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DeMars Coaching

DeMars Coaching

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@wolfgang7812
@wolfgang7812 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not suprised narcs will push on your boundaries so much that they can push you to feeling suicidal.
@trevorwilliamson8177
@trevorwilliamson8177 4 жыл бұрын
Hi David I watched from start to finish. My name is Trevor . I’m from Pennsylvania . I’m 6’8” and for so long was embarrassed that I let myself stay in a physically abusive relationship with a woman I thought I loved . I moved and relocated myself hoping it make us as a couple more successful. I lost myself entirely trying to make her happy . Once I learned what a narcissist was I realized so many things that helped me heal . Thank you for everything
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome Trevor and every tragedy seems to have a silver lining and im happy you see yours. Thank you buddy!
@Niles-Guy
@Niles-Guy 4 жыл бұрын
Trevor welcome to the club . I felt humiliated and couldn’t turn to police nor the courts because men being abused is something that the courts cannot accept . Men need a me too movement as well because yes men can be abused. And just like you I did everything to please her even buying a $400,000 house and still the monster wasnt happy . She led me down the road and took and took but never gave . I was physically and emotionally abused and had nobody to turn too. 21 years wasted and I’m still in recovery but I’m hoping one day God Will grace me with peace one day
@HeatherDMorris
@HeatherDMorris 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you. I'm glad your healing and moving on. You deserve it !
@christinaabouziouri8640
@christinaabouziouri8640 3 жыл бұрын
Well done Trevor! Happy you did it and you are not a survivor as many say but a real warrior and yes you won!
@gabrielavillegas9233
@gabrielavillegas9233 3 жыл бұрын
I love this channel ❤️
@jolly7728
@jolly7728 3 жыл бұрын
It's fascinating to hear a man talk openly about his life. So many men suffer in silence, much to their own detriment. The common thread running across your life experiences is that you are physically and emotionally tough. And that's often what it takes to get through the horrible things you've been through for so long. When it comes to thrashing people in order to survive, we all have the right to self-defense. Another factor is that the majority of the problems were caused by individuals. Some of us withdraw into a tiny cocoon and do things that don't involve people as much as possible in order to cope with traumatic relationships - no dating, working with things rather than people. It's all about the fight-or-flight response. You went with the former, while many of us went with the latter. Many people die as a result of similar abusive relationships. So glad you're here to assist people who have been harmed by this thing we call life.
@AliciaM5555
@AliciaM5555 8 ай бұрын
So true! Since the lockdowns I literally withdrew from people as I detoxed from people and have been working on myself and doing shadow work to find out what my demons were feeding on and how I contribute to the toxicity in my life. We might need emotional connection but when there's an issue in our lives that keep repeating than there's a problem. My picker is broken but I'm working on it. ❤
@k.l.hollister8128
@k.l.hollister8128 Жыл бұрын
Breaks my heart to hear what step parents can do to innocent children. It’s just plain evil if you ask me. I’m sorry you had to endure that.
@gretaholmes783
@gretaholmes783 21 сағат бұрын
I love children so much and I bonded with every child I’ve ever cared, for I would’ve loved to have stepchildren. It hurts my heart, the things they experience.
@jammetmalibu
@jammetmalibu 4 жыл бұрын
Personal stories help me so much. You are an inspiration, thank you.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
You are an inspiration waiting to happen to!
@maried7776
@maried7776 3 жыл бұрын
So proud of you~You've been through so much. You are an inspiration.
@maried7776
@maried7776 3 жыл бұрын
Wow Wow~ Amazing how the manifestation of what parents do or don't do brings so much turmoil in children. How feelings of embarrassment of their crap burden the child causing insecurities. You explain this so well. TY
@alimccreery755
@alimccreery755 Жыл бұрын
Hi from Portland Oregon soon to move to Sacramento California. I can relate with your childhood but with a few differences. I left home completely when I was 16 years old. I’m the adult child of an alcoholic. I never went back to living with my mom and I met my dad after I married a guy who was in the Air Force and was stationed from Hawaii to Georgia. I never did get a total emotional connection to either of my parents. I’ve had 4 failed marriages with in between relationships. I’m getting away from living in the home of a narcissist and was relieved when the romantic relationship with another narcissist discarded me. I’m listening now to people like you, I’ve had enough of abusing myself as well as abuse from others.
