Moving to France in our 50s was NOT what we expected.

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In this video, I explore aspects of our nomadic life, as we work really hard towards finding our dream home here in France and setting down some roots. Not exactly an easy process, especially at our age and with all the requisite bouncing around... while simultaneously trying to adapt to and assimilate an entire new culture. Sometimes we're not sure we can do this. The pain and discomfort can be a little too much. And yet, something inside us keeps us going... Join me as I take a deep look at moving to this incredible country. Do we have what it takes to do this? Do we love it here enough to stick it out? And ultimately, after all's been said and done: Is France really it? Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
02:43 - Pinpointing the Area
04:27- The Food...Oh the Food!
06:10 - Sponsor (Athletic Greens)
07:28 - Access to Paris
08:50 - The Gorgeous Countryside
10:19 - Next Time
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[@nobackupplan]

Say what you will, I'm pretty damn impressed with how you're adapting to life in a new continent, with a new language & new rhythm. You let go of a TON of comforts to do this but as you've said, it is paying off in the form of super rich experiences and memories. 05:49 - this made me laugh out loud. Your continued amazement with French food/ingredients is so hilarious (and shared, I'm 3 years in now and it just doesn't stop being unbelievable). So cool to see that make you so happy. Also the storytelling on this channel keeps improving, LOOKING FORWARD TO THE NEXT UPDATE FROM YOU, SELF-PROCLAIMED FORMER SPRING CHICKEN

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Ha, yes! The food, oh my goodness. Just today Mom did some shopping and I was (once again) drooling over all the yumminess. You know me well and how demanding I am. FRANCE HAS DELIVERED IN SPADES. Yay for me! And yay for us to be close to each other. Here's to many, many more memories together. Love you. 🙂♥

[@butterflytotem]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT wow! Me conmueve tanto la relación tan bonita y honesta que tenéis! Yo tengo lo contrario 😅: cuanto más auténtica soy, más me rechazan mis padres. Es bastante triste y aquí estoy pasando el duelo de una relación que quizás nunca será. Pero veros a vosotros me llena el corazón de alegría! Un abrazo y gracias por compartir, sois una gran inspiración 😉🙏💜🎈

[@Songbirdstress]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT Hiya, yes, Monoprix... love it, I use it as my luxury deli (clothes are good too) however you should check out the actual markets in your local towns, better food, less expensive, often local producers. As to where everyone is...Paris! A lot will probably work in Paris, the Yvelines is basically Paris now. Don't worry things will get more lively in March etc, it's basically the low point of the year, everyone is inside in front of the poele. Short days, miserable weather.

[@janethperez702]

Me encantan tus videos ❤

[@SkriptsTherapy]

​@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT My friends, you really really ought to take a look at our place. Meets all five of your criteria, and more. We're in a castle in the countryside, a quick hop into Paris on the P line, with an international community of English, Dutch, and French speakers. Several of us are Americans; others are Dutch, English, Belgian, and French. A few homes in the castle are for sale; others are rentable through Novasol. Chateau de la Trousse. Track us down! -- a fellow former PNW-er, in France for four years and loving every minute.

[@maryannklein2235]

Three and a half years ago my husband and I (now 68 and 69) bought an old broken down longère in rural Brittany with a very large piece of wild land bordering a river. We have single handedly renovated and tamed the land, planted fruit and nut trees, built a greenhouse and raised outdoor terrace under our oaks and developed a flower garden. Not for the faint hearted but we have never been happier!

[@stockkiller9587]

Great video ! I am French and if I could advise you a bit : the best country side is not close to Paris. It is obviously nice to be able to go to Paris in an hour but the nature there is not that great plus it is cold and rainy in winter, kind of depressing. And jt is expensive because close to Paris. On the other hand you could find beautiful country side close to Lyon in the wine yards. Lyon is real food and restaurant capital of France. You can reach Paris in 2 hours with high speed train, you can easily go to the Alps in winter and are only a couple hours from the French riveria. The weather there is outstanding and the villages are extremely charming. Maybe go and try having a look around there 😀

[@maryannklein2235]

We settled in Morbihan Brittany in a small rural village. Pure heaven on earth.

[@littlefury]

"the best country side is not close to Paris". I disagree, as a French person who grew up in the Yvelines (40 km west of Paris), close to Normandy and who has lived in the southwest and the east. I feel the Yvelines and the Vexin are some of the most beautiful places in France. It's not surprising painters like Monet and Van Gogh settled in that area because not only the landscapes can be breathtaking, but the overall light there is very special.

[@gregohb]

Lyon was cheap a few years ago but its pretty expensive now

[@stockkiller9587]

@@littlefury fair enough ! I was just thinking it might be quite expensive versus other countryside areas and I was not referring only to the intrinsic beauty but overall climate, and there is no doubt that the weather in south will be sunnier and less rainy than in Normandy. But again nothing against Normandy which I also find beautiful, I would just not live there from October to March 😀

[@francois3475]

@@stockkiller9587 I'm with you on this! Paris is Paris, of course, but the climate does make a difference over time. There's beautiful places all over France - and good food - but in the end, IMO life is sweeter year round in a milder climate, which is why I chose Cannes. I'm in Paris regularly, and elsewhere, for business purposes and to see friends, but in the end, the milder clime makes life a little softer... and a bit more enjoyable.

