Not Talking To People Is Ruining Your Life

Watch this until the end, you will not regret it.
Thought I would share with you guys my journey in a storytelling aspect.
I really hope you gain something from this video, whether it is a laugh, value or simply entertainment.
If you enjoyed this, please feel free to subscribe and also comment what you thought about the video, I am always looking to improve!
Remember what the Mexican said...
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0:00 - 1:01 Intro
1:01 - 2:34 A Lonely Summer
2:34 - 3:45 First Day Of College
3:45 - 4:40 Finding Out About Self Improvement
4:41 - 8:14 The Mysterious Encounter
8:14 - 10:11 The Switch
10:11 - 10:55 Portugal
10:55 - 11:39 The Talk
11:39 - 12:52 Changes
12:52 - 13:18 A 17 Year Olds Word
13:18 - 13:40 Examples

[@jeffsterling2809]

I think a lot of people can relate to this. I was a very socially anxious teenager who virtually did nothing but play video games. Exposure therapy is very real. It's almost surprising how eager people are to share about themselves and engage if you're brave enough to make the first move. Before you even realise it, talking becomes second nature and your world opens up. Great video mate.

[@amani24k]

100% mate I totally agree, I feel as soon as you expose your self, or talk to one person you get the feeling like you want to conquer the world! I'm glad you enjoyed the video bro :)

[@ihatehearts]

it sucks because i get all this social momentum talking to people and making connections, but whenever summer/christmas break comes its back to being alone and i have to start all over again the next semester. i hate breaks. they’re boring.

[@jeffsterling2809]

@@ihatehearts Hang out with your family and reach out to people man, enjoy the free time and learn something, it's only as lonely and boring as you make it

[@marcust478]

If you always have to make the first move and nobody is going towards you, it means people are only being nice and tolerating you and the interaction is just superficial fluff that will be forgotten as fast as possible. Or people just wanting to talk about themselves while you pretend you care. That's exactly the problem with the kind of social interaction this video is encouraging you to do. And truly, adults, do not care about this. Too busy with the real world. This could be for teens or kids but you're hypocrites and you do not care about real connections. You just want more cancer to post and virtue signaling on cancergram. So maybe you can post something about how edgy and adventurous and open minded you are. He cared so much about his Mexican interaction that not only he never did see the person again and never bothered to have a way to keep in touch, he didn't cared enough to learn the language properly and do not embarass himself. Muchimas? There's no such word in Spanish. Muchas or muchísimas would be correct. Just another motivational cope channel, alongside all the other 5000 ones that already exist. Just what we need. More dellusional cancer to add to the pile.

[@andreharris144]

i look forward to experience your comment for myself

[@Igneous01]

You're blessed for learning this so young and taking action. Good for you 👍 I'm 32 and I've become a shut in. Can't say I was ever very social outside of work. I had a work persona and that was about it. I didn't want people to know too much about me and I didn't like attention. I've met hundreds of people in my life and I didn't really enjoy spending my time around them. I guess at some point I got so tired of trying to be social that I became indifferent. I've spent years just living from one room to another. You know it's bad when the moment I got put into solitary confinement for 3 days, it felt familiar and comforting. I still found beautiful moments in my life despite my isolation. Unfortunately, I can't really remember them that well anymore. Memories can only be made when they are shared with someone else. I had so many memories by myself that I never shared with anyone... that at some point they are lost. I've also experienced episodes of madness in my life, and it's bleaked my perspective on life. I went through a lot of messed up stuff in life. You're blessed for having your family and for learning this early on. Don't be like me.

[@amani24k]

Wow. Thank you for sharing your story brother. I’m glad to see you have found beautiful moments in your life, hopefully many more to come 🙏. I appreciate the kind words, stay blessed.

[@HolyChad]

26 and my life has been almost similar word for word. I’ve lost my all my friends a few years ago and got dumped last January, got a possible good thing going and if that doesn’t work out i’m not sure i’d be able to get back out in the dating world let alone socialize correctly outside of a work environment. it feels like i am older than i really am and just completely lost touch with society and have found it difficult to go back to the gym where i used to release my stress.

