Narcissists and the Next Supply

[@IndorilTheGreat]

I'm beginning to realize that the person I fell in love with was not a real person at all. She was a character built to pull me in. I think that's the hardest part - it's hard to grieve the loss of someone that never truly existed in the first place.

[@inhisservicegodis3287]

, yes you're right very phony people

[@inhisservicegodis3287]

YOU ARE NOW WAKING UP IN REALITY FROM A SURREALISTIC NIGHTMARE! SO THE SHOCK IS NORMAL BCUZ OF THE TRAUMA. GIVE YOURSELF TIME. IT DOES GET BETTER!

[@kellyobrienthunderkenterpr7619]

OMG......it is so true. Grieving something that was SO REAL to me, but was all a lie by design. A TOTAL MINDFUCK

[@coloradoavsfan6942]

@@kellyobrienthunderkenterpr7619 YES!!

[@inhisservicegodis3287]

@@kellyobrienthunderkenterpr7619 that's what the attempt was

[@fiercesalonhairlash4482]

A monkey doesn't let go of one branch without having a branch in hand already.

[@TmcIIIvideo]

Nailed it….in addition to “Flying Monkys” (his or her enablers/narcs)

[@daniellemorse6929]

It's quick because that person was already there! So many times I had suspicions of him cheating. If I confronted him about it - rage fits! Confirmed...

[@cherylnelson9963]

My ex narc was seeing the new supply before we were talking divorce. His new supply sent him a card in the mail so she knew where he lived. I got home before my ex narc and checked the mail, found the card. It had her name and a return address on it. I went to her apartment and asked why she was sending a married man a card. The new supply stood there looking totally confused. She had no idea the narc was married. She knew the narcs address because she had been there with him when I wasn't home.

[@daniellemorse6929]

@@cherylnelson9963 What a horrible thing to have happened to you. So sorry you had to experience that. They are such horrible people having something good and still feel the need to cheat. I remember early on he told me he's not "that guy" to cheat. Such liars. It doesn't matter how good we were to them, they just cannot be satisfied no matter what.

[@nicoleevelyn819]

Same here! And he’s posting pics etc

[@daniellemorse6929]

@@nicoleevelyn819I'm sure that is hard for you to see. That is the worst. It's not fair that they move on and get to move on that quickly. All we can hope for is that the mask slips and the new supply takes those red flags into consideration much quicker. I wish I could stop ruminating every day that he's with someone new already. 😞

[@ladyvirgo013]

I knew too but he flipped it to make me feel insecure

[@cherrybacon3319]

I actually feel sorry for the New Supply because she has no idea what she's getting herself into. Like I did, but thank God I realised in time before Iost myself for good and left.

[@ninath13]

She knows it's usually something he been fn with while he was with u please believe that

[@amandahunter4034]

The new supply isn't innocent, and knows some of what they are getting into because they help the narcissist to abuse their current partner. They listen to what they know must be rubbish about the narc's partner or they wouldn't have been with them, laugh at all the jokes and jibes about the partner, and help to undermine the relationship to get the person they deserve. Don't feel sorry for them because they know in their heart that the narc is doing wrong.

[@Gwenn-vb7ew]

Don’t feel sorry for her. She was carrying on with him for months while we were still married. She knew and did it anyway. Now she can have him.

[@labazoops]

@@Gwenn-vb7ew Exactly ! Let her have him !

[@tanyamclennan1492]

The new supply can have him. I feel sorry for her, because I know what she will go through and what the end result will be.

[@hidelisabautista147]

me too..i need to heal after 31 years of this narc husband,thank u new supply he is all yours since u are hes ex gf fr hschool.. i know soon il be heal andbi will focus to my self and my 4 girls...🙏

[@ldvx9669]

Mines new supply and him made my life hell, he was cheating on her before during and after her pregnancy and he was still trying to get me to sleep with him..

[@mercyrahma9501]

It is just a "show" The new supply is just another source of supply, the flavor of the moment...

[@RawMotivations]

Flavor of the moment for sure

[@craigy691]

Brilliant way to put it

[@hidelisabautista147]

@@mercyrahma9501 u are right🤣 she can have that monster...

