NEWBORN MUST-HAVES + REGRETS! | Natalie Bennett

[@karoline1574]

I have stage 4 endometriosis (TMI: spread all over my uterus, intestines, sciatic nerve and rectum), I was told that I was infertile at 12. I'm now 22 and me and my man are expecting a baby boy in January 2020 (I'm 33+1 today!). We're super excited as we thought that I would never get pregnant and if I did that something would go wrong! This video helped me a lot!! Thank you

[@siennaussy]

Congratulations

[@fofomoon]

Karoline pray for my friend, she also has endometriosis and she has been trying to get pregnant for 5 years now

[@karoline1574]

@@fofomoon I will, sending babydust her way.

[@karoline1574]

Update: I had my baby 23.01.2020. It was an easy birth, only 5 and a half hours active labour. Only thing is that I didn't go to the hospital as I didn't feel the difference between my usual flare up pain from the actual contractions. xD I came in at 7cm after my bf threw me in the car and forced me to the hospital. What would I do without him? xD

[@tiahna5898]

@@karoline1574 congratulations on your smooth labour and birth of baby!

[@princesslexox6852]

haven't told anyone yet but IM 6 WEEKSSSSSSSSSSSS PREGNANT FINALLYYY!!!! just found out last night

[@kayobyobarbara207]

Congrats princess I'm 6 weeks too

[@anabelenpita9625]

[@kimberlygordon7805]

Princess Lexox I just found out I’m pregnant as well! I’ll be 5 weeks in two days

[@LifeByLyric]

I’m also 6 weeks! This is my rainbow baby so we’re really hoping to make it through to the second trimester.

[@jennifernguyen9070]

How funny! I’m 6 weeks & 4 days . First baby 👶🏻

[@preciousthing101]

FINALLY someone who doesn’t talk like a Kardashian!!!! I’m gonna give you a thumb up just for that. Thank you.

[@faryalkhan5433]

True

[@baebiejean]

😂

[@nikiamunson2353]

Seriously, such a refreshing personality.

[@aishaosanyin6670]

So true

[@nonamedlollipod7847]

Oh hahahahahahahhaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jessicachipepo442]

For muslin swaddled try the new target cloud island brand!! They are $13 for three and they are bigger and softer than the aiden and anais blankets. Just FYI for those looking for a cheaper option.

[@katiehusman6920]

Jessica Chipepo Great tip

[@xaquamarinababex]

I love that brand!

[@KirtBean]

Jessica Chipepo you just informed me! I’m not good at spending a lot of money but I do love the Muslin blankets. I will totally buy some of that brand. So helpful, thanks!!!

[@SimplyMAReeAHnuh]

Thank you!

[@isntshelovely5823]

They are now 19.99. I'll try them regardless!☺️

[@jeicarolacv]

Finally somebody that thinks budget friendly! I have been checking a couple of videos and omg everyone talks like being a millionaire and having babies is hand by hand. Thank you so much for all your recommendations, subscribed!

[@psymompa]

Great video. Biggest advice: borrow all the big items or get them second hand. I borrowed a high chair, bouncy seat, rocker, and a swing. Definitely buy very little 0-3 month. Would just pick up some sleepers, tshirts and onesies.

[@sororakaros]

Does anyone else think she looks like a real life Belle from beauty and the beast?

[@nikkim2811]

Omg she does!

[@Raspberry-m8m]

Yes!

[@lisacaroline4973]

Lol

[@faaizassibit]

Sorora trueee

[@cruiseny26]

Yes she does!

[@chikkime]

I so agree on the prefold cloth diapers. We bought prefolds thinking we'd use them as nappies, but ended up using them for everything else instead, and had to buy twice as many in order to not "run out" between washes. We use them for burping, under babys head when sleeping and breastfeeding (in case of spilling), when changing nappies etc. They are soft, they hold a lot of moisture so don't leak through and can handle "accidents" on the changing table very well! I have no idea how other parents survive without prefolds. I have gotten around to using them as nappies also! Love, love, love prefolds.

[@adventuresofsven2314]

I'm a new dad to be. My gorgeous wife is pregnant. Love your video. Great advice.

[@problematicprincess6270]

When is she due :)

[@adventuresofsven2314]

@@problematicprincess6270 My wife is due on 14th of October

[@problematicprincess6270]

@@adventuresofsven2314 yay congratulations are you excited

[@adventuresofsven2314]

@@problematicprincess6270 Of course i am, also nervous because i want to be a great Dad and i have no clue.So that's why i have been watching videos and taking notes😊

[@problematicprincess6270]

@@adventuresofsven2314 my advice is just go with the flow and fellow your heart and it will all fall into place Hun :)

[@adomstudios]

My wife and I are expecting our first girl in June 2019 that's why I'm here 😊 #NewDaddyInTown

[@rachelgreer9959]

Congrats!!

