Narcissism is one hell of a drug

[@acardinalconsideration824]

“Constantly blowing into the balloon of narcissism is bound to lead to many poppenings” -Confucius

[@acardinalconsideration824]

I’ve OD’d on narcissism a dozen times, minimum

[@dustinemerzian5989]

The best thing to remember, is that there is no one who will remember. Judge yourself not that ye be not judged should be the true meaning of that statement.

[@Andremetheartist]

I'm sorry to hear about your friend, honestly when you started speaking about gaslighting I immediately thought of a friend of mine that had a similar incident with. They hit my headphones off my head (ultimately breaking them) oneday on the bus we were taking for a field trip, swore at me and made it a big joke in front of the year group. I confronted them afterwards saying I do not appreciate how they treated me, thinking they would understand what they did was wrong. They proceeded to tell me how it was just a joke and that my ego is hurt thats why Im responding the way I did and that I should check my ego. We ended up parting ways because they couldnt live with the idea of being wrong, they couldnt live with their own image being tarnished so they ended up saying we should go our separate ways, even though I said Im willing to forgive them and willing to move on. So Id say my biggest lesson I took from it all myself is learn to acknowledge when youre wrong, and learn to live with not always being right in life. Heck we aren't always right in life, thats being human, to me the best lessons Ive extracted from this life have been in the moments I was wrong, or incorrect, or off the path. People that always are surrounded by agreeableness, never receive conflict, never got told no as kids are the ones that ALWAYS respond poorly to criticism, conflict, failure etc.

[@ThePetibonum66]

As a narcissict myself, i'd like to get this comment liked so much it would inflate my ego to the point that it blows out 🎈

[@TF2Starlight]

I love you sm pls can I get your autograph it would mean the world to me. I’m such a fan!

[@FryGuuuuuy]

You got my like man. Been a follower of yours since day 1 when i put the first poster of yours on my wall

[@loganstroganoff1284]

Did you fart?

[@austinz9862]

You’re moving full speed ahead with your channel and that’s great but please take a minute to chill out and collect! You’re awesome Tom! Great to have ya back in the zeitgeist

[@clintonlauderdale4856]

You're an awesome person Tom. Keep up your hard work. It WILL pay off.

[@Justin--ze6qq]

Wish this was more understood by people. It’s all about accountability and communication instead of fighting fire with (perceived) fire.

[@scottandcoke1342]

I wash myself with a rag on a stick

[@wswolf12]

Are you Brett Keane?

[@psychordelia]

Sounds like your friend has some unresolved trauma where the narcissistic defensive blowups could stem from. Takes A LOT of courage and time to break that ego down & face yourself. also keep in mind some untreated mental illnesses can stop you from coming to an accountability mindset due to lack of specific molecules or nutrition. Some of us are/were so insecure & don't even realize how many unresolved onion layers there are until we're medicated (Western, eastern, psychedelic....) So complicated.... Ugh But yeah best to let them go until they can be better (if they do)

[@nickmcdonald4888]

I like the analogy you drew between narcissism and cocaine. To take that a little deeper, I think any sort of negative emotion or state of being can become addictive in a sense. If you don't know or can't conceive any other way of being you're gonna be grasping at straws, trying ANYTHING to avoid looking within.

[@SkellyMC]

Self-preservation vs. narcissism

[@babovic7775]

Im the opposite of a narcissist

[@GrandmasterFerg]

An empath?

[@Gobblinpiss]

A fat horror?

[@yungmentalproblems]

Sounds pretty narcissistic to me

[@ahcapella]

A tsissicran?

[@ClairvoyantEntertainment]

its a slippery slope, that narcissism. very confusing stuff that is boy. ruined many lives of victims and perpetrators, very very confusing.

[@marektuma7331]

really like the recent content Tom

[@MartialArtUK]

Interesting , ok I will answer thanks, 1) I like criticism but it's taken a long time to get to this point, I find it entertaining most of the time apart from my worst critic , me , I really hate on myself with no mercy and that does hurt. 2 , I take any apology offered and quick.to give one , a product of my training is the cause and reaction. Its good to be humble, if anything I apologise for things I don't need too . 3 , I like to see people successful but i don't see myself as successful I'm not I don't like that again I blame myself for more that I can be responsible for.

[@JungleMan-mu5vg]

I definitely see some narcissistic traits within me, and I understand that friend should give me feedback but this one time they started criticizing me for my life purpose and my dream. They said it was childish and if I told you you would probably also say that my goals and dreams are kind of fantasy but I believe in them and I am going to do them. However I attacked them back so hard even I was surprised, firstly I started explaining why it was valid goal and then I started insulting them back that they themselves would not achieve their dreams. This video really made me think but whatever. I am on my journey to reducing my ego and I guess narcissistic traits if I have any will disappear in the process too. And if they Don't, it's okey

[@W3Ar33pic]

ay tom youre a fucking G keep it up brotha

[@GrandmasterFerg]

HG Tudor is a great resource on narcissistic personality disorder.

