Ayanda Borotho ON: Young Motherhood, Marriage and Finding herself

[@brendenpraise_]

So much wisdom in this, enjoyed listening to it this morning.

[@LetiMatlelemu]

“Things won’t be the same by this time next year” 😭 it’s all I needed to hear🙏🏾 thanks Ayanda and Mpoomy♥️

[@lelwaonlife9435]

"I'm learning not to be fooled by personality and to invest more into people's characters"😤🔥📍

[@sinenhlanhladzanibe5591]

I love how she defined the difference between personality and character 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽 so profound

[@leratomashilo5179]

Also strength and power❤

[@ThuliZinhleMasango]

🙌🏽

[@NombuleloMphela]

Ayanda has spoken to me in ways that I cannot even imagine. I had two kids at 21 and dropped out of college simply because I knew that my purpose was not through college. This is God giving me a message through Ayanda. I feel blessed, I'm living my truth, purpose. I'm now 22 years old and I know that God is preparing me for what I'm meant to do. I have showed up in strength a lot, trying to fix my mistake. But now I rest in God's plan for me

[@pulelady]

Indeed and your past is your today’s testimony and yes God has great plans for your life and future ❤

[@lebogangchaw]

❤❤

[@yanganokwe9122]

Bless your journey sisi❤

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

You'll make it mommy. I had a child when I was 21. About that period, I'd choose a different dad for my child, but I wouldn't exchange my son for anything...

[@FEMININELY_ME]

Bless you 🤍

[@siphosethu222]

Gang gang 🔔 . I’m here for this era ka Ayanda and interviews , I could listen to her talk for days 😍❤️. She is just an amazing woman , I wish she was my family 😭😭😭😭❤️

[@NeoM-YouTube-]

"When I'm showing up in strength, I cannot show up in power" ❤

[@dineosithole8208]

Blessed by this conversation.

[@cynthiamabena1809]

Purpose is truth. Mary came to give us Jesus. Nandi came to give us a king. No one is useless. I felt that ❤️

[@onankiesdiary1154]

Running to buy her book after listening to how wise she is,in this conversation!🏃🏾‍♀️❤

[@Nokwethemba_MJ]

Did you perhaps found it anywhere I can not find it.

[@nondumisogasa7388]

Same sis -it’s out of stock everywhere though

[@onankiesdiary1154]

@@Nokwethemba_MJ haven't been on the search yet😭

[@nobathembumaneli1892]

Please let us know if you get a copy. I have been trying to buy the book but it’s always out of stock.

[@pearltshabalala5760]

“Personality changes because it adapts to the environment. Character stays the same, it usually surfaces when its tested” !! Wow kunini ngithi Yho

[@monicafifing]

When she said "I am in therapy, to deal with the neglected child" I felt that. Ayanda is speaking to me in so many ways. Thank you mama!

[@LebogangAMorudu]

" unless holy spirit permits it won't happen " loved that

[@Modest_U]

Personality changes to adjust to the environment❤❤❤. Character is what sustains long term relationships.

[@DzunyB]

"A wise woman once said....F it"😂😂. I love her❤. She's such a deep well of wisdom . May God preserve her life

[@lelwaonlife9435]

"I'm also learning that people must earn who they are in my life" 😭🔥

[@meltamafuma4793]

That Got to me😢

[@kwangubane2256]

Sho. There's no way you won't be moved after listening to that. Because when God arrives He moves and He moved through this woman today.

[@fianong6745]

I needed to hear those words "this time next year will be different" ❤❤❤

[@Milli-mnganga]

One thing i love about Ayanda is, she speaks with authority ✊🏿

[@tshebeletsononyane6680]

I was battling with a personal thing for over a month, yesterday my hormones pushed me to face it all and I meditated on it. When she said personality vs character ooohhh Modimo! She healed me! She helped me win that battle!

[@noluthandomakhoba9853]

Ayanda Borotho is so wise. Thank you Mpoomy for this. Would love a second episode of you both.

[@ayandathabisa7143]

I keep pausing this video and quoting Ayanda in my whatapp statuses boy did I not start a conversation with a lot of people in my contact list, this is just too much Ayanda is opening and closing wounds at the same time 😢😢.

[@winniesebopa75]

Me too😂😂😂introspection

[@marianngonga3490]

She was a super incredible actress in the river, she nailed it and her posture and intelligence is literally the same away from camera.

[@winniehasheela8045]

This conversation sold me to wellness and wisdom membership. I was reluctant to be a member but I realized I needed more of this conversations

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

Welcome, welcome!

[@thulisilemahlangu6913]

Same here, I have been reluctant to be a member but just realized I am depriving myself some serious gems

[@aphiwenanto3212]

Such calmness in sis Ayanda. "Personality is different to character" I enjoyed this conversation so much❤

[@xolisilemlambo4850]

Thank you so much for having Ayanda on here, I am a mother of a daughter and what she said about parenting is really powerful. We always get angry at our children for being children and forget that they need us in their chilhood.

