My Skincare Routine at 68 - Habits I Had To Change *

[@ballerypruitt2069]

Susan, we're you at my daughter's house this wek?? Ha, Ha! The conversation we had was so like what you were describing about the world seeing us "grandmothers" in a certain way or how they perceive we should be. I love my grandchildren beyond words but, I am not only "Grandma"! My daughter prints on tee shirts, sweatshirts etc. She says" Do you want a sweatshirt? Yes of course! So she says what do you want on it? I wanted my name , my name the world calls me on the pocket area. She says Why would you want that? The kids other Grandmother has me put something about being a Nana on everything she orders. I looked at her like who are u and Saud Darling I love being Gammy but Gammy is not my whole identity! I'm still Ballery !! Just because you become a grandmother or have been for 18 years doesn't mean you stopped being a woman. Yes I want the world to know I'm a grandmother but I also want the world to know I'm a woman with a full other identity also! Okay that's my grandmother rant for today ! Oh yea, and my name is Ballery !😂

[@LittlePoet]

This was very deep and very wise...we are so many things to so many people...not just " one" thing! We have to be the girl we always were...that sort of hit me this week. I LOVE being Grandma!! But I am not the little old lady on TV screaming about my Medicare....and I could see where we have to be careful to strike a true balance between the woman we are,..the woman we were and the woman we still strive to be! No titles...just living large and free!!! Love to you! Susan & Dez

[@dothatch5147]

My dermatologist told me to use Cereve products. I’m happy with them. Dezi if you follow that flea powder with an oatmeal bath your skin will be glowing.

[@lindadingess3343]

I agree , I’m a mother and a nanny , but first and foremost I am me. , I love me and I want to be the best me I can be 13:11

[@lindadingess3343]

I’ve seen that commercial lol , my friend and I were just talking, I’m 70 and as long as I have control over me , that will never be me , I’m like you , I love pretty clothes , hair and makeup , my family knows this 💞

[@tonifoster1835]

Hell yes I am you. I work full time and every Sat my son 33 who is a single dad shared care with his ex, calls me to hang out with them for the day-night. I love them all but I miss my life and the things I have always enjoyed on the w e’s. Good on you Ballery. 🌹💋

[@Billiard-cp1my]

Susan, listen and listen good. You are a beautiful woman with smooth skin who I could not possibly age if I didn't know your age, but it would definitely not be over 65. Secondly, you are one of the too few who have made your mark on the world. You have brought comfort to thousands of people with your channel and love into the lives of your family and friends (including Desi). Please don't despair about getting older (even though I do). Everyone is lucky to have you. You are a pleasure to have around and a pleasure to look at. My friend is so jealous of your hair and I love your beautiful face, dress sense and honesty. You are a poetic soul with magic running through your veins. I wish you nothing but love and happiness going forward xx

[@dianaschoen4485]

Agree!❤

[@leigh8637]

Oh, I love that - “a poetic soul with magic running through your veins” - it describes her perfectly ❤️

[@lubamordkovich4077]

Good plastic surgeon

[@karolinaeigenmacht5433]

I live in Israel. Gave myself permission to rest and relax for a few days. I am 62. An artist..love the warmth of your home, your keen sense for proportion and balance. And nature around you is breathtaking. So happy for you!! Maybe I'll have a chance to meet you in person one day.❤❤❤❤❤all the best from Karolina.

[@marca6190]

I just turned70 and I am experiencing identity crisis. I have lost so many things in the past few years. My health has declined from autoimmune disease, I sold my house and moved closer to my daughter because of my disability. My boyfriend died last March and my best friend did too same month. 😢 It's too much change and loss. I feel so utterly defeated and lost. Why does life have to be so hard. Maybe in time I will adjust but seeing our world in so much chaos scares me. It's hard to get old and see life change!! Thanks to u and Desi for being there❤

[@donnaatienza8001]

Aww I feel the same way too sometimes as I'm battling cancer at the age of 65.

[@marca6190]

@@donnaatienza8001 thanks for your response! You are in my prayers! If i werent a follower of Jesus our Saviour i would have lost all hope. In spite of it all He gives me hope when i have none! I pray for grace and strength! Bless you in your trials and may He give you Peace and Hope!🕊️✝️

[@evahamrick4197]

I understand. Been there and still digging out. Just start with ONE THING that's familiar to your life and the rest well slowly fill in. It's Going To Be OK! HUGS

[@marca6190]

@@evahamrick4197 thank you for your encouragement💗

[@maureenleclair8773]

Grandmothers are not the same as grandmothers of years ago. I am a grandmother and have been for almost 29 years. But... I worked up until 4 years ago. Years ago, grandmothers usually didn't work outside of the home. Now grandmothers are strong vibrant women. At least that's how I feel. I may not look it, but that's how I feel. I don't know how to feel old. I've never been this age before. And on my next birthday I'll be 80. How does an old lady act? I'm just the same me as I've always been. The body is slowing down, but the mind id still going. ❤

[@deliobaoduzzi6450]

I'm italian raised in italy . Here we love pasta and bread as you all know but many years ago i spent two weeks in croatia , in a little village on the sea front . I rent a tiny house and the owner proposed me to let her cook for me twice a day for a small sum of money . She served everyday a generous portion of fresh fish caught by her elderly father and plenty of vegetable fom her garden .no bread , no rice ,no crackers . I have never felt better in my life . My body and my brain were energized . This is my experience . I came back to italy and got back to my old way of eating . Now i'm sixty and would like to change my lifestyle . i'm not overweight but i feel intoxicated if very seldom i eat certain foods like sweets , fried or greasy. I'm reading all the comments and learning a lot .thanks to susan and all of you .ciao from venice italy .

