Compatibility In Islamic Marriage | Yasmin Mogahed | Full Video Click ▶︎

Compatibility between two partners is still given less priority to other factors like beauty and wealth. However, compatibility reflects the balancing factor between a couple and makes the obligations in Nikah more simpler. When marriage is performed between two people who have the right balance of compatibility, then there are greater chances of a happier life.

[@Noblelessons]

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[@bintabah8654]

May Allaah bless you

[@shafeeqbc]

What you mean by full video? In this one minute video she has spoke so much of lie… this immoral religion can no where lead you, just to a point where end up dying in spirit!

[@timeillusion459]

Is it applicable to Polygamist Muhammad??? Everyone knows why Zayd divorced Zaybnab. It was Muhammad's intention to do so. Muhammad wanted to do sex with Zaynab, so he made a rule in the name of Allah that one can marry adopted children. Tabari VIII:4: “One day Muhammad went out looking for Zayd. Now there was a covering of haircloth over the doorway, but the wind had lifted the covering so that the doorway was uncovered. Zaynab was in her chamber, undressed, and admiration for her entered the heart of the Prophet. After that Allah made her unattractive to Zayd.”

[@rehanahmed2331]

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[@نیماهستم]

Rumor has it zeyed couldn’t get it up 😂

[@zehraatique8495]

Her mentioning compatibility means belonging from same class and mindset and upbringing and which really plays a major role in your habits and thinking also don’t forget about education and your profession etc also age and health matters so yeah it is what it really matters

[@anshikarathore3614]

Age was not a matter for prophet i guess

[@flowers379_]

@Anshika, Your comment sounds like a dig but age was never a major factor or a deal breaker for prophet Mohamed P.b.u.h. He married Khadija when he was 25 and she was 40 and he married Aisha when she was 9 and he was 52. And in between those 2, the prophet P.b.u.h married widows and divorcees! In fact among his wives, Aisha was the only never-married one! May Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him forever amin!

[@MujahedEIslam]

@@flowers379_ Aameen Summa Aameen

[@afei4989]

​@@anshikarathore3614 and for your info, our messenger was 60 but looks so much younger than his age and still fight in wars

[@nationof786]

Your post is definitely a dig. That’s not what Yasmin meant. You completely missed her point. I think what she ultimately meant was having good chemistry. One can marry someone from the same class but if there is no chemistry between the two then the marriage probably won’t last long

[@mohammedodah4274]

Finding someone with both deen and character is hard enough. Tryna give us a mission impossible or what? May Allah help us

[@Taser290]

Allah Azzawajal can make the impossible possible and the possible impossible so stop stressing and make dua ya akhi

[@raizahasmath5580]

Of course, only a man will say this.

[@shelbeg7228]

😅

[@gmb2305]

Ameen

[@shamimtemour]

Compatibility doesn’t mean that you only stick with your culture or ethnicity, Islam holds no prejudice and we are all extremely diverse. I have a heritage of multiple ethnicities and would need to search for a needle in a haystack in order to find someone that matches my heritage. Compatibility is likes and dislikes, how you value life and your morals and values. I’ve had to learn the hard way that my spouse’s complete lack of empathy and love for myself and our children caused the destruction of our marriage. In a society where Narcissism is being addressed even more, we need to protect ourselves from those who only destroy that which they are ungrateful for...Subhan’Allah

[@honeynoor5351]

Islam has already told us about that Do nikah with a person who is your match , compatible 👍🇵🇰

[@haki4907]

But how if we’re not allowed to talk to the opposite gender or be friends with them

[@amit-od6rp]

🤣😂 see the video of adam seeker. Wife is slave 😂😂 4 wife 👰🤣 This show mans character

[@rounaq01]

@@haki4907 Islam allows us to talk with opposite gender !

[@zenobiuskondo4200]

Like marrying young child????????

[@amit-od6rp]

@@zenobiuskondo4200 adopted son wife safia also🤣😂🤣

[@Afia6098]

Compatibility means that your personality matches. If one person has outward personality going out, having fun , enjoying life and other person has inward personality, like staying at home , not talking too much , dont have same interests. Now that both husband and wife work . With these two types of personalities are very hard to survive. Especially in these modern times where women now have alot more choices.

[@thesunshine6818]

Same happened with me i am outgoing and extrovert person and my husband is just opposite to me, i m not enjoying my life i feel something is lack in between us I don’t know what to do btw he is nice and caring person but never go out with me.

[@IIIISai]

@@thesunshine6818 you should motivate him, he shouldn't be like that forever, I'm working on it myself as well

[@dinaf.k5372]

What about complementary relationships? Both are different but grow from each other which means that the extrovert can help the introvert to go out more and vice versa.

[@hadilayyad6147]

@@dinaf.k5372 Those are good relationships too, sometimes opposites attract :)

[@adamnoor3022]

@@thesunshine6818 Salaam 😳

[@DesertVox]

That is also debatable: In the WEST, the entire premise for 'dating' is to look for the most compatible partner. Yet, the OVERWHELMING majority of the MINORITY that get married in the West are unhappy, and a good percentage end up in divorce and/or 'cheating'. Marriage is not about 100% compatibility. That's for Jannah.

