They hate being ignored.they hate when their tactics don’t work.but they will keep trying to upset you ,cos they need their supply .
@kathismith28657 ай бұрын
They are such looosers. My sister is one and I can't stand to be around her. It's like she's psycho and demon possessed 😈
@freshmanjeans7 ай бұрын
Yup starting arguments and all
@louhortonsculpture4 ай бұрын
They escalate and get others involved
@cindyschuhmacher7094 ай бұрын
You nailed it!
@chinwenduchinwe5862 ай бұрын
@heather... In the workplace, after they have tried, tried and failed they get tired of failing and their boomerangs returning back to them; so they get tired and leave you alone. Then, they keep their distance, oh definitely watching you. Or, try to get close to you "for show only" ⚠️Beware ⚠️
@debbiepeterson68292 жыл бұрын
Their flying monkeys can be worse than the narcissist.
@yosmeryjimenez47292 жыл бұрын
Apply ZERO contact with flying monkeys as well...Block them and don’t care what they say or do😡😡😡
@petergriffiinbirdistheword Жыл бұрын
Omg, YES. 🤦🤦
@dwlsn93 Жыл бұрын
I learned VERY quickly when I tried to tell my truth to our mutual “friends” - they were ALL on his side! Blew my mind until I learned what narcissist and flying monkeys are! It all made perfect sense after that! We no longer have “mutual”friends!😂
@etiquetteconnoisseur6184 Жыл бұрын
Ahah! So funny. I know full well.
@jimmydean4444 Жыл бұрын
I have many, many of them in my life. It's disturbing to the fullest degree. I've been documenting as much as possible but man it's crazy
@joannbyrd63242 жыл бұрын
No weapon formed against me shall prosper in Jesus name Amen.
@LifewithSenoritaK Жыл бұрын
And every tongue that speaks against you shall be condemned
@misss3881 Жыл бұрын
AMEN
@peachesmonty1506 Жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!!! GOD HAS BEEN PROTECTING ME THROUGH THIS ENTIRE SITUATION! FOUR YEARS DOWN THE DRAIN
@allesgut8506 Жыл бұрын
Better we stay stictly to the Word, which has prooven power - all other words are just wishful thinking, just simple words. - Or another way to say it: put all into God's hands - leave your own hands out of it. Just stay correct, no blemish on me /us . - Prooven successful tactic. -- The word recited by Joan is The Word , literally. Let us use and overcome with that. @@LifewithSenoritaK
@chautran2588 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@FabulousCucumber-ip9hu6 ай бұрын
The second you realise what you're dealing with, you've won.
@jangunning16762 ай бұрын
👍👏👏👏🙌
@BrainmusicBrainАй бұрын
Yess recognize and accept it.
@Kingdom_of_God777Ай бұрын
Amen to that 🙏🏼😎
@karinfend2980Ай бұрын
❤
@AnthonyManzioАй бұрын
Call the police
@whodoneitbr5492 жыл бұрын
No they stalk you. They get off on disrupting your peace.
@gotcha9983 Жыл бұрын
Gross
@j4Naga Жыл бұрын
Stalking could be door slamming as well 😊
@chelly871 Жыл бұрын
💯 They live for it, they're sick
@henrytuedor2650 Жыл бұрын
@@chelly871they never want seeing you happy mind has constant pain no sleep
@greener9115 Жыл бұрын
Due to plotting stalking. I had to sell the 🏠 and move out
@KleeKaiPuppies Жыл бұрын
If the narc can’t destroy your good soul, they enlist their army to come in. You alone are smarter and stronger than all of them bc God is in you. Know this, God works through you and protects you w wisdom and understanding and then you take the actions you need to based on your God given intuition.
@lifesaver9278 Жыл бұрын
This is so true!! Thank you for putting it in words! I’m going through same realization!
@juellejalilian323510 ай бұрын
Yes ..he is getting his flying monkey to do his dirty work. The narc is not that bright or playing the ultimate victim role. Psalm 35 let him fall in his own pit, he dug for you.
@jiaraja768610 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@OahuAlohaLove9 ай бұрын
Oh yes.. dirty cops and hired stalkers/terrorists/gang stalkers..for years. Unbelievable bs.