[@FertilityFreak]

congrats!

[@jedidiahesther5255]

Congratulations

[@serendipity1234-0]

Congratulations....😊

[@draath96]

June 10th 🙋‍♀️

[@NatalieBennett]

A little correction to something I said in this video. I accidentally said “One of my boys wanted to be swaddled until 9 months old...” I meant to say “9 WEEKS!” The AAP doesn’t recommend swaddling past 8 weeks old. Also, our Dockatot is never used with the baby unattended. For more safe sleep guidelines from the AAP please follow the link in the description box! Though we don’t follow the guidelines PERFECTLY we have followed up with our pediatrician and have discussed our children’s sleeping arrangements with him. We always urge our audience to seek the council of medical professional if they have any questions.

[@melissalandry1520]

This is super important as babies can start to roll at 8 weeks and if they are swaddled they may get stuck in a dangerous position. Thanks so much for clarifying!!

[@michellebaza4066]

My son is 3 months and rolls over in his sleep and I swaddle him every night. During the night he frees his arms and only his bottom half is swaddled this helps him from throwing the blanket on his face and keeps him warm. Btw every in the home checks on him in the middle of the night since he does roll over. I try my best to turn him facing up every time I wake up.

[@garymccormick8998]

Yup

[@tashalawson2028]

I'm going on 7 months and just now buying and acquiring things for the baby with a baby shower scheduled just a month before my due date! Hours of research and reviews plus these kinds of videos have helped me a ton!!!

[@crystalcurrie2393]

Don't have babies, yet watch the entire video

[@DebraDKT]

Crystal Currie It's never to early to find out about all of these things. Lol

[@crystalcurrie2393]

Debra DKT I have a 9yr old and 10year old sons. So I've had babies but not babies anymore lol

[@glamourkidd88]

Crystal Currie me too!

[@tracimclaughlin6943]

Crystal Currie me too!!! Lol my kids are grown...

[@mogkillz]

Crystal Currie hi

[@christinaortiz6481]

I'm 18 weeks pregnant. Second time Momma. I found this video super helpful because after 2 years of not buying newborn stuff, I feel out of the loop on the new products out there. Thank you very much! Your baby girl is so beautiful! I've been watching your videos for years, its so wonderful to see your family growing.

[@callievicario8657]

I'm a feminist, and sadly I hear a lot of other feminists who are professionals in some field or another give grief to stay-at-home moms. But the thing is, some people were born for the caretaking/teaching role. Some people were just meant for this and are so so so so good at it. We - society as a whole - NEED these people. Not only do the little humans you encounter in your lifetime benefit from your care, but so many others do, too, because you share these things with them. As a feminist, I do not denounce this. I praise you. You are raising healthy, happy human beings who will one day contribute to society. Keep up the fantastic work, and thanks for sharing!

[@jyotipun1]

Anyone who says they are feminist and look down on stay at home mums do not know what feminism means... feminism is not about woman following a career and denouncing being a housewife... feminism is the freedom to choose what you want to do regardless of the so-called gender roles assigned by the society...

[@twoscoopz4944]

Most third wave feminists do look down on stay at home moms though--not stay at home dads, because that's progressive, just moms. It's not logical, it's just pathetic.

[@twoscoopz4944]

Imagine if a Mormon commented on a woman's profession, "As a Mormon, I do not denounce this. I praise you!" No one asked for your group's approval. It's ironic that "feminists" think giving out stamps of approval (in lieu of shaming) to SAHM is anything but infantilizing, misogynistic, and cultish behavior.

[@callievicario8657]

Lol chill out dude

[@callievicario8657]

And just to clarify, dear two scoopz, I do research in child development - mostly cognition/brain development, but also overall health and psychology - and I have a passion for my job. I have met many other women in the work place who have no concern for any type of maternity leave following the birth of their children. They have no interest in staying home to be with them. Additionally, they look down on women who do so - or women who choose not to work outside the home at all. This is damaging. That's what I was getting at. You sound like you need to go get laid.

[@boomiedave]

Being a new father I have been watching quite a few of these videos. I think it’s funny that all of your regrettable purchases are all things my son loves and has no issues with. Aside from the swing. We have a different swing. I do thank you for your insight though and appreciated your opinions. Thank you.

[@Daisyjc2386]

Nat--can you do a "what I actually used from my hospital baby bag" video for mom and baby. 🙏🏼👶🏻

[@marisoltrejo1119]

Daisy Carrasquillo right💯

[@DeniseDCoy]

I would a video like that as well!!!

