"Nice Guys Are Trash, Just People Pleasers..." Woman Says Nice Guys Finish Last, Good Men Are Strong

[@kayochambers9418]

Most ppl confuse nice with weak.Its a difference between Nice and Weak trust me💯

[@MrCn23]

most people are just confused..

[@kingtchala6832]

Facts. Best believe most women can't even see the difference.

[@josegrullon024]

Oh boy I seen this twice in my life. It was very very ugly for the confused 😕

[@kennethjones5334]

@kayochambers9418 you ain't never lied!! I blame society for this stupid misconception!!

[@rickshaw9219]

Preach! I've had to show people more than once that just because I'm nice, easy going, and mello, that I will still whoop yo' @$$. And many a B* have gotten kicked to the curb after they f*d around and found out. Many of my ex's would love to have a second chance for that good treatment. But I'm ruthless when its over.

[@tangoalpha94]

“Don’t be a good man be good at being a man”. This quote from the book the way of men has always stuck with me.

[@Skywalker721]

That’s a great quote. Simple & straight to the point. 🫡

[@Skywalker721]

Full quote: “A man who is more concerned with being a good man than being good at being a man makes a very well-behaved slave.”

[@rob1859]

Exactly 💯

[@farmerfletch]

What book is that??

[@tangoalpha94]

@@farmerfletch the way of men.

[@hadjimims5543]

What trips me out is how they call men hurt for having standards

[@Donstockon8]

Omm

[@davidperry4310]

Our game is strength and integrity, honor! Their game is manipulation. These are both based in our survival instincts, directly affected by the fall of mankind.

[@1phresh]

We sassy for having standards, but they the Queens of standards, high ass standards at that. They hate that Men aren’t clueless anymore and aren’t just accepting anything.

[@jayfray3339]

​@@davidperry4310and they dont respect us if they can manipulate us. Men lack strong character because we are led by our dicks. All integrity is compromised. Nice/weak guy type ish

[@pulsar-du2311]

That statement is laughable she doesn’t like nice guys then what does she like disrespectful bad guys. And this is real talk all guys catch it I don’t care how nice you are how tough,how alpha,how player if you’re intentions are not good and honorable you are going to suffer in any relationship you are in.

[@GenesisEnforcer-wy1yk]

Some people are just naturally nice , which sucks because they are the ones who get taken advantage of and disrespected regularly. The flipside to that though is these same nice guys are the backbone of women's very existence. If women didn't have nice guys to fall back on anymore, they would be finished out here.

[@UseTheSupeRsonic]

We are not "naturally nice" it's behavior that was taught to us. It's behavior that you have to work hard to break out of it because it hurts more than helps

[@GenesisEnforcer-wy1yk]

@@UseTheSupeRsonic speak for yourself homie

[@cooka.s2817]

She is right though. There's a difference between a nice person and a good person. There's many toxic dudes and toxic thugs I've seen act nice or simp to females just get some coochie. Being a good positive guy is extremely important, because most western females hate "Good guys" but love bad/evil guys. This woman is known to support good positive men. I love this Sarah chick. ❤

[@Skywalker721]

No such thing as “naturally nice.” If we were in our natural habitat, we would be slaughtering each other without remorse. 😂

[@stonefacedninja]

​​@@UseTheSupeRsonicthat's not the case. There would be no society if people were naturally antagonist towards one another. This society is unraveling because people are becoming less nice, not more. It's dysfunctional and full of users which is why you have to protect yourself.

[@bdubz_det]

The issue is the black women talking about this dont have the ability to tell the difference between a pushover and a genuine man. If they did they wouldnt be single sitting on a podcast talking about it. theyd be at home building with a man raising a family.

[@chanelwest3641]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽

[@americusdeville865]

20 years into a marriage with 1 man. Instead twiddling their thumbs on podcasts.

[@hefrom_uptown5220]

Turn off the comment section now!!! I was waiting for somebody to say it and you do. Peace and blessings to you good brotha.👏🏿💪🏿💥💯🙏🏿

[@americusdeville865]

Titus 2: 5 KJV “To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” 2 Timothy 3: 6 KJV “For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,” America is one big bad joke.

[@yahowshuabenyahudah7734]

💯🎯

[@compte_]

"Too nice, too dumb", says a French proverb. See these ladies are saying it themselves: they don't want you nice.. Stop being nice to them. Stop simping!

[@AndrewHarriston]

Be nice just do not chase after them (American/Western hyenas). Trust me foreign (traditional) women love nice guys.

[@compte_]

@@AndrewHarriston you're right! I personally have a very good experiences with great African women both in the US and in Africa.

[@chanelwest3641]

I can’t stand a nasty low vibrational dude be NICE to me or get the hell on!!

[@Skywalker721]

@@AndrewHarristonsounds like you’re saying it’s acceptable to simp for foreign women. Foreign women finesse nice guys everyday & they don’t necessarily desire them either. Being a good person (respectful, decent, cordial) is very different than being a pushover & people pleaser for ones who don’t deserve it.

