He contacted me after a month of no contact this definitely works. Just go cold and focus on yourself. No matter how long it takes, it’s good to work on yourself because regardless. Pour all that energy and love into yourself. You’ll attract better people and things and find yourself again. Good luck on your decision on letting them back in
@AlarisH4 жыл бұрын
Happy for you!
@juniordestin64794 жыл бұрын
My ex is coming real slow. She's acting jealous but at the same time she is saying it doesn't matter anymore. I used the no contact rule. Thanks
@marielchavez63374 жыл бұрын
It's been almost 1 month and still nothing... he blocked me everywhere and changed his number. We were long distance and he told my dad that he still loved me but couldn't deal with my emotions. Idk what to think. I don't know if he will come back.
@kylieburton80234 жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you 💜
@jazzsatiago34514 жыл бұрын
Hi Maam im still hoping that after break up have he has feeling 6 months relastionship but Sudden my friend Cauch him Searching hookedn😭😢💔So Sad
@maria89434 жыл бұрын
Thank you for not trying to make money off of everyone else’s pain. I’ve searched online for a while and they would have a 45 min video trying to sell me their product and reveal nothing. So thank you so much.
@thesoftestworld4 жыл бұрын
I found the same video you're talking about. When at the end it told that I had to pay to know how to get my ex back I literally had a breakdown
@lukeskywalker3134 жыл бұрын
@@thesoftestworld wow
@benhartart94873 жыл бұрын
He has the Emergency breakup kit which you can purchase, I would recommend Coach Lee over many other KZbin love guru,s
@axmedrasta65973 жыл бұрын
My ex keeps sending me interesting youtube clips so we can discuss them what do I do. I'm doing no contract now
@Master...deBater3 жыл бұрын
@@axmedrasta6597 Keep it short and unemotional...but not mean in any way. Don't be in a hurry to respond, take your time. And NEVER initiate contact!
@PianoMan4Life19825 жыл бұрын
I just want all the men here to know that time heals all wounds. My ex left me for another guy this time last year, I watched countless "get your ex back" videos and slowly realized that improving myself was the true answer. I'm much better off without her and my life is going great ever since. Don't put all your eggs in the basket of getting them back.
@BlackLabelSlushie5 жыл бұрын
PianoMan4Life1982 Walk like a man, talk like a man, Walk like a man my son. No woman's worth crawlin' on the earth, So walk like a man, my son.
@lukecaddy42035 жыл бұрын
I'm going through hell help!
@PianoMan4Life19825 жыл бұрын
@@lukecaddy4203 I went through a rough couple of months this time last year. Depressed, alone, but I still had to go to work and realize there was a bigger plan. I hit the gym, changed my diet, went to therapy. Over time I realized I needed to care for myself because ultimately that's all we have left. Hope my experience in some way helps you.
@ericandrews23445 жыл бұрын
PianoMan4Life1982 I’m curious what brought you back to this page? No harsh feelings, just wondering man.
@PianoMan4Life19825 жыл бұрын
@@ericandrews2344 curiosity. I watched a lot of coach Lee's videos when I was distraught and now it is interesting to see the videos now that I am in a better place.
@SOUNDCONTROLFLA5 жыл бұрын
my ex texted me while i was watching this video.
@RealCoachLee5 жыл бұрын
You’d be surprised how often I hear that. LOL. I guess I’m just a good luck charm! (;
@SOUNDCONTROLFLA5 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee she’s squirming so hard right now. don’t ignore, stay casual and polite WORKS. you’re the man.
@faycoleman90234 жыл бұрын
The universe lol
@jft2nd4 жыл бұрын
@@RealCoachLee What does it mean if my ex told me she is healed and that she doesnt mind if I followed/liked her pics on instagram(I didnt follow her cause I'm doing NC) and when I posted a picture of me looking good, smiling, dressed up and put a positive and heartfelt caption she didn't like that and blocked me again and is saying on twitter how she isn't fully healed?
@africanfufu4 жыл бұрын
Jordan White 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the Jokes are coming
@r0nie1474 жыл бұрын
Im not even sure if I want to get my ex back in the first place, but man, just listening to you keeps me calm and feels like I'm learning something new in every other video. Thanks!
@shaut91203 жыл бұрын
Why what did your ex do? And who broke up with who? And what has your year been like
@tinaschultz19763 жыл бұрын
Same here missing him but is it worth all this bs and pain again
@r0nie1473 жыл бұрын
@@shaut9120 I just randomly seen that comment in my notifications so I'll respond now. It's been great! My ex broke up with me in January of 2020 after 5 year relationship. It was tough at the beginning, but Coach Lee's videos helped me stay in no contact and eventually heal. Actually, I'm seeing a new girl for like 2 months now and for the first time since my ex it feels like it might end up as a serious relationship, only been dating and hooking up with women up to this point. To anyone seeing this, I BEG YOU, DO NOT chase your ex. Do what Lee says in every video - no contact and work on yourself. After a couple months you won't be thinking about them, I promise you that.
@shaut91203 жыл бұрын
@@r0nie147 thks for responding Im working on myself in everyway but I'd still do anything to get him back but I would never tell him that and not in away that of course is degrading
@shaut91203 жыл бұрын
He's still constantly on my mind but I'm not crying anymore so time definitely healed me from that
@matthewrickyrad5 жыл бұрын
Cant thank u enough for your advice. No contact works. My ex and I had a good relationship, 7 months long, the breakup wasnt ugly. I went into no contact. 3 weeks later she wanted to meet up and talk, said she really misses me and is still gonna take time to work on herself and be apart but she said she really wants to get back together. It was all very genuine. Great advice coach lee.
@StiltsFPS5 жыл бұрын
I hope my situation works out in the same way as you. I am only a few days into NC to be honest but already today she called me because something upset her and she said she missed me. I haven't talked to her since that call but i'm pretty sure she is checking social media to see what i am doing. I truly hope this works, trying my best to be strong.
@That_Handle4 жыл бұрын
@Tikboy Tikas , Huh, now I've never heard of *_that_* "technique" or method to symbolically or mystically-emotionally detach. I'd be interested in hearing a follow up on this question about the ex.
@whisperingwind77304 жыл бұрын
Tikboy Tikas Wowa!!U burned her stuff she gave U and left it on her car??? 😳 That's an intense, a deeply hurt, uncontrolled response. Then U not only expect but demand she does the same w/ the gifts U GAVE HER??? Why would she?! To be honest if it were me I would never want to speak to U again if I were her. That's just ridiculous!!! U need to go No Contact to get YOURSELF in check, seriously forget about doing it to get her back. U really dug yourself a deep, dark black hole emotionally and NOW u want her to join u in it?! 🙄 Uh No...Self Love brother, it's about U, not her.
@That_Handle4 жыл бұрын
@@whisperingwind7730 , Hear _here_ , *_there_* !
