Natal Chiron in the 8th House by Tom Jacobs

[@zulmaacevedo3853]

Wow that’s so true . I went through so much pain and it wasn’t mine . It took me 45 years to realize it .

[@lulujayne5956]

Dear friends, Do not fear the fire The only constant in life is change Allow this evolution Allow the pain Allow yourself to be immersed in your soul And then be set free Entirely You are love 💕

[@GeryNH]

"You have to become the parent that you wished you had when you were child". WOW!!

[@luxeradio6881]

This man's words have changed the way I look at my life. 6:10 - 6:27

[@Lucky13You]

Cap sun/rising , chiron in Leo 8th house. This is very accurate for my life . I feel like my purpose in life is to continue to prove to myself that "I've got this" and overcome every obstacle , coming out healed lol. Yes, emotionally immature / angry father wound. Yay, saturn! I am currently reparenting myself.

[@riniamnabam7613]

Imagine have Chiron in 8th house and also being a Scorpio moon . Tooo much emotional baggage and pain

[@valentinamadonna5451]

thats me thats literally my chart u should see the rest of it im a mess

[@joyjackettt]

@@valentinamadonna5451 you're not a mess!

[@cosminalavric8145]

Same here

[@nickb3345]

So what? I have the same shit I’m not scared of shit I feel just fine

[@Mrscreamcheeselover]

Cancer moon I totally relate my rising is scorpio too 😭😭😭👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻

[@Ninaagabi]

I don’t even have Chiron in the 8th but Daaaaaamn, I stayed 😮 through the whole first video, at 1:30 am the morning after Fourth of July. I love this channel.

[@bribamboozle]

I have a Scorpio Moon in eighth house with a Chiron in Scorpio in my seventh house. I feel like I am doomed for a life time of misunderstood feelings and deep longing for a bond that will never come. My biggest issue is letting go of the past. Also I like what you said about being able to process deep emotions. & about absorbing people’s emotions. Omg. It’s such an incredible challenge. I feel like I’ve given parts of myself away to people that are no longer there. I am coming back to myself in search of a home, hence those parts, to find that they are gone. It makes me sad and deeply frustrated with myself. Thanks for the video. Good stuff.

[@E_LithaBeth]

Well that made more sense than anything else I have heard about Chiron. I have wanted to hear something more than "Chiron is the wounded healer" but that is about all anyone says on the subject!

[@TomJacobsAstro]

Great! Yeah, when I hear stuff like that about anything, I'm like, "hmm, wait--there HAS to be more..." and I meditate on it.

[@Body2flow]

I have chiron in the 8th house in Leo I have been dealing with nothing but crisis and traumatic events. Still at age 27 it doesn't stop I'm bad with relationships attracting possessive /controlling partners I feel trapped in an endless cycle. I can never be free and to be honest it has drained me completely this time since Saturn is also going through my first house for almost 2 years I have felt very depressed and things have felt very heavy for me. I've dealt with sexual abuse within family and friends several times. I have dealt with domestic violence and abandoned I'm trying to always move forward but life has shaped me in such way I always feel like it will haunt me. People have betrayed my trust that's why I never ask anybody for help.

[@Body2flow]

@greenguy4u would you mind looking into my chart i am always worried about money and succes and i don't wanna be succesful or have stable finances when i am 50 my birthtime is 14:39 PM Country: Netherlands City : Eindhoven Name: Dewi date: 15 september 1991 i fight for my independence and to become succesful a lot i have always struggled with money etc i feel tired right now

[@banana19934]

I have the same placement and it does seem that way. I am the only person I can trust but even that is debatable. It's like constantly experiencing the undertones of every situation while others float on the top

[@systemsofexistence]

I have the same placement! chiron in leo in the 8th house conjunct my sun + mercury. its not easy. I shared my own experiences in a recent video if that might help you

[@redefinedliving5974]

omg your experience 2 yrs ago has been my experience at 27. how are you doing? has it gotten better? i have chiron in leo in 8th too but i am a cap rising!