[@ginnylorenz5265]

0:46 PLEASE no chocolate for Darling Desi. Toxic for doggies. Love you both❣❣

[@barbaraz8264]

I’m 68 years old but still have all the same feelings and thoughts that I had 40 years ago. I still dress the same and carry myself in the same way. That’s why it always surprises me when I find myself walking slower or getting tired more easily. But it’s important for me to accept my limitations while I continue to rock the same Barbara swagger!

[@ruthannpimentel2854]

Thank you for showing us what you use on your skin. You keep yourself looking so pretty. I really like the color of your eyebrow pencil what kind is it an what color please.

[@cacjersey]

I'm right there with you. Surprises me too. I listen to a sing back during Disco days and in my mind I picture myself dancing , remembering where I was, what I was doing, who I was dating. I had no interest marrying young. Well very young, I was 37 when I did after I lived with my boyfriend of 7 yrs to become my husband. I try to dance to these songs, I do ok but can't do certain steps like squatting way down or last thru the song. Get tired and winded quicker.

[@meditationgodsway1834]

I have to say that I'm with you on the subject of aging! I don't want to look or act like so many women my age. I'll be 67 in December and I sure don't feel that age. At least the way 'they' portray us to be. I love to dress cute, wear makeup and do my hair. I still run up and down our stairs! I'm not giving up and just getting old. I'm doing everything I can to stay strong and healthy.

[@Cori-se9ww]

You go girl. Me too at 65.😊

[@suzettecooper382]

I'm with you, I'm 66 very active and dress to brighten myself

[@sandrab.3538]

@@Cori-se9ww And me, three, at 66! I try to dress nicely and keep my hair updated, exercise and keep goimg. I love this channel for the ideas and inspiration she gives to us.

[@domenicagereaux6715]

Happy Birthday sweet little Desi! 🐾💕🎈 every time I see him in your yard running , it makes me cry- I think about how amazing his life is with you and how sad it was before living-no barely existing in that closet . I love watching your channel, I look forward to it every week. ❤️

[@tammi67able]

She’s an amazing pet parent they are so lucky to have each other

[@moonlighteternal8024]

I just love how you sang happy birthday to Desi, Susan...and the beautiful way he looked at you afterwards. He is such a heavenly gift- I love him SO much!

[@raeboyd5596]

I am 64 and my daughter just talked me into using retinol. I'm old school, I use noxema to clean my face and L'Oreal revialift moisturizer. I got some differin and use it on my hands to see if it helped the dark spots and it has so I started using it on my face. And the retinole only a couple of times a week. So thankyou for the warning and I'll switch. I love noxema and L'Oreal, they've been in the skin care business for a long time. And thankyou for the mascara and foundation tips. You are such a gem. I just found your channel tonight and I'm really enjoying your videos.

[@sheilavanduynfote5539]

I’m 72 and I am a caregiver for a lady who is 3 years older than me, every time I take her to a doctors appointment someone will think I am her daughter. I have used Ponds cold cream like my grandma used to use. Thank you for sharing your products on your face,have a blessed week. Happy Birthday Desi🍦🐾🐾

[@PicklesFiona]

Yes! I love Ponds too.

[@geraldinenaughton1522]

I'm 55, about 8 months ago, I started intermittant fasting. I consume all my calories by 5pm, and I have breakfast between 9 and 10am. I'm ees are clearer with no puffiness when I wake. I'm also sleeping deeply right through the night.. and I think this deep rest is making my skin look more uniform and dewy. I also have improved energy and I'm more mentally motivated to get stuff done. I will continue with this regime. Great video....

[@deniseparker1088]

🎉Started IF 8 months ago as well! Key to healthy weight loss.

[@xiomaras95]

Two habits I have which I feel work for me: for one, first thing I take in the morning is a room temperature glass of filtered water which gets me off to a good habit the rest of the day and secondly, I use sun screen 365 days a year rain or shine. I’m 76 with few. wrinkles and those I have i accept. As for meat, everything in moderation. Oh yes, I forgot a third - try not to worry about every little thing. It saps your energy. Go with the flow. Everything usually works out.

[@NancyStinger-ll6wt]

Oh my gosh I saw that commercial the other day and I found it so insulting !!!!! I want to prove that commercial wrong . I refuse the be like that woman . I was wondering if anyone else had seen it. I wish we could contact the people responsible for it. Happy Birthday to dear sweet Desi. Thank you for your skincare routine. Your face looks beautiful and bright ❤️

[@ginnytalbert2524]

you definitely don't look or act like an old grandma. Your skin, hair, and whole appearance are all beautiful. Happy Birthday to Desi!

