkis karalian 24 years old. Just 3 weeks ago, it was a nightmare, still nightmare .I want to wake up, and all this may be a bad dream, but no, it is not a dream........I am scared I have lost filling of happiness he is gon. I don't know what to do, my wife is the same ....I know it is stupid to right all this in comment....am sorry for everyone 😔

[@giag594]

I lost my 36 yr old son 1/26/2024, its been 19 days. Im devastated. I came home and found him on the floor, lips blue hands blue. I had to perform cpr and I still see his face. Im definitely traumatized. And empty sad alone. Angry at the world.

[@tchan5356]

It must be tough for you 😢

[@gradosa8272]

My deepest condolences. giag It’s the most heartbreaking experience any parent can go through. If you are Catholic, ask for masses in memory of your child. After losing my beloved daughter, my life loss all meaning. I just wanted to run away from everything, job, husband, family. Slowly praying for her soul, I realized that eventually I meet her again when my time comes. living one day at a time and seeing her smile in all the pictures. Talk with people that have gone through the same experience. No one can understand the pain of losing a child. 😭

[@user-hk2nj1hq7i]

I lost 3 children. All young adults just starting out in life. I'll never be the same.

[@dalewikfors9194]

The story of Nick. He drove to a remote area near our home and shot himself in the head. This was December 21st...we, his family found him Christmas eve. It was a horrible scene I will NEVER forget. My 4 other children hurting is the hardest grief to overcome. My life, our lives will never be the same. We miss Nick. Strong together. Weak alone.

[@stacey5974]

Hugs to you.

[@gpaul9206]

I lost my oldest son on 24 of September 1919 to suicide for my home its.one of the darkness time of my life I am so lost without my son his children miss their dad so much Rip my baby on till we meet again

[@margaretdeans882]

I am so sorry for your loss I lost my beautiful granddaughter on 4th august 2019 to suicide she was nearly 21 miss her so much I hope we can be like this wonderful woman and peace to all for our loss xx

[@Lena-yj4il]

I can only imagine your pain and the question why???

[@maseiber]

Thank you for sharing this video. Your words are very helpful to those who have been in the same situation as yourself. I lost my only child, my son almost 4 yrs. ago. He was 27 and he was the light of my life, of my being. I still feel like a "shell" inside, your words of encouragement is something to look forward to in the future. God Bless all the mother's who have lost their children.

[@teresakidwell559]

I lost my only child, my son, almost 3 years ago. He was 23. I know the feeling like a shell inside feeling you are ecperiencing because I still feel that way. I have trouble letting go of the pain because I feel like I am letting him go. Anyway, I wish you healing. This video helped me.

[@anthonytomacheske5512]

maseiber I am so sorry your not alone. ..God Bless you as well xxo

[@monicas5520]

Thank you for your comment and for saying God Bless all the mother's who have lost a child. I am suffering this agony. All TBL best to you.

[@tenhanz7810]

Monica S same here i lossed my one& only daughter last february 25,2019 that’s the painful experienced i’ve got in my entire life.how sad i am😪 up to now im still in pain.

[@helened6896]

God bless and strengthen you each moment you need it.

[@Nodir001]

Oh God, I huge part of me died with my son, I always loved you my boy, and always will. See you soon my prince!

[@samehdabbour1]

My 20 month old daughter died 2 weeks ago in an elevator accident, the elevator went up as she was going out of it and she got squashed between the wall and the elevator and was crushed. I am totally out of order, I can’t believe I over lived her, I can’t sleep, I can’t go on, I can’t function, my heart is torn apart and I still breath. She was my everything, she was taken from me very viciously.

[@kausarali8328]

Sameh Dabbour i lost my baby girl too due to medical negligence 6 month ago she was of 3 year 9 month baby she was our whole world.im in soo much of pain .

[@glynisansara]

My heart goes out to you ...

[@kmm291]

Thanks for sharing this , I have lost two adult children within 7 years. Her words help.

