My Wife Left Me Because I Had Sacred Affairs Due To Having ADHD

Mans says his wife left and he doesn’t understand why although he had multiple sacred affairs.

[@seochr]

ADHD does not affect your morals… This guy 🙄

[@trparnell87]

I hate how people treat our learning/executive disorder as a get out of jail card.

[@dailymadness9129]

I have adhd and I can attest that it does not affect your ability to be faithful at all

[@HaleyJo1992]

He needs to shut all the way the fuck up. My family is riddled with mental illnesses, and none of us use them as an excuse to be an asshole. Autism, depression, bipolar, antisocial, we've got it all. We are good people in spite of it all.

[@TheMrslthompson09]

Exactly!? I have ADHD and i have NEVER fought about cheating because of it 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@indoora]

Well said.

[@mystyyyyy]

I’m just mad any woman agreed to sleep with this pumpkin. Collectively, we need to do better.

[@xyznumber123]

He is a pumpkin, lol

[@rebotilemogadime4169]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@amberinthemist7912]

In Idaho no less. A state with too many men already. Id bet they met at church when she was still young.

[@Egg_Apron]

LoL a pumpkin with a terrible hat

[@nicolette100]

​@@xyznumber123 I agree with you, but it's bumpkin.

[@existentialgamer9206]

This guy is 100% an abuser who only regrets not abusing and controlling his wife more

[@darkfemme4914]

Bingo 🎯

[@melpomene1492]

Preach 🙌

[@UnrealDreamer3598]

He is not sorry he cheated. He is sorry that his wife found out.

[@grandempressvicky6387]

He even started the video with a classic abuser/cheater guilt trip: "I guess this means nothing now!" The fact that he even went to social media to blast his wife (calling her ablest, destroying the sanctity of marriage, implying that she lied about how tolerant she was of his disability) says everything we need to know about this guy.

[@existentialgamer9206]

@@grandempressvicky6387 I thought it was really funny how he complained about “liberal media” but then cried ableist. How very woke of him lol

[@TKOin2life]

You cheated, she left...the end. Sir you can not be trusted.

[@Childfree334]

That 💍 didn't mean anything to HIM in 2024 either, because it didn't stop him from cheating. Ah, the mentality of the right wing conservative male. 😂😂😂😂

[@ccannon1]

😂😂😂 I cheated so marriage means nothing to my wife! Wtf lmao

[@gravyoverpotatos]

it came out of nowhere! i was served papers and blocked 😮‍💨 i suffer with adhd, and-

[@jbenevy]

They aren't all like that. I know plenty of conservative men who are not children. Good solid men. However, they are all married at least 30 years and will admit their wives fully trained them.

[@Childfree334]

@@jbenevy Yes, they are all like that. I bet those good men you know would all expect their wives to stay married to them if they cheated.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

@jbenevy Smh. The wives”trained” them huh? I wonder how much cheating they endured at the hands of those men? Right wing conservatives are desperate for power- so yeah….they’re all like that.

[@malindaallen718]

ADHD has NOTHING to do with hypersexuality. Hypersexuality is just a word for "horny", or "lustful". Following through on those urges is called "promiscuity".

[@casriaAmarel]

Genuinely! I'm also hypersexual and have AuDHD, but I blame my trauma for that one, not the AuDHD. My hypersexuality usually just means I have to be more vigilant about not making my peers uncomfortable with too much affection, sexual comments, or my mindset for the day if it's a little too down bad. Emphasis on *me* being vigilant about *my* behavior. *My* choices. The only thing that's connected to my neurodivergence is probably the autism part that makes it harder to tell if I've made people uncomfortable or not. Which is again, something that I am working on for myself. I do not blame being neurodivergent for my mistakes if I do make people uncomfortable, I blame myself. And then I correct myself. This guy is literally just an asshole.

[@gem9535]

Gentle correction, because you're not wrong, but you're missing some important bits. Hypersexuality is something explicit to trauma, particularly sexual trauma. Yes, it's 'lustful' and 'horny,' but not in a good way. In an uncontrollable "Why can't I stop, this is hell" kind of way.

[@nbucwa6621]

ALL words are just words to help us better understand other words Malinda. Let's not throw people suffering from actual disorders under the bus just because some people weaponize therapy language.