[@o751106]

you crazy, imma simp if I want to

[@damienkirksey7026]

You don't need to impress a woman

[@blocstarrgizzle1657]

Being nice don’t mean you let people talk to you or treat you any kind of way

[@davidbrewer2324]

Over doing is the point here

[@FerrodLiles]

Yes it does

[@tinachowa1108]

Yes it does

[@fear9-qf9kn]

​@@FerrodLilesok bad boy

[@LXCD-t9p]

This is why some women go in and out of bad relationships because they keep getting with toxic men but they will continue to not give nice men a chance

[@Ra-vi7eu]

Then let them suffer their consequences

[@ladellmimms]

They ❤ the nonsense it keeps them from being bored and complaining my ex was stuck on her toxic ex kept laying down with him but complaining

[@deetaylor2202]

I'll let them have it while I sit back and laugh with my popcorn in my hand 😂

[@tdogg65]

Because nice men are lame and women don't like them. I don't know what it's going to take for men to finally understand that smh

[@GETBIG4WARD]

A lot of them don’t like nice guys they aren’t attracted to them they can’t even help it even if they wanted to not do it they can’t

[@Mistamannfour]

Nice guys are not trash, nor are they people pleasers. This woman misidentifies what a nice guy is. What she is describing is a weak man, not a nice man. Her perception of a nice guy is that he is weak. Here's the problem of her perception of nice guys: if a woman is being beaten by her boyfriend and a guy steps in to help her, is that guy being a nice guy or a courageous protector and strong man? Is is possible that the nice guy can also be a manly man, a courageous man, a protector, or a provider? My point is, being a nice guy is not mutually exclusive with being a strong man.

[@Remember-Death]

She's kinda correct because weak men come across as *needy nice guys.* And if a man is truly a "manly man, a courageous man, a protector, or a provider" women don't use the adjective *"nice"* to describe him; they will use a more powerful, masculine word to describe who he is to others. Women know that calling a man "nice" is almost an insult, a slur on his masculinity.

[@LuxBro-um2fu]

Then why does feminsm push men to be softer? This is what they want. Yall wonder why yall end up in abusive relationships ​@Remember-Death

[@Mistamannfour]

@@Remember-Death Thank you for making my point! She is NOT correct at all and you completely missed the point I made in my original post. Some women "perceive" a nice man as weak when the nice guy may not be weak at all! Ones perception may be ones reality; however, that perception can, and often is, incorrect or misleading.

[@dave3987]

@@Mistamannfouryou’re correct women often abuse genuine good men who treat them well and call them weak. Those 304s are vampiric and have a roster of men they use daily so judging by her words she’s a manipulator to get what she wants by deception.

[@colerainswaggify6387]

​And a woman's perception, which is often dog$hit, is exactly why I'm glad the US has never, and hopefully never will have, a female president. Can you imagine the woman in the video with nuclear weapons at her disposal?

[@roythousand13]

Gents, your best option is to be single and childfree. If you want to be married and have children, you are going to have an extremely hard time finding a good loving wife. Especially here in the U.S.

[@chanelwest3641]

It’s plenty of good women in America stop spewing bitterness

[@roythousand13]

@@chanelwest3641 , it's not bitterness, Sir! It's the truth!

[@FlavoredGenuine]

@@chanelwest3641This is not about bitterness, he’s just telling it like it is and I appreciate him for taking a stand. Because of the current situation regarding the behavior of modern women and how they take genuinely good men for granted, I’m not knocking down those men for choosing to find love in another country when things don’t work out for them in America and these same women are in no position to be upset at the men for voting with their feet and walking away.

[@steviemak10]

@@chanelwest3641are most good women in American virtuous? Do they preserve their womb for the right husbands or the wrong husbands? Since women are sexually liberated, do they have a clean heart? Do they not receive any STDs? A good woman defines by her ACTIONS that she practices every single day, and I doubt that there’s a lot of good women in America. Coz if there is, you among good are gonna have fight against the enemy in your shadow. 💯

[@chanelwest3641]

@@roythousand13 that is bitterness telling people that never experienced the Union of love and purpose which is a wife and children and linage, to stay single, That’s your TRUTH but what it truly is an OPINION and who the hell is a sir last time I checked I push out two daughters!!

[@alexfrancis3603]

Fuck that shit. I'm not hearing THIS BS ABOUT "nice guy" there are the RIGHT GUYS AND THE WRONG ONES. Choose ladies and never look back. Because I sure as hell won't be.

[@kingtchala6832]

Facts

[@Skywalker721]

There’s a lot of “nice guys” getting crushed in family court. Somebody needs to address them & get the message through their heads.

[@trbassix23]

The classic story of nobody caring about the nice guy. Nice girls become women like Summer Walker and Taylor Swift… and become millionaires off putting their trauma in song form. They speak loud and proud on podcasts bashing ALL men for their anecdotal choices.

[@kingkemet2527]

It’s reason why Anton Agee with her it’s logical only naive people don’t get it

[@blast4me754]

Mean while we single guys with no kids are on full vacation mode this weekend trying to figure what grown man toys we gone buy for ourselves on Saturday. We're not going to let women financially drain us and run us around in circles just for few minutes of sex.

