My older sister is gold and I am worthless [Hello Counselor / 2017.02.13]

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[@mchowdhury3184]

older people treating children unfairly don't deserve to be respected. being old doesn't mean deserving respect

[@ThePricklyash]

right! you can't treat my kids like that, i don't care who you are

[@christinebronte8196]

HolyWaterForThirstySouls what do you know about Korean culture? It has nothing to do with being Korean. Don't blanket one person's issue as whole nation's problem. In fact Korean elders are the opposite!

[@kittyshey3056]

+Christine Bronte i think that person was referring to the fact that S.Koreans have a "respect ur elders" sort of culture where the younger ones always have to show respects to elders whether or not they are related to them

[@christinebronte8196]

박소미 ParkSomi I'm very much aware of the Korean culture, I lived there for 6 years! Have another look at the person I responded to and you'll understand what I wrote!

[@christinebronte8196]

박소미 ParkSomi No you didn't understand the person I responded to properly! You clearly can't read between the lines! Cease this nonsense!

[@kimsophornhor7052]

That cute girl deserves better.

[@onemillionpercent]

Right! :'(

[@Arnicolas]

ForCommentingMusic&Etc. :D♥ q

[@KammyKlosst7a74y]

I'm so annoyed that i all i want to do is rant at her in korean at how WRONG it is to treat anyone, especially her granddaughter, like that.

[@pandagod4455]

Kimsophorn Hor trueeee

[@thebluesky3657]

Ikr! She and I have the same problem so I understand her. My grandmother doesn't listen to me and ignores me all the time. She thinks I'm immature and don't study well even though my grades are great. I get frustrated, angry and sad..but no one in the house understands me and say,"how can someone so old do that to you?" So I just try to ignore her as well but I just can't. (〒︿〒) but it is not that serious as the fourth grader...I don't get treated harshly but I do think I deserve some love from my grandma.

[@KP0p1437]

props for the younger sister for keeping her calm and cleverly expressing herself. I can see that she's intelligent and matured

[@englishwithjmYT]

I agree!

[@Nimbithefallen5326]

The poor girl... the grandma is horrible and manipulative. Hiding behind her age to avoid questions is immature and cruel. Being old doesn’t give her the right to be disrespectful. The people on this show need to see that and solve it before things get worse...

[@lulu_bot213]

A rather belated reply, but this show isn't exactly fit for these kinds of cases. Everything in this is _supposed_ to be funny and for entertainment. They should honestly fit to their show's name, "Hello Counselor." Instead of giving solid helpful replies and offering them the best kind of alternative solution to their problem, they laugh it off.. I really expected highly from this show.

[@taehyungselephantmole1513]

I actually think that the show isn’t that bad. Like they do give advice and get serious when need be. It’s made to be more entertaining yes but I feel like they laughed when she said idk out of frustration. They have to keep their cool but you can see them getting annoyed.

[@kikimo5558]

They do recommend them to actual therapists right after

[@joshuak8982]

That’s just a lot problems within South Korea, the entire tradition and cultures need to be fixed, everytime a flaw is pointed out, the excuse is, “we’ve only been freed from Japan a hundred years ago”, so many problems need to be and can be fixed in that amount of time at least, the culture of parenting and the relationship between parent and child, it’s just so messed up and all wrong, just so much hypocrisy, pride, greed, and selfishness makes up the korean people

[@민정은-q6c]

말씀을정말 속시원하게 잘하시네요

[@mmmidle859]

You can see the little girl trying to be strong in 9:39 She looked like she wanted to cry...

[@kait9773]

This is honestly sad, how the duck do you remember what ducking eldest was going through surgery but don't ducking remember when the damn little girl is being hospitalized. Like this girl's goes through to much, I can see by little girls body language that's she telling the truth but she's very nervous; and the grandma's body language is just saying the first thing that comes to mind, I can see that's she's lying about it. I don't even study body language.

[@lulu_bot213]

@@kait9773 You can swear at the old hag, bud. Let it all out, she deserves no respect for mistreating her grandchild like that.

[@kait9773]

@@lulu_bot213 I know it just there's children on this app sooo, gotta keep it pg friendly.

[@tula__]

@@kait9773 I was really sad at the time stamp but your profile pic got me laughing my ass off. 😅

[@mochijimina]

i don't think this is funny, i would be upset too. the grandmother doesn't seem to care about her grand daughter. i can't believe her sister does not at least tell the grandmother to not make her younger sister feel terrible all the time. the younger sister is really pretty. she will be stunning when she grows up.

[@ItsBrittanyLajoyce]

obsessedwparkjimin that's why this show needs a real therapist to balance things out

[@lilycaire]

obsessedwparkjimin I feel the same way. I really hope the girl doesn't get treated badly when she grows up, she's already beautiful so I wish she'll be successful.

[@sh3158]

Shes so cute

[@elumix2430]

obsessedwparkjimin no i dont think It is true maybe the younger sister is bad gal in the real life cos she is prettier than the older sister.. remmenber South korea is too superficial....

[@TheMambleBee]

Yeah! ive actually experienced this too growing up lol my older brother was favoured by my grandparents because he was raised up with them until he was 5. They used to just visit me here and there since they lived far away but they would always call on his birthday and never mine. Even when they called to talk to my parents they would only ask for my brother lol. If you went to their house too all over they would have pictures of my brother and not me. One time my grandmother came to the airport and my brother didn't even go to pick her up.. it was just me and my mother. he went to the movies and i stayed to pick her up but the first thing she said to me was "where is your brother"... LITERALLY. Lol when he walks in the room its like nothing else matters. So... I can relate to this as well. It doesn't really get me emotionally anymore but when I was younger I used to wonder why they didnt love me.

[@heyitsreality7998]

I know this is a very serious and saddening situation but I can't help but notice the younger sister is going to turn out to be _really_ beautiful as she continues to get older.

[@elumix2430]

HeyItsReality no i dont think It is true maybe the younger sister is bad gal in the real life cos she is prettier than the older sister.. remmenber South korea is too superficial....

[@revinaque1342]

Elu Mix Why do you keep on commenting the same answer on multiple comments? Are you the older sister or something?

[@1705-w5t]

Elu Mix being prettier than your older sister doesnt mean youre a "bad gal" lol. Also SK isnt "too superficial" to an extent, yes, other than that, you seem pretty ignorant.

[@quriOusmOOn]

Elu Mix so apparently to you... being pretty=being superficial whilst being 'ugly'=not being superficial. that makes no sense.

