Normal Boyfriend vs INFJ Boyfriend

INFJ Boyfriends be like... (comedy sketch)
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[@FrankJames]

Watch "Normal INFJ vs Extreme INFJ" next 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y5WvZ6mdh6uri8U

[@inesatt1313]

You should do an INFP having a date with a ISTJ Them becoming friends and them having a life together

[@Marietaaa]

De novia infj por favor aunque me identifique con este JSJSKSKSK

[@alisap5650]

Could I ask for ENFJ boyfriend comedy skit as well? xD they r 2nd rarest in male after all.

[@inesatt1313]

@@alisap5650 I agree I would love to see it!!!

[@Emily_Hurley]

He should have kept the gift a surprise! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@yumedreamdream]

"Now I wanna watch it again to see your reaction". So right! 😂

[@dianaselnekovicova948]

I am INFJ wife and I do this all the time😂with different people

[@tinaperez7393]

It's not as much fun if you can't share it! 😂😩

[@sassylittleprophet]

INFJ with autism, felt this SO much

[@Ann963]

Shhhhh! 😅

[@Squintillions]

Do this with my teen son.

[@fallen_moons]

In summary: Normal: Uh.. ok, alright INFJs: *insecure rambling noises*

[@BlackWolf_1029]

SO TRUE

[@KanyeGlazerExtreme]

True😂

[@ChasingTea]

“Can you EVER answer a question with just Yes or No?” “Yes. Like, it’s Yes. The answer is Yes. But there’s… details. It’s a qualified Yes. I wish to explain.” My boyfriend, who asked me five minutes ago whether my new shoes fit: 😑

[@Stretch09]

I evil-laughed to this one... Can so relate 😂

[@outlaw_riot]

As an INFJ that last one I felt in my soul, going to family events is exhausting even though they usually work out fine 😭

[@BlackWolf_1029]

Fr T-T

[@mjfanta1915]

What the heck kinda good family do you have?

[@rextek5421]

Literally me rn, had a family game night yesterday and it was super fun but today all imma do is play stardew valley and watch youtube videos, especially the Frank James channel

[@michelacherchi]

Mine works just fine, but even so...is so... 💁🏻‍♀️✨ exhausting✨😂

[@nicaleff]

I'm trying to recover after 10 minutes long phone call. I hope tomorrow I'll be somewhat okay

[@liaartist3671]

Damn. Even if this is about being a boyfriend, it encompasses quiet a lot of INFJ girlfriend too 😅

[@Wennymoon]

Ikr? I was gonna comment that

[@A.nony.Mouse2]

@FrankJames INFJ Gift giving: I got you that one season of the show you loved as a kid that you never got to see that you told me about three years ago.

[@JRueTee]

OMG, I literally did this for my older brother! (I'm an INFJ, ofc) It was nearing his birthday. I barely ever see him, but at one point, I had watched some Archer videos with him and noticed he loved them. So when I walked past Archer Season 8 on a shelf at a local store, I nabbed it. He was shocked when he opened the giant box in which I placed the singular DVD. Best gift I've gotten for him lol 😂

[@vivienne_lavida]

Pretty much 😂 🎁

[@BestBFam]

Yes.

[@esther_inbloom]

We don't like meaningless, insincere gifts. Gifts must actually be something they're going to like, and it suits them. If you can't find that, then at least be sincere.

[@nula14]

"All of the things that I thought of just didn't seem thoughtful enough." Me, INFJ Female .... LOL!

[@vapx0075]

Ironic, yeah. Also: See you at Christmas!

[@sueo4347]

Me too! ‘So…! Here is a gift certificate!!’ 😂😂😂

[@sw9618]

Frank’s wife has gotten used to expecting nothing bc Frank overthinks and panics. But now he can say, “hey we got two kids now though that’s something.”

[@shanecastleberry4176]

Im so glad he didn’t say Demure on the thoughtful part

[@Mary-fo2uv]

what does that even mean

[@gianlucamarchese]

@@Mary-fo2uv Brain rot Gen Alpha slang

[@sandralee5502]

Thats weird lol

[@Nina21_]

😂😂😂😂

[@alexgiesbrecht531]

Yeah this infj thinks that word should get deleted from the English language. Its too..... Demure. 🤢🤮

[@briannalarmore4759]

"You wanted me to propose. Okay, I just didn't want to step on your toes." Literally the convo my husband of 23 years had.