@JeremiahJohnson17764 ай бұрын
@juellejaliliain3235 I agree,the bible is always clear
@nancinew82882 жыл бұрын
This is why we need to stay in prayer. God will reveal these people to us every time❤
@emmarae4322 Жыл бұрын
Stop with the god talk. Not everyone is delusional like you.
@valerieleoncio2954 Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@Cool427 Жыл бұрын
oh so no one has a problem?
@Zai-x9j Жыл бұрын
Yes! God does reveal them and their intentions.. everything.. God reveals everything.. just a matter of time .
@Ax.DaEdge Жыл бұрын
Ev-ery SINGLE time!! Amen!!
@hopeausbyn17348 ай бұрын
Cower behind others because you are the strong one. You know this is the truth.
@ruthieemily2 жыл бұрын
You really help humanity. Narcissistic behavior used to be hidden and people could not figure out why they felt so terrible being around people like that because it is almost subconscious attacking of their victims.
@hasansarhan9296 Жыл бұрын
True it’s like an emotional attack on their victim subconscious attack
@nicolebavlnka75034 ай бұрын
It's evil energy that's being exposed because a god in heaven isn't toloreting their actions no more
@aloksrivastava793822 күн бұрын
It is why many good people used to abandon societies and become hermits in those times. Even we are following the same traditional methods of hermits of the past. Do not engage with the narcissists, ignore them, sever all ties and move on.
@inmyown407 Жыл бұрын
He who digs graves for others falls in that pit. I have seen God leashing karma on such narcissistic and manipulators
@gotcha9983 Жыл бұрын
Praying 🙏❤ Justice for all
@AashishSrivastva Жыл бұрын
these all are words to distract us from pain no justice
@AashishSrivastva Жыл бұрын
these all are words to distract us from pain no justice
@miketesla8550 Жыл бұрын
@@AashishSrivastva I'm in indescribable pain right now, the only thing that keeps me alive is knowing my sworn enemies will reap what they sow, and they actually already reaped a part of it, as it is written: "There is no peace for the wicked". No, the wicked can't have peace in their heart. So the best revenge for their victims is to have peace in their heart !
@bindiyakhan1299 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🙌
@missyyy-6 ай бұрын
Passive aggressive behavior is the narcissist’s favorite activity.
@VLFBERHTwolf3 ай бұрын
Until you actually meet me in a fight.
@stephaniepiazzese26023 ай бұрын
Oh boy. So true. Spot on. Keep telling it. 🥺🥺
@jimnewt21382 ай бұрын
@@VLFBERHTwolfWhat are you gonna do little man?
@VLFBERHTwolf2 ай бұрын
@@jimnewt2138 There is no fun in telling you ... Duh.
@jimnewt21382 ай бұрын
@@VLFBERHTwolf Fem boy
@incognito59510 ай бұрын
Never underestimate their power to damage you. Be vigilant.
@rg3362Ай бұрын
True…the levels that they can go to are unimaginable and how even they infect people who are normally good human beings but will do weird things for them
@hxbaaf Жыл бұрын
Let me tell you. Eyes of rage. They will make sure you know they hate you. That’s how they abuse you indirectly. They follow/stalk you so that they can express their passive aggression. And of course they speak shit about you to others.
@lulucestmoi87973 ай бұрын
This is exactly my situation. I find it disgusting this behavior. No maturity no Empathy.
@deedee197919 ай бұрын
They can’t see how weak they look because they think they’re winning, but not realizing the truth
@jamiewilliams81078 ай бұрын
A narcissist never gives up on annoying you,they live to see you down
@industryexposedofficial9 күн бұрын
Ever they will try anything literally 😂😂😂😂 & ultimately ALWAYS FAIL
@BigHeartNoBS2 жыл бұрын
I flipped the script on them and terrified them. I faced off with one of them in church. She literally cried and ran away in front of everybody!
@KaymakveMimi Жыл бұрын
Tell me how
@kejorafall Жыл бұрын
She will attack again behind you
@vandanap5860 Жыл бұрын
How?
@michellemarch-collier6320 Жыл бұрын
Just described my covert narcissist husband in church... his mask slipped and you could see the other person slap in the missing puzzle piece. The Ah hah look then the oh look... yea. Not so Christian like after all bubba.