[@Body2flow]

@@redefinedliving5974 it has gotten better because I started to become more selective and I have healed 2 years ago i was in a total different place then i am now it will get better i promise! Once you start to help heal others it helps healing yourself ❤️

[@emiramarra6073]

My baby was just born and he has Chiron in Aries in the 8th house plus a Venus retrograde 😢 I hope he finds love and people he can trust in this life ❤ I feel bad that he has these placements.

[@zengal5685]

He will, if you love him up correctly now. We can always transcend our charts. ❤ I have an Aries Chiron in the 8th as well. Please love up your child as much as you can while he’s young❤. I wish him all the love in the world.

[@wendyaridela]

Thank you! That was extraordinarily helpful! It's great to discover an astrologer who can go beyond the "Wounded healer" scenario.

[@ireneyoomikim]

My Chiron is in Cancer, every time my mom looked at me she would take her anger out on me. She didn’t deal with her baggage well so she had to take it out on me like it was my fault for anything and everything.

[@Levandetag]

Chiron transiting 8th h now (here), its interesting to listen to this also when that happens. Transfoming times. Chiron in Aries a bit restless.

[@ireneangelucci8984]

Right... This video is the most accurate thing I've ever heard. That was SO HELPFUL, thank you so much.

[@starchild2727]

Re-visiting some of ur invaluable vids Tom!! This one reaaally helped me several yrs ago. (Chiron & Mars 8th house...♒️ Sun&Venus.) Welcome in Pluto..❤

[@elizabethpresleyhazard2348]

I was watching an astrology video a friend sent me when Chiron came up, and it was like a lightning bolt shot through me ... I immediately stop watching and had to know more, so I looked at my Natal chart and saw that I have Chiron in Aquarius 11* 54' R in the 8th house. I've read a number of website explanations and then I found yours ... Boom! ... And the flood gate of tears opened. Needless to say, I will be on a quest for better understanding. Thank you, your new fan and subscriber :-)

[@Syyyche]

this made me cry. so much hit home. thank you for this.

[@jacquen697]

Chiron 8th house in Taurus 😭 ... Pluto in first conjunct the ascendant and Jupiter and Saturn conjunct in the 12th ... I feel like my whole chart is a huge painful mess but strongly spiritual ...

[@claribelnana5411]

I got the same placement with chiron and Pluto, but my Jupiter is conjunct moon in the 4th house.

[@DanielMartins-og2gj]

Wow. Im so curious to peek your chart..mine is intense similar. Also chiron in Taurus 8th...major Scorpio and Sagitarius energy. And 2nd and 3rd house energy...my bday info is 1/14/1984 Manhattan NY 10:38PM(22:38)..

[@SaikouJenny]

Ur one of the best astrologers on here, ur channel should be bigger!

[@BlackWingedSeraphX]

A lot of big celebrities have this placement.

[@lisacampbell9601]

Thank you so much, this is the only teaching that i have come across that empowered people with this placement. Everyone else makes it seem as if we are forever doomed.

[@MikeKollin]

Wow... my mother totally rejected me at birth til the day she died last month! I could never win or earn or get my mothers love no matter what I did... 4:28

[@lisacampbell9601]

I get this, my mother was very much like this.

[@MikeKollin]

@@lisacampbell9601 So your mom is crazy too? 🐹

[@hinnyastrology]

Thank you! This is my placement, in Cancer :D

[@Butterfly83016]

My daughters Chiron is in Capricorn 8th house

[@ireneangelucci8984]

Same.

[@megindoee3351]

Taurus Sun, Pisces Moon, Scorpio Rising. Chiron Cancer in the 8th house. Black Moon Lilith in 1 ASC, (Scorpio in the 1st house) Pluto Scorpio in the 12th house. I recently started learning all about my birth chart and journaling it all. I'm going deep and I don't regret a single second learning about everything, and there's a lot to learn, phew! I appreciate the quick verbal descriptions, I love reading but it's nice to listen every now and then, thank you!

[@KamilaSage31]

Taurus sun, Gemini moon 8H, Scorpio rising 1H Chiron in Gemini 8H Lilith in 12H Virgo Pluto in Scorpio 1H

[@carlosfairfield]

Thank you Tom for your vision on Chiron on the 8th house (first time I've watched and new about you) * I've been working on my Chiron on the 8th house in piscies conjuction to saturn for quite some years now - I see and feel it as the master key in my map - and your vision helped * Thank you for being who you are ;) Warm Hug from Portugal to you

[@claudialarsson7439]

Chiron in Aqua in the 8h.