[@hidden2753]

Genuine question.. What is with that guy's obsession with Harry's wife? I have tried to look through the channel for some interesting insights into narcissism and it's like 95% just Harry's wife who I couldn't give less of a sh!t about

[@GrandmasterFerg]

​@hidden2753 According to him, he met her twice in person, the videos consistently get him higher views, she's always looking for attention and therefore plenty of consistent content. I'm not surprised Harry's wife gets high views on his channel, i'd say about 80% of his subscribers are scorned middle-aged women

[@GrandmasterFerg]

​@@hidden2753I know what you mean, I never watch those

[@hidden2753]

Yes, that makes sense that he is probably catering to middle-aged women. He seems like the kind of character who would create those sh!tty clickbait tabloid magazines in the shops that cater to that same demographic too. Fascinating character, but too much noise on his channel for me to really get into it..

[@GrandmasterFerg]

@hidden2753 You'd have to be a narcissist psychopath to run one of those magazines haha I get you, I can't watch those videos. He has an interview playlist and it's probably the best way of understanding the narcissistic dynamic and how their brains work, it cuts right through the noise

[@thinkofme5527]

wow strong words man, i look up to you.

[@SkellyMC]

Depends on your goals as well when starting with SoME, are doing for being popular, are you doing for being heard, help other people, or just connect to like minded people and take it easy, since SoME doesn't have to be a grind for self-image, can also be used a plate to find like-minded friends, but if someone get popular then I can see how narcissism can start to seep in

[@handyhacker11]

I just want to be appreciated by a few and appreciate myself.

[@nitkis419]

If I had to quess, when you talk about KZbinrs you mean Adam/Psychedsubstance

[@RePotHead]

I'm mad at my friend for a lot of things, & i feel like i get these narcissistic traits, but i also feel hurt, disappointed & left out. Also insecurities in myself that makes me think bad thoughts. But i don't know if it's narcissistic

[@staudingerk]

How is your relationship with Adam?

[@mrki731]

You are gorgeous!

[@enrott8560]

Is it narcissistic to take all critisism and apply it to yourself to better yourself so you have more reason to say youre better than everyone else because you actually take criticism and fix yourself? 🤔

[@extrullorgd4444]

Saying you are better than everyone is a serious narcissistic trait.

[@DRO_710]

🔥

[@elusion23one41]

Bro i dont trust your psychological advice in the state your in recently go back amd listen to some of the comments you make about yourself in your videos

[@DayDream-RR]

Many of us are doing the best we can in this moment to relieve suffering. It’s imperfect, but in that imperfection IS the perfection. Get me?

[@elusion23one41]

Struggling and suffering are not the same thing. You won't die from struggling but you could from suffering. I would say the same thing to my older brother and only cause I expect better from them a little gratitude goes a long way i heard tom speak and this is like an crisis or something he needs to be challenged in my opinion to see some clarity and actually attain a true understanding of the things he preaches

[@mesopable]

Toms decent into stimulant boosted npc-domhood

[@mesopable]

Naa naah. You can do. Also on the cutting table you could be more ruthless. 5-10min vids?

[@thehandliesthandle]

did tom say hes on stimulants? he did mention he was considering adhd medication. i am getting stimulant vibes a little bit

[@cj548]

NO. it's Addiction to persona*. The Self is unchanging and has no attributes. How about learning something before opening your mouth

[@ShynolaDaStumpt]

“NO”🤓 get over urself

[@cj548]

@@ShynolaDaStumpt nope sry. It's get over your persona* good luck basic beach

[@justridiculingcurriculum]

the "self" is god. dummy. where is cj wrong lmao@@ShynolaDaStumpt

[@grain-coat]

" How about learning something before opening your mouth" hahahaha

[@CHANNEL__ZER0]

@@cj548as you will always.. be “you”

[@DRO_710]

I LOVE BOTH YOU AND DAKOTA. 🤍

[@triple_gem_shining]

Make positive vidoes

[@Mr.CreamCheese69]

the false God is the self

[@moonglow6639]

the concept can be but not your real self :)

[@GrandmasterFerg]

In Jungian psychology, the self is a fully integrated human

[@Mr.CreamCheese69]

@GrandmasterFerg not exactly in alignment with what I said. I'm not defining the self here

[@Rezzler17]

just want to thank you @atyourmatetom for always inspiring me in times of need.