@shelchicago8997
@shelchicago8997 Жыл бұрын
You’re a healer
@chilloften
@chilloften 2 жыл бұрын
It’s good to hear from others experience. I learn.
@athinagouti7299
@athinagouti7299 2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong. You are a wonderful person...
@1966wilky
@1966wilky 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, listening from UK and have been curious about 'your story' so really appreciate you going over this for us ❤️
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being curious and commenting!!
@sandramoricle7485
@sandramoricle7485 4 жыл бұрын
I was discarded in 2018..... it was extremely abusive. I have left comments over the last couple of years. Less frequently now..... because I have taken your advice to the letter. 2 years and 3 months no contact. I have been doing my art, gardening , playing my guitar.... I have ALL of my passions back. I love the person I am, and I have you to thank for that. Thanks for helping me to change my life for the better.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sandra, you have yourself to thank the most!
@patricialloyd3773
@patricialloyd3773 4 жыл бұрын
Hi David from ENGLAND 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 here in the U.K. 🇬🇧 thanks for all yr videos! 🙏💖
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Patricia!
@ElsjeMassyn
@ElsjeMassyn 2 жыл бұрын
Attachment styles & Trauma - so interesting Thanks for sharing your story
@radmila9626
@radmila9626 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your life story ❤
@mruizruiz2329
@mruizruiz2329 4 жыл бұрын
Hi David, Malinda from Sacramento, CA. Thank you for sharing your story. I firmly believe we are products of our past, but what makes YOU uniquely qualified to help us on our journeys is that you have walked the walk, climbed the mountain and seen the other side of the efforts you put forth to heal yourself. Very giving, and VERY special. Such a humble thing to give back!
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Keep being sweet Malinda, thank you so much!
@r.bishop1127
@r.bishop1127 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I've been binge watching your videos because I suspect my ex is BPD or a sociopath. Your videos are very helpful. Can you do one on BPD executive dysfunction? I'm still stuck in ruminating. But I'm out. I'm an adult child of alcoholics amongst other dysfunction and I've done a lot of work to heal, but apparently not enough.
@catrionamcbride6575
@catrionamcbride6575 4 жыл бұрын
Catriona from Ireland, I could identify with so much you said. Well done with coming out the other side that's so much brighter.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Catriona, I am waiting for you too!
@charliedallachie3539
@charliedallachie3539 4 жыл бұрын
Very interesting to hear the hindsight. I’ve found being a Catholic/Christian, a lot of times we’re told to forgive. And forgiveness is important for self healing as well but it’s often confused with not having boundaries or not standing up for yourself when necessary. You can forgive while cutting contact (it’s not healthy to hold resentment). Healthy boundaries. Turn the other cheek shouldn’t mean to open yourself up to abuse. If it were myself, I’d slowly allow an abusive parent back into my life (people do change or have a reconciliation sometimes) but If the abuse starts again back to no contact. Boundaries, a lot of people don’t know what that is.
@christinalw19
@christinalw19 3 жыл бұрын
I Love Survivor stories. We are. 🙏🏼❤️
@noemigriffith1442
@noemigriffith1442 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your life with me, with all. So real. God is with you. You are here for us that need you. He works in mysterious ways. Noemi from Mesa, AZ
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so mcuh Noemi!
@annamydlarz836
@annamydlarz836 4 жыл бұрын
I had David as a life coach, This life coach comes from a great range of experiences that I think makes him stunning at helping people today with lightning like precision I recommend him highly. and just for example if at anytime you think "how can anyone understand? " Guess what ? he does !
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Anna, the best when it comes from someone who knows you, thank you!
@sharonchepkorir3571
@sharonchepkorir3571 Жыл бұрын
True
@enchantress1963
@enchantress1963 11 ай бұрын
David if I was there I would give you the biggest cuddle you’ve ever had. Lorraine from London England. Love and light to you.
@mariewilliams194
@mariewilliams194 4 жыл бұрын
From Scotland hi David your are one of life's survivors. If you get knocked down you get back up again. You have to be tough life is rough. We need to encourage young people to be tougher and more confident to stop them committing suicide. Nobody has a perfect life you just need to make the best of the life you get .
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
More love is what children need. Thank you so much Marie!