@rachelelsesser27424 жыл бұрын
matthewricky my ex and I been broken up for a year but we do the same things as what we did when I was his gf I see him all the time what should I do am I hurting myself
@annaprzybylska51404 жыл бұрын
Every breakup is different, every person is different. Most of the time it’s lack of communication. People can’t communicate. Everyone is guarding their heart in different ways. And they don’t appreciate each other. It always takes two. Everyone has demons inside. Communication is very important. Women want men to think like them. Men want women to be like them. We are different. People are with each other from different reasons. It sad that we let ego and pride to destroy beautiful things. Play games. Be someone who we are not. That what makes me sad. This videos help us to go through hard times. Give us hope and understand things. We want to know all the answers, but no one knows how others feel.
@cmonkeedo2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@barbaraandersen21162 жыл бұрын
Beautiful piece 👍
@treysalmon640 Жыл бұрын
Finally a sensible comment
@Katrina-z1c Жыл бұрын
Very interesting 🤔 what you said..
@user-xf4qv6lk9h Жыл бұрын
Hmmm Couldn’t be said any better
@jlorenzoval.17504 жыл бұрын
I was devastated and after watching your videos everyday I feel so much better and more confident. Every time I am about to feel anxious or with fear I come to watch your videos and all those bad feelings goes away. Thanks you so much for your videos Coach Lee
@nsikan-georgeemana65243 жыл бұрын
Same here I now watch these videos every night
@nidabejerano-lawson32203 жыл бұрын
Same here …this help me going through break up right now
@punchandtell5 жыл бұрын
Ex reached out after 1 year and 2 months. I bid her farewell.
@margomazzeo16805 жыл бұрын
Perfect..
@laracherry65835 жыл бұрын
Good.
@rowdyrobbyrider42265 жыл бұрын
Sever the ties!
@punchandtell5 жыл бұрын
@@rowdyrobbyrider4226 There's no need to be unpleasant. Nobody really is that bad to hurt them back.
@rowdyrobbyrider42265 жыл бұрын
@@punchandtell I'm not sure what’s unpleasant about that comment. I was encouraging you to keep doing what you’re doing and stay away from her. Sometimes it’s best to cut all ties to someone and continue on your own path. I’ve gone through it many times. I didn’t say anything about hurting anyone.
@ericr82314 жыл бұрын
The fact that this man does not break a smile makes the videos that more interesting, he’s so serious but that’s what makes these videos so good, your advice has helped out so much and she just called me halfway through the video to check up on me!! So thank you for the advice Coach Lee
@countcrow2 жыл бұрын
That's an interesting observation. He never cracks a smile. All these smiling happy people in these dark days only hurts more. I think he is readig the room correctly. I appreciate it anyway. All these advice givers with big plastic smiles and positive cheerleader energy telling us to "just love yourself" are just annoying
@shockleylakeysha76 Жыл бұрын
Lol😆😆😆
@alertbox4 жыл бұрын
"What they are really missing is the intimacy with you" - so true 10.30
@shaut91203 жыл бұрын
I’m scared He’ll find it somewhere else
@The_Milianaire5 жыл бұрын
Two weeks no contact on my end. She's reached out a handful of times and I've always responded, trying to match her energy but leaving little openings here and there like sending a wink emoji or something. The texts have gotten more frequent and meaningful. Pretty stoked! Dont break no contact. You have to let them come to you and they will figure out if that's what they want or not. Good luck everyone!!
@toddwashington81633 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro
@dakotakerr64673 жыл бұрын
Update?
@The_Milianaire3 жыл бұрын
@@dakotakerr6467 we only talk every now and then. She's been in a couple relationships. I've been single for almost two years now since we split (crazy to think its been that long). I've met/talked to girls but haven't really had that spark which honestly is okay with me since I'm just doing my own thing. No contact kinda works that way. Either you get back with them or you find comfort in your situation and accept it for what it is/make the best of it. She seems happy. I can't be upset about that. Hope everything works out for you! :)
@dakotakerr64673 жыл бұрын
@@The_Milianaire I appreciate you man, 6 days in lmao
@The_Milianaire3 жыл бұрын
@@dakotakerr6467 you got this yo! :)
@PsychedPerspective4 жыл бұрын
My thing is if you are dealing with a narcissistic none of this advice applies. You need to permanently stay no contact. You shouldn’t even want that toxic garbage 🗑
@drliveluplaugh754 жыл бұрын
true
@LipstickNsofrito4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@ja69753 жыл бұрын
If you’re not a medical profession you shouldn’t call people narcissists
@PsychedPerspective3 жыл бұрын
@@ja6975 very true and if someone is still showing narcissistic behaviors it’s still in your best interest to protect yourself. Lol y’all really try to promote staying in abusive situations.
@ja69753 жыл бұрын
@@PsychedPerspective Trauma, bipolar disorder, BPD, and other mental health issues can also appear as narcissism. This Narcissistic Abuse thing is hurting the world of already stigmatized mental illnesses. Compassion, less judgement and punishment
@ArcticAngel84 жыл бұрын
No contact is like going through hell finding yourself and love your videos !!! Thinking of getting your breakup kit soon!
@kwamenyantakyi83985 жыл бұрын
"when people decide to leave your life, let them. But leave theirs too. End the texts. Take the time you would use to write something brilliant back for self-care." "If you feel dread or anxiety at the prospect of communicating with your ex again, or if your relationship with them was unhealthy or abusive, it may be best for your mental well-being to not respond."
@margomazzeo16805 жыл бұрын
You know it..well said..
@sharonbernal94495 жыл бұрын
very indeed!!!!!!
@GurrGamer4 жыл бұрын
I’m going through my first break up and I’m binge watching your videos. Honestly they are helping me loads. Your words are helping me being more stubborn about not contacting him. Been 4 days and I haven’t and won’t. I was stalking him the first two days then deactivated my accounts to stop driving myself insane and let him feel my absence. It is so painful but I guess I’ll be okay sooner than most people do. Thanks to you xx Quick update: He hasn’t contacted me and I’m certain he won’t but it’s starting to feel like it’s for the best. He was a jerk anyway and he didn’t deserve me at all. They don’t deserve us people screw em and work on yourselves. It hurts but it gets better slowly but effectively.