[@olafrotkohl5898]

My wife and I moved to Normandy five years ago from the United States, and we have never looked back. Everything you’ve seen is our experience too, especially the kindness and patience of the people. We’re a bit farther out, about a 2-hour train ride to Paris, which we visit frequently, but we love our small town, about 4000 people, and have been made to feel a part of the community. It’s a real joy when you know the people at your bakery, the pharmacy, the supermarket, and most restaurants and bars, and it’s very rare when we don’t run into a friend when shopping. And everything just works! The roads are immaculate, the medical service are excellent, the trains are a joy to use, and yet never do people seem stressed. I can only chalk this up to the fact that a strong social safety net, decent working hours, living wages, and worker protections enable people to relax into being good at their jobs without the resentful anger that so many Americans have come to feel in the US. And above everything else, I think, is that this is a culture of mutual respect. I love the ritual “bonjour” and the way one slowly works from formality first to, if you’re lucky, friendly informality. I do believe that one big factor in making such a jump is comfort at being a dumb foreigner, and having a healthy self-deprecating sense of humor, because part of the experience is making lots of mistakes. And don’t fear learning French-it’s good for the old brain, and it is fun, and believe me, there’s plenty to laugh at on that voyage. I could go on about the food, the history, the scenery, and all that, but I’m sure you’ve covered and will be covering more of it. Bienvenue!

[@happytraveller8953]

Agree, good sir. Did the same 5 years ago to move to the UK and also did not look back. Much health and happiness to you and your family in 2023!

[@farsanehmir404]

Well i am in France but sadly I cannot say the same about the medical system! There aren't as much doctors as the country really needs! We can't even find a doctor nearby. But you are in Normandy and maybe where u are settled isn't the same as where I am . General speaking, the medical and educational system in France are far from being good . However i can understand that for someone coming from the US finds calm and peace ...

[@Thomassina1]

> US has changed dramatically, particularly CA, barely recognize it at times. Your comment succinctly describes what has happened to the good people of this country, esp the cities.. overcrowded, rising viol/ence, uber competitive, fearful of job loss and medical coverage, esp as one ages, small wonder so many fear getting older. You are right, it's the insecurity and lack of connection, I love this country but I feel it too, just couldn't put a name on it. Normandy sounds wonderful, I used to live abroad in London and loved it, and enjoy reading about others' exciting journeys abroad. It's fabulous when it's a good fit.

[@HarryFenton6124]

We too moved to Normandy 5 years ago, when we retired. I agree that it really is a lovely place to live. The peace and quiet is what attracted us most and that the wildlife, trees, birds, etc, are much the same as in the UK where we come from. We live remote rurally and spend our time looking after our bit of land, having renovated our small cottage. The medical treatment is excellent, the roads empty ( I`m a keen cyclist) and the people friendly. For us, the only downside is that we meet some lovely people who we find it hard to really communicate with well as our french is improving but not fluent. I do sometimes feel a bit dumb as my wife speaks the language better than me and acts a s a translator when things need to be done right. I just try to join in and smile.

[@anyneuvecelle353]

Have you been sick overthere or in needs of medical treatment?

[@C_Beaty]

I love the storytelling and quality of visuals on your channel. (Also as a 41-year-old, I love seeing KZbinrs who aren't in their 20s!) Also now I really want to visit France :)

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you! Yeah, nice to have some older folk on the scene, haha. :) You'll need to visit soon!

[@Flutterbyby]

She took the words out of my mouth 😊 as a 41 yr old too, love your videos & look forward to each one.

[@breneworld]

Me too! I’m 41 as well. Want to retire by 50. And my husband and I want to move out of America as well. I’m so glad to see someone making changes in their life at a later age :)😊

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

@@breneworld Lots of 41 year olds. Love it. :)

[@ShauninParadise]

Im 45 and have been YouTubing for almost 2 years… I still get SO PUMPED to find channels with creators my age ❤🎉 🎥 💪🏽

[@sicklecellwithdr.o]

You and your wife’s adventurous spirit in your 50s is inspiring!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you so much! :)

[@Kim-J312]

Every videos , she's like the energizer bunny 🐰 lol , non stop, doesn't stop, I get exhausted from watching her , a fast moving and thinking person . I'm in my 50s , and I can tell I slowed down in all aspects of life .

[@thefilipinojoe]

I moved to Spain and while the city (of Leon) was bustling, the countryside was dead. My friend there said it was because no one goes there in the winter, that they only go there in the summer. Honestly, as a New Yorker, I couldn’t stand the quietness and boredom, and after 45 days living in Spain I bailed and returned to the Philippines. Good luck with your relocation. The most telling thing that let me know that the Philippines was my new home was that whenever I was away from here, I got homesick. I’ve also adapted to the people and culture so much so that they say I am just like them, not a foreigner anymore. Or rather an American on the outside and a Filipino on the inside. I came here when I was 55. I’m 60 now and couldn’t be happier. I can’t imagine living anywhere else. I love your writing. I’m also a writer and I think our types have a great gift to offer here on KZbin as documentary storytellers. I didn’t realize that till recently and since I did, I’ve been taking my KZbin documentary projects more seriously. Good luck finding your happy place. Keep writing. ❤

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, my friend! So true that you need that homesick feeling for it to feel right. All the best to you!

[@thefilipinojoe]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT thanks 🙏

[@hazelhatswell4268]

21 years ago, at the age of 54/57 we moved to Brittany from London. It’s been, and still is, a wonderful experience integrating fully into French culture with so many amazing French friends and being able to introduce our non-French friends to this wonderful part of the world. Being able to speak French is important of course). I’m originally from the NE of Scotland so never lacked friendly folk and gorgeous scenery but love it here in Finistère ❤️🇫🇷❤️

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Awesome to hear! 😁❤️

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

WHAAAT? You did not settle in Provence?