[@deetaylor2202]

Facts

[@marcuse423]

💯

[@GETBIG4WARD]

It takes a lotta men around 38 to start realizing you spending a ton of money on just minutes really 🤦🏿‍♂️ once you break that mind hurdle you start to realize it’s not worth what you putting or paying into it

[@Caned5]

the nice dude is who they want when "their" kids pop up.. when they broke, when they hurt, or something wrong with them.. Never take them seriously because majority of them think that way .. expired or not, they all look for lifestyle, not love..

[@americusdeville865]

They want someone to pay for what they can't pay for themselves, and they want marriage when they are expired. No go.

[@Mike44569]

You sound like you've been watching too many Podcasts.... Pay close attention to what type of women they have on the show . They're party girls, women with no integrity etc. these women are necessary for views and talking points.

[@Caned5]

@@Mike44569 bro this happens in real life.. podcasts doesnt matter.. I experienced this.. I bet you have too..

[@Mike44569]

@@Caned5 my situation was I met a woman( she was manager)at a former Job of mine, we ended up going on dates, in witch she payed for 90 percent of even though I insisted. She came to my place multiple times and I never could smash, I found out that she was dealing with a guy on the just job sexually. That was my " Nice Guy" situation I did everything right and it was a game for her.... That was my introduction to the fact that grown women play games. Give me your feedback on my story.

[@BlackWhite-ru8gm]

@@Mike44569she probably was trying to figure you out.

[@Tenno22]

You know who appreciates a nice guy, women overseas, get y’all passports 💯

[@williamshaw8106]

🛫🇲🇽🏖️

[@zyrtor1]

Exactly

[@adamme8369]

Don't be so sure. Women are the same everywhere it is their nature. Circumstances keep them in 'control'. If you are weak even those from abroad will take the advantage and eventually hurt you.

[@Giopowered]

Facts

[@cpack1212]

Sadly bro is just here in America

[@charleswashington6343]

"There's daggers in men's smiles." Macbeth, Shakespeare. It has been said that "kindness and generosity" is often misconstrued as a sign of weakness. Some of the most notorious con-men and serial killers were very "nice." That is why they were able to be so deadly.

[@paulbunyan9436]

Passports are essential for men in these times...

[@marcuscrosdale7217]

True. There is definitely traditional still left out there, it's just not in the west.

[@Tttaucan]

I was in a restaurant and I could not help but notice, but every man that came in that I saw, had a Spanish or Asian wife.

[@jaybrick8973]

Facts an try to find remote work

[@marcuscrosdale7217]

@jaybrick8973 most definately, aquire assets, get rid of liabilities, and embrace a traditional foreign wife in their native country.

[@TheDesciple30]

Facts

[@chilzone966]

That is exactly why you never do anything to please other people. What you do, should be on your own account. Not for nice, but for your own blessings or in my case a joyous peace mind. One Love, "Passports Up!"

[@Shredderkid211]

Word Up!

[@TheAbsoluteNihilist]

She takes men for granted. Alright, so don't ask a good fire fighter or a good cop to save you miss. When it happens, keep that same energy.💯

[@kiriyareview9823]

Thank you! Why would you disrespect anyone who hasn’t personally disrespected or harmed you in some way? You won’t respect a man because he’s nice? Come on now. What is going on here?

[@commoguru]

@@kiriyareview9823 Feminism is what's going on. It's morphed into pure misandry now.

[@Skywalker721]

It’s the duty of fire fighters & police officers to serve & protect people. It’s not a random man’s duty to be nice & bend over backwards for a random woman.

[@dynasty507]

​@@Skywalker721Exactly. There's a difference.

[@nonapplicable3055]

​@@Skywalker721It's a duty for now. Men aren't signing up for it as much as they used too.

[@hadjimims5543]

The way Anton put it, it 100% don't be a pushover, but being nice to ppl is essential. What if you're nice and stand 10 toes

[@djangomarine6658]

Yeah, the key is being real. The real you. True to yourself. So sometimes you're nice, and sometimes you tell her hell no, and you mean it. Twisting yourself into a pretzel to get her to like you is a double L. You lose your self respect and she'll like you less.

[@Mike44569]

​@@djangomarine6658 this is an accurate comment

[@Skywalker721]

@@djangomarine6658💯🫡

[@malikgordon5230]

@@djangomarine6658So when a nice guy says no to his women does that make the nice guy mean or is the guy still a nice guy ?

[@djangomarine6658]

@@malikgordon5230 Yes, she will say that you're mean and test your boundaries, but she'll respect you if you stand on it. A woman can't love you if she doesn't respect you. Think about it this way, if she can't rock with the real you, you're wasting your time anyway.

[@jenkinsmanly-spain1252]

REMEMBER THEY TELL YOU WHO THEY ARE MEN. PLEASE BELIEVE THEM. STOP TRYING TO MAKE THEM HAPPY. THEY RESENT YOU FOR THEY ARE OUR OPPOSITES. THEY DONT THINK LIKE US THEY ARE OUR OPPOSITES. PLEASE LEARN AND PUT YOURSELF FIRST

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

Women always talking about there are gonna be some angry men in the comments, but never say there are going to be a lot of lonely women in reality that are going to be wishing they had a nice guy.

[@americusdeville865]

Whose gonna marry them? That's the question.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

@americusdeville865 I don't know, and they definitely don't know.