@mscisland5 жыл бұрын
I fell for this once with my ex. She left me for her ex boyfriend, and she left me heart broken. We were in the beginning stages of getting to know each other. Etc.. She was so eager, and excited to leave. So she did. It took me some time to get over the situation, but finally. I got over it. I started to work on myself, I got in the gym, ate healthy, and drank lots of water. After 3 months of her leaving. She calls me. I didn’t recognize the number because it had been a long while since the departure. I see the number, didn’t recognize it. But I answered. It was her. She starts to tell me that she missed me, she couldn’t stop thinking of me, and etc. the real reason why she came back was because she wanted me to be there since her ex boyfriend who she left me for cheated on her, and he dumped her. At first I didn’t agree to a meet up, I was very uncomfortable, and I just wanted to be left alone. But after some time of getting some thing’s in order. We started dating. We dated for 9 months. We broke up the week before my birthday. She lied telling me that her close family didn’t like me so they wanted her to leave me. So at first I begged and pleaded because I had some strong feelings for her. But she rejected me. And she didn’t fight for us. I gave up, and then I went right back to working on myself. A week after the breakup. She calls me for a week straight. I was busy on my purpose. Three month’s moving forward she gives me a call. Again, I’m busy on my purpose, and plus I don’t have time to waste on a lying, dirty ex that cheated on me multiple times.after the missed call. I stayed on my purpose, I’m loving myself, I’m doing the things I love with the people I love, and I’m meeting New people. I don’t have time for uncertain women that don’t know what they want. And women that like to leave you for someone else. I let her stay out there because she apparently wanted to leave, she wanted the freedom. I gave it to her. I was patient with her, very supportive. I’m the one that pushed her to keep studying and not giving up on her studies ( We’re both in college ). Because of me, and my support, and motivation. She passed all her classes. I know that this might sound a bit disgusting, but when she would be on her period I would clean her, I didn’t care about blood getting on my hands because to me her blood was also mine. To me we were one. But she didn’t see that. She wanted someone else. So she left. I’m done being nice. She messed that up for the rest.
@RealCoachLee5 жыл бұрын
You can do better. You know it. March into the future confidently!
@fridahasingwa97122 жыл бұрын
I went into no contact and he reached out on day 13 asking how I was doing I replied fine thanks and kept silent still staying strong till the 30th day
@diegogalvan18102 жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing better, she never deserved you :)
@aewtx2 жыл бұрын
What made you go back to her that first time around?
@demetricchapman460 Жыл бұрын
❤
@gaylekemper45433 жыл бұрын
For such a young guy, you are so right on relationships. I’m in my seventies and you know more about this stuff then I know in all my years….I’ve always been the door Matt with my men, but after listening to you I’m on the road to recovery in getting my power back. Thank you so much are you a psychiatrist? If not you should be…
@mscisland5 жыл бұрын
Best thing to do is better yourself, be on your purpose, find your gift, and live your life. If someone was able to move on without you first by breaking up with. Why would you want them back?. Don’t hurt yourselves ladies and gentlemen. You deserve better than your ex. A person who truly loves you won’t leave you no matter what challenges may come your way. People who tell you, they love you should see and feel the love. If their actions don’t match heir word’s. Don’t bother with them. Don’t allow anyone to walk all over you. You deserve happiness, love, and peace. Love yourself, be on your purpose, be happy for you. And live for you. Good luck to you all.
@margomazzeo16805 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot..💝🎈
@musicrelativity57914 жыл бұрын
There is no separation in the Divine mind, therefore I cannot be separated from the love and companionship which is divinely mine.
@ExoticFireGirl3 жыл бұрын
This guy makes most sense in comparison to other coaches.
@lilu73332 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch your videos, you are such an effective coach that I find myself feeling better and more confident and my vibration has raised so much after watching just a few minutes that without fail, I will get a text from the person who I was chasing! Well chase no more! Coach Lee you’re a lifesaver! Keep rocking it!
@EJayyDreadHead5 жыл бұрын
I have 2 ex girlfriends chasing after me ... no contact help me become a better man now I understand the meaning of it
@twobullz34005 жыл бұрын
STVOR 19 if she made you feel worthless why do you care? You say you’ve gotten back up and that’s a lie because If you did you wouldn’t be worried about when she’s gonna start chasing you.
@EJayyDreadHead5 жыл бұрын
@@twobullz3400 I don't care about neither of them bro... . I'm in a new relationship 😉
@twobullz34005 жыл бұрын
Dreads And Angels good shit my guy 😤💪🏾
@TheGoose4283 жыл бұрын
So true. I had a woman I was with for 3 years and she told me I was holding her back. (Unrealistic goals she had) I said ok, and I moved out and didn’t talk to her for three months. She called me and told me she misses me and everything she sees and everywhere she goes she thinks of me. She also told me she misses the way we made love and wishes she would have never let me go. At this point I had already met someone else and was happy. It literally killed her and she was balling like a baby when I told her I have moved on and am happy. Then to top it off, she asked if I would be open to polygamy. Both women were very attractive and as bad as I liked the idea, I remember the pain she put me through and how easy it was for her to help me pack up and leave. Moral to this story is, no contact drove her crazy to the point of calling me from a fake number app to get me to answer. She still texts me and checks up on me through my friends. NO CONTACT WORKS!!!!
@Nekole15 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Lee for your videos. I have decided that I no longer want to pursue my ex. And in all honesty im glad that I have moved on. I refuse to chase anyone who leaves me especially at a time when I needed them the most. It shows that he just did not care. However, your videos have been very helpful during this time for me. Thank you again.
@carmensmith14533 жыл бұрын
Hello Nia been reading so many messages so many experiences from the ppl like me and u your mg makes sense a lot he dump me when I needed it him the most ...and causedmesoucj pain but he's selfish and got an addiction and flirt w everyone ....
@gregorythomas43662 жыл бұрын
My first non-black content creator I listened to & so open-minded now..Great content..Im fresh out in break up & needed this!!
@petersnell31284 жыл бұрын
I kept liking your videos without subscribing but finally did when in this video you cited my case within the 15th minute. You truly have been in this for 2 decades. Your observations are on point Coach Lee!
@troyesivan70694 жыл бұрын
1. They keep communicating with you. 2. They are curious about your life. (Intimacy) 3. They keep images of you together on social media. 4. Ex reminisces the past with you. 5. If they’re wondering if you talk about them. (Thru friends)
@skittlessocks14 жыл бұрын
Is this Troye Sivan?
@lukeskywalker3134 жыл бұрын
None of that is or has happened to me
@jennyt6034 жыл бұрын
It only happened for number 3. The rest no. Is that true if a guy still keep your photo in social media means still like you ? I have doubt.
@lukeskywalker3134 жыл бұрын
@@jennyt603 my exgirlfriend reached out to tell me she was in a automobile accident last week after 2month no contact twice in one day the 2nd text was to tell me she completed her college course and she's in a rebound relationship grass is greener situation but never apologize for fucking over me and today her youngest son called me and said he was thinking about me I have a close bond with them both her sons Is she testing the waters with me
@lukeskywalker3134 жыл бұрын
@@jennyt603 its possible
@juststoic38094 жыл бұрын
After watching many of your videos, I no longer think of my ex the same way but learning from all your videos makes me understand more.