[@rainiminiatures2184]

a shitty person is a shitty person. a shitty person with adhd is just a shitty person with adhd, doesn't make them any less shitty.

[@Bookwright]

Hypersexuality does exist but so does hypersensitivity to smells. Just because you can recognize people by their smell doesn't mean that you should sniff strangers in the butt.

[@patty-pat-pat]

'I suffer with ADHD'. I think you suffer from a bit more, neurlogical issues sir.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

True

[@tweedledummie]

Personality disorder there is strong narcissistic delusion I see

[@zero1188]

Very true

[@PaperMario64]

*personality disorder

[@temposhop8739]

​@@PaperMario64probably on the autism spectrum too. It's not mutually exclusive with PDs.

[@fslayer1290]

So the “external forces” destroyed his marriage; not his cheating, nor his behaviors. What a goober. 😂

[@sarkie3927]

Men never take accountability for anything

[@strudelh]

The “external forces” were the women he cheated on his wife with 💀

[@helenapayne3414]

”I blame, her mother, sister, and and…the LIBERAL MEDIA! 😂😂Bohoo😂

[@indigostvr]

Literally came to say this bc WHAT

[@hubabaloop]

@@helenapayne3414the therapy….it corrupts the minds of WOMEN 😂😂😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@zanealexanderZA]

What is a sacred affair? How does neurodivergency in any way equate low morals?

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

I’ve got Audhd and I’ve never heard of it before. Must be some whyte people ish.

[@xnanebblett1371]

That's what I'm saying ​@@DaughterofDiogenes

[@laulutar]

I think it's a skeevy people thing ​@@DaughterofDiogenes

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

He was crying about "external forces" 😂😂😂 Like the other people he cheated with? Nope.. her mom, her therapist, and the liberal media 😂😂😂😂

[@Lokian_Mermaid]

​@@DaughterofDiogenes Ppl like that try to gaslight and if that doesn't work, they play stupid as if they can't comprehend, thinking they'll get away with their BS.

[@LifeAdviceSite]

“I have affairs” “Here’s some marital advice” 😂😂😂 This guy…😂😂😂

[@angelakashics]

“Repair conversions about that so I don’t think that’s the reason cause it would be ableist “ 😂😂😂

[@maef7026]

Right!? That's like an alcoholic drunkenly saying to his dog "Don't drink, kids".

[@enravotaboyadjiev7466]

"How dare her friends, her mom and her therapist tell her she deserves better than me, a lying cheating bastard, don't they know that I'm the main character and her life is supposed to revolve around me and what I want?"

[@Butterflier00]

NOT HIM SAYING "BIG THERAPY " and "LIBERAL MEDIA"

[@RasheedahNizam]

I was wondering if this was supposed to be satire but even then it wasn't funny. I think this is real... "In Idaho, the state won't force my wife to stay with me" I can only imagine how bad life was for women in the olden days when they all got gaslit by their partners and couldn't compare notes among larger groups of women.

[@attitudeproblem6462]

I don’t know how she lasted as long as she did w/ him. She is well rid of him. He is _insufferable._

[@grandempressvicky6387]

​@@Butterflier00I was not expecting to play conservative bingo tonight. He hit the big ones: liberal media, big therapy/pharma, no fault divorce = bad, and pasty white man from the south.

[@danyelleorr-mcneil4711]

​@@grandempressvicky6387🤣🤣🤣😭

[@purevenus6359]

Sacred affair!!!’ I’ve heard it all now 😂😂😂 who was it with? A deity? 🤡

[@SuperHuemanWoman]

The desert deity according to him.

[@UnrealDreamer3598]

He should stick to his right hand

[@JB-bl6qo]

Lmao🤣

[@someusername4129]

People weaponizing their mental health with therapy speak to excuse atrocious behavior is the scariest type of person to interact with. I can only imagine the hell this man put his wife through. He points his finger at everyone but himself.

[@Mittens5824]

... While at the same time blamjng Big Therapy for messing with women's minds 😂😂😂

[@Mittens5824]

*blaming

[@tigerlilly9038]

Jonah Hill [cough]

[@GHO5tMod3]

True

[@LetItRoll97]

All men like this have to offer is dick and audacity, and he gave both

[@Majesticlilj]

"Sacred affairs," souds like the title of a novel you'd burn through in the airport.