@lovingsoul1838
@lovingsoul1838 4 жыл бұрын
Where in scotland are you
@mariewilliams194
@mariewilliams194 4 жыл бұрын
@@lovingsoul1838 Glasgow
@sharonchepkorir3571
@sharonchepkorir3571 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@ethanschiltz7305
@ethanschiltz7305 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks man. You had my ear in some of my darkest hours.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for allowing me in to your life to be a part of your journey!
@andreabill7719
@andreabill7719 4 ай бұрын
Appreciate that you are sharing your story.
@elim243
@elim243 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is one of the most beautiful impressive life story I've heard, and especially loved the last part with your encouraging words. Thank you, David for sharing your story with us! Helps so much so many people. God bless you and congratulations for your channel. Watching from Romania 🇷🇴
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
That is so nice of you, thank you very much Mike!
@jl4091
@jl4091 10 күн бұрын
You're a great coach.I love a story with a happy ending.Peace be with you my friend.Jeff from Penrose here.
@inesgomes9428
@inesgomes9428 Жыл бұрын
Years pass...and i always return here! Thanks David. For many, you feel like home.
@musicseamus1231
@musicseamus1231 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you David for your amazing work. I watch your videos every week. Love from Ireland ❤
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much for your support
@juliecieslowski7684
@juliecieslowski7684 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful David. Thank you for your testimony. We can never stop learning.
@juliecieslowski7684
@juliecieslowski7684 Жыл бұрын
Trauma is forever like a scar on our soul. But we grow from that...yes the fruits.
@sharonjohnson2965
@sharonjohnson2965 4 жыл бұрын
I "met you" years ago on your other channel.... I recall a lot of stories about the 10 year old relationship. I connected with your emotion, and learned from you and have watched you grow. I've also been growing and healing. It's a joy to see your progress. Sharon from Milwaukee.
@ritamead6318
@ritamead6318 4 жыл бұрын
Sharon... I have also seen David's videos from the start telling of the 10 year relationship and watched him grow. He is so amazingly awesome.. isn't he?
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
@@ritamead6318 Thank you Rita!
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Sharon! Good to see you, thbak you so very much. I really appreciate you for the kind things you say!
@Willa4420
@Willa4420 4 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up David 👍🌹 Every life does have a story. Positive attitude helps with the ups and downs of life. I am so grateful for You Tube because I have come across some very amazing people. I was in a state of trauma before I found this community. I have gain clarity. I have learned self forgiveness. Talking to the Right people does heal deep inner wounds. It feels Great to have inner peace. 😎
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
It shows in everything you say Willa, you are so beautiful!
@raccoonstudios4458
@raccoonstudios4458 4 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry for your childhood. I thought mine was tough. It's not fair that parents do this to their kids. Why even adopt you if they were gonna be such pieces of shit? The most important thing i learned from my extremely abusive narcissistic relationship is how to be a good father to my young daughters. I will never forget the lesson that I learned, I am there for my beautiful girls emotionally and I strive to be the best father I can. I think my narcissist relationship was to teach me this lesson. Thank you for these videos, this is inspiring
@samhines5084
@samhines5084 4 жыл бұрын
I've been here from the start david you was getting about 25 likes on your videos now you're getting 25k well done mate I believe in you!
@NarcCon
@NarcCon 4 жыл бұрын
Je Regret ne rien ..from Ireland..love your channel and approach thanks David
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Hello and thank you so much, I love your channel too!
@lotusmccary9365
@lotusmccary9365 Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@agencyeditor8379
@agencyeditor8379 2 жыл бұрын
Love to you, David.
@artisttargeted6146
@artisttargeted6146 2 жыл бұрын
This Was A Great Video. All The Sharing Was Interesting. To Understand Your Background .
@colleenl5252
@colleenl5252 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for providing hope that complete healing is possible. 😊
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Its beautiful, thank you Colleen!
@colleenl5252
@colleenl5252 4 жыл бұрын
DeMars Coaching you are welcome!
@lg316
@lg316 4 жыл бұрын
I am 51 and it's taken me this long to understand that I recreated my abusive childhood with the narc ex-husband. Even post divorce, I'd still try to gain his acceptance. I literally did not make the connection until my son asked "Are you on the phone with Dad or Grandpa" he later said I act the same with both so he can never tell who I'm speaking to. It's was like a switch finally turned on and the dots connected.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
How enlightening! That is also the benefit of working with a professional that can see this too. Thank you!