[@devonlee1]

Yes please!!!!

[@courtneyvolpe1164]

Daisy Carrasquillo yes please!! Your bag and babies

[@Daisyjc2386]

You can also let us know if there was anything "missing."

[@sunnyhawaii4878]

Absolutely LOVE that you talked about a regret and a must have that fell into the same category. So often I see someone say “I didn’t like this swing” or “i regret getting this swaddle” but don’t go on to say ones they found beneficial to have. So thank you!

[@jczelusniak777]

I’m prego with baby number 5 and my hubby is one of those people that moves around in his sleep a lot so I liked the cosleeper with all my babies and the baby was right next to me the trick is to make sure baby is comfortable every baby is different but this video has been great for ideas thank you

[@mrose993]

My sister is pregnant with her first child, I just came across your video and I must say your voice is so calming and soothing. Great video, thank you.

[@asma_faris]

So my 15 month old son just fell asleep to you speaking. For that alone I will subscribe haha

[@la10sooony]

😂 😂 😂 😂

[@jadeclarke2535]

I'm 11 weeks pregnant and this is my first child and thankful for these videos

[@brittblankenship12]

Newborn must haves for me is simple diapers,wipes a binky and onesies. I'm pretty simple in the small stage lol

[@kaitlynarchuleta5059]

Brittnie Blankenship & swaddle blankets!

[@delhawk8726]

Same here, didn’t really use onesies though - I just made sure I had receiving blankets/musulin (I think that’s how it’s spelt) blankets and a fleece blanket.

[@Me20302]

You can cancel wipes with water and soap

[@honestreviewsbyalison2270]

Swings are must haves for sure. The onesies that have the fold over sleeves are number one for me because then she cant scratch her face

[@juicysatsumabeauty]

I think that's a bit fastidious. I mean sure if you are literally only going to be either holding your baby or having then in their bassinet (another must have, somewhere to sleep) but most parents want to be able to put their baby someone safe, comforting and stimulating for them while they get a chance to eat, nap, shower etc. Also how are feeding your baby? You need bottles, a way to sterilize them even if you breast feed you likely need some equipment to assist with that. How do you bath your baby? No baby bath? No even anything in the sink to help you support them? What do they sleep in? Just a onesie?? No swaddle? No sleep bag?

[@kenagirlsings]

I’m 37 weeks 4 days and nesting has kicked in HARD. I’m watching this in the background as I’m double checking the nursery and all of the baby purchases. This video has been so helpful thank you.

[@xxheidaaaxx2972]

I'm about to turn 16 soon and I found out on December that I'm pregnant I'm nearly 3 months along now and honestly it's saving my life, it's like now I have a reason to live on and I'm really excited to meet my little one x

[@gracecrossland7920]

Congrats! I'm 3 months right now too❤❤

[@hannahanderson2292]

I also found out in December (: Due August 14!

[@lisangelicaortega6193]

I'm so glad that I watched this. I have a 12 year young daughter and I am 28 weeks pregnant with my son and had forgotten the process and must haves. I was debating on tubs for baby Alfonso and now I am confident in putting the blooming bath on my registry. Thank you and God bless.

[@dominiquebarnum241]

Wow I'm 28 weeks pregnant with baby boy and My oldest son is 9..I'm in the same boat as you..Forgotten all about the must haves..lol!

[@xChaelaChoasx]

your voice is so soothing, lol hope that's not weird!

[@jasminemonaygray]

Michaela Kathleen I said the same thing! It’s like she was just made to be such a sweet, gentle loving mom..

[@jordynhissom2941]

Yes!!!!!! Her voice is so soothing!!!

[@chelgonzales5051]

Right like a teacher!! I love it too

[@jenuineASMR]

Jasmine Gray look into asmr

[@atykaruslan5336]

I was thinking the same thing hahahaha

[@kristinejorgensen2717]

I absolutely loved my sleep sacks for my newborn. My hospital actually gave us one and we were gifted one as well. I practiced swaddling so many times with those huge aden & anais blankets and neither me or my husband could get it right on our baby. Middle of the night...just changed a diaper, baby is crying, we're exhausted. Behold: the sleep sack. Wrapping up your baby the right way every time with ease! It made our lives much easier for many months :) I like the ones that also let their arms go out the sides so that when they really want to move their arms, they can and you can wrap it slightly looser so it's just like a safe blanket as well. To each their own! I agree with you about a lot of the other things you mentioned, especially the cute newborn clothes, and yes we enjoyed our swing/bouncer combo like the one you have.