[@elumix2430]

Querinna Obi just look at how the pretty people are around you but be honest.... people who feel pretty and obiously look pretty sometimes have bad attitude more than the others ....just my expirience ...maybe not for you but for me it is true

[@sophmumu]

everyone in the the comments is talking about her grandmother but what about her sister she's just as bad for not defending her

[@melody5463]

Praise BTS she didn’t really have a chance to talk

[@ladysmeagoltennant940]

She had time to defend her little sister in all that situations their were alone together ...

[@fairoadiary]

dahyun x she did actually

[@Faith-zv9xr]

the sister’s just taking advantage of the situation to get out of trouble, she’s not the one creating the situation in the first place

[@drewinsects]

let's also remember her sister is a child and doesn't truly understand how it feels to be left out. this is 100% the grandma's fault

[@misty6950]

:I don't remember it *but you remembered when ur favorite kid has been hospitalized and go on surgery?! WHEN SHE WAS FIVE?!*

[@stephenalexander7773]

Like wtf what is wrong with her

[@wannableishere1156]

@@shh.0048 Ask yourself that question. The grandma can love the older sister more, but why does she need to HATE the younger sister??

[@idontexist1966]

@@wannableishere1156 they are asking what is wrong with the grandmother not the kid

[@nuzasa1575]

fr i hate her

[@tiaislam645]

@@nuzasa1575 stupid grandma getting is getting on ma nerves fr 😤😤😤

[@Yasminh-]

The next day: Granny can't remember she's been on this TV Show.

[@showandteeelllll8773]

😂

[@firdoussirajudeen3372]

🤣🤣🤣

[@LACHILENA35]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@meismonica9189]

🤣🤣

[@gamingscarlett8178]

🤣🤣🤣

[@rubyruby2384]

You can tell that granddaughter is like 'no I'm serious why does she hate me?' But everyone is like wow grandmother is funny and cute This whole situation can fuck up the little girl's life Poor soul

[@jemddnrn]

Ruby Ruby yess gosh I thought the same this whole show is just a big mess

[@vena6481]

I'm pretty sure it was either lost in translation or sarcasm.

[@georgeimmanuel3992]

WHY IS EVERYBODY LAUGHING AT THE GRANDMA?! It's so frustating, she dogdes all the question

[@taehyungsleftfoot2414]

it's elder's respect... you can't really say anything against old people in korea..

[@yippedoodah]

@@taehyungsleftfoot2414 I think it's common among a majority of Asian cultures. It's very toxic and annoying.

[@paperpuddingTV]

@@taehyungsleftfoot2414 ohh right...their hierarchical culture smh

[@TrueMena]

You can’t disrespect older people People who are older than you

[@nadirah1019]

@@TrueMena OF COURSE OLDER PEOPLE ARE OLDER THAN US

[@marykay9509]

it is obvious that the grandma favors the elder sister than the youngest one. the way she avoiding to answers and acting she doesnt remember at all.. it really doesnt look 'cute' at all..the grandma is so selfish and she obviously doesnt care if the youngest granddaughter hurt or sick.. urghh!! it just pisses me off!!

[@elumix2430]

Mary Kay no i dont think It is true maybe the younger sister is bad gal in the real life cos she is prettier than the older sister.. remmenber South korea is too superficial....

[@AuriELF]

Mary Kay MCs were just trying to be polite lol. If I were them i'd be upset but i still have to be polite towards that Grandma 😅

[@fitriamalian3727]

Elu Mix what do you mean with superficial?

[@santosalexandrajhean9898]

Mary Kay I agree

[@celine5380]

Mary Kay she even said "I admit that I favor her"

[@8niicky]

"I can understand her loving my sister more..." 😭 that's just too sad

[@tommyo2450]

Right? I feel so blessed with the grandparents i had..

[@yukiii326]

“The other one is naughty,the first one is sensitive” You mean the other way around?

[@aikaterineillt9876]

No

[@lulu_bot213]

@@aikaterineillt9876 Yes

[@sunshinehobi6263]

@@aikaterineillt9876 yes

[@kokomhie1809]

@@aikaterineillt9876 Yes

[@sofheyy]

@@aikaterineillt9876 yes

[@adoringjeonghan1173]

I can't believe this serious situation just got laughed at.

[@maryyencruorem564]

This seems to be one of the main problems with this show. Since it's meant to be entertaining, important subjects such as this are treated lightly and not addressed through an unbiased lens. It seems like the show doesn't help people with problems most of the time. I'm glad we have the comment section to talk about it though.

[@fairoadiary]

adoring jeonghan that’s EVERY episode of this show.

[@qraee]

It kind of surprised me because the other story with the girl who works more than her mom at her own salon got them all pissed. Everyone seemed heated in that episode I’m confused why they aren’t here...

[@manyasrivastava2419]

Every hello counselor episode ever

[@Babyvalkyie]

@@manyasrivastava2419 the only one who ever seems to care is the main host with glasses.

[@pri2028]

Wow I would hate to have a grandma like that and her ignoring and avoiding all the questions wasn't "cute" at all

[@candycanenee]

Mini MMM at first they thought it was cute because...in a way, it was. an old woman hiding behind the I don't remember excuse. but the questionning continued and you can hear the frustration and disbelief in their tones. that's why they kept saying 'this isn't a hearing'. they don't want to call her out directly because that's disrespect to elders.

[@elumix2430]

Mini MMM no i dont think It is true maybe the younger sister is bad gal in the real life cos she is prettier than the older sister.. remmenber South korea is too superficial....

[@sintakrisna5784]

Elu Mix i see your comment every where kkkkkk what

[@dhiratjoe669]

i think the word cute is overly used in Korea and sometimes people say cute when they don't know what else to say. in most cases like this they don't actually mean cute but actually very rude. Like for example if a maknae is disrespecting the hyung/eonni, bystanders will say oh he/she's so cute but in reality they think it's rude

[@cinnarenaroll1292]

Elu Mix you copy and pasted your comment literally all over this video and it honestly doesn't make sense at all. What does her looks have to do with sk being a "superficial" country (which is a stereotype but kpop fans love to talk as if they know everything about korea)

[@hjncnka]

Isn't just too convenient that the grandmother happens to "forget" the times when she mistreated the younger granddaughter? I really hate people who avoid questions like that. Using your age as an excuse to selectively "forget" something? The grandmother is not even that old. My own grandmother is 101 years old and although she has occasional dementia, she is still is present enough to own up if she knows she did something wrong.

[@melody5463]

hjncnka you have a point, but you’re missing something. You honestly don’t really know if she’s faking it or not, nor do you know her age. But other than that, I completely agree.

