How do you fund all of this expenditure and exploration and oops we made another expensive mistake. It's a little hard to listen to. . .
@StephanieHughesDesignКүн бұрын
Bonne serie. Comment as-tu selecte le ville et votre maison ? Prix, emplacement, acces a le metro et autre criteria ? Merci. Quelle department et provence as-tu sélectionné ?
@BeneaththeSurfaceYTКүн бұрын
On a fini par s’installer en Seine-et-Marne. Après avoir galéré dans les Yvelines, on a regardé à l’est et ma femme est tombée sur notre maison, comme si elle nous attendait. À une heure de Paris en train, pile ce qu’on voulait. Merci d’avoir regardé !
@fp2374Күн бұрын
Yvelines dept 78 is great we lived in Versailles glorious, then move out west to the Morbihan dept 56 it has been a blast 22 years and counting all worth it no looking back and now retire la vie est belle!
@BeneaththeSurfaceYTКүн бұрын
Nice! Les Yvelines was great, though pros/cons as with anywhere. We ended up in the 77. Loving life here. :)
@DanielSilveira-pn8dk3 күн бұрын
Ur lucky to have a good woman. My ex wife and I were seekers but we tried selling our home in USA when we were on 30&27 at the time. Tried moving to Australia, but the stress of the move, and mostly immaturity , our marriage failed. It's too bad because 19 years later, it's more clear than ever , we were perfect for each other, and I know she thinks the same, she moved on tho and had kids with a new man , and I say all this because a good woman is worth fighting for, I wish we had fought harder. On the flip side, a toxic partner will ruin your life, and I've learned both the hard way. I'm 50 and rebuilding
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT3 күн бұрын
Totally agree. Wishing you all the very best. 🙏❤️
@LOLOVAL-os3pq4 күн бұрын
je suis un homme Français , tu dis que les usa est la terre des innovations et que votre vie se résume au travail , la France aussi est une terre d'innovation : il suffit de voir les innovations en technologie , en médecine , mais notre vie ne se concentre pas sur le travail , nous avons choisi que notre vie de famille ( vie privée ) était tout autant importante que le travail , voir plus
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT3 күн бұрын
Je parle de ce que les pays sont connus. Au final, c’est une question de priorité. Merci d’avoir regardé ma vidéo. 🙏
@kevinbeasley23024 күн бұрын
I just lost my dearest friend (Joe) in September 7, 2024. I must say he was my only real friend since moving to the Nature Coast (in Florida) 12 years ago. What you say about friendship resonates with me. Listening to the other person, asking questions, learning from each other, and laughing at life's absurdities. True friends enrich our lives. I turn sixty-four in December, and I have lost several dear friends over the past few years. Now I have no more friends, just acquaintances. As a loner, I felt so lucky to meet and connect with a quality person like Joe. He was a star athlete in school, an engineer. a mechanical whiz, and a loving husband and father. I shall miss his wonderful wit and sense of humor, his love of nature, his kindness and compassion, and his extraordinary intelligence. Anyway, thanks for this thought-provoking video, Josh. You do go beneath the surface. Usted es una persona de pensamiento profundo.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT3 күн бұрын
Mil gracias, Kevin. 🙏❤️
@Darkrlft4 күн бұрын
"I have no friends." then immediately back peddles by boasting he has a best friend, lol
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT4 күн бұрын
Very different types of friends. Thanks for watching though. 🙏😁
@regineheine57075 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, I can’t tell you how much! It’s an almost philosophical and friendly approach which opens up your heart so that your house can find you! Awesome.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT5 күн бұрын
Thanks! 🙏😁
@regineheine57075 күн бұрын
It translated very well to me. I always loved the French language. It has been like music to me. I remember listening to a French speaker on the radio when I was nine years old. The guy could have read the phone book of Paris backwards. When I was about twenty I visited a cousin( female) of mine who lived in Paris at that time. I left the train station , went to a bakery to buy a croissant. The saleswoman asked me”au Beurre? and my response was no, avec rien. She handed me one without a word. I didn’t know you need any kind of fat, butter or something cheaper, to make a croissant.I though she meant to slice it and put butter onto it. I wouldn’t say anything in a restaurant unless I felt the sentence was complete and the grammar correct. A waiter told me, just start talking, we are French , we’ll understand .Go ahead. This broke my cycle not to try, always assuming I had to do it the perfect way.Helped me a lot.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT5 күн бұрын
Great advice. Thanks for watching. :)
@marciagagnon24877 күн бұрын
❤Enjoy!😊
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT7 күн бұрын
Thank you! 🙏😁
@ceebee38678 күн бұрын
They say oatmilk creates a higher spike, so better to go with almond milk for example. Check out glucose goddes, she is French😊 I have been watching some videos from Portland and i think both you guys look so much healthier and glowing😊
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT8 күн бұрын
Yup, we know her well. 😁 Thanks for the lovely comment! 🙏❤️
@SahimAkaMoeski8 күн бұрын
