Symptoms of Trauma or Disorder?

[@krystle8534]

Exactly! When I hear someone's story, I have no problem seeing how their childhood experiences and conditioning influences the way they perceive the world, reacts and behaves as adults. For some strange reason, psychiatrists does not seem to get the connection. They also don't seem to understand how damaging pathologizing can be. You're labelled as abnormal and dysfunctional when the truth is you're having a normal reaction to abnormal circumstances. What heals is empathy, understanding, being heard and validated. Great video❣

[@CandacevanDell]

Boom absolutely!!! 💗💛💗💛

[@karadickey4304]

This is calling to me. You are making a lot of sense. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤

[@CandacevanDell]

It is my absolute pleasure!!!

[@lavonnebenson7409]

I am 63 and this is the story of my life. Thank you.

[@CandacevanDell]

I understand!!! It’s not ok

[@xlauriestarchildstudios7777]

I am here at 61yo...I am here with you.xo

[@Puds]

My God Candell, I've been trying to get Diagnosed with ADHD, Autism etc. I havnt looked at the Childhood trauma I experienced, to heal. You're a total inspiration 🙏

[@CandacevanDell]

Thanks so much!!! You called me Candell hahaha 🧡

[@Puds]

Hi, im really learning so much from you. I'm really searching for independence, inner power, peace or mind, identity. Live alone, isolate

[@rongike]

totally agree! the whole brain chemistry thing never made sense to me and I believe it's even been debunked by now.

[@CandacevanDell]

Yes and btw our brain chemistry changes with our thoughts 💭 ❤️❤️❤️

[@momione11]

Candace you have so much knowledge. You have been a part of what my life looks like now. In this very thing instead of trusting others. I actually started to trust myself and my own body. It speaks and knows. So practiced and listened. But this has taken 50 years. Because I have not yet known what I felt or had words for it. But now know that I now follow my signals. Have calmed down so much. Got all the diagnoses. Even pills .But I refused.Am now clearer than ever.Am empath.Hasn't been easy to deal with.But now finally do.Didn't believe my life.Could be the way it is now.But was the toughest job I've ever done.Never give up myself again.❤

[@CandacevanDell]

Thank you for sharing 🤍🤍🤍✨

[@btlfilmmedia9514]

Thanks ,you've really got handle on this childhood trauma

[@CandacevanDell]

Thank you so much!!!

[@GodHelpMe369]

Raised by a father who could be very vindictive at times and couldn’t tolerate the sight of us, just like his mother couldn’t tolerate the sight of him and rejected him at birth. I learned to navigate a volatile environment where doing something wrong, or saying one wrong word could lead to escalation and devastation. It was very confrontational to realize that unconsciously my programming wanted chaos. Before accusing someone of wronging or rejecting you, I invite you to do somatic inquiry. Check into your body as you may be surprised to uncover deep-seated programming driven by repression that has been shaping your perception all along.

[@vtmfitness]

Wowwwwwwwww..... i am 42, use to watch more of your videos my Maybe 6 years ago but life got away on me and i haven't for about 2 years! My son just turned 3 and this hit me so hard! I've "been fine" for years but now that i have him I want to learn how to control my emotions more! I want to be an example for him ❤ Thank you so much for sharing your blessings!

[@reesebn38]

Thank you for the work you do. My life is F---! It will always be F--!

[@CandacevanDell]

You are welcome! I know there is a way for your life to change for the better. 💛✨💛

[@YGabi333]

WOWWW😱The black sheep story really did strike a note here😢Thank you again and again for these videos❤

[@CandacevanDell]

Yay I’m so glad it spoke to you! 🤍🤍✨

[@lindahowe7221]

Candace, spot on! I find this so helpful and clarifying. It seems I took on others put downs and was a kind of blind to seeing what was happening especially if my two brothers colluded with a jealous mother who preferred sons ?! Both brothers went into addictions one died at 64 the other dying slowly fighting a body wrecked by decades of substance abuse and not finding support in waking up.? Thank you so much! Linda H.

[@tyler6320]

6:28 - this part!! 🔥

[@CandacevanDell]

🤍🤍🤍

[@Morelove4ever8]

I just love you and your energy! You radiate light! You’ve helped me so much on my healing journey!

[@CandacevanDell]

Thank you so much!! That means a lot! Thank you so much for being here ✨✨✨

[@Bearlyontime]

You are so amazing Candace. I've been away for a hot minute but come back when I need refueling ❤

[@averyscusis1462]

I just love the work you do, thank you for being you for others likecme...it's changing my life

[@CandacevanDell]

This means the world to me. I’m so glad you are here. I truly love what I get to do in the world. 💜

[@starrvolkmer4044]

I love your channel and I’m a true believer of all that you are saying!! 💞💞

[@CandacevanDell]

Thank you so much!! 💛✨

[@antonyfernandez9066]

This resonated with me so much. Thank you 💚

[@CandacevanDell]

Very welcome!!!

[@lesliehunsinger7644]

Absolutely calling me.

[@CandacevanDell]

🫶🏻🫶🏻✨

[@mauriciocordoba952]

Thank you so much for making this video!!!! It has given me a complete new perspective.

[@praykshakashyap]

Can you talk more in detail about bpd and adhd please? Also thankyou so much for this!

[@drobbins678]

Good video and thoughts, thanks. From my experience and observation, a disorder is a result of trauma.

[@CandacevanDell]

Thank you and yes me too!!

[@winniewinkles]

Totally, there doesn’t seem to be much actual understanding of trauma and how it presents. Stoopid society.

[@CandacevanDell]

Exactly!!!

[@johndtwaldron]

calling to me

[@CandacevanDell]

🤍🤍✨

[@olgist1990]

Thank you so much for all your work! 🤍 I agree with what you said here. And for those who need to understand a bit more about those coping mechanisms after developmental trauma I really recommend book: Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker. There’s a whole section in this book about misdiagnosis. It is a very comprehensive and validating read.

[@CandacevanDell]

Beautiful!