[@soothingmind2335]

What is meant was Deen, good characters and morals are must ( subhanAllah) , and yes, you are right, our ultimate goal is Jannah but compatibility is also very important for a healthy marriage . Even two practicing muslim husband wife may disagree on multiple serious matters or their outlooks and can be in a serious conflict all the time .

[@ariellewallian5364]

reminder that she said DEEN and values first.

[@yummymellon4058]

They have compatibility but missed their deen. Simple. Aslo some people are being tested with their marriage.. It sometimes have zero thing to do with what's right . Rather it's could just be a test.. But finding someone based on deen and compatibility is a must.. This has been the guideline for Muslim marriages in searching for partners.

[@yummymellon4058]

@@ariellewallian5364 yup so true.. So many people misunderstood that compatibility range from education to wealth. And that the deen will shape one's personality. That's why deen is the no. 1 that must be value before other compatibility. This has been said in Islam and actually normalise in Malaysia. Idk how it is everybody else. In Malaysia for Muslim we always be reminded to find someone on par with you and that's actually what Islam taught too. But verily if you choose deen that is better.

[@gtbbjhvcfty]

From my observation many western relationship started by lust. They have intercourse before they know each other very much. This type of relationship normally doesn’t end well

[@marthageorge7987]

Look for a companion who believe in your Faith and honesty and you build each other look at your strenghts and balance your weaknesses and make Jannah your goal

[@BenjaminMilesPerry]

Woah! Sis, slow it down. You cannot use that parting to exclaim your narrative. First of all; that was a Devine decree how the whole dynamic occurred! Secondly the implication that somehow this is an excuse to add more to the Sunnah . Our Prophet(PBUH) gave us four things for a woman to seek in criteria. "Compatibility" ain't one of them. Stick to religion (Deen), family status (good Family), wealth, means to provide, beauty(attraction). Since I assume your target is a female crowd, your opening a door to a bunch of innovation . Stick to criteria. And with the Almighty's permission. "Compatibility" will grow. Now if you'll excuse me,I must pick up my darling wife of 23 yrs from the dentist because she can't drive on novacaine. And I better not be late or I'll here about it all the way home. Lol

[@sheibrahim3259]

You made my day with your comments:) but make sense

[@nationof786]

I think what she ultimately meant was having good chemistry. For example, one can marry someone who is firm on his/her deen but if there is no chemistry between the two then the marriage probably won’t last long

[@mosimba2665]

How do we define compatibility? I think Dean and Good values are the best choice ... Compatibility may be vague as it is almost impossible to find compatibility between 2 people ... You may have 2 or 3 thinks in common but this will not guarantee your marriage but values and attitudes is the key

[@ramzimabrouk3534]

Salaam u ailkum, I understand you, What my filosoof thought are about this topic is , you cant choose your perfect partner, you have to follow the plan of Allah -swt- and that's the maktoub the theory of destiny step by step you find your partner. May Allah bless all marriages Amin. And that's the key to ask for blessing all your life to achieve your goals in everything.🌐🙏🏽🌞

[@mosimba2665]

@@ramzimabrouk3534 Wa Alaikum Mussalam Sister, I see what you mean ... The think about compatibility, I have seen a lot of brothers and sisters misunderstand this word and I wanted just to add on what you already mentioned. The most important compatibility here is Islam and from Islam we get the best Values, like patient, respect, tolerance, love, life balance, right judgement, fear of Allah, Sunnah and many ... And all this comes with a good education and clear understanding of our Deen. Iman always brings balance and happiness in life. May Allah guide all of us.

[@Allinone-p8j]

@@mosimba2665 agree

[@Raza2701]

100% agree. Compatibility means putting your ego to the side and compromise for each other. That's true compatibility, because no one is perfect. Marriage isn't always lovey dovey, you got to fight for each other.

[@purplelove3666]

You are not marrying. Robot

[@victoriavictoria3941]

If you r an empath don t fool yourself to marry with a narcissist a psycho or a socio or a sadist they may have’’ character’’or ‘’deen’’ ...but it will be only a short mirage!! 😅 You won t never be compatible with such people if you r a sensible person That s an example of what she s trying to say There are many examples for compatibility Your intellects should be on the same level to be compatible for ex This is a huge theme .... but first of you should have a lot of commons

[@tirbanieramcharitar4183]

Thank you you r right 👍

[@hadilayyad6147]

You said it. I am an empath but my husband is a complete narc. He lied to me consistently throughout our engagement period and acted like he had character and deen. He did not and as soon as we were married, he dropped the mask. I wish I could say it was a short marriage but I’m stuck with him.

[@victoriavictoria3941]

@Hadil Ayyad May Allah help you and give you ease ! I don t know what kind of narc he is and which level ... they r all miserable ... but you have to know that you can t expect him to change .... only some authority can change his behavior ... but his heart and mind will not ... it s a life of sorrow living with such people ... the only solution is no contact anymore ...