[@Cosmos12550]

The fact is she remembers what happened to the elder sister but when asked about mistreating younger she was paused for seconds, and you can clearly see the expression she had that time, and then she said i don't remember. It's a fact that people forgets how badly they have treated the other person. That girl is so young, and its literally hard for her to be treated differently. And being blamed for something she never did. She will have this impact even when she grows up. Because these kind of things get stuck with you when you are very young and keeps bothering you in different ways when you grow up. Her grandmother always treat her badly, so obviously she will think that she hates her and that's the reason she even yells at her. Being an elder and much more matured, the grandmother should understand this. Even the elder sister knows she will be backed up by grandma that's why she threatens her mother not to scold even if she is wrong. In short that so called Grandma is giving a bad very bad upbringing to the elder one.

[@pfpkekdodkd4889]

é

[@conniegarcia5676]

@it’s not the 50’s anymore ladies the grandma always laughed when she said she forgot about what happened with the youngest granddaughter so I don't think she really forgot those things

[@yippedoodah]

I don't know if this is the right place to spout this but from what I've noticed in Asian cultures regarding family, there's a big thing about saving face and wanting to look good to the community. A lot of parents and elderly tend to have narcissistic personalities so since the grandma was in the hot seat, she conveniently said she forgot about all those times she was awful. Regardless of whether or not she forgets, she still treated that child like trash. The child's mother even tried defending her but the grandma would shoot them down since she only sees things her way. My grandma did the same stuff whenever it could work in her favor but it was always contradictory and I was able to pick up on it.

[@pppgd]

Korea always respect elder they need to change that, its good but not always right

[@estherkim495]

exactly, some korean grandmas are brutal and really mean

[@lulu_bot213]

Blame it on their heirarchy.

[@tingle2323]

Well thats what manner teach.. To not get disrespectful with elders but still show them they sre wrong.. That's what manners are for

[@totally_a_spy]

@@tingle2323 respect should always be earned to an extent. Someone who abuses or insults you, doesn't deserve respect

[@ryesunnix]

I know this isn't really important but is it just me or am I the only one that loves it when kids come on this show because the cast is so sweet and nice to them saying things like "Your so cute, she's so cute" "Your so adorable" "Your such a lovely girl/boy" I just find it so sweet and cute. It warms my heart! 😊

[@hotdogalliance6561]

Ikr, how sweet🥺 they even called this grandma adorable..😶

[@gerbykins]

i like that they are giving them the love, care and attention that they’re usually lacking

[@ryesunnix]

@@gerbykins Yesss

[@unhxppyvibes9898]

Uhm can I ask? You don’t remember that? Then why do you remember something that ur elder granddaughter went thru when she was 5? While ur current one went got hospitalised a few months ago?

[@madyhurd7215]

unhxppyvibes exactly!!

[@demyiajohnson6377]

💯💯💯💯

[@orbitinginsomniac]

Because she doesn't care about the younger one, that's why it's easier to forget about her

[@lulu_bot213]

@@orbitinginsomniac That makes no sense at all, it's best to say that old hag was using the, "I don't remember" excuse to avoid all questions and shaming.

[@orbitinginsomniac]

@@lulu_bot213 I'm just basing it on my experience. Sorry

[@kylie5827]

SHE'S SO CUTE, LEMME ADOPT HER. I NEED HER IN MY LIFE, Y'ALL.

[@leehyerin1191]

KoKoBop is a BOP I wanna be cute ;((

[@h56y26]

Omg yees

[@197anapinto]

KoKoBop is a BOP same honey

[@muffinmonster2634]

Hahahahah

[@muffinmonster2634]

it is kinda satisfying to be the 500th like 😅

[@astolfo178]

wtf the grandma is not cute at all plus she was just defending herself from the shame 😤😤

[@yuuuuuuki98]

pls No "I don't remember" what a lame ass excuse

[@julycat2650]

Exactly. That shitty bitch-ass. She def remember everything she had said to the lil girl.

[@lisasforehead6545]

σνєя тнє яαιивσω yeah

[@Cosmos12550]

Karma

[@haniifleine2734]

Hope she gets what she deserves!

[@Ace68598]

The pain is real when a parent/grandparent favours your sibling over you, it really hurts. I FEEL YOU GIRL! 😭

[@-HolySpiritDove-]

🐹🌻🐥 Peace be with you 🌿👼💫

[@mellamotina5100]

Grandma: ^ steals a hat ^ Worker: you need to put that back ma’am grandma: *i dOnT rEmEmbEr*

[@poi6049]

*WhAt*

[@purplemoon3831]

I laughed so much at this😂😂😂😂

[@user-ux3ec8lp1i]

She’s said “I don’t know” so many times to the point I can know say “I don’t know” in Korean

[@VeeWholesome]

I remember, in our personal development class, all students had to tell their experience about the 'worst thing their parent said to them'. I cannot believe what I've heard. Everyone had a story to tell and every story was heartbreaking. The top student was blamed by her mom for almost dying because she was 'not smart enough'. (Her mom also slapped her in a meeting, in front of all our classmates and parents, because she got a one line of 8 grade. It's terrible, but she's still a tough person, humble and kind.) What I've observed is that most of them had been compared to their siblings. Everyone ended up crying. Even the students I looked up to, the ones I thought were perfect, they cried and we all learned that they're going through some shit too. I never knew I'd see them so hurt. It changed how I see things. When it was my turn to tell a story, I just cried because my sisters might be going through the same thing without me knowing. I didn't really know how it feels to be compared. It was a heartwarming experience, and an eye-opener.

[@kay-ll2md]

calm thyself i mean don’t you get fined or smth if you slap a child in public?

[@whatisthis3261]

It feels crap to be compared with someone. I remembered I stayed from my aunt and she always compares me to her oh so perfect daughter that she always got 9 line grades while I had 8-9 lined grades. I just don't get it why people likes to compare like how can you compare me to her? Have I been her? Am I her?

[@sugar6153]

I wish i coukd have those kind of class So i could take everything off my shoulders and just confess.. The problem is our teacher doesnt care about us

[@trashyblinkoncereveluvbudd1081]

Su Gar we did that one time, our worst experience and best. I dont want to tell my experience since it left a scar to my sanity but that was helpful.

[@vyn203]

Ken Kaneki Im vietnamese and thats true..

[@silvia_leev]

the grandma is not cute AT ALL, she does not have the right to change her granddaughter and fovoring one to another: you have to encurage her and DO NOT say things like "it would be better if you were a boy" because it's greedy (like she said about her granddaughter), unpolite, rude and selfish. A child is a bless in every gender, behaviour and even when the child is not cute and tomboy-sh AND FOR GOD'S SAKE GRANDMA, PLEASE DO NOT BLAME FOR EVERYTHING SHE IS NOT GUILTY JUST BECAUSE YOU FAVOR THE ELDEST. You make me vomit on so many levels.