[@hazelhatswell4268]

@@jean-louislalonde6070 😂 I’m a Scot so Celtic Brittany was preferable 😘

[@hazelhatswell4268]

For your enjoyment of my adopted beautiful home 👍 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHmVqp1pmMmFf8U

[@Cocoisagordonsetter]

@@hazelhatswell4268 I just went to Provence for the first time. I'm definitely team Bretagne!!! And my roots are all English/Scottish born in USA.

[@anniessmokingpot]

My husband (@weareheretravels) and I absolutely love watching you and your wife. We love how completely honest you are in your videos. It's refreshing to have someone so true and not sugar coat a nomadic life.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you so much :)

[@di_har]

My spouse and I are in our early 30's travelling around the world, not because we want to, but because we're trying to escape war. This type of lifestyle is not for everyone and will really test your inner self. Like you, I hope we also find our new home and set up our roots. Your videos are very comforting, and your amazing relationship with your wife just radiates through my screen. Thank you so much.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you so, so much. 🙏 Wishing you guys all the best finding your future home as you deal with your very difficult situation. Sending you my love. ♥

[@oppressednolonger1497]

are you referring to the treason in the USA as the borders have been open to invasion. its a doozy of a war.

[@Rose_Ou]

I can't wait to see the continuation of your journey! I'm 47, pretty miserable and unimpressed with my life so I'm desperate to start everything from scratch. My son is turning 17 this year so soon I'll be able to make some significant changes :) You guys are an inspiration!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you. Make it happen, Rosemary!

[@rabczanska]

You may find that including you soon to be adult son in this change may help you to find a new adventure that still includes him in some way and will feel more complete and calming.

[@denisescally7090]

I ran away and had some travel adventures when my son went off to college. He is now 27 and like Josh said it's good to be close by to them.

[@chrismd00]

Keep me posted with a DM: in the same boat

[@Did447]

Where are you from? I feel the same...

[@AndNowIWrite]

My husband and I retired to Portugal in 2019, also in our fifties. Only regret is that we didnt do it sooner! My best to you!

[@TonyHightower]

I feel all of this. I'm 55, and we just moved to France this month ourselves (& I've started making videos about it). You're doing it. You just gotta keep doing it.

[@tammyrussell-rice5508]

I just have one question? How is it that Netflix hasn't signed you two? Your story certainly is more entertaining and educational than any other 'love story' they have aired. Not naming names, but really? BTW - As a photographer myself, I loved the soft overcast lighting in your monologue scene. The stone building behind you made for a beautiful background, yet allowed you to shine. Good separation and contrast ratio. I'm sure your wife helped with the wardrobe selection which really capped off the scene. Kudos!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Wow, thank you Tammy. Maybe there's a world in the future where getting our content and story out there in different ways is possible. For now KZbin is plenty, haha. :) Thanks for the kind comments! And yes, she always helps with wardrobe. :)

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

I agree 🙂 no idea who these people are, but listening to his recounting is funny and very relatable.

[@tstcikhthys]

Exactly; was looking for such a comment. I'm not sure if you guys are getting help from someone or if you just happened to "fall upon" such good cinematography skills, but it is excellent for someone who just recently started (given that you started the channel only very recently).

[@-wh5hr]

Because they are boring whiners

[@madeleinewinterdown3256]

Mid life crisis on Netflix?

[@Walter-kn5te]

I love your courage to change a lot in your life in your 50s. I'm 29 and feel scared changing the direction my life is taking. You're inspiring!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Walter. Hope we can give you just enough of a nudge that you start making the changes you want in your life. You've got this man! :)

[@drSamovar]

its ok.....im 67 and doing this BIG time......some things get harder and make you more vulnerable as you get older, BUTT.....you also get closer to DEATH, so that works the opposite direction, making you willing to reach well outside your comfort zone for enrichment.... we're all going to die....die doing something you love, and/or in discovery of new connections and ideas...face to the sky....

[@user-ug1qs8bo4w]

50s? We moved here aged 72. Southwest. Great life.

[@scottw.7626]

Mid-50's my friend--You are very young! Coming from someone in his mid-60's who remembers the mid-50's fondly. Having said that--you will find the mid-60's pretty awesome during your adventures in France. Hope to return to France soon for a visit.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

You made me smile, Scott. :) When were you here?

[@scottw.7626]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT I have been lucky enough to visit France 5 times--usually for a week or two. Have not been back since before the pandemic, but hope to return in the Spring. Nothing but great experiences and if I did not have kids in the US, would definitely look at living there full-time. You are lucky your children have picked such a great country to reside in. You present the reality of life on the road and I hope it all works out for the best. And the best thing is this adventure will be indelibly etched in your mind for the rest of your life. Cheers.

[@NettunoJ12]

I'm French and it's so interesting to see what people think about my country, how they see it! The part about the supermarkets and the bakery section was so funny 😂

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

I bet. It's got to be a bit strange from your perspective. :)

[@MsMesem]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT For me the strangest thing is having next to no contact with children; they are rarely outside during school term and don't play sports. Also handicapped people are hidden away. I NEVER see a person in a wheel chair at my local markets , supermarkets or village centres. People are ashamed of the handicapped or to be handicapped. Illness is not referred too, it's more stiff up lip, grin and bear it than most anywhere else in the world. A large percentage of couples are very insecure in their relationships.