[@vicmoreno.a]

This is going to blow up someday I promise. I'm glad my recommendations brought me here, keep up the good work! This isn't just entertaining but also incredibly useful

[@amani24k]

Thank you Vicente! I’m glad you found this video entertaining and useful, see you in the next one ☝️

[@_arjhin_]

You literally made me cry, I don't know why. But it feel like you and I had the same summer, exactly the same summer. And I'm suffering from being antisocial in my 20's. But thank you mate, for opening my mind. "stop overthinking, just do it for yourself" is what I've been missing these 2-3 years, thanks again for this.

[@amani24k]

Wow. I’m so so so glad this resonated with you mate. I wish you all the best, take care. 🙏😎

[@nicolasbolas2247]

I was a social kid until I turned 11 and was given access to video games and the Internet. Completely crippled my social skills. Now I'm 22 and only just getting better. I always thought I was an introverted, but then I realized I loathed being alone. I'm just an extrovert with bad social skills I'm working to get better though. Today I have talked to a few people at the gym when I normally speak to 0. Nothing changes if nothing changes bros

[@amani24k]

That is great bro, good for you. I feel like, if we label ourself 'introverts' this restricts us and becomes reality. But as you labelled yourself an extrovert with bad social skills - this just shows theres always room for improvement and doesn't trap you in a box. Looking strong bro I see your pfp, what did you train in the gym today?

[@xoster1272]

Same age here man, I started gaming at around the same age too. You are absolutely right, it really does shut yourself from the real world and make you believe it's always been the same.

[@conforzo]

Me too. Spent 20 years of my life thinking I was introverted as hell. I just had such a low confidence. Why is it that unattractive guys can still be confident? I dont know, but if they can I can too.

[@user-od9mf5tz7y]

this situation is similar to mine. I'm anti-social, in that i have serious difficulties forming and maintaining friendships. im not shy, or scared of talking to people, i just DONT like anyone. ive had so many bad experiences when i talk to people. people are horrible, and have only ever served to make me A.) feel bad about myself B.) weigh me down C.) manipulate me. literally all my trauma stems from 'trying to talk to people' and getting f'd over. its been extremely depressing and lonely, but i think its during this time of isolation that ive garnered so much depth to my character. its like im omnipresent, and outside of everyone's scope. i learned there is power to being alone.

[@amani24k]

Thank you for sharing your story, it seems like you have been through a lot in these situations, and I love being alone sometimes too! It feels great. I hope you do find value in these videos my friend.

[@user-gk3ks7jg8y]

Respect bro. I'm the exact same way.

[@joebyrd1119]

People are more often than not TROUBLE.

[@marioncarbonell6047]

I Can relate to this on a personal level fully, but. Trust me, you just ended up meeting the wrong people, it happens, especially when we crave friendships and are desperate for human interactions, I remember being “friends” with people that would degrade me and I’d let them just so I could be part of their group, but it turns out, I was never seen as a friend, just a rat, I was the one they’d pick on for entertainment, they wouldn’t laugh with me, they were laughing at me, but I was too much in denial to accept it, after I did, eventually I ended up lonely again, but luckily, I ended up finally meeting new people who I ended up becoming extremely good friends with, who took interest in my well-being, genuinely care about me, invite me to go out to events with them, trust me, not everyone is an inconsiderate cunt, there are still wholesome awesome people out there, you’re going to get hurt, it’s part of life, but trust me, you can’t close yourself off completely, the truth is, even the most introverted of people crave friendships, most of us humans live life for other people, they give us purpose, when we have family and friends, it just makes life so much more beautiful to share awesome moments with.

[@mattgamei5vods649]

You hurt and manipulate back towards the ones who hurt you. Make good friends, and make terrible enemies, as they can be your punching bag.

[@gunnasintern]

i already have a handful of friends in this life who i talk to, regularly plus i talk to people daily online anyway. grateful for my support circles. everyone’s version of a social life is different, it’s best to experiment with what works best for you. at the end of the day, socializing should be able feel free flowing and natural

[@amani24k]

Yes I agree that it should be free flowing and natural, however if people (like old me) have no experience in talking to people, we definitely need to go through those awkward ones, in order to make them better. And 100% everyone’s social life is different!