[@mweber555]

I live how women label men as insecure because they don't want to deal with combative women.

[@poeticprincee9750]

They are delusional

[@FerrodLiles]

….What does that have to do with what she said…………

[@mweber555]

@@FerrodLiles Because she said that....sorry you missed it.

[@GreatGuyforlife]

A nice guy is part of a good mans character.What they talking about?

[@EMJ30034]

😂😂😂😂

[@kiriyareview9823]

I agree cuz I was thinking the same thing. Nice/kind is not a weakness. But taking is as such can definitely a mistake. Smh

[@chanelwest3641]

Nothing the way of the world!!

[@Remember-Death]

The problem is that some men only know how to be *NICE.* They don't know how to say "NO" to women, they don't know how to ignore women, they don't know when to walk away from women. You need to become the kind of man with a backbone, and THEN it's okay to be "nice."

[@Skywalker721]

There’s a big difference between being nice & being a nice guy. Nice guys feel they have to be nice even when others don’t deserve it in order to appease other people.

[@Neddie2k]

Nothing wrong with being nice and kind; we need such people in this world. Nice guys let you into the bus when you are running towards the bus because you woke up late, nice guys give you a 2nd chance at something. We need nice guys and girls.

[@Skywalker721]

I’d argue there’s a difference between being nice & kind when it makes sense vs being nice & kind to any & everyone whether they deserve it or not.

[@Frank-tq4en]

Treat people accordingly. I'm not going to encourage you thinking it's ok for people to have a mindset that allows them to get taken advantage of for your benefit.

[@maliwoodtalks]

💯 . Anton articulated this perfectly. Read between the lines, learn from other men’s mistakes. Learn from your mistakes. Open your eyes and ears. It’s that simple.

[@saonedixon5476]

Yeah women don't like good boys, they like us men with a little edge to us. Not no push over. But a guy who has some authority and a firm stance on things.

[@MrCn23]

most are still dealing with daddy issues

[@tdogg65]

Exactly. Women definitely don't want nice guys. I don't know why guys are having such a hard time understanding this smh

[@colerainswaggify6387]

​@@tdogg65Because a lot of men these days weren't raised to be edgy, they were raised under the sea of the feminist wave, to be nice men? How many times have you heard the gaslighting phrase "just be nice to women?" Us guys are lied to growing up. I don't know what's so hard to understand about that. Having a strong father and/or a strong union of brothers from the street to shape you into a man is truly a luxury and a privilege that a lot of millennial men never got to experience. Privilege is invisible to those who have it.

[@creditlessons]

@@tdogg65problem is men are raised under the feminist regime of being walking, unquestionable door mats. Women also need to stop conflating pushover with a kind human being.

[@KJ-gr6ho]

It's sad that a man is judge by a woman for him being a nice human man our women are in a lost place

[@gbevillc4935]

They love the assholes that slap and beat them consistently…

[@joshlamar1990]

If you have to be overly nice or bend over backwards for her to like you move on she not feeling you.

[@chanelwest3641]

That is Material Gurl I wont ever take advice from someone like her!! Secondly Proverbs 4:23 I stand completely on it I will never lay down my character of kindness to a dark spirited person!! Some women and men or just genuinely nice, How can you cut that off just avoid people like her and stop being gullible that’s what make a person a push over!! Have boundaries and stand on!! God bless 🙏🏽

[@qbrown8753]

You said it best 🫵🏽

[@chanelwest3641]

@@qbrown8753 💪🏾💪🏾

[@davidclass7150]

Nice men do just that but women misunderstood it but it's ok men are not gonna stop being nice and just being fair not square so I got cut off by an older lady who thought too much of herself but I just said ok no angry towards her because she had issues I just let her go so I said this the way you treat others is an reflection of you so becareful how you treat others she said i don't know who I am and don't know what you see in me I didn't say nothing because that let me know she doesn't think that much of her but i saw her in phoneix az with this supposed too be with man but was kissing an woman I Said with my friends she gay but when we hang together she always taking shots at men on the dl broke she still same situation one my friend wife heard her stud friend speak on the phone on bath room talking about the stud messing with other women without no protection mind you stds can be passed in same sex relationship s too she just I been off and on with this person since Chicago she nothing but an lost 304 her brotha had child by the stud said i been dragged this slow heffe I turned her out she been played out I'm always using her she not going no where I checked her all the time she be getting beaten up she my 304 she brings back money I dragged her im getting tired of her she old my new girlfriend is way better im moved with her soon we got an business together this old heffe gonna be alone plus my homie James used too pimp her told her too move on she trashed washed up o was my friend ⏺ it like wow she Said my little ex friend is played out she said you dodging bullets they always dropped themselves you got that bag and didn't get caught up you tried young you tried older you need too get that 🛂

[@theactualfactsofwu-sabat2818]

Right and probably abused and battered

[@chanelwest3641]

@@davidclass7150 You did the right thing King by getting rid of the trash she had a lot baggage!! Unfortunately most genuine people attract toxic people but I always say it’s the fruit that a person bare if they show you nothing but bad behavior then that’s what they truly are, she should know better considering that she is older but that doesn’t mean anything in these times!! God Bless you continue to be a man of integrity 🙏🏽🫶🏽

[@zb2747]

I've noticed women generally display respect towards a man based on 'conditions', 'feeling'/'energy', and appearance, ect where as men generally respect other men and people upfront until proven otherwise.