[@shirleysarradet9486]

We lost our Maria 24 years ago. Breast cancer. She left 4 children. Time has made a difference. I am so old. Now, I lost my Paul, my husband, 9 mos. ago. When I say - almost not bearable-there are no other words. And, I am very old. Pain that is not tellable. We were married 68 years. We had 9 Wonderful Children. I have been so blessed. Crying is just what I do.

[@tchan5356]

I am sorry for your loss 😢

[@fid.ort0683]

I hope your life goes well, dont be sad. ❤

[@gradosa8272]

just lost my beautiful daughter Sofia. I’m lost, numb. I don’t know what to do anymore. 😭🙏🏼😭

[@sharonpinkerton8297]

❤

[@Redsnapper123]

Sorry

[@alwaysamy4]

God bless you. My son died the same way, 17 years old.

[@glowsnewdaytoday4688]

She is speaking Facts🥲I’m experiencing this I’m in depression stage LORD knows I need help someone took My Child’s life My Son was going to be turning 32 as well Thank You so much for sharing I can feel a lil healing coming💙

[@kelleymcfadden9675]

I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo

[@wiggie2005]

I lost my adored son November 2019 ,he was 7 years old.I fight everyday to preserve my sanity and to not lose love for this beautiful life.I donated his organs which saved lives and that’s my only peace.💜🤴🏽🙏🏾

[@GrowHope]

Beautifully done. I will be using this story in a parent support group tomorrow. My son was a mountain climber- although he died in a car accident, he lived and died in the Colorado Rockies - the place his heart was. Thank you for this video and introducing me to your son, Danny💙

[@loro5ka]

my son was a mountain climber too, this is so beautiful

[@awanbiru9400]

I would like to know more about your support group. Do you use any book in the meeting and how do you conduct the meeting?

[@elishevashaw]

Thank you for the video. I have found solace in your words. I have lost my son last year at 31 years of age. My grief is abysmal.

[@therealtialittle007]

My 9 month old daughter passed. I miss her so much. I wish I could be with her. I need her

[@maryloushort4300]

So sorry for your loss of such a wonderful son and your a very strong mother who I look up to in many ways , unlike myself losing my brother who felt just like my son ( and I do have a son also ) I'm still trying to get to where you are ...you have helped me in trying to face the fact that I have to go on ( which is so very hard for me to do ..it's been over 3 yrs. Now ) and I'm still battleing the loss !! I thank you for the way you've helped me to accept my loss ! God bless you and thank you for sharing your strength !!

[@beatagorodess1300]

This is such beautiful video! Thank you. I lost my beautiful son 7 month ago and I feel his presence all the time. This video lifted me . Hope you found your peace and are with your son on other plains. I am so looking forward to that myself. Loosing your child is so profound, you feel like you kicked out of your body for good. Thank , thank you...

[@ellaglover1077]

Thank for sharing that with me I lost my son also in March 10th it's hard like you say some good day and bad days sometimes I just cry and cry then I pray and pray and I think God for the fifty year we did shares to gather I have two more children a daughter and the twins to the one with God. As time goes some good and some bad day s but I know that I can make it's with God holding my hand and knowing that I will be with him bye and bye ❤

[@pattyinman7064]

What a wonderful brave lady. And so many brave souls here who have lost their babies ~ You are all amazing! May you all find healing & peace ~ much love 💗💗💗

[@gabrielasanchez8643]

Thank you so much for this beautiful message

[@tcano4702]

Beautiful message that will help me. I believe I will grow and I will see my daughter soon enough. Thank you for sharing.

[@africanqueenmo]

Very sorry for the loss of your beautiful handsome son. I can't imagine the grief and pain being a grown man. May God keep him happy until you meet him in the other world. I experienced grief too and loss of a newborn so I can somehow relate. I talk about it on my channel too in coping with grief. Hope you have time to watch too. Thank you for sharing you make so much sense. Blessings

[@marshasmith5014]

My son died 2 weeks ago. My world is turned upside down. Most days I dont want to live. He was my youngest son of 2 boys. We were so close, I miss him so much. I dont know if I will get through this.

[@ez2u1]

This is a beautiful video about grief. Rich and true.