I don't want any , they been always planted to so call help me but no more I'm a one man army for life
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT8 күн бұрын
👍😁
@feraudyh9 күн бұрын
Oh, I recognised your son. He's got his own channel. Haha.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT8 күн бұрын
Yup 😁
@P1nkBanj09 күн бұрын
I'm going to watch this more than once, this is well worth absorbing. It was a pleasant surprise to hear the f word used properly 😄
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT8 күн бұрын
Haha. Thanks! I appreciate the lovely words. 🙏😁
@happyiglu9 күн бұрын
bro is married and tries to give advice to the real lonelys, try again haha
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT8 күн бұрын
Was not giving advice. Thanks for watching though. 🙏😁
@lmc3339 күн бұрын
Love the ending in French !
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT9 күн бұрын
Merci bien ! 🙏😁
@robynhudgens782011 күн бұрын
I love your thoughts on pushing yourself emotionally and I’ve been watching you both over the last 2 years and your physical and emotional journeys. Very inspiring and thought provoking. I’d love to move to France
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT10 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for your lovely words. 🙏 You can do it! 😁
@jesse4689-o2l15 күн бұрын
You have an amazing ability to speak from the heart, which why so many people want you to do more of these.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT15 күн бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏❤️
@williamb839418 күн бұрын
After watching several of your videos and your spiritual journey I wonder what do you use as your Objective (NOT subjective) source of truth? A world where everyone holds to Their perceived truth only leads to social chaos. In my opinion.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT17 күн бұрын
Ha, that’s a whole topic on the objective side. I’ve touched on it in other videos. As for the subjective? As we go along on our journey, we will always be holding on to our perceived truth. It’s what it means to be human and exists in duality. Thanks for watching. 🙏
@tomfaunce18 күн бұрын
Very interesting video, especially with the current political climate and people 'unfriending' those who disagree with them politically
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT18 күн бұрын
Had not thought about that. Must be quite the thing between some people.
@stevebedos25318 күн бұрын
Bonjour En voyant cette vidéo par hasard , je remarque que nous ne sommes pas conscients que nous vivons dans un merveilleux pays et que nous sommes jamais content ( râleur 😜) . Je suis originaire de la Bretagne mais vivant proche de Paris pour mon travail. Je retournerais en Bretagne pour ma retraite . Une région merveilleuse 🇫🇷👍👍
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT18 күн бұрын
Oui, c’est vraiment un pays merveilleux. Bonne chance avec votre retraite !
@octpro18 күн бұрын
I just stumbled upon these videos. Very informative. We are ourselves actively looking for a house in... Yvelines. We might need to extend -- either the area or the budget.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT18 күн бұрын
Thanks for following along and best of luck. 🙏
@patriciavandevelde546919 күн бұрын
Overpopulation and very expensive stay away from Europe
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT19 күн бұрын
Too late! 😁
@Mgenao7619 күн бұрын
Amazing content!!! Love what you’re sharing with us all! Thank you! ❤
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT19 күн бұрын
Thank you! 🙏❤️
@SL-be8ws19 күн бұрын
Loved it thank you.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT19 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. 🙏😁
@libbydavis255420 күн бұрын
It did translate! And as for me? What helped me take big risks? I've gone through a few periods of my life where I decided that every single day, I would do whatever scared me the most. ('Cause I'm a big old scaredy cat down to my toes.) And, of course, those were the moments that completely changed my life. The tiny things often make the biggest changes.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT19 күн бұрын
Indeed. Love your approach and attitude. 🙏❤️
@honeyaddisababa21 күн бұрын
Day by day when I see your content I enjoyed so much and learn a lot thanks for the best content
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT21 күн бұрын
Thank you! 🙏❤️
@chickolat21 күн бұрын
I am 43 and been feeling stuck. I also moved (not France) but a place that I didnt think would be difficult to adjust but 2.5 years later and I am still struggling and resorted to feeling "stuck". I started seeing a therapist 2 months ago because of a sudden heart wrenching event and to process grief. But through it old stuff is coming out and strugglig to process. I want to fix it right away but i cant. Videos like this (its not a bad thing) always shows snippet of the journey and when the person has reached the other side giving the viewer inspiration. But what it doesnt show is the months or years it can take to get to the other side. Or the journey in itself is the other side - the fact that we even decided to take the journey. You gave some inspiration and thank you for a non-scripted version of you.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT21 күн бұрын
It can take a very long time, indeed. But we do make slow progress as we go along if we are intentional and put it in the time. Did you watch my other videos digging deeper into some difficult times in my life?