[@PaperMario64]

😂😂😂 with a shirtless guy and a lady that looks like she’s going to a renaissance fair on the cover.

[@missalice557]

Damn, gotta get me one of those, got a 5h flight I gotta slog through.

[@dw9524]

​@@PaperMario64yeah or a stable dude with long hair and a horse and she's wearing an off shoulder red ballgown or some shit.

[@Majesticlilj]

@dw9524 a stall dude with a guitar or a rope lol.

[@UnrealDreamer3598]

The guys on those novels at least look decent, unlike the guys we see online and IRL

[@muadhnate]

How does ADHD = hypersexuality? 😑 Hypersexuality is not a symptom of ADHD. Therapy corrupts women's minds? Sir, how did you get your ADHD diagnosis? Did you not see a psychiatrist?

[@AyAReI00]

I thought the same, why he is allow to have a therapist to tell him he has adhd but a woman has no RIGHT to get counseling ... I feel he was diagnosted with something ELSE but he lied to her

[@UnrealDreamer3598]

When men say "therapy corrupts women", what they mean is that therapists tell their clients that the husbands are abusive. These men don't want to acknowledge that they are the problem.

[@queenreg7]

He made it up.

[@rugr82day]

Imagine who's in his ear, a bunch of losers making up excuses as to why it's not their fault they can't please women. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@annmarieknapp]

I can't make up fiction this hilarious.

[@2015ben]

He has to be trolling because wtf. Congrats to the ex-wife.

[@silververnallbells191]

Nope.. I've seen other videos from him. He's serious.

[@AbbygaileHearne]

@@silververnallbells191oh wow lol

[@gingerkitty1425]

😮​@@silververnallbells191

[@mimi42428]

This is the work of a narcissist in full view. They confuse their victims like this on a daily basis aka gaslighting. They tend to hide their true face and only expose it to their wives and children after trapping them. The rest of the world tends to get the acceptable version of them. This one seems to be the overt type. It's great that he's exposing himself

[@brendadickson9583]

​@silververnallbells191 wow😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@LionezzVizion]

He has the audacity to give marriage advice 😂 He needs to go hyper heal and not hyper bonk anyone other than his wife.

[@Butterflier00]

bro is now apparently the number 1 dating coach. LOLOLOL

[@tejas_jo]

LOLOLOL

[@leftwingmafia]

Hyper bonk is CRAAAAAAZZYYYYYYY😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ashleytyler1386]

Too late no wife or life 😂😂😂

[@cosmicbrownie333]

Men like him move like this and wonder why they die alone in the nursing home. This is why no fault divorce is a thing. This man just wanted an appliance and be a slave owner, NOT a husband. That woman escaped 😂😂😂 left quietly/quickly like she was supposed to. Kudos to her.

[@hektorsehmsdorf1336]

Tbh he cheated so she would be able to divorce him without no fault divorce. He is just too smoothbrained to realize that

[@cosmicbrownie333]

@@hektorsehmsdorf1336 facts. She actually let him off easy with having a “conscious uncoupling”. That’s what they call a collaborative divorce which is waaay more civil. Not sure how it works in Ohio, but most lawyers hate this kind of divorce because everyone has to be on board or everything could be thrown out. He seems to have a very inflated sense of importance so this may not be a good idea for her since men like this will drag it out as long as possible

[@jaethezoe]

Well since his ADHD “allowed” him to cheat on his wife, her depression from getting cheated on repeatedly “allowed” her to divorce him 😂 When she forgave him the first time she “allowed” him to have a second chance. This is what absolutely no accountability looks like in the flesh. God bless him fr.

[@catrinacoons390]

As someone with ADHD I’m infuriated and insulted that this pig would use the disorder as an excuse for cheating. ADHD and other neurodivergency has absolutely nothing to do with morals or cheating. It does make life harder in certain ways, but not in the way he describes. This is disgraceful behavior and I’m glad she left.

[@alyssaharriman8446]

My cousin has ADD and if anything she would get overwhelmed if she had to deal with more than one partner 😂 she also gets constantly distracted by different projects which makes it take longer to finish one because she starts on one project then remembers another and starts that one and so on.

[@darcyroyce]

​@@alyssaharriman8446😂 true, even one relationship is enough to engage and sustain our attention span!