[@kimibow1619]

Delilah Underdogs it's a translation thing and Koreans uses "cute" very loosely

[@axitpanmitic]

you can see that the casts said "cute" when she said she didn't remember the first time, but later they seem to be impatient with her too

[@ak.7006]

I teared up the whole video idk. Just imaging my family members not loving me equally as others. That makes me feel like shit. The title just got to me When it said " I am worthless " Seeing them calling the grandmother " Adorable " Made me sick. It would want me to run away from them if I was in her.

[@starfallmidnightoof4227]

My grandma is a bitch she doesn't give a crap about her daughter or her daughters children she asked my mom one day since me and my brother have a sickness and my older sister is healthy she asked see you should have had one now you have burdens on you

[@manathnop3355]

There’s something wrong with that grandma

[@louise7083]

it's not the first time that the hosts overlook this kind of situation, I love them but that's just wrong :/ this grandma was making my blood boil, just because she's old doesn't mean she's right

[@gemdoll4684]

they're being respectful to the aggressors and people in question because they're spineless. they don't have the dignity and righteousness or courage to put these useless dolts in their place. this show is infuriating. don't even bother having these people on only for them to talk in circles and avoid punishment

[@allscool-4131]

Yeah but from their perspective tbh they've only been hearing it from the person that has the issue and not from the aggressor, like they're trying to kind of be in the middle, but it's true they need to say it's wrong but in this one the grandma is saying nothing and admitting everything so they can't full on diss her when they haven't heard anything from her point of view

[@putsomerespeckonmaname540]

Same! I was furious with this grandmother!

[@vanisharma5076]

The little girl is so pretty...

[@베단사브리나]

BUT THE GRANDMA REMEMBERS THE ELDEST HER SURGERY?!?! I GOT TRIGGERED!

[@alinearellano3008]

I don't get how the sister can be so evil and blame her younger sister for her mistakes. That is so messed up. >:(

[@cristalguerrero7635]

Awee army🤙🏽💕

[@mizmurr]

I know like opps i spilled that paint GRANDMA she spilled it!

[@MusiicRoolz]

maybe she has learning difficulties

[@riannecarla9105]

+Music lover 29 ya if my sister did that I would be saying "Bish you did that" and probably pulling her hair, kicking her, and mocking her

[@vlogererhard8461]

BTS Trash #1 iiYou

[@beenishs6140]

due to the hierarchy system in Korea, going against anyone whos older than you is really disrespectful and not really allowed. ive seen alot of cases where the older person takes complete advantage of their status and abuse the younger ones. the young cant do anything about it because thats how the culture is. it really saddens me to see that little girl being mistreated. Respect is earned, not given

[@choiyewonsbangs]

Beenish Shahab !!!! if this program was in the US, i’m pretty sure they all would have gone into Dr. Phil mode because this really just the nicer version of Dr. Phil💀

[@thankyou8806]

well said.Respect HAVE to be EARNED.

[@wowlover3000]

Beenish Shahab I'm Korean but i live in America so i understand both sides. The reason older people are respected so much is because they have more pressure and they need to make sacrifices. An example- let's say two girls are caught drinking, and one is younger and one is only a year older. The older one would get double the trouble and be blamed for most of it. So it isn't like older people have it all easy

[@laetitiasales3527]

Lazy Ass What? If a person is 29 and the other is 28, he's old enough to make decisions for himself. There's a certain difference between two kids and two adults. That doesn't mean absolutely anything, do you know how many people are being "bullied" and treated poorly because of this foolish rule? They just have to let the elders put the feet on their head. Wow, very cool. I would be so mad. Respect should be *gained*

[@moonlit_lee]

This type of thing happened alot in many countries in asia and i relate alot because this is the sort of thing i've gone through everyday

[@NalinaSwan]

The grandmother is disappointing, but i personally felt that the elder sister and mother is even more disappointing. As a mother you can't stand up for your own child? You walk away and turn your back on your own child when threatened? And what kind of daughter threatens her mother just to get away with wrongdoings? This is so messed up i can't believe it. Its ridiculous.

[@kisekikazama8326]

Rinna Rokudo exactly last I checked the grandma did not give birth to the older sister

[@justanotherfangirl6360]

It is hard for the mother to speak up to the grandma because of the culture. It’s probably her own mother or her mother in law. If it is the mother in lay, it is even harder because of the culture.

[@jeaniemusicc]

I totally understand how the younger girl feels , my older sister gets favoured a lot more and it’s soul crushing sometimes .

[@_waveocean]

10:06 i love how the actor snapped 😂 I hate the grandma tho it’s so obvious that she’s avoiding those questions to defend her by saying ‘i don’t remember’

[@syieda.zulkifli]

On the bright side, the sweet little girl should be happy that she isn't the favoured one. Who would've want a grandmother like that, anyway? She deserves better.

[@yuuuuuuki98]

Syieda Zulkifli yeah, she deserves way better. Poor child

[@nope3926]

As a psychology major who is in love with developmental psychology, this is very, very disappointing and disturbing. The girls' mother should at least intervene and get the two girls assessed, though I don't know how effective that'll be since mental health awareness is still not as prevalent in Korea as in other countries. This in itself is a form of child abuse, as the law does consider psychological damage as a form of abuse, which can then be lead to court. I cannot possibly know the whole story, but the grandmother's and the older sibling's behaviors are sketchy already. And remember, older people are more prone to lying than younger people, and young ones have a harder time lying because their brains are still developing which means it's harder for them to make up excuses out of the blue. Not impossible for children to do, but the way the younger sibling replies unhesitatingly shows a lot.

[@trinavu1926]

Your old notes in school mnhactrutinh

[@binniemoon9031]

I'm sorry but it's so frustrating to watch this especially at how the grandmother seems to "forget" about how badly she treats the poor little girl. I'm the youngest and I probably have the same attitude as the girl and my sister is the kind, loving angel but my grandmother never treats me like shit. My aunt and sometimes my parents do compare me with her and I had to go through that for years but my grandmother will always see both sides before she gets angry. The older sister's surgery/health isn't a logical reason to treat the other sister like shit. This could honestly affect the little girl badly in the future especially as she grows older if this continues. Being compared to my sister affected me negatively as I get happy whenever she fails/makes mistakes or whenever she gets scolded. I sometimes even try to find my sister's mistakes and tell them to my parents just so she'd get scolded. This is a trait I am never proud about, a trait I've always wanted to change. I love my sister so much but I just can't help but compete with her at everything I do to the point of taking up a major that she failed in university just so other people could see how much better I am than her if I graduate with this major. All I'm saying is, comparing them will only lead bigger problems for them. This grandmother needs to learn how to treat both sisters equally. The other sister too needs to start defending her sister whenever the grandmother does shitty things to the younger. The grandmother will probably listen if the older tells her.