@grantberdell4872
@grantberdell4872 Жыл бұрын
David you're the man! Keep it up!!!
@paisleydreamzzz
@paisleydreamzzz 4 жыл бұрын
to not be afraid or anxious, what a wonderful world that would be. thank you for sharing your story.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Its possible, thank you!
@shawn8949
@shawn8949 3 жыл бұрын
I thank god for you David when get in a bad Relationship I realize it’s not healthy for me and I movie on and get out of it fast I don’t try to fix anyone that’s not my job thank you
@nessauk2786
@nessauk2786 3 жыл бұрын
I never realised how much your childhood mirrored mine.Thankyou for sharing David.
@eyesopenedify
@eyesopenedify 3 жыл бұрын
Gat DAMN! God bless you. Thank you, David.
@cindyc
@cindyc 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. You are proof of healing and hope. Georgia USA
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Cindy!
@trevsedgwick3324
@trevsedgwick3324 2 жыл бұрын
The one thing I learned from this is that my situation isn’t that bad! Believe it or not that helps, god bless you ❤
@mattyh491
@mattyh491 6 ай бұрын
I love your work so much, it’s been a light that has shined for me as I was stumbling through the darkness of attempting to overcome the fallout of the end of a relationship with a BPD woman.
@coffeegirl6854
@coffeegirl6854 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this here.
@Liquidchoppers
@Liquidchoppers 4 жыл бұрын
Hello David, Matthew from New York now transplanted to central Florida. Your early videos, from what I remember, helped me more than words could describe. I was able to better understand what I was going through after being in such a dysfunctional relationship with my ex NPD/BPD. Your channel and those videos were exactly what I needed coming out of that relationship as Literally "nobody" understood what I was feeling and going through after that relationship. You most definitely raised my awareness during those days as I had a terrible case of cognitive dissonance and barely understood anything that was going on nevertheless who I even was. Fast forward one years time I thought I had healed only to find myself yet again in another toxic relationship. At that time I reached out to you for coaching which most definitely helped me alot. Today things are okay and I have strong boundaries in relationships with friends, family, and lovers. My healing process was almost immediately in comparison to the toxic relationship prior. Your knowledge was invaluable, needless to say, Thank You again.
@cindiroberts5652
@cindiroberts5652 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Mathew! Good to see you here, thank you for dropping in. I thank you too for everything you said and for sharing your journey with me. Keep being good to you, thank you always Mathew!
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
@@cindiroberts5652 Hi Cindi!
@cindiroberts5652
@cindiroberts5652 4 жыл бұрын
@@daviddemars Hey David! Yep..i still stop by your channel every so often just to see how your doing. I feel like your my forever buddy now!!!!!😃 After all..you walked me out of the darkest place of my life and taught me how to heal ! Along with countless others! Forever grateful for the knowledge and i pass it on to anyone I come across that might need it. Just sent a friend your manipulation videos last week and it really helped him!!!
@cherylmckinney7707
@cherylmckinney7707 4 жыл бұрын
Omg your story is mine. Not the specifics but the neglect, the lack of attachment, my shame, etc. Thank you!
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
And i send you love and hopes you make your story a successful one too!
@cherylmckinney7707
@cherylmckinney7707 4 жыл бұрын
DeMars Coaching thank you. I realized that after being with quite a few narc men, the common denominator was me so I knew I had to stop dating and heal that hole inside of myself.
@lindaromano4222
@lindaromano4222 4 жыл бұрын
Wow you sound like you are telling my life story . We become such perfect prey when we have boundary issues. When I found myself in pain from the x narc I stopped myself and said this pain is from ME I had to address why I let toxic people in my life to only abuse me. I have always had the power to stop the pain , but I had to do the work on myself. Now I look at toxic people as sad and pathetic. The only way they know how to survive is doing horrible things to others what a sad existence. Absolutely no enrichment to their lives just empty superficial relationships. Good for you , you found the cure and the remedy to leave them behind and live a rewarding life
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Linda, our parents either prep us for survival or sabotage!