[@jssquaudyurkesse6691]

I'm a first time dad so this is awsome my wife 7 weeks but knowing me I like to find every info so our baby can have a smooth ride here I really enjoy your videos 💯💪🏾

[@chrissyfaithful]

Natalie, I stumbled upon your channel by complete accident when you posted a comparison of your two pregnancies. Immediately I adored...then as I have seen a few more I realized we have more in common. Christian and YL oils! Congrats on your sweet baby girl. I know a little late, but better late than never. Unfortunately I am not a mom, but love, love, love babies! So catching glimpses of babies just make me so happy. They are such a blessing and miracle.

[@SpringHuangMusic]

I'm a 20-year-old girl who doesn't even have a boyfriend but have been watching all of your weekly vlogs, pregnancy updates and mommy videos. And I actually enjoy them a lot! You are such a beautiful woman of God Nat! Someone I look up to in so many ways! Love you and your sweet family! ❤💙💚💛💜 I would be so happy if you see my comment and reply 😚

[@chrisvanch]

One of the most practical videos ive ever seen, I'm in my 5th month of pregnancy and in the process of doing my baby shopping. This has been super helpful, yr a lifesaver! Thank you.

[@winterrain1947]

I wish you the BEST! Enjoy the joy!

[@princessK555]

So turns out, I used to watch your twin pregnancy videos on your other channel years ago. This video popped up and I couldn't, for the life of me, figure out why you seemed so familiar. I got so excited once I figured it out and that you still make videos! 💕

[@-MaryPoppins-]

I've been looking for someone who is calm and relaxed while talking in their videos to calm me down before bed, and you are so wonderfully perfect!!! Please keep these videos up! I've got about seven more months left but can't wait for baby :)

[@ItsT4RKEY]

I couldn't have enough receiving blankets! I agree, not good for swaddling but I used them as towels, burp cloths, changing pad...

[@Loorekee]

you sound so happy when you talk about your kids :D it really makes me wanna become a mommy myself :)

[@bbblllaaaj]

Thanks. New dad here. Our son was born on the 1st at almost 4 A.M. Awesome information.

[@NatalieBennett]

Congratulations!!! 💙

[@ashleyweaver7240]

About to have my baby boy here in 2.5 weeks and I’m so thankful I came across your video! Makes me so much happier with the items I have that will be useful! :)

[@Traceyi1000]

Graco swings are the best..in my opinion. I'm the Grandma..old school swings were crank.. these are just wonderful.. the plug in option is the best. Agreed with the Graco swing!

[@yteldee]

As a mid-seventies great-grandmother, I didn’t find your video personally helpful for me 😂 However, I watched to the end and thoroughly enjoyed it. You have a beautiful family.

[@AC-iw5mv]

I had captions on and the video started with "let's talk about my newborn mustache" hahahahaha

[@NatalieBennett]

Hahaha 😂😂😂

[@nayhamody1021]

Thanks for being very transparent about sponsors and PR products, very refreshing to see!

[@theresamslater]

The wubanub is great when babies get a little older and they can find their paci easily at night in their crib vs waking up screaming because they lost their paci. Also they're easy to find around the house and diaper bag 😊

[@xaquamarinababex]

Theresa Slater I was thinking yhe same, is more for when they are a little bit older and able to grab it themselves, plus they are so cute! I just bought 2 for my first baby, can't wait to meet her in July!

[@MommyMayy]

My son liked to hold it. The traditional pacifier didn’t work for us.

[@TheOtherWestphal]

Same. My 6 month old just started liking this but wasn't interested when he was younger.

[@HackerActivist]

How do you wash them for the first time? Cause laundry detergent on the paci doesnt seem right.

[@Sonialei77]

This has to be the most honest and practical must have video I've seen, and I've spent countless hours watching videos because as let's face it... It is all about brands and buying high dollar baby crap that most of us can't afford. Thanks for being real 🤗

[@carole7538]

I'm a first time mom trying to get a list going of things the baby will need & this video helped a lot! Thank you!

[@doniekells6029]

I absolutely love my daughter’s Muslin swaddlers! She’s too big to swaddle, but they can be used for so much. Right now, I like to use them when we’re out and about as a drape to put over her stroller when she’s sleeping or if it’s raining. And when she’s older, they’ll be great summer blankets for her bed. I definitely swear by these.