[@QUEERVEEART]

i have adhd, i'm so MAAAAADDDDD!!!!! i'm disabled and autistic and adhd but i never use any of those things as excuses!!! i have spent years in therapy and i'm on meds and i'm not perfect, but i'm truly trying my best and will be honest when i make mistakes. it ENRAGES ME when people claim "ableism" WHEN IT'S NOT!!! that takes away from REAL ableism that affects disabled people and all of us honestly. gosh i'm so mad. i'm polyamorous. it's awesome. everyone is on board with having multiple partners. it's so freaking easy. if you want multiple partners, polyamory is RIGHT THERE. it's amazing and beautiful and all about communication and honesty and compassion. but these men don't want that, they don't want their partners to see others. they just want control. gosh it makes me so mad

[@marlyd]

​@@QUEERVEEARTas a fellow poly person, he definitely would never be able to get into any form of enm because that requires you to be okay with your partner(s) also dating others and there's no way he'd ever consider that or could handle that. He doesn't want poly, he wants to cheat on his wife without consequences or even having hard conversations about her feelings on it. Poly means more communication and being more in touch with your own and other's feelings

[@QUEERVEEART]

@@marlyd i know, that's what i said at the end. it's so ridiculous how men behave this way, i literally can't imagine wanting to see others but not wanting my partners to see others? bizarre af

[@savannahcat2980]

"not to slander her or anything like that but" proceeds to slander her for braking up with him because he was unfaithful. I never thought I would hear this excuse. I am both appalled and impressed lol

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

😂

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

I'm dumbfounded

[@tinahilliard4447]

Ladies, just don't get married.

[@xVirginiasWolf]

Don’t get married to wrong men

[@xVirginiasWolf]

Vet men, vet the hell out of them

[@hardcandy71287]

@@xVirginiasWolf there's no such thing as vetting a man. they're liars.

[@Megs658]

Don’t cohabitate with men either.

[@UnexpectedSpanishInquisition]

@@xVirginiasWolfNot everyone wants to be married and that triggers you. SMH

[@PraiseTheFSMonster]

"This came out of nowhere!" 😂

[@DaPhlyymamee]

Right! He was "blindsided"! 😂🤣

[@queenreg7]

I had SACRED affairs! What’s the issue?!? 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@dashzag]

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@Strawberry.Letter23]

“Repair conversations”… she was biding her time until she got her ducks in a row lol

[@j.munday7913]

I feel like their "conversations" were just him explaining why he's allowed to cheat and her nodding along while planning the escape.

[@MidnightOracle8]

💯👏🏾

[@kaylynnanson6231]

His body language is the same as that kid in the principal's office who got caught doing something wrong and is thinking of every reason or lack thereof not to be in trouble. What a liar.

[@evergreenforestwitch]

Omg yes

[@Acehigh-Jenkins]

The dog ate my fidelity!

[@evergreenforestwitch]

@@Acehigh-Jenkins 😂🤣😅🤣😂💀

[@winxclubstellamusa]

EXACTLY!!! He comes off like an extremely dangerous pathologically lying bully!

[@MidnightOracle8]

@@Acehigh-Jenkins💯👏🏾😂

[@prettyqueen573]

As a professional who specializes in working with folks with ADHD, I'm going to assume that video is satire. He can't be serious. I'm hoping he isn't. By the way, the "H" in ADHD stands for hyperactivity NOT hypers3xual

[@Space_Invader11]

He thinks his mistake was that he “allowed these external forces (her support system) to come and corrupt his marriage” that’s disgusting. Glad she left him

[@olikah4667]

This is a narcissist right here, folks

[@CoolBreiz]

What’s sad is that I know this man is serious. He truly believes his “sacred affairs” were justified because of his ADHD. He literally blames everyone/everything but himself. I’m surprised he got married at all and happy his wife left.

[@kaelin_cherise]

No. Hypersexualisation. A by-product of his specific type of ADHD. ADHD does not immediately mean hypersexual in any way. He was too horny on main, so he "HAD" to cheat. That's all it comes down to.

[@UnrealDreamer3598]

He is happy because he can trade in his wife appliance for a new model.

[@notallabouttarot5194]

@@UnrealDreamer3598how did you come to this theory? While he’s up here crying and blaming other things for his break up. I see no happiness…but grasping at straws for who and what the reason for the split…besides looking in the mirror. His truly….himself. Or is this sarcasm?