[@kelley4795]

My "husband" has been with other women my entire relationship. Each time I have confronted him I've been told "I'm looking for trouble". I always backed down because of the gaslighting and the fact that I never had any real proof...only my intuition. When I finally got the proof, I have tried on multiple occasions to kick him out but he refuses to leave. I am now looking for a place and I hate myself for being stuck in this situation because this was MY apartment and he has not paid so much as a dime for the rent. He cares so little for my feelings that he actually carries on his multiple relationships right in front of me, always yelling at me to "shut my mouth" or "stop looking for trouble" when I say anything, and so I have to endure this until I can find a place that I can afford. I get the pleasure of watching him get dressed up and put on cologne to go see his girlfriend....every Sunday. Every week he "stays late" at work and never gets paid..... but I am never allowed to say something, God Forbid I don't answer the phone when he calls or give him the loving response to his bullshit texts about how much he loves me..... I can't stand it. These videos are so helpful for me because I have been blaming myself for everything.

[@RawMotivations]

Your experience is important, and I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing it. I hope you can find peace and growth in the midst of it. Best wishes!

[@sabrinapetersen5358]

My narcissist ex-boyfriend used to talk about other women besides me making me feel like nothing around him and he didn't even care if I was there! And he would talk about how much he wanted a good looking woman to go out with! I felt like I was plain and simple and unhappy when I was around this narcissistic person I called a boyfriend! This was part of the reasons why I would leave him but the one Strange thing was he couldn't take responsibility and solve his own problems with his difficult stepmother who used him for his own bank account she would take advantage of him as well as me this is why I am no longer in this kind of relationship anymore!😢

[@sabrinapetersen5358]

As a victim of narcissisric Abuse, I will feel sad and sorry for the new supply she will have no idea or clue what is coming her way from this narcissist and other narcissists that are with him and flying monkeys too! Beware of false friends like these disfunctional self-centered people who live on others and what they have of theirs! She will be shocked and surprised that he isn't who he says that he is! Remember that misery loves company and the narcissist hates himself and you because they cannot think how you think! Unfortunately for me I had learned a very hard lesson about dishonest people:I had a lot of my money and my beloved items like personal family photos albums that I wanted to take with me but this so called friend of my narcissistic ex boyfriend would not let me have these beloved photo albums at all! I will never see any of my childhood photos of my mother with me as a baby or my grandparents and my father with me as a adult! Or when i got Confirmed as a Catholic and when I was with the Bishop Kevin Vann!and my beloved frank Sinatra cds that I loved and collected John Warne movies, jazz cds and even my country music that i had, and other music! I just had my classical music and other Christian music left inside and my book s were still there inside this is when I went back there!unit taken from someone who I unfortunately trusted but I am happy to say that I no longer have to deal with this person anymore

[@sophialewis5474]

​@@sabrinapetersen5358I could barely read your post here. It is exactly to the word what my idiot used to do. 10 years later I'm out. He is the one that me search out info on NPD.

[@mint_soup9743]

What a horrible abuser that man is. Please tell me you got out?? I hope youre okay...

[@amandajohnson-williams7718]

The desperate desire of the Narc is to leave you high and dry, that's what he gets satisfaction from, don't let him!! It's a game!

[@Grrrrrrr123]

I went through numerous devaluation cycles over thirty years. Once I realised what was going on I decided to dump him so I did. He had already picked up with a woman from Tinder he is 56!! I am recovering well with wonderful family and friends support… he has no one except …the new supply. I have distanced myself from his family gently and I have him blocked all contact through solicitors. I feel FREE

[@surfshack2]