[@kevinmorris2017]

Our own son was a younger version of your Danny. A bright, unique spark with so much potential gone so abruptly from our lives. We are just beginning our own painful journey. Bless you for sharing this, you are an angel.

[@billberge1]

Thank you so very much for sharing this with me. I lost my 20 year old daughter 6 months ago. Thank you, I appreciate your effort to share.

[@marianomahony]

Thank you for sharing who you are and the wonder of the beautiful son you brought to this world. The journey you both shared was not the journey you had envisioned, but your journey goes on together. My 18 year old son, Brian, got Leukaemia in 2001 and died weeks later. I got to plan my goodbye and somehow I managed to carry it through, when the moment came, his brother Paul and I got to say "love forever, God bless, protect , guard and guide my precious boy" and let him go with love. I'm grateful for the strength that I was given, to be present. I can only say that God is love, and staying in love with Brian has saved me. I know he would want me to be happy and carefree, so I had to "fake it till I made it". And I've made it. Loving your child is a gift that is yours forever, what a beautiful gift it is, that death and time can never erode. Marian

[@Adelaidechitanda]

Thank you VERY MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEO it really helps a mother like me who has just lost her son at only 20 years in September 2011 to a tragic accident. Right now I am in denial and angry at the some time - I think how could I have saved him.... This is a VERY painful experience for any mother to go through.

[@lisam1259]

Adelaide Chitanda I understand...may the Lord give u strength and understanding. ❤️

[@greeniethumb7387]

I'm so sorry for her loss. Thank you for sharing.

[@martyna74]

Thank you for your video. I am so sorry fir your loss. I lost my son, Gabriel within a month of his 18th birthday right after his high school graduation (June 9, 2021). He was killed in a car accident. His friend was driving. Surprisingly, I cannot be upset with the friend; even though, I have plenty of reasons I should. I see her and my heart only wants to take her pain away. She will have to live with a knowledge that she killed her best friend because she made wrong decisions. I know my son isn’t gone, he just changed his form, and yet it hurts so much. He was my only son and it was always just him and I since he was 5 months old.

[@karenoneill4661]

This was so helpful to me. Thank you for sharing. I lost my beautiful son Edward in a surfing accident 16months ago. He was doing what he loved and I am forever grateful for that. I too am learning as I move through this terrible experience of loss 🙏♥️♥️

[@ingrid7632]

My son died 3 1/2 months ago. I am bawling after watching this. I am sure I will watch this many times.I have isolated because I need to be at my own pace, and I have no friendship to reciprocate to anyone at this time, or for a long time to come. Everything has changed. I don't know if I can ever feel positive, or hopeful or look forward to anything again. He used to tell everyone that I was his best friend. He was 29 years old. 💔

[@kimmefford2814]

You’re not alone in your grief. If you get this message and want someone to communicate with, I am here

[@ingrid7632]

@@kimmefford2814 Thank you for your kind words. I feel very detached from the human race right now. Not because I have isolated. I almost don't feel human. I guess cause it feels like my soul was ripped out of me. I'm unable to correspond atm. I am very sorry for your loss. I realize that I'm being selfish by not reciprocating, and I hope you can forgive me. I do wish for you a day that will come where you will smile from the memories instead of crying from the overwhelming void. It is devastating. 🙏🙏🙏 Prayers for you... 🌻🌻🌻

[@kimmefford2814]

@@ingrid7632 I COMPLETELY understand. I have isolated completely. Can’t seem to move. Seems unbearable to be conscious. Thank you for responding. When I pray, I will pray for you too ✨

[@junal27]

This week I lost my 22 years old son, motorcycle accident. I seek an answer and the only answer I have found is that his mission is over and acomplished, and I am the one needing to take the next step or action. I want to see him again, I hope to see him one day somewhere else. I love you Ignacio, I am sorry if I was not perfect

[@guylaurent8138]

My grandson died at 13 he was my life, without him my life has no longer meaning..

[@lizbrooks1953]

Time does not heal but it does 'Distance the Pain'... from a Mother whose 4 & half yr old son died in a freak accident in Dec 1993.

[@beatricedevries4367]

Beautiful mother. Let’s pray to God I can be as strong as her. She is absolutely beautiful!