[@goerge-q6x]

This has to be a sign in some sort of way, cause i struggle with this, really really badly. and im in my early 20s... been going to the gym 5 days a week for over a year, trying to get more social but its hard. I got that spotlight effect really badly, i feel like at every moment, everyone is looking at just me and judging every single move and breath.. This video helps a lot im going to try and change for the beter slowly, cause otherwise ill crash and burn much love, really helpfull video

[@amani24k]

Let’s go Jonathan! I look forward to seeing your progress, make sure to keep me updated in the comments. 🫡👍

[@pyramidhead7780s]

Funny how it always comes down to "just do it!", like thanks, it's not like I've tried before, what a great help.

[@amani24k]

Literally bro, I myself overcomplicate things way too much sometimes, when the fix for it is a simple “just do it”

[@arslanmanzoor6862]

Videos like these help me realise I'm not the only one who has struggled with these sorts of issues

[@amani24k]

Glad you can relate and hopefully it will help u

[@justablur7039]

Super helpful! I’m already a social person, but vids like these make me want to increase effort to put myself out there more than I do 😺!

[@amani24k]

That’s amazing, keep it up, have a lovely day 🙏

[@MisterFaucker]

I needed this. The fact that this is wholesome makes it even better. Thanks for the wake up call

[@amani24k]

Ayyyyyy, no worries man!

[@xoster1272]

Great video man, these experiences are valuable help for any age. Its so easy to forget the reasons why we're not happy with our lives and accept it as reality, when the keys to happiness are right there.

[@amani24k]

Thanks man! Nice insight I agree

[@sunshine.a.r.m.y]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS I really needed it man..

[@amani24k]

No worries man I’m glad you liked it 😎

[@iamnishom5689]

i am kind of like how you were, used to stay isolated and playing games and that made me a person who is always silent and unconfident.. i have recognised this and started working on this and have improved from before.. still a long way to go... It was nice to hear about this from someone who has gone through something similar to i did... Cheers man

[@amani24k]

No worries my man, glad you can relate glad to hear u are improving 😎

[@samuelpo3378]

Great video and I just want to say you have very good story telling skills. Keep up the good work

[@amani24k]

Thank you Samuel 🙏

[@j6lkx5kt31]

This is an amazing video bro, truly

[@amani24k]

🙏❤️

[@zweihander7309]

Good content, can really relate, the listen more then you speak is a great lesson to learn especially when you really put that into practise and realise both how much you can make someone else's day and how much you can learn and change for the better from truly, presently listening. And the stop thinking so much and just start doing is pretty F-ing important to life in general as its so easy to procrastinate and wallow in our overthinking anxiety nowadays despite how much info we have nowadays if we want to learn "how to do this"' "how to do that" but the funny thing is you can learn more about most things from just 'doing it'/taking action/giving it a go.

[@amani24k]

Explained it perfectly. Perfecto. Couldn’t agree more my friend.

[@masternoahtheassassin2386]

Thank you for sharing your journey I can definitely relate to where you're coming from

[@amani24k]

Ayy, no worries Noah! Glad u liked it

[@matthewmission]

great mindset, this video was spot on. keep going man

[@amani24k]

Thank you Matthew! Glad you enjoyed the vid

[@aldra8507]

I relate to this thank you for making this video. It makes me feel less lonely and it’s a push into the right direction. I want to talk to people and I should. I was extroverted until highschool I just didn’t have the same classes with my friends And best friend so it was hard to still be their friend since they got new ones. I’m just going to try to talk to new people.

[@amani24k]

I am so glad to hear this Aldra! Also I just watched your "Be A Better Person" video and honestly it was nice and chill to watch. Good stuff.

[@SmashtoonGamer]

BRO THE NEW SNEAKO!! Nah but fr I relate to this heavily. My social battery fell off hard right after I graduated hs and I think it would be good to be more sociable. Two days ago someone asked if they could sit next to me in my science lecture and I definitely could’ve started a whole conversation with him.