[@lindajordan8161]

Love it. I'm pretty sure my late father was an INFJ, and whenever we watched anything together, I'd see him in my peripheral vision sneaking sideways glances to check my reaction.

[@joshfactor1]

they say a boyfriend's come to town; they call him mr. frank james

[@MissesWitch]

"it's going to take me atleast a day and a half to recover " is so accurate !

[@laviniasnow4494]

😂

[@irienerd8178]

LOL, as an INTJ, the last part is SO true we need at least a day and a half to recover from any prolonged social interactions...

[@Ms.Delphine1204]

I can confirm this 😂

[@Abyss777]

forget a day, i need MIN a week but usually prefer a month lol

[@solosietastar]

Confirmed XD I've tried explaining to extroverted friends and family and they never understand

[@theliterarytarot]

What you said about the infj boyfriend with movies…I mean I’m a woman but that is something I do all the time with everyone…and to see the movie through their eyes 😂

[@StephanieJeanne]

And if they don't get it or love it the same, I feel sad.🤣

[@terri2494]

Now with KZbin reaction videos I don’t have to wait for someone to watch a movie with me.

[@nula14]

Me, too. That's why I love watching reaction videos on KZbin, i.e. people reacting to things I already know by heart and love.

[@hailmare]

to see the movie through their eyes is sooo relatable

[@NightCloudI]

​@@nula14same 😅

[@JasonMoir]

"Charming personality quirks" or signs of emotional trauma...probably both.

[@cafe1925]

We need normal something vs ISFP something. We’re always overlooked!

[@SelenaSea]

👋😊 Putting in another vote for normal something v. ISFP something! ~ ENFP ✨️

[@thepoetandtheprimrose3790]

This, and also Normal Something vs ISTP Something. I've had quite a few close ISFP friends and they are anything but ordinary 😊 And my ISTP, the love of my life, is not like a lot of people. He's just on another level lol

[@chrisstahl2653]

"You interpret my maladaptive ways of coping with life as charming personality quirks" is so hilarious and so accurate 🤣 - an INFJ

[@kyerinn]

That one spoke to me the most.

[@charmanderlover6433]

I'm going to be perfectly honest. If I ever get a boyfriend and he comes up to me awkwardly and explains that he wanted to get me a gift, but wanted it to be a really thoughtful gift, but everything he could think of he didn't think it was thoughtful enough and ended up not getting anything, I'd start crying because that is genuinely the sweetest thing I've heard. It shows that he wants to find something that would be special, not just any old thing that I may or may not need, but something personal, something that a lot of thought went into. I don't care if he got me something or not, but just knowing that he was thinking of me and wanted to find something but couldn't find anything satisfactory in his eyes is so more than enough. It's okay, hypothetical imaginary INFJ boyfriend, I just appreciate you thinking of me and your effort to find something truly special. Edit: It occurs to me that I should specify. If this were to happen GENUINELY in a HEALTHY relationship, this would be my genuine reaction. NOT if the guy is pretending and in reality just forgot so he pulled this out of his back pocket to use as an excuse. But if he genuinely took the time to think and really tried to come up with something, but couldn't and honestly and sheepishly admits what had been going on in his head to me like what Frank showed, I would simply be touched by his honesty and his desire to find something thoughtful special for me. And for those wondering, INFP here.

[@raddaks2039]

Thanks, filing this away under "things I can say when I forget to get a gift" -ENTP

[@joelbled7648]

I don't recomend you that. I was living for seven years with a ENTP partner, and is so much better for you guys use your charisma to say that you prefer go to buy the gift together.

[@barkforcottontail]

This seems very strange to me. Does your imaginary INFJ boyfriend not understand what you would like to receive? Does he not know your taste well? Does he even pay attention at your words?

[@maoudante6006]

Ooh is this validation? I swear, it's not like I'm tearing up or anything! Also, if it is ok for you, may I ask your type? I am guessing an XNFX or maybe an XNTJ? Probably XNFP though... (I hope this doesn't offend you, sorry).