[@tracycook5445]

I'm a grandmother and find today's must have items quite interesting. I've seen a couple of vloggers using the Velcro swaddleds and they seem to work for them. However I so wish there had been giant muslin cloths when. Mine were babies. I didn't co sleep it I'm sure if I'd had a dockatot it would have been brilliant. One mom actually puts her one year old I. His cot in it so yes. Brilliant. It's amazing seeing generational differences

[@NatalieBennett]

Tracy Cook Definitely! Generational differences ARE interesting. What were YOUR newborn must have when you were a new mom? I'd love to know! :-)

[@devonlee1]

Tracy Cook I'm interested in what your must haves were too!!

[@tracycook5445]

Natalie Bennett My must haves were Muslin squares that were used as burp clothes and every morning when I remade the Moses basket ( another must have) downstairs and the rocking cradle upstairs I put a fresh cloth folded across the top of the matress over the sheet in the theory that only that needed washing . Washable breast pads I used Cloth diapers and for those first few days I used the pre folded ones you used as burp cloths my American aunt sent them to me and wow they were great, later on I used them to make overnight diapers when they started sleeping through. Almond oil for nipples Oh I had a lovely fisher price mobile that played Brahms lullaby that was used from birth but only at nighttime bed time to get used to bed time All four of mine including son wore long soft brush cotton nightdresses for the first four weeks and unless going out they wore Day and night so much easier than snaps in babygros Think that's probably it so not to different today just tweaked from the olden days back in the 80's Oh I had a baby bouncer that I doubled as an improvised uninvented play gym , I hung different items on it like ribbons and bells so that they could touch as they moved their arms

[@julieannemichelle]

Tracy Cook I agree with you as far as the differences between the different generations and their must haves. One of my must haves I don't hear about as much as I did when I was having babies is a gown for the baby to sleep in. I had many more gowns for my newborns than sleepers. They were so easy and easy access for changing the baby in the wee hours of the night. One thing that hasn't changed is the double folded cloth diapers that I used for burp cloths etc.🌺

[@kettlebellwafer]

Generational differences are definitely interesting, even more so between 3 generations! I talked to my grandmother about it (she had children in the late 50s, early 60s) and she said “It’s crazy how many unnecessary items there are for babies these days... like carseats. We just stuck them in a bassinet and threw them in the back. We didn’t even have seatbelts”. 😂

[@rachstein1]

I'm 6 months and only just started to shop (was soooo superstitious about shopping before)! This was so helpful cause I feel like so many things recommended our on standard lists I'm like "Do I need this though?" "That takes up so much space" or "She won't need this till like 7 months why get it now?" This definitely confirmed a lot of my feelings about things and that I can wait on so it doesn't take space.

[@kingdomazula110]

I’m expecting my first boy in February and let me tell you I live for these mommy vlogs😩❤️

[@Maarisool]

Me too! Baby boy in February!

[@thestormchasingconservativ6999]

Awwww congrats ladies. 👣💜👣❤👣

[@abdullahali2298]

Is he here now?

[@meljstephan]

Totally agree about sleepers. They are so cute and comfy and easy to change. All it takes is one blowout in baby skinny jeans to swear by sleepers. My other must have is a side to side swing (not front to back). I have found the side to side motion much more soothing

[@courtneyr5532]

Your voice is literally so soothing lol but great video especially since my baby is due next week and trying to get as much info as possible. Skipped purchasing a lot of "fancy" items. The one I did splurge on was the halo bassinett since it was recommended to me since I'm having a c section. We'll see how it goes. Love the idea about the cloth diapers and have added those to my list. Never would have thought of it so thank you!

[@Mrs.Silversmith]

A bassinet in arms reach of the bed is great if your newborn spits up a lot. When they start crying in the night you can reach your hand in and feel around for spitup without getting up or turning the lights on. No spit, then you can roll over till feeding time. Nothing is worse than getting up out of the bed 20 times cause they might have spat up again.

[@thestormchasingconservativ6999]

Ok is nobody going to mention how sweet and soothing her voice is?? I love this video so much. 🚼💝

[@beccagriffin3105]

I agree with most of these, except the velcro swaddlers. Those were amazing and a total life saver. My daughter lived in a solid white onesie and a swaddler for the first 3ish months and then we switched to sleep sacks. I do know how to use a muslin swaddler, however; middle of the night in the dark one little velcro piece was much less to fumble on while tired. I also regretted sleepers with buttons al the way down because like the swaddlers, I woke up in the morning to find a baby leg poking out of the sleeper because I was half asleep and missed a few buttons and completely forgot a leg. lol Sleepers are great for the day but when sleep exhaustion kicks in at 3am. The less you have to struggle on the better. One zipper, one button, or one zelcro piece is just about all I could manage to make work.

[@beccagriffin3105]

.... but I bought 500x's more baby items that I'd ever use on my daughter and I loved the zelcro swaddlers so much if I ever had another child that would be one thing that is one of my top must haves.

