Narcissistic Personality Disorder

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@angelaeastwood3938 3 ай бұрын

I can relate to this topic. My husband, soon to be ex, is one and has been for years. I've been abused for years from his childhood experience, and he is abusive like his mother was to him. I had too much empathy he was not like this when i married him but changed over time. I got wisdom listening to narcissist channels at what sort of person he is. I feel heartbroken i married a fake person, but he is not hurt because i never hurt him, he tells me . I have suffered so much abuse that it has changed me now that i have lost myself.😢

@marys33794 3 ай бұрын

It will take time, but I hope u will recover and move forward, which u are doing, which shows u have great strength 💪 within. 👍👍👍

@Clevelandsteamer324 3 ай бұрын

“Little shaman” channel on KZbin

@TurinTurumba 2 ай бұрын

I recommend checking out Sam Vaknins channel, he has many good videos on NPD, being a narcissist himself and a psychology professor , he's good at explaining what's going on in the narcissists mind, when they're doing all the horrible things they do

@mariem3310 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your knowledge, it's truly appreciated. I wish I'd known about narcissism a long time ago.

@tims9434 3 ай бұрын

Excellent as always.

@psychicconsultant453 3 ай бұрын

You break down the characteristics very well

@SuB-gy4rb 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for making sense ~ it’s helping me sort out so many things that have been confusing forever! (6+ decades)

@jeankipper6954 3 ай бұрын

Never wrong. Never guilty. Never their fault. So tiresome.

@lynnomondi4899 3 ай бұрын

All the above describes my husband am so fed up am leaving my marriage

@rosec6680 3 ай бұрын

Narcissistic people are incredibly exhausting. After having one as a parent, two siblings and two failed marriages, I realised my empathy and wanting to smooth things over was the end of me. At 50 I'm experiencing adrenal fatigue that is crushing. I've realised I cant save people, its not my job, I've learnt my lessons of self worth finally. Pity I didnt get there earlier but better late than never. Thanks for being the voice of clarity and sanity on this topic.

@psychoekpaideusi 3 ай бұрын

I hear you!

@delilabuchanan6437 3 ай бұрын

❤ well put, l hear you & l understand where you are coming from. I like how you worded your response to Darren. I also am suffering from adrenal fatigue! I hope that you have a good day today and your innate goodness comes back to you multipled. Take care beautiful soul.

@IzabelaWaniek-i1x 3 ай бұрын

Spot on Darren. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

@marys33794 3 ай бұрын

I have experienced this on rare occasions. We have a neighbour like that. When she first moved in, she seemed ok. It was during the covid lockdowns that the narcissism that was already there we suspect came out at full force. Standing in middle of our row, collaring some1 passing by and talking about themselves. Sadly they felt a need to boast and brag with huge one upmanship. She was in her late 60s at the time. Eventually, we saw thru it. Not to believe everything they said. A lonely person but a pure narcissist. That drove people away.

@privateprivate8366 3 ай бұрын

So much describes my mother and, as the closest child, I caught the brunt of it, until I left.

@jolesliewhitten6545 3 ай бұрын

My first marriage. Total nightmare. He was a covert narcissist.

@Semogaberkah266 3 ай бұрын

Previously I didn't like wearing glasses, but after I often saw Uncle Darren wearing glasses, it occurred to me that I wanted to wear glasses and hoped that I would look like him.❤❤❤

@ThePerfectHaven 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this. My now ex husband was diagnosed by a psychiatrist. This really helps me to understand.

@delilabuchanan6437 3 ай бұрын

❤❤❤ Thank you so much Darren l believe you are a soothsayer! Your insightful messages filled with clarity and coming form a deep sense of knowing, are so easily detestable. Honestly I'm sure that l am speaking for others when l say that l could easily listen to your lyrically lulling wise words all day long ! You have a very peaceful yet playful presence and presentation style that is unique to you. Very calming yet humorously engaging! What a combo!

@delilabuchanan6437 3 ай бұрын

😂 digestible! Not detestful! Bloody hell android phone and on and off internet off grid in the hills of NNSW Oz..trying to make me look bad! Bahaha..these messages are detestful, indeed! Oh dear! My humble apologies! Hahaha. When you said that part about your ex narcassitic colleague thinking everytime that people where envious of him! And then you added

@delilabuchanan6437 3 ай бұрын

😂😂

@delilabuchanan6437 3 ай бұрын

😂😂 so sorry my old ph is glitching! Can you tell!!?? The part when you spoke of an old work colleague who thought everyone was envious of him but they weren't! they were just frustrated and bloody annoyed! Was brilliantly delivered l nearly spat my coffee out! Loving your dry wit and great sense of humour!

@linnnea8171 3 ай бұрын

Mom has most of these traits plus a bunch of vulnerable covert traits. In every situation she finds a way to be the victim to the point that it would be comical if it wasn't so sad and exhausting. Dad's sister died and mom went on and on about her not knowing how the ceremony will go in the church, because dad has always gone alone to the funerals. First of all this is not even true, since they have mostly gone together, and in the rare cases dad gone alone, is has always been mom who has had excuses not to go even if dad has wanted her to go. She herself seems to be totally convinced about this bs 🤔. I would really like to know on what level she is aware if at all.

@HomeFromFarAway 3 ай бұрын

covert is way more common than the grandiose kind. the DSM is terrible at describing this disorder

@anothercat9600 3 ай бұрын

Actually it's around every 6th person. So it's very common. More than one billion ppl with NPD in the world.

@ZeroDayPlus1 3 ай бұрын

Directed more towards men than women, although there are cross over attributes and commonalities.

@meme2287 3 ай бұрын

@Darren F Magee So can the different kinds of NPD be characterised by how strongly each of the 9 elements are expressed? For example, a griandiose narcissist expressing haughtiness relatively strongly

@HomeFromFarAway 3 ай бұрын

the criteria that are currently left in the DSM are only partial descriptions. Covert is also way more common than grandiose. It's worth learning more from the HealNPD channel

@TurinTurumba 2 ай бұрын

I fell in love with one but it was all an act, almost a trap, because once she knew it was like she took her mask off, and underneath was a monster and a stranger

@Clevelandsteamer324 3 ай бұрын

3:30 “word salad” 🥗

@HomeFromFarAway 3 ай бұрын

when is the DSM going to get connected to reality?

@geralldus 27 күн бұрын

Why do you not explore the etiology of narcissism? The persistence of infantile narcissistic traits is complex and largely caused by a developmental deficit within the environment the infant/child experienced. The lack of trust in the 'other' derives from a lack of containment and reassurance that would usually be provided by the primary carer, normally the mother. The effect of this is that a deep distrust grows within the child of their internal world, with the effect that emotion/feeling from within themselves are seen as frightening and therefore must be controlled. The personal sense of self is derived from this same internal world that is also distrusted, so the development of a substantive sense of self and the boundaries that accompany this are absent. So with a weak sense of self and poor idea of personal boundaries there is a great need for control of both of the internal and external spheres. The effect of this is to further embed the condition and reinforce the distrust and lack of engagement with other people who become just another source of anxiety that must be controlled. While the condition is unfortunate I find the endless popular demonisation of the condition to be curious.