[@candorsspot2775]

The Bible tells wives to respect their husbands. Women struggle with respect. They are always testing and a constantly disrespected man is one who hasn't checked the disrespect as soon as it comes up. It will always come up.

[@zb2747]

@@candorsspot2775 I agree. It never ends much like everything else. As a man I'v grown to understand that and more reason why the purpose must be the priority. Build, dream, work, and create - leaving behind the legacy.

[@charlesanthonyhalls2651]

"Nice" is what men desire in their women, not always the other way around.

[@Remember-Death]

Exactly. Calling a man "nice" is one level above calling him gay/feminine.

[@morristhompson9189]

She is NOT talking about a nice guy, she is talking about a "nice guy" (as in pushover). They are not the same thing.

[@WesM757]

Words mean things...This woman has a PHD. she know what she means.

[@morristhompson9189]

@@WesM757 Educated people were behind the creation of the Titanic, The Challenger Rocket launch, and orchestrated the Bay of Pigs. All because they are intelligent doesn't mean they can't be wrong form time to time. A Nice Guys is kind to others and THEMSLEVES. Pushovers are giving and kind at the expense of their self respect and self worth. There is a stark difference.

[@MRHEEL-ys2rq]

Funny how they say they DONT want nice guys until they get used up by the guys who treat them like spit... Like my father told me, " You can be nice but you dont have to take shit."

[@Samsonmanase]

Imagine taking advice from single woman 30+ 😂

[@AntonDaniels]

She’s not giving advice, she’s telling you why they think the way they think.

[@KENZIIE_lol]

who is this woman?

[@xcreenplay7264]

im nice and single life is great

[@deetaylor2202]

Indeed facts same here 💯

[@tdogg65]

You've got it figured out.

[@fear9-qf9kn]

Exactly

[@cooljohn6961]

I think ppl confuse nice and pushover. Some ppl r naturally nice. However, that doesn’t make them a pushover.

[@CriticalTimez]

I've reached the conclusion that "strong black educated women" get off on thinking or being around men who supposedly are intimidated by them. When they speak of these "intimidated men," its with a smug attitude.😒😒😒

[@rayologyxm]

Just remember fellas, they bash nice guys as a form of shaming language.... Don't let that negativity get to you. Continue to be nice. Because nice guys DON'T FINISH LAST. And this idea of a nice guy vs. a good man is a misnomer.....

[@JD-ge9eb]

Facts! Just because you’re respectful and polite to people doesn’t make you a simp or anything like that. I always hated the whole nice guys finish last cuz it’s such a blanket statement. Like what are people defining as a nice guy?

[@williamshaw8106]

🛫🇲🇽🏖️

[@rayologyxm]

@@JD-ge9eb exactly! Most people who talk down on nice guys never deserved them anyway.

[@rayologyxm]

@@williamshaw8106 one of my homeboys currently in the Philippines right now. He just landed there a few days ago. OMG he got me up here thinking about it LOL

[@manuelruffin5743]

That's exactly How Black Women are........... They're Pathetic......

[@adim00lah]

"You have to be selfish before you can become selfless, because you can't pour out from an empty cup." BARS!

[@fireguyhoseman5975]

The situation from the movie "casino" was a good example pertaining to this particular topic of conversation. 👍

[@Jk-fw5ut]

It’s a movie 😂😂😂. So movies are reality now???

[@WesM757]

Here is the definition of a nice person The word nice typically means a person is pleasant to be around and has good manners. A nice person is cheerful and well-mannered and says friendly things to others. Sometimes, the word nice is also used more generally to say that someone is harmless or average. AD is full of it, nice doesn't mean push-over. If this "lady" was walking down the street at night, coming from a club in high heels and fell and tore her ACL. What type of person would help her till the medical services come? A NICE Person.

[@AndrewHarriston]

Aw, that is perfectly fine Hyena woman because we are not checking for you or anyone like you. Even those "nice guys" are not even checking for you.

[@bilalo.1716]

This type of thinking is precisely why so many are "Baby Mamas", and not Wives.

[@ddale20]

Like the saying goes, people will show you how they want to be treated!

[@Lambtip101]

Just quoting my mommy here, "You Can NEVER FIX!!! A LIGHT BULB!!! WITH A HAMMER!!!!!! Try It!!! I'll Wait..........................

[@wildhaert]

I'm a reformed Nice Guy. I'm 30 I've been a Nice Guy since development stages of interacting with Women. I can approve this statement. But here's the messed up thing, Women don't respect Nice Guys BUT they Love Nice things. So they'll stick around for all the Niceness then they Dip! 💯. EVERY Female that came into my life has LEFT, and I'm pretty sure all Nice Guys can relate. I'm now a Wise Man. Lol some females may label me as a Villain, Mysterious etc Because they can't read who i am because I'll never truly open up , that has to be earned💯

[@therightlife9434]

She's going to fall for her type every time. He can be walking down the street with a bologna sandwich. If he's her type, resources are no barrier. (On the flip side, if you're not her type, you can own the world and she'll use you for it. Don't ever lose it though.)