[@TheKissyfer]

I actually think the sleepers are complicated to take on and off, especially for diaper changes. I prefer the short sleeve onesies. Sleepers are also too hot for a TX baby, even with the A/C on! I liked the swaddle clothes but wasn't super crazy about them. The flannel Cloud Island blankets are the best for swaddling, muslin blankets are too cumbersome, thin and flimsy, and he's too small for them right now. Also agree that cloth diapers are the best for burp cloths, mats, etc!! We don't use a rocking swing for the baby, at least so far at almost 3 months old. He's pretty self-sufficient and doesn't need a lot of rocking. We just have a bassinet with mesh all around the sides plus a Day Dreamer chair (not a fan of the Doc-a-Tot)...and a crib of course! Plastic tub is kind of a pain to store, but he likes it ok :) Good tips overall!

[@gracynmarie1187]

I 100% agree with almost all of the regrets- I love my doc a tot so much and before I had that i got a $670 co sleeper.... my son hated it but my cats love it. You are such a good mom and I totally love your family

[@modestdressing4319]

Hailey looks so much like Weston! I can already tell they are going to have such a sweet father-daughter relationship!

[@pentaholic4life369]

Modest Dressing all babies are born looking like their fathers, but slowly start lookinf like their father

[@pentaholic4life369]

but still true

[@simplydanlrene4276]

Modest Dressing...she has his long body length too.

[@bowlegged876]

Modest Dressing oh

[@MedievalMary]

My son has a sensory processing disorder, which made for very little sleep for anyone. My absolute must haves with him we're a yoga ball, a Moby wrap, and the Ollie swaddle which adjusts to the size of your baby, and a pacifier.

[@nycqueenz9]

The Aden ones are the best BUT if you worry about SIDS and You are a mom who wakes up every so often to check if the blanket is on their face you will be better off with the Velcro ones I personally used the Velcro ones with both my daughters they truly gave me a peace of mind especially at night when we both were sleeping I would use the Aden blankets more in the day time when I was awake and she was in my sight

[@nicoleliller1808]

First time pregnant mom here. Thanks for your tips, Natalie!

[@jessicamoylan]

Aww Congratulations Nicole

[@iamenough227]

You're so beautiful and have the sweetest and most genuine and positive vibe

[@mrse5173]

TO make flannel receiving blankets absorbent, wash them at least 5 times to wash of the natural oils that exist in the fibers. They do end up being very absorbent. I use them as diapers.

[@Lex29302]

I’m 3 months pregnant!! Due April 7th ❤️

[@frogosplayer1]

Congrats!! 🎉 The world is a small place 😂 I have the same due date! Hope all goes well for you :)

[@Lex29302]

Frogo's Player 1 congrats!!! That’s so crazy! I’ve been waiting to come across someone with the same due date!! 🥳 do you know the gender yet? I’m having a baby girl!

[@frogosplayer1]

@@Lex29302 That's awesome she will be a joy! Unfortunately I won't know my baby's gender until he or she pops out! 😅 Im glad to meet another mum to be on a similar timeline as me even if it' only online ..if you remember this thread by then I'd like to know if your birth went smoothly 😅 sorry if thats weird...

[@maja5858]

Due April 4th here 😘

[@frogosplayer1]

@@maja5858 Congrats!! Welcome to the team 😆

[@msinvisiblegirl9477]

I used the Velcro swaddles and especially zip up ones because I had a preemie. He was big enough to be a newborn when he came home but wasn’t at the developmental age to out grow it until about 3 months(we discussed this with his doctor before continuing but felt comfortable as he wasn’t rolling over). Also, it was the winter and preemies have such a hard time with body temperature that it helped keep him warn durning naps and at night. I love the Muslin swaddles now that he’s older and sleeps with them at 18 months as a blanket and we feel comfortable with him sleeping with it. I totally get what you are saying for full term babies but for my preemie the premade swaddle it was a life saver.

[@kisses4elvis]

I'm pregnant with my first. 32 weeks. Thanks for this video. The only thing I don't agree with is the Velcro swaddlers. I used to be a nanny and for the life of me...the mother or no amount of KZbin videos could teach me how to use swaddle blankets...I JUST DON'T GET IT!!! So, I just ordered some of Velcro swaddlers in various sizes just to make my life easier. Lol.

[@Tell-me-more-75225]

I can relate to the plastic sink tub not working well for baby being happy, keeping baby warm and taking up way to much space. At the time I did not know about blooming bath and got so frustrated with it all. I eventually said I am done with all this and brought baby into our bathtub with me and that is what we did for several years. He loves bath time with daddy :) Also swaddle muslin blankets are my favorite as well as having a bunch of cotton diaper inserts around.