[@amani24k]

Brooo, old sneako was amazing, so glad this video could relate to you! Trust me conversations are everywhere we just sometimes don’t see them in the moment.

[@sanoja7846]

great stuff!

[@amani24k]

Thank you!

[@trxpho._]

I'm in my highschool junior year and I recently joined a new school, everyone is so friendly but I just can't keep eye contact or even approach and talk to them,deep down I want to but I'm scared of judgement,I'm trying to get rid of this awkwardness but I don't know how to

[@amani24k]

You got it bro, remember what the Mexican said

[@dankworlddk5933]

This guy is going places and I want to be a part of that. Amazing content🔥🔥

[@amani24k]

Let’s gooooo! Glad you enjoyed it my friend. See you in the next one 🫡

[@AbuRib23]

Bro I'm in the same situation you were in but this video was really useful

[@amani24k]

Thank you bro, glad it helped 😅

[@piehound]

That is only partly true. My experience is you can talk till the cows come home. If people aren't listening (which they aren't) . . . then all the talk in the world is simply a waste of breath.

[@amani24k]

Yeh sometimes people don’t listen I guess it’s just about finding the right people

[@piehound]

@@amani24k Does texting have the same impact as verbally spoken words ? If so then text can be called talk also. I guess it depends on who's doing the texting. A total stranger will have less impact than a relative. So yes we can look for and find folks who say what we want to hear.

[@amani24k]

Yeh sometimes i like to facetime my friends, but i prefer in person convos. Obvs there will be the people who live in different countries like family etc, but overall i feel as if verbally spoken words have 100x more impact than texting. @@piehound

[@conforzo]

Spent this fall of college talking to alot more people than I have usually done, and I notice how my social competence rises greatly. Now during winter break I spent time mostly with my family and didnt have to apply myself, and noticed last week how trapped in my mind I felt, started talking with more people once again and I notice how my mood and everything immideately improves. Like, last fall I was with this study group 2 girls and a guy, and I noticed during the weeks and months that Im not actually hopeless when it comes to interactions, we had a good time, lots of laughing and shit talking. My new motto is basically "Yeah I know im overweight and not chisled like the other guys are and dont have as many friends. But if I just dont care about that and be myself with my humor I know people appreciate if I just get out of my shell, even though it is a bit false, Ill feel better". Confidence is essentially a form of ignorance IMO, but it is ignorance which is Okay.

[@amani24k]

Love this story bro. Real good shit, glad to hear you are being yourself and having a good sense of humour. All the best, Amani

[@srk7040]

Hey I remember you from AS psychology, you were really quiet! If I could compare that person to the guy doing 1-minute podcasts in college it's like night and day 😂

[@amani24k]

No way! Wow that means a lot, thank you 🙏 Yeh I remember dropping psychology after around 3 lessons 😂😂. What was your name? I probably remember you :)

[@srk7040]

My name is Stella. To be fair the teacher made things kinda difficult to grasp so I don’t blame you 😭

[@dallas_749]

4:50 buddy really was the quiet kid 💀

[@amani24k]

intrusive thoughts take over sometimes lol

[@stuart3808]

Much wisdom you have, yessss.

[@amani24k]

Yes Stuart lets goooooo

[@illidanstormrage9149]

Honestly bro, humans are overrated. While I do agree being antisocial is not healthy I definitely dont agree that not talking to people can ruin your life. You just gotta know which ones are worth your time. Which is like propably maximum 10% out of 8 billion lol. The cure to social anxiety, is it talking to people? No. Its realizing that most people arent even worth talking to and realizing their opinions have an effect on you as much as you let them.

[@amani24k]

Interesting perspective, always good to look at alternatives

[@PowerofRock24]

How are you meant to talk to people when seemingly everyone is a capricious asshole? Honestly, people have made up their mind about me before I even open my mouth to speak, and their judgements are always unfair and unkind. I've been at my new job for a year now. No one talks to me, people throw shade my way, I was even bullied and I get yelled at for no reason right from the start. I work hard and I'm very focused on my work. I have a heart of gold, yet I'm hated worse than spit.. I've watched anxious and introverted newbies like myself join and made to feel welcome. People ask them questions about themselves, and still no one knows who I am. They just think they do, but they are not interested in knowing. I've lost people this year so I'm already hurting, and no one has a heart.