[@ayen3919]

i can feel you in so many level. like among us siblings i am the hard headed and the naughtiest but i have never been treated this way by my grandmothers. they believe that i would just grow up... well i received some words tho but the point is they neutralize the pressure we receive from the other people. love my grannies

[@roselinesilver6810]

Binnie Moon p

[@roselinesilver6810]

Panoramic

[@danielsingsbtssongswithoof3012]

Binnie Moon my mom always say “You all got it from your sisters... the looks, the talent, the body shape... but except one being very smart! You are smart but you can’t go up to 1st and 2nd what you go is either not on top 10 or 8th or 9th or 10th” and it hurts my feelings... cuz what she cares the most is my brain... at least i got on top 10... she said that she and my dad never got 3rd and below they get 1st or 2nd and since my sisters get 1st or 2nd i always feel like I’m left out of the family... IM THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS 5 LETTERS IN MY NAME! THE ONLY ONE WHO HAVE CHINESE OR KOREAN EYES! THE ONLY ONE NOT VERY SMART! THE ONLY ONE CANT SING! THE ONLY ONE CANT DANCE! THE ONLY ONE WHO NEVER DENIES MY FEELINGS! AND THE ONLY ONE THAT HAS A NAME THAT DOESNT START WITH A LETTER THAT BEGINS IN OUR BIRTH MONTH! i always feel like I’m the black sheep! My mom loves me more than ever... but sometimes she compares me with my sisters... she always say i am not smart like my sisters... she even lost my baby book... i love my sisters so much, she doesn’t know that... she took me with her... so i have to be apart from my sisters... me and my sisters love each other so much, and i miss them... i hope she will know this situation

[@nildaliton1380]

Long😂

[@honeyvanity2791]

I’m the big sister, so when someone treats my little brother badly when he’s either scolded when he doesn’t deserve it, I defend him. My brother is very hyperactive and I am very calm, the fact that he does things by accident does not mean that he should be treated badly. You may have a bad relationship with your brother or sister but think more of him or her as a human who also deserves the respect you receive.

[@04chai]

I saw the title and I was bout to throw some hands. U R PRECIOUS CHILD DONT EVER FORGET THAT.

[@svt4987]

*"I don't remember"* this is actually fucking annoying. She knows she did jackshit to make Gahye feel loved and yet she does not want to admit to her actions. why make her feel crap if you can't handle the consequences, Halmoni?

[@awaa69]

Yea wtf

[@claudeyaz]

ᄇᄐᄉ보고 싶다 yeh the celebs should just stop laughing and be like "you are messing this kid up for life "

[@putsomerespeckonmaname540]

IKR I WAS SO PISSED. Everyone was laughing and I was just done with the grandmother lol

[@safaeghazali1358]

Yeah

[@bangtantv6691]

ᄇᄐᄉ보고 싶다 I'm the 1K like

[@arisxsunggyu]

The youngest is really pretty. I've had friends with similar situations where their grandmother favored their sister or brother over them and most of the time, they were better looking. It's like a jealousy or even a resentment. probably because the youngest looks like someone the grandmother isn't fond of. Maybe a sibling of her own or whatever.

[@agustin5855]

i know it's harsh and mean for me to say this,but a good thing that she was prettier than her unnie and she seems smart and inteligent.

[@laurasprit7026]

titin buawel ae probably why they don't like her; jealousy is scaryy

[@anastasia-fr1gn]

I had the same thought. I witnessed something like this before, where the family treats their daughter different because they were jealous...it's sad.

[@camillewang3533]

she should be called oppasang!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@yeastedbread]

Ignoring everything, that girl is adorable. She looks so innocent..if I were a parent I'd want her. From what I see so far, she's understanding, polite, and she's adorable.

[@martyandy23]

OMG she’s so adorable!!!! WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS OLD LADY!!!!

[@MuseHathor]

It is because parents/grandparents favour one sibling over another that one grows up feeling entitled while the other grows up with constant self-doubt and a inferiority complex.

[@joyz3221]

Muse Hathor Me and my sibling 😒. Guess who has the constant self-doubt?

[@justahuman9273]

Joy Z me too! :/

[@naokihikari1833]

Muse Hathor agree wholeheartedly. It has been issues for decades. But everyone seems to take it easy as it doesn't concern them. Only ones who lived it knew the struggles.

[@NeverClimbing]

But nothing will happen if the siblings are close. What the seniors think does not matter much when siblings have close relationship and share gifts with one another =). My sister was the favourite but we both grew up well

[@eypril536]

the older sister looks so guilty tho....

[@vietlorax2856]

Ice Cream Cake she looks cocky, she was smirking too

[@kellybelly1004]

Playing the victim....hate when people do that...

[@-sopeloves8932]

+Kelly yi agreed.

[@louisereyes6384]

But she looked happy when the younger one is being embarrassed by their grandma

[@audreykeza671]

ahh da

[@alaamansour6785]

OMG, I faced the same problem as this young girl since my father had a daughter "my older sister" and when I was born my grandmother refused to come to see me just because I was a girl! and she was always harsh on me, unlike my sister. I grow up hating my sister because I was always compared to her, my parents, my grandmother, my teachers everyone was comparing me to her! Still till now, even my friends tell me why aren't you the same as your sister (since I am louder and more hyper than my older sister). Now I am really questioning my whole existence everyday! why I was born and what I am doing in life! it's really heart breaking. A msg to every parent out there, every single child is unique don't compare them to the others since it hurts their feelings :(

[@JeliDraws]

Alaa Mansour i know this feeling... i have a younger brother and he's successful in sport and popular in school and i'm basically the oppsite of him and everyone in our Family compares me to him.... i hate that...

[@Cahyaniaulia6]

Alaa Mansour im sorry to hear that:( chin up and prove them that you're wortht to be proud of! ❤️

[@Cahyaniaulia6]

*worth

[@aqilah7787]

Alaa Mansour Dont give up. You are worth more than golds are worth. It isnt your fault, it is their fault for not seeing the true you. Everybody is important.

[@lunyx8147]

Alaa Mansour *hugs you*

[@taesparagus8278]

Is it just me or does she look like a younger version of TWICE's Dahyun?😍

[@TheVisserthree]

I hope the best for this pretty young girl and she should grow to be a better lady in the future. She doesn’t owe her grandma anything.

[@teeeeeettt]

from my perspective i think her sister may have some complex about herself too...she might seem to be favored by the grandmother but her inner self might be jealous of her little sister as her little sister are so cute and pretty other people always praise her...that kind of complex exist between siblings...maybe using her grandmother she might feel a little advantage on herself...

[@teeeeeettt]

but the grandmother is so wrong in this situation..she make it too obvious...