[@Teffy2105]

I think some people are just born naturally to be nice. I can’t go around being mean and nasty to people. My advice is to leave these chicks alone and stack your paper. Basically I’m just stacking and staying to self. Don’t waste your bread on these chicks. That casino reference is great. Dinero checked all the boxes, however she was in love with the guy who didn’t give shit about her and used her. It’s not all about money.

[@Anthony-dj4nd]

They don't want nice guys/good men when times are good. Let's watch how they act when times are bad and they're on thier own😊

[@jdd6958]

The last will be first ~Jesus

[@LetsDoSocialWork]

That lady definitely gave a very good definition of what a nice guy is. Check out Dr. Robert Glover's book, No More Mr. Nice Guy! He details all that you need to know about the nice guy syndrome. Hope that helps. Great video!

[@cburna83]

Being a nice guy is only effective around other nice people... Unfortunately fellas this is a cruel world, and if we want to live in it long, then we need to make sure, that we stand 10 toes down as men first..

[@deetaylor2202]

Facts brotha 💯

[@cburna83]

@@deetaylor2202 Salute 💯

[@bornphilosopher]

Most nice men are desperate because their mothers left them that way. These nice women men are looking for don’t exist cause their fathers don’t exist.

[@aestheticmarc]

Some Men are just good men but lack life experience. Let's be real its because there's no consequences to their actions because the recoil is lucrative. Good women dnt gather on podcasts to exchange ways to finesse and pedestalize themselves over the men of their country. Because if ur anything other than toxic, they will get bored and leave, even if ur "solid".

[@MrJearley6]

Thank you for this topic Anton, your brother on the big island of Hawaii. Brother I never really thought about what she has said but I do know this it seems like when you’re a nice person you get treated like shit and it seems to be true with this lady said. Well, I hope this makes sense. This is over here on the big island of Hawaii.🤙🏿🤙🏿🤙🏽🤙🏽

[@billsmith288]

Weaponize empathy,this is the result. Well done I must say.

[@jamelanderson7584]

Focus on yourself everything will come together absolutely right bro!

[@jasoncrowder8260]

In to reference to the casino movie. Ginger told Sam exactly who she was when he proposed to her. She told him that she didn't love him as well as being the kind of woman that shouldn't be chosen for marriage, but Sam forced the issue and he got what he got🤷🏿‍♂️

[@mcnealystudiostv]

Quick question! I would like to hear from other women outside the culture.

[@megavideopowermegavideopow8657]

Make it make sense every woman is always talking about men ain't no good ,but will disqualify a"nice guy" for being too nice and yall playing with words saying a good man and a nice guy are two different things what????

[@Winedawg2564]

If you know that you're nice. Don't be friendly. Keep moving and severely limit your contact. If you let them get a read on you, It's over. Be a closed book and reveal a few words instead of 2 or 3 chapters at a time. Don't change yourself, change your interaction time with people.

[@tdogg65]

Excellent perspective and advice!

[@Spiderfang-pu2zr]

Being nice doesn't mean you're bad, weak, pushover or have ulterior motives only women think that way of men. They cant even leave situationships or tell the difference between good relationship dynamics from bad ones basically a walking contradiction

[@fudgematthew33]

Two things that being nice all the time will never get you: it won't get you laid. And it won't get you respect. It will, however, get you used. And hurt. And broke. And disrespected. When I stopped being nice and started putting my foot down, that's when my ex-wife left. How you start is very important.

[@Jk-fw5ut]

Wait your wife left you because you stop being nice?? So the lady in this video and Anton are wrong. That’s a complete contradiction dude lol

[@fudgematthew33]

@@Jk-fw5ut no, she left because I wouldn't let her walk all over me anymore. Women don't like nice guys. They don't respect nice guys because they can't. Sooner or later, you have to put your foot down and let it be known who's running ish. You can't be nice to your woman 100% of the time.

[@Jk-fw5ut]

@@fudgematthew33 Lol why your wife left you?? Because you stopped being the nice guy?? 😂😂😂. Your example doesn’t help Anton’s argument LOL. Women are unpredictable nowadays. You cannot pinpoint what they want as a monolith. Your marriage is perfect example of that 😂😂

[@RemIsNice]

My ex did the same. @Jk-fw5ut How you start and live in a relationship creates a dynamic. Once you stop being "nice", the dynamic changes. If the other party doesn't like the change and they themselves are not willing to grow with that change, the marriage will end.

[@Jk-fw5ut]

@@RemIsNice Oh I understand that. But this video is saying women don’t respect or like nice guys. You can’t say stopped being the nice guy then my wife left. That’s a contradiction to what Anton said. Wouldn’t that make your wife stay since women like men who are “10 toes down”. So all I hear yall saying is that yall wives fell in love with yall when yall started off as the nice guy. Y’all’s example doesn’t match Anton argument at all 🤣

[@gzoe247]

Ohhhhhh these women what wrong with them

[@chanelwest3641]

They are not women they are Material Girls

[@jessyxavier2874]

Anton you are right. A girl that had a conversion with when I left the islands to study in Europe told me, not everyone wants to be your friend. At that time it didnt make sense. As time past that conversion came full circle because I came to the understand what she meant. People that hear you saying this now wont get if they dont open up to receive the message. It wont make sense at first. It just needs time to get seasoned on you.