[@melisaarteaga3110]

​@@raddaks2039😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 LMAOOOO, You guys are terrible XD. So funny!

[@hellworld2475]

I would invite her to my grandma's birthday

[@vapx0075]

On second thought it depends on how stable the atmosphere's going to be. Not to mention how far into the relationship-meeting the grandmother is pretty serious... After you've spent that much time worrying about people it's best you don't invite her after all. Thoroughly exhausting to deal with that much mental stressload.

[@codreaming9304]

I’m so grateful that FJ has brought a community of us (INFJ’s) together. Just wish we had this kind of platform and access to knowledge decades ago.

[@StephanieJeanne]

😂😂 The outfits were a riot to start. I love normal bf stripes and plaid! The movie watching killed me! I have done that so many times! Hilarious INFJ-isms in this. People love our quirky, maladaptive personality traits. 😆 Hilarious sketch, Frank!🙌💜

[@FrankJames]

thanks!

[@BlossomAndGuinea]

INFJ boyfriend is so thoughtful and sweet! I might be biased because I’m an INFJ, lol, but seriously, between the two, I’d prefer the INFJ type as a partner

[@jenniferhanses]

LOL INTJ Girlfriend responses: ;) "I know I look bad, but I don't know why." "I have a book for that. Let me just go get it, and we'll fix you right up." "You are so wrong, and I am probably wrong, too, so there's really no reason to have a conflict." "Hmm... You may be correct. But being wrong is bad. Let's run some hypotheticals so we can figure out what our actual problem is and fix it." "I think the reason our relationship works so well is because you interpret my maladaptive ways ... as charming quirks." "Well, yes. That is correct. Everyone has flaws. The trick is finding someone whose flaws either don't bother you or are complementary to your own. That would be why we're made for each other." "Let's watch this movie .. I want to watch your reaction." "Not sure if I should be flattered or sad that we won't get to share the experience of seeing it the first time together. Are you bracing for me to give it a scathing critique?" "I wanted to get you a gift... so I got you nothing." "Aww. You're overthinking this and that has made me sad. Should I make you a calendar with gift categories like they do for anniversary years so that each month you give me a small gift in that category? Would it keep you from tailspinning? "Sometimes I think about the unlucky guys ..." "Ooo, so this is the beginning of your villain arc? Sounds fun. Why not enjoy it as a game for now since you'd be conflicted by it in real life. Also there are many alternate universes and timelines where I'd be with those guys and you'd be with someone else. This is just the one where we get to enjoy being together. " "So what you're saying is you want me to propose to you? Okay. I didn't want to step on your toes." "Good. So that's over and clear and we're now engaged. But since you were so off the cuff about it, you get the job of planning our romantic getaway celebration." "Sorry girlfriend, I need recovery time from grandma's birthday." "Okay. So we'll stay in, I'll cook you dinner, and we'll watch a movie so that we don't have to talk."

[@kyerinn]

Aw, those are sweet. INTJs and INFJs do get along well, generally. Signed, an INFJ

[@vapx0075]

INFJ here, always loved the company of INTJ. Best conversations in my entire life.

[@ShobhaDixit-o4m]

"I kinda feel understood." ~INFJ

[@thomasdemetz6145]

0:30 😆 It feels really weird to see myself from the outside. It sound kind of crazy, but to me it feels totally natural.

[@jdptelf7366]

🤣 hahahaha watching people reaction over what i have watched is sooo relateable

[@Pl3p]

Why is "i wanna watch it again just to see your reaction" so real? lol

[@faolanliath6687]

My enfj wife was able to teach my infj self enough of the common tounge of humanity to get by in the world. The patience of a saint that one. ❤️🐺❤️

[@ceetteet]

As an INFJ I sometimes feel bad for the women who won’t get to experience my INTJ fiancé, but only a little. 😂 Tough luck babes!

[@vapx0075]

Best wishes. :)

[@gailnichols842]

As an INFJ I feel the same, bad for women who will never experience my ENFJ husband.

[@feelstora3]

Even as a female INFJ I can relate to a lot of them. Especially the last one regarding recovering at least 1,5 days after any social event :D

[@trinaq]

Haha, I too have watched movies on my own, and then with others, simply to gage their reactions. Misunderstood INFJs, unite!