@user-uq6ic8pw8x Жыл бұрын
They will definitely try and make a come back
@RubixIsador6 ай бұрын
Impact you by others is so accurate they'll get anyone on their side they'll get neighbors to hate you have their people against you
@Dominick-ub3so Жыл бұрын
That's exactly what happened to me. I was smeared after confronting them because how dare I hold them accountable for their actions.
@annettebaggett2 жыл бұрын
This is so true !! I called him out on everything, and he hated it. He did all these things that you are saying !
@michaelzero5278 Жыл бұрын
How did it end
@Ann2046-mindful6 ай бұрын
Some narcissist love the fact that you know. They get off on being mean to you and then switching to nice when someone else enters the room. These are very sadistic people.
@VLFBERHTwolf3 ай бұрын
Why that is a very nice thing for you to say about me.
@royceroyce77153 ай бұрын
Have seen this in person. It feels filthy.
@Yeehaw05882 ай бұрын
My mother
@SW-oy5zwАй бұрын
That's every narc!
@TruthSeeker24-7 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!! The narc I unfortunately was involved with did EXACTLY what you mentioned. They acted like a "PRIVATE EYE " trying to get all my info just to use it against me. Lord I'm so grateful I'm finally away from his evil presence. 🙏🏼
@pope10892 жыл бұрын
Their eye contact with you is like a childs after that
@HoundXVI Жыл бұрын
😂 Yes, noticed this, they look like lost little puppies: 😢
@joethegoat7731 Жыл бұрын
For me the narcissist can’t even look me in the eyes anymore and shys away like a coward everytime 😂 Narcissists = most pathetic creatures on this planet
@fallenlotus9572 Жыл бұрын
My ex stared me down. Not sure if he did it to be intimidating but I saw a glimpse of fear in his eyes too. Proof that he hides behind a mask. He learned not to fuck with me after exposing him. Narcissists are cowards pretending to be unbothered.
@allesgut8506 Жыл бұрын
"like a child" is an other betraying defense-mechanism. The plot against, the betrayal , the secret theft, the smearcampaign - everything goes further on, now much more hidden under cover behind your back. Do not let guard down - next smear and baseness is around the corner.
@messy_lessy524211 ай бұрын
The narc stare a lot looking for reactions
@user-uq6ic8pw8x Жыл бұрын
The narc along with the flying monkeys made me psychiatric. And the biggest problem was my narc father was surgeon and it was so easy and neat to play this trick. My elder brother being slightly low on analytical thinking fell for it and still takes medicines as if he is having psychosis problems. They will destroy your will and spirit. They are after your energy.
@meloneymoore8856 Жыл бұрын
They will abuse you through coercive control.
@cynthianguyen7119 ай бұрын
That’s what’s happening to me
@BillieGote4 ай бұрын
Some countries have recognized coercive control as a type of domestic violence & abuse. It needs to be recognized everywhere. Even where it is legally defined, I imagine that such psychological abuse is still difficult to prove -- especially since you practically need to wear a body cam everywhere you might possibly run into them, or any of their flying monkeys. By the time you realize how damaging the abuse has been, there's no way you want to put yourself anywhere near them anymore. If only the prior memories could be downloaded to shareable videos...
@DaveKeevil3 ай бұрын
UK now has laws against these types of control wish USA did
@AnthonyManzioАй бұрын
@@DaveKeevil Call the police.
@ultrasonic14942 жыл бұрын
Omg it's so clear now. I've been educating myself for almost six months about narcissism. I've learned so much. But just now I finally understand the final discard. I remember she lied to my face to get me to let my guard down. After that she verbally attacked me and falsely accused me. At first I was trying my hardest to explain and ensure her that what she was saying was simply not true. I even had proof. But it didn't matter she used it as an excuse to dump me and there was the final discard. Finally came the smear campaign. What you made clear to me is why she did it. Weeks before the final discard we had an explosive argument. In the argument I tried to hold her accountable for lying, manipulating, and I called her actions conniving and demonic. (When she would rage it was as if she was possessed). She knew I was telling the truth so she tried everything to make me feel as if I owed her an apology. Even to the point where a few days later when we were "making up" and talking about the issues she made it see like me telling her that she was "manipulative deceitful, conniving, and demonic" was verbally abusive. She would and could never accept accountability for anything at all. Even the smallest issue she would twist, emotionally manipulate, lie, and rage her way out of. The final discard was because she knew I knew who she truly was. She pretended to be a godly, submissive, gentle, sweet, angle from God but she wasn't. She was a manipulative, abusive, sneaky, hotheaded, toxic, man-hating, self-righteous, deceitful, selfish, gaslighter. I took me so long to see it because I was afraid of being alone and never finding anyone else. I lied to myself telling myself so many times that she loved me. When she never even truly cared about me even a little bit.