[@tahirwani777]

Very true exact my thoughts

[@hadilayyad6147]

@@victoriavictoria3941 Authority won’t change his behavior. I have prayed to Allah for the past 7 years to guide him so he can change his abusive and manipulative behaviors but he doesn’t want to change. I’ve had a mental breakdown a week ago and I had my dad kick him out the house. 99.5% chance I will be divorcing In Sha Allah. Just this week with him away has me and our 3 kids with a nice and peaceful routine, I sleep so much better now and my headaches have completely gone away.

[@khan-ow3cd]

If I can find a wife with good character guarding her chastity not interacting with non mahram unnecessarily and taking care of our children that would be a big thing in today's times whether she prays fasts or recites it's between her and Allah. It's so hard to find people with good character only nowadays deen and compatibility criteria are for sheikhs and sheikhas like her. you will remain single forever if you have so many eligibility criterias and then haram is obviously waiting for you wide open.

[@purplelove3666]

Can't you also take care of your children? They are your kids too right? You do know that taking care of children is not only a woman's job,but it's your job too as a man? .what is your purpose as a father if you want someone to take care of your child ,while you do nothing?

[@moyrarasheed8641]

I agree with you to some extent. But compatibility? How can you determine compatibility prior to marriage. There is no way that we can do this. We do not live with our partners we do not go out with them. I think perhaps what you meant to say was maybe look at their family background, meet them with a chaperone and speak to them a few times to see what their thoughts are about marriage. I remember a family coming to my house and asking for my hand and the mother was very adamant that her daughter-in-law would not work at all ever. That was an incompatible marriage. It was always my dream to work. Perhaps maybe you meant in this regard.

[@mjabbie7912]

​​@@kickass42 🤣🤣🤣 How can I know what's best for me more than my creator does?! the religion doesnt allow you to force anyone to get married to someone else

[@gulabani2216]

"We do not live with our partners prior to marriage" that is the crux of the matter. You HAVE to live with your partner first in order to determine your compatibility. Marriage is a big commitment. How can you make such a commitment if you don't know your compatibility with your husband / wife to be?

[@rehmasiddique5084]

If its a coworker or a class fellow or a family friend, you'd know.

[@misterbk1791]

@@kickass42 this is useless statement which doesn’t apply to the short whatsoever

[@Abdullah_muslim1]

Sister, you're allowed to vet the potential spouse and are allowed to go into her home and see how she acts. Watch brother Gabriel al romaani on vetting the spouse to she what she/he are really like.

[@mkhan9764]

Yes she is right. Compatibility is also essential. This does not contradict the advice of the Prophet alehyhisalaam (in an authenticated Hadith), where he said choose someone's religiosity/Deen over wealth, beauty etc. Rather it compliments his advice. So how does one find compatibility? Sadly most find incompatibility in their relationship exists, after getting married.🥴🤷🏾‍♂️ What is required, pre-marriage, is a psychological profile of the spousal candidate. If you can't obtain this from meeting them, then seek this information from their family, friends or people who just know enough about them. If the male is dominant in his nature (Alpha) then marriage to an dominant female will probably end in failure because they will argue all the time & this is toxic for a relationship. So a dominant male is more likely compatible with a submissive female because argumentation is less likely from her side, due to her less confrontational nature. If the male is is submissive in his nature, then he will most likely have a successful marriage with a female who is dominant in her nature because arguments will be at a minimum because he will tend to agree with her on most things & be less confrontational. A submissive male & female will likely get on & have a successful marriage because there is minimal chance of argumentation disturbing the peace because they are both unlikely to be, again, confrontational.🤷🏾‍♂️😇

[@JoaquimGonsalves]

Jazakh Allah Khair

[@arianakhan09]

True said mam...thank you..we need this speakers in India too

[@charansai2476]

Why don't you get trained by her and start speaking in INDIA.

[@actzo.18]

Assalamu alaikum.. India already had such lioness ... Far better than her..wallahu a'alam

[@timeillusion459]

Everyone knows why Zayd divorced Zaybnab. It was Muhammad's intention to do so. Muhammad wanted to do sex with Zaynab, so he made a rule in the name of Allah that one can marry adopted children. Tabari VIII:4: “One day Muhammad went out looking for Zayd. Now there was a covering of haircloth over the doorway, but the wind had lifted the covering so that the doorway was uncovered. Zaynab was in her chamber, undressed, and admiration for her entered the heart of the Prophet. After that Allah made her unattractive to Zayd.”

[@ArtistAurthy]

Absolutely rubbish !!!! You cannot add anything that's already mentioned in hadith. I think this is an innovation.

[@alphagamer1050]

This lady with all due respect misses how to deliver her points across. She said you have to look for compatibility, but how can you achieve that before living or getting to know someone for a long period of time? It's actually not taught nor is it required in islam.