@lindaromano4222
@lindaromano4222 4 жыл бұрын
@@daviddemars yes they did . The only thing I struggle with now is I want to tell him he is a sick man and that I look at him as pathetic but you say NO absolutely not just leave in which I did. Now he is off thinking I was just another stupid victim He has no idea the sight of him nauseates me and he is now creepy to me. I am really struggling with this
@ravenkushner
@ravenkushner 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. A lot of your story sounds familiar to mine. Not the details, but many of the feelings.
@trevorwilliamson8177
@trevorwilliamson8177 4 жыл бұрын
Saw the title and have been waiting for this ! Trevor here from Pennsylvania
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Trevor!
@jeanette-and-ernie-atthe-a3271
@jeanette-and-ernie-atthe-a3271 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, David!
@AtomicSonicHalos
@AtomicSonicHalos 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing--esp since it stinks slogging through ick again! You illuminated somethings for me ... &, per the Comments, made folks feel not alone. Feeling "not alone" is pretty crucial! ... & helps get rid of unjustified shame.
@terridillon3053
@terridillon3053 3 жыл бұрын
So brave and candid. Bravo!
@Job.Well.Done_01
@Job.Well.Done_01 3 жыл бұрын
This was WONDERFUL to listen to. You inspire me. Please keep doing what you’re doing - thank you!
@All4litleAnimals
@All4litleAnimals 4 жыл бұрын
Hi David!! I'm writing from Camillus, ny,.... A small suburb of Syracuse, ny. Your story has a lot of similarities to mine. I also had a schizophrenic mother. She was severely schizophrenic and unmedicated her entire life. So much like you there was not much of an emotional connection with my mother even though she was in my everyday life. Her mother my grandmother Vi is who I immediately emotionally bonded to as a baby but I grew up with a great-aunt and a great grandmother the majority of my childhood and school years. As a newborn and baby my mother had repeatedly threatened to kill me always saying she wanted to throw me downstairs. So at 9 months old I was sent away from the household.. being given to whoever would take me for a little while.. staying with family members aunts, uncles, cousins, my godparents, just friends of the family often hearing it explained as anyone that could help "lessen the burden"'. My mother often talked to Satan in corners of rooms, urinated herself, run from hysterical laughing crying to rage fits, smashed things, violently attacked people, and would hop on a central bus going to Rochester New York where I was living in the middle of the night and if we weren't there she would break into the house and destroy everything triggering the burglar alarm and having the house surrounded by police,and my grandmother barricading us in bedrooms with dressers in front of doors. I clearly remember the local ambulance company having to come often always calling her by her first name knowing her well and taking her away. And visiting her in the mental hospitals and seeing all the other people there.. noticing familiarity and how mentally ill they were. And growing up as a teenager passing my mother in the roads swearing at passerbys I'm having my friends make fun of her.. and my repeatedresponse team that's my mother she's mentally ill it's not her fault. And never knowing who my father my family would not even tell me a first name. As I got older I understood the multiple reasons that they probably refuse that information.I'd always thought they were just trying to protect me from possibly a bad person but now I realize they were probably just protecting me from being taken from the family because if anyone knew they would probably try to fight for custody with the argument that my mother was incapable of caring for a child and dangerous. Growing up was very difficult. I had to grow up very young. My intuitions I paid attention to everything around because most times no one would explain. I too was a child that was more comfortable around adults than people my own age and it's 7 years old I did a 15-page report on dementia paradox. I taught adults more than they ever knew about schizophrenia. The most unknown of all mental disorders. I'm sure you have wondered yourself about what effects a schizophrenic woman can have on it a prenatal child. When your pregnant they say to keep the mother in good spirits to speak to the child while in the womb. That mental and emotional well being of the mother can affect the child.... I wonder what the effects of a schizophrenic woman who's carrying a can have before they are even born affecting their entire lives. I'm extremely curious what your thoughts might be on this..... Though I realize it is kind of off topic of the basis of your videos.. I fully believe having these types of traumas in your childhood affect your life greatly into adult years. Aside from the toxic people that I've allowed into my life as an adult.... And aside from 18 year relationship and marriage with a cheating abusive narcissist, and the year with a terribly abusive sinister narcissist, and the devastating relationship I had for 4 years with the sickest most heartless evil narcissist I've ever known or heard about in my life that I'm just getting out of.. which I feel deep within me and I'll never be the same... I now can relate to you on so many more levels. Thank you from the bottom of my heart you and your videos have helped me and contributed to my life, learning and healing more than you will ever know.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so supportive Jennifer. Im aorry you didn't have much of a Mother too, we must learn to live ourselves like our Mother could not and life becomes easier. We also have a chance to make it right with our own family. Thank you again❤
@Greeneyedlady923
@Greeneyedlady923 16 күн бұрын
David , you and I have so much in common . I am so sorry you had to grow up like that but you are a wonderful man and you have helped me immensely the past three years since I found your channel . I was multi talented and played many sports and did the Dinner Theater stuff too and music and was pushed to be the best and it was never enough . I came from a very dysfunctional family and my parents both did an outstanding job of putting on a great show that people that didn't know what went on behind closed doors that they were such wonderful and great people . They were both College educated and had wonderful careers but they were both mentally ill and my house was the house of horrors . Being neglected emotionally as a young child and physically abused really had set me up to attract other dysfunctional relationships throughout my life . I know my self worth today thanks to people like you making these videos . Thank you and God bless you . ❤
@kathycarson7133
@kathycarson7133 4 жыл бұрын
Hugs....thank you for helping people find their inner strength. God Bless!