[@westernnut8407]

For the past year I've been thinking about making a move like this and I'm close to 70! I appreciate your honesty in showing the realities that come with such a major lifestyle change.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Best of luck making your own big move. :)

[@trishaprett7721]

Me too.would like to move to Spain at 68!

[@gilliantracy7991]

61 here and planning my move for later this year! Best of luck to you!

[@gloriagreen1123]

I am 76 and planning to become an immigrant in France. I am very healthy with a sharp mind that still thinks it's 30something(I have to slap it back to reality at times :).) I really see this in my future and my mottos are: "It's never too late to make a new plan" and "You're never too old to be young!" I live in the USA and the 2024 election results could potentially push me over the pond overnight! Don't think you are too old to go! Jamais!

[@paulriley7523]

We settled in France 4 years ago, having been in various other countries ( work related) for 16 years after leaving England. Great country, really enjoy being here. Language skills take time but keep at it!! Love the quality of life.

[@xomara.e]

I became a mother 4 weeks ago, and these videos give me life and hope that I can achieve everything I want if I put my mind to it🙌🙌

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Congrats, Xomara, and yes indeed! :)

[@mmsmilenow]

Just got back from France and I’m already missing the country! I’d move there is a split second if I could. You both look happier and less stressed than your last video and I’m almost sure you’ve made a decision already! What can be better than being close to your boys and in a beautiful country that lends itself to all your dreams and goals. Looking forward to your next video and seeing France through your eyes. 😁👌🏼🙏🏼

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

All true! Thank you so much, Mrs. Chiquita. :) Where did you visit in France?

[@mmsmilenow]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT I met my cousins that flew in from Texas (I’m from California) in Paris to spend New Years together. They stayed a week and then one of them stayed behind with me and my daughter for a total of 16 days there. After leaving Paris we took the train to Monaco, stayed two days then drove back up the coast through Nice, Marseille, Nîmes, Aix-on-Provence, Avignon and finally up to Lisieux. Although I had been to France many times before this was a wonderful trip with family. I like you, love the countryside of France and its people. I’ve always had a positive experience and I can speak a little bit of the language so that helped a lot with communicating and understanding. I wish you both all the best in your journey of finding your new home and I’ll definitely be watching and cheering you on. 🙏🏼😊

[@benvandevusse2410]

There’s no question in my mind that France is “really it” for you both. Congratulations!!! My family and I are planning to move there later this year.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thanks, Ben! All the best to you and yours. :)

[@maniladimatteo6750]

It feels like you were born to do this: the editing, the story line, the storytelling, the music in the background...amazing✨

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Manila. Took some years to refine (and it's always a work in progress), but I love the process. :)

[@jeaninerumble6503]

So excited and grateful to have found your channel. Your adventures are intriguing and also remind me of the 33 happy years I had with my husband before he passed away 10 years ago. Now, I have discovered the joys of traveling alone now in my 60s. May the adventure never end! ❤️

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Jeanine. Wishing you all the very best. :)

[@lindafaux3037]

The locals, particularly at the weekend, are around a table somewhere with family and friends. I've lived here for nearly 20 years now, and it still surprises me in this day and age. Vivre la france 🇫🇷

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

That's really nice. :)

[@forcenaturelle605]

100%. France is very family-centered. Meaning there is less going on, as in "public events" especially if you come from the US. I remember first showing up in the Bay Area and thinking "wow! This place is so wild and alive!" France is a different pace for sure. Although, you'll probably see more people outside in the south. The North/Paris has pretty long cloudy winters, so the culture isn't very outdoorsy.

[@melissa_renee]

I am SO glad youtube pushed this video to me. My husband and I are binging your content now. We deeply resonate with everything you are saying and doing. We are currently in Shanghai however our end goal is France. We are in our 40's... right behind you! Great work, we are excited to follow your journey.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you for coming along, Melissa! All the best to you guys. :)

[@Did447]

I came to France when I was 39 years old. I moved from Bulgaria 🇧🇬 Now I am 50..

[@carolynlarke1340]

I have been spending months at a time in France for a few years since retiring. My thoughts were always toward splitting my residence, 6mths in the US and 6mths in France. The place has seduced me though and as my home city gets dirtier, poorer run and managed and my country gets weirder moving may be my best option for ageing in place with good services and amenities. So, to address your questions as another 'outsider' here's what I think. The French are, to me, a private people. They love their homes, gardens and rooftop patios. They aren't into just ambling around on the streets. If you are out on the street you are going somewhere so step to it. Parks, homes, bars, bistros and those places are where the French gather when they want to be with people. I worked in France for months at a stretch in the past. I've worked with many French people. Within France the people who 'get things done' pride themselves on swift, invisible, service. It's a social norm that everything must get done but one must not make a fuss. The society has prioritized what they think matters, serving the citizens in rules, laws and attitudes developed over a thousand years. The French seem to love beauty in all things because all beauty is infused with the effort, commitment and labor needed to produce it. French workers are also incredibly efficient and effective when they set to a task. I've seen a 100 meter staircase, overgrown with ivy and weeds as well as the deadfall from trees and a moldy, leafy mess, cleared, cleaned and perfect in 3 hours. Where I live it would have taken a week and 4 workers. I always joked with my French colleagues that they love to get stuff done but hate to look like they're working at it. I'll be in Ginestas this summer, way down south where the French spoken is occasionally Occitanes along the Aude River.. Spanish is commonly spoken and the cities have Arabic names and history going back to Greco-Roman times and beyond. I'm going to watch all your work. Maybe I'll find that right house in that perfect village too.