[@jayemowrey1416]

Will sue I have used Retin-A from age 35 to age 75.... I have very few wrinkles, most people do not believe I'm 75 years old.... My skin is smooth and soft, I also use pumpkin seed and rosehip seed oil daily.. wash with gluconic wash..... I use castor oil on my eyelids at night , per my ophthalmologist, to prevent dry eye...I was told a long time ago by my mother be consistent with your skin care dont you keep switching it up ......and for many years I have been...I believe it's paid off.... I had severe acne as a young girl of 16, but at 75 I have no scars left 😊

[@LittlePoet]

I agree with you 100% - if you just keep at it and it's working, don't quit! It does make us look years younger...that and staying out of the sun everything.

[@medinajones5750]

Hello dear Susan & precious “birthday boy “ Desi!! I just wanted to say thank you Susan; because no matter what kind of week I’ve had, tuning in to your videos definitely helps lift my spirits!! I feel your kindness and compassion shining through!! You are beautiful Susan!! Don’t change to suit the whims of others- if you must, change because it’s something you need to do to make your life better!! I’m definitely learning that as I navigate through my 50s+!! I’m African American, going through menopause & trying to find what works best for me as to dealing with skincare and all the other challenges that brings. I’m also trying to improve my diet& drinking more water. Thanks for sharing what works for you and suggestions for all of us to find our own solutions to these aging issues. I love seeing snippets of your town & to see you& Desi relaxing in your home & community actually helps me de-stress each week!! Your fall colors are stunning!! Sending love and prayers to you Susan, darling Desi and your family!!! Have a wonderfully blessed and safe week ahead & God willing, I’ll see you both next weekend!!😍😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@saba9514]

I love it what you said,,

[@angelinadrobina5037]

Thanks

[@LittlePoet]

Oh how sweet!!! Thank you so so much for your contribution to our channel here!!! Your kind heart means so much to me and to Desi too! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! If there is certain conetent you would like to be addressed, please let me know Angelina!!! Much Love Always, Susan & Desi

[@oliviaholland6970]

Go Susan!!! I agree with you so much! Just because we turn 70 or 70 plus doesn't mean we are going to wither up and become a shadow of who we are! I still think sex, looking my best, having new adventures and not acting like someone's idea of a little old granny keeps me vibrant and interesting. My 94 year old Mom thinks so too (well, perhaps not the sex part 😂)! And everyone cannot eat the same way either! All of us have unique differences. I too do better when I don't eat meat. But I also don't eat sugar. My body is unique to me. I have a friend who thrives on Keto and another who is doing great as a vegan. I respect their uniqueness and they respect mine. Sassy is in and I plan to be that way forever!

[@karenferrel8308]

You're a beautiful soul, inside and out. What an inspiration you are for me❤

[@c-p1976]

Desi has to be the cutest thing on four paws - I just love him to pieces!! What a personality! I'm coming up on 59, and I truly enjoy working with my skin to keep it as fresh, youthful, and vibrant as possible. I've always been a skincare fanatic. It's something that makes me happy. :-)

[@ronmecklenburg74]

My sweet precious Susan I will be 80 in February. My son of 54 said MOM that woman is younger than you and she looks horrible. And her behavior is nothing like you, I'm so glad you act young and look young. I agree this portrays us as old frumps. I am told I could pass for 70 I know that isn't much younger, but I do try and keep myself looking good and acting good. My granddaughter is 33 and I am proud of being her granny that is what she calls me. I am granny to her two of my great-grands. Thanks to the good God I'm alive to enjoy them and be a blessing with all my old stories. I enjoy your videos so much and your Desi is adorable. Happy Birthday to him. I would love to pet him. He is a good dog, not a yapper. Who wouldn't want Desi? Thank you Susan for your love and time you take to share with us. We love you and Desi.

[@terrigodfrey8260]

I'm a carnivore, eat lots of beef, meats, seafood, cheese and grass fed butter. For me, that's the proper human diet. All my inflammation disappeared and I take no medications. I'm 75 and someone thought I was 50 the other day! We need sufficient amounts of quality protein to rebuild cells and skin. Love your videos, Susan. You are a light.

[@ladyyaya6782]

You know what’s weird? When I think about my Mom and Dad who are no longer with us, I always see them young and beautiful! In my mind I’m 30 lol. Let’s just be ageless❤

[@LittlePoet]

I agree with you!!!

[@lindafrazier8092]

I have never been able to digest meat... I think what is a choice for one is not a choice for all.

[@BedfordFalls7]

They say we go back to our best self and the age of 35 usually when in Heaven. I saw my Mom in a dream and she was a young thirty something in the dream. I have always looked ten years younger than I am. I agree, let's be ageless! I feel young so why not be who we are?

[@heidibee501]

I think the problem is some people see us as the Grandma who was young in the thirties, forties or even before that. They don't see us as someone who wore mini skirts, someone who protested the Vietnam war, who loved heavy metal music while enjoying the Everley Brothers, or conquered space travel, etc. We were at our prime in the sixties, seventies, or eighties. *👴👵The people they see in us were our grandparents, not us.*

[@elainelang9031]

Every time I see an old man/woman I think they they were young people once and I'm gonna talk to them like they still are,just because they are 80/90yrs doesn't mean we have to talk to them in a way that they are no longer needed in this world and that they are done for and no use to society anymore, I treat them like they are still here and deserve to be spoken to in a way they are still wanted/ needed for as long as possible with respect, my friend is 92 and feels lonely and that doctors think she isn't worth bothering about because OF HER AGE,it's so sad I visit her often to cheer her up and take her a treat,happy birthday Desi you look wonderful for 10yrs old have you been using your mama's face oils/ creams 😂❤ hugs Elaine u.k.