@juststoic38094 жыл бұрын
@@jeffmartins8021 well even if I tried, it was a month before my ex moved on with someone else and we were together for about 8 months. She looks happy now and we got off phone about a month ago to settle our peace, so with whatever happens in her new relationship, good or bad, I have no business in that and now just focusing on myself. I still love for her but everyday it seems I understand more of what my feelings are
@alyssakufahl21242 жыл бұрын
Found your videos when I was looking for help with anxiety post breakup (the advice in your video on that was AMAZING). But now I keep watching videos and realize I have so much to learn in all inter-personal relationships and how I handle feelings of rejection. While I’m not really sure I want this ex back or not, I find these videos so helpful in finding the inner peace I’ve been missing my whole life. Thank you, Coach Lee
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Alyssa Kufahi, I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for anyone. It's awesome myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@berin7324 жыл бұрын
Learn from your mistakes. Change your behaviors. End on a positive note. Move on. It's been days 3 for me. I developed a lot of affection in an LDR for someone, and I botched it completely. Saddest part is in real life I am a completely different person in thw best way possible. I've made my peace. Whatever happens happens. I got a bright future😎. Wish them the best.
@thesoftestworld5 жыл бұрын
I wanted to tell you, coach Lee, and everybody hoping for no contact to work, it does. My case was the most desperate. He told me there was no chance for him to come back. And now he's here, after three months(after I begged him and broke no contact once and I had to start no contact all over again) But that's not easy at all. I waited for this moment so bad but this is the most difficult part because I love him but he broke my heart and I don't know if he's just feeling nostalgic or maybe he misses me just sexually. So please coach Lee, after all the help you've given to me, make a video about the cases you should trust your ex or not. Thank you anyway.
@2Tall_Powerlifting4 жыл бұрын
If you can trust him, YOU aren't ready for him yet.
@2Tall_Powerlifting4 жыл бұрын
@@yswen828 if you are willing to take him back willy nilly, and not think twice it could happen again...you have still left yourself more attached potentially, and parts of an old relationship could creep back in.
@2Tall_Powerlifting4 жыл бұрын
@@yswen828 how long has it been? You dont want to come off desperate and waiting in the wings. They have to understand that this was hurtful for everybody. You should have time for you both to HEAL alone before healing together....it will be good for you guys...but I don't know your situation
@michaelacousino24104 жыл бұрын
I know your pain and dilemma all too well. It's terrible when you want your ex back but also realize you need to value yourself more than they did. How many times do you want to be put through this. If you spend precious time trying to convince someone that your worth it again and again is very frustrating. I love this man but maybe I deserve a better partner. I'm forgiving but where's the limit? I don't know the answer to either of our questions but I hope the best for both of us. My heart is just broken so badly and the worst is doubting yourself for all the things you've done wrong and wish you could change. Best wishes to you Michaela Cousino
@thesoftestworld4 жыл бұрын
@@michaelacousino2410 Hi, I wanted to tell you that many months have passed and I decided to broke up with him forever. It was the most painful decision of my life but it was the right thing to do and finally I'm happy again. If you need help, or anybody reading this comment does, contact me on my instagram, I'm a normal girl, nothing special, but if you need somebody to talk to I'll always be there for you. My instagram is @floranieri
@vburke924 жыл бұрын
Don't ever go back! They never change they're just contacting you because they don't have anyone else. Mine contacted me after 18 months on a dating site his message was "Hey Stranger!". He crushed my heart. I didn't respond just put a pic up as my profile pic of me with most of him cropped out. Good Riddance!
@powerhouse64773 жыл бұрын
😂
@TheEthanCouch Жыл бұрын
I like what you said about unnecessary breakups. I think that's what's happening because she's going to college and she sent me a text saying things that didn't seem like her. She was always super invested in the relationship
Your videos give me so much comfort. My ex of 5 years broke up with me as he hasn't worked during the pandemic and needs to focus on work. He keeps texting me and wants to go for walks. I don't want to be just mates with him.
@semanavidi86942 жыл бұрын
You sound like a highly educated and professional man who really help us, thank you.
@Felix-Felix3 жыл бұрын
Lee, your tips seem to be working to the BOOK. I'm impressed. I never believed any of this. I thought, nah, it wouldn't work for all cases. And it's working! The summary of my case is: She was always very dominant and I let her be because it didn't bother me much. Then she decided to mess 17 years of friendship and 2 years of relationship. We even had rings and everything, we really went well with each other in many aspects, etc. Then we both were facing real life crysis at that point in our lives. But here's the problem: She is the one that likes to stay by her own while i'm the one that try to work together both our problems. I've learned from that. But it was too late. She literally came another day saying she "doesn't feel anything for me anymore and doesn't even know why". She insulted me in many ways she never did before. She was always an incredibly PROUD and sometimes narcisistic person (although she knew when to dial down) and seeing her looking for me and even saying she "want to talk better in another time" is something i've never seen she going for. I'm keeping it polite and casual but treating it like it's a new relationship with another person. Even if we don't end up together back again, just the fact that i'm seeing a very proud person being humble. It took only 9 days. She still has pictures of us together with rings and all in her social media. She is active on social media daily and even added some male friends but... Our pics are still there. Of course I haven't deleted mines either, as I would still be with her otherwise. And she did delete her other exes pictures before. I'll update this as we go.
@seanj114212 жыл бұрын
Watching these videos while actually hurting feeling devastated, puts everything in prospective.
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Naes, do you want your ex back? You can get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit that is excellent. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@alysehiltbrunner94485 жыл бұрын
I agree with you about ignoring your ex. I went 10 days no contact and thought he would never reach out... well he did on day 10. He told me if i ignored him he would have thought I moved on and wouldn’t reach out anymore... So don’t ignore!!!!
@topgunner19625 жыл бұрын
10 days wow. 95 days here. So guess my situation is hopeless
@christinalewis36355 жыл бұрын
Everytime I think about him I get emotional almost like an anxiety attack then I'll get a text from him to be honest it getting creepy
@christinalewis36355 жыл бұрын
Ice Queen yeah thats the only thing I can think of is to why thats happening
@cavemanchonny5 жыл бұрын
@@christinalewis3635 who did the breaking up?
@christinalewis36355 жыл бұрын
Caveman Chonny he broke up with me after almost 3 year
@cavemanchonny5 жыл бұрын
@@christinalewis3635 awe :( I'm sorry to hear that. If he's contacting you again do you think he wants to get back together?
@christinalewis36355 жыл бұрын
Caveman Chonny thank you its ok its been 2 years since the breakup I dont think so cause he is with someone else
@yayielabicio2 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so calm and it helps relieve all the pain I am going through right now. Thank you coach for all your wonderful advice. It helps me get through day by day. May the Heavens bless you more.