[@lelwaonlife9435]

The explanation of purpose being truth was absolutely brilliant!👏🏽 a wisdom packed episode 😭. "I'm very intentional about being yielded by what the spirit says I should do" shuuuu so many gems shared🥹

[@nomfundosiyotula6424]

Power is a posture of stillness ❤

[@ayandathabisa7143]

@mpoomy thank you so much for this conversation but I honestly feel like we need a part 2 where you and Ayanda delve into the concept of marriage in this generation especially because both of you are married and I believe you can open our eyes even more ❤

[@elizabethmoshira]

Much needed actually

[@bonolotheresaketshogile6842]

I agree. Love both of you ladies. Serving gems❤

[@thandokhu]

I 2nd it.

[@I_am_c-sae]

I love Ayanda. She's got this great transformative aura within her❤

[@boniswatukwayo4500]

"People must earn who they're in your life" 😇

[@SiwaphiweTsengwaNqwayibana]

My spirit connected differently to this wonderful woman 😪😪😪 My emotions are hardly triggered but with her wisdom I found myself moved so hard. Mpoomy thank you so much for allowing God to use you 🥰 your work is beyond 💞

[@arinahosharon6354]

The wisdom in this "You cant love when uve not healed"🙏🙏🙏

[@tsholofelomamakera4752]

When she said Grace carried me 🙌🏾 thank you for having her 👏👏

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

This time next year will be different.....wish I can remember this....

[@MsimangoLuyanda-hn8qt]

Purpose- truth, genuineness Oh my God!

[@nomzamomsimanga287]

Reading the book again because i am on my journey to becoming❤ Love her, love her mind ❤May God bless her abundantly ❤🕯🙏🏽

[@silindilemchunu3583]

I receive all that God intended for this interview. Thank you so much❤

[@nonkululekolosaba7311]

This is a world of wisdom interview. I'm filled with so much gratitude, thank you sis Ayanda, thank you Mpumi. Seeing it 10 months later and everything she is saying is so relevant, please have another 3Generations seminar

[@mpholaura_h]

So Beautiful... ❤ wholesome conversation

[@perpetuatjiueza2832]

Yoh yoh.....Glory be to God for empowering mama Ayanda with so much wisdom and above all, thank you for the willingness to share.

[@preciouskasanda7345]

I am now at a place in my life where I am showing up in power for me!

[@Arebalengfoundation]

The conversation was so profound !!!! It is what I needed to hear ❤❤❤ I learned that I need to listen to God more and find my purpose in this journey called life and it is okay to always go to the drawing board and start again stronger than before ❤

[@mpumingomane8327]

She is so Authentic and Mrs Ledwaba you are a wonderful Host

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

You are so kind🌸

[@AvuzwaKeei]

This is beautiful, healing and knowing your purpose is something so important. Thank you Mpumi and Ayanda for this interview♥️

[@andilentsonta4357]

So excited for this one because Ayanda is definitely one of my FAVES!!😭🥺❤❤❤❤

[@ntaolengmolise3317]

Learn not to be fooled by personality, but invest in character… powerful

[@leratomatlala9716]

I have watched a lot of interviews but this is by far one of the best, so much wisdom and truth.

[@modesterpfaira8465]

I love how calm the conversation is, it's speaking to me soo much

[@nellathungana]

I’ve been showing up and facing my trials with strength and now am exhausted emotionally and physically.. this podcast has awakened so much power in me thank you so much ladies ❤❤

[@nancychunga]

Of all the guests…i really love this womans wisdom…its on another level

[@mbalienhlemthembu6373]

The episodes have me speechless lately, yoh | ❤

[@SamkeloJijana]

"What you see as the personality is not necessarily the character"

[@sbonilemtshali8228]

Oh my word. Exactly what i needed as i seek my purpose. Oh my. I have been looking at it the wrong way. 😢 Oh my word.

[@nomondemngadi9026]

You surely do carry Gods wisdom Ayanda, really needed to hear this

[@willardpika9345]

Personality is different from character 👌👌👌Bawo

[@mamelanjingolo2600]

Purpose is indeed truth.!!

[@mbinaomukuambi2459]

You are currently speaking for many as you speak for yourself. I can surely relate to this 💯… When Mpoomy said ‘are you me?!’ I was like girl, you stole the words right out of my mouth! Reminds me of Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts story in the book Lost and Found…

[@NombuleloMphela]

Mpoomy you are really speaking to me in many episodes, God is doing this through you actually. I'm only 22 and I'm striving to become a Godly woman like you. ❤

[@Mokgadi-MC]

That part about personality versus character....✨gold mine✨ Such an eye-opener, to invest in someone's character rather than their personality.❤

[@lebogangmogomela822]

She’s such a wise woman! Loved listening to her 👏🏽

[@thulimazibuko2600]

I just finished reading her book. Transformative, thank you 🙏🏾 ❤

[@khumalolungile973]

Where did you get it. I think I need it

[@ThuliZinhleMasango]

This made me wanna join the membership😭🙇🏽‍♀️🙌🏽yoh the 3 generations🙇🏽‍♀️

[@preciouskasanda7345]

I relate with always showing up in my strength and having an honest conversation with mom over taking care of siblings and having never had a childhood.