[@RayNLA]

Don’t mistake kindness for weakness

[@leeahilljr6279]

Yes, and we learned to take out the GARBAGE, sis!

[@LuxBro-um2fu]

No yall don't. Yall shot on nice men just to choose worse

[@osiras1382]

Abraham Issac and jacob were 'nice guys..... and their wives 'Holy Wicked Generation indeed

[@AntonDaniels]

Read the stories again… do you know the headaches they had with those women?

[@poindextersheelturn436]

Agreed, these women are just showing you who they really are.

[@curtishancock432]

Why did God bless those women then? Especially Sarah Abraham's wife.

[@poindextersheelturn436]

Lol, we know shy she was blessed, but your modern woman dont believe in the bible unless it critizing the men and many are beholden to witchcraft. The truth is they are of the devil and refuse righteousness, we have to let them go but who has the nuts to do that?????@@curtishancock432

[@osiras1382]

@@AntonDaniels yes... any woman can be a headache..... but these were still righteous

[@shimmerveli9535]

I've realized to just say f*** all this sh** and get money and be a great human.

[@9cyph]

It is so sad that over time this world has destroyed so much of the "Niceness" in me. I understand that there can be problems with being "Too Nice", but the extent to which is despised and how much it makes you a literal "Off magnet" to Women is insane. The fact that "Being Nice" is looked at as "One of the Worst things" makes it difficult to tolerate the reality in which we live. How did "Being Nice" become worst than "Being Mean"? How did it become worst than Someone who cheats? Someone who is a bad Husband and Deadbeat Father. Someone who is broke, sits at home all day without a job that is a horrible provider. Someone that is a Criminal. Someone that is on drugs. Someone that is mentally, emotionally & physically abusive that beats you. Women will actively choose ALL OF THOSE over Someone "Being too Nice". This is often difficult, Particularly in our community where the lines of being a Good, decent human being and "Being too Nice" are after blurred due to the excessive amount of toxicity pushed in our community.

[@furiousrobinson]

This is another Tubi production, these women have to put down the mics.

[@Terrell101ify]

ASAP. They expose themselves every time.

[@afroslacker7383]

I think it’s about being TOO nice.. Giving 10 compliments in 5 minutes is doing too much.

[@miltongardnerjr.6323]

A nice guy and a good man are two different things.

[@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee]

Women respect power.

[@1DayAtATime-642]

funny thing is i’m considered as i nice guy cuz i like to network low key. if they don’t understand the game then oh well

[@ryanhumor]

The Casino example is PERFECT. Ginger was reeeeeally on the phone w/ Lester right after the wedding - in THE wedding chapel.

[@corbinmacklin185]

Thank you, Anton

[@kungfuhusler]

People always mistaking my kindness for weakness but when they find i don't like them they get in they feelings 😂😂😂

[@LionelRWilson]

It was devastating when I heard a girl talk like this for the first time when I was 22 (36 now). But, as I’ve gotten older I’ve learned that they are just red flags filtering themselves out. If you’re a young dude. Please ignore and work on yourself. Life is so much sweeter on this side.

[@DwiteDorsey-bi3qt]

That's why I don't do nice..I do honesty and respect..after you cross the line..you get the wrath

[@SteelerLee910]

Only the soft men will take offense to what she said. It’s ok to have morals and principles as a man but NEVER lose yourself trying to please a woman.

[@moneymitchamp]

The follow up question should be “ what’s a good man “?. Her talking point is what women are using now , so they have an excuse to keep dating Tyrone pookie and ray ray . Of course she shouldn’t want a simp or a push over . These are the same women that want a man to spend thousands in their bdays and valentines , but if a good man shows he a gentleman he’s a push over

[@Jk-fw5ut]

There’s literally no logic in dating. I guarantee if she described what a good man is, she will be describing a nice guy lol.

[@moneymitchamp]

@@Jk-fw5ut EXACTLY

[@Biqavell19]

Based on what I see in front of me and the Internet I've lost the will to date in America and especially blk women

[@cashflowhustles]

GYP Fellas. Get Ya Passports. smh

[@williamshaw8106]

🛫🇲🇽🏖️

[@manuelruffin5743]

*You Damn Right!* 🛫🛫🛫🇵🇭🏖️

[@yvesdurosier8828]

This woman will never submit, anybody that sees a woman coming run away. Spiritually she's out of whack

[@larrycobb5798]

I tell a woman off the rippa I’m not a nice guy I’m a good guy there’s a big difference…some women get the two confused…

[@kayochambers9418]

Right

[@deandregreen4479]

Yes she is correct. Unfortunately I had to learn the hard way. I would not be in a successful marriage if I had not.

[@mlmajortodaleague147]

Too many nobodys with platforms!