With mine it was a deliberate attack to hurt me in a very malignant way to destroy my self esteem. Here’s a little story: When I was with the narcissist I conveyed to her that one my favorite hobbies was music and playing guitar. I didn’t play in a band but I played and practiced frequently because I really enjoyed it. Well guess who the narcissist picked as a new target after the discard…..She picked a guy who played guitar in a cover band that played the same music I liked to play. So I got to experience all that love bombing and pictures of them together at his shows and her saying things like I love the way he plays guitar , he’s so amazing etc… It was absolutely brutal to see that as I was going through the trauma bond withdrawal. I swear to God I was ready to kill. It twisted me up so bad that I was seriously considering revenge. And I’m talking violent revenge. That’s how dangerous and hurtful a narcissistic relationship can be. I stopped listening to music completely for almost a year and didn’t even look at my guitar for like 2 years. I’m over it now and realize how childish it all was but when I was caught up in it it was torture. I eventually had to block her and deactivate all my social media. I unplugged from everything and just focused on healing myself. It was quite an experience. I will never allow myself to go through that again.

[@donnas.1576]

I have collected and refinished antiques for 50 years. I had to give up some of my antiques during the property division of the divorce. He and the new supply bought a house, and they post my antiques on social media...I no longer look, BTW. I realized the manipulation and hurt of this activity..they are cruel to the bone.

[@surfshack2]

@@donnas.1576 I hear ya. You gotta take the logical road and just be grateful that it’s not you dealing with that chaos anymore.

[@Welzy79]

I know exactly what you mean about the violent revenge part brother👍

[@HarrisNeckHVAC]

Wow she fucked up my guitar playing too! Now she’s at bike week with him. Totally stole my personality

[@surfshack2]

@@HarrisNeckHVAC Ya gotta let it go

[@pamelakelley5535]

The final betrayel and abuse was his new supply is a young woman sitting in prison for the next 5 yrs. He kept telling me they were just friends. Compared her to me, yeah right, a lifetime drug addict trying to hurt me and make me jealous. I left him. I don't play his sick games done with this.

[@maithaalkaabi5961]

He did the same to me, he is covert narcissist, I have been with him over 10 years, I don’t know what he thinks he is, mine is very actor, liar, and nothing. He discarded me and triangulate me with the new supply ( he told me what the point after 5 years, I will leave now better than after 5 years, but after he secure her). Once he ran he texted me like a baby, not hold any accountability.. she is stupid believing him as he showed her my messages to prove his loyalty, he used to do the same with me. After ten years, he moved to live with her, I don’t blame her, she is dispersed to have a husband. He was looking for status and benefits, he knew that. I blocked them both and focusing in my life, I gave him all his gifts back to have a peace mind, he is very sick mentally

[@berlizgonzalez6736]

They're doing all the right things and the things you've asked for because they are love bombing the new supply. We let them know what women/men need and want, so they mask it for the new supply. Their relationship will fail because people are different and part of intimacy is emotional growth, knowing the person and having empathy, something they don't have.

[@veral2274]

Unless they're both narcs and they couldn't give a f about emotional growth. All they care about is money and social status.

[@ladyvirgo013]

I don't know much about what my husband is doing with the secretary from his work other than he's shacked up with her. I'm not on social media thank God. Honestly, I'm so hurt that I don't want to see him or hear about him until divorce court. I need major healing

[@missmiss9448]

Ladies and gentlemen what goes around comes around Not that we are looking for revenge because we’re not but when you intentionally try to hurt people God don’t like it and it is so far you are going to go 🙏🏾

[@Itsmeandthatsok2]

We were in what should have been our honeymoon phase, when I was replaced, he left emotionally, but stayed physically to abuse me.

[@RawMotivations]

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[@renehalstead3522]

Same here. Rebuffed his Love Bombing over 11 years. Had an Amazing Weekend Together. No Sex. Just Kissed. I Was making Us Both Wait until We could See Each Other Again. He told Me it would have to be in 3 Weeks. I said, no! I want you to come for a Family z thing in 2 Weeks! I started feeling the Pull Back. Then I got the Flu. He said Laing here feeling sorry for myself was nobody’s fault but My Own! WTF??!!! I haven’t Texted or Called Since. I went Silent. He got Pissed. Started Posting the Hideous New Supply that’s all over His Facebook. Proclaiming their mad love for each other ! What a joke. I still want Him?!!! I’m trying to stay strong.

