Nobody Likes You? Why You Can't Connect with People (And How to Fix It)

[@Simply_Selina]

Hey lovely peeps! I was gone for a while and then tried a couple of new things for this video, so it took me longer to produce at well... However, I definitely want to get back into uploading more often! Anyhow, let me know what you think about this video. Any feedback is appreciated 💖 - Have a lovely rest of the day 🥰

[@leonpb1409]

I definitely struggle with finding the right questions

[@Simply_Selina]

Thank you for sharing! ❤️ Are there any situations you struggle in particular with finding the right questions?

[@Tungradian]

Don’t know how this showed up on my feed, I’ve seen the thumbnail and just wanted to say - regardless if it might be inappropriate - that that smile is gorgeous! Gorgeous

[@Simply_Selina]

Thank you for the compliment! 🤗 I hope you also liked the video

[@moviemellon]

Asking the right question and actively listening summarizes every healthy relationship. It’s not about talking for the sake of talking, but being an active participant in an ongoing conversation. Wonderful video! Great job!

[@Simply_Selina]

Thank you so much 🥰 You're right, those are the building blocks of good conversations and therefore relationships! I've the feeling between all those "try THIS hack and EVERYONE will fall in love with you" videos, the most effective basics are often forgotten.

[@moviemellon]

@ honestly, there is no real "secret hack" to any human relationship. Just be there. Be active. That’s all there is to it. (However finding the balance and not become overbearing, that’s the hard part)

[@alextheshrimp]

I really gotta learn to listen. I sense how I am often interrupting people and directly give advice, that I even at that time feel is not needed 😔

[@Simply_Selina]

Realizing that is the first step for improvement! I think this happens to a lot of us, so don't beat yourself up over it. Just try to improve/get better one step at a time 🤗

[@ShuvoChowdhuryOvi]

Wow, this is such an important topic that so many people struggle with! The way you break down why we sometimes feel disconnected from others is really eye-opening. I appreciate how you offer actionable advice to help build better connections. It’s a must-watch for anyone looking to improve their relationships and confidence. Thanks for sharing this valuable content!

[@Simply_Selina]

Thank you so much for this amazing comment ❤️ I always try to make videos with clear ways to improve (rather than just some big words), so I'm very happy I managed to do that in this video 🥰 Feel free to share the video with someone who might benefit from it as well, that would mean a lot. I hope you like my upcoming videos as well!