@prettyflowers56993 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all your wonderful videos Coach Lee. I've been no contact for 2 months now. I bought you're mergency kit to. You're doing so much for all us broken hearted people. We understand so clearly now. Big thanks from UK x
@Maca-u1s4 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee you are my daily dose of strength 💪, thank you 😊
@barbaraandersen21162 жыл бұрын
Same here plus his voice is very soothing 😊
@insaneboy1234 Жыл бұрын
@@barbaraandersen2116 yep the way he talks, I can listen to him all day long
@davegregory7914 жыл бұрын
This is way harder when it's been a seriously long relationship with kids to boot. Not so easy to go cold turkey no contact. I have watched your video several times about what to do in that situation. Keeping it about the kids and nothing else. But it does make it complicated, we have to see each other often and it's in those moments I'm worried about and don't know how to act in front of her. Especially if she ask me anything not pertaining to them, like what do I say or how do I respond? I want to be strong show her everything you're saying. But it makes it so much harder when kids are involved. She wants to be civil for the kids, said she wants us to be a family but needs time and space to process everything that is going on and what I left her with, letting her know I respect her decision but don't agree with it, I respect myself enough to not flip out over it, won't chase or pursue and simply keep it about the kids. She says we can be a family without a title. Which throws me off. It's like let me see if it works with someone else, beat around the bush, talk in riddles and never straight to the point and it drives me crazy. Just say what you mean and follow through. Don't leave me hanging on the back burner while you see if it's better with someone else and then what? It don't work or you're not happy or when the intimacy isn't there and you feel unloved you come running back and I'm supposed to take you back after that? No contact or not that makes me look and actually be weak af! Like I have no self respect and dignity. Sigh...Am I wrong? She also wants us to still go to church as a family once a week. Which really doesn't allow me to give her time and space without me, is this a ruse to shit test me once a week to see if things are better, etc? or an excuse to keep me strung along in case it don't work out if she decides to move? Or is it simply she just needs space and time for us to be together? Like I'm all over the place in my head and it sucks! Also makes me think she is literally using it as an excuse to use on someone else, like oh if you see us all together at church it's simply for the kids, not for us to be together, just trying to be civil and cordial for the kids, not for him or us to get back together. That sounds like an excuse for some other interest right? Or am I over thinking it all and second guessing myself into a hole? Also, I feel like I should go to church FOR MY KIDS, not her, to show I'm strong enough to let OUR issues go and put the kids first which in the end will show me as a mature person who has moved on. But I worry on both ends, will she think we're better off as we are now, saying see we're better off single because there is no attachment in the way or will it work for me? I keep thinking I should just not go to church anymore but I think that makes me look weak and immature as well. God this is so hard to decipher when you're left with tid bits of information and no clear explanation, figure it out on your own type stuff. Sorry for the book everyone. What's the general thought/s here? I need help!
@bbygold7524 жыл бұрын
I understand That is nothing ok I have a solution
@bbygold7524 жыл бұрын
If you mind
@TheMichaelCardoza2 жыл бұрын
Day 2 on the no contact rule. Day 1: my wife called to tell me about her day, I ignored her call. Day 2: she called in the am and she sounded happy to hear my voice. I’ll keep you posted moving forward.
@margomazzeo16804 жыл бұрын
Your hair looks sooo good! Blond..soft & shiny..💝🎁🎈😘
@abee24884 жыл бұрын
I love the clarity and reality in which you speak with and bring to the topic.
@gigachad67424 жыл бұрын
i am now day 5 of no contact, my ex reached out to me twice during this period. one was in day 2 to make sure i didn't block her cuz i was on radio silence, the second one was on day 3 because we had to work on a school project. she tried to have a conversation outside the work, but i remained focused i was neutral to her messages, and ofc i worked my best, not for her, but because i am concerned. day 4 she posted a picture on instagram of her in the place where we had our first date, it is also our spot, written in the description "throwback..", well i hope that's a sign though, but i am still looking forward on letting her deal with the silence and figure out if it was a good choice or no. i am writing this during Quarantine of Covid19. stay safe guys
@Dougstakes3 жыл бұрын
LET US KNOW WHAT HAPPENED!!!
@kungfukenny15403 жыл бұрын
Update?
@marleneenelram48054 жыл бұрын
Do you think you can make a video focusing on break ups caused by parents?
@yvbofficial4 жыл бұрын
This might be a late reply, just want to let you know that me and my ex had parent problems interfering in our relationship. She wasn't allowed to date and my mom was very noisy and protective over me and constantly insulted my girlfriend who she never met. The cause of our relationship failing was partly a result of the stress my mom put on me which in return made me more aggressive to my girlfriend because I wanted to prove my mother wrong and show her my first love would last forever, so I would often be controlling to my girlfriend because I was scared of her doing something that was gonna ruin our dream to last forever, which ended up becoming the reason we didn't last forever. Just try not to let parents get in the way of love no matter what because if I didn't do what I did I would still be with her.
@mmommo20254 жыл бұрын
"Leave and cleave" its in the Bible. Parents should not be involved at all.
@secureconnection52454 жыл бұрын
I've been doing everything you teach in your videos. Going 4 weeks of NC. The only signs I know of right now is that he didn't unfriend me on FB neither deleted our pics together, though his other exes pics had been deleted. Not sure who dumped who, but he got pissed when I called him out on some bs about 2 months ago. It must have really hurt his male ego and he started to pull away. We never argued or anything and I let him do the slow fade until we stopped talking altogether. He actually might think I let go of him haha I'm not reaching out first, did't wish him happy birthday in January, nor will be contacting him on Valentine's. When I get nostalgic, I re-watch your videos that help keep my resolve and determination. Thank you so much for all the support and care, Coach Lee. Much appreciated :-)
@SA31924 жыл бұрын
Curious...how did this situation turn out?
@secureconnection52454 жыл бұрын
@@SA3192 Been 4 months of No Contact, haven't heard back from him. Recently started talking to other people, not waiting around for anyone. Our common friends are super nice to me, like they might know something but not telling me. I'm just living my life and doing my thing. My attitude about this is whatever happens happens, life goes on.
@lenaschaef67145 жыл бұрын
I'm on day 31 and was just watching your videos as it is sooooo hard!!! Please offer coachings soon again, l truly need you! Broken up for 2 years and I'm hurting badly
@shannonlink77385 жыл бұрын
You should start dating. Nothing serious, just get out and your mind off. I’m so hurt right now, but I have to live. You do also. I’m going out with a friend this weekend. I hope you the best and hope you find peace.
@hopelessromantic17635 жыл бұрын
2 years. I pray things get better for u. I thought 8 months was long. I still talk to my ex but I shouldn't be. Sometimes he answer my calls most times he dont.