[@sweetymoomoobuddy6753]

This is how I feel. I can feel my younger sister jealous of me as I often given more loved by our aunts, uncles, etc and they only scold her but at the same time imo they love and care about her more.. as the oldest they're telling me more house chores to do as I need to study-get a good job-earn good money for family as the oldest, but now I realize that them telling my sist to do house chores and buy things in the market helped her social skills.. now my sister is really good at socialize and communicating with people.. I'm so jealous she's often the first person our family search now.. but yeah this is just sister problem.. now we helped each other and live well but idk sometimes I just jealous how if years ago they didnt "loved" me and told me to do some chores too.. lol

[@pupu416]

J N So people with ugly personalities but pretty deserve to be alive huh? But not if ugly?

[@nrldl_9918]

i would totally just take that little girl and let her be my little sister if they treat her badly like that. she so cutee my heart is shattered the grandma are so mean plus i don't really like the big sister behaviour. sheesh

[@elumix2430]

Nuraleda Ali no i dont think It is true maybe the younger sister is bad gal in the real life cos she is prettier than the older sister.. remmenber South korea is too superficial....

[@ynna3674]

Elu Mix okay but when did having a pretty face made an attitude bad? just by looking at the older sister's actions, she's obv an evil. She likes the mistreatment that is happening between her with their grandma. She often smirks, bow her head down and act sad. Even in the other video, why does she have to tell her grandma that her mom bought her younger sister a pair of shoes? With that, the mom even got scolded by the grandma bc she bought the younger one shoes, the older sister was obv enjoying it.

[@Jsaccrew]

True

[@foxsisters6257]

park jisung lol at 10:13 you can legit see the older sister smirking when the grandmother tried to avoid. This makes me sick to my stomach and angry 😡

[@suak.5703]

I mean...she might be smirking cuz it is funny for her...idk...We don't know the full stories. In TV shows like this, many can easily mislead by editing and many don't show their actual personality. So who knows

[@rosieshillinglaw101]

the grandma sounds very arrogant and her personality is rude, not the youngest child. the grandma needs to learn some respect regardless of her age, culture etc, its not acceptable, i feel very sorry for the youngest child. to be honest the elder child is just as bad....

[@elumix2430]

Rosie Shillinglaw no i dont think It is true maybe the younger sister is bad gal in the real life cos she is prettier than the older sister.. remmenber South korea is too superficial....

[@arikim69]

Elu Mix i keep wondering why you always commeting the same comment..

[@suak.5703]

I think she wants people to see things in different perspective. We don't know what happened behind the screens and TV shows like this can easily be manipulated by editing and many don't show their actual personality on TV.

[@jnwhalien]

The little girl is so kind. Kids at young age shouldn't be treated like that. It'll affect their mental state and will leave a brain scarring through the years that might change them in the future.

[@sleepwalkster]

"That's just how it is for the youngest" bro no I'm the youngest at home and my family would never favor kids above others

[@bb____________]

it´s funny how ok people are with this situation and other unacceptable situations in korea. If this was in the USA, the grandmother and the girl would be probably in the dr phill show with tones of therapist surrounding them however in KR it is a funny topic talked in national TV, meant to entertain others and make them laugh without any worries.

[@milijanamusic5863]

It is simply not possible to forget ALL the bad parts and remember just how older sister acted in such a kind manner.... Favouritism among family members is so sad and dangerous... It can affect both sisters but in completely different ways. No matter how sick her older sister was, she is now healthy and able to make decisions. She is not a 5 year old girl... They both deserve to be loved, equally, regardless of when they were born, which one is older and what kind of disease older sister had...

[@stutinaik4685]

I definitely agree with you!

[@AndreeCynthia]

"I don't remember" Stop. Avoiding. All. The. Questions.

[@mariammohammed5401]

She is one of the cutest CHILD I HAVE EVER SEEN JÉSUS I NEED HER IN MA LIFE I NEVER SEEN THIS CUTENESS

[@pearlymaesiao4296]

Same with my experience, my grandma (father's mom) loved my cousin (daughter of my father's sister) so much that it came to a point she brags about how she's so beautiful and talented not even recognizing of what I have achieved. She's always giving my cousin a lot of money even though they are rich while I am struggling for financial but she didn't gave me even a single penny.

[@andiahn8774]

Something similar happened between my cousins and their grandmother. One girl who has an awful personality gets the nice treatment cause she had surgery when she was a baby (we'll call her M). The other one (let's call her A), who is my favorite cousin, gets told that she's a brat or gets ignored for her accomplishments. She finished what we consider high school two years before the rest of her class and is now going to college to become a doctor or a teacher. And M is still in high school even though she is now in her twenties. For Christmas M got new clothes and $400 dollars from her recently deceased grandfather (that was supposed to be shared equally). Meanwhile, A got a lousy plastic bracelet that broke really quickly. And seeing that horrible prejudice against a lovely hard working person angers me. So my mother and I got her a brand new tablet/computer so that she can manage her classes better. 😊

[@Doorknobperson2]

That's lovely of your mom and you!

[@dollbunni]

Thank you for doing something like that. That is honestly super kind.

[@AudreyGipsyyy35740]

You guys are amazing!!! That's so kind

[@keturaheos645]

That's messed up. Thanks to you & your mom tho.

[@melody5463]

Andi Darkshade you’re a very thoughtful person that looks out for others no matter what. I hope you have a great life for being such a kind, and generous person! We need more people like you these days.

[@astridadiyanti826]

She gets maltreated because she's too pretty. Nah. I don't think so. But seriously, the younger sibling is a natural beauty.

[@tan_2190]

ikr, she'll be very pretty and cute when she grows up

[@briannasantacruz9278]

astrid adiyanti ikr the older one isn't that pretty

[@sugastrash143]

FTWelve 17 Omg yes she will be so cutee

[@anatalias]

Brianna Santa Cruz probably thats bcs the surgery

[@tan_2190]

+PastelBable i think she meant that the little sister gets maltreated because the older sister gets a surgery when she's young

[@nauraanindyaa]

from the way the kid speaks, she sounded inconfident probably because the way shes treated. the family should reevaluate themselves! poor kiddo:( shes a nice kid:(

[@aisyahazlee152]

We're all whipped for that little girl. She's sooo lovely

[@pfever]

8:42 If this guy treats her wife like this on national television, I can't imagine how he treats her when they are alone at home!

[@vivenya1606]

I can relate to this girl 100/100% except that my mother is the one who treats me like this ...there's not a day that I never cry ..I always act happy ,laugh but inside I am depressed ..I am the youngest in my family and she favors my sisters more ..I hate that ..I feel is very unfair because I am 13 when my sister 19,18 ...I sometimes feel that I am very sensitive because i always cry ..I have no one to talk about my problems so I just cry and watch kpop or kdrama to make me happy

[@SY-ow7su]

Vivenya i feel u😖

[@weaboomom4232]

Stay strongg T.T

[@c_deedee]

Wow, i feel exactly the same. Im the least favorite child to my parents and bloods. I still dont understand why, i do everything for them, i babysit my siblings even though im the third youngest. I missed school alot due to staying up all night.