[@JerneyMarisha]

This behaviour is actually why I finally went no contact. It’s not that I wanted him back but the fact that he went out of his way to try to make me feel bad about this new relationship, that really repulsed me. I realised that even friendship wasn’t possible with him and I never looked back. I highly recommend to just pay them no attention anymore. It feels great. :)

[@zaniyahhundley8591]

It’s been two years, and I dreaded this I thought to myself I’m never going to get over him I’m not going to move on… but, now I’m starting to notice that’s not the case it’s the fact that he was a false sense of self I really fell inlove with myself and in the process lost myself the more I remember who I am and my core values and beliefs of course growing and evolving but, the more I know learn myself again and enjoy the process the better this will become and it won’t be a race to get to get over him but, a race to enjoy the process and be grateful it’s over and he’s actually out of my life and having him in my life was a blessing I know now what I don’t ever want again I will not settle again no matter who the person is and I know what a narcissist is and how evil people are present in this world doesn’t have to be a demon they can be a attractive guy with a true face I say all this to say Trust your Intuition and you got this ladies and gentlemen I’m a mother and a believer that if you just shift your mentality anything is possible seriously you will get over them! They’re falsified and you don’t deserve this ❤ Peace and Blessings

[@dancer49lives6]

If ONLY he would find a new supply. This time his love bombs aren't working on me and he's getting super angry. I just want peace in my life. I wish he would leave me alone. 😪

[@SurvivorC]

Also ask your friends to not share updates &/or ask them to block/unfriend them

[@chriscole5990]

So what your saying is a narcissist would dress and act like a cowboy or cowgirl and act like they like that lifestyle if the person they persue is country even though the narcissist left their last partner that was into the urban lifestyle? And they pretended to be into the urban lifestyle? Lol if that's so they are just nuts! Crazy!

[@traceybiles2061]

It will fall apart as well

[@donnas.1576]

Excellent video! The ex, who used to be a recreational hunter and fisherman for the majority of his 65 years, is now a vegetarian for the new supply. They are camellions.

[@RawMotivations]

Appreciate the feedback, and thanks for sharing. I hope you are healing for yourself!

[@lisamariegriffin2012]

Ben, you made me laugh at the oh this is my 20th relationship but this is the one!! I remember when we started dating 15 years ago I was absolutely appalled how many women's earrings and jewelry and such-and-such were up under his bed I remember that being a red flag but I didn't listen To my gut!

[@TuerlingsTim]

I just had that experience. Should fly to my girlfriend and she canceled it and I found out I was replaced. She playing the victim but for me it was a “bless” said goodby and wished here luck and blocked all communication lines and deleted all pictures of here on my systems. Than she still send some flowers with a little message with “feeling sorry and I love you” just a narcissistic game. I already find more rest and peace so the bad thing brought something positive as well 😮

[@peggyamour734]

Yes its so hard and then he will come back when I feel better but the struggle is so hard 😪 💔

[@inhisservicegodis3287]

Yep, new supply look out. Be glad it's them and you're off that chain. Loved the production. That's true, happened to me. Best I never took that shit seriously. 💯thumbs up 👍👌👏 BEN AND HOORAY!

[@nicholecornes1915]

In the end they get it too trust and believe that

[@nicholecornes1915]

Oh shit shes stuck

[@Pamela-mb6bj]

Thank you so much for sharing this information. It helps tremendously! I thought I was crazy especially when trying to explain to others that it feels like he stole my hopes and dreams, went and did everything I wanted and then rubbed it in my face. My friends said that I was jealous. That of course was another layer of trauma not getting any support from friends and being criticized. A complete mind F*** all around. He stole my character traits and basically became ME to seduce the next person and used it to continue to hurt me. All I ever did was try to love this freak and have healthy communication.

[@RawMotivations]

Would love to help you on your healing journey. Check out this video to see if you connect: www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough

[@spagone77]

I enjoy your videos because your speaking the truth and I will ALWAYS give you a thumbs up on all your vids

[@summerhall7289]

Hear, hear!! ❤📢👂🏻

[@karenmorgan888]

Always amazes me one would be proud of having a supply. Don’t think it helps the narc as they always stay in their shell and go even deeper. Always good for a good laugh ! Stay strong narc s!