@azazel39445 жыл бұрын
Move on.Why you waited 2 years for someone who dont want you
@lenaschaef67145 жыл бұрын
@@shannonlink7738 I've been dating so much I'm bored of it, l just want my person back ❤️
@lenaschaef67145 жыл бұрын
@@hopelessromantic1763 💔 have you tried no contact? Maybe for more than one month? I once did it for three, let his new relationship play out, that NEARLY brought us back together 😩
@ulat142 жыл бұрын
Watching your videos and paused… think about my ex…paused.. And all of a sudden a have a text message… and it’s was him!!!! Oh my lord!…. Next thing I know, Tears in my eyes. 😢 And it’s not easy to go through breakup but it is for the best… Thanks coach lee! It helps for what I have been through now 😭😢
@aricarter65233 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this a year ago and having anxiety 😟 now I’m content with what has transpired
@bioschlock3 жыл бұрын
You moved on?
@aricarter65233 жыл бұрын
@@bioschlock yes!
@aricarter65233 жыл бұрын
I’ve moved on!
@mscoolcat30715 жыл бұрын
Followed no contact after 8 weeks got a message 10 weeks phoned me back together now it has worked be patient focus on yourself this is good advise I found that radio contact silence worked really well go missing.Good luck.
@nikokaliko9527 Жыл бұрын
His advice is golden! It literally took 2 weeks of no contact before he broke down and reached out to me. I only respond when he contacted me. Honestly idk if I even want him back at this point but hey, ya never know. 😊
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Milo Kalilo. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It's awesome! IT HAS STEATEGIES for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Lee. You are so sincere. I miss and love the person I have broken up with - or rather, who has broken up with me. I will wait, and focus on me.
@13124bomsica4 жыл бұрын
You said to not ignore the ex. But man I'm torn. Still 5 days on no contact and my ex already sent me the "I miss you" text. I feel like it's unfair for me if I just break the no contact, I mean he chose to end things with me. Why should I give him the luxury of coming back as if nothing happened? As if he didn't hurt me at all
@kifter425410 ай бұрын
What did you do? I’m in the same situation as your ex lol, I dumped her now miss her
@alie88054 жыл бұрын
my ex new gf contacted me and called me names even though we stopped talking long time ago .. I feel flattered lol
@MissWampire4 жыл бұрын
That's just awful. Why did she do that? So odd.
@kmold00334 жыл бұрын
Alie interesting you say that. My ex girlfriend told me she was afraid I’d do what her ex did when they broke up after she cheated on my ex with a dude... the chick would also call her to curse at her and what not. I told her “yeah, you won’t have that problem with me Bc I won’t even reach out”. And here i am. No contact, only when they contact me I respond kindly, but man it’s frustrating not being able to maintain a solid no contact
@tysontapara84604 жыл бұрын
These videos actually help put things in perspective. Over 4 or 5 years me and my ex have broken up in the past once for 3 months. He started seeing someone casually straight away while I cried for a month. I managed to met a guy after a month and we were casually dating, nothing serious. 2 months after that my ex got in contact and when we met up again it was like nothing had happened. Fast forward 2 years and we have broken up again. It's been almost a month. This time I was the one who moved on in 2 weeks and the person I'm seeing is amazing! But I'm just not sure if it's a rebound or if I genuinely am interested in them as I still feel my heart belongs to my ex even though in my head I dont want him back anymore, I truly want to keep them as one of my closest friends. I'm nervous because we are trying to stay friendly while remaining distant, yet I get scared they will see me doing well and moving on and want me back and I will fall for them instantly like last time 😔
@knowlege854 жыл бұрын
My ex reached out to me after a week of the break up. We texted for a bit, she even was open to have a phone coversation. Then she said a few hrs later that she didnt think we should talk or meet up because we had to much chemistry with eachother and something would happen. She said that she didn't desire to share her life with me, and we shouldn't communicate. Then today she kept looking at me while we were at work, then came right to me while I was on my lunch break and talked to me for a bit. Even though I haven't contacted her, I'm confused I want her back. But I dont know what's going on. I was polite, lighthearted, calm, and positive we interacting with her. And have been following coach Lee's advice just don't know how to move forward from here. Still hopeful and not giving up
@JoVelvet Жыл бұрын
This is the second time we are in NC. The first time he broke up because he lost interest and we went back together after 6 months (I was just upgrading myself at that time and I just noticed him unblocking me and eventually reached out). This second time, I was the one at fault. He broke up with me but he didn't block me off. He unfollowed me on my socials and I did as well after some time. On the 3rd week, he texted about a news article which may have affected my sister in Estonia. I replied politely and he didn't reach out again. After a week, I texted him saying I was sorry. He did not respond yet. I'm trusting NC and using this time to love myself and not overly obsessing about getting him back. I will be staying away and it's been hard but I am staying the course. Use this time to reflect on yourself and how to become better for you. Whatever happens, the best you can do is to stay away and respect yourself enough to not force another person to be in their life when they don't want to.
@mycatstella335 жыл бұрын
I love you so much coach lee ! Ur videos helped me get through this last month. my ex even got in a very temporary rebound thankfully didn’t even reach full intimacy and he’s back already. I gave him lots of space made him initiate. I went on one date and that seemed to be the pivotal moment. He admits he was depressed the whole time without me n his coworkers had to encourage him to get out and stuff. You are so right about everything .please keep making videos . Do you still do coaching calls and is it Skype only? Just Incase for future emergencies. 💕💕💕
@ceesarjoust37945 жыл бұрын
So it dont work if we got into an argument ????
@_Ibarbi._2 жыл бұрын
This is so true , My guy broke up with me in a 1 year and 6 months relationship, because he lost feelings for me and then he went into another relationship a week after we broke up , I was really dissipointed , because it shows me he didn't felt anything for me later in the relationship. We broke up, because he can't handle the truth and he is also a Mamas boy , his parents didn't like me , because me and my guy argued alot and he would tell terable things about me. If his parents says he must leave me then he will do it. He put his parents Always First and Then me. His parents can't also handle the truth that's why. My guy has depression, because of his parents since he was a child. He was lonely, he had a second sibling and that one always had the attention and he not. That's why he has depression, that's also the problem why we broke up.
@charleskeeney55313 жыл бұрын
Lee, I love the advice. Thank you. My wife of 15 years has dumped me for a resident doctor at work. We have 2 little kids. We've never fought, never yelled at each other. Things just cooled over the last 6 months. Any hope???
@nghila9004 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach for making these videos. Makes a huge difference.
@SuccesSeeker11 ай бұрын
We broke up 3 weeks ago. I begged a bit because it literally came out of the blue. Her reason was that we were bickering a lot, since she broke my trust a bit and I started to be more controlling about her whereabouts and who is she texting. She told me she wanted to try a single life because she feels like she didnt experience much. There was nobody else involved (for what I know). I posted a story a few days ago, lookin fit and good in new clothes and she liked it on IG. Then I went to this party and saw her, I politely said hi and went on with my evening. She randomly sent me a snap of her dancing with her friends that evening afterwards (she haven’t sent any snaps since the breakup) and later I found out from a friend of mine she asked my friend if I was there and where I was. Is this some sort of sign? Or am I just making stuff up. Thanks for ypur answers. Coach Lee, you are a legend. You give me peace when I’m struggling to keep the no contact.