[@cleopatrakhumalo7283]

The calmness in sis Ayanda iyodwa nje speaks a lot about the kinder person she is I love it Thanx Mpoomy🧡

[@Othandwayinkosi]

I have goosebumps watching this

[@mk_lion3ss]

Every time I experience uMangubane, I discover more depth about her character & that digs insights into me, too ❤ A quite power of a woman

[@real_emeldah]

I listened to the podcast but I have to watch it because I want to see you two's faces during this coz wow mine was 😢 the whole time.

[@zikhonanyumka5224]

A lot of wisdom bars were dropped in this episode. I thoroughly enjoyed it. ❤❤

[@nolwazimkhizee]

What a beautiful conversation with so many nuggets 🥺

[@lindokuhlesonteya6435]

One of my favorite actors🙏

[@lifewithzandihalley6512]

"Purpose is truth."

[@SibuleleTafeni]

Yhoooo thank you so much. I cried and this made me realize how much I need healing. Thank you❤

[@lebogangchaw]

Wow wow ❤❤Ayanda Purpose is truth Personality is different from character Show up in power, not strength ❤

[@SametsiMolepo-yo5ck]

The definition between personality and character, the entire conversation moved me so much wisdom. ♥️

[@thandekaskele5779]

I love and appreciate her wisdom. May God bless her more ❤

[@lihlencongwane]

She is speaking to the current me, I'm currently showing up in strength and I feel deprived💔 unfortunately for me no one wants or even tries to understand even when I speak out. I am not like any 22 y/o I feel like I'm losing my life because I have so many responsibilities at such a tender age, and I'll never be this age ever again.

[@veelonze9363]

I understand you..... I'm going through the same thing, at 21. And apparently a part of our brain doesn't fully develop until we are 25. No wander I feel like an overwhelmed child.

[@mamelanjingolo2600]

And yes, it gets better...with time, with God!

[@nokuthulamthimkhulu8008]

The wisdom that comes out in this conversation oh God i'm in Awe🙏🙌🙏🙌

[@ntokozomagwanyana7915]

This women has so much wisdom, she opened my mind with the showing up in strength or power talk as well as purpose. Such a beautiful and powerful conversation ❤️🌸

[@thabisilezungu2038]

Come on Ayanda!!! definition of personality and character. 🙌🙌 I enjoyed this conversation. Thank you Mpoomy ❤

[@phemopatience]

Bathong Ayanda😊😊😊😊. That thing you said about personality & character is full of depth......

[@amukelanimitchellmaluleke4997]

So much substance ❤

[@thabsilengcobo4880]

Wow!! What a mouthful, informative conversation. Thank you Ladies

[@Sanga_Singaphumelela]

“How do i really test character” this was so insightful ❤ thank you.

[@bigananikagiso6413]

I'm literally losing it❤❤❤❤❤I read that book in a day and the last time I read it was 3 years ago but I think about it all the time. Thank you so much for bringing her to the seat ❤❤❤

[@mellisamadondo4942]

This conversation is everything. Oh, my word. Loved, loved, loved it. Can't wait to read the book. Thank you Mpoomy.

[@noxolondhlovu1115]

I think while purpose seems hyped up. What I’m observing is a generation seeking their truth for freedom. There is more self awareness in society but there are lost souls hence purpose is seeming like the higher requirement

[@sbongilejonas1572]

I trying to find a way to like this video more than once ❣

[@nqobilechiliza6428]

Wow, this week I purposed to gain knowledge especially for my birthday...in actual fact I asked the Father and I came across this interview this morning and it's such a Kairos moment. Thank you Mpoomy Thank you sis Ayanda

[@ndumiemzamo]

Profound conversation. So balanced and well articulated. I can't wait to buy myself her books.

[@MrsMax2009]

Ayanda spitting wisdom

[@bongekamchunu9702]

Love Ayanda ❤, wise and calmly bold and fearless.

[@ZamavusoM]

This conversation has brought me so much tears I could relate so much

[@tendaimoyo2268]

Ayanda is very graceful , wise and radiant. Wow thank you for this episode ❤❤❤.

[@priscampelo]

Thank you for this🎉 33:32 33:32

[@MiyelaniRikhotso]

This is wisdom and wellness 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@aviwengevayo785]

Loved this so much, so much wisdom, eye opening 👌🏻😍

[@girleyngcobo2678]

Absolutely enjoyed every minute watching this. I have fallen in love with Ausi Ayanda all over again. Thank you Mpumi for having her on ❤❤❤

[@mamelanjingolo2600]

Yho guys, nam when I'm told I'm strong, I weep inside because I am far from it. As a 100% single parent to two sons, I am far from strong, far! It's hard! Very hard.