[@jeffreywoodlin9754]

"THA' NICE GUY/MAN" and "GOOD GUY/MAN" Are Kind of One & Tha' Same,Tha' Biggest Issue Iz 2 Not Allow Ya' Self 2 Be Possibly Taken Advantage of When It Comes 2 Dealin' Wit An "FEMALE(S)/An - WOMAN/WOMEN"! 👁

[@VyCityMusic]

I guess I’m the only one that just watched her not answer the question as to the distinction between a nice guy and a good man . She just went on about what she defines ‘nice’as and why she doesn’t like it . Y’all be safe tho 🙏🏿

[@nocturnaldrive9214]

Nice guys won't allow their family to live in poverty, either. Don't forget that. I do believe that most women want their kids to live in poverty, really.

[@Mysticalpiety27]

When the govenment had assisted feminism that was the goal. Modern women are tools to help keep the children in proverty or depedent on the government. If a woman pushed away a good man who is focused, but decided to have a baby with a narcissist or a bum. What makes you think she wants her own son to later grow up and become the same men she rejected and avoided. Sadly, Modern women are tools doing what the government wanted to do to America.

[@vanjones1749]

Dissin the so Called nice or good man is like saying hard working stand up Dudes or lame or square because they are not a scammer, or whatever. This mentality will keep the black Community exactly where it’s been the last 70 to 80 years

[@blleach11]

Fellas, never listen to a woman who tries to tell you what she wants in a man, she does not know. All you have to do is be a man and focus on your goals and she will fall in line. 👍🏿

[@derektheproducer]

You are correct until you said “she will fall in line”.. There’s no guarantee she will fall in line. Many times she will still be unhappy. Never think that you can make a woman be submissive. Either it’s in your upbringing or not. It has little to do with you.

[@prestigousone]

Your perspective aligns partially with reality, but it diverges on the notion that women solely desire to be self-serving rather than a partner's ally. True fulfillment and mutual respect in a relationship are not about conforming to each other's demands at the expense of one's happiness or integrity. It's essential to recognize that every individual, regardless of gender, seeks respect and understanding, which is built on clear communication and boundaries. As a man who is aware of his worth and is committed to living righteously on his terms, it's crucial to pursue personal goals and values steadfastly. Happiness and satisfaction come from within, and a genuine, respectful partnership will honor that individual journey. True contentment lies in knowing and fulfilling your purpose, while also being open to a connection that respects your autonomy and contributions.

[@sh-ql9bq]

ok guys, if that's what they want, let's stop caring about them. are we all stupid? let's give them what they want

[@zb2747]

Women change day to day. One day she can be in the mood for a 'nice' guy the next she will want to be disrespected aka put in her place sexually or non-sexually. She is yours UNTIL she is NOT yours More reasons why you should not make her a #1 priority. Put God first, your purpose. She'll either follow or not

[@SeriousBlackThought]

💯

[@Youngindy21]

I kinda wish there was a more appropriate word to describe the behavior you're referring to because the opposite of nice is mean, and nobody wants a mean person and people can conflate not being nice with being an A-hole and that's somewhat problematic.

[@grizzyso5048]

Facts💯

[@dopyojj4974]

Get your passport bros and leave matrix women 😂😂😂😂😂✈️👍🏾👌🏾💯✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️

[@VaughnMcGregor]

Her character is trash. I'd never want to be associated with someone like her. Being a weak guy is trash. Being a nice guy is golden. Just be decerning and don't be nice to the wrong people. I love being a nice guy but I'm nice from a place of strength cause I don't fnck with everyone. I'm far from a simp and can't stand them ninja's neither. And if I'm overly nice to someone and they betray me later on, they instantly feel my wrath and are immediately cut off. The reason "I allow myself to be nice" is because I know that I definitely have the ability to be a monster so I make the conscious decision to be nice to people. To get along smoothly through this life, you need to build solid relationships. You catch more bee's with honey than sh!t.

[@kingkemet2527]

It’s not your naive it’s a reason why Anton agrees with her

[@VaughnMcGregor]

@@kingkemet2527 I don't agree with Anton so there's that.

[@kingkemet2527]

@@VaughnMcGregor because your navie it’s a reason thanos was the most interesting character in Avengers why trump is the leading candidate of the GOP and why Anton agree with her because nice people are too delusional on how life really works and they are the main ones to get scammed , con and tooking advantage of

[@VaughnMcGregor]

@@kingkemet2527 Bullsh!t. You keep thinking that and it can easily lead to your demise. You wanna talk about a fictional character like "Thanos"?? How about there are real life professional fighters out here in the real world that are nice guys that will easily beat the dog sh!t out of you if you cross them the wrong way. I'm not naive at all but don't fnck with me if you don't want to see the dark side of my character. I can easily flip if you rub me the wrong way. I default to being nice unless I'm provoked. Don't be silly.

[@VaughnMcGregor]

@@kingkemet2527 Bullsh!t. You keep thinking that and it can easily lead to your demise. You wanna talk about a fictional character like "Thanos"?? How about there are real life professional fighters out here in the real world that are nice guys that will easily beat the dog sh!t out of you if you cross them the wrong way. I'm not naive at all but don't fnck with me if you don't want to see the dark side of my character. I can easily flip if you rub me the wrong way. I default to being nice unless I'm provoked. Don't be silly.