“Every noise is too loud, every light is too bright” are the most relatable words I’ve heard in a long time
@star539-k7z9 ай бұрын
I totally agree, and it's hard when someone else just goes "oh it's not that loud/bright you'll be fine"
@paulaburton56679 ай бұрын
Same
@BranchDavidian-9 ай бұрын
Yesss
@lemurianchick8 ай бұрын
But you know what? Why is that a disability to actually be sensitive to noise? Did anyone ever think that the people who don't flinch at loud booms are the ones with the problem? My feeling is that autism is now being widely overdiagnosed. Even Aspergers, which is mild on the spectrum, was characterized by peculiar intonation (which this young woman doesn't have), lack of self-awareness (again, I don't see it here) and social inappropriateness. A person can be introverted and socially awkward, as well as sensitive to sensory matters without having a disorder.
@sciencenotsrigma8 ай бұрын
Yes…and every odor is too pungent!
@TRXST.ISSUES11 ай бұрын
Happy for you, having answers helps so much
@TVNerd311 ай бұрын
Love you Zara, glad you are finding out who you are, because that's one of the most important things in life. Keep going ❤❤❤❤
@localcinephile-f2411 ай бұрын
As a member of the autistic community, we welcome you! Glad things make sense now and you’re seeing the positive!
@holly505759 ай бұрын
It sure does help to know why we are who we are! It is freeing!
@martip122b8 ай бұрын
@@holly50575 i totally agree!
@Amyisntcreative11 ай бұрын
Really happy for you and glad you're okay, you definitely deserve every bit of success you get. It's really heartwarming to see you always staying positive
@megxme_10 ай бұрын
frr and MINAAA
@jessicaspittal7549 ай бұрын
That was like me but with ADHD. I'm glad you have finally figured out why you are different and glad that you are much happier now that you know. ❤
@Sonderax8 ай бұрын
got my diagnosis with ASD, more specifically Aspergers when i was around 11 and it changed my life. Didnt know why i felt like i didnt fit it, why did i struggle with what others perceive as "normal" things, why i was over-stimulated by something as simple as shopping and once i got the letter through with my diagnosis it was like a lightbulb moment. "Wait, that makes a ton of sense". I kinda figured you was Autistic when i found your content as a lot of what you've shared and talked about match my experiences with it, but didnt know you wasnt diagnosed until now. Im happy you've been given the diagnosis and know have more paths to helping you through life.
@itsjanessayo11 ай бұрын
I’m so happy to have found your channel again! I’ve been diagnosed with autism and most recently FND. You can’t even imagine the look on my face and the joy I felt when I found out that we’re more similar than I thought! It’s so nice to know there’s someone that can relate to me 😊
@xxroyalbloodxx191611 ай бұрын
Fellow autistic here, I’m so happy that you found peace in your diagnosis! It was peaceful for me as well. It’s not always easy, but as long as the right steps are taken, it’ll get easier. Stay strong ❤️❤️
@Taylorswiftisgorgous9 ай бұрын
Samee fellow autistic too
@jmg9998 ай бұрын
It's really wonderful that you feel comfortable sharing this. You're an amazing advocate and representative of the disability cimmunity.
@NotSunFLoW3R11 ай бұрын
I’m glad you’ve found yourself more Also I just got diagnosed with adhd and autism yesterday 😊❤
@chloeshaw810311 ай бұрын
Same
@ronjaj.addams-ramstedt102311 ай бұрын
* waves * in AutDHD solidarity, from Finland
@Sillynuggies10 ай бұрын
@@chloeshaw8103 Have a strong feeling that ur lying
@two_510 ай бұрын
@@Sillynuggiesyou dont know them and they arent asking for advice stop pushing your harmful opinion on others :)
@marvelousmechanical10 ай бұрын
@@Sillynuggies you dont even know them dude you cant just assume, they could actually have autism and adhd. all they said was 'same'
@notgettinganysleep11 ай бұрын
Love you Zara, as a teen with depression, anxiety, and tics.(maybe autism actully) your so comforting knowing i'm not alone in this ❤🩹
@AstraelDivine11 ай бұрын
You helped me get through my darkest times because its finally someone who understands, not just people who think they do Thank you
@GloriousPurpose-fj6gm11 ай бұрын
Congratulations! I am so excited for the new content, I can’t wait! Welcome to the community! (You’ve always been a part of it. ❤) I wish you the best with this new chapter! Lots of love from us all!