[@yaaakdeadacc3601]

yeah

[@amani24k]

I think it’s just about finding the right people. I agree, I’ve met so many complete ass holes in my life, but in doing so I’ve met many amazing people!

[@PowerofRock24]

​@@amani24k It seems like only 1 in 10. Sturgeon's Law must apply to people too. I am grateful for the decent people I meet, they are just too few and far between.

[@maryscary24]

Thank you for this video❤️

[@amani24k]

My pleasure, thank you for watching :)

[@coldrain4115]

As someone who is actually named Amani, I can relate. Thank you for this video, bro

[@amani24k]

My fellow Amani, glad you can relate bro. What ethnicity are you? I never ever meet anyone named Amani!

[@coldrain4115]

​@@amani24k lol I'm African American. It's an Ethiopian name, but it's also Mid Eastern. And, I've actually met some people with our name before!

[@amani24k]

Ah thats sick bro, what a goated name we have @@coldrain4115

[@osricen]

Man, I'm just not interested in what people outside are interested in. I'm sick and bored of parties, drinking, the smell of smoke... but I also DESPISE pretentious fake people in charity events, museums... Maybe I'm the problem, but damn, interesting, honest, and nice people are so rare nowadays. I try to be that.

[@amani24k]

Yeh true, sometimes it’s hard to find good people but they are always out there bro, it’s good your being a nice person - we need a lot more of these 😅

[@osricen]

@@amani24k Thanks, my man. We gotta try our best. ♥️

[@SolacedMasculinity]

very real advice man, as another 17 year old.

[@amani24k]

Glad you liked it my friend 🙌🫡

[@MetapaloozaShow]

Great video. Society needs to lay down the screens and find good people and Friends offline!

[@amani24k]

Agreed. Real life>online life.

[@ruehl3853]

My one and only friend stole my girlfriend I met in college, after that I said I’ll never make friends ever again because that situation would’ve never happened had I not had friends. I was socially isolated when I decided to become friends with this person. Massively regret, maybe I shouldn’t punish everyone else because of one persons actions

[@amani24k]

Interesting, I’m sure there’s many people out there you will get along with

[@marcelomoreira170]

Will you ever come back to portugal? I loved the video man, would love to talk to you one day!

[@amani24k]

Definitely! The people in Portugal were just so friendly, I'm sure I will see you there in the future! Glad you enjoyed the vid, see you in the next one :)

[@Hsn__Lys]

theres only one problem for me. i dont know what to talk about and how to start a convo. like i wuld start talking to you for 30min about something but when we stop talking about that thing i dont know what to say. i just stood in my plac not talking or doing anything and i feel awkward. i be waiting for the other person to start another convo or just say something.

[@VapidXDV]

Idk maybe just talk about the current situation you’re in. If you’re at school, talk about school etc. An other thing that helped me a lot is just asking questions and using their answers to keep the conversation flowing.

[@amani24k]

Hey bro, I used to have this too and sometimes still do! Literally sometimes just talking about what comes to mind is always interesting - and don’t get me wrong, we ALL have awkward conversations - that’s just life. But from those awkward ones we can learn from them and improve. Sometimes whatever comes to mind works for me, and not all conversations are meant to be long, sometimes they are as short as 10 seconds. There is no rules. Like today I randomly asked my teacher if she could pick one superpower what superpower would it be, and then the whole class got engaged and it was amazing. But there have been so many awkward convos e.g me trying to talk to a pretty girl but I literally stutter 😂, it happens! Hope this can help you bro 😎

[@amani24k]

@@VapidXDVthis is great, especially asking questions and talking based off their answers, leaves you to do little talking and gets the conversation interesting!

