My Mom Went from Millionaire CEO to Bankruptcy after 6 Divorces

#china #marriage #divorce #chinese #relationship #family
Everything I said in this video is based on 100% true story, Ladies, please stay until the end, I really want to help you!
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[@taylorman40x9]

"My sister is a whore" 😂😂😂😂... had me dying....😂😂😂

[@bacsolo3719]

I get it bro. My ex-wife left me because of money issue, it was never enough. She was taking care of 8 other family members who nobody else in her family contributed. She is 45 now and is trying to get a divorce with me to marry a 60 year old from Europe, instead of focusing on us and our future. I had a great job but it was never enough.

[@ShaneGrimes-pi3vf]

Where you from bro sounds like philippines

[@bacsolo3719]

@ShaneGrimes-pi3vf Thailand, and she was from the countryside. Nothing wrong about being poor but when nobody in her family contributes and is financially dependent on one person in her family, Sheeet,,, I could be here all night but I'm just gonna put the mic down.

[@bacsolo3719]

​@ShaneGrimes-pi3vf Oh, and all her friends got old farts for husband and boyfriends, and they all look like they are in their late 20's/ 30's.

[@josephbranch2342]

In Thailand, there's a saying" love don't eat". They are always looking for the best deal financially.

[@allseeingotto2912]

🙏🏻

[@skarscalp8157]

No reason to get married in the modern age. Its not worth it.

[@hollowgonzalo4329]

@skarscalp8157 It can help with immigration sometimes i guess

[@Mira-gu6we]

Its not worth it for women or men.

[@dmvfilms]

Kids need to be in a stable home, and that means marriage. If noone is willing to be married, the society will go extinct.

[@asdfgh-uh6cy]

@@dmvfilms Marriage doesn't guarantee "a stable home". Many married couples with children cheat on each other constantly. You should stop repeating talking-points from right-wing pundits, and start thinking for yourself.

[@asura8495]

who marries someone that initiated divorce 5 times?

[@mistahsusan2650]

a soon-to-be sixth ex-husband?

[@PunditKING]

She sure as hell doesn't say that when meeting men lol.

[@hoobeydoobey1267]

A childhood friend is a hard core whack a do leftist (narcissist). She's been married and divorced 4 times and wouldn't you know it, none of them are her fault. What gets me are the men who married her. She came close to being married a 5th time, but he came developed cancer and she wouldn't marry him, then he passed. Simps abound today. Read Genesis 3. Women lure men away from God to Satan. Men go willingly because they don't want to be alone.

[@popemuhammed5749]

weak desperate men

[@alphach1mp]

The ones that let them have all 3 holes any time and need to share the guy she is giving it up to.

[@joshgrey7961]

This channel is crazy underrated

[@1mattwilliams1]

Yes. This is a very smart dude. Entertaining!

[@koalabear206]

I died at 'stepfather of the year, town bicycle' 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@I-m-out]

The moment he talked about the character of family in Chinese he almost cried I could see that coming from heart.

[@mikeshanklin]

This guy is 100% honest! I love it! Thank you for being honest. Continue to call out the degenerates!

[@marktapley7571]

Divorce rate in the U.S. is ap. 56% for first time marriages. Most last about 7-8 years. Women always want more and the point is reached where there is no more the man can give her. At that point it’s time for her to file for divorce in order to max out on cash and prizes. Men need to avoid marriage.

[@alfx5432]

I thought Chinese women were different than American women, I'm surprised.

[@Ffoo_ffighter]

As an Asian , y'all have no idea. You believe that all asian girls are feminine and innocent. Lol 😂😂😂😂 she forced to act that way.. lol.

[@NotstarvinMarvin]

Even if u find them in a brazilian forest, they will be the same ;)

[@snchea5764]

Me too 🧐😯

[@nhuhdoify]

It is the percentage, mind you. In the West, you find 9 bad women out 10. The good one is just a unicorn. In the East, maybe you will find 5 or 6 bad ones. I am making arbitrary numbers here. But I think you get the idea.

[@stevenc4701]

Don't be surprised. You have to realize that women in other parts of the world are getting Westernized or Americanized. So eventually, wherever you go, no marriageable women will be left.

[@foughtthelol]

My late father's first wife, got drunk and adultered with guys. My father divorced, but got the custody of my step siblings thankfully. The official was totally on his side. My sister? narcistic sociopath who has had kids from two marriages and the unions broke due to she drove the men away as she was utterly selfish in everything, she cannot be alone, she goes through men from online dating, she is very much like the prmiscious women you describe in every regard.