@LegoWeeb11 ай бұрын
Yay! I'm so happy for you 😁 I grew up never fitting in and always told myself that there was something wrong with me and there's something that needs fixing. I came across autism about a year ago now and while I havent spoken to anyone about it or gotten any kind of support, it's so comforting to know I'm not broken, there's people like me that have gone through the same thing and what I can do to help myself
@TheEditMaker11 ай бұрын
i’m so happy u were able to figure out more about yourself and more ways to help you get through life :)))) u’ve helped me feel accepted with Tourette’s through ur videos and i hope that’s how people make u feel around you
@WillowWaffle9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I’m 11 and I couldn’t cope with anything. I had no friends, I struggled with severe anxiety when I moved to a new school and everything was too much. A couple of weeks ago, I found out I was slightly autistic- and my smile has returned. I’ve started watching your videos and they’ve taught me it’s okay to be different. Thank you. X
@Misszebyrobloxvideos7569 ай бұрын
im Autistic Anxiety and i have no friends
@totalcIown9 ай бұрын
Hey just letting you know you can't be "slightly autistic" you're either autistic or not it's on a spectrum of lower and higher support needs in your case I'm guessing it's lower support needs? (Not meaning to be rude I'm just informing :D)
@WillowWaffle9 ай бұрын
@@totalcIown yes. Sorry for not being clear. I have autism, but it’s not something that hugely affects my day to day life. In this case, it’s just like a case of bad anxiety for me :)
@UrRandomKiwi9 ай бұрын
@@totalcIownThet just mean that they have higher functioning autism i believe
@ambersimmons432911 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you! Thank you for sharing your journey for those of us who are going through similar things! ❤️
@Nightmare-ish10 ай бұрын
CONGRATULATIONS!!! I got diagnosed a few months ago, so I know how you feel! It's so amazing to finally learn about why you feel so different from the world, and learning you're autistic allows you to find a community of people with similar experiences. It's truly amazing, and I'm so happy for you that you finally get to experience that feeling too!!! :D
@abigailbye371811 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you ❤ and I am autistic myself and I am so happy I found you on KZbin because you have really helped me understand other people and myself so I just want to say thank you
@cairozephyr11 ай бұрын
congrats on your diagnosis! i’m glad you were finally able to get an answer that matched your experiences! -an autistic person that really hopes this comes off as genuine
@Anastacha_Mikaelys11 ай бұрын
YAYY IM SO HAPPY 4 YOU I’m in the process of getting my autism and adhd diagnosis(it will be a few months) you inspire me so much because I’ve felt the same way my whole life
@WhimsyCourier11 ай бұрын
I am so excited for you!!!! Having the answer to all those questions seems so freeing.💛 I am 33 and realized in the last couple months that I think I am autistic too. I have neuropsych testing this summer. So excited for it!
@ericspagnoli159411 ай бұрын
You are excited to get tested? You don't have autism. Get a grip
@ronjaj.addams-ramstedt102311 ай бұрын
@@ericspagnoli1594 You are claiming to diagnose a stranger on the Internet based on one sentence. How about you chill?
@aishatothecore11 ай бұрын
A similar story happened to me, i felt severe depression because i was frustrated with myself, and found out i have adhd. I'm so happy that you are experiencing the same experience of relief of finally understanding yourself and finding answers!
@stilltheree11 ай бұрын
I'm so glad for you, you are inspiring for people like me who don't fit in, who don't fit in society's way of living. I'm struggling but seeing someone defying the odds is definitely amazing :p
@Fennec57411 ай бұрын
That’s great! I’m glad u got ur diagnosis!
@OctoLink-12Ай бұрын
Zara I feel I have to thank you for this video because without I don’t think I would have ever found out I’m autistic, so from the bottom of my heart, thank you ❤
@M00N_IVY11 ай бұрын
I really love cc like you for sharing your struggles and advocating your disabilities. I haven't processed it, but at the end of last year and TODAY, I officially got diagnosed with FND! .(functional seizures/tics is what they are calling it) I am also autistic and the majority of my struggle for my disabilities is being autistic. I am deeply struggling with life, mostly work(I have no clue what to do anymore 😅) but you being open is going to help a lot of people feel less alone! It's nice to know Im not the only one. I wish the absolute best for you!❤
@MickeyMouse11-ls1ef10 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you, I used to feel like you before I got my diagnosis in ADHD, understanding why you feel different and why you do certain things helps you cope❤️❤️
@oxBLUNTxo10 ай бұрын
This is honestly refreshing... this hit me different you kinda said what ive wanted too... thank you!
@jinieviko210111 ай бұрын
I'm glad for you that you finally have an answer to your struggles! My sister is autistic too and we found out late. She was 15 so I'm a 100% with you
@CharlotteHuntington-m3j10 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you! I have always felt that I was different, feeling like I didn’t fit right, and always masking my autism and feeling that I’m weird because nobody acted like me, but then I realized I’m autistic, and it just feels s9 much better.