@sgtmuffinbadger61472 жыл бұрын
Same story here. I feel you. Except mine decided to go off and cheat the lie
@evamz95842 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry this happened to you. The enemy hates the light. You were the light and she tried to consume you spiritually. Thank God you are on the healing path now. Time to build your relationship with God stronger than ever so it can not happen again 🙏 I wish you well my friend 💗
@thissupernova64912 жыл бұрын
They have the emotional intelligence and lack of accountability of toddlers.
@sgtmuffinbadger61472 жыл бұрын
@@thissupernova6491 yup same experience here. Any type of accountability leads to blame shifting and discard
@carykaradasia45682 жыл бұрын
They are demonically posessed
@marilynb2643 Жыл бұрын
It's so tiring to live with a Narcissist...😯
@Ultra_Ultraline_2711 ай бұрын
Exactly ❤
@LoraBurton894 ай бұрын
That’s because they are ENERGY VAMPIRES!
@lulucestmoi87973 ай бұрын
Yes!!! I'm always exhausted and unhappy. Thanks to his negativity and bad vibes constantly. Horrid!
@liljerseygirl249 Жыл бұрын
I run away from them when I realize what I'm dealing with
@Ultra_Ultraline_2711 ай бұрын
Same reverse uno on em
@advancedbasicsAB Жыл бұрын
Spot on. When they know you know and ate not to be messed with, they cannot bear the mirror you hold up to them simply by being an authentic person that knows what they are
@Lexi_gem8 ай бұрын
This is so true ! And he knew I’m not to be messed with and he ran more than once !
@zh14082 жыл бұрын
They will stalk you in anyway possible !
@mariobryant880311 ай бұрын
Absolutely- even on social media. I learned that the hard way.
@PrettyMamaPatchwork8 ай бұрын
Happened to me and I exposed her to others what she was doing to me. It infuriated her. She sent a threatening text to me. I did not respond and blocked her. If she continues, I will contact the authorities because I have proof of her threatening text. These demons want to play hardball, bring it on.
@LauraSchendel-ko1qk2 ай бұрын
Mine keeps circling my block.
@pettylevelexpert9846 ай бұрын
I was actually in a relationship with one, long story short I got discarded not too long after he met my brothers and male cousins. They didn’t like him IMMEDIATELY and they made sure he knew it. They would all stand around staring at him and asking me if I’m good. They scared the crap out of him on purpose!
@bres.48064 ай бұрын
I need male family members like that they seem very smart and protective.
@mixedfeelings54843 ай бұрын
they saved your LIFE. we are just never the same after encountering these demons.
@LION-on4gd Жыл бұрын
"They Will Ultimately Fail!" 🎯
@user-uq6ic8pw8x Жыл бұрын
Waiting for it to happen 😌
@sharafanabatrisyia695511 ай бұрын
I wish it will come true & all their secrets, lies & wrongdoings will be revealed
@PrettyMamaPatchwork6 ай бұрын
4 family Narcs tried hard to destroy me in so many ways. Severe smear campaigns, mental abuse, gaslighting. You name it, they did it to me over many decades. They would even boast about how slick they were in their control tactics, but as the years pasted, I just stayed focused on not returning evil for evil. Prayed for peace, and finally got it. All died over the years of various illnesses. Hebrews 10:30 God says, "Vengeance Is Mine, I will Repay". Not sure if God had anything to do with their outcomes, but We all do Reap what we Sow.
@iconsnart5 ай бұрын
Cant wait!! 🎉
@vive9282 ай бұрын
It's been 12 years and counting. I don't know when
@RaKeisu Жыл бұрын
Exposed her, her flying monkeys, and anyone else she tried to use. I disappeared and I think that scared her more than me ranting and raving. And, I give her no ammunition since I never post on socials that often anymore. I think that confuses them more.