@weepingwillows1360
@weepingwillows1360 4 жыл бұрын
My mom used to kick me out of the house too ☹ or involve police as a means to control. It's horrible. Thanks for sharing with us 💙 from 🇨🇦
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
How awful, im sorry. They enjoy locking their children in institutions too.
@KB-jl9nl
@KB-jl9nl 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks David for sharing your story.I think all your viewers can relate to and apply it to their own life story.KB from CT
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you and good to see you, I was hoping so...
@KB-jl9nl
@KB-jl9nl 4 жыл бұрын
@@daviddemars And you did get over 1000 views as I predicted!!
@pualo9263
@pualo9263 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you David. You helped me last year from your videos.
@sunnydaye5942
@sunnydaye5942 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. (From Nebraska)
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your support!
@laurak.donham8374
@laurak.donham8374 6 ай бұрын
healing. understanding trauma and these abusive disorders really is the game changer. what an inspiring life! thank you!
@blissbased
@blissbased 3 жыл бұрын
You're great 🤍 Thank you for your authenticity and your Care for yourself and others.
@mymiracle79
@mymiracle79 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@mariaavelez
@mariaavelez 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You're an amazing person 🤍
@ritamead6318
@ritamead6318 4 жыл бұрын
Maria... I so agree with you... David never ceases to amaze me with his IQ intelligence and emotional intelligence!
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much maria!
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
@@ritamead6318 Too kind Rita, thank you!
@vanessayurrita3724
@vanessayurrita3724 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you David for sharing your story to help us understand and know that we are not alone, and trusting in us!
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you too Vanessa!
@yesdemp
@yesdemp 2 ай бұрын
This is great work.
@doctordrabs
@doctordrabs 4 жыл бұрын
Thank for sharing your story 🙏. You have helped me more than you will ever know. Thank you my friend ❤ Jim from Ohio
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Jim!!! Good to see you buddy
@brielleanyez7113
@brielleanyez7113 20 күн бұрын
I am so sorry about you finding your adoptive mom like that❤I can relate, not exactly because mine was my husband. In 2009 I woke up next to him dead one morning of a speedball overdose. This in front of our 2 small children. 7 and 10 years old. You are stronger than you even probably realize. Wonderful channel and I’m so glad you’re well❤
@patrickpepin8577
@patrickpepin8577 4 жыл бұрын
Good to see you David you have helped me tremendously during my recovery from narcissistic abuse.
@valeriep6538
@valeriep6538 4 жыл бұрын
Hello David, I am Valerie from France. Thank you so much for your videos and for sharing your life story. ❤❤❤ Learning from you is like putting glasses on. I am not blind anymore. I have gotten rid of toxic people in my life and I am learning to love myself first. It's a long journey but worth it, I know that cause you showed me the way. Thank you again David. You rock! 😊😊👍🏻👍🏻👊👊❤❤
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Tha is fantastic Valerie, thank you so much for sharing this and for suppoeting me!