[@VapidXDV]

@@amani24k Yeah and just as you said, you let people talk as well, which makes you more liked Idk I have always been introverted so this is how I usually start conversations with new people0

[@theburningman5047]

I WAS sociable, I loved talking to people, I was affectionate. Problem was that people quickly made me realize that they aren't so kind after all. So after countless betrayals, heartbreaks, abuse, lies and abandonment I decided it's best to only trust in myself... I was right. The first time I fell in love after several years, I bonded with a Colombian love scammer called Katherine Zuluaga. Did everything for the girl, we both loved bodybuilding, both had the same hair and eye color, same passions... After finding out what her intentions actually were, I broke down completely. Now I love the solitude, I don't like or trust people, except for my family, well, or people training me. But even with mentors trust is limited

[@amani24k]

Wow, that is definitely one interesting yet emotional story. Glad you could share it with us. May I ask what a Colombian Love Scammer is? Sounds evil.

[@theburningman5047]

@@amani24k A love scammer is someone who pretends to fall in love with you, pretends to be affectionate, pretends to wants to marry you and have a kid with you, etc... Katherine was the first woman I actually fell in love with, but she used me, despite being a rich woman already. I worked hard for this woman, to stay in contact, and to afford a ticket to Medellin, nearly sold my kidney even. She meant the world to me, stayed loyal with this horrible woman for over 8 months. Until she finally answered me on Instagram, told me that she was a scammer so... Yah, not a people guy. I like helping folks, I prep myself for the army currently, but I won't bond with anyone... This would be a mistake

[@amani24k]

Woah, I hope a love scammer never comes into my life, sounds difficult man. Thats nice you like to help folks, what type of training do they put you through in the army?@@theburningman5047

[@S-L101]

good for you , fire video🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@amani24k]

Appreciated 🔥❤️

[@user-nx3qm5ku6v]

great content man,looking forward to more

[@amani24k]

Appreciate it man, see you in the next one...

[@deda.katica]

I hope you have a wonderful life stranger ❤

[@amani24k]

You too Deda, all the best 🤗

[@Jesamisus]

Nah i'm good, most bs comes from talking to others. Genuine people are an exception, but my buddah damn are they hard to come by.

[@amani24k]

We all have different experiences I guess

[@GlasiaVD23]

I remember when in a WA group of my uni people talked about how much they played games. I said "Acc. to Steam 6 hours in the last 2 weeks". They said "Skill issue + weakling + L + ..." I thought "F... this" then I turned out to be the one of the 3% who stayed through the entire semester.

[@amani24k]

What is steam? And is semester like an American version of a school term?

[@Golden-Zealot]

hah people have to worry about being lonly for a summer, try my, bite me, and last of all, hold my timmies ice coffee

[@amani24k]

What does this mean I’m confused lol

[@vinipcplayer]

what?? my first words were telling my parents to go away and leave me alone...i did this for all my life and feel fine...the only time i have problems is when other people are around

[@amani24k]

We all have different experiences I guess…

[@leafy_5]

Half my age but twice as wise. Great video thank you for the insightful words 🙏

[@amani24k]

No worries my man 😎🫡

[@Skoopyghost]

I am an introvert. I am not asexual nor do I mind talking to people. I have always been good alone with my thoughts, and I have 1000 hobbies. I am not even a bad looking guy. I am trying to be more social.

[@amani24k]

Good for you 🫡👍

[@hououinkyouma2476]

Yooo no way you're from Bristol lol, big up Bristolian KZbinrs, keep doing you broski you got a like from me 💯🔥

[@amani24k]

Thank you broski! Big up bristol!

[@Adam-franka]

Legend

[@amani24k]

😎🙏

[@noj0951]

great video man

[@amani24k]

Thank you my man!

[@MattyT200]

Bro described my life wtf

[@amani24k]

Tell us your story bro in the comments

[@MattyT200]

@@amani24k Since I started self improvement in sep 2022 I got lonelier by the month until I completed gcses in June 2023. I knew for the long break I would be alone with my family. It was a nostalgic time and I knew that when I was living through it, but it was hard. I joined a new school for a levels and was lonelier than expected. I am always hyped to speak to people in school but when I am there I turn from Dale Carnegie to Patrick Bateman 💀 and don't speak. I have made progress being more friendly but not submissive and I have more respect from others. I hope this progress continues and that I have hit rock bottom already so I can only go up from now on 🙏

[@amani24k]

@@MattyT200 Matty. Thank you for sharing your story, this resonated so so much with me. The fact you have already made progress is amazing, keep me updated in the comment section brother.