@RightGate3 Жыл бұрын
Block the whole lot of them. I even block “mutual friends” just in case and I don’t have more than one social media and everything is private. I don’t have my cv in linked in and nothing comes up in search machines love it
@nirmalaprabhakaran3586 Жыл бұрын
I learnt very late in my life how to behave with them. Only had i known earlier my life would have been different.
@Denzella21543 ай бұрын
Mines as well
@1SaltyGirl2 жыл бұрын
I was my mother's slave. Until I confronted her and then I was dead to her.
@tovenrvik6336 Жыл бұрын
Dr Judy Rosenberg have good videos about Narcissism and Narcissistic mothers ‼️
@peaceandjoytoall Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. In my opinion, your mother is maybe mentally ill. Try to respectfully fade away from her life. It is not a reflection on you.
@jill4268 Жыл бұрын
💯🎯💯🎯🥂🥂🥂!!!!! THEY DONT WANT TO PEOPLE TO FIND OUT THE TRUTH
@justice8563 Жыл бұрын
This is true, I’ve had so many think that I was still controllable until they tried it again, and then was forced to realized it backfire on them in a very serious way.
@gh0str1c9 ай бұрын
You are saving lives. Do not stop.
@fredaankobia4447Ай бұрын
Amen, we must stop this, evil, my friend a beauty but tred a troubled track and is gone.We got this Miss Grace Jones❤
@Authenticallyathena2 жыл бұрын
My narcissistic mother and narcissistic ex husband both run real fast when I start stating facts instead of shrinking like I used to.
@QuinnLondonborn Жыл бұрын
My narcissist ex tried to bully me,I laughed my head off as I was seeing him out my door
@elaine7461 Жыл бұрын
THEY ARE DANGEROUS
@earthrooster19692 жыл бұрын
Thanks you!! From these videos, from my own life experience it would seem Narcissists are literally everywhere. Self serving individuals today is so common. However through such videos and comments I realise there are many genuine people out there. 💕
@mountain10 Жыл бұрын
Everywhere!!!!!
@killadjango6995 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯🎯
@johedges5946 Жыл бұрын
Self serving individuals are the legacy of Margaret Thatcher's "reign" of 17 years. My grandiose narc father adored this harodan and ALL she stood for! My first vote - I proudly voted Labour.
@Earthismadeoflayers2 жыл бұрын
Smear campaign after smear campaign...narcissist after narcissist.
@NithishVJohns8 ай бұрын
You are amazing man!!
@advancedbasicsAB11 ай бұрын
They really are a separate category of "humans". Beyond the cruelty, the toxicity, the evil, it is just plain odd.
@NS-cb1jv Жыл бұрын
There's a saying - Lies have no feet and truth has very deep roots... They eventually fail and you feel even better after overcoming battles... Face all challenges and enjoy the battles
@juliodelatorre5326 Жыл бұрын
Spot on i have enough in my life to consider them a mob.
@gotcha9983 Жыл бұрын
Same here. It is terrifying
@hopefuls397611 ай бұрын
@@gotcha9983 Don't be afraid, rely on God🙏😏🙏
@michellemurphy58732 жыл бұрын
Guess what,? That's when you go into hermit mode, wrk on self and focus on God! Then you heal.
@yamisomad34863 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
@lionkingk50986 ай бұрын
Yes my husband does exactly same thing. He looks for people who were enemies and joins them to harm his target
@bellezanegra02062 жыл бұрын
They refuse to talk and then block you lol
@Ultra_Ultraline_2711 ай бұрын
So true
@ay-tj7pj10 ай бұрын
yeah all they know is hurting people
@divyapoduval440210 ай бұрын
@OffTheWagonsyes he blocked him I have put a criminal case against him and for that reason he has taken complete control of kid and using him against me. They are most toxic people who cannot be dealt with
@loo-zf7op5 ай бұрын
yup that's what mine did alllll the time
@KimmyHicks2024 Жыл бұрын
If narcissists bullies only knew #KARMA is Real and no one can hide from karma, makes them look rather stupid, duh!!!♥️
@truthh85972 жыл бұрын
Sometimes they do succeed in making you miserable
@gotcha9983 Жыл бұрын
Ruined my life. They'll kill you. But you run to God and heal and come out stronger on the other side. Sometimes it takes years to heal and carry on...but it is possible. Please we can not become the monster ❤. It is a choice. Choose good . Choose God
@truthh8597 Жыл бұрын
@@gotcha9983 hallelujah
@adamuuus795223 сағат бұрын
It's been two years, run to Jesus Christ, give him your life, and he will save you, humble yourself and read the whole Bible, I wish you luck ✝️
@heavyjoechipman3594 Жыл бұрын
From my scapegoated, blacksheep, heart, thank you. Your videos are such a joy. ☺❤👍
@jacksavage279 Жыл бұрын
No weapon formed against me shall prosper.