[@KamilaSage31]

Moon, Venus, Mercury, Chiron, and Juno all in 8H Gemini I feel my existence is pretty vulnerable😨

[@shawnapeltier1476]

Chiron in Taurus 8H

[@wyrdwyldwytch]

Same 🙌🏻😬

[@Tuttitangos]

Tom, I fell in love with a person who was wounded by being an unwanted child with a father who left. When we met, I was in the same situation with a child who’s father abandoned us. The man I fell for just couldn’t deal with this and didn’t want to face the hurt he repressed and “got over”. As result, he wouldn’t be with me. He couldn’t accept my situation and love me regardless even though he said he did have love for me and I meant a lot to him. My question is how do you deal with this? Can he ever get over this? Is his Chiron truly what’s keeping us apart? Is this how a Chiron wounding can play out?? He’s so special to me and I don’t feel his reluctance is because he’s a jerk or cruel, I feel he obviously has a deep hurting. I’m heartbroken forever because of this. To not be accepted for what life has dealt you, hurts.

[@TomJacobsAstro]

Hi Plutosoul - yes, it can be healed, but there is a process that can be a bit complex. One has to be willing to feel that old pain while remembering it is held by/coming up from an inner child. A main reason why a person can get so taken over during such activations/triggering is that the inner kid is sure he or she is not worth love (because this rejection took place and it was truly awful). As kids we need to know we're loved and safe, and an abandonment leaves a deep mark. It can be as if opening to that pain reminds one of the deeply held perception that one is not loved. The process for healing is becoming the parent now for the inner kid that we needed when a kid - when we did not get unconditional love and support. This is outlined in my book Chiron, 2012, and the Aquarian Age: The Key and How to Use It. The key is compassion, and there I explain how to work with the inner kid and understand what is actually happening when the wound is opened, or ripped open. But he is the only one who can do that work for himself, as you know. For you, I recommend holding him in a space of compassion that he will figure this out. No one can know the timing, of course, but love for him and this difficult process is so important. The thing is that we each - every single one of us - draw to us echoes of those who have hurt or neglected, or abused and criticized, us. I live with a partner who, when she becomes unavailable due to a chronic illness, is energetically precisely like my unavailable dad - it tears me up beyond belief! My Chironic wound about rejection is opened regularly. But I get that my wound needs healing and that she's very clearly triggering what I need to heal - it's not going to get healed by staying buried. And my fiery nature and other things reminds her of her dad, which is stuff she needs to heal - she's sometimes on edge because I'm so fiery. I'd like to offer you the image that our hearts don't really break - all things can be healed. We just have to be willing to feel and process through pain, and change our minds about why we experience it. Hint: It's not that we deserve it, or did something wrong, but that pain is part of every human life. In the model of soul I've channeled, every soul knows its human selves will go through pain because we're to learn to love, to become the source of love for ourselves, and we can't learn it unless we get pulled or pushed into pain. For more on this, I've recently published a site that includes a lot of info about soul and what it intends for its human lives, www.healingsuicide.com. Obviously it's got a focus about preventing suicide, but there's good info on soul and learning more about dealing with emotions there.

[@newjustice1]

I have this plus Pluto in first house and Neptune in 3rd

[@des_850]

Meeee too

[@5EmBem]

Me too 😊

[@cocopuff2852]

Me too!

[@cocopuff2852]

What exactly does it mean, I’ve only learned as far as houses just last week lol

[@berfiinnnn]

I’m a Pisces rising, Scorpio sun in the 8th house and Scorpio Chiron in the 8th house. Traumatized to say the least 😊

[@TomJacobsAstro]

Be well.

[@soldraconian1803]

what i find strange is that i'm a very open person. i'm quick to trust too. but when it comes down to situations like standing up on an edge were i can fall to my death or being in the water (bad swimmer) and my girlfriend wants to cling to me i don't trust to well of people that i should trust. but in everyday life i'm very open.