[@atmas1337]

Your sister should unironically be in jail...

[@AlexTheLi0n]

Man thanks for being so open and vulnerable and sharing your story. I must say that I was moved by your family's journey and I definitely get the message. Hearing your story has definitely changed my perspective and going fwd I will work to be a better person. Thank you!

[@azmodanpc]

6 friggin divorces...Man that is harsh. Hypergamy knows no limits.

[@TsarOfRuss]

I just wanna know how hot she is, cus there is no way anyone is marrying a woman who has been divorced 3 times

[@bkthedefbeatz]

That is why our fore fathers compressed hypergamy by limiting n shaming female sexuality

[@aMissAdventure]

The story of crappy parents is very relatable 😢

[@trolleyproblem4318]

Only reason for divorce is Briffault's law.

[@ChineseHistorian2022]

China needs new marriage laws to prevent women from marrying again and reduce alimony to 2 years if the women files for divorce. Unless something drastically changes. The population is doomed. That’s why so many are avoiding marriage and commitment

[@core5748]

@@ChineseHistorian2022 I believe divorce is illegal in Philippines. Not sure how that has made an impact maybe you could research and do a video on it, if you see this comment

[@I-m-out]

Marriage is For rich for poor , in health and in sickness ,my guy you are legend

[@bevs9995]

after 3rd divorce, there is no point in getting remarried

[@JasonReborn-hc6lx]

After the 1st one

[@user-qv4bp7vg6u]

After 1st one..its all her fault by the way.

[@MyndMythos]

@@SpizzzinConsidering the success rate for second marriages are 30%, I agree

[@날Gnarleigh리]

Once is enough

[@Paperheartparticles]

I don’t believe in divorce so hearing someone has been divorced that many times… absolutely incredible. What on earth is going on here?

[@MrUFCFan12345]

That’s crazy women want men to approach, propose, but have no problem initiating divorce lmao

[@SJtheMFZB]

Gotta get a better read on her. She probably elicits many tells to that effect that we ignore because we're horny.

[@briandrake6881]

This channel is awesome.

[@andreewing05]

The town bicycle 😅

[@topfacts7768]

Absolutely

[@gdup1728]

Damn. That’s his mom. Chill

[@digitally_ascended_conscio6304]

My mother has a similar experience, but only 2 divorces. Is left with nothing in her old age. Good planning lol.

[@mscir]

Hang in there bro, you can be a great dad. The Christians in the US used to have a thing called marriage encounter, where you both meet someone who presents you with all kinds of hypothetical situations and you both discuss how you woulud react. And also try to marry someone you've known for years so you can see what her character is like in good times and bad times too. Total agreement, toxic feminism is a very destructive force tearing apart our cultures. You can be a great dad, and you could be great in an orphanage or something similar. You're a good man, keep doing what you're doing.

[@julianlewis-bs7rw]

Thank you so much for your honesty. Being raised in poverty causes so many ills. Took decades of pain to learn this.

[@harry6083]

One has to empathize and understand why the way Chinese Historian is in terms of his philosophy and outlook on life. Poor bro has been through a lot and the kinds of crap that one should not experience. For one if you plan to marry and have children/start a family don't be so damn messed up. Your children are the ones who are going to bear the blunt and pay for it.

[@jameshu7882]

xiao (孝) is usually translated as filial piety

[@l_raage1663]

Thank you for sharing your story, it was informative and relatable🖤

[@poeticprincee9750]

Bro how can I reach out to you so we can be friends. You have a good heart brother. I’m seeing friends myself, I’m here in Houston Texas brother.

[@ChineseHistorian2022]

I’m trying to phase away from social media, the only one I plan on keeping is X. The link to my X page is under every video description.

[@EarthAngel504]

Lol. dude, i swear i was thinking the same thing.

[@martinithechobit]

damn boy thank you. good for the ladies to know.

[@redbullvodka5696]

Remember when people got sent to mad house, what happened? Half the population is nuts

[@EarthAngel504]

It is Impossible for women to love a man deeply the way men love.. It's like trying to ask a man to describe what labor pain feel like.. This is because men and women have 2 completely different ideas of what "Love" is.. Women think it is something they feel. Men understand it's is something you express through action, and it transcends feelings.

[@TheMusicmak3r]

Women are solipsistic

[@zuhasbekillin3461]

True

[@NotstarvinMarvin]

Let me tell you something. The only woman that really loves you is your mother. So when she is gone it will crush you once you realise this.