@jaynefernandez4835 жыл бұрын
I love you Coach Lee, I’m always happy when I get a notification from you😘
@rebecca901611 ай бұрын
7 years and he just told me he doesnt love me anymore. It was up and down a lot, and hes been hot and cold last few days. I'm broken every day and i just gotta survive.
@jannlewandowski554011 ай бұрын
rebecca9016, I'm sorry Rebecca. That happens to quite a few couples. Sometimes one may lose its spark, and gets boring. There is still hope. Sometimes you have to get out of the house and see a movie, go dancing, and have fun. There is also another solution, which worked on mostly all the couples. The main thing is, DO not ignore him. Here is the link.MyExBackCoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis If you go thru this, it will help immensely. Hugs for you..❤❤
@PrestonCvaughn5 жыл бұрын
Coach, No contact worked literally within 3 days. My ex reached out to me! Thank you so much
@Jessica-cl6ql5 жыл бұрын
Preston Vaughn what did you do ? I’m in desperate need of help ,I’m losing hope! Any advice ?
@PrestonCvaughn5 жыл бұрын
Jessica literally just don’t reach out to them and fall off the face of the earth. Watch Lee’s videos
@hammerthyme49693 жыл бұрын
You are exactly right because I used the nobcontact rule for 30 days, & my ex husband wanted me back so bad. So, we tried working it out time & time again. Never moving back in together though. But after several times of me doing a no contact, caused him to get a hobby that he is now obsessed with. Oh mercy! True story
@angelanswers92744 жыл бұрын
Looking at you makes breaking up easy to do!!!!!!! Thanks coach!😘
@siavashafshar5 жыл бұрын
I am in No Contact for almost 7 weeks now. And I am working on myself to a great extent. I created my own company and added like 5 kg of muscle going to gym every day. We broke up mainly because she could not see a future with me as she is 3 years older, wants kids, and I had no signs of stability at the time we broke up. So it was issues rather than feelings. However, after nearly 2 months, I am more stable as I have created my own company a few weeks ago. My Ex reached out during this period twice, BUT, it was neither direct nor indirect. First, sent me a text that If I want her to send over my stuff. I replied, with a 5-hour delay, that I am not available and she can send it to my address and the Lobby would pick'em up. She said OK but to this day, she has not done it, Lol. Second time was when she found out on LinkedIn that I have created my own company, she sent congratulations and I replied thank you, happy to see your text. Well, I've been working on myself and I think she is noticing, however, she is not reaching out, I mean a proper one. Have I applied the No Contact correctly? Or has she moved on? I've been working on my separation anxiety but it takes time and my Ex is still on my mind. Any suggestions ?
@RealAsianBeauty5 жыл бұрын
She obviously tried to reach out already. When she offered to send your stuff, you could have offered (in a friendly but not overly excited way) to just meet up so she could give you your stuff back. She wanted to see you again to feel your presence that why she hasn't sent it yet. I suggest watching all of coach Lee's videos. She talked about signs your ex still wants you back and this was mentioned on that video.
@siavashafshar5 жыл бұрын
@@RealAsianBeauty Well, maybe you are right. But, as I replied with a few hours delay, she said she is too travelling for the weekend(which she was really) and she cannot do it now, but If I want, I can send her the address so she can send over the stuff after she got back. I sent the address and thanked her, but she did not send them anyway. so I don't understand. It was all after like 2 weeks that she had broken up with me and had posted sth on Instagram saying "someday you will be a memory to some people so try your best to be a good one." And I took it as a break up closure, you know. Because the last conversation before that Instagram post between us was me promising through text that I will go and solve my problems in order to get her back again... which she didn't give any reply on that, leaving it without response. So when two weeks after the no contact she said that thing about my stuff, I couldn't take it as a clear reach out. I am not sure if she has moved on now, and I cannot see the signs. She is always the first who views my Instagram stories (all of them quite positive posts) but that also could not mean anything serious. I'm not sure. She is a strong girl and tonight I heard from one of our mutual friends that she does not show any sign of being sad or any signs that she's waiting and etc. But mutual friends could always be misleading you know. So I don't know really. The only thing I know is to continue no contact until she reaches out again, and in the meantime I work on myself so that if one day she comes back, I'd be ready
@richricogranada96472 жыл бұрын
Lee is the son that all parents dream about, a son who became a real man, and not a pansy or a wimp, which is epidemic
@grantmoore97484 жыл бұрын
After 6 yrs, I think it's been and gone. No going back, although I think of her every day. We were together 17yrs, had 3 children together, but definitely no contact in a positive wY from her, for months.
@Germanybabe5 жыл бұрын
@Coach Lee! Jeez you are so right! I strictly followed the no contacf rule although it was driving me nuts. So i worked more and went on holiday. I wrote last week that he re-contacted me and I came here for advice. You say ignoring is not right and I followed what you said! I didn't ignore but replied and kept it cool and friendly but not too much. Even used your words from video. This week he has been communicating trying harder to make me laugh like the beginning with edited videos of himself. And Today he asked me to meet him again! Can you imagine!??? Like I can't think and need you to tell me what to do next!! He made it clear that he is even jealous of my vacation now (instagram holiday pics) and he wants to know so much! If I met anyone else etc and that he "is still the best for me" now thats some confidence there..🤣 from someone who called it quits Now he asked to meet and implied he misses us! Coach Lee! Please think for me again. What to do? Lets get this baby back! How can I book your time for coaching ?
@isabellairaca16693 жыл бұрын
Loving the metaphor of the cake in the oven. ..😌🙏💗💗✨
@benaffleck24813 жыл бұрын
Hello dear do you need any help I can help you out
@benaffleck24813 жыл бұрын
It's worked out for me
@benaffleck24813 жыл бұрын
. whtsap me let's chat better
@benaffleck24813 жыл бұрын
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@christiangeneral50574 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 👋 most of the video I have seen are always trying to sell thier product, you hit the right talk I needed I really appreciate u bro...
@gewishworm47243 жыл бұрын
A good rule of thumb is if they get with someone with in the first 2 weeks after the break up, they most likely didn't love you and you deserve to find someone far better.