[@pegprather84]

I am your age Susan. My new habit started a year ago. I get up early, throw on a swim suit (and clothes) and drive to my athletic club with a pool. I do water aerobics with many seniors, some of them in their 90’s. So many people staying young with exercise, singing, laughing, socializing. It’s a hoot, and has helped my painful body feel much better. Oh, and the water is warm! Try it!

[@MarciMarsea]

Also, how inspiring you are. The TV ads are so insulting and very dumbed down. I believe, or hope, most of us are aware that life is so much more than what the awful ads put in front of us.

[@yellowstonekv959]

For being 65, my skin looks pretty decent. Some people that hear my age are shocked. But...I have flares of rosacea and mild eczema that I cover well. I know it's from my diet. Corn is the worst! Dairy and sugar is another (and I love cheese 😒) So I struggle. Desi is a doll and dear Susan, you are too! Love your videos and appreciate that you don't request your viewers to "like and subscribe". Instead you invite us back like an old friend. And 108k do! No other channel does that. Love you bunches!

[@carolteuchert3762]

Took me a long time to be my own best friend. I can truly care and love others this week has broken my heart. Time to stand against the evil around us. Bless you dear girl you make a difference and inspire us to be our best selves. Happy Birthday precious little lad.

[@jenniesuter4402]

Hi Susan! I always enjoy your videos and love Desi too. I'm 82 and on the Keto way of eating. I use Algenist Collagen every morning followed by any moisturizer I have handy. Before I go to bed I use retin-A by Peter Roth and a moisturizer. I also use Castor oil on my eyelids and one drop in each eye. Keeps me from having cataracts and dry eyes. I just had my annual physical and my Dr. said I was very young and young looking for my age. Only med I take is for my thyroid.

[@Wendysnostalgiclife]

Chicken BONE Broth is loaded with collagen & protein. It’s so good for you.

[@carolinagirl9896]

Loved this skin care video.. Please do one on your makeup. Happy birthday to that sweet little Desi. He is just precious.

[@BriangjohnsonTv]

FIRST!! Thanks for the awesome content friend. 😊

[@LittlePoet]

Love you! You know I do....but you never take me anywhere...LOL xxoo Love your channel!

[@fredaperry321]

Hi Susan, you are such a light and inspiration to me, but, ooops, your doctor is ignorant. I've been carnivore , all animal based foods, for six months .Hi blood pressure gone, no more prilosec, or allegra much, much better outlook and attitude concerning life and much younger looking skin and thicker hair. Because animal based is all whole food, no addictives, its the best elimination diet, to see, as you add things back, what is affecting your health. You should try it for 3months and see how you feel. I've tried all diets, none worked because, I believe, I'm carb addictive, cravings never stopped, until now. This is amazing. I forgot to mention, arthritis pain is much less and at 62 I've lost 28 pds and counting. Thank you so much for your wisdom and joyful life outlook. You are so good for me!

[@llnow1237]

Agree totally.

[@mbmiller1956]

Susan, this last couple of weeks has me emotionally reeling as well. It’s hard to rise above the suffering we’re seeing … feeling so helpless. Happy Birthday to sweet Desi. He doesn’t look a day over FIVE. BEAUTIFUL trees/leaves around your lovely little home. Embrace the season!!

[@babettephillips3261]

Happy Birthday to Desi!!🥳🥳🎉🎉🎉

[@reneesanthon1041]

Susan, i’ve been watching your videos for quite a while now, since before you moved to you wonderful new home. I enjoy Desi in the yard and your spunky personality. Last week I clicked on your music link and Wow! You have a beautiful voice. I’m almost 70 and I’m happy to be a part of your loving audience. You go girl!💝

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much! You are so pretty!!!

[@KarenLawana]

Susan, you hit on what has to be my biggest issue with aging. It's not the fact that I'm getting older, it's the fact that people have such a stereotype about how women should look, sound, act, and feel as they get older. You certainly do not fit that stereotype, and neither do so many women I know. Yes, there are some women out there who have given up on themselves, and that makes me sad. But that isn't the truth for so many of us. OUR truth is that we are strong, vibrant, relevant women who still have a lot to offer this world. I applaud you for spreading that message, and it's my mission to do the same. It's always such a pleasure to spend a little time with you and Desi!

[@LittlePoet]

You are just fabulous Karen!!! we sure think alike!!!

[@shirlynb148]

Susan, I’m an almost 64 year young Carnivore. I just got my blood work results last week after not seeing one in almost 10 years. ALL my numbers were superb! My new very young female Doc was especially thrilled with my cholesterol as it was high but all the good type. The only below average number was my sugar. I do drink coffee, use spice and eat dairy. My skin care is an hour walk a day and using my sauna at least 4 times a week.

[@shamaywilliams-blake]

First and foremost Happy 10th Desi❤ Susan, whenever you have those off days, like we all do, just remember you have a whole lot of friends globally who love and appreciate you. I need to be more intentional with how I spend the gift of life that God blesses me with every day. 68 and determined to just be me, fearfully and wonderfully made.