[@EarthAngel504]

@@NotstarvinMarvin I agree. I also believe women in general, Do not and can not love the way a man do. In fact, I'd go as far as saying a women can not unconditionally love a man unless he is biologically related to him. All other love from a woman is conditional. When understanding the biological differences. it kind of make sense.

[@allseeingotto2912]

@@EarthAngel504 so very true .

[@lovecandles5672]

so sad

[@ChineseHistorian2022]

Perhaps it was all meant to be, if she never filed for her first divorce. My Mom would have never founded the company and made all the money 💵

[@lpvgs-817]

great video thanks for sharing

[@hanknyc]

A good translation for 孝is filial piety.

[@k9ot5o]

Stay strong bro and do your best!

[@PureYang0]

After hearing all these stories I have even less motivation to get married on this planet in this lifetime. Maybe I should be put in cryogenic stasis for a few centuries, when I wake up in 500 years maybe marriage will be more viable.

[@watduh123]

He is so right. Had some problems like you. Don't know what is wrong with my mom. She Don't understand.

[@humptydumpty20]

Very insightful story. What about the 4th and 5th marriage?

[@qubit0002]

better to be single and content than married in toxic relationship

[@johnlohsm]

Very good advice.

[@SanroiCharles]

This guy expose his whole family !!! 😂🤣🤦🏾🤷🏾

[@davesmith5939]

23:18 - women are completely self-destructive

[@allseeingotto2912]

Agents of chaos .

[@DataGeek903]

Donr worry about not having a father figure. I have both parents but my father didnt teach me anything about girls. Keep at the grind, hit the weight room, eat well to gain muscle.learn a skill. Chase peefection not women. On your point about angry men, this is why china will seek war, 140M men who cant get a woman...frustrated with no outlet

[@rockon8174]

22:10 Saudi Arabia has a divorce rate of 75 percent. Guess who initiates the majority of those divorces? Also, women get degrees in Saudi Arabia because it raises her alimony payments come divorce time, which she will file. Also charging interest on loans in Saudi Arabia is illegal.

[@opengrapefruit1534]

75% what is your source?

[@khadyadjisall5708]

Lie. The divorce rate is 37% which is low compared to most other countries.

[@AR-ey1ur]

That's a good point about wmn being bad with money and why govmnts/corps prefer them than mn. What needs to happen now is for men to find the strength not to feel sorry for them and bail them out. Some say that the gvmnt will do that instead, but I doubt it will get them a decent life. Look after yourself.

[@maelstrom2313]

It goes even deeper. Psychological research indicates they are they highly suggestible, to a much greater degree than men. This means their perception of reality can be manipulated easier than men. Specifically, they are more susceptible to hypnotic suggestion. It's easy to implant ideas into their minds and override their own agency. This is why so much marketing is directed toward them. Why the majority of consumer spending is done by them. This is also the reason for many differences in our behavior, eg. Stockholm syndrome in abusive relationships. It's one of the main reasons why societies chose men as leaders. Their thoughts are more easily programmable. This is ultimately why bad guys, corporations, and politicians who truly understand how their minds work are able to get away with unspeakable things, all with their consent.

[@Genady-n5h]

Exactly like you said it, men feel sorry and don't hold wmn accountable, they treat them like an inferior being who is unable to think, act and have a moral compass

[@MyndMythos]

@@maelstrom2313They operate like a hive mind. The women encounter are very much similar in thoughts especially when it comes to social media. It’s quite sad tbh.

[@slimynaut]

I will never get married until they make divorce illegal

[@hoobeydoobey1267]

That's why men hate marriage and divorce today. Decades ago they made it very expensive for a man to desert his wife. Today, women have weaponized it such that they leave and take everything as if the man left her. That's why you don't make laws against things. Never. Stop thinking that laws solve problems.

[@shaunedwards4893]

Full blown Chinese Narcissist women. His mom. Poor guy, I hope you will find peace. Jesust Christ is our true love. His love never fails. Peace he brings.

[@lawrencelawrence3920]

Smart man, who has common sense and good observational skills.

[@bevs9995]

you were almost sold to the black market? gotta tell us that story

[@EM-tx3ly]

Apparently many Chinese children are sold into the black market from what I have heard and many organs sold especially from Uighurs

[@grad_student]

I learned today that divorce rate is so high in China

[@ra_redesignautomobiles]

Even south korea

[@jimbobhaha]

Sooo... Is she single!?

[@alfx5432]

The law should be you can only marry once in your life or unless your spouse dies.

[@ashuranero5721]

Women would start to poison their men, they did that in the west when divorce was not allowed

[@martinithechobit]

22:00 CONSOOMER!>

[@ericloo6576]

This is a nightmare. His mother changes father for her children.