[@mahjabeennaeem9292]

How can we look for comparability when we are not allowed even talk to each other according to various ulmas in Pakistan

[@fatimatiamiyu2872]

Assalamu'alaykum Sister in deen. Majority of the Ulamas are of the opinion that you're allowed to meet in order to get to know each other better but a mahram( your father,brother) must be in attendance. And Allah knows best.

[@Osama4617]

You can talk with the presence of Mehram

[@abdullahrizwan6569]

When you look someone look for 'imaan' more you prioritize the more you feel compatible. True 'Imaan' is answer for all.

[@ismailwadaad-qq5dp]

May Allah increase our knowledge ang guide us to the right path,choice.i have nothing to say at all from Somalia

[@sarahkim3542]

Ameen

[@gmb2305]

Ameen

[@dkdjaat546]

And also there is tolerance in marriage...

[@maxnuur-fm7dd]

Please Don't my sister. Do you remember our prophet (SAW) daughters and their marriage. Please remember who they married to !! (RA). What did our prophet (SAW) say? If Only I had more daughters. Please STOP. My Islam is not your experience. SORRY. May Allah give you more guidance. Islam is not your tradition. It is Qur'an and Sunnah. Assalaam Aleeikum. Please be careful . Please. Please don't . I respect you but remember little knowledge is very very dangerous. Assalaam Aleeikum

[@MichaelFaraday9]

So why your god wanted them to get married in the first place and how acceptable that your prophet get turned o* her while she was still married to Zaid and how on earth u believe that this aya is from a god, this is insane وَإِذْ تَقُولُ لِلَّذِي أَنْعَمَ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَأَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيْهِ أَمْسِكْ عَلَيْكَ زَوْجَكَ وَاتَّقِ اللَّهَ وَتُخْفِي فِي نَفْسِكَ مَا اللَّهُ مُبْدِيهِ وَتَخْشَى النَّاسَ وَاللَّهُ أَحَقُّ أَنْ تَخْشَاهُ ۖ فَلَمَّا قَضَىٰ زَيْدٌ مِنْهَا وَطَرًا زَوَّجْنَاكَهَا لِكَيْ لَا يَكُونَ عَلَى الْمُؤْمِنِينَ حَرَجٌ فِي أَزْوَاجِ أَدْعِيَائِهِمْ إِذَا قَضَوْا مِنْهُنَّ وَطَرًا ۚ وَكَانَ أَمْرُ اللَّهِ مَفْعُولًا When you said to him, whom Allah has blessed, and you have favored, “Keep your wife to yourself, and fear Allah.” But you hid within yourself what Allah was to disclose. And you feared the people, but it was Allah you were supposed to fear. Then, when Zaid ended his relationship with her, We gave her to you in marriage, so that there may be no restriction for believers regarding the wives of their adopted sons-when their relationship has ended. The command of Allah was fulfilled

[@SharifMfarah]

First of all, deforce is not a problem but a solution especially when the married couple could not get along with each other for whatever reason. The prophet SAW mentioned the criteria for selecting spouse as beauty, wealth, faith and good manners. The two main characteristics obligatory for both men and women being faith and good manners. Where does compatibility fit in here? The prophet emphasised on the Deen aspect of the person not Compatibility! Who should we listen to "You" or "the Prophet SAW" Compatibility? I smell something fishy!

[@narenselva4538]

If anyone follow your advice, they will never find anyone in their life. Life is give and take between each other. There is no perfection, you probably looking for criteria which you that's why based in your experience....

[@DEB2328]

Your words sounds fantastic 👌 in secular countries. Do you know and feel the condition of women in IRAN OR AFGHANISTAN??? NAUSUBILLAH.

[@samismail7822]

She’s a feminist Muslim.

[@curiosone8843]

This is again very western influenced advice, yes marriages can break even deen and character is the choice, Look at the companion and step son of Prophet Muhammad saww. This compatibility syndrome is very subjective and i would prefer a scholar for advice in this matter not an influencer. she is an influencer at the end who is speaking her mind influenced by some experiences and matters she is not a scholar

[@mohammadazam2920]

She needs to be more precise and subject to natural condition. That may mean if husband income decreases then wife can divorce him and look for rich man or along the life if rich man approaches her , she can ask divorce based on her mental capability theory. The man and woman must decide prior to marriage. I need more explanation where greed is outlawed.

[@disciplinado2190]

FACTS!!! Thank you 🙂

[@Syedpdx]

Thank you sister! Hope the parents realize this and not force a marriage solely based on deen.

[@Smile-t7nu2]

But they come back then please read well before you speak and also it was not because of thet

[@onlychild4332]

Nop People usually see Deen as Believing in One God, praying 5 times etc But following And Incorporating Islam in your way of life , in each and every act every day is a total different thing. When you act , you think that Allah is there watching you, When you speak, you think that you are accountable for your every word and action , that is called Practicing on Deen . That is what we are asked to prefer and choose such a man or woman for marriage . Your children will be brought up by that chosen spouse equally and A good Muslim child would be a sadqa jaria for you in this and hereafter. While on the other way around, think what will happen to you if those children that you left them in this world were not brought up as good Muslims because you and your chosen spouse were not practicing true Muslims. Reading Quran and learning Hadith is the basis of it But Practicing it every day 24/7 is another thing.