@LockerRichieRich22 күн бұрын
Yes, I really like this freestyle side of you. The openness and vulnerability is like one soul is speaking to another. It inspires me to not over think stuff which usually will usher in fear. I was also thinking…It’s your scripted versions that brought you to this place. Both belong in your toolbox. Keep up the good work, you guys are so great… Put it on a T-shirt “Sport Mode All The Way”Thanks, Lisa
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT22 күн бұрын
Haha, great idea. 😁 Thanks for the lovely comment! 🙏
@surfmarko22 күн бұрын
lol - “I think we should eat”
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT22 күн бұрын
:)
@krisd87023 күн бұрын
I’m going to take a chance. I’m an extravert I never have a problem talking to people. I’m going to do it opposite be more quiet be more observant.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT22 күн бұрын
Sounds like a plan. :) The reverse can be just as helpful. Good luck!
@judiklettenmeijer85423 күн бұрын
If you really want it, you can do it. My husband and I emigrated to France in 2010, renovated a abandoned 17th century farmhouse, far from Paris (which we don’t especially like). I am now 84 years old and happier en healthier than ever before
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT23 күн бұрын
Nice! 😁
@williamb839424 күн бұрын
"encouraging and supporting each other..." The key to success or failure... in a relationship...
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT24 күн бұрын
Indeed 🙏❤️
@williamb839424 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I dream of doing something like that once I retire. But, I have a spouse who has no desire for new and uncomfortable.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT24 күн бұрын
I get it. Wishing you all the best as you work through all that. 🙏
@perrymckenna226124 күн бұрын
You are starting to grow on me!
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT24 күн бұрын
Haha, cool! Appreciate the support. 🙏😁
@kevingorton187124 күн бұрын
Couldn’t agree more and beautifully put. I’m in my 50s and have tried to maintain friendships that are just overdue and had become superficial. Exploring the journey of life and deeper understanding are now a prerequisite. Thank you for sharing something so personal and honest 🙏🏻
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT24 күн бұрын
So great to hear. Thank you so much for your lovely words and your support. 🙏❤️
@dissent80725 күн бұрын
I identify with your feelings about having friends or not having friends. In fact, for some mysterious reason, it has always been stressful for me to get close to another person--both male and female. Since my childhood I have been a loner. I never trusted people. People I considered to be my friends had ulterior motives and cheated me. They borrowed from me promising to return the loan but they never did. Occasionally I meet them in grocery stores and we exchange greetings but they never mention the loan they took from me. I stopped mentioning it to them because I know they will lie. That's why I have lost faith in humans. It is much better for me to be alone and do things I enjoy by myself. There are so many thing which keep me occupied, and I don't feel lonely.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT23 күн бұрын
Better alone than in bad company, huh? Wishing you all the very best. 🙏❤️
@queerissimo25 күн бұрын
restaurants are probably similar everywhere to be honest. I found the inverse to be true. every place I tried in lisbon and porto we found just sort of mediocre- heavy salt and heavy carbs with not much depth. we dounf ourselves wishing for the variety of food we coudl find at home in vancouver BC. portugese food started to feel same really fast I found but maybe we're just spoilt for choice out here!