@Scarlett-b5u10 ай бұрын
so happy that your finding yourself! i myself have autism and i can relate to you how happy i felt when i finally understood why i felt different. i’m so proud❤❤❤
@loup41199 ай бұрын
Life's so odd. I was following carefully your every post like last year. Since, I've been a bit less on the apps, and I'm just coming back and checking how you've been. And then I learn that you had your diagnosis too ! Welcome in the spectrum ;) I hope the community will elevate you, I personnally love it 💜✨
@-Bloomy-11 ай бұрын
I remember the day I was diagnosed as autistic, and this day, I felt like flying. It was so good to finally have THE response of why I couldn’t do this or that… I’m so happy for you 🎉🎉
@wonktootie7 ай бұрын
Happy to see that great smile on your face. It feels so good to understand ourselves and to share that with others ❤
@kkhagen217010 ай бұрын
I’m so proud of you for advocating for yourself! The part where you happy stimmed just like I do made me cry of happiness!
@DownBadAutistic9 ай бұрын
I've been somewhat self-diagnosed as autistic for about a year, so my therapist agreeing w me that I'm autistic felt amazing!!!
@samuelbraun84911 ай бұрын
I feel so happy for you, that you found clarity as to why you struggled so much with all those things you mentioned. I‘ve been diagnosed with ASD at 25 years old and it is really a relieve.
@MiishaMii8 ай бұрын
Getting a diagnosis can be so good for your mental health. I really felt that when you said you finally understand yourself. My BPD and PTS diagnosis helped me so much. I'm so glad for you ♡
@JO-E20039 ай бұрын
So happy for you, knowing these things always helps understanding who we are, especially in a confusing world where it's so difficult to understand why we don't fit in, but I hope you know that it's actually a good thing because nearly all the great people were on the spectrum so keep being your wonderful self and show the world that you are amazing. I believe in you and I know you can do anything you set your mind to
@snipelfritz11 ай бұрын
I just found your channel, and I'm so impressed. You're such a strong person!
@chiku4010 ай бұрын
So happy for you to have your answer. My wife has FND and both her and my daughter were diagnosed last week with Autism. I’ve followed your channel for a long time to better understand my wife’s FND and it’s amazing to see you going through journey at the same as my family here in New Zealand
@BRICKTHEOGXD11 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you ❤it’s alway an amazing feeling to know why people might act differently to what people do outside the norm :D
@xxnukexx183310 ай бұрын
I love you so much. You and your story are so amazing and inspiring 😊 keep living your best life.
@pjsopinion80287 ай бұрын
I am so happy for you to have the answer to so many questions you’ve had this long time! I subscribed! I can’t wait to see more of the REAL you young lady! 👏🏻💙
@SsroseL9 ай бұрын
So Happy for you!!! I totally relate! I was a bit unsure how I felt when I first discovered I was autistic but after accepting it- it is the most freeing feeling in the world ❤️🕊️
@samallisonhiller196710 ай бұрын
I just got diagnosed with ADHD and it has been so relieving to know why I act the way I do. I'm so happy that you were able to get your diagnosis continue being amazing girl 💝
@LueezBee00710 ай бұрын
Thanks for posting, your happy smiling pretty face is a beacon and it also makes me (and I guess thousands of others) happy. It’s lovely to see positivity. Thanks for making me smile today x
@emilystrobel706410 ай бұрын
I also got diagnosed with autism. It changed my perspective on how I act and feel. It made me feel better about myself and why I do things the way I do. I’m here for you Zara and Ilysm💗💗
@donnabolland622810 ай бұрын
❤ good luck with your new understanding. Your still so young and your doing so well xx
@katymitchell82008 ай бұрын
Your platform is AWSOME. I'm excited to be watching you. Thank you ❤❤
@loriesteck2357Ай бұрын
I'm later in life DX with ADHD and high functioning Autism myself. Also FND with PNES. I've been reading that there is a high comobility between Autism and FND . I'm so glad you are putting the spotlight on this. Especially Females with Autism. Thank you for sharing your story and bravery. 🙏❤️
@amberrogers25988 ай бұрын
I love this. You are a beautiful soul. Having a son with autism. I think for me the best day that we've ever had was when he was able to explain to me what it was like to be in his world. To see things the way that he sees them. It gave me an insight that helped me to understand him better. I've always tried to be his strength and his Rock. And he is so strong and so amazing. I could not be more proud of him.