[@thechickencoop8096]

I lived by that co-sleeper!!! I had a c-section with my daughter and it was hard to get in and out of bed and i was able to not get up all night and worked for me! I tried to keep away from pain medicine so it was kind of great for me!

[@dyspraxiamom9089]

For the cloth diaper absorbent pads, if you know someone that spends anytime in an operating room you can get a whole bunch of gauze like wash clothes for free, they come in huge packs and soon as they are open they are no longer sterile so someone bleeds a little bit they need a couple of the clothes and then the rest of the pack will be thrown away, or someone there can take them home...work amazing for spit up and what not.

[@felinehermetica]

Awesome list, I'm with you on things that will grow with baby, you sold you me on the blooming bath, def buying one soon. 🙂 I love my "Brest friend" nursing pillow, great for nursing, bottle feeding, nap time after feeding when you just want to cuddle and watch baby. My son just loves that pillow!

[@melanier8520]

This is the first video I ever watched on your channel about a year ago while trying for our first baby. 1 year on and I am pregnant!! These types of videos are very helpful! 😊

[@karimi27]

I am literally watching this and updating my amazon registry!. Thank you

[@lyndseyreed949]

My daughter may have been the only baby that didn't sleep better in our bed. We agreed we wouldn't co-sleep before she was born, but there were many desperate nights when I tried. No go. And now, at 17 months, I cant imagine her even attempting to sleep in our bed. She would think it was playtime for sure. We tried a bassinet, which she hated, and then we used her rock n play next to our bed for a few weeks. She has been in the crib since she was 6 weeks old and will only sleep there, in a pack n play, or in the car (rarely these days). I'm grateful we dont have a toddler in our bed every night, that's for sure. Also, my daughter didn't like the wubanub until she was a bit older and had more control over her hands and mouth. It definitely got in the way in the beginning and we just used a soother. However, later it was SO helpful in helping her put the pacifier back in her mouth or find it in the crib. She still uses it for sleeping.

[@loorasofyan2616]

she didnot say you will regret..She talk about herself what she regret..Some items works for others but some didnot..Different people have different experiment and views...🙂🙂

[@jamiesdawn]

Seriously so glad I clicked! I'm 9 weeks pregnant and was just thinking I just want to buy what I really need and don't want to regret silly products! Baby #2 makes you smarter!

[@joyfulinhope1210]

Rewatching before my twin girls get here next week. 🤗 I only have two outfits each for my girls. The rest is all sleepers. 💕

[@amandarachelle13]

This video is so refreshing! Im expecting my second and totally agree with you on all the regrets and multipurpose items. So many people on here say you need all these fancy things and while a couple are nice you definitely don’t use half of it. Thanks again for the tips!

[@anniecretors]

I feel like you are us!! We have had the same experience with the Mamaroo, swaddle blankets and the Wubbanub! Our newborn hates the Mamaroo and the Wubbanub animal, while so cute, gets in the way! Love your videos! We have 13 year old twin boys and there are so many new things out there!!

[@homemakerlife7543]

I'm having my first summer baby in August. My boys were born in the fall and winter. They hated to be swaddled, but I plan to attempt to swaddle our little girl. (Using the muslin blankets) I have heard some people say to just put a onesie on them for swaddling and I see others with a sleeper. We live in South Carolina and it's miserable in August. I won't have her outside in the heat and we keep our a/c on 70 degrees. I guess I'll just see what she does best with when she gets here. This video was great and made me feel better about my decision to not purchase a Mama-roo! Congratulations again on your little girl! Beautiful baby!

[@karenchavez7846]

I cannot wait for that breastfeeding must haves video!!!

[@BaileyW200]

Watching this 3 years after you posted and getting so broody seeing baby Hailey! She’s gotten so big now. Love your videos & your family! 💛

[@NatalieBennett]

Who's the goofball who wore a DARK bra under a light, sheer blouse? Oh yeah, that was me... 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@ashleykaiser3698]

Gotta love having mommy brain! 😂

[@angelbary1589]

Natalie Bennett i totally did not even notice lol. loved the video!

[@litascrown5295]

Natalie Bennett i didn't notice. until i got to the comments section😂😂

[@ashc6520]

Natalie Bennett lol you can't even notice.

[@sarahbazmi]

Natalie Bennett lol didn't even notice you were anyways looking so pretty as usual 😊 don't worry about it

[@sofiamarcos6958]

This is so helpful! Great for new moms to be that just want to buy the most expensive things because we think its the best for our baby! Thank you!