@mary-gael763325 күн бұрын
The KZbin algorythme brought me to your son's channel, wich took me to yours. I really like your perspective on life and the ageing process. I was wondering, though, if juicing was really that good for you, because getting rid of the fibers in fruits just transforms it in liquid fructose, just as any supermarket fruit juice but with more natural vitamins, doesn't it? I'm asking this because I've been interested in juicing too in the past, but as I understood how sugar was our worst ennemy, I got away from it. The second thing I wanted to say, as a 40 year old French woman, is that unfortunately you'll never know how amazing was the french healthcare system, as it's soooo broken right now. It used to be really functional, paid by you taxes for the most part, very good hospitals with world renoun professors, some good research, great deals on prices for medication as they were negociated by the State, etc. But since 2005 I'd say, the narrative was that we had to lower the costs. We didn't (lower the costs), but little by little, we dismantled our healthcare system. Covid finished the job. Now it's not the worst in Europe (I would be very worried to have to go the a hospital in the UK), but it's nothing like it used to be. For exemple: not finding a doctor was impossible a few years ago. Well, here we are.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT23 күн бұрын
Great comment. I’m also exploring the amount of sugar I consume with my smoothies and in general. It’s a tough one because sugar is everywhere, including how bread and alcohol will transform to it readily. Quite an issue! in any case, yes, very sad to hear about the health system. So bummed that we missed out on the better days! Thank you for watching and for your lovely support. 🙏😁
@mary-gael763323 күн бұрын
@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT it's nice to get a response, thank you! About the sugar, I would argue that it's alright if it comes with fiber. For bread for exemple, integral bread (in french, look for "intégral", way better than "complet") will make it way slower for the glucose to get in the blood than white bread, whole fruits come with the necessary fiber to slower the rush of the glucose to the blood too, as for alcohol, well, it's not healthy so it's to be consumed with moderation and with a meal, I'd say. And if sugar is taken after having eaten a whole meal, it will be processed slower than on an empty stomac wich is better. I think that the question is less about should I consume sugar or not, but how can I make it slower to reach my blood circulation. If this makes any sense. About our healthcare, I don't want to sound too dramatic: you will still get cured if you have a problem and that you need to get to the hospital, and it's a public service. Yet, I think that the crises that we go trough is global in the West and there is a repercussion on healthcare of course. (I hope my english was good enough)
@perrymckenna226125 күн бұрын
I see friends as community and community is one of the key factors in living a long and healthy life.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT25 күн бұрын
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@CozmikEli25 күн бұрын
Mirá...te entiendo...y estoy de acuerdo. Para mi, en mi vida en este punto, a esta nivel, veo amistades, igual...Que se sigan amando. Los felizitos❣️
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT25 күн бұрын
🙏😁
@CozmikEli25 күн бұрын
Mirá...te entiendo...y estoy de acuerdo
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT25 күн бұрын
😊
@Rusty-i7g27 күн бұрын
I'm 85 and hope to re invent myself stronger
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT27 күн бұрын
You can do this! 💪😁❤️
@greetingsbeautifulpeople-k6i27 күн бұрын
Congrats to you for being brave and stepping out! The more you do it, the more you CAN do it. We learn from all our trials and errors and life is full of so many mysteries and rewards. The more you challenge yourself, the greater the reward! Keep it up Josh!! 🎉❤ Btw, I love yours and your son’s channel, but I’m having a hard time finding your wife’s channel. I watched it once and adored it but now I can’t find it. 😩 I wanted to subscribe to it as well. Can you please give me the link, or tell me the name of it? Thank you!
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT27 күн бұрын
Of course, she is An Artist’s Life. And thank you for your lovely support! 🙏😁❤️
@dignity66027 күн бұрын
I have also had lots of friends in my life. A very diverse group of people (some for very long time). But I do not have them anymore and that is a very concious choice of mine. I thought I needed to have friends to be happy. And I used to have friendships that went deeper than just hanging out. We talked about life issues. But I do not want to invest in an ongoing contact with friends. I feel these days maintaining friendships feel slike a relationship. The commitment and level of attentiveness it needs to create deep friendships is too much for me. Since I have developed a loving relationship with myself al of my friendship needs dissapeared. I want a lot of solitude. Apart from my partner I prefer superficial contacts. Like for example, we live in a village where we great eachother and have nice chitchats about village life. All innocent and light topics. And there is no pressure to follow up on eachother. And online I connect with people about specific interests. My life feels full and compleet this way.
@BeneaththeSurfaceYT27 күн бұрын
Awesome 👍😁
@RubenTejeda-ug5wt28 күн бұрын
Sounds like you and your son made a beautiful connection. Bravo 👏