[@Mittens5824]

"Unfortunately, in the State of Idaho, you really can't do anything about it. If a woman in Idaho wants a divorce, she can just get a divorce without any reason" WOW. Just, wow. Bring back the times when women only had a couple of "valid" reasons to divorce (cheating not being one of these obvs)

[@Lucia-kc2pk]

Adultery has ALWAYS been a valid reason for divorce (from either side). Women just put up with it in the past because they HAD to for financial reasons.

[@sandratimofeeva3179]

​@@Lucia-kc2pk and cos children were taken away with no contact with mother. Awful times...😢

[@brookew2403]

The most irritating thing about people like this is that they refuse to be in open/poly relationships. They DEMAND the bs notion of one sided monogamy, meaning they do what they want but their spouse better stay faithful. This woman didn’t just casually leave, she clearly ran for her life.

[@lilaoliva793]

Thank you! 'Cause there's no other point in time where women were more receptive to these concepts than now. But they don't want equals. They want to subjugate. They don't want women who will serve them with their own medicine. They want a woman they can destroy by doing this to her.

[@AyAReI00]

Oh yes, is TRUE, men want poly but one SIDEd... Aka they want a harem 😊 ... Not poly

[@nataliejohnson9526]

Even in poly he would be a narcissist and set rules that everyone else had to follow and would bring nothing but misery to everyone involved.

[@brookew2403]

@@nataliejohnson9526 yes! Poly requires honesty and transparency. This man just wants to cherry pick the bible in order to manipulate women.

[@biblethumper8088]

They can't be in open relationships bc 1. There aren't enough women to pass around. 2. They desire breaking down wholesome women, not easy women. They can't be worshipped if she's with other men. This is why they don't. I suggest women STAND on their STANDards and live by them to protect yourselves.

[@tanyadelaney8455]

HE is the PRIME EXAMPLE of men NOT taking ACCOUNTABILITY. 🙄

[@sophiakoshetz8521]

I have ADHD and I think that cheating is one of the most vile and disgusting things you can do to your partner. I would rather kms than do this to someone.

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

Same

[@carnevalmefisto]

Yep, exactly.

[@queenreg7]

Me three.❤

[@grandempressvicky6387]

It triggers everything in me when people cheat. No matter how many stories I read, I cannot wrap my head around doing that to someone. That level of cruelty is inhuman. It is cowardly, pathetic, and vile.

[@Bubbles-kk9zs]

My father cheating on my mother was what destroyed our family. So, yes, Ditto my friend.

[@TheTravelingCamellia]

Is that guy for real? "I couldn't keep her isolated from a social support system because the law won't let me." ?! Literally just calling himself out in public like that?

[@alexismum]

People are laughing & calling him a narcissist. That's a psychopath and she better take a restraining order out on him. He sits in his room in the dark & obsesses over how she wronged him by leaving. The vile creature he is.

[@TheTravelingCamellia]

@@alexismum I don't doubt there is some narcissism there. I would def say sociopath, and the whole "I should have isolated her" bit is giving definite ab*ser vibes. It's good she had a strong support system around her cuz that's usually the first thing they try to cut you off from.

[@willowleahy6491]

Welcome to 2024 where we say the quite part out loud now because it's seen as being an "alpha"

[@srideout91]

The wife should hire a lawyer and use this in divorce court. And if they have kids use as proof for why she should get full custody of their kids if they have any. Because if he’s claiming that his ADHD prevents him from using good judgment then he should not have custody of the kids. Because they are not safe.

[@tigerlilly9038]

If you let them talk you will get the true answer "....she is allowed to just do this..." *he does not want her to be able TO LEAVE.*

[@boundtogoboogie]

This is why women choose the bear.

[@leahweinberger583]

This why the women PRAY for the bear....

[@leahweinberger583]

This is why women PRAY for a bear.

[@Peacepeacelovelove]

Excuses, what a joke, just take the L and move on. This is why they don’t want you to have friends, keeping you trapped in their psychological web. The lame excuses these men have are insane, if she had a “sacred affair” he would have dumped her immediately. Weirdo.