@MandyLouWhobaby10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you feel like you can share. I love your videos ❤❤
@its.me.mj.anotherone9 ай бұрын
Soooo happy for you!!! Got my diagnosis in the last month too and it's been so validating and helpful for my self-compassion ❤ enjoy your journey shift with this new information!
@brookiejoy169211 ай бұрын
I was in a very similar situation as you. I have always felt weird and different around others. I got diagnosed with autism a few months before I turned 18. It felt very relieving knowing why things have felt so difficult for me all my life. My diagnosis made it easier for me to let down my mask and be myself. Don't get me wrong though...it still can be extremely difficult! Sometimes people wonder if I was always autistic or if it came on suddenly (they don't realize that it didn't come on suddenly...that I was just VERY good at masking). My diagnosis has 100% made things much clearer for me.
@minecraftjswx211 ай бұрын
super hapy for you zara that you have found out your answers to why you struggled and I'm looking forward to your upcoming vids hope you are having a amazing day
@Stars.adventuers11 ай бұрын
Me just following up on my phone cus I'm not meant to be up I've been diagnosed with autism for a long time since I was little but only recently did I actually like do research on why I do what I do and I have answers to stuff and it does feel fufiling knowing also I think I may have other stuff but that's a hole other thing ❤❤❤
@Stars.adventuers11 ай бұрын
Ps we apologise for the spelling ❤
@wanderingpanic742911 ай бұрын
I am so happy you have gotten your diagnosis. I had a very similar reaction when I got mine. It just allows me to finally be me. And thank you for all your videos, I find them very relatable 🤗
@tinkerstoyscox7 ай бұрын
I am one American who sees a beautiful young woman with the strength above all men and proud of you and what you are doing to educate the people of this world. I wish I had your strength to keep fighting the good fight as you have. God bless you and your family.
@TNL367910 ай бұрын
The fact you're still his is a lot and the fact that he's got grown community and use the overcome. This is great! Well done you 👍🏻😊
@VickyLynn38 ай бұрын
Knowing what you are dealing with is empowering. Keep being lovely you!
@Oliviarodrigofan32110 ай бұрын
I’m so happy you can feel like yourself I would of hate to not know what I have also I love your channel and will continue to support you
@jjbearz227511 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you... I'm in the middle of getting an autism diagnosis and I'm starting to understand why I'm the way I am... I'm proud of you for sharing your story 😊❤
@MyHumanSuit11 ай бұрын
I am so happy for you! I found out last year and working towards primary diagnosis AuDHD + CPTSD.This has also changed my life and I'm learning about myself. 😊
@edwardfish35406 ай бұрын
Congratulations on this new level of awareness of yourself. I recall when I was diagnosed as being autistic when I was 38 years old made a difference for me too. ❤
@feliciaalmen866510 ай бұрын
As an autistic person myself I can't wait to hear your story!! ❤️
@ZoeRazzino3011 ай бұрын
Your describing me in every word. I have been researching autism and I know i am on the spectrum 💖
@caminoalavirtud11 ай бұрын
😊😊😊 welcome to the ASD community 🤗🤗🤗🤗 I just found out im Autistic too OMG it explained so much 👍👍👍 allways remember you are Amazing just the way you are 🤗🤗🤗🤗
@travelwell604911 ай бұрын
Happy for you 🎉 It can be such a burden lift to know there is a reason and you (and others) can make sense of what your experiences are.
@lethalprincess20879 ай бұрын
Glad to hear this. I got diagnosed as an adult (19) too, so I’m happy to hear you got your diagnosis. Autism can be a living hell, but also? My brain makes the most sense in this crazy world, and honestly, I hope for you that this is closure like it was for me.
@Mystic_elf13711 ай бұрын
I’m so happy you got a diagnosis and felt like you could share ❤❤❤
@AirborneAshes10 ай бұрын
i'm so happy for everyone who doesn't have to go through the awkward undiagnosed but aware of the issue stage. very emotionally rashy and sweaty experience. congrats!
@shee-p7 ай бұрын
Congratulations!!! Really happy for you! PS: I just found this chanel lol but you seem really nice and is just overall nice to see late diagnosed people, it gives me hope for me personally to get my adhd diagnosis and is just nice to see people beeing happy and confortable with themselves after finding more about how themselves and hwo they work! I'm trully happy for you!
@bonniepaora86649 ай бұрын
Im self diagnosed, but just finally fining out why i am the way i am and what i can do to help, has been humongous for me, Absolutely life changing. Not just because i know why, but because i can have compassion for myself, instead of beating myself up about it
@themookshit8 ай бұрын
self diagnosing yourself is dangerous.
@yuuokami21568 ай бұрын
@@themookshit No, it's not. It literally harms no one.