[@denisenoles3159]

That beach / mountain / triangulation example was deep!!!

[@cpet5048]

Thank you Ben. It all boils down to SMOKE AND MIRRORS. End off!

[@robyncampbell9624]

After my ex narc discarded me one day he was living with her the next day i seen the narcissist with his new supply today after 3 mths of him discarding me it reallyripped my heart out dont know ben why i still feel like this thank you for your videos they are really good

[@queenr.480]

My ex Narc. Would proudly tell me he upgraded! My quality of life was evidently shown that I was the one who really upgraded😂. He couldn't deny that so felt the need to tell me in order to take a jab at me. LOL , it didn't work!

[@alimccreery755]

I was the new supply but I just got discarded and everything you’re saying I’m going through right now. I was in doubt for a long time about how this relationship was being played out.

[@michaelmich00]

How long? And how did it feel?

[@alimccreery755]

@@michaelmich00 how long doesn’t matter and if you knew anything about a narcissist you wouldn’t need to ask that question. Just keep reading and watching the videos on narcissism and you will get your answers 👍

[@betsyansel688]

Online: it occurred to me today that I met my narcissist on a dating site. He was shopping for supply among women who were looking for happiness. How absolutely cruel! 🤮

[@Amanda-sw8rf]

This was a good video

[@_TheShiv]

In some ways I got it, but thank you, something about how you explained this made it make sense. They may be seeming to give the new supply everything *I* wanted, but are they giving them everything *they* want? I’ve seen the vast difference between their private personality and their social media facade more than often enough to know the answer.

[@ritamccormick5244]

They are the same everyday. Same way , different day

[@annettestocke9112]

It’s brutal and unfathomable! Going black was the best way to heal.

[@Alleecats]

Exactly! I've been wondering if it was all me! He has his ex next door that is his best buddy.

[@amandajohnson-williams7718]

Great video content Ben, just so honest so helpful, so confirming of Narc thinking, thank you 💟💟💟🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@RawMotivations]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@internationalconsultant1200]

My narc left me 4 days before our wedding date with stage 4 prostate cancer

[@staceyduckers5117]

Your vids have helped me process my 14yr situation quicker 🎉🎉🎉

[@jonathancarnahan5180]

Thank you so much....I really got a ton out of every point you made....not checking social media at all is what is allowing me to heal!

[@dawnserrano737]

They were around the whole time!!@#

[@dawnserrano737]

Mine picked a Messy sidechick coworker from work! She came to my home with Pics when they were arguing!!!..ty jesus!..no coming back from that!

[@dawnserrano737]

I've been living it up since!..dunno what they do..I dont watch..or care!♡♡

[@TheDecider2024]

I never look at their social media. She said she just hasn't found the "right person" after 4 marriages and been with men and women. She's 48 and won't ever see reality so I stopped torturing myself and I suggest you guys do too. It's hard but you gotta get this out of your life.

[@inhisservicegodis3287]

Feels like betrayal after they ask for you to stay. Just nutty to me.

[@amandajohnson-williams7718]

It is nutty!! Because they are nutty!

[@inhisservicegodis3287]

@@amandajohnson-williams7718 TRUE THAT!! AS A FRUITCAKE, 💃 DISTRACTION TO MY VIBE! NAW, NOT GOING OUT LIKE THAT. LIKE MR. T SAID, I PITY THE FOOL NARC, TRY ME! KICK UR ARSS IN THE SEWER. PLAIN AND SIMPLE.

[@inhisservicegodis3287]

@@amandajohnson-williams7718 THEY GIVE ME A HEADACHE LITERALLY IF I PAY ATTENTION SO I DONT.

[@keynahkareem7879]

thank you for this great explanation. 98%-99% you said perfectly happened to me. now i understand deeper,, and get confirmed that i had been through with narc r/ship. i was discarded after 14 years of marriage and within 3 yrs after, he got 2 replacement supplies . the transactions cycle become faster and faster depending how long the new supply can stay in "the hell" . and the best thing was ex got financially supported in getting new supplies by his pure devil parents .