[@anaya7247]

First off, This was a very nice and well made video !! one of the ones that kind of pushed me to start talking to people (at least when I return to campus). I was in , and still am in, the same condition as you (in the past) during the past several years. My life is also pretty uneventful and the older ppl said high school and college were supposed to be the most fun parts of your life. But of course from my perspective, THEY LIED 😒😒😒😒😒 but since im technically an adult now I need to learn to break out of my shell and at least try and leave my dorm room for not just classes and getting stuff to eat. So again thanks for being a motivator !!! Do you have advice for someone who kinda wants to go to the gym but is afraid of judgement and is very inconsistent?

[@amani24k]

Hey! I’m glad this video helped you for when you return to campus. In terms of working out and being afraid of judgement and inconsistency. I can promise you this. Nobody actually judges you in the gym, the majority are focused on bettering themselves and focusing on their workout. And for consistency, I think starting simple and slowly improving it every day or every time you train is really helpful. E.g if you go to the gym for 10 minutes on your first session - that is still 1 million percent better than not going at all!

[@anaya7247]

@@amani24k Thank you so much 😊 I appreciate your response 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@benhulme2863]

Phahaha you are so funny. I don’t require friends.

[@amani24k]

Interesting view!

[@aidan_6154]

Dang bro nice content

[@amani24k]

Thanks Aidan! Glad you enjoyed it bro 😎

[@nathaniellaja657]

Hi there dear strangers, how can I help myself to be more confidently socialize with people, because even with my own family and relatives I am awkwardly not sociable. I fear that this action leads toward the destruction of my social life. This stupid social problem got me into migraine and too much overthinking. It also very hard for me to be sociable with children. My self esteem is low, I am very lazy and have no idea to start conversations. 😔

[@amani24k]

What helped me is just talking about whatever came to my mind, instead of always thinking what to say next. Sometimes it is awkward but I found this is the way I get the most interesting convos.

[@nathaniellaja657]

@@amani24k Thanks🙏

[@llvkey]

If you “self-improve” for others it is going to be temporary unfortunately:(

[@amani24k]

What do you mean by this bro

[@llvkey]

@amani24k in my experience if you get ripped for attention or learn how to socialize to get more friends, it doesn’t last. But if you do something hard to achieve a dream or make someone happy only then will it last forever.

[@llvkey]

Also that someone should include yourself and all of humanity if you can do that.

[@jamesgrey13]

Spite made me quit talking, and 30 years later, I'm just realizing it.

[@amani24k]

What is spite?

[@jamesgrey13]

It's when you take something to heart and it leaves you feeling bitter, angry, and vengeful.@@amani24k

[@amani24k]

Ah, ok. What is your story?@@jamesgrey13

[@jamesgrey13]

My story? I can't tell a story to save my life! What I do have is a list of regrets... Deciding to stop talking is right up on that list. Now, I have alot of catching up to do. I had to convince myself that I actually wanted to talk to people, and I was lucky enough to find a job where I could finally practice talking with others. I still can't carry a conversation worth a shit, though...@@amani24k

[@FaizanAhMed427]

So much underrated

[@amani24k]

🙌🙌

[@Phoenix_is_god]

I'm happy with no friends

[@isaaaak]

Wow you’re so sigma 😈😈👹👺👺👺🤑🤑😈

[@EmuEmuchu]

I think i am more happy with not speaking to anyone

[@amani24k]

👍

[@dangodances]

amazing

[@amani24k]

❤✌

[@richconsparartbro4971]

i will.

[@amani24k]

LETS GO.