[@I-m-out]

So what do you say to the one who has both parents but they never teach any valuable thing

[@seanoconnor1478]

Keep speaking the truth my man.✊️

[@samlape]

Regarding women spending money: "maybe you don't do it right now because you're broke..." -SAVAGE CHINESE HISTORIAN

[@sportsfisher9677]

Another societal challenge is institutional childcare, even good day care, still brings too much stress and attachment disorders, which makes it harder for even children from 2 parent households to not grow up without issues. This after affects are negative and make adult relationships and marriage even harder. This is tied into to everything else brought up in the comments and this channel.

[@mounirmandhouj7983]

Best option 4 men no marriage.girlfriend 4 long relationship

[@zuhasbekillin3461]

Facts

[@NotstarvinMarvin]

Its not easy to keep them for long without marrying, they start demanding shit..

[@Chantal-xt9ic]

Bonsoir 🐭how true all you are saying

[@Aikunle78]

不孝有三无后为大

[@davesmith5939]

24:06 - I think of it as mother nature and father time

[@vannhantran547]

glad I and my older sister have always had my father and mother figure in our life. Thus her marriage still going great after almost 6 years. My father did push her into marriage urgently after she turned 25 without almost none relationship, just flings. And she married my bother-in-law a boy with decent family after he pursuing my sister for 4 months straight

[@canadiankewldude]

My words keep getting taken away. Sorry for cryptic writing about man hor. Mone. Other comm-en-t. God Bless

[@SJtheMFZB]

Comment-not-posting bullshit?

[@날Gnarleigh리]

Even wealthy heiresses can go broke after few marriages.. titanic widow, woolworth heiress..

[@poonpoonsmith399]

Where is your sister now and do you have a picture of her?

[@ChineseHistorian2022]

In China, my Mom gave her house to her because my sister couldn’t pay rent anymore

[@watduh123]

Find jesus

[@huytruong7370]

I am personally Christian. You say your not religious, but all the problems you talked about especially with dating God outlined solutions and guidelines for humanity to succeed as a species. Don’t fornicate, the women is submissive to the man, monogamy, resist the lusts of the flesh. If you study the Bible I’m sure you will notice that a lot of the problems in the world would’ve been easily solved if people followed it.

[@aim-for-greatn3z947]

Haaaa 😂😂😂 Good luck with that! Most don't belive in Jesus. But after all I believe THIS is hell. I'm glad I'm not married and unless she follows the bible we are not getting married.

[@huytruong7370]

@@aim-for-greatn3z947 if you think this is Hell you really have no idea what Hell is like. You have light in this world, the ability to feel love and happiness in this world. In Hell there is no such thing. You will only feel pain and suffering for the sins you have committed. There is no light and only darkness. Jesus is the only way for forgiveness of sins. He died for our sins. Also, I highly doubt a Christian women will ever marry a man that is not right with God. The only reason God tells a women to submit to man because the man was not deceived by the devil in the garden. Why would a Christian women marry a man that has already been deceived in this world, not yet even finding the truth? Do you know who the truth is? Jesus said he is the truth, the way, and the life.

[@SJtheMFZB]

​@@aim-for-greatn3z947That's why the Lord charged us with the Commission, one of his primary directives.

[@SJtheMFZB]

'The it' is cult slang, just warning those who think it's a typo and that he's being sincere.

[@huytruong7370]

@@SJtheMFZB So you think all religions are cults? Hm? Is secularism a cult too? Worship of hedonistic pleasure and materialism is a cult also right?

[@claudenobles779]

great insights sir

[@riadhaider7065]

Hey man, I am 60 yrs old and married. I am in USA. I wanna council you and help you to love a woman and make your family. I want you to be happy. I don't want money, just want you the get your faith back in humanity.

[@FogelsChannel]

"I want to help.. I want to counsel.. I want I want ". Sounds like a you problem.

[@dre7018]

You been listening to patrice o'neal?

[@nightwishisthegreatestband6355]

Your mum and sister spending the profits is a them problem. Not womens' issue. The ability to save or invest is up to an individual. For example sports players are majority men who get paid millions of dollars in their active years. Yet 80% of them go broke.

[@TheCragg777]

Does Moms have any interest in doing an interview on your channel?

[@jonathanhuynh880]

Keep it up and keep safe

[@HYEOL]

No Virgin? No Ring.

[@orman2222]

I believe Undead Chronic coined the term "No Hymen, No Diamond." I'm not sure if KZbin banned him or de-monetized him, but he was very vocal with that motto.