@scc43482 жыл бұрын
I think it depends. Sometimes they see it as a challenge. If you find out and call out their behaviours in the early stages, they still want to give it a try as to them no one should be able “to resist their charms” and they need to recuperate their losses during the love bombing phase where they’ve invested slightly to hook you.
@Thankful3052 жыл бұрын
SC C and @Happy Dog Wish every situation is cookie cutter the same! We would have a better way of dealing if they were exactly 💯 % the same. It can get a bit confusing….There are levels a narcissistic behaviors. Avoidance is definitely a “go to” behavior. Also combative and argumentative along with gaslighting occurs. Just stay on track an don’t defer if you must have an important convo like (re:child’s Drs appointment). They love deferring to start an argument and create a mind game…. DO NOT FALL INTO THE TRAP! Stay calm a stay on topic. 🙏praying for all of us involved in this!
@cuekinaja2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I never experienced a narcissist ran away from me. They just became more determined to destroy me. And then I ran away from them (no contact).
@IsraelWillBeFree2 жыл бұрын
You know my x, I see. Lol. I wasn't given the silent treatment either. That would've been dreamy. I think he would be in the same town as me if he could. Ugh
@ReinDeMaMonde2 жыл бұрын
Nope and from following Dr. Ramani you do not confront them verbally or call them out. It's a waste of time. You deal with them through actions. Grey-rocking, ignoring and taking back your boundaries. They are stubborn so whatever you do, DO NOT back down. And while going through this circus of a sh*t show make sure to surround yourself with normal good people who care and love you genuinely, go out enjoy yourself, self-love, surround yourself with nature, etc ... to keep your sanity and mental health.
@Mocheesemoeugene2 жыл бұрын
They love to stay close to the fire they started and watch it burn.BLEZZ#KEEP DA CHANGE
@ChinaSu-i3k29 күн бұрын
You truly understand what a narcissist does!! Thanks for the reminder here. I still love him, though.
@gonzo563 Жыл бұрын
OMG! So true! This person then left the house and then days later I had an order of protection and charged me with mental abuse and was dragged to court for 3 years until I finally got a divorce and for 3 more years I was trying to get myself back together. Now I understand! You are a godsend. Thank you!
@beverlytaylor17452 жыл бұрын
When he discarded me - again - I filed for legal separation and moved out. He told me to leave, helped me move out, promised to be there if needed - and is now countersuing for divorce and wants me to pay attorneys fees.
@MrGearoid65 Жыл бұрын
Pray for me guys. I have finally gone no contact. This guy is a psychopath as well as a narcissist. I know he has already destroyed my reputation and I suspect it's only the beginning. I beat cancer and severe depression, the tragic death of a brother but this is worse. Never felt such pain. Total humiliation on the way. He's going to destroy my life.
@QuirkyAiArt10 ай бұрын
How are things now?
@incognito5957 ай бұрын
Be Vigilant.
@jewelljoyner37235 ай бұрын
They better run..... Because, I'm not the one.
@dark7angel456 Жыл бұрын
I have been dealing with these types of people for years. They know I know now, so they are updating their abuse. Also, I dont even know who they are but they hate me just because they're full of hate.