[@tracyhankey1265]

I want a front row seat for that😂

[@marebears626]

Just started my 7 day challenge today...Thank you Ben....

[@lorrainegourlay4215]

Hi Ben, how quick do they get bored with the new supply and start looking for new supply again?

[@denisej.smith-perry4949]

❤❤❤This is the truth....take heed...cant get clearer than this...

[@reddmanpower606]

It hurts so bad I cry everyday I really thought my partner loved me and they discarded me like I was nothing after a year and half 😢 I tried to do everything right.why me but I went no contact but I am still hurting.

[@juanadrianrobaina5763]

Hope you feel better ,better that your partner who obviously only loved himself/ herself is gone,good riddance for real,stay strong❤

[@deatricehightower947]

You're right

[@daeclipse03]

Mine approached him at a pizza shop in front of me. Then i saw them at our hiking spot her and i met at and hiked together everyday a month after we broke up. Acted like i didnt see her even though she was in his car 2 vehicles over from me. She was trying to hide from me seeing her as i had to walk right past them. That same week she contacted me and we talked all day on the phone with her asking me if i wanted to be friends with benefits. She denied being with someone new smh. Shes a serial cheater that clearly wants to sleep w multiple people at the same time..

[@chadillac42069]

Could a narcissist move in a best friend as a supply instead of a romantic relationship? I left mine and a week after she had moved in a girlfriend of hers from out of state. And they appear to be living it up on trips and activities.

[@kalifornia4745]

This is such a fantastic video!! Thank you!

[@RawMotivations]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@goldenlady1213]

Please explain whats happening when mean controlling super narcs end up being puppets for the covert/ sociopathic new supply.

[@anndra1160]

Karma!!! 😅☺

[@peggyamour734]

I did ask him how many girls you been with he said he didn't want to tell me then he put his head down and told me 150

[@robyncampbell9624]

My ex narcissisist discarded me a week ago 1 day after he was living with the new supply thank you for videos❤

[@ceegee2918]

This may be your best video yet!!

[@MartinGarden]

01:49 “Im a self aware narcissist” lol so this is just for supply 😂

[@spiritwellness252]

This is excellent content, thank you. Nice Shirt👌🙏✨

[@DemetriusSims-q2j]

A zebra doesn't change its stripes what they did to you will be done the same way to the next

[@dianecole1982]

The next supply may be a person who was abused in the past so they look like a night in shining armor.. looks for a codependent person

[@chocolatecookie8571]

Correct.

[@danscott2059]

Spot on! 100%

[@emanikon]

i don't know why His new supply reached out to me...he must have given some narrative ...I tried to warned her but she is still with him...god bless them..

[@esh2616]

I went through it all ..so tru

[@RawMotivations]

Would love to help you in getting clarity on what is going on. Check out escapetoxicity.com to start your healing journey.

[@Alive20244]

Thank you

[@missmiss9448]

I cannot believe that one who want to know if the new supply is better where is your confident whether he with her or she with him what different doesn’t make where is your confidence

[@DavinaLarmore]

The new supply knew my husband was married & was posting pics of him & then he started posting pics. Now they are all over social media bragging about each other & also have an ig together. My husband filed for bankruptcy & now we have to move out & he moved in with the new supply & his family. My husband left for a transgender woman.

[@delitakrauze3394]

I have voice recordings where he is discussing our issues with work colleagues. When I confront him, he doesn't know I have proof, he says...I know it is a issue for you, so I would never do it. I need to get out, but I don't know why I can't make the final move. I am emotionally so drained and don't see the point in living anymore.