@kvk4643
@kvk4643 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@lulucruz7126
@lulucruz7126 4 жыл бұрын
Good morning David I'm ready to hear your story with coffee in hand😁😊
@bryanpauly8519
@bryanpauly8519 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for talking openly about this stuff, it really does help people.
@lisageneshope5717
@lisageneshope5717 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you were able to overcome all the trauma AND the help you have provided is very needed. Thank you for the help you have given me. Lisa from Kansas
@piinkislovexo
@piinkislovexo 4 жыл бұрын
This level of self awareness is inspiring
@georgerothenberger9236
@georgerothenberger9236 3 жыл бұрын
You are truly an inspiration. I was riveted to your video. I can tell you are 100% being truthful. You are an amazing survivor. You have a gift to help people. So glad I have found your channel.
@nadyssb
@nadyssb 4 жыл бұрын
I am so happy that I found you. Thank you for being You and sharing your story. You are a strong man. Blessings from Sweden ❤️
@docyoumomeries8613
@docyoumomeries8613 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being vulnerable enough to tell your story, thank you for your videos, It helps to understand what I myself went thru in a 17 year relationship with a narcissist. I have blocked his phone number and blocked him from seeing my social media pages. Access denied.
@joshualett6536
@joshualett6536 4 жыл бұрын
David, I actually was looking for the your story early vids! Been with you from the jump!
@anapavkovic2299
@anapavkovic2299 3 жыл бұрын
I love you, thank you! ❤ Greetings from Croatia
@LeslieHeartsIL
@LeslieHeartsIL 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you David for sharing this.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so mich for watching Leslie!
@LeslieHeartsIL
@LeslieHeartsIL 4 жыл бұрын
@@daviddemars I will be contacting you for trauma counselling. I'm doing well, but hit a bit of a bump in the road.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
@@LeslieHeartsIL I am always here when you want more, thank you Leslie and I will be watching for you. www.daviddemars.com/
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 6 ай бұрын
I love who you are now today! ❤️ your wife is lucky God bless your family
@nitagirl614
@nitagirl614 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you David for sharing with us 👊
@cherylmckinney7707
@cherylmckinney7707 4 жыл бұрын
I love your ‘stopped dating’. I’ve taken that route, working on myself, understanding and healing my childhood injuries. I went through extensive PTSD treatment. Thank you.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
And you are worth all of it, thank you Cheryl!
@cherylmckinney7707
@cherylmckinney7707 4 жыл бұрын
DeMars Coaching in my healing journey I’ve heard 3 great messages 1. The message is about the sender 2. I’M not broken/wounded but had wounding/broken experiences 3. The reason my love choices have been a repeat of my toxic parental love is that is where my love template was created. I’m creating a new love template through my experience of healing and loving myself. I’ve shredded the old template. GONE!
@karenzilverberg4699
@karenzilverberg4699 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@JACK_33_1
@JACK_33_1 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you David for what you do. You answered a question for me 6 months back and the encouragement/advice you offered was the catalyst that helped me change my life for the better. Now that I put my emotional needs first, and set firm boundaries I am not only happier, but I am a better friend, family member and partner to those in my life.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! I love it, thank you for sharing Jack!
@edenOfaether
@edenOfaether 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being the sane voice that guided me back to my senses at a time I believed I would never make it home again. Reconnecting me to truth, eventually reconnection to my spirit & to resonate with you in your gratitude for what was is a precious gift.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Eden, I appreciate your supportive words!
@melissajean000
@melissajean000 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm so glad you found peace. ❤
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Melissa!
@soniadelgado1050
@soniadelgado1050 3 жыл бұрын
What a life story! I wish you the best in life, God Bless you!
@monicaAdkins1207
@monicaAdkins1207 4 жыл бұрын
Hi David, Monica from Cincinnati. As a former client, fellow INFJ, and survivor I appreciate your transparency. I watched all of your earlier videos years ago and could immediately relate to your traumatic experiences. Thank you again for sharing and helping so many people.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Monica! Great seeing you, thank you so very much for commenting!
@NataliaJuliaNowak
@NataliaJuliaNowak 4 жыл бұрын
Thank You. Greetings from Poland. :-)
@elleonard9568
@elleonard9568 4 жыл бұрын
Tasmania. Thank you for sharing your personal life story, David. You're truly inspirational. Bless 🙌🙏💜
@daviddemars
@daviddemars 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you too!
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