Muslim Parents: Don't Expect Your Children to Retain Your Culture - Yasir Qadhi

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[@BilalKhan-rn5bt]

Our parents really needs to see this

[@faizadaud4085]

I wish this was in urdu

[@afzalhamdulay]

Totally agree😭

[@fayyazilahi291]

hahah yes indeed

[@abdullahazam3314]

I’m right there with you I know how you feel

[@Igi293]

Thank you. Culture isn’t Islam. Many don’t know the difference

[@Igi293]

Mustafa Alam Who said anything about roots? Culture isn’t actually Islam. Summarily speaking Islam isn’t based on roots buddy; It’s supposed to set aside from culture. It’s the reason why it came down in the first place. If you’re implementing roots into it then you’re dividing Islam into different standards. There’s supposed to be only one Islamic culture and that isn’t destined to be the one we’re preaching now. It’s lost after Muhammad (pbuh)

[@Igi293]

Mustafa Alam Roots from where parents do this sort of teaching isn’t the roots one should be following.

[@Igi293]

Mustafa Alam I agree

[@User-gk9ie]

He understands us

[@ricksantos1580]

Masha Allah - If more Imams/Scholars were like this Islam and Muslims would be 1000% better off in the West....

[@yahulwagoni4571]

The West would be 1000% better off without Islam. Death to Sharia. Death to Islamism. Death to the Global Jihad!

[@ammarchen8850]

My mum doesn't listen to me. She always cuts me off when i talk.. She wants to control the whole entire conversation..

[@thundageon5962]

Same

[@Lifeskeyishappiness]

Children have no duty to follow the culture or religion of their parents, they are not objects or trophies. They only need to be themselves and a decent human being.

[@Ihavemadeit999]

Lifeskeyishappiness exactly

[@thonmoyrahman2270]

@@user-kh7th6nx6o because of thousands of years of sociocultural evolution.

[@ihatemyson5yearsago357]

Tell that to my parents. Leaving Islam is supposedly "shame to the family "

[@maida4608]

@@ihatemyson5yearsago357 May I ask why do you wanna leave islam? I’m not gonna judge you or anything.

[@kwangya4863]

@Positive Vibes why did you leave Islam for Christianity when they are quite similar to each other? Christianity is also quite misogynistic.....

[@lillylovesrain7072]

Somebody give this guy a Nobel prize

[@shabbi15]

I wish these lectures would have been in urdu too..

[@faizadaud4085]

Same. I feel you

[@LamontBoucherville]

Urdu is haraam

[@moeedshaikh1]

Same

[@Penn.obsessed]

@@LamontBoucherville No it ain't dumbass, it's a language.🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Count_Bleck]

@@LamontBoucherville lmao

[@azaadi8]

what if your parents absolutely refuse this idea and expect so much from you?

[@AlexOjideagu2]

Then they are stupid and you have the right to disobey them (within reason)

[@Igi293]

ojideagu No. Never disrespect them or anything which is harmful, that's wrong. Keep it innocuous. It's plausible to respect your parents while asserting your thoughts. If they still don't listen, stop advising them, it's only going to make it worse. Let them see their mistakes for themselves, you can't change it, only Allah can. Pray to the Lord for them and have faith they will change for the better. Everyone makes mistakes. Let's learn to help them instead of disparaging them, and one day inshallah your actions will have an effect in front of Allah's presence. Always do the right thing no matter what.

[@ummabdellah9335]

azaadi8 we are following islam not culture so do what islam say not yr parents who follow islam and getting sins

[@asheq98]

May Allah swt guide us and our parents towards succes, contentment and happiness in this life and the hereafter. Seek advice from a scholar in your community whom is rightious and qualified inshAllah. Allaho'alam

[@MotorStorm66]

@@Igi293 well, just in case you don't know, it's allowed for Muslims to disobey their parents if they tell them to do something which Allāh doesn't allow.

[@8270361507]

What an angel in disguise. What one said about "culture and tradition" is too and it's amusing to see people fight tooth and nail to preserve everything when in reality it will come to a stalemate. Cultures change, people change across generations. It's a fact of life and just deal with it.