[@cellgrrl]

This channel is a good vicarious method of having an INFJ boyfriend.

[@ItsLorenzo86]

Frank never ceases to amaze me. Excellent job, FJ!

[@trillium7582]

Man. This is also a stone-cold accurate representation of INFJ girlfriend and INFJ "You would have been happier with a woman who enjoys live theater" wife.

[@TheHonourableDaisyWells]

The movie one was too relatable 😅 Now I'm gonna send this video to my friend and watch their reaction to it...

[@JRueTee]

@TheHonourableDaisyWells I already did lol. It was actually quite awkward because I sent it to a girl that is probably my closest female friend, and she said, "lol did u send that to ur gf too" 💀

[@exdamariis]

Nooo not the overthinking the thoughtful perfect gift that never ends up materializing and we show up empty handed😭

[@MementoX1013]

OMG, I can so relate to the "let's watch this movie I've already seen so I can watch your reaction" bit. I didn't know that was an INFJ thing.

[@mskittygemma]

"Take me at least a day and a half to recover" Me when I go to a restaurant either family.

[@UltraFG5488]

You can't miss grandma's birthday.

[@beccyboocoobee590]

I'm an isfj and my husband is an infj and this is very accurate lol and I love all of these things about him (and more of course!) ❤️ He's my whole world! 🥰 I'm so lucky to have him in my life 💕

[@HoneyPulp-l2z]

Really

[@Nadiesalevivo]

At least he is honest and thoughtful.

[@pearl5016]

😂 felt very called out and seen by the movie one. I have done this so many times. Thank you lol.

[@jrobertr]

The proposal one is so spot on. 0 issues committing, just didn’t want to steal your thunder 🤣

[@rextek5421]

As an INFJ non-native speaker, I have never heard of the term "maladaptive" before but after a quick Google search I have never seen a word describe me in a better way. Thanks for the vocab and general life lesson

[@MattKeepsFish]

Good to come back and see your passion for the subject intact. Started watching your vids in my BA, and now going into my Master’s in Psychotherapy. You were a big part of the process, man. Stay cool and attractive.

[@ReikiTora]

Normal bfs wait 5 minutes for me to not get busy at work when they take a special trip to see me, infjs apparently just bounce and waist the plane tickets or drive or whatever

[@yanamclaughlin]

INFJ BF= Cool Aspergers Vampire

[@Flaimbot]

i absolutely feel the last one. visiting my parents for 2h at the weekend is such a draining activity.

[@KatrinaRomanovna]

That makes me wonder... how does an INFJ brain work? 😏😏😏

[@gianlucamarchese]

As an INFJ I can assure you it's something modern science is still trying to understand

[@terri2494]

@@gianlucamarchese We INFJs spend our whole lives trying to figure that out. It’s especially difficult when you’re a child and no one else understands you either. They just try to fix you so you’ll be more normal.

[@SelenaSea]

Aww ​@terri2494 So true! My lovely niece is INFJ in a family of STJs (Mum, Dad, Sister), which was often pretty challenging for her as a kid. But they've all grown closer and have come to cherish the differences more now that she's 21. Or maybe she's just got better at morphing into different versions of herself in different situations! 😄💛💫

[@roryasrorri701]

Wait... i think the word you were looking for is malfunction.

[@JakanMcCaucaugh-zf4ch]

Like a tumble dryer full of sauce-pans

[@uniscorch]

This is why INFJs are wildly attractive to INFPs. So mysterious and complex and sincere and in need of a hug he probably won't let me give him!

[@Nempo13]

It isn't that we don't let you, it is that we are so starved of touch that when someone DOES touch us it freaks us out as it is such an alien concept and feeling.

[@yayalu8650]

Dunno man, I think enfjs give infjs a run for their money if we’re talking bout INFP crushes

[@CarrieArt7]

The gift one was so true, I can't think of a gift special enough, so I just give people cash.

[@J.Panxer]

I'm intj, and I've been with my infj for 15 years. It never gets old. It's chaotic af, but it's my job to keep her from jumping into an alligator's mouth to see how it makes her "feel".

[@namelessbrat7197]

"jumping into an alligator's mouth to see how it makes her 'feel'." This doesn't sound INFJ at all. INFJs are known to be very calculated, careful and like to plan ahead thanks to Ni. Additionally, INFJs don't like to experience things first hand if they can experience them through proxy. Are you sure about your partner's type?