[@sharonmeredith7106]

Vasoline Petroleum Jelly ! Petrolatum is the base for many facial products as well as prescription skin creams. It has been used for over 100 years.

[@letsbeforeveryoung]

Happy Birthday Little Desi 🎂❤️

[@annetterogers5769]

The joy that your channel brings us all every week is a habit I never want to give up.

[@sulphurgirl8836]

By the way….” I very much like…the me….you are!” You are lovely, talented, and wise. Appreciate your videos very much….and, your little Dezi. May all your dreams come true!

[@lose999]

Desi is living his best life. HBD #10...🎂 I'm so happy for both of you. ❤ You're an outstanding videographer.

[@sjp4u338]

Don’t try to conform. Just be yourself. 🌷

[@lauraklascius6427]

I'll be 74 yrs November 1st. I intend to still war makeup, experiment with skin care products and tint my hair. I'll never stop looking my best. Fabulous video.Happy Birthday Desi! 🎉🍰🎂🥰

[@SR2858]

Happy birthday Desi 🎉❤😊

[@daniellem5175]

The way Desi looked up at you at the end of the BD song. Oh my heart!! So sweet!♥♥

[@LittlePoet]

He is a darling boy!

[@pambrunelle8772]

Your /music/ little dog/ info is some of the most beautiful and lovely I have watched ! Due to very sensitive skin I have never been able to join in with the retin a trend. Listening to you yrs ago I have been using very simple products and oh yes beautiful nourishing oils ! I am now very pleased with my healthy glowing skin at 65 yrs ! I don't care what anyone says , feeling good about how healthy you look is a part of feeling good ! Desi is the cutest !!!

[@patralink]

Happy birthday sweet Desi! Desi is living his best life since you found him Susan. He is just precious. As I get old (turning 72 in next year) I find one of my good habits is speaking with my authentic voice. I don't have time to waste being a people pleaser or spending time with people who drain my energy. I like that about this stage in life. I know who I am now and I give myself permission to be who I am. Not everyone is going to like me of course (just like I don't like everyone) and I am good with that. Have a good week Susan and thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@tennysoneffie6943]

I’m just back home to Ireland; had a wonderful holiday in Santa Fe New Mexico, thrift shopped, enjoyed the eclipse, beautiful meals, enjoyed outdoor evenings drinking wine and the company of old and new friends. Paid for excess baggage and kept on smiling….one of my thrift finds was a small antique cut glass vase….turns out it was Waterford Crystal which originated a few miles down the road from my home…so it has twice, travelled half way round the world and now is back home!😁 Had my first visit to Walmart, Costco’s, and two other rather large stores……I had two wonderful weeks of experiencing the epicentre of art and culture….My beautiful American friend isn’t feeling so well ……can I ask all of you beautiful women to remember her in a little prayer tonight..xx

[@suzanne296]

I have to say Desi is my love behind my cat princess. Watching him in the yard just warms my heart. Answering your question is something I use to be more lax on. Being honest and reliable. I had someone who blew me off in April and I hadn't heard from since them Friday there was a phone message from her letting me know she's moving near me. I'm sorry but I'm 61 and friends are sparse. But I do have a standard that I need my buddies to be honest if they can't follow thru and be reliable to a point. I stood that ground with the gal who called Fri. No more.

[@tammi67able]

❤❤❤

[@elizabethmaloneorlando217]

Happy Birthday Desi 🥳🥳🥳🥳🎉🎉🎉🎉 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🐕🍂🍁🐕🍂🍁🐕🍂🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@nancyadamson286]

Strength but also forgiveness, Suzanne. Maybe she didn't blow you off. But rather, something happened in her life and she was just broken and is now recovering. She did reach out...

[@heidibee501]

Good for you. I had a friend like that. She would break off the friendship over a false pretence. Then after a period of time l would hear from her because she needed something. When she got it she terminated the friendship again. The last time she did that l realized it was the fifth ttime. I changed my number after letting her know that l was permanently done.

[@suzanne296]

I hear you and thought the same. I deserved to get a call saying "sorry I stood you up twice"

[@suemount6042]

I’m 65 this year 2025 since turning 60 the change in attitude towards me has changed radically and all because of a number it’s crazy. Literally overnight I was spoken too in that slightly slower voice like I don’t understand what your saying it’s like the youth switch was suddenly turned of and I’m supposed to be waiting for God to end it all. And it seems to be worse because I’m single too I have children but let’s just say the men I had in my life when having them changed their minds and left without looking back. No conscious uncoupling and great duel parenting for us more of a judgement on them than me. As an only child there’s no siblings and nieces and nephews etc it’s also hard to nigh on impossible when your a full time carer I have no prospect for a social life and feel like a fish out of water if I do get time out. So coming here to escape is such a lovely thing Susan you and everyone in the comments keep me going at my lowest points it’s a wonderful resource to have. Thank you all

[@SharonKBM]

Happy birthday, Desi ❤ He is beautiful. I can't believe he is 10 years old! It is obvious how well he is taken care of by you. I know he takes care of you, too. I am going to be 63 in January, but I feel about 73 these days. My skin has very suddenly started aging and I look about 5 years older than I am. I am in a very difficult season of life that is not going to change for a long time and I felt like the stress was killing me and aging me. I am trying to work through some difficult emotions while improving my lifestyle through diet and exercise to help stop this rapid decline in my health and looks. I have cut way down on sugar, alcohol, caffeine, simple carbs and most processed foods and I limit meat to a very small portion each day. It's not as much fun, but I hope it helps. By the way, I saw that ad for Medicare and found it offensive. The men in Medicare commercials are usually handsome and well-dressed, while the women are made out to be old hags or something. Maybe it's supposed to be funny but I don't appreciate it. It sends the wrong message.