[@_unapologetic]

It seems that many of us in our forties and fifties are making the move from the US to Europe. It’s been a pleasure to watch you grow since your first video. If you find yourselves in Asturias, Spain it’d be our pleasure to give you some tips.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you so much :)

[@solidcatink]

Yes, because the US is not a country to retire in unless one is a multi-millionaire. It's just too risky. I've been firmly established in France since the 90s, and it keeps me sane and without worry.

[@patriciapadgett4696]

Hi you two. Lovely video, fascinating to listen to you . We moved from UK to Spain in our mid 50's, and lived completely off grid for 6 years while we decided what to do with the plot of land we bought. Finally we built a beautiful home, and after another 10 years living in that, we have now bought an old house, unlived in for over 20 years, and starting again. We are 73, so never too old or too late 🤣. One thing we not good with is technology, came too late to us, so no You Tube videos from us, but anyone thinking of doing this, just do it. Look forward to following you. Love from Spain 💙❤️

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thanks for sharing, Patricia! Sounds like you've had your own share of incredible adventures. :)

[@MishaElRusito]

I miss France so much. The cleaniness, the organisation, the modernity, the architecture, the overall great vibes, the food, the great public transportation. And the list goes on and on. Enjoy it! :)

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thanks man! Hope to see you around here sometime. 🙂

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

When were you here?

[@MishaElRusito]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT Back in 2019, stayed in Montgeron. A suburb town near Paris😊

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

@@MishaElRusito Nice. Will look it up. Where are you from originally? Algo me dice que sos argentino. :)

[@MishaElRusito]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT Look it up:) The area around Monrgeron and Yerres has a lot of parks, I'd say it's one huge neverending park along the river Yerres, very quiet and beautiful. Although I suppose it's better to visit when the trees are green lol y no, soy de Rusia pero llevo casi 4 años viviendo en Mexico. Argentina is on my list though :)

[@saramarkowicz]

Your videos are so so well done ! As a french it's so amusing to see a whole family loving France so much !

[@mallory_t6513]

Thanks for these videos. Your general wisdom / advice about handling life’s twists and turns is really encouraging and uplifting! Life doesn’t have to be perfect to be perfectly enjoyed. Thanks for the reminder, can’t wait to watch part 2!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Indeed. Thank you so much, and more real soon. :)

[@maryrobinson7590]

OMG...I'm so thankful that I found your channel. The questions you pose in this video are the questions I'm asking about both France and Italy for retirement. Thank you for sharing this.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

You might like our first KZbin Q&A, which we will have in the next few weeks. Stay tuned. 😁

[@jlbutters2]

Another great video. 👍 I'm looking forward to part 2.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you! Will have that out in a few weeks. Not the usual longer wait this time around. 😊

[@michaelhovden7846]

My gosh, what a great video! Such an interesting, inspiring, and completely well done bit of storytelling. I've watched many of your son's videos as well and have to say you all are one truly blessed family. I can only imagine what the family gatherings are like, and conversations around the dinner table! Thanks for putting out the content, and best of luck going forward.

[@HerAeolianHarp]

Enjoy this time, and thanks for sharing your honest journey. France does seem a good fit for you. I appreciated your honesty about the ups and downs of other places, too. I was an expat years ago, but I hope to get back out there when my kids are older. Love your channel.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thanks a bunch! Really appreciate the support. 🙏♥

[@youngspiritsinging]

That was really a great video! My husband and I have children and a grandchild in Norway. We are trying to get back there as well . I teared up when I saw you guys with your sons. I know the feeling. We were in Norway last year for three months . It will soon be a year since we have been with our kids. It is hard being so far away from each other. Happy for you and your familia.

[@alanlane3869]

We, also in our fifties and married for 23 years, have felt the same in Spain concerning lack of crowds and population density. My spouse might have even said, “When do people work?” Seems to work, and we can’t wait to get back to Europe to find our retirement home. Thanks for all of your wonderful content, candid discussion, and quality editing/production. Santé!

[@lindabruce2295]

I love, love your videos. Always thoughtful content. I am so happy that you got your first sponsor, and you can't go wrong with Athletic Greens. As you settle down I hope that you will post more content. I enjoy it so much. And, I do hope that France becomes your home because it is great to be close to your sons.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Linda, for your lovely comment. :) Yes, hopefully will start posting more often. Stay tuned for Part 2 of this coming soon...

[@BrianCurragh]

Josh, just a quick word of thanks for your excellent series of films. We are project planning our own move to France so every thought & insight you have shared has been illuminating & really helpful. Looking forward to seeing where your journey takes you both!

[@jess8935]

Always get excited to see your videos and hear updates. You both are very inspiring people. What you said at 7:53 really resonated with me. "What's the point of all the hard work and effort, if not to enjoy ultimately and fully, the things that matter to us the most." 💜

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Ah yea, my bit of wisdom there. :) Glad it resonated! Thank you for all the love! ❤

[@user-sq5dc6og6u]

I left France 20 years ago for Asia and I don't regret my choice. I found your video very pleasant to watch and the fact of having an outside opinion of what my country has become reassures me. I can't wait to see the rest.👍🏻😉

[@lauramartinez6060]

I can't begin to tell you how much I have enjoyed your journeys! I am almost 50 and my husband is already there. I envy (in a good way) your courage to leave it all behind and move to Europe. My children also want to move there in the near future. So maybe one day, I take the leap of faith and follow in your footsteps! I can't wait to hear what you think in your part 2 video. Your videos are amazing. Well edited, well said and thought out. Your relationship with your wife and family is a joy to watch and value your honesty!! Thank you for making these videos!