[@J.Panxer]

​@@namelessbrat7197 Hyperbole. Cartoonish exaggeration for humorous or dramatic effect.

[@namelessbrat7197]

@@J.Panxer yes, it was obvious that it was a hyperbole. Wasn't it clear that I commented on the underlying message that you wanted to convey through it? I doubt we'll be able to understand each other. But to exemplify: It's like me describing my INTJ friend as "a golden retriever who wants to tackle hug you, and his barks are nonsensical background happy noises." This "hyperbole" represents a state that doesn't apply to an INTJ. The same way your descriptions are unrelatable to an INFJ. Chaotic, seeking to experience emotions first hand, risk taking...etc

[@florencenightanday2672]

I’m an INFJ..I took the test multiple times to be sure . I stuck my hand into water teeming with eels cos I wanted to feel them . I got my finger bit .

[@MarcusCaddock]

"Nothing seemed thoughtful enough so I got you nothing." As an INTJ, I can sympathize with that since I usually do not know what people want and only what I assume they want. I would prefer giving nothing but then decide their disappointment at a lousy gift is better than their anger at not receiving a gift at all.

[@fishnewt1331]

That gift one was funny. My personal flavor of INFJ is not contemplating what gift to get someone. Rather, it’s contemplating whether I should get them a gift to begin with and fold anyways thinking about an improbable situation where they are disappointed I didn’t get them a gift.

[@boraappu]

I can't tell you how many times that gift thing has happened to me 😭 'Only thinking, no action' is my motto 😮‍💨

[@Savapine]

I need an INFJ! I promisse im a very sane and absolutely after-therapy ENTP... Absolutely!

[@multifangirl2155]

that's just basically me as a gf lol

[@briannaharris3856]

INFJ here Everything is totally spot on! I love this! I'm like this in almost all my relationships, not just with boyfriends 😅 At least, I probably would be that way with my boyfriend when I actually get one

[@EhsanAlizada929]

As, an INFJ that's sooo true (I'm single) lol

[@Nempo13]

Most of us are. They think our wierd ways are cute... but won't ever ask US out so we tend to never find someone.

[@JRueTee]

@Nempo13 Yeah...somehow we have to find the courage to ask someone else out. Ik, it's crazy and almost certainly never gonna happen lol

[@fjmusic730]

Oh, frank, I really appreciate how you make all these videos in ample amounts of time, you’ve really been curing my boredom by a ton! Keep it up.

[@trinaq]

I've too broken off plans after birthday parties, and other family gatherings. Too much socialisation can really drain this introvert, though I'm apparently convincing at pretending to be an extrovert.

[@Nurichiri]

I'm an INFJ with gift-giving as one of my love languages, so the whole "I got you nothing" made me very twitchy.

[@kyerinn]

Same. Usually, I can’t stop with just one gift. (I need to hedge my bets a bit.)

[@imMittensKitten]

Y'know, at least he's honest. That's a good thing :D

[@Myangela1000]

Bruhhh as an enfp why am i relating to every single thing so perfectly Especially the last one like i tell my friend I'm going out somewhere and she's immediately lile ok see you day after tomorrow Also the overthinking the gift thing even the seeing the reaction bruh 😅😂

[@ceilinh6004]

I relate to the INFJ boyfriend even though 1. I am not an INFJ, and 2. I am not a boy.

[@mintmintmintmintmintmintmint]

I've been waiting for this one and it was so worth it! Yes! Now I can hear a list of my own tendencies acted out to me in skit form and agree that they represent me!

[@LysippeLee]

"Now I want to watch it again to watch your reaction" is such an INFJ thing.

[@darkspice6339]

Now imagine an INFJ bf with an INTJ gf. Boy oh boy.