[@janedough6575]

Eat meat for good mental health.

[@lisabrock960]

Wonderful to see you Susan and Desi. ❤ Happy birthday Desi , you are a charming fella.

[@georgiafrancis9059]

Susan, I swear you look in your early forties! Nearing 70 wouldn't have been guessed. Thank you for all your great information! God bless you and Desi in your new home💕

[@msp6836]

Happy birthday Dezi🎉 agreed Susan we should be the best version of ourselves we can be❤

[@snow_white_75]

Look forward to your visit every Saturday night!! Just got a wonderful compliment from a cashier on Friday, she said I had the most beautiful skin, asked if my parents had good skin… I thanked her for the wonderful compliment.. told her I use Ponds cleanser, witch hazel and Oil of Olay… I’m gonna keep the same plan.. once a month or so I use the apricot scrub from St Ives…

[@carmenzermeno7707]

Aww Happy Birthday handsome Desi❤️ I’m 70 years old and I get complimented on how I look and my skin. I don’t have many wrinkles. No crows feet at all. I have been vegetarian for 34 years and became Vegan 7 years ago. It’s so true that meat and dairy cause inflammation. I don’t conform to what people think a 70 year old should dress or act like. I walk 6-7 miles at least 5 days per week , I have skydived at 69 years of age, still snorkel and am just active. I dress sexy but classy. My granddaughters love how I look and they love that I’m so active😊❤️

[@mcrachelgrace9568]

I love your heartfelt message at the end! My takeaway: those of us who are lucky enough to live in a safe place and are capable, can contribute to world healing by being our best for, and helping, those we can who are in our lives.

[@LittlePoet]

Oh yes...you made me cry....it is up to us to pay our life forward in any way we can...we are never too old to have a purpose! Love to you! Susan

[@bomeister335]

I hate that Medicare commercial! Whenever it comes on, my husband knows to immediately mute or change the channel. Where did they find her? Not in any of my friends neighborhoods. LOL. Happy Birthday Desi, you cute little man, we all love you so much. As far as the facial care goes, everyone is different, what works for one doesn't work for all, mostly genetics play the more important part. All the You Tubers say their products are the best ones. I'm prone to skin cancers so my dermatologist says to use only Neutrogena products with sunscreen, I do and I also use rose hip and pumpkin seed oils. I see him twice a year and he says my skin is great, very healthy and I'm a happy young 74. Love you Susan!

[@dianerogers3420]

Hi Susan and happy birthday Desi 🎉. I immediately put the black pearl eye patches in my order on Amazon. Thanks so much for the info. Then I thought should I mention this...then I thought I have to it's Desi's birthday. Dogs live half as long as they used to and have the highest cancer rate in the world since kibble hit the market also yearly shots cause cancer. Monthly chemicals cause seizures. Dogs are 99.9% wolf every breed and thrive on animal protein. For my dog Happy I boil chicken and gizzards or lightly cook hamburger some eggs or fish then I add a few greens with liquid vitamins and minerals. Most treats are garbage. Desi looks incredibly healthy but just in case ,...I had to pass on what I've discovered. I think I would have run out of subjects years ago but every week your like a breath of fresh air and Desi is a little gem. ❤Diane

[@jayemowrey1416]

Susan I was wondering if you ever got your listening room???? Maybe an old classic book on tape for everyone to sit around and listen to the story together❤

[@AnnCashes]

Great video Susan! I call it "Dont let the old lady in" and boy does she try to get in sometimes!! But I fight her off daily :) Happy Birthday Desi!!!

[@NN-ht1lp]

Susan & Desi, thank you for the love, kindness, and time out from this crazy world.

[@jayemowrey1416]

Yes put those boxwoods in the ground!!! Yes I use my pumpkin seed and rosehip seed daily on damp skin for absorption....!!! Thanks for the tip on your new cleanser I'll try it !!! Your skin just glows!!! Sue I am 75 years old have been watching you for years... I want to let you know that it is normal to have down days.... There are days I don't want to get out of my PJs, I just want a cup of tea and my blankie and curl up on the couch and watch movies !!!! And on those days I feel very unsociable!!! This doesn't happen weekly, but maybe bimonthly....I just feel I've earned a quite alone day now & then at my age,. I can solve everyone's problems tomorrow ❤❣️ on these days I also stay away from all News...it's always depressing & out of my control to change it....

[@nicolahooppell4265]

Be the wonderful woman that you are ❤ and thank you for your beauty tips. I am having to rediscover myself after 42 years of marriage, now separated not my choice. You have inspired me and lifted me in some dark and often confusing times. Don't change xx

[@LittlePoet]

You are so welcome!

[@MyLivingJournal]

Happy birthday Desi!!!!!!