[@sohncafe1220]

same

[@idontknowwhotostananymore4723]

I feel you, I did many things for my parents. Being top class, students council, athlete in school, represent school and many more. I do get some stuff, but my mom always buy stuff that she want me to be even if I hate it. And I always have to do things and lock up while my brothers are free . I can't blame my parents tho. I am not good enough haha

[@agustd5870]

adults that are mean to children are so low tbh

[@hunnybunny1907]

Agust D Right?

[@sunny-pl4hg]

This in a nutshell: *gets asked a question* "I don't remember" This little girl deserves better. She can't just use the excuse of forgetting every single time she treated the younger badly, but also, is the older sister really just going to sit there and not do anything? I get that she was weak before but she seems healthy now and even if she isn't she should care for her younger sister. Older siblings should always take care of their younger siblings and defend them when people treat them badly. She should try to show the grandmother that even if she likes her more, she has absolutely no reason to treat the younger badly.

[@yippedoodah]

The older girl is spoiled rotten and knows grandma will let her have her way. It's just setting her up for an unrealistic outlook in life.

[@queeniebacon2626]

Seriously I cried...I'm very blessed to have my lola to lean on always🙀💜🤦❣💓💚

[@moonnuchamling9875]

I can't believe these people laughed at this serious situation. I feel sad for the little girl. She is seeking for help and nobody is taking her seriously

[@audreynoonxr9509]

am i the only one who thinks that she looks like a younger version of dahyun? 😂💕

[@ushijimaswife5011]

Audrey Noonxr nope your not alone she does look like dahyun

[@englishwithjmYT]

I guess im not the only one that thinks that

[@dayeliyong]

I know the grandma is old and being old can come with memory loss, but come on.... we all know she remembers every shitty thing she has done to her poor granddaughter and she doesn’t even own up to it.

[@littlesushie]

If i was the MC, i would have asked her if she has ever visited a doctor for her memory loss

[@matchamei3079]

Why is everyone laughing and clapping when the grandma says she doesn't remember? I'm expecting whispers and murmurs throughout the crowd about how IRRESPONSIBLE she is and they're just having a good time because she's an old grandma? Well this is a young impressionable girl, all this 'fun time' is just telling her that her grandma's loved for avoiding questions she doesn't want to answer to. Because it makes no sense, grandma remembers oldest granddaughter going to hospital a decade ago but not youngest granddaughter going to the hospital a couple of months ago. Forget Korea's respect for elders in this instance because if they were just going to let her off the hook for being 'cute' why did they even bring her to interrogate?

[@christinebronte8196]

matchamei They are laughing due to the fact that how absurd the grandmother is behaving. The subtitle doesn't translate the whole situation properly. If you understand Korean you would have a different perception. Honestly, they're taking this issue seriously.

[@2jaeisreal774]

tbh there response is just the same as how us americans responded to Danielle bregoli

[@Kelly-mn8fd]

I'm glad that this little girl sticks up for herself at least. She even had to point out things to the others on stage and explain what is fair and what is not for her.

[@cambraisseavieharfordilyn9016]

"but my sister is healthy" go girl tell 'em XD so adorable!!!

[@babydontenstop261]

i relate to this on so many levels

[@bulletproofgirlscouts4843]

same except my parents treat me unfairly i'm the middle kid #thestruggles

[@angelstarfish56]

+its me my family treats the youngest child like princess

[@ashwinishenoy9490]

RAIN

[@fefeyoko1]

rania syed Right?! People often say to me "You are the youngest, u are not mistreated, you are their little princess" And then Im ignored, Im blamed 4 every fcking thing, Im put down... We can relate to her ^-^

[@radicalldadical]

rania syed same oh lord

[@chloestylinson]

It's obviously not the older sisters fault but... let's be real, the younger one is gorgeous and she's... well...

[@siniansitou3985]

Are you sure the older sister 100% isn't to blame though? If you have a look at 10:09 too, you'll see the older sis smirking at how her grandmother said she forgot for the fourth (?) time which makes me think she has at least an idea of what's going on with her grandmother and her younger sister. And honestly, with the seesaw thing, she could've just told the grandmother the truth about what she did. Blaming the younger sister for a dirty sink is one thing, but to actually land her younger sister in the hospital for a week and not coming clean about it? The older sister isn't clueless of what's happening or even just ignoring the situation, but actually revels in the attention from her grandmother and how unfair the situation is.

[@noname4811]

Sin Ian Si Tou 👏👏👏 preach, you exposed the older sibling

[@melody5463]

chloe jagger just say it lmfao

[@jadesx96]

She was hanging her head hiding behind her hair during the see saw story, she definitely knows she did something wrong but won't stick up for her younger sister which is sick, i could never do that to my younger sibling

[@aesyahedrus4426]

I wouldn't be surprised if the girl wanted her grandma to go away soon.

[@wehavebiscuits]

aesyah bruh, I want that grandma to go away soon

[@gingeryoongisupremacy7826]

I found this video after thinking about it again after few years and I remember thinking at the time I can't wait for this baby to grow beautifully and flourish beyond this miserable family of hers. it was quite obvious she would grow to be far better than her sister and grandmother and I hope she's flourishing now.

[@khanhhuynh5434]

Everyone else: _asks a question_ Grandma: *aw geez, i dont think i remember*

[@trishaysabel6887]

even the emcees know that the grandmother is avoiding all the questions

[@kyungso_o126]

I totally understand the little girl, because I am like that in my family. My parents treat my older sister with so much care. When it comes to academics, my sister is waaaaay smarter than I am and in my family, if you're smart, you have the love of all my relatives.

[@betulyurtseverdesign]

I hate how the grandmother trying to avoid their Qs, Like just say it, And it's obvious how much she hates her and doesn't care. And the little girl is so cute tho, she's so good at talking 💗

[@rose-um3oc]

I sent this to my friend and she said, "IM WATCHING THE VID SHE IS SO PRECIOUS IF THE GRANDMA DOESNT WANT HER CAN I ADOPT HER"

[@babyddaeng6311]

3:51 she is so calm while saying that, i would cry if i think about my grandparent /parents favour my other siblings more..

[@arianamiranda3660]

"Respect your elders" Well, you see, its 2017. Kids are going to respect whomever respects them.