[@mekosmotivationalmessages]

“Big therapy”😂😂😂😂 This dude is BLAMING EVERYONE and EVERYTHING EXCEPT HIMSELF!!!

[@lilmouse9915]

Exactly, like where do you think you got your diagnosis from sir???😂

[@KilonovaBurst]

But then say... women are the ones who have no accountability 🤣🤣

[@meganmoney3479]

@@KilonovaBurstthey have loads more than men

[@girlgamer6678]

You know what would also harm your marriage? Cheating

[@seleneledezma3543]

"She choose the bear, like literally".. 😂😂 do people even know what words mean??? 😂😂

[@user-br3ty9rt1m]

She tried but didn’t make a bit of sense with that statement 🤣

[@mister-canada367]

That part made no sense so I just skipped it lol

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

This guy was one of the guys adding his two-piece about the 4B movement a few months ago 😂😂😂

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Oh ok

[@LoveK1]

Of course he was.

[@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis]

His exwife is 4B now too.😂😂😂😂

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

@@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis It’s a wholesome story, really 🤣🤣🤣

[@notallabouttarot5194]

Yes! I was waiting for someone to mention this. 😂

[@haileys5371]

To be seen with a man like that is just embarrassing... I can imagine the shame of being married to him, everybody knowing the sx sucks Plus he cheats!!!

[@kokopuffs1986]

No, not yellow baby teeth 😂😂😂

[@someusername4129]

He said "I have ADHD 🌽🌽🌽"

[@ultravioletmix33]

“Did you have to drug the women you had affairs with!?!” Yoooo lmaorolf🤣🤣

[@Moonflowers11]

He probably paid.

[@Candiecane908]

He's taking the piss, no way that this is real.

[@nbucwa6621]

"It came out of nowhere!" Lmao I will never get tired of hearing men say that. It's comedy gold.

[@jfreeman2422]

Good for her, he should never be married or coupled to anyone.....ever!

[@R0291-l1l]

I’m like 98% sure this is fake/rage bait….but the fact I can’t be 100% sure is troubling

[@notallabouttarot5194]

The only reason why I say it’s real…it’s because this man was on tik tok talking against the 4B movement a few months ago. I’d remember him anywhere.

[@marlyd]

The conservative talking points + calling something ableist but blaming liberal feel like it's trolling to me. Not sure in which direction though, so I guess it's well played either way. People who blame liberals for things don't believe in 'woke stuff' like ableism or making room for exceptions due to thungs line adhd. They often don't even recognise it exists.

[@thelittleredhairedgirlfrom6527]

Yeah I’m fully convinced this is rage bait but at least it’s entertaining rage bait

[@katherines144]

"it's ableist for her to not accept my cheating!!" 😂 Ok, bro 🤡

[@edithk2997]

When they say ‘women can’t take accountability’ 😂 Imagine being so fed up that you only serve divorce papers and block that person for good so you don’t have to speak to them ever again !

[@mariabrown6926]

The ring means nothing when you break your vows and commit ADULTERY 🙄 in the eyes of God you broke your vows and thus the marriage.

[@RebecaAiimee]

This man is making it too easy for us to ridicule him, it can't be real omg

[@ccannon1]

I think about all of the times I gave men the benefit of the doubt only to find out they’re really just like this 🙄

[@UnrealDreamer3598]

Yes all nem

[@melissam6037]

I have learned to never give them the benefit of the doubt.

[@ccannon1]

@@melissam6037 Me too

[@Butterflier00]

i was like...IS THIS THE "WOMEN SHOULDN'T BE WET" DUDE. AND IT IS. this is so unintentionally funny.

[@rachellebaissard6618]

Must be a joke. This man is surreal.

[@Epodmusic17]

As a person who has ADHD and struggles with the day to day, this mans comments are a literal slap to the face. People ALREADY dont take us or our MANY symptoms seriously. And blaming cheating on your ADHD is BS. We may struggle with the concept of time, we may struggle with emotional regulation, and we may struggle with regulatinf our focus! But being ADHD does NOT take away our ability to know right from wrong or be loyal in relationships. 🙄

[@annstewart8506]

Was the "sacred affairs" the prescription for the condition ADHD?

[@Priscilla_Boye]

I suppose so 😂😂

[@rebotilemogadime4169]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Shawniece53]

I'm sure his arms hurt for this reach he did.😂

[@solsirhibragusowl2221]

He tore tendons with that reach!