[@kingtan3676]

J8270361507 he’s no angel

[@akayabeck2004]

I know I'm late, But t'ill this day I'm suffering with this situation and I Know damn well that if I showed this to my stubborn parent they would never change their mind.

[@Dhkirullah]

Some excellent points. JazakAllah kheir for uploading

[@measrasyed5554]

My parents needs to listen this 😊

[@Reem_elnour]

I love this

[@oez6360]

Such an eye opener.

[@Lonleybee7]

I cried while hearing , its all i wanted to hear😢😢

[@easyak]

The legend all afghan parents need.

[@yasraho9489]

I just wish this was in urdu and is sooo easier to explain to my parents :(

[@OkamiandZelda]

Thank you thank you thank you thank you

[@meghanaful]

Is this guy the only sensible Muslim imam out there? Why can’t others be practical like him?

[@IslamOnDemand]

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[@josecampechano6136]

if a non-muslim said that they would call him islamofobic. im glad to hear it from an iman

[@mahadiqbal3917]

Yes yes absolutely

[@Rukhsana2056]

Reminder: For all renowned scholars here in US, a much greater responsibility is placed upon your shoulders, to be impartial than taking sides of one party only. It seems you want Islam to be reformed than to be understood as is, from the examples taught in our holy book, “ Quran” & through the Sunnah of our prophet (s.a.w) ? 🤔🧐 Please give more effective examples of how to build better-relationships between young children( or adults)& their parents . Thanks 🙏🏻

[@alishihadeh62]

I can’t stand my parents culture becuz of how much my dad tries to shove it down our throats

[@Rokia2003]

My mom litterally let my uncle (a hardcore Muslim) try to teach me it and it made me so uncomfortable that I cried. I dont wanna do it

[@ihatemyson5yearsago357]

@@Rokia2003 Same. My parent's are always forcing me to wear oversized shirts so they cover my butt, because they say that men might look at me in a perverted way if don't do so. Sounds pretty sexist to md

[@ricksantos1580]

Does anyone have the link for the full speech... thx

[@Kidakudz125]

What should or what can I do? My parents want me to continue college but I don’t want to, want can I do?

[@binkybarnes9729]

Please is this in somail

[@asinner]

Wish parents watched these types of videos...

[@U86860]

Does anyone know the link to the full lecture?

[@fayyazilahi291]

Finally some comment sense

[@Rukhsana2056]

What if the religious aspects disappear in yr progeny too despite all continued efforts to be involved in their westernized public education system & the weekend Islamic Schooling we provided them, not forgetting of course our own examples of practicing & living Islam in building our communities here? 🧐😢 It seems like the generations here expect all from us till the time we die & never repay anything in kind as the generations of the East did, back in the past.🤔😢

[@mssaarahn]

He sounds a bit like Sherek. When he says 'be pragmatic'. It's the accent. I appreciate this man's understanding.

[@JackSparrow-ii5gt]

applies to religion, too.

[@JackSparrow-ii5gt]

@jennie kim just saying that it's funny how it's a preacher saying that

[@heathercameron3380]

it works yup

[@tanzeelaamjad2414]

Islam and culture is different not the same

[@tanzeelaamjad2414]

Islam and culture is different not the same.

[@terryantony8531]

Wise man he's right but living in the west, some could think differently and not follow/have a religion in the future ?

[@jalilahlaquintataratingan675]

That's what I did.

[@heathercameron3380]

Jim my moms bf ( step dad of 25 yrs Jim ) taught me as little kid always be in the right

[@anassohail3041]

Just sent this to my mother on WhatsApp 😂😂

[@Butterflywarrior214]

Anas Sohail lol 😂

[@abdulwahedrafiqi8677]

Are you still alive?

[@exposinghijabis8088]

Its mostly South asian. Desi culture 😒

[@LamontBoucherville]

What's desi?

[@Rokia2003]

@Sadia Musa yup

[@LamontBoucherville]

@Mustafa Alam thanks for explaining

[@UltimateChocoWy1]

South east asian as well lol

[@asra9897]

My mon don't know English so I can't send this to her 😢