@afrank1982 жыл бұрын
She wanted “space”, which seemed to come out of nowhere, & yes it hurt but I immediately started no contact after the break up convo. Everyone at work (older coworkers, ppl who know we dated… her friends are still being nice to me) are saying they liked us together. I feel like they are saying the same to her. It’s been 7-8 weeks. She passed by me a couple days ago & spoke nicely like she used to when we first started talking. Interestingly enough, I saw her today, and she had this blank stare at me. 🤷♂️ I think she may be realizing the grass isn’t always greener on the other side, and considering her previous exes, I’m confident she at least knows she had a good thing with me.
@esdrasmanrique6457 Жыл бұрын
Update brother?
@stellacraig74453 жыл бұрын
I am thrilled I found your website! You are a lifesaver. :)
@Lunaicemusic Жыл бұрын
One month of no contact and he texted me and said “I don’t know what’s gonna happen to us in the future but I appreciate all the good in you” I responded “thanks same here” and went back into no contact 🤷🏾♀️
@RealCoachLee Жыл бұрын
Solid response. Good job not trying yo have a conversation about what he said. And going back into no contact was the best thing to do.
@lisalavender3662 жыл бұрын
The problem is once you get back together all the problems that broke you up in the first place are still there
@professor0reo700 Жыл бұрын
Unless you worked on improving. If you haven't, then don't be surprised if they leave again.
@drexelking87924 жыл бұрын
Genuines. I have no doubt this is highly effective advice. Thanks for sharing.
@LindaBell-ube3 жыл бұрын
I loved the cake analogy
@gloriacarina15 ай бұрын
You are so good, I still watch your videos. Yes he begged me back months later. No I didn't take him back. Its been 2 yrs and I still listed to you. You helped me heal and your voice is still soothing ❤❤❤
@ThonThon007Ай бұрын
GUYS let me tell you! It’s SO MUCH easier to get back with them if you don’t cheat… 😔 I’m doing everything Coach preaches AND THEN some! Take it from me there’s always something to love about what they don’t have anymore! Keep pushing 💪🏽
@monkeybwo14665 жыл бұрын
Coach, you should make a video about "Getting your ex back when you were the one who dumped them". Needing it rn..
@RealCoachLee5 жыл бұрын
Here is an article I wrote on that: myexbackcoach.com/want-your-ex-back-after-breaking-up/
@greenbean22225 жыл бұрын
My ex recently broke up with me but she's so complicated that i don't really know what's going through her mind entirely.
@rudigerkerz79815 жыл бұрын
Same here... manm I just need some clarity.
@hwdareu58484 жыл бұрын
Same situation... she broke up with me 2 months ago after 4 good years... we are friends after i broke no contact rule. I don't initiate the conversation anymore but she's calling like once in a week asking about my life
@hwdareu58484 жыл бұрын
@Bubu 00 hey.. just want to let you know that I took off from all social media and cut off all the communication from my ex few days after I posted the above comment .have been in no contact for 3 and half months already...
@hwdareu58484 жыл бұрын
@Bubu 00 I tried to resurface on social media but I can't stand to witness her living her best life as if I don't exist. It's being 7 days after I uninstalled whatsapp. No social media. I just want to find happiness
@hwdareu58484 жыл бұрын
@Bubu 00 I uploaded a nice picture of myself and set the privacy to "my contacts only" and I think because of this it makes her think I blocked her.
@johnlowe14973 жыл бұрын
No contacts pretty hard when you work with them, 8 hours a day trying to block out the pain, seeing her talking to other men, laughing and joking.
@miguelcastillo37702 жыл бұрын
Im learning all this and I need to have you videos all day, I don’t know if is going to work, but It makes me feel better
@Whopperwarr4 ай бұрын
11 kg down. Running more than I ever have. Fitter and stronger. Mental health under control. Break up gave me a wake up but nc gave me the strength to get back in control.
@believe78172 жыл бұрын
I blocked him, finally I feel like letting go for good I don't think I will ever be able to look him right in the eyes and pretend to be fine with him while he has hurt me and left me with no clarity 💔 I hate him so much
@keziaopaon44864 жыл бұрын
No communication 19days But now im okkk
@hannahg61114 жыл бұрын
Is there a discussion forum where we can ask you questions? It looks like you don't do coaching calls anymore on your website.
@aaronramsden16573 жыл бұрын
I think at this point I'm more Interested in self growth, if she comes back that's great, if not, I wish her all the best, I really do 🙏
@joepedroza47074 жыл бұрын
Thanks coach my ex wrote me a Letter and went out of her way to tell me how wonderful her new man was. She put it in great detail. All I was thinking was she was just trying to make me jealous. I told her that's great now u have your prince charning. I really didn't let on that I gave a crap. She did the social media thing too. Make it obvious that she was so happy. I don't buy it
@12alkema5 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me a month ago and we just decided to go no contact last week this shit hurts but these videos are helping
@jackl69285 жыл бұрын
You helped me alot but, been 5 months and some days and nothing. She was a bit unstable due to her past relationship. It hurts but, I know there is no hope anymore.
@jerrylisby53765 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily. Some people take longer. Could be 8 or 9 months or a year. Depends how much they mean to you. Patience.
@ProudToBeVeggie5 жыл бұрын
this video came just in time. I've been feeling really shitty today. Its been almost 4 months and i haven't heard anything since the breakup. I really miss him coach lee. Im trying so hard to move on but its the hardest thing I've ever done
@ProudToBeVeggie5 жыл бұрын
also, just finished watching the video and what you said about the college thing resonated with me so much. thank you for this
@kaylahughes35085 жыл бұрын
I definitely feel your pain I haven’t spoken to my ex in a month and an a half it’s literally so nerve wracking
@ProudToBeVeggie5 жыл бұрын
Kayla Hughes im sorry girl. I wouldnt wish this pain on anyone. I’d like to say it gets easier but im not even at that stage yet. Just dont reach out to him cause they dont care right now. They might not ever, who knows
@kaylahughes35085 жыл бұрын
Emily have you ever reached out to him?
@patriciaroy50135 жыл бұрын
Its hard I feel you. I was with someone for 8 years, it ended 8 months ago. The last 2 years we argued alot, we lived together but we weren't acting like a couple. He replaced me with a 24 year old he met at work, he is 46. I've been complete no contact for over a month now. It didn't happen before cause he had mail he had to give me, as soon as I made sure I had no more important mail going to our place, I started complete no contact.
@Indyreptiles3 жыл бұрын
Wish I found this dude like two weeks ago. This is the advice I need.
@benaffleck24813 жыл бұрын
Hello dear do you need any help I can help you out
@benaffleck24813 жыл бұрын
It's worked out for me
@benaffleck24813 жыл бұрын
. whtsap me let's chat better
@benaffleck24813 жыл бұрын
+¹(⁴⁴⁰)²²⁰⁴²⁰⁸(◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
@fairlylady19723 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who can help you bring your ex back within few-days He was the one who also helped me too
@معتوه-ل5غ2 жыл бұрын
you are the best coach , I've seen others but they you talk is so logical