@sherrychoksi4609 Жыл бұрын
YES EXACTLY 💯 AFTER HE CAME TO KNOW I FIGURED HIM OUT HE STARTD AVOIDING ME TRYING TO ESCAPE BEHAVIOR GOT MORE DISGUESTING ,GASLIGHTINGS & ON & ON ..TURNING KIDS AGAINST ME
@IndanaS9043 ай бұрын
currently I’m facing a narcissist boss in the office. and it’s already in the abusive phase, he discredits me on my back to other departments, he undermines me, gaslights me and he told to people that my contract will not be not extended by our GM, he makes my teams hated me I dont know they really hate me or they’re affraid of this narcissist. I really feel my communicatiin devices are hacked. cause he knows something not long after I chated about something with my friend that he abuses too. meanwhile in fact the GM told me to survive and stay go to office and to be strong. I really wanna go out from this toxic office but my contract was stated about penalty. so I need to stay until the end of this year. I really thank you for your videos. this means a lot for me cause I know what and how to do we I need to be in the sam room with him.
@HealthySelfHealthyWorldLLC Жыл бұрын
“They will ultimately fail.” Amen. 🙏🏽
@Ultra_Ultraline_2711 ай бұрын
Amen❤
@MariyaFatima-x6f6 ай бұрын
Each and every single word you say is absolutely right, how can you be so perfect, every video of yours is great. Good work , keep it up
@keeponkeepinon48912 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day, feeling emotionally bruised and battered
@Godintheflesh-uu2lvАй бұрын
This is 1000000% TRUTH!
@blanquo4 Жыл бұрын
Very true. Going through a divorce after a 30yr long marriage, only now I'm able to figure out all this. We are not taught to see the red flags. We are not taught how to react. There is only a stop & a go signal, the rest we have to think out by gathering info like this. Thank you for helping me understand that yes, I did my retrospection & introspection well & whatever I have concluded resonates with what I'm hearing about now.
@ladyvirgo01311 ай бұрын
Divorcing one of these demons currently & its next level insanity with them
@ginalane7540 Жыл бұрын
Omg...I confronted the narcissist at work and she doesn't antagonize like she used to but my daughter works with us and she is antagonizing her to get to me! Such an eye opener! Im teaching my daughter now how to stop this. Thank you
@TheTheletterI4 ай бұрын
This sounds like my wife (flying monkey)and her mom (Narcissist). They took my child away and now I can't see her because I'm the issue and I'm the crazy one. I had to hire a lawyer just to see her because we can't be grown up about it I have to ultimately suffer because I don't want to be controlled.
@christihigashi50782 жыл бұрын
This is what I deal with. Ex doesn't really engage with me and uses our son to hurt me.
@CharleenTheron8 ай бұрын
Exactly my narc sister and mother
@GlobalFreeLiving2 жыл бұрын
I cut off my narc... one day he showed up at my house with gifts for my sick mother. He lives in NJ I live in Kentucky... he said he was driving by and had a gift for my mom. I've gone no contact again... next time... he will findout that I've moved out of the country.
@MattyNelson-rs3ik Жыл бұрын
I was thinking of visiting someone i truly believed was a friend,all along i think she may have had eyes on my. Husband, she did a funny subtle,move on him, he recognize something,kinda played it off..but he told me he,s a man and knows when a woman is on the prowl..never said nothing to her about it .then i said to myself let sleeping dogs lie..
@JohnMartin-gg8ujАй бұрын
They are also adept at pushing your buttons to get a reaction, and then use your reaction for that same smear campaign. If you engage with them, they will win.
@herminablackstock Жыл бұрын
So true use others to manipulate you
@AndypandiefulАй бұрын
Mine are walking on eggshells. I keep it that way by giving them a “ knowing look”. Give absolutely no room for any one on one conversation. I walk around not caring one iota how they think of me. It’s full on” I don’t give a rats ass”! Done with you.
@rachcopenfreeminds62792 жыл бұрын
He has been going to my family smearing in my name lying.
@funkymonk5424 ай бұрын
There is usually one person in their family that can see right through their madness and control them , it’s pretty interesting to witness , the narcissist can rip through everyone, talk down on everyone , snap on everyone , ignore everyone except for this one person , it makes you wonder how they got the code .
@iamaleo2472 жыл бұрын
So ,so ,so TRUE!💯💯💯
@ISeeFishGanzEgalWo27 күн бұрын
This hide and seek game went through my whole childhood. Thank you Bashir, now I know that my sister didn‘t become a narcississt, she has been that narcississt all along. 😮
@sweetynice14872 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the info. I wish I could be the one the narc know they cannot mess with. But since I'm too sweet and nice, they push full speed ahead to start a mess with me. Yes I end up HURT 💔 SAD😢🥺😔 Well they are mistaken ALL the time when I pray for them and God made SURE they reap what they sow Galatians 6:7, 2Thessalonians 1:6.