[@Cafp81654]

I have a mamaroo and I completely regret buying it. My baby wants to be held 24/7 and didn't like it. I might keep it and try it with my next kid. If not i can sell it.

[@electranicolaysen8354]

Amen on the sleepers! That's literally all my baby wore the first couple months; I had a few fancy things but there was never an occasion for them. I was happy to have a Halo Sleepsack Swaddle for her because it made middle of the night changes much easier and faster. I would recommend buying them secondhand because babies do grow out of them fast.

[@kellyletv1]

I'm definitely one of those people that follow the bang for your buck motto! I am all about saving money and I loved this video. I came across it when I binged watched so many baby must haves (can you tell I'm a first time mom?) haha. I'll be due in a few months!

[@Dayshaaa777]

kellyletv Congrats!

[@EmilyCheetham]

Muslin swaddle blankets also good for- Pram cover(for sunny day) if you don’t have one, emergency changing mat, burp cloth, receiving blanket, emergency blanket, blankie for older kids.

[@Nola8998]

Your white piano in the background is so pretty!

[@RenaGoss]

Is that wht that is? I was trying to figure it out😅

[@berrypatch5583]

I would add either a Moby or linen baby wrap. I feel for the daily walk a wrap is amazing. If you have back problems then a small stroller that has an incline to it is an alternative to a wrap.

[@fowlerfamilyhomestead3389]

I have 5 kids and couldn't agree more on most the things you said. The only reason not all is I haven't used some of them. That bloomer baby bath I will be getting. I still have a new baby and she'd love it!! I haven't used my waste of space baby bath in a few kiddos. And the ones that did use it hardly did. Total waste of money and space!! The muslin swaddlers are my absolute favorite!!

[@taylorgamache7859]

Natalie.. you are just such a bright light. I hope your feeling better.

[@melissabamsey4688]

It's so crazy how different babies and mommies are! I got a ton of the muslin swaddles and ended up going and buying a few of the Velcro swaddleme ones because no matter how tight we get the blanket on her, she would always break out and wake herself up haha. So happy she's 7 weeks old and still have some room to grow before she can't use them!

[@jamieboncimino1042]

Melissa Bamsey. 4a

[@oakandoats]

Yes. Us too!

[@fleetwoodashley]

My newborn loves the plushy on the wubanub! He even holds it with one arm for comfort, I think it depends on the baby. Totally agree with the fancy arms reach co-sleeper though, that was a waste, may as well be putting him in his regular crib, ended up getting something similar to the doc-a-tot and he likes that way more. Also for me the Velcro swaddle works great and I got it for a good price and is easier, the Muslin is great but I have practiced so much and he squirms right out of it! I still have you a thumbs up because I think some of this is just preference. Appreciate you taking the time to make these videos!

[@511raksha]

Dear Natalie, This is the first time I saw your video and I love the way you explain the products and it's utility. Thanks. Lots of Love!!

[@ashleyw8526]

We love the arms up zipper swaddle! They snuggle her perfectly and don’t come off! We also love buying stretchy knit fabric from hobby lobby! They don’t need finish edges so they are easy and cheap! They are dupes for the Caden lane blankets!

[@marybellbermudez8604]

I'm super excited to try some of these! Mama to be October 2019💜🥰 first baby!! Update: SHE WAS BORN September 24!!

[@tawnisowell1497]

One thing that I loved having for my baby boy during his first month were sleeping gowns. I used these instead of sleepers because you don’t even worry about snaps or zippers or getting their legs in and out while changing them.

[@ashmeersingh4335]

First time mom. These videos are so helpful. I was debating on the bath time tub. Thank so much it really helps narrow somethings down. May 2020!

[@Toviejp]

Love the list. What's funny is the wubbanub was a total life saver for us, we had the complete opposite issue baby kept spitting out or the regular soother kept popping out and she would be constantly crying and waking up over and over. The wubbanub actually helped hold the soother into her mouth and keep it in there. I swear by that thing, I always get it for my friends at baby showers and definitely have one in the house. I guess it just depends on the baby, but for $15 worth a try if you have issues with baby keeping a soother in their mouth.

[@krissie876]

Your voice is so soothing I fell asleep

[@DebraDKT]

Sometime in the next 2 weeks my daughter will be having a baby girl. Myself being a grandma will tell you a whole lot of things have changed sine mine was small. It was pretty straightforward back when I was having kids. You mother's today have soooo much to choose from & it's video's like urs that help them to navigate through it all. Thanks From This Grandma to be!!! From: The Empathwarrior To All of u May All Ur Days Be Filled With Sunshine and Happiness!!!