[@bluewaterstudio]

Your videos are always so inspiring. My wife and I also fell in love with this area and is the main focal point of our move from Oregon. Indeed, I have Maurice Ravel playing softly in the background as I write. -Daniel 🇫🇷

[@janicegreen534]

I have to say, I loved the way you did the AG1 ad. I've seen so many creators speak about this product, but I just liked the way you pitched it. And as always, awesome video. Can't wait for the next part!!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Janice!! :)

[@anamaria2053]

It’s so wonderful to hear of your progress. I’m excited for you and where you ultimately decide to settle. Indeed! This video was way too short. I understand and look forward to the next one. Suerte amigos! ❤❤❤

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Gracias, Ana, y hasta muy pronto. :)

[@monikajohnston-stewart6934]

You’re doing such a wonderful job recording this journey ! It’s a pleasure to watch you guys . Our family is a huge adventurers . We just flow … Good luck and enjoy such a precious time in life

[@ceryllharper]

we keep doing our bests to keep back the love and affections we got from you all...more coming your way

[@tammyhall999]

How refreshing to get a view of living outside of the states from someone of your own age group. My husband and I are really enjoying your videos, and your words of wisdom. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@republicofdreams]

I’m so happy I’ve discovered your channel! I’ve been following your son’s adventures for a while. Hope you’ve found your home 🏡

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

We will in due time. :) Thanks for the support!

[@mbnyus]

Love your stories and witness how you are adapting to a new adventures and challenges. I am in the middle of a "situation"in my life and your words at minute 7:52 just hit me so hard that I am thinking about some aspects of my life, thank you..!!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Ha, yes! Words to live by for sure. I need to remind myself of that constantly! Thank you so much for your support, Marcelo. All the very best to you. :)

[@sherry2478]

I found your channel through Nathaniel I stay because the visuals, the storytelling is so refreshingly honest looking forward to part 2

[@Fp-ph7qs]

Thanks for your honest and passionate sharing of your experience in France! You are most welcome in our country!

[@creativecottage6137]

What refreshing vlogs! I’m shouting yes, yes! When you tell the story, love it! Heartfelt, laughable and so true, well done you two cannot wait for the next chapter in your life!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you!! Definitely cannot wait to settle into our future home... wherever/whenever that is.

[@SamFournier]

I love the French countryside and hope to one day have my little dream home there. So amazing to see your whole family in Europe, so special. The storytelling and images are done beautifully and I’m looking forward to the next episode!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you so much, Sam! :)

[@svetlanatikhonova8741]

i literally love your family! happy to be part of your incredible life at least virtually 🤍

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Svetlana. :)

[@SL-be8ws]

Loving this content. Nice to see people our age putting out relevant videos addressing where some of us are right now. Thank you both.

[@RicardoElCorrazonDeLeon]

I am so glad to hear you state that everybody has been kind and helpful to you. This has been my experience over the past forty years as well. I have never been treated poorly by the French whether in the center of Paris or the middle of nowhere.

[@martinrivermoore9545]

French people are very very friendly and often bend over backwards to be helpful...But people are friendly many places it is most often a reflection of your own behaviour.

[@normanpearson8753]

Not even treated badly by Parisian waiters?!

[@cherylswindells3845]

Excellent video! Loved this and cant wait to see more👍🏼. Best wishes to your whole family👋🏼

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Cheryl. More real soon. :)

[@JenShea]

Looking forward to the next video! Cheers & Merci !!

[@insertyourquarters]

You peeps are lovely, very inspiring and happy to see you are embracing everything that has come on your journey. 🎉✨

[@clairebedard3948]

I missed you guys!!! I posted a message on your son's page asking when you'll be back... Would love to see you more often, thank you for today's video! Merci !

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Merci right back, Claire! :)

[@rebekahdavies7282]

Watching this as a mom with a young family, I see things of which I hope our future holds. I wonder what some of the principals/practices you guys had as a young family that lead you all vagabonding independently but still revolving around a connection to each other as adults. I find it kind of remarkable that both your boys are on the same continent - did one follow the others footsteps? Was it always the plan to stick together? Thanks for your videos!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Planning to talk about that in a future video (our family dynamics), so stay tuned. Our son Nathan fell in love with France years ago and was the trendsetter. We then all followed him to Europe after feeling done with the US. :)

[@rebekahdavies7282]

@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT Fabulous! Looking forward to it!

[@GoGoChateau]

I love love love your content! I've been examining these same questions as I've also been searching for my forever home in France from the US in my late 50's. Waiting for the certainty of the specific town/region like you appear to have found! Can't wait for part deux!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thanks! Coming real soon. :)

[@agyos]

Brilliant! I am looking forward to sequels, as I have many similar questions. Merci!

[@lonnirenee7645]

You guys are my age. Still working. Will retire in 7 years. If I get too tired, I may do an early retirement in 2 years.

[@bduffy1215]

Wonderful and looking forward to part II.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you. Real soon. :)

[@maisonjournals6007]

oh what great filming, we are in a very similar situation so great to see, look forward to the updates

[@PDogB]

Personally, I would love all that quiet and being alone on my walks. The only time I can do that where I live in the states is on or before 5am. Absolute heaven! Looking forward to part 2. Thanks for sharing.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

There is nothing like immersing oneself in quiet. Not done enough in our modern world. Thanks for the support. :)

[@dionline88]

I always look forward to your videos - I am living vicariously! You both are brave beyond words and obviously enjoy a strong relationship. You would not be able to thrive as you are if you didn't. It does seem odd that no one is out & about in the town you're in, but I would love it. Quiet is the one thing I could not compromise on. It looks truly idyllic there. Until next time.... I'll be waiting.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Diane, for your kind words! Yes, the quiet is precious. Nothing like it. :)

[@vicihuizinga8157]

You guys…. What an example of commitment to family life. Just lovely. Can’t wait to hear about the language component… the fact that you are Spanish speakers hopefully will make the journey easier. What a pleasure to watch your unique and adventurous journey.