[@MidnightOracle8]

Into the Heavens 😂😂😂😂

[@MidnightOracle8]

@@solsirhibragusowl2221😂

[@EuphemiaWisdom]

Over the last year i heard 2 different men say they are going through divorce and it was a "surprise" to them. It "came out of nowhere". That told me all i needed to know.

[@PaperMario64]

Ladies and ladies, here on display, we have a class 5 narcissist hiding behind an ADHD diagnosis.

[@tabithaAsher2171]

Is this man serious?

[@patty-pat-pat]

he looks and sounds like he has neurological problems, doesnt he?

[@UniquaDaBackyardigan]

Its TT, so probably not😂. Definitely rage bait, IMO.

[@missme4862]

He is a clown 🤡 😂

[@88QueenOfHearts]

Sadly😤

[@mariabrown6926]

And him having the nerve to say "here's some marriage advice for y'all" the audacity 😂

[@janayastockton2779]

And then has the nerve to give marriage advice. And bad advice at that.

[@Aethereality]

I love how the wife exited without a word. She just disappeared, blocked him on everything, and served him papers. That’s exactly what I would do if I found out I was being cheated on. There’s no need for words at that point. You know what you’re doing.

[@vickimerritt2832]

Looks like his wife got some devine intervention from her mom, friends and theraphist.

[@jadew9177]

He is surprised that she left him but he had had sacred affairs!!!! GTFOH The external forces was his extramarital affairs lol!

[@daishawilliams8301]

Play stupid games win stupid prizes no more talk.😂

[@maryamshaaban74]

Lmaooo he did not just call her ablest for not accepting his cheating 😂😂 Mental health doesn't justify nor cause horrible actions such as cheating, go talk to a therapist if the marriage really meant anything for you.

[@babydoll6280]

He must also be violent because the way she did it.

[@TheresaTV1]

Yeah, I’m getting some of that, too. Dis Angry dude is dangerous.

[@Cocoa.Tresbelle]

He rage baiting yall 😂😂😂 he couldn't even keep a straight face saying that mess 😂😂😂

[@TaroSprout]

Oh absolutely, but on God I think we all have at least been hit on by someone performing some of these mental gymnastics, so I find the verbal thrashes entertaining 😂

[@notallabouttarot5194]

This man ranted about the 4B movement a few months ago. Now his wife left…and he’s losing his mind. Believe it. This is a prelude of the fall of men dark mentalities…and what women has been dealing with for ions. The veil has been lifted.

[@vickimerritt2832]

Guy already did the conscious uncoupling from HER.

[@darcyroyce]

No, he did the unconscious one :))

[@extra_small]

It’s crazy that in the state of Idaho…a silly man like him can be granted a marriage license to begin with 😂 The blind must be raising havoc on them Idaho roads

[@lilaoliva793]

Now we've seen it all, haven't we? Smdh! Using ADHD as a way to justify cheating is wild af. Beyond bold. Beyond audacious. Absolutely shameless BS.

[@martaleszkiewicz5115]

I suffer from ADHD, too, but ADHD doesn't make me a cheater.

[@merhona3472]

Can only imagine the heaping piles of gaslighting, illogical logic and plain old fashioned deceit that poor wife had to endure with this unhinged being mascarading as a human. WIshing her and anyone in contact with this being mental care and help.

[@iamsad9107]

As someone with ADHD, this "logic" makes no sense to me. What does that have to do with being unfaithful to your wife? Being hypersexual and ESPECIALLY to the point where you keep cheating on the person you decided to swear a marital oath with literally has absolutely nothing to do with ADHD. Something tells me that he was using his diagnosis to manipulate her into staying as long as she did until she finally had enough...

[@Bookwright]

Her therapist might have told her that it was to totally different and unconnected things.

[@biblethumper8088]

Bc adhd is an excuse to behave however you want. I don't believe in it, and I hold people accountable for their actions.

[@notallabouttarot5194]

@@Bookwrightthis makes a lot of sense. Because now days…therapists or relationship therapists even…are told not to tell couples or individuals to leave their spouse or significant other. So this would definitely make sense. The wife took it upon herself to leave after that. Good for her…opening up her eyes.