[@kathymiller2354]

Carl used to tell his family n friends how wonderful I was . He praised me up all the time. Never wanted to leave me behind always wanted me with him. Told me where he goes I'll always be with him except for work. He always made me feel I was a princess, very special, the best of anyone he's ever been with and so on.......until he started realizing that I was starting to catch on to him being Obsessed in having to look at every woman and was of trying to be noticed. Later i noticed that He would even take me to places where he was attracted to other women. It didn't take long for me to catch on to what he was doing. I paid more attention to what he was doing and realizing it wasn't about me. It was ALL about him. Next thing I know is his daughter Shawna wants nothing to do with me. Her and her husband and daughter brley loved me so much that Shawna wrote carl a letter about how happy she was that Carl found someone who really loved him and how she will not have to worry about him because I did soooo much for him and enjoyed everything together. But somewhere something changed and she demanded that CARL Never brings me around there home again. What a mess. He didn't care about what she said and took me over anyway. I told him That, that is not a good idea but he drove over there anyways . When she seen his truck pull into the driveway she called him and I heard her say I told you never to bring that F..ken B...H over here . He said to her if kathy is not welcome then I'm not welcome you'll never see me again then pealed out of the driveway. I could go on and on with his sneaky ways. To this day I don't know what happened to why she wants nothing to do with me.

[@melinatedvessel6840]

Trust me HE DOES,because he likely created the entire situation, no one changes that quick out of nowhere,except these narcs,maybe she's also one...These people are too much!@

[@kathymiller2354]

I truly believe that we are so close to the rapture of Jesus Christ coming back. The spirit of Jezebel is becoming so rampant through Jezebel that it is causing so much devision .and confusion. Satan is a liar !!! Only Jesus Christ can save us. There is a song called " Look to Him." Praying for ya'll in Jesus' name, amen

[@Alive20244]

Good video

[@RawMotivations]

Thanks

[@nishantkoshti2617]

Do they do the same thing with each person? I mean, all supply one after the other have to face the same thing or the chain breaks sometimes?

[@lynnschaeferle-zh4go]

I had Dr. Jekyl for the most part in the beginning. It was natural to keep wanting that person. After awhile it was just Mr. Hyde. Where my ex worked a lot of the guys had “work wives”. I know at work he was super nice Dr. Jekyl so I realized he can turn it off and on

[@CaroleP-nt9og]

What about the pass supply cause my ex narc kept recycling her in and out

[@veral2274]

Two and a half years interacting daily with such a person. It's beffudling. He lost his partner in life (me) and his friend and partner in business when his mask came off. Anyone who sees them for who they are, won't want to stick around someone who completely lacks in morals and ethics. We're both grieving a huge loss but for the best. I'm almost healed and his best friend started a new business as his direct competitor. You've got to love karma!

[@florenceayek]

They ARE Flesh & maybe ,blood? BUT they are a LIVE creature,BUT YOU ARE LOOKING AT A Shell of a human,sooooo,You will & can RUN from this Toxic Poison as FAST as my short legs can RUN... To a counselor to start & will do your Healing journey,.it can be done,you can do this,hard work,but you Are so worth to heal & still go on to love yourself & still love Humanity.❤ God grace you,Let God do HIS job & forgive them.,not you,Ist YOUR most earned healing.God Bless Us All. AMEN!✝️

[@Takezo.D.Shinmen]

My ex told me "Everything that you wanted I'm doing it in my new relationship"

[@lanierogers3315]

I feel bad for her, my kids really like her, and I know she's getting the treatment I got after the love bombing but the difference is they are married and she's from another country. Completely isolated from her friends and family. She's not working, so she's isolated from everyone except him and my kids when they visit every other weekend. I've never met her, but she treats my boys well and I pray that she's ok.

[@kwc7391]

The female narcissist that I was with off and on for three years, I broke it off in May 2023, about 6 to 7 months later she was with another person very involved. would she still be considered a narcissist because she did have quite a few traits it just took her 6 to 7 months to get somebody else. And I know she’s love bombing him. They are not on social media and she’s kind of keeping it hush-hush a bit, so is she still considered a narcissist?

[@kathymiller2354]

When I was able to move out of Carl's place, his new supply Becky would call and ask is she still there, is everything okay..... he made sure I heard her. I told him tell her I'm leaving soon...... when they were saying there good byes they told each other love you so that tells me he has been with her for awhile. And I've just moved out not even a week . He and the lady next door to us also had something going on . That's another sneaky story. Carl told me I'd better not be talking to her husband about anything or else .Come to find out her and her husband separated ,and I didn't say anything I gave it to the Lord to take care of it , and apparently he did.