[@camillosteuss]

Lol, not talking to people is one of the few things that is keeping a piece of high speed lead out of my cranium... I essentially lost all friends, not really, but if im honest with myself, yeah, i have 0 friends... Not that i ever had much friends, not real ones, but now even the few that were are no more... And i didn`t lose them by deed or word, but by being a machineshop freak that doesn`t care about anything but my machinery and the works... Kind of a more socially acceptable variant of a basement dweller, but if we are being honest, that is like nitpicking between taxation and robbery(not theft, as thief does not threaten you or pose a threat), which is to say - it`s the same thing when you put the two on paper next to each other... I just have bottles of lubricant for machines instead of hand lotion and high capacity, tactical assault piss bottles and metal chips and grinding dust instead of doritos and doritos dust... I can`t tell you how pleased I am to walk into my shop, slap the 3phase main switch down, put the machine to be used in the lowest speed and set her in motion as to warm up the bearings and the lubricants or the whole machine body in some cases... No idiocy, no propaganda, no lies, no deception or manipulation, no lunacy, no modernity, just tonnes upon tonnes of cast iron and cast steel, gorgeous, silent, cold as a whore`s heart, but so lovely, lovable and pleasant... The sound of silence and mechanical symphony of precision machinery... There is nothing like it among people, just yammering and yapping, parading and signaling, all for naught, all a waste of energy and nothing but offensive noise to the mind in need of silence and peace... I have no friends, but i have all that i need and i am in peace as i am... I would love a sensible friend worthy of my time and appreciation, but finding worthy people is not easy, and i just don`t have the patience to deal with anyone or their shit any longer... If it aint metal, i don`t want to have much to do with it... Stone and ceramics also pass the test, as well as being a good stock for precision instruments... If that is having my life ruined, then ruination is the best outcome available... I easily socialize, but it`s not something i seek out any longer... This world is a disappointment and so is our species, generally speaking, and i`m not about to go hunting for specific needles in a massive hay-stack... It just isn`t worth the effort, quite like saving the world... For whom should we save it? For next 100 or 1000 or 10000 miserable generations...

[@yaaakdeadacc3601]

Well ok

[@amani24k]

Nice

[@user-lo5zn3xw4s]

W player

[@amani24k]

WWWW

[@Mejustme101]

I thought I was the only one.

[@amani24k]

Most people are usually in the same boat

[@Mejustme101]

@amani24k Sadly yeah

[@MatthewMcRowan]

i havent spoke to human being in 3 years, weakness disgust me

[@amani24k]

Woah! If you don’t mind me asking, what has life been like without social interactions?

[@monkeydigs6696]

@@amani24kyou just unintentionally or maybe intentionally roasted this kid 😂

[@GreekGe0rdie]

I was the most social person , travelled etc I'm 25 greek but most of the new generation are useless and bad influence so I am happier I became an introvert nowadays...

[@amani24k]

What does an introvert mean, just not talking to people? I see a lot of people use this term now a days.

[@FaizanAhMed427]

So much releatable

[@amani24k]

❤

[@ethosterros9430]

Talk to who?

[@amani24k]

People!

[@ethosterros9430]

@@amani24k just how full of shit are you?

[@phantom_mserafi]

False

[@amani24k]

What’s false bro

[@phantom_mserafi]

@@amani24k Your life being ruined by not talking to others is false.You can be fine without talking to others.

[@attroenergizer8115]

hahahaha what a geek you know nothing about life

[@monkeydigs6696]

Anybody who writes like you knows the same amount as what you described

[@amani24k]

😚🙏

[@gabrieletedesco210]

Great video hope this will blow up I agree with all the video is saying but I just can’t do it

[@amani24k]

You can do it. You can do it. You can do it.

[@gabrieletedesco210]

@@amani24k i hope

[@CameronWoods-xe5wg]

Everyone is a piece of shit compared to me. There is nothing to gain from others besides using them.

[@amani24k]

Whaaaaaat, that’s mad, maybe you just haven’t met the right people?

[@khouse909]

When you realize that everyone in our generation suffers from social anxiety socialisation becomes much more easy. Apart from that i was expecting this video to be one of them cringe motivational videos but i was dead wrong it was genuienly awesome keep up the good work bro 🫡

[@amani24k]

we are all in this together - thanks broooo