[@sophiebell4758]

Hypersexuality do correlates With adhd. I for example have it, for me Its about the dopamine Chase. But i Got a Partner with a high Sex Drive too because of that. Hypersexuality is Not an excuse to Cheat

[@sophiebell4758]

​@@biblethumper8088adhd is a real Thing, Wether you believe in it or Not. People suffer From it, and their suffering needs to be acknowledged. That doesnt mean that people should behave Like assholes and hide behind such a diagnoses.

[@fc7307]

This guy is just a cheater, and using his supposed "mental illness" to justify it. No sir, you just chose to sleep around.

[@dalialto]

Sacred.... Affair....????? I think I had a stroke hearing that

[@fernandaph8405]

As part of the ADHD community, we do not claim this guy

[@bella101093]

The second I saw his face and his little hat I was like this is going to be a bunch of buffooneries... tomfoolery ... my stomach hurts from laughing..

[@yervue9426]

Narcissism... Looks like this...

[@jdbailey442]

🤣😂😭💀 This is diabolical!! I really want this to be a skit! I have ADHD and the H doesn't mean hypersexual. I am forgetful but not about my relationships! I am glad his wife ran for her life and peace of mind! He is so embarrassing! Loud and wrong all over social media.

[@Lokian_Mermaid]

"External forces" ..... translation: "She didn't want to tolerate my BS anymore".

[@thegreylady7797]

Its the word salad for me 😂😂 he can't be serious

[@JamesStJake]

Clearly that woman had people in her life that love and care for her and didn't give up on her and I'm happy she's out of this situation.

[@haileys5371]

I'm in shock at his sociopathy!

[@damieo8139]

NPD is on display.

[@tigerlilly9038]

Congratulations to his wife 😂Sir get tf out of our face, and sacredly shush 🤫.😂😂😂

[@nix2747]

Audacity is at an all time high.

[@geperstekop]

I’m going to save this video in the ‘comedy’ folder because there aint no other explanation for this kind of foolishness 😂 eh

[@Karina_Engr]

FAFO season. 😂 “it came out of nowhere” 😂😂😂

[@quincyjones5676]

This isnt adhd it’s narcissism.

[@natashamwangi4890]

He really said "not to slander her but that's somewhat ableist" like we were going to be on his side LMFAO

[@keropi193]

I love the tone of him mansplaining to me and talking slowly like he's delivering some timeless wisdom

[@KNicoleTWBP]

Calling the affairs "Sacred" but your marriage wasn't Sacred enough to stay faithful. Your ring means nothing cause you cheated.

[@Cyhcg5uhgb]

"I suffer from ADHD.... which means I have hypersexualization" That caught me of guard. That actually made me laugh. You, what now? Hypersexualization? Don't tell me he beliefs this himself

[@sophiebell4758]

Hypersexuality does exist and can stem From Trauma or be a adhd persons coping mechanism to Chase dopamine. The latter is my Case. But when you are hypersexual you search For a Partner with a high Sex Drive and dont Cheat

[@xnanebblett1371]

I have ADHD and I don't cheat. Like what.

[@namaste348]

My ex has ASD and he definitely said that because of it he was more likely to cheat because he didn't understand. I'm really glad I came here to see that holding him accountable is not ableist

[@sophiebell4758]

As another Person With asd (and adhd). You should absolutely hold him Accountable. It can really be, that He doesnt understand, where cheating begins especially because it is different For everyone. But that is why both of you Need to Talk about boundaries. Explain to him where you boundaries are, where cheating Begins For you so He Just has to follow that. If you say "hey If you Go eating Out With a female coworkers after Work, that fine With me, but If you kiss her than thats crossing the Line" For example. Or "you can watch porn, but dont pay a Woman For sexual Stuff Like a prostitute, or someone From only Fans". Communicate your boundaries, He has no excuse to Not follow those when you Tell him, even If He wouldnt have thought that is where cheating Begins before you told him

[@kimberly8695]

✌🏾...her friends, her therapist, her mom, liberal media...✌🏾 Yeah, she escaped! Good for her!

[@shauntikayvette]

He’s mad he couldn’t ISOLATE her from friends, family, therapy and the news…and keep cheating on her. 🤔

[@ashleygrey4179]

I can't believe he's using ADHD as an excuse to cheat on his wife. 😂