[@nightow117]

I adore you both for living life to the fullest and taking it all in, all these chaotic, exciting, fun, and not so fun experiences where everything is foreign to both of you. Learning the language, the culture, the food, the landscape, and the people makes it all worth it. 10:51

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, and indeed. :)

[@Winterbiker333]

Enjoy your updates. Very nice format and production.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Winter. :)

[@anitagiard4725]

So interesting to hear about the experiences of an older couple seeking a new life here in France. Have you considered Lower Normandy? It is a 2 hour train ride from Caen to the gare St. Lazare. The landscapes and villages are quite stunning and you would probably get more value for your money housing-wise. Le Perche would be a good region to look into as well. Happy house hunting!!

[@magicadespell56]

Denmark is like this!! The bakeries!!! When you go for a walk NOBODY is there you can't hear them like they vanished also work gets done but you never see them WORKING.. when you said that!!!! Really enjoyed this! Your story telling is incredible!!!

[@rosalbamaluta6443]

Can really relate to some of you and your wife's experiences and feelings about moving around a lot and how it can end up making you feel a little lost and uprooted. France is a stunning and wonderful country. I'm sure you have made a good choice.

[@dudewhathappenedtomycountr9099]

I'm not surprised at all that the quaint shops have magnificent goodies. Why? Because France has STANDARDS.

[@kellyAI84]

It's easy to see the french countryside through rose tinted glasses as a visitor, but in reality most people have left - especially younger people. There's just not much going in so many of these pretty but deserted old villages.

[@lucchese20]

I agree. Same thing in Italy. The reality is folks need jobs and work. With a train ride (only?) 50 minutes away-it’s easy to see why no one is in the village during the day except perhaps very young or very old folks. Actually folks from this village are fortunate to be only 50-minutes away from a very large city where there are jobs. Not an unusual situation really.

[@hiddenhighland]

I am not sure I agree with you. I live in a countryside village, and you cannot find a house here to buy. Many people are moving back to the countryside, and into the small villages. What you said was true, and at it's peak 10 years ago...but I always knew it would shift, and it certainly has shifted.

[@publicminx]

@@hiddenhighland urbanisation is worldwide going on. maybe you mistake a pseudo country side which is in reality close to a busy metropolitan area with a 'true' country side? (or one which is a hotspot for other reasons).

[@hiddenhighland]

@@publicminx No-we are not living in a pseudo countryside. We are not near a city. This is a living remote village- and it is the same in the other nearby villages. Anyway- this is about sharing different points of view about what people are experiencing in their area. This is what is happening in my location. Just to note- I do not live in a 'tourist place' or in an urbanized village. It is the same for the whole area around me. I wouldn't live anywhere else. Of course, in other places- it is what you say- urbanization spreading. I just wanted to put in my two cents that there are areas that are not like this, and I live in one of them.

[@nicksturgeonbooks]

Thank you again for sharing your ongoing journey. It is a joy to watch you in your search.

[@geraldzarzoso9446]

Great video. Happy to see people my age taking a leap and switching things up.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Never too old, right? Thanks! :)

[@andreaamer1183]

Put across so well! I actually called my husband over to watch as I laughed out loud at the nomadic lifestyle...we live in the wilderness, off grid in north north Ontario and we spent 5 wks bouncing around back in the UK visiting everyone everywhere ( our 3 grown up kids and beautiful grandson). We like to think we are pretty fit and take on pretty well most things... after a fantastic 5 wks traveling planes, trains and automobiles and sleeping in 8 different environments we have crawled home and finally emptied our suitcases and eaten a really balanced meal and threw in a couple of workouts. Oh, that familiar pillow and just not to have to fit into anyone's schedule ( as much as you adore them). We feel like teenagers hanging back in their lair. I tip my hat to you both to do it through x2 countries and over so long. I look forward to your outcome :)))

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you Andrea! :)

[@zoemuscan9499]

Have you tried Maintenon, an hour away from Paris: many French people commute to work from there?

[@karenlewis5937]

I’m 67 and last year our daughter spent two weeks with me driving around the area that we are moving to near the Pyrenees - and Spain! We were blown away how empty so many villages were during the day. But we found that when we drove back through some of them in the early evening, we would see people out watering, walking the dogs, and chatting it up with the neighbors. But some villages are…just.so.empty. No answer as to why.

[@HerAeolianHarp]

The population drop in Spain in the Pyrenees and other parts started as early as the fifties with Franco’s policies. Some groups like Teruel Existe are trying to get more money for infrastructure and services.

[@Serendip98]

Many second homes, and besides, there are also people who work by day (for example in Paris...) I guess there remain very few peasants in the Yvelines for ex.

[@kimberleymarkova3641]

Horrible, misérable places, don't even stop there

[@janebaker966]

English peoples second homes.