[@underwater3875]

Nonsense She is making it harder for marriages. I don't agree with her

[@Bharatiya234]

how about training the men not to hit wife's her witness is equal give her equal rights in property men should not enter her the way he wants as she is his field no to iddat triple talaq mutha marriage FGM Halala and not to live like a slave in tent

[@dkdjaat546]

They were not divorced, muhammed claimed her....

[@RonnieMyers777]

He took his adopted son's wife? 🤔

[@ONE_SERVANT_OF_ALLAH_73]

ONE ❤ LOVE 💯 ONE ❤ HEART💯. LETS GET 💃❤🤺 TOGETHER & FEEL ALRIGHT...💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@ONE_SERVANT_OF_ALLAH_73]

YOU.. SWEET LIKE CHOCOLATE.. YOU GIVE ME SO MUCH JOY..💯💞❤🤲☝

[@mysticflower3169]

We all owe debt in time to Allah subhannah watallah azzwajal for giving us a life

[@jenifaahmed527]

How will I know he is compatable? I mean it's haram to interact with opposite gender ..How are we supposed to know ? This whole thing is quite mess

[@bybbah]

Very true ,so agree with you .been there got DIVORCED, no compatibility. Sadly true.

[@Taqwah_Tawheed]

If after having Deen, morals and a good character, people still feel it’s not enough surely they are being ungrateful truly ungrateful, (Deen, morals etc Sunnah teaches you to accept and compromise for the sake of Allah for the one who believe in Allah and loves Allah) but no some people are too practical when it comes to their Deen, worldly life and character! Those who lack knowledge and wisdom, Shaytans will always be their Friend directly or indirectly, learn to compromise, bend a bit let go of your arrogance, it’s nothing but a veil between you and Allah, be humble treat everyone with love and care, learn to understand Quran, Sunnah and than each other! So that may Allah reward you for your humbleness! Learn to accept that everyone is different and learn to love Allahs miscellaneous creation in all forms and colour and ways. rest Allah knows best. JhazakAllah

[@moazsharfuddin2697]

I couldn't agree more. Ms. Mogahed is just a bleepin' feminist in hijab.

[@marz6588]

Your project fall in love with his sons wife

[@duniafana1]

Salaam alaykoum, I think the example given is not valid to confirm the point of view because as Allah mentions it the issue of Zaynab is related to the feelings the prophet SAW had, Allah knows better. And this kind of opinion is dangerous in our current society where the rate of divorce is si high

[@daisyrose-kp4rb]

It's true that we should look for compatibility but how do we really know until we start living with that person? We can only make some vague guesses about compatibility before marriage if you are a deeni person.

[@farrahasif1931]

I know what you mean. Am in a terrible situation because of not having compatibility to my spouse . No one understands me. But InshaAllah one day I will get out of this situation . I am sure

[@Thelearner1]

Mee too i agree with u sis

[@timeillusion459]

Go for nikah mut'ah

[@timeillusion459]

​Go for nikah mut'ah

[@comedyalbums7202]

Why always divorse pls are u a child 😂😂😂 try to manage it

[@abdulrehman-mn9pl]

Assalamualaikum please elaborate the word compatibility!!!!

[@inshaamin7653]

How to look for that before marriage. True colors and behaviour comes forth aftr marriage.. What to do

[@mohdareeb3995]

Totally irrelevant!!! How can someone look compatibility before marriage? Husband and wife comes closer after marriage they will know eachother deeply only after marriage. How can someone know deep connections between them before marriage?

[@user-kj7lj2wl5n]

Within boundaries. You can ask the genuine questions in presence of mahram. Also pleasee watch this video by Bilal Assad, about 'everything you need to know about marriage' He explains beautifully.

[@bilqueeshameed2266]

If you married in your extended family,you know it very well.

[@s.b.m..688]

A person can be known only by living wth him or her, but it is totally prohibited in ISLAAM to be in contact with a non mahram. So there's no question of looking for compatibility,,, coz no two minds are same,, v have to bear everything as a test from ALLAAH SWT,, so that HE WILL BRING GOOD DAYS AHEAD. ALALLAAHI YATAWAKKALIL MUTAWAKKILOON.

[@user-kj7lj2wl5n]

@@s.b.m..688 But you need to have that interaction before marriage in order to get to know him a little bit, dude Allah didnt say marry anyone, you need look out for your spouse before marriage. BUT within boundaries! In presence of a mahram. Have a list of questions prepared that you should ask your potential spouse and get to know him thro that. Plusss ask their friends and family. Etc etc.

