My Father, Transwoman - Emma's Story - Audio Podcast - S3 Ep2 Pt1

[@nessn4737]

Has that man ever done anything that didn’t centre himself? What a women to come through her upbringing so balanced and generous. As a stranger I am so angry that she hasn’t had longterm fulfilling relationships, he probably hasn’t even noticed. Narcissist.

[@wormwoodcocktail]

Nah. He’s too coombrained. That’s why women need to get prenups so we can stop these men from breeding. We need to eradicate this mental illness.

[@lesleyfarrington4809]

They don't get softer, they prioritise their fetish and their fetishy mates.

[@bearsagainstevil]

They seem total selfish bastards

[@mrshonourable]

So interesting, I loved this episode. Maybe his attitude towards his daughter changed, because she went from a little girl to a woman. And it’s clear that a lot of transwomen envy biological women, so seeing his daughter be something he could never be triggered his jealousy.

[@bearsagainstevil]

They seem to also really dislike women what struck me is the ones that take up sports like boxing where they can beat up women ,I remember the one famous case of a man who never boxed guys but transitioned and then fractured a womens skull . a lot of my family boxed or taught boxing and I grew up doing martial arts and contact fighting sports and you want to fight people who are a challenge with these guys it seems they just want to assault women ,

[@catherinerobilliard7662]

I thought much the same thing.

[@lesleyfarrington4809]

You two are amazing women x

[@lesleyfarrington4809]

They are often lovely until they start talking about their ex's and kids who want anything from them then the real man comes out.

[@shiftshift6926]

Bless you Emma, this is such a brutally honest account. Thank you for sharing.

[@richardbanker3910]

“I won’t love you” is despicable emotional blackmail. No attempt to provide reasons. She was being used. He was a lousy exploitative father

[@msshrill3681]

Emma is awesome. Thanks for sharing this story that will help people including children of parents who are narcissists or had other issues

[@wendyhandy9065]

Thank you for sharing your experience & showing what an intelligent grounded woman. ❤

[@wormwoodcocktail]

All men who transition into “women” should lose all their marital assets to their wives and be barred from seeing their children every again. These men should never be left alone with women and children, especially girls.

[@cactusblob1688]

It happened to my brother when he abandoned his wife and 3yo. They got every penny HE made for 18 years.

[@wormwoodcocktail]

@@cactusblob1688 Good. I’m glad that you see your brother for what he is. Hope the rest of your family is a source of peace.

[@vekkstar]

I think men who sexually abuse their children should be banned from seeing them, except they very often are not. I happen to be a survivor who was forced into circumstances that gave him access. I wish the women's network would do a show on this matter, which is very widespread.

[@wormwoodcocktail]

@ That is brutal. Ever talk to Runaway Siren? I think she did a whole bunch of interviews. And I hope things get easier, friend.

[@daisyviluck7932]

“I won’t love you anymore” is the mantra of TS/TG, even the kids are brainwashed to say that to their parents.

[@tablescissors]

Holy 💩, did not know that.

[@daisyviluck7932]

@@tablescissors the kids learn this tactic online. LGBT activists encourage kids to go No Contact with family members who disagree with them. The family members don’t have to be abusive or cruel, they’re simply not permitted to have their own opinions. LGBT activists are also fond of mantras like “if you don’t love me the way I want to be loved, you never loved me.” (Lines like this in any other relationship would be considered manipulative and controlling). This is so much a cult in the way it has manifested with young people. Not just the TG, but the entire LGBT is this way.

[@siobhannoble8545]

​@@daisyviluck7932Please stop lumping the LGB in with the T. Need I remind you that this whole TERF nonsense began when lesbians were harassed by men in dresses and called bigots for not wanting to sleep with them.

[@oliverhug3]

@@siobhannoble8545 what I was going to say.

[@samanthathompson9812]

This sounds like my father but without the transsexual part. Great with me as a small kid, underwent personality change, had affairs, decided he didn't love his wife and kids anymore, gradually distanced himself, sees himself as a victim of something we have done to him, now we don't speak. I wouldn't say I've survived it though. It kind of blighted my life.

[@louiseparker1915]

What a sad story. The poor wife. The abused little girl.

[@billmartins5545]

What horrible abuse by her parents. So, so sad. Thanks for sharing your story!

[@insidiousmischka]

This is horrific. The father was a horrific abuser. This is straight up 100% abuse.

[@shonabeggs4640]

Absolutely hearbreaking to listen to this. Her father showing no interest let alone worry for this lady when she had cancer. He should have taken the reins to do everything he possibly could to help her on a practical & emotional level. 😪

[@Queen-of-Swords]

Can't say there is any Trans in my family, but there is narcissism, and I shed a couple of tears during this because of similar experiences. I mean, imagine having cancer and your dad not being in the slightest bit interested. Or him expecting you to explain everything about him to someone else, as if that task were beneath him? My father is a narcissist who was periodically violent, he very rarely seemed cheerful, always like he was about to explode. And so I learned to watch people very VERY carefully. My mother is more covert, but although she has some narcissistic behaviours, I believe she is more sociopathic. She "accidentally" got pregnant with me so she could get out of living at her parents. That was a bad move. Because she only had children as a means to attaining other things, she developed awful post-natal depression when faced with actually having to care for us. My father's kind response to this was to wallop her any time she got too out of line. Anyway. I have some similarly painful recollections and the worst thing of all, is always the lack of love. My mother quite regularly said she was incapable of loving other people, she only loved herself - she said this because she knew I felt sorry for her. At least it made it easier later on to identify the narcissism. I wouldn't wish living with a narcissist on anyone, but the fact is they make up quite a large percentage of the population. I'm at a stage where I've kind of given up on trying to have friends or lovers, because I always end up an N.

[@shonabeggs4640]

Maybe you're just an introvert, rather than everyone you meet being narcs'? Can I ask if you are an only child?. I was and am an introvert. I think that may play a part too.

[@lizlanman47]

I hope that you consider therapy. It can be very helpful ! Good luck to you!

[@samanthathompson9812]

Same

[@frusia123]

Thank you for sharing this conversation

[@Wild_flower_415]

Amazing conversation.

[@lisa8220]

So real.

[@daraorourke5798]

Jan Morriss is regarded as a bit of a hero , being a trans pioneer and a great travel writer. But Jan was very critical of his daughter. And Mrs Jan did all the boring housework and child rearing. Jan continued as before except in different clothing.

[@bearsagainstevil]

Sad that he married or had children although I suppose if he hadn't Emma wouldn't be here , but if your a delusional selfish crazy person really you should avoid marriage

[@Whet-wb9jt]

So these ogres think theyre better than us. You can't make this stuff up

[@Sillydk-ot6dk]

Way too long and confusing questions, the interviewer is almost talking more than the guest.

[@juliettejuliette-bf8df]

Yeh terrible interviewing.

[@helenestiernstrand6575]

Tip from a journalist: Dont load the questions so much. The questions are to ”talky”. Ask short open questions.

[@stanleyfox4201]

you spelt ;to' wrong

[@helenestiernstrand6575]

@@stanleyfox4201 Im Swedish so thats just a thing that happens sometimes. I bet you cant spell Swedish worth💩

[@stanleyfox4201]

@@helenestiernstrand6575 very true! You got me there 😂

[@helenestiernstrand6575]

@@stanleyfox4201 😉