[@karenA6039]

Susan, I enjoy your videos. I'm going through a divorce and your sincere honesty about life is so helpful!

[@LittlePoet]

You are so sweet!!! I hope you are doing ok,,,that first year alone is special...you wont ever forget the good, the bad and all the learning! Sending you love! Susan & Desi

[@annewhitney8809]

Susan is a wise woman. I left an abusive relationship 7 years ago and grieved the familiar for about a year. I didn’t understand the sadness at the time. I wish I had a Susan in my life to explain why I felt this way.

[@southerngal345]

The 1 tried and true old habit that I developed and never miss is my annual dermatology visit where I get a whole body skin exam. Old habits that I gave up were going down the rabbit hole of products that are constantly bombarded on us by social media. I also consult with my derm and my esthetician on a simplified skin care routine that is best for me and my budget. I do get a really good facial every 3 months with a licensed esthetician who specializes in aging skin care. I'm 68 yo and both of my "skin specialists" say I have near flawless skin. And the best thing is most all the products I use are around $20 or less. Diet changes and drinking at least 32 oz of water daily has contributed greatly to the process as well.

[@susanjackson6228]

Susan, you are a comfort to many, every week, and I am grateful. If you were merely beautiful, as you are, creative, as you are, I might follow you to see your lovely home but it is your warmth, gentleness, your ability to laugh at yourself, your authenticity and the comfort you offer every week that has me looking forward to Saturday evenings. Thank you for being you! Happy B’day to Desi. From Susan and Dewi

[@gailhorrocks]

Happy Birthday little guy.

[@naebello]

Sooooo happy for you! You've persevered & continued to plug right along and build your channel...Mr. Desi looks so happy & free running around in his own yard ❤

[@tcm3097]

Susan, I love your channel and follow you. This particular video has some concerns. You have stated some things that are incorrect. Retin-A (tretinoin) DOES NOT CLOG PORES. retinol is the gold standard of anti-aging skin care. You should not be getting your dermalogical advice from your eye doctor. Using retinol does not cause dry eyes. Please see a board-certified dermatologist for accurate information. As for facial oils, it only lay on the top surface of the skin and does not penetrate the skin. It is made to seal in the moisture already there. For example, you would use a moisturizer first that does penetrate the skin and seal it with an oil, if you choose to use one. Facial oils do not penetrate to our cells and do not “trick” your cells into behaving younger. Retin-A or tretinoin does penetrate to the cells and encourages and promotes collagen, production, and exfoliation of the upper layers of the skin. I am soon to be 59 years old and have been using tretinoin, the prescription strength, Retin-A for almost 20 years. My age has been guessed in early 40s at most. Again Susan, I adore your channel. It gives me much pleasure to view it, but I strongly urge you to put out only content that is accurate. There are a lot of people that follow you and look up to you and you want to be sure that you are being accurate in your information. Take good care.

[@teddic6214]

Hi Susan, Sometimes when people become vegetarian or vegan, they do not know they need to supplement with vitamin B12 & D. A lack of these two vitamins can cause anemia. Everyone’s body reacts differently. There is no one size fits all. Meat works great for some folks & some of us cannot assimilate it. You seem to be good at listening to your body. Thank you for the glycolic acid products. At 69, I cannot use Retin A anymore either. I look forward to trying these products. Bless your dear heart once again.❤️❤️❤️Much love to you & Desi.

[@Moonwing72]

I think about my grandma and her skin routine. She had beautiful skin. Wash with a face cloth, and use oil of ulan moisturiser (now Olay). That’s it. Now I’m a grandma too I’m all about protecting my skin barrier… and I think she was on to something. No stripping products, the warm face cloth to cleanse with is enough of a exfoliation for me. I use a face oil and a sunscreen and a basic moisturiser and I am loving the simplicity ❤

[@jacquelinedonoghue2135]

Happy birthday Desi….the most adorable little fellow. Love his Halloween ears 💙 Wonderful photography Susan…simply stunning. I’m 71 and use everything available to keep looking my best. The best eye cream and lip cream ….in my opinion are from an Australian brand called Alpha H….I use the day moisturiser too containing factor 50. I’m in the uk so not sure if it’s available in u.s but worth a try if you can get it.👍 You’re looking amazing Susan and your attitude is very positive and that will keep you young and current. God bless you both until next week 🌸

[@leigh8637]

Belated Happy Birthday, sweet little Desi! 🎂🐾🎂 You are so precious ❤

[@janebentrott5984]

Thank you for the comments you made at the end of your video. I have struggled for the past couple of weeks because of a variety of things…and for no reason at all. I suppose that our identity and our idea of self changes through out our lives, but it seems more intense right now. It is nice to know that there are other women who feel the same way. Hugs!

[@LittlePoet]

Yes....I am right with you....it's been a tough fall...but we got this...xxoo

[@fredaperry321]

Ooops, forgot, Happy Birthday, Desi!!! Love you😘

[@Karen-nq8du]

Hey Susan. I've already ordered the eye patches and the glycolic acid face wash. Thanks for the recommendations. I've been making hyaluronic acid serum and vitamin C serum with ingredients from "Making Cosmetics" for a long time but I'm ready for something different. I just read a lot of these comments and am so pleased to know so many women our age still feel vibrant, pretty, and energetic and get mistaken for being much younger than their chronological age because of exactly that vibe. This is my tribe and I'm happy to be part of it. I am amazed that somebody would correct you for talking about sex. We're still alive, right? I hope you have a better week coming up and thanks for being so transparent about your ups and downs. We're all having 'em. Sending love and hugs. xo karen

[@user-dianejcml]

Lovely post. Nice to have a tribe for our age range here 🥰 I'm going to order the eye patches too. I love the Pumpkin oil Susan uses so much.