[@shahbehrambehdin4012]

It's not necessary. That's why couples get divorced very fast in islam. Girls and Boys should know each other before marriage. Knowing doesn't mean getting physical.... 😂😅😆😁

[@josephhans2825]

ABRAHAMIC FAITHS JEW-TORAH CHRISTIAN-GOSPEL ISLAM-QURAN FINAL revelation

[@tirbanieramcharitar4183]

Compatible come both parties have to struggle for it it is a struggle gehad because our DNA is not the same ma Allah bless us all

[@bibi1012s]

Want to get good deeds read this SubhanaAllah 5 AstagfiruAllah 5 La ilaha illaAllah 5 Allah akbar 5

[@Smallpositivedozes01atatime]

Love her this lecturer, Alhamdulillah, Allah hv blessed her tongue n mind to present her dakwah fluently & beautifully with ref to Al Quran & hadith. بارك الله فيها❤️. Syukran for sharing🙂

[@charansai2476]

Not compatible how?. What happened between them?.

[@marz6588]

His father came in between

[@er.aditya3935]

It is not enough।। In islam with deen and character... You also have to accept that *earth is FLAT " 😂

[@moodyfirdous8262]

Sorry Can't agree with this fact. Choosing through compatibility is not for this Dunya. both have to do little adjustment to live together. And that's a perfect partnership. It's not Jannah here that we can find exact same whatever we want.

[@aabidashraf2914]

Thanku u have replied my question but i search for it it is a sagid hadith that plucking of eyebrows is haram kindly clear my confusion

[@piqueny8872]

Making sure the are pretty much similar in Life. If one spouse wants to travel and enjoys quality time with family/ friends And the other spouse just wants to go the masjid all day and be at his mommas house It’s not Going to work out.

[@s.b.m..688]

And moreover everyone doesn't get a second husband like OUR HOLY PROPHET SYEDNA MUHAMMAD MUSTAFAA,, SAWS,, to be so confident and betray the present husband, but these days v have to bear wth Lesser of the two evils, who knows, another one will be ok.

[@RoseMary-u7x]

MashaAllah

[@huntercampbell3743]

Compatability is a foundation of necessity 😂😂😂😂 it’s literally a no brainer 😂😂😂😂😂

[@amlh2000]

As Salam Aliekom None of us are Slaves to Allah, God , the Creator. Alhumdulliah I Believe that we All Need to Be Trained and Educated to Be Co-Workers and Companions with Allah, God, the Creator. Our Task after this Training and Education is to Create a Lasting Legacy of Peace, Prosperity and Good Health InshAllah May it Be So. May it Be Soon. May it Be Now Alhumdulliah Con we Consult on This S Annmarie Elderkin

[@actzo.18]

We must give first priority to OBLIGATIONS........before dawah abt any good deed

[@gm4658]

Stop lies. To know actual Islam please watch Christian prince videos on KZbin.

[@Positron50]

People are trying to land nd search on Mars and you are discussing for marriage on Earth since 1500 Y🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lutfabegum5282]

What comprises "compatibility" then? Please kindly let me know :)

[@kaavyasri2705]

I think you are not residing in Afghanistan, Iran, Pakistan, so talking so freely... But go and free your fellow women in Afghanistan... Possible?

[@pleasecontinuesir2756]

Sister please talk with Ex Muslim Adam seeker and EX Muslim Ahmed in KZbin

[@mohammediqbal4172]

who made u mubalig from which darululoom u r permitted FEAR ALLAH no sahabiya nor tabayeen nor Fatima radiallah acted as mubalig how u r doing this and making u tube vedios

[@abdallahyaser9289]

I think its wrong teaching about looking for compartibility. People act different under different circumstance. Hadith advises 4 things then its about compromise and holding to your faith

[@Bozok3ok]

Zeyd and Zeynep ??????? Do you know hadith say ; Messenger of Allah admired her, and he turned away muttering something which could hardly be understood, although he said aloud, 'Glory be to Allah the Immense! Glory be to-the One who turns the hearts.' Go step son house and saying glory to god turn my heart to you??? She is daughter in law . You guys something else

[@Johnny-pi1vk]

How can any woman allow 4wives for her husband?? Halala, muttah , 4wives, aatank, wife beatings etc are forbidden things in the Bible

[@donkealoha2439]

Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?' (Sahih al-Bukhari 5080)

[@citizen8491]

In Islam , Muslim men can marry 4 wives... Do Muslim men need to give his first wife's permission to marry a second wife ? Which verse in the Quran says Muslim men need to get his first wife's permission before marrying the second wife??? Any Muslims have answers???

[@reshmarh3358]

Compactability means which ...things

[@abrahamgeorge3415]

Tell us some good characters of prophet. Zainab got divorced because of Mohammed .he visited them when Zaid was not there. Finally he Married her

[@rayies8396]

when you yourself are religious you will find religious person compatible,and one thing more first cover and don't pluck your eye brows and then lecture

[@timeillusion459]

Is it applicable to Polygamist Muhammad??? Everyone knows why Zayd divorced Zaybnab. It was Muhammad's intention to do so. Muhammad wanted to do sex with Zaynab, so he made a rule in the name of Allah that one can marry adopted children. Tabari VIII:4: “One day Muhammad went out looking for Zayd. Now there was a covering of haircloth over the doorway, but the wind had lifted the covering so that the doorway was uncovered. Zaynab was in her chamber, undressed, and admiration for her entered the heart of the Prophet. After that Allah made her unattractive to Zayd.”