[@jenniferflores2333]

Absolutely love your videos!!! I’m 37 and hope to live in Europe someday. I love the honesty about both the good and bad, as well as the beauty that you portray. Thank you for keeping it all real and in perspective. I can’t wait to see where you and Cecilia land and start to make a home! I am truly inspired!!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Jennifer! 🙏❤️

[@LourdesGonzalez-gs8jj]

I love all your videos and how candid you both are and how well you explain your situation. I pray 🙏 you both the dream home and the happiness and peace you deserve. 🙏👍🥹🥹💕💕stay safe and looking forward to next video. 🙌👍

[@AdrianneZamandra]

Wow, I'm always amazed with the amount of really deep and nice comments under your videos! Your work is really inspiring to me, from the story telling to the shots! I've been living just over an hour away from Paris my whole life and I'm now craving other landscapes, still in France but near the coast ; but your journey is still really inspiring to me! Your relationship with your family really does warm my heart ; I really can't wait to watch your next video! Grateful for your content! Merci pour tout !

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Et merci à vous, Adrianne ! :)

[@whatmeworry7184]

I have lived in France since Dec 2008 and knew I made the right choice. At this moment and time I don't see any other country to live in. I did live in Ireland for 4 years prior to moving to France, and that was a fun country to live in as well.

[@elodieadams68]

How do you qualify to stay permanently in these countries?????

[@whatmeworry7184]

@@elodieadams68 I was born in the UK and at the time the UK was still in the EU, so I could live, work, go to school, etc without any problems within EU countries. I now have a French residence card (ie; green card) which is the beginning to citizenship. I would look into Germany as they have more open laws when entering their country.

[@maila2359]

the pace and how you narrate the videos is so entertaining and soothing, love it! you got a new subscriber, this is great!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you so much :)

[@melanieg6957]

What an awesome adventure 😊 can't wait to see what unfolds next. Thanks for sharing!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Melanie! :)

[@sofisolustri1697]

MICHAAAACHOOOS 🇦🇷😭🇦🇷😭💖 Me emocioné de nuevo por la final por esos tres segundos. Estaría bueno un video en el que hablen sobre cómo es ser expat ahora en comparación a cuando se fueron de arg

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Jaja, genial. :) Muchos temas para explorar! Gracias por la idea. :)

[@venuskirby8243]

Amazing content 😊Thank you ❤

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you so much, Venus. :)

[@SuperMnorman]

I love your videos and your story! Can’t wait until the next one! Thank you so much for sharing❤

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello how’re you doing?

[@dannybannister2540]

I hope you know that many of us are living vicariously through you. I intend to retire in the coming years once our kids leave for college. My wife and I intend to live and travel through Europe. France with all its pitfalls is incredibly romantic.I cannot wait to see and hear how your journey unfolds .

[@leelee3499]

Great quality video!! Very well done!!

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you! :)

[@francoisederocher]

I am French, living in the US and am enjoying your "adventures". It is almost impossible to have a bad meal in France and the small villages are charming everywhere. Some of the things that I notice when I go back and drive me nuts: the bureaucracy, stores and offices closing at odd hours, especially in summer, and the French can be very critical. Good luck to you! I think the quality of life is better in France but you need to learn the language!! Great videos, by the way.

[@deana4793]

Oh my gosh! I love how your channel has exploded!! I always look forward to your videos! ❤❤

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thanks, Deana! :)

[@joansmith9658]

You guys are brave to follow your dreams. Bless you. Thanks for sharing; we can live through your experiences.

[@alexandrachaffanjon2226]

You've definitely hit the jackpot in Les Yvelines. I think I even recognized one of the villages you shot near the beginning of the video. French people have their habits and their lives revolve around certain rituals and gatherings that are more private and secluded where they're not necessarily out and about especially in the countryside. There would probably be more people out on the market days in the village. I think this is even more apparent in places with upscale homes which also may not be home base for a family but be a secondary (or more) residence. These are just my personal thoughts from living in Paris and Les Yvelines for 10 years.

[@placefor16]

We also tried to find the right place for our retirement in Hawaii. We tried in Molokai and shifted to Big Island. Currently, we are back to CA for temporary and need to pack and ship our belongings to Big Island soon. While we are waiting for a building permit from the county, we will be staying in Waikiki, which we don't care for. Even in Big Island, we struggled through a few trials, whether the west side or the east side is better for us. We still don't have an answer. Let's just say that. So I hear you. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

And thanks for following us along. Wishing you all the best in figuring out what's best for you guys! :)

[@elsacristinatorres6073]

Thank you for sharing your story. I lived in France when I was 18 years old, for two years, and I loved it. Now I live in NYC and even though I love to live here, I always miss my time in France. I am looking forward to hear how you guys are doing and I hope you will build a live in your own terms; close to love ones and in interesting surroundings.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Thank you, Elsa. :)

[@jeanwhite2705]

Good Morning to you from🇨🇦. Watched a few of your videos for the first time this morning, and found them refreshingly honest, in content and expression. Thank you for sharing your honest experience and your viewpoint on these experiences , either positive or negative based on a balanced perspective. Very much appreciated

[@sandrairick7942]

A little envious of you two. We were expats in Valencia Spain for 2.5 years. Pandemic was a big influence in our decision to return to the U.S. but now I ask myself why? everyday. Happy for you, enjoy enjoy! We're traveling from PDX to Paris in September for a two month stay, mostly in France, can't wait.

[@BeneaththeSurfaceYT]

Nice! Enjoy it fully! :)

[@CloserToHappy]

Would love to hear about your experience. We spent 3 months in Portugal last year, and are going to spend a few months in Valencia in a few months to compare, and decide if we prefer Spain over Portugal. Any advice?