@themookshit8 ай бұрын
@@yuuokami2156 🤡
@kimyrose628710 ай бұрын
Im currently getting assesed for ADHD and OCD, and my symptoms have really left me without confidence due to my struggles with coping with myself. Im more confident now seeing you express yourself as a neurodivergent person with self love 😊
@rachelbenadie38139 ай бұрын
Damn girl to have all that you have and still smile and live your life and do what you do is wonderfully amazing
@toni554311 ай бұрын
So happy for you girl. And selfishly, im so happy for me for all the autism content about to drop 😭🥰
@pigeonhofmann375611 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you got diagnosed! I'm also autistic! To be honest, I was convinced that you'd already shared your autism diagnosis 😅
@stevenwatsham59736 ай бұрын
Autism is actually a gift!.. When I got my diagnosis it was a game changer...
@tobyameson31599 ай бұрын
Congratulations Zara on your diagnosis and the world of acceptance and discovery it opened up for you
@xirisx198811 ай бұрын
I'm so happy you know why you are struggling with social things and sensory issues. I got my autism diagnosis at age 17 and now I'm 35. Feel free to ask me anything if you need. It's a big thing, but you're not alone.
@jacquiegardner74229 ай бұрын
So pleased for you that you have answers. Still waiting at 53... wish someone had suggested the possibility as a teen, years not fitting in, not understanding... waiting for diagnosis.
@Delulubooklover10 ай бұрын
Having answers does help so much, because now not only do we know where our problems come from, but we may be able to develop better coping mechanisms
@Jokerman954011 ай бұрын
As someone who also got recently diagnosed with autism, I’m really happy that you got yours. I’m bad at wording things, so sorry if this doesn’t sound right, but I’m glad that you can fully understand why you are the way you are.
@teagenthetiefling52969 ай бұрын
I felt real joy at being diagnosed (and other things of course) because finally there was an answer
@KennisRussellMusic11 ай бұрын
I am Autistic and have ADHD too. My son is also an AuDHDer and also has Tourette Syndrome. Your videos have been very helpful in my understanding my son’s Tourette better. Thank you for that. And welcome to the ASD club. Looking forward for to seeing your content about unpacking ASD.
@thelethaldosageofme24811 ай бұрын
i love how the toddler video still looks exactly like you because you have absolutely stunning eyes ❤
@jenniferferreira90619 ай бұрын
You are one very special young woman. I’m so glad you researched and kept trying to figure out what was wrong. ❤❤❤❤.
@aniadudek691811 ай бұрын
I love your profile. It' a safe space. I'm happy you are finding out more about yourself❤
@SubaruPieter7 ай бұрын
I'm happy for you that you found your answer!! Also, it's very relatable because I'm autistic as well, and I have ADHD Have a great day!!!
@MeqhhMM2_11 ай бұрын
Ur so strong girlll❣ keep going!
@clarabelle513811 ай бұрын
My 10yr old son has ASD, ADHD, TS & OCD. I worry so much for his future, he is struggling with so many things but we tackle each day & do our best. Looking forward to your future content. 🫶🫶
@Unimaginative.Moniker10 ай бұрын
That's beautiful. I just found out myself at the age of 44! And, yes, it has been eye-opening and so freeing! I've told by professionals that I'm more or less crazy, with at least 4 personality disorders! I've carried that weight for so long, but it never REALLY made sense. Then, a Dr saw what was really going on with me. Congratulations! I know exactly how you feel! ☺️
@Starmangler11 ай бұрын
Im so happy you were able to get a answer❤❤ the wait was worth it❤❤❤❤
@silvercandra427511 ай бұрын
Hey, welcome to the club! Took me personally 20 years to figure out, but yeah, it does just feel like things suddenly make far more sense.
@myworldautistic68396 ай бұрын
I am so happy for you! I found out at 47. So excited for you in your new journey of self discovery. 💗
@djcarascene526810 ай бұрын
You’re a beautiful person inside and out 🩵🩵🩵
@wookiwoo11 ай бұрын
Hi Zara!! Id LOVE it if you could talk/share your experience with autism and the diagnosis journey as I'm on that journey too of getting diagnosed. It would really help knowing your experiences!! I'm so happy for you Zara ❤
@anaisdebeaumont95719 ай бұрын
A couple of months ago my parents got mad at me because I spoke very quietly and it made everyone around me make me repeat. But I hadn't noticed, in fact I think I was overwhelmed because it felt like everyone around me was shouting. I'm autistic too and it always surprises me how much I perceive the world so differently from everyone around me. Also my sensitivity changes from time to time.