[@wj3772]

i usually watch this show to laugh but i literally cried so hard watching this. i think if my grandma treated me that way i would be so sad all the time. its honestly so terrible that the grandma does that, and the kids only a 4th grader

[@ereniacastellan4587]

I am not the one who treated differently, but my sister does, i feel pity for her and always protected her, because elders never really think about younger ones feeling, my sister got scolded and be blamed at everything, even when she didn't get the problem, please treat people around you equally

[@dollbunni]

Annabeth CSTLN My sister has the same problem. Well, not where she's scolded for everything, but her grades. I get straight A's (promise I'm not trying to brag or anything). So my mother expects the same from her. The thing is, my sister doesn't like studying. So whenever she comes home with a B or a C (or lower, but that's rare), my mother gets extremely upset and will make her study. It's gotten to the point where my sister tries to hide her report card, but that only gets her grounded. (I get reports too, so she knows if my sister has gotten one or not.) It also stresses me out too because If I get a single B on my report card, I'm automatically in deep trouble. So small things like homework and classwork can really irritate me if things don't go well. It's to the point where I cry about it.

[@vietlorax2856]

FourEyes I can relate on so many levels

[@nataliaerlyn8148]

grandmother always be grandmother and never can be change, i fell you 😭😭😭

[@lailapestrana7814]

She just want to feel the "grandma love"

[@Teehee248]

Sadly I have a grandmother like that. She has her favorites between her grandkids and they happen to be mothered by her youngest daughter, who is also the favorite of her kids. I don't communicate with her anymore because she has no willingness to change her ways.

[@alondratrujillo376]

okay bet. the little girl is getting all my love, the older sister is catching these hands and the grandma well,,, she can catch death soon lmao. im not playing no games

[@urayahayahauraAAA]

ASDGGAJAGAHASHAHAJ GO TO THE TOP COMMENTS U

[@aikaterineillt9876]

Shut up

[@lulu_bot213]

Lol, but seriously. The immature "grandma" should own up to her wrong-doings and mistakes. And for the older sibling, she should defend HER sister and stop being a "goody-two-shoes".

[@SEMI99]

The sister is so nerve-wrecking 😤 Im so sorry to say this but, Im the eldest of 6 siblings and I really cant stand it when my younger sisters and brothers being treated like that even by our relatives... My paternal Grandma is somewhat like her's... But, I absolutely hate it when she do harshful things to my siblings.. Like WTH?!?!?!?! Im not being so proud of myself because its a natural sense that every eldest child of the family should have been born with... Please... Love your siblings... You'll regret it later if you lost them..

[@nelichairi4678]

That's girl soooo pretty and adorable, so sad to hear about her😢😢😢

[@BatmanSpideyDa3rd]

Omg...she is sooooooooo cute, well behaved, patient, super strong, and very brave!! I wish she was my daughter or granddaughter! I’d spoil her like crazy everyday 🥰❤️

[@sinuscosinus2360]

I hate this tv show. Honestly, it's entertaining but the hosts make me upset. They always give the shittiest advises that would help no one like "It's just how it is as a maknae. I went through that too." Bitch are u kidding me? Does that justify that behaviour? Does that solve the issue? Or in another episode when a black guy addressed racism in Korea they also answered shit like "It's nothing to worry, stop taking it so seriously". Yeah ofcourse racism is so funny. It must be so depressing living in Korea when you're gay/woman/younger/foreigner etc. Everytime people address these things, they play it cool as if it's their own fault being gay/younger etc. I know not everything is bad, they have a wonderful culture,food etc. but there are also huge deficits that won't be solved by ignoring them.

[@berrybloom2000]

I agree, I think they have a hard time putting themselves in other people's shoes.. they can only feel empathy, but they can't put themselves in other's shoes, they also don't like being straight-forward.. therefore it leads to crappy advice. The show can be entertaining though.

[@oceansalami6818]

BTS V & GOT7 BamBam Trash Guys, that's how they let out anger.You should understand that this is a TV show, not a place where real psychiatric s are. Haters gonna hate, players gone play,live a life man, good luck.

[@faithfulrose5372]

Supriya Resmi but this show is mostly about addressing issues so

[@oceansalami6818]

FaithFul Rose and comedy

[@aaliyahwells3663]

I completely understand you, but you shouldn't hate the show for not speaking up against what is literally Korea's society. They grew up in Korean culture, which is heavily influenced by Confucian values which places elders above everyone else as they are wiser and blah blah blah. Age is important there, unlike say America. So them saying "as a maknae, you have to go through being treated lesser" is literally true and it's hard for them to speak against that when that's what everyone knows. The issue isn't this show, it's what's been ingrained in Koreans from birth. As well as the colorism that occurs in Korea, the way they dealt with that too is how any korean would which is sad. Korea as a whole needs to learn how to actually help people, their own people and the "aliens" that visit. This show alone can't solve the issue, but some should be trying to especially a show like this.

[@baekingkookieswithagdragon6875]

i think the grandmother is taking advantage of her age and when she gets a question she does not like she says "i dont remember". but anyways generally i am so frustrated at her!!! even if she is the elderly people should still ter her to stop it. Basically i cant relate to the girls story because my grandparents are fair and balanced but i am getting upset just from hearing it. I hate unfair people ever since i was young.

[@bomit-araqueenapinkbravegi4770]

her grandmother is so wrong and her older sister is disappointing too she keeps holding her head down Because she knows how hateful and wrong this situation is. put thinking idols as guest like Eunji the episode she guest on she asked questions and said what was on her mind. or someone who's job is to help ppl like this

[@elumix2430]

Bomi Apink no i dont think It is true maybe the younger sister is bad gal in the real life cos she is prettier than the older sister.. remmenber South korea is too superficial....

[@sintakrisna5784]

you just copy-paste answer oh my gosh kkkkkkkkk what do u want for hahahahhaahahhahaa

[@bomit-araqueenapinkbravegi4770]

+Sinta Krisna what do you mean Edit...Ahhhhhh I understand now I see this person has posted this comment on a few comments that disagree with the grandmother

[@bomit-araqueenapinkbravegi4770]

Elu Mix being prettier has nothing to do with the fact that her grandmother has said in front of her that you should have been a boy, or your father is having a hard time because of you. and this comment doesn't make sense to me because by the logic that SK is superficial shouldn't the younger sister get more love shouldn't she be the one sitting with her grandmother and not with the MCs

[@Lanhua.v]

Elu Mix stop freaking copying and pasting the same damn comment under every comment thread in this exact video IT'S ANNOYING AND YOUR REASON ISN'T RIGHT.

[@kimtaeworld6927]

I have a younger sister.. I want this girl to be another small sister too.. I would hug her and tell it's okay and would be with her such a sweetheart she is

[@Hannah-jq3bc]

Aww the girl is so pretty! And I feel so bad for her!