[@steveneltringham1478]

I lost my son last year. I feel very much your loss. I wish you all the best.

[@natashahilderbrand5487]

I lost my only son three months ago. This is horrific. He was murdered. There is nothing that can put it right. Bit, i am trying not to give up.

[@kausarali8328]

Thank you soo much.

[@SWAGGETTES]

It's been 6mos my only child has passed on. Not a day goes by I don't thank The Most High for the 19yrs I was blessed with to love on him. He passed away his sophomore year while attending college in a tragic vehicle accident. Life has changed drastically and it still feels like a dream although I know it's reality. Such a beautiful young man. I will con't to trust the process and push thru the pain. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@hildadionne8184]

My 27 year old son was killed by drunk driver on July7 2023. I am always sad now, cry so much. I miss him so much it is difficult to live on

[@tchan5356]

So sorry for your loss

[@teebee166]

We lost our boy to suicide at 27. Everything you speak of is true.

[@rashidarobertabintrobertpi8451]

Oh I lost my son two weeks ago he was also 27"

[@audreygrant3406]

I am just starting to try watch child loss videos. Can't touch the books yet. I lost my baby, my son who was 24 at the time, in a tragic car accident. It's been almost 29 months. The worse pain ever. Excruciating. I am still learning how to live life. I haven't dreamnt of him, yet 😭 Thank you for sharing. Sending you love and hugs ❤

[@Nan-59]

Your son was an adventurer. How darn awesome is that?!❤❤❤

[@lilysasaki]

You are such an amazing woman. I lost my fiance to suicide 7 months ago. I experienced many of your emotions. The journey of healing is incredibly hard, but your video helped me a lot. Thank you thank you

[@teebee166]

You spoke my very soul. Thank you.

[@coachgladyscruz343]

Hello…my son passed 28 months ago. Completely devasted

[@alinaperez2761]

Thank you beautiful lady..

[@weecaine6629]

Lost my son. R. I. P. I'm sure you and your son are together. Good bless

[@candyanthony1483]

I lost my Daughter from cancer and watched her suffer so bad that was the hardest thing cause I couldn't help her miss her everyday.

[@modusbee9092]

I agree with you. My Son also died from cancer and watching him suffer and not being able to help him continues to be the hardest part for me.

[@robinsiciliano9084]

I lost my beautiful son, Paolo, one week after his 19th birthday. 15 minutes after he kissed me goodbye he was killed when an 18wheeler t-boned his VWJetta. 7-1-98 7-7-17 He was my best friend and one of my soul mates I believe. We just always understood each other and felt similarly about social issues and shared many interests. I am unbelievably grateful for the privilege of being his mother. I would choose this torture all over again in any lifetime to get to be his mom. Loosing a child is the most devastating, disorienting and painful experience. I cannot believe people survive living with this much pain for extended periods of time. I wish no one ever had to experience child loss.

[@kelleymcfadden9675]

God bless you! I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo

[@donnafortin9830]

I just lost my son Anthony he was 33 and drowned on a family vacation. I am lost and broken and I use your video to help me cope. Thanks for sharing.

[@kelleymcfadden9675]

God bless you! I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo

[@dianeadams3117]

I lost my oldest son to a massive heart attack and 3 weeks of life support with all organs shutting down took him off life support. He had a adopted a new born son who just turned 2. He was flown 70 miles from his home 900 from mine. Due to the pandemic we couldn’t go stay with him or say goodbye. It’s 5 months I still have nightmares of him knowing I made the decision to take him off of life support. I feel like I gave him life and I took it away. There is good days and bad I feel if we could have been there it would have been easier . He was my rock now my angel. I find feathers around the house and couldn’t figure out why until I saw his key chain is a feather. There is no greater loss than a child . I now understand there is more ways of not being able to say goodbye😢Thank you for sharing

[@kelleymcfadden9675]

God bless you, yes. It is devastating to lose a child I have watched my best friend go through it. Only Jesus Christ can give you true peace. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** Tribute to Ethan Lakey kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nSk5aHj5uEmJo