[@watduh123]

7 months old vid . It june 11, 2024. How many shootings. Looting going on. Predicted future.

[@ljr1200]

...do CH know the origins of feminist propapanda?

[@josephhendricks2073]

👍

[@tolubamidele1508]

There is a reason why the women initiate divorce. Men don't need a divorce to be free. They can eat their cake and have it by staying married, keeping their family together, havibg the love of their childrn3, while having multiple relationships. Women don't have that option except the super crazy ones

[@XamarinPro]

Correction: It's impossible to be a "GOOD" mother and having a career.

[@ericp0012]

What are the solutions?

[@slimynaut]

Getting rid of women rights, its going to happen regardless, either we do it or the society that will replace us will do it. Its guaranteed to happen.

[@TheGuidedGenius]

In the 21st century marriage isn’t really in the benefit of most men in the vast majority of instances. Laws, system and culture are stacked against men in regards to the institution of marriage in much of the world it seems. Focus on developing yourself, laying the foundation of future enterprises and building a life of abundance and women will always magically pop out of thin air. 😅

[@AleheiyaMarnyaporn-mf3hs]

Babe, make sure you take care of yourself. There are a lot of bad people especially bad woman outside there. I suggest that you should stay single. You're good man and you're virgin. That means you want a good relationship. Make sure you find a good loyal virgin woman or just stay single. I'm sorry about your family

[@davidsantos8004]

real but funny

[@yoleeisbored]

So boomer... divorce remarry divorce remmarry... thats awful to witness as a kid

[@sarahfranco6802]

7:40

[@PunditKING]

Bro is romanticising the past. Their have always been high divorce rates never that low. Alway men like this makes excuses for woman and calling them victims especially with so much divorces. I've also not seen any Chinese woman marry for love (they will proudly say this) especially now, it's always been for money, even having to give money to marry them. I've also seen no vows of; for richer or poorer, sickness or health etc in Chinese ceremonies especially since their country is 95% atheist. So sadly because they are "mom's" they are not spoken of badly even when doing bad things. This is the difference between men and woman. This is what happens manly to ppl who have money as their god. Lesson learnt 1000s of years ago relived today.

[@sabrinagardner9494]

So sorry for what happened to you . There is continuous evil in man's heart. That's what the Bible says. Please, you are so smart. Read the Bible. Ask godrevil himself to you. You always have had a good Father who loves you! When you are feeling bad, call on the name of Jesus!

[@renemichaelk]

Honest question: If your sister was punched by that violent ex-bofriend so hard the she received multiple stitches, wasn't she kind of right to spend time rather time anywhere else than with this scumbag? In what universe is it ok to punch a girl just because you are not ok with her lifestyle? If you don't like your girlfriend going out to a club just leave.

[@chaoslimits]

@@possiblycurryddorkcan’t blame the woman. That’s patriarchy

[@renemichaelk]

You also talk about how long-term relationships are more respectful and loving than hookups, but the fact that your sister was punched by her violent ex is the complete opposite of that. Better to sleep with someone who doesn't care about you than to be with someone who physically abuses you.

[@Scrimblo0104]

Did you miss the part where he said she abused him in several other ways, on top of physical abuse? I think you did. Along with everything important he talks about.

[@Rainer125]

Yes better sleep with tons of people and live a degenerate lifestyle because of something a youtuber said. Absolutely brain fried

[@Ffoo_ffighter]

Sleeping with people you don't really know is abuse. That's why no one commits and family/marriage is dead.

[@whitneyrful]

“Facts over feelings” lol , you said yourself don’t even know why they did the things they did. Sounds like there is generational trauma, seeking validation from the opposite sex, and clearly you did not not talk about how being single was looked down upon. Mental health and therapy was not discussed in this video. The fact that women were told they had to be a mother or have children regardless if they wanted too. This is a problem and not everyone should be a parent. The fact you are their son and brother telling their story for a KZbin video to talk down to women about modern feminism destroying them. It’s giving another red pill content creator…..

[@savannahannalay7296]

He is not. We need ppl like him to tell this kind of stories

[@EpicMinecraftFail]

he has the right to talk down on them, they made terrible decisions

[@zuhasbekillin3461]

The truth is the truth no need to suggar it down

[@zuhasbekillin3461]

His sister and mother are just crazy lets hold them accountable

[@zuhasbekillin3461]

Oh plz how can he not disrespect them his own sister drove her ex husband to sucide🤦‍♂️

[@canadiankewldude]

Test-Rome problem. chemicals radical. food ful.