[@SkyChady]

Yeah, @FrankJames should do a video on that. lol

[@blessyie643]

College is making me have an emotional meltdown and this is literally my coping mechanism - INFP

[@GhazalMahmoudi]

Omg! The movie thing and the gift thing is so on point 😂

[@AshleyLorenAkaAdou]

Where can I get myself an INFJ boyfriend ? They are charming😍

[@Sunset553]

He’s in the tights section

[@Lilkemet93]

Here 😂

[@Ms.Delphine1204]

I’m INTJ, but the part about rewatching a movie just to see someone else watch it cut me deep to my soul 🫣😂

[@MikaNamika]

INFJ as a girlfriend as well. I can personally confirm this, since I actually remember saying some of those lines and thinking the rest

[@Gottathinkaboutit]

I'm an INTJ woman who proposed to my INFJ husband (then boyfriend) & we are about to celebrate 18 years of marriage this month (tomorrow at the time of this post) 😊

[@wada-wada]

Your reaction is the movie that I like to watch - INFJ

[@BottlenoseTheSeaWing]

I’m not a boy but the inconvenient family events is SO ACCURATE. I felt that in my SOUL.

[@maurock98]

You cracked my ass up with that gift joke hahahahahha omg so true.

[@MetaGiga]

“I wanna watch it again to watch your reaction.” This flat out called me out more than my mom did when I was eagerly watching her watch a video I wanted her to watch

[@leviathan005]

0:46-1:16 is two of my most personal thoughts I’ve had over and over again, how dare you see into my mind XD

[@danastalyn]

I am an infj girl and i dont want to date another infj. I am tired of myself and barely now how to deal with me, and now I have to deal with another me? No thanks haha

[@MsBhappy]

The gifts explanation is painfully relatable!!!

[@min_e_official]

They don't speak that much 😭 But the movie though, so true. Sometimes or most of the times, they don't tell their significant other. Instead of talk, they act 😂

[@RockNRecipes]

Thought I was clicking on a funny video not a documentary of all my relationships.😳

[@izzysparksart]

BAHAH help this is all too accurate 😭😭😭

[@shawnmccammon]

I would think that being an INFJ would give me special innate skills in the gift giving department but I can never seem to get it right so I often bail out with a "shopping experience".

[@zeke6305]

"Now I wanna watch it again to see your reaction." Why so accurate? 😭

[@rose_grden]

The movie one is sooo real 😭

[@Chebab-Chebab]

Friend: Want to go out tonight to meet some new people? Me (who already knows tonight's routine): Thanks, but I'm not mentally prepared for it.

[@SparkleSunflower123]

As an INFJ I feel personally attacked by the movie scene!😂

[@animenmusic16]

1:00 I did that stuff myself once 😭

[@pinkymermaid9967]

His INFJ boyfriend version reminds me of Edward from Twilight. 😂

[@ivy5554]

As an INFJ the gift giving one really got me, LITERALLY me for most people's birthday. 😅 The anxiety over searching for a gift and then ending up with nothing because giving a thoughtless gift that's not good enough seems even worse, then feeling like a shitty friend (but also, they never put in much effort for you anyway, soooo) 💔

[@zvaezi8066]

The last one😂😂😂

[@melanieleighroberts3673]

🤣🤣🤣 that last frame! HAHAH #grandma! #gold

[@stacierichardson4475]

😂HA, I can't stop laughing, spot on

[@sa_sma]

‏‪ ‏‪0:30‬‏ Damn I do this all the time I can never watch a movie with my partner I haven't seen before😭

[@l.ving_]

wym why?? 😭

[@tiantian6956]

My INFJ mum usually says "We're both right, so there's no reason to start a quarrel". Every. Time. Even when I want to get mad at a random shop assistant that acts mean and doesn't seem to know about customer service. 😂 "You're both right in your own way". In times like this I just can't help but flip to my ESTJ side (I am an INFP myself)😅

[@robertgamer3112]

I am an INTP, but I actually relate to most of this.

[@Gabriel-x3d2f]

The fact ive said some of these things before i discovered i was this type is making me laugh harder than it should. Enjoying laughing at myself and the feeling of not being alone or crazy

[@triplejmom7826]

As a female infj I was surprised how much I had in common with the infj male. Not everything, but still 😂

[@maoudante6006]

I mean, is there really any major non-physical difference...?😅 ~INFJ guy.

[@triplejmom7826]

@@maoudante6006 🤣🤣

[@lauren9667]

The last one spoke to my soul. Large gatherings, especially of the family kind, will suck the life out of me for days. Sometimes weeks.