[@timeillusion459]

Is it applicable to Polygamist Muhammad??? Everyone knows why Zayd divorced Zaybnab. It was Muhammad's intention to do so. Muhammad wanted to do sex with Zaynab, so he made a rule in the name of Allah that one can marry adopted children. Tabari VIII:4: “One day Muhammad went out looking for Zayd. Now there was a covering of haircloth over the doorway, but the wind had lifted the covering so that the doorway was uncovered. Zaynab was in her chamber, undressed, and admiration for her entered the heart of the Prophet. After that Allah made her unattractive to Zayd.”

[@abdulhameedqurantv]

What about genotype compatibility. I think it should also be considered.

[@dixonjohnson]

They divorced because of whom that also you have to tell. Once Muhammad's eye on one girl then what will happen zayd know very well 😂😂😂

[@DIET01t5]

They both were amazing characters in deen,but not compatiable they proved its not a sin to divorce,ITS cultural mindset in pakistan india, they would accept a suicide from a girl rather than a divorce i blame parents with 0 education & 100% fear if society these people don't deserve to become parents i wish they stay like this whole life n i pray no home bless with a girl until this cultural mentality changes if HOLY PROPHET WAS ALIVE THIS DAY HE SAW would never ever let a girl suffer coz of culture💔

[@shireenmirza4247]

Jazzakallah Sister for this super necessary important advice 🤲💕

[@chandyller6773]

I'm sorry but your speaking like you know more than the prophet himself...😬

[@abusumayah9540]

Define "compatibility". The Prophet SalAllahu alaiyhi Wasallam mentioned the 4 things to look for Ina woman. He never said compatibility. So if you are gonna mention it then at least explain in detail what you mean. This lady needs to cover up properly and have some shyness.

[@EsHaQ2024]

Today's most women prefer Tall rich guys with Zero character & personally, as long as they have money. At the same time, the rich guys have mistresses on the side. Women now a days don't like hardworking man who are loyal & fear ALLAH SWT

[@georgea9697]

Compatibility is not the answer a person can go to college and meet somebody and they go through four or five years of college together and they think wow we are compatible. We have the same education. I paid $150,000 and you paid $150,000. Wow, that makes us compatible nope, it's not compatibility Even if we eat the same food, I might like a little bit more salt than my partner . I could be driving a Rolls-Royce and I meet someone in college who's driving a Chevrolet so I should just ignore that person because we are not vehicle compatible and that person could be the love of my life and I just let it slip. Just wanted to let you know that your ideology about compatibility is incorrect. It is true that you look for religious beliefs. Good character. I will give you that but most importantly undeniably mutual RESPECT! What do I mean by mutual respect? A wife is supposed to follow her religious beliefs in Islam. Husband is supposed to follow his responsibilities in Islam meaning don't go saying it's okay. I can shake this man's hands. No you can't but nowadays women tell you oh it's the Quran being modernized. It's okay. No, it's not. And for the men the same thing he thinks it's okay. I can talk to this woman on the internet. I'm not doing any sin. Yes, you are your disrespecting your wife. She's disrespecting you. So the most important thing is mutual respect. If you don't have that, you don't have a marriage. If your husband is not home does not give you the right to invite people into the house when he's not present. And if your wife is not home does not give you the right to invite her friend waiting for her in the house because you want to take a good look at her. That is not respect. We have trust no you don't if your husband's not home. His friend knocks on the door. Come back with my husband is home vice versa when your wife is not home. Her friend knocks on the door. No she does not wait in the house for her. She comes back when the wife is home. I hope you understand that it's not compatibility nobody's ever compatible. I like vanilla ice cream. My partner may like chocolate ice cream. It doesn't work the way you say. Next time you do a sermon don't get so angry. A lot of people get divorced. You're no different millions of people. Get divorced every day. Chill out relax

[@467Thiundercatxt3cb]

I thought it was buzz lightyear for a split second. Disappointed 😢

[@Buccaneer737]

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."

[@itzmehscarlet4570]

What does it exactly mean by compatibility how should we know if we’re really compatible with someone

[@aron2015]

Naa. Compatibility is important for people under 25. This is how they view it. Like they have to be best friends and we know as you get older, it's natural to drift apart. So compatibility is temporary. If your looking for your best friend, you will never find it. You may think you have but 3 years after you will be questioning it and your world would turn upside down because you gave importance to that one thing. That's why it's not most important.

[@Nevebrownie]

Marriage in Islam is like a prison for women. Once you get in, you can't get out (women are not allowed to divorce, even in an abusive relationship).

[@hafsakhanyusufzai1092]

Yes but how??