@jacquelinefroehle35832 жыл бұрын
God is our greatest help. The Bible is based on how to deal with evil. Narcissist are the evil ones. Pray for them and Bless them 🙏
@trickyzenmom2 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@stevenhuckaby29022 жыл бұрын
YES ! Deny your self,, pray for those who mistreat you , vengence is mine say's the Lord , i will repay
@michaelzero5278 Жыл бұрын
Don't pray for then and NEVER give positive energy to negative people.
@killadjango6995 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯🎯🙏🏽
@PrettyMamaPatchwork8 ай бұрын
Yes so accurate. Going through this right now.
@khushi_prabhudessai9 ай бұрын
Yes my ex would run from me when he got to know I am stronger than him
@elisadelaurenti25164 ай бұрын
This is 100% spot on. Further..... Take it from me. Laughing in their faces might give you a smile for a minute, but it turns them into rabid monsters with only one mission in life..... destroying you.
@johnjmathew55 Жыл бұрын
This guy is spot on , I have been dealing with a narcissistic spouse and can relate every single thing he says , not a single video he shared is faked or false or Vindictive, he is stating the facts , unfortunately Narcisst person never change for the good
@Montanapearl2 ай бұрын
Very true since watching and learning from these videos...the 2 narcissist I was dealing with are avoiding me. But have lied to family and friends about me. I figure if my family really believes what is being said about me then shame on them.
@josephdugan4955 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely spot on! The mask is off my x covert narc now I'm public enemy number one. She's so worried about being exposed. I know her game of lies and manipulation a professional victim that could benefit from therapy but I highly doubt that this happens because it takes accountability to get help and these people can't handle anything close to that. I'm so grateful for all the information I have gathered in the last few months what a life lesson this has been. I'm on the road to recovery ftom this demon. Thank you Jesus I'm free!
@peppapig93882 ай бұрын
I know EXACTLY who he is. I will not save him from purgatory.
@Mocheesemoeugene2 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother for your shorts as well as your videos you are blessing to humanity. BLEZZ#KEEP DA CHANGE
@sandramirekuayim1161 Жыл бұрын
Hearing you say they will ultimately fail even without a proof feels intriguing!❤
@nadinecolbath55842 жыл бұрын
My husband is avoiding me. I thought it was so I didn't bring up the subject of him seeing a counselor. Now I understand it's not THAT, it's because he realized that I figured him out!!!!!
@michaelzero5278 Жыл бұрын
Scard little boy pathetic isn't 🤣
@fallenlotus9572 Жыл бұрын
They always run when being found out. It's hilarious. They start shit but can't finish it lol.
@MatthewVargas2 ай бұрын
in my situation, they completely avoid me
@PalmBeachFlorida249 ай бұрын
They are insane.
@bartgoofers5 ай бұрын
No. They are evil.
@PalmBeachFlorida245 ай бұрын
@@bartgoofers Both. Psychopathy is both. But that's a matter of subjective opinion. Spiritually voided individuals in every sense of the word.
@sanaanees52022 ай бұрын
“BUT WOULD ULTIMATELY FAIL.” ❤
@Heidy09Nova Жыл бұрын
Exactly this is what my ex did when I left him. Total coward to face the reality.
@CassandraWhynfrey4 ай бұрын
I'm Thankful for your channel with helping survivors understand the chaos of Narcissism !!!
@jordanferguson2254 Жыл бұрын
This is why it's important for people not to be codependent, as well as have the self respect and esteem to remove themselves. Narcs need a punching bag. If you find that a person is targeting or abusing you (and this doesn't have to be a romantic situation), step out of the way. Cut them out of your life. I even quit jobs because of this. They'll end up turning on those around them and people will start to see them as they are. If it's a group, they'll start turning on each other, because they need a scapegoat, and they're the only ones left.
@Damyka4 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! 💯
@ruthslater636410 ай бұрын
Yes absolutely 💯 %. Every nit of it. It's so demented .I can't understand how these people are allowed to even walk the street.
@anti-inflammatoryfoodsbyjo1482 жыл бұрын
Until someone come to steal there place they pretend care and show up to compete and destroy you from going forward just pure evil.