[@martevanderzee7440]

The neighbor of my ex narc gave birth to his daughter in may. His new supply who lives with him, is due this month. I told her she got a brand new stepdaughter next door, but she doesn’t believe me. Poor thing… she’s living with a brutal sociopath with a long abusive criminal background. She wanted him and got her prize..

[@kathymiller2354]

@martevanderzee7440 Carl was also messing with our next-door neighbor . After I left him, I heard she moved out .but as far as I know, he is still living next door to her husband. So sorry for all you have been through with your narc. Keeping you in prayer.

[@martevanderzee7440]

@@kathymiller2354 thank you.. it’s just all so devastating. You can’t wrap your mind about what they are capable of.. I heard he raped his 2 baby momma’s before me. I saw too many red flags and got out on time. I really dodged a bullet! Also blessings to you! 💞

[@Blackhawk-xv3xz]

I was a supply. Found while my marriage was ending..what a great target I was. He was with someone as well. All the normal bs how she's horrible nd doesn't love him. I was vulnerable nd took the bait. I'm certainly not proud of my part. I am no contact. Idk if he has or had new supplies. I think he just goes back to his girl in between his hunts tbh. At the end of ours she was found to be pregnant. Idk who baby trapped who on that one. She's scared to death to loose him nd he's scared to death to lose his status nd meal tickets. It's been a full year since I last had contact. I don't want this man. I know that. I admit I loved him in a way I loved no one else in my life nd if im honest I'll always love that fake person he showed me during the love bombing phase. My life would be absolutely miserable if he nd I ever hooked back up nd I am fully aware of it. So with all that....why in all of God's creation does this lil man linger? I am in therapy, I have quite literally found God thru this nd ain't ashamed to say it. So what do I gotta do to rid myself of this man? Why is it so hard? He's ruined every aspect of my life. I lost everything when it ended. Everything. I was literally in a hotel living. He just laughed. I've built back up, but def not where I used to be. Kinda happy about that. He's sent only a few flying monkeys since nd reached out once on a fake acct. He's blocked on everything. But dead silence since then. I've not asked about him or anything. I'm happy it's this way. What I don't understand is why isn't the ' outta sight, outta mind' working?

[@nicolameikle8737]

Since me he has jumped from r’ship to r’ship… Me single for 3 years with no interest need want or desire to be with another man

[@inhisservicegodis3287]

Say it again Ben, was already formed. I did the kicking. Best to read writing on the wall! But he still won't go away. I block, he has a way to reach my line. I keep my distance. You just can't trust them.

[@whyherrodere3784]

That's so fcked... i always told him i wanted to go to the beach but in the 4 yrs i was with him he told me he had a fear of starfish so he was always adamant on not going. AND he was always broke so I guess he "withheld" that too during our relationship. There were things that we were meant to do like hiking and he ended up doing those things with someone else/his church friend group without me. I broke it off cause he emotionally cheated again. He went straight to another girl

[@susannegoldmann6491]

How should I see the new supply if I am in contact???

[@rachgrigg2447]

Why would he be 'keen as' for me to be his cleaner? Is that his way of trying to keep tabs on me or what the fuck? I'm trying to figure out why

[@shonniesmith6263]

My ex narc has to bring his girlfriend with him every time we exchange our daughter.

[@elesaknowles5664]

He got a fwb in early December a week after I broke it off with him and then rubbed it in my face 3 months later. Gross 🤮

[@susannegoldmann6491]

Why shpuld I see things if they are blocked?

[@brianyerger583]

I cannot seem to find this app to download

[@RawMotivations]

you can check out www.rawmotivations.com/trial

[@sindust150]

Damn

[@fridachanel8234]

He doesn't have social media or posts anything. People knowing about his adulterous behavior ruins his image and secret clearance. Hes afraid of exposing himself to the many women hes cheating with. He's paranoid like that.

[@oliveknaus]

I feel so bad for the new supply…

[@stephaniewaggoner5144]

I don’t even know what’s going on…….