[@VirginiaDeveau]

Susan my grandson also minds when I don't have my glasses on, we face time and I find I see the phone better without them. The woman on TV is a weirdo and was meant to be a weirdo, please don't look for negativity where there is none. I love your channel and have been so envious of your talents. Your music selection always impresses. Have a good one

[@angelacrowder6127]

Hello Susan and Desi ❤❤❤

[@nilakshiroy6]

Happy birthday Desi boy!

[@MaryEllenAfter60]

Good morning Susie, and The Dez. Looks like Desi had a great birthday!! I'm so happy you have a warm, and beautiful home of your own. You've found great products that work for you! Your skin looks fabulous. I bought my first under eye masks some time ago, you've inspired me to give them a try. Oh, when the women with the big glasses appears on our TV I pause the channel long enough to fast forward, lol. Her voice gets to me!! Blessings, and luch love to you, and The Dez...Mimi P.S> I must tell you, 70 is not scary at all!!!

[@sanjuanitadiaz5864]

Happy Birthday Desi 💕 Thank you for giving him such a great life. He really looks like he is thriving! 🐾 🌹 🎉

[@retiredinbudapest4579]

I had no idea retinols dried out your eyes. I started using one and thought I was having an issue with dry eyes. I stopped using it for other reasons and noticed my eyes weren’t as dry and irritated. Thank you! I have those same thoughts too. We aren’t alone. You are so lovely and I enjoy your channel. ❤

[@LittlePoet]

I am so glad you found Desi and me....thank you for being here and thank you for yur kind words...xxoo Susan & Desi

[@danababb1226]

I so enjoy your videos. Each week you speak directly to my 74 year old self (or so it seems). I appreciate that you share your life with us. It is truly inspirational.

[@rebeccapeacock1310]

Happy Birthday to Desi! You are giving him a very good life, full of love and attention. (Hope he didn’t actually eat the chocolate cupcake though.) I had a similar negative reaction to that stupid commercial and how it stereotypes older women and makes us look out of touch and uninformed. Maybe women like us need to speak up and let these advertisers know we don’t appreciate it.

[@JustMellie.]

Little Poet, Thank you for saying what you said at the end of your video. I am 68 and I am who I am because of the life I've led, not some old woman, but a vibrant caring mature woman who believes in Love and living every day to the fullest! Being a widow for 10 years has taught me that life still has surprises! Thank you for the skin care tips. I'll be on Amazon after I post this comment. I refuse to sit in a housecoat, stop caring about my appearance, and hide away in my home watching TV. You are an inspiration!

[@madelinekimbro2440]

Loved your video! You have inspired me to take better care of my skin over the past few years! Ladies... please remember that television and magazines are specifically designed to promote propaganda. If we all feel terrible about ourselves and worthless after we turn 30 years old...well... just think about how much we have all invested in the beauty, health and weight loss industries over the years, and still we question how we should look and feel. We are all beautiful. Blessings to all!!!

[@kellyevans207]

Very well said ❤

[@terrymunoz2781]

hugs to you for lifting my 61 year spirits and happy birthday to Desi🎉

[@naynahilton7290]

Happy Birthday, Dezi !, I am surprised that Susan has given you chocolate !! Doesn’t she know that chocolate is poison for dogs ??

[@aujkalenic4203]

Castor oil and Nivea cream my all time favs! I have stockpiles of product that actually need thrown away, I just set myself up for a clean up project today 😂 Happy Birthday Mr Desi 🎉

[@Grannysouth]

To me, being content and calm is the best thing I can do for myself. Stress does cause disruptions in body processes and stress is a factor in many diseases. The skin thins and we lose muscle mass and structure as we age. So do what you feel comfortable doing and don't stress about the commentors who disagree and/or try to "correct" you. My Aussie rescue is 10 this year too. She's such a beautiful, sweet girl. Happy birthday Desi.

[@tynaedwards8452]

I have been using the same skin care regiment since I was in my 20's. I'm now in my 70's and it still works for me. The market became too glutted and confusing with products ,so since what I used was working well, I stuck with it. Advertising needs to get a grip on what's happening out there. We don't look like old grandmothers in housecoats! My mother never did either!

[@elbaalicea8689]

YOU HIT THE NAIL RIGHT ON THE HEAD. I AM 73 AND I TAKE GOOD CARE OF MY SELF, AND I DON'T DRESS MY AGE AND I PUT ON MY MAKE-UP EVERY DAY. KEEP DOING WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN DOING, MAKE UP ,DRESSING GOOD AND DOING YOUR HAIR ECT.. YOU LOOK GREAT.

[@SohniaCampbell-vv9xj]

You're such an awesome person! I love how artistic and compassionate you are. You lift my spirits and I watch your videos every day. Thank you! ☮️ ❤