[@adrianabonitaaziz]

Ask Allah . He is closer to you than her .

[@YourLordIsOne]

assalāmu aleikom wa rahmatuLlāhi wa barakātuH, my dear sibling in Islam! I hope this message finds you well and that Allah is blessing you with His grace and mercy. I wanted to gently remind you that displaying images of women, which would additionally include non-sharia prescriped displays hijabi women’s faces and hands is not permitted in Islam, as stated by contemporary scholars such as Sheikh Uthmān Al Khamēs. This is not in regards to the matter of niqab versus hijab, rather this is in regards to the matter of posting online. I know you most likely did not do this with abhorrent intentions, and that is why I am reminding you of this ruling with love and kindness. Please take some time to reflect on this matter, and know that I am writing this out of a place of care and concern and obedience to Allah in enjoining good and forbidding evil, and not out of a place of judgment 💛💛 c

[@SharmeenBhai]

Me and my husband don't have any compatibility.. though we knew eachother before marriage.. our nature is very different.. rest there is no other issues between us.. Compatible in the sense i have a extrovert nature and he's introvert so basically he has problem with everything I do, how i look, how I speak.. I can't even joke around him as it irritates him.. can divorce be still allowed?

[@parvizdawah2641]

nonsense based on what? your opinion, which is subjective. Muhammad alayhi salatu wa sallam said you can marry woman for four reasons. for deen, for beauty, for wealth, for lineage. best is to marry for deen. in other narration he alayhi salatu wa sallam also said those who marry for deen will be successful and those marry for other reasons will be amongst the losers. regardless it works or not thats the khuja. not your opinion and it does not hold any weight. even great sahabas may Allah azza wa jal be pleased with them all, had divorces so what? even khulafa ar rashideen divorced some of their wives. whats the point of this nonsense? to portray people who divorce as bad people? if im not mistaken Ibn Masud radi Allahu anhu cursed women who pucks eyebrows and the one has it done and woman came and approached him and asked him did you curse such and such women? Ibn Masud radi Allah anhu said why should i not curse women whom Allah’s Prophet alayhi salatu wa sallam cursed? she said but you wife has pucked eyebrows. he said go check my wife she does not have it and woman came back and confirmed that his wive did not plucked her eyebrows. then Ibn Masud radi Alkahu anhu said if she had done it, i would leave her (divorce her). so whats the point? use same standards can you call great sahabas as bad? or judge them with your subjective opinion? can you say they were wrong? feminism and this red pill nonsense have nothing to do with Islam. so keep it to yourself. reason is not deen for divorce the reason is absence of deen. when there is no deen one goes extreme or both goes extreme. and your experience keep it to yourself there are over 8 billion people and each has personal experience, it does not make it right. Quran and authentic Sunnah decides right from wrong. my advice is dont jump into topics which you have no clue about. know differences and basics of aqeedah/ fiqh, usul/furuh, qati dalalah/ ikhtilaf, ijmah ect before you speak. what i saw indirectly but clearly what Muhammad alayhi salatu wa sallam said is not enough/ not true, my experience (feminism) is enough/true.. auzubillah. to set a condition in marriage you should have evidence from Quran or authentic Sunnah. and Allah azza wa jal knows best

[@longdistanceliverpool7963]

You don’t need compatibility because opposites attract. Instead, what you need to look for a deen and akhlaq as prophet said SAW. After that, responsibilities and duties. However, people are not getting or understanding what that means.

[@aabiryani8433]

Some opposites attract as they are compatible and some opposites repel as they aren't

[@purplelove3666]

So fire will attract water? A good person will love a narcissist?

[@bledarmorna8889]

❤❤❤

[@TheMediaMachine]

100% spot. It's just not enough even if person has faith, they can also bring their jahiliyah with them, bad habits, poor communication skills, feminism nonsense, all kinds of stuff, even how they think. Some even play with hadith and Qur'an to get their way instead of building a positive healthy relationship because they have this broken toxic mentality. Then they may not even educated either, many things man. So take your time, look even at who the person family is, see how they interact, see how this person interacts with people you know too, do your research man because some wear masks, narcissitic, bipolar, or just toxic. Finding someone with Imaan, really Imaan not some fake show and chemistry is not easy. It's hard.

[@crazychroniclez]

Be VERY careful when you say looking for deen isnt enough. That is a very dangerous subject. Cause remember islam understands that people arent compatible and should divorce that is also part of deen. And even before that alot of people say they saw deen, but when you see the reasons for divorce, you realize the problem was lack of deen in the issue.

[@mikemiranda1282]

A lot of muslims believe that your marriage is pre-ordained so if that’s true why would God allow these two people to get married that she is talking about and then have them get divorced especially if God is all knowing God Could just put compatible people together then there would be no divorce….

[@tanveershaikh550]

How will one gets to know how compatible they are for each other ? Unless they date each other ? Which is haram yeah . So your idea of looking for compatibility before marriage is not possible. Unless there is some other way of knowing the compatibility.