[@sachacohen4135]

Chiron and lilith in gemini in 8th.. Intense...your videos are helpful! My chiron is also retrograde.

[@danicazolofra1036]

Hi same here w Chiron retrograde in 8th house Gemini.

[@KamilaSage31]

@@danicazolofra1036 Not in retro but my Chiron is in Gemini in 8H. Not being understood almost feels like a prison. Yet simultaneously my understanding aches for those opposite me

[@myrrhbear5493]

Thank you💚

[@rihamadly3056]

My Chiron in eighth house and my Saturn and mars are in Scorpio in 12 the house. And Scorpio in my ascendant

[@Psi.AlejandraPretell]

I've chiron in scorpio at 8th house retrograde,Sun in cancer, Moon in capricorn and pisces Ascendent... how this chiron can afect or how i can work it?

[@emiswi6473]

what if Chironis in the 8th house but is also the apex in a quincunx with pluto and neptune? this all explains SO much... not sure how I could feel much more alien...

[@akna5857]

u r awesome! love your videos* thank you*

[@michelleaddams5651]

Can you please do Chiron in Gemini

[@TomJacobsAstro]

It's on the list--I've been distracted by numerous other things. Sometimes finishing a list is hard for my Uranus self (in the 1st house--I don't like structure and rules!).

[@mooncrescent15]

I have Chiron and pluto conjunction opposites my jupiter saturn conjunction. Considering the 8th house squares my Virgo sun. It was tough indeed. I have been breaking off some friendships and been bullied during my teenage years. Also, my father was absent throughout my childhood. Sometimes, i felt like giving up and dettach myself from reality. Moon Aries in 12th house. Overall my chart is a hot mess...

[@Body2flow]

I also have my moon in the first house and Neptune I'm really sensitive

[@systemsofexistence]

me too!! plus chiron in the 8th conjunct my sun + mercury - opposite saturn

[@jeremiefavareille4277]

do you think it s good idea to travel to our chiron astrocartograohy to health please?

[@merlinsreturn]

Hi Tom, I cannot find the Chiron in Scorpio video. Do you have it up? Thanks! :)

[@TomJacobsAstro]

You can read about it here: www.tdjacobs.com/articles/the-chiron-pages/chiron-in-the-signs/ Do you have the Chiron Report yet? www.tdjacobs.com/products/natal-reports/

[@merlinsreturn]

Thank you. @@TomJacobsAstro

[@destinylewis9724]

i have my sun, mercury and chiron in 8th house, what does this mean?

[@cecetolove]

How can we get personal coaching with you?

[@Mrscreamcheeselover]

Do you read birthcharts? My ascendant is scorpio and I have a cancer moon in the 8th house and chiron in the 8th my sun is aries in the 5th pluto in the 12th im looking to get s professional report obviously paid just wondering if you do that?

[@jon6309]

What happens when I have Cancer in Chiron in the 8th house which is also shared by my Leo in Jupiter in the 8th house. It’s so contradicting.

[@VMitch-ng7tg]

I have chiron in Cancer 8th house. I also have Jupiter in 8th house. Did you find anything?

[@truewomanamerican7559]

Chiron and lilith in scorpio sun scorpio im still confused

[@BlueMelodyB]

Is this the same thing as Chiron in scoprio?

[@starttofinishmediaco.2520]

Shit.. you are so on point. Thank youuuuu

[@stephanienjeri1690]

My soul was put in a grinder 😂

[@sashasfitnesstraining3043]

I'm trying to help my friend with this placement...this really helps😭..and explains SO MUCH...how can I support my friend with this🤕🙋🙏?

[@TomJacobsAstro]

ultimately, that person has to grow into being the safe, supportive kind of adult for the self that he or she needed when young but didn't have. being clear about what behaviors the person chooses that might amount to "self-abandonment", or is reliable for him- or herself (repeating the original wounding) can help. also, sometimes the wounding comes by absorbing others' emotions (like, as an infant and child--picking up adults' garbage) and through that not feeling safe. so getting rid of others' energies is huge. maybe you can pass on my grounding meditation from my site--13 mins., a free download--click on the pic of the forest trail to get to it: www.tdjacobs.com/