They didn’t call Mihrimah most powerful princess in the Ottoman Empire for nothing!
@SexhatClhxlhxyoxyl2 жыл бұрын
Safiye was the most unique of the “Great Sultanas “ she wasn’t as aggressive and made scenes like Hurrem or acted like a jealous girlfriend like Nurbanu or wanted to dominate everyone like Kosem, she was smart , cunning, knew when to shut up and when to speak and was always calm and collected with a Queen like aura . Also this actress looks like the adult version of Safiye 👍👍 well good casting choice
@hussainsultanzada61232 жыл бұрын
considering this was made before its spin-off (obviously), then the older Safiye was cast based off this one. Still an excellent casting choice ofc but it's the other way around
@hussainsultanzada61232 жыл бұрын
She didn't need to act like a jealous girlfriend because Murad was all hers 😂And she knew that even if he slept with women, they would have nothing on her
@signora11022 жыл бұрын
@@hussainsultanzada6123 She might not get jealous of other women but she was of Nurbanu. It was well known at the time that the empire was governed by 2 sultanas. Till Nurbanu neutralized the second focus of power represented by Safiye and took the absolute control again. Things got so messed up that when Murad heard that Agha of Janissaries fomented the Janissaries as well as the spais (Spahis) of the Porte against him, he dismissed the Agha of leisure and Nurbanu also convinced him to dismiss Vizier Sinan Pasha as well who long ago paid homage to Safiye. Since Safiye joined the fray of power, collaborating with but often acting again Nurbanu and her allies.
@piotrrutkowskl99722 жыл бұрын
@@signora1102 Hi Nurbany’s 🤖🤖🤖 Safiye was never jealous of Nurbanu; it was nurbany jealous of Safiye! So again stop liies
@piotrrutkowskl99722 жыл бұрын
@@hussainsultanzada6123 Nurbanu was always jealous of Safiye, it’s know fact🤣🤣🤣
@beanentrepreneur12 жыл бұрын
the fear on Nurbanu's face, despite her control, is clearly evident. Good job Mihrimah in making Nurbanu's nightmare come true.👏
@grandetristesse33702 жыл бұрын
Historically speaking safiye stayed loyal to nurbanu untill her death... Also nurbanu is the founder of the sultanate of women said by all ottomam and venetian historians she's the 3rd most powerful after kosem and turhan
@eurech2 жыл бұрын
@@grandetristesse3370 Hurrem started the Sultanate of Women, not Nurbanu. Safiye was not loyal to Nurbanu either. Where are you getting your incorrect information from?
@grandetristesse33702 жыл бұрын
@@eurech y'all are pathetic it actually hurts... Hafsa first valide but not official one Nurbanu : first valide Sultana First woman to make valide Sultana a political position First women to be co-leader to the empire for 24 years during her husband and son reigns Most powerful & influential haseki One of the most powerful valide She is stated by historians she started the sultanate of women because she's the first to enter the power of ruling the state Hureem only achievement : marrying a sultan lmao
@moussatraore18652 жыл бұрын
it's wrong the order of the most powerful sultan is as follows: Kosem sultan, Hurrem sultan, Safiye Sultan, Mirhimah sultan and finally....Nurbanu (I don't like the one in the series) your information is wrong because Nurbanu (in real life) being suspicious of safiye and constantly asking murad to take other concubines, she even started the rumor that safiye was using black magic etc...and threw safiye's servants into the biosphere or sent them away. safiye and nurbanu did not get al
@draganagavric49442 жыл бұрын
@@grandetristesse3370 Sultanate of women is an era of women who had extraordinary power, not only beeing valide sultan. First ever Haseki, Hürrem Sultan started this era it and every another Haseki or Valide brought something new. Safiye wasn't loyal to Nurbanu, where did you get that? They hated eachother, Safiye was even exiled by Murad because Nurbanu's requested it.Ambassadors wrote, that Murad had to promise Nurbanu on her deathbed, that he will not make Safiye head of Harem (which was her right because Safiye was allready haseki sultan)
@memyselfi5994 Жыл бұрын
The problem with Nurbanu is that she insisted that her son have a ton of babies and 19 of them got killed when her grandson became emperor.
@arpitachakraborty83952 ай бұрын
That was ultimate fate of sultan and their begams....either they killed their son or grand child, or they took their parents or grand parents life...ultimately the great ottoman empire fall down....they lost their glory history is repeated itself . ... ultimate trouth again proof crime doesn't pay
@gillianbradfield82542 жыл бұрын
Hurrem embraced her new identity but never forgot her roots, shame nurbanu did. Hurrem gifting gold and grain to princess Anna was proof of that
@renateserenay20322 жыл бұрын
In reality Nurbanu never forgot her roots either. Also here, she's just angry with safiye
@hussainsultanzada61232 жыл бұрын
Nurbanu’s roots were nobility, so she acted the same 😂
@@renateserenay2032 Really? Nurbanu told you that? Is this why Italy haated her? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@beanentrepreneur12 жыл бұрын
Nurbanu is talking about loyalty as if she herself was very loyal to Hurrem who is now expecting loyalty from Safiye? Safiye's coolness was very good here. Even at this age, she is behaving very maturely. Really impressive👏
@beanentrepreneur12 жыл бұрын
@Leo Yes, she is a legend from the beginning.🔥😂
@grandetristesse33702 жыл бұрын
@@beanentrepreneur1 nurbanu is the founder of the sultanate of women and is the first women to rule the state as co-regent... Hurrem is as weak as mahidevran lol
@sluggfxxLuvydovex2 жыл бұрын
@@grandetristesse3370 hurrem payed the sultanate of women. Nurbanu start and safiye keep the fire. Kosem holds the power. Turbahar reign with the state and eventually ending the sultanate of women.
@gordanaterzic412110 ай бұрын
Even Mahidevran Sultan was more powerful and stronger than Hurrem Hatun 😂😂😂@@grandetristesse3370
@Valentina-rq3lt8 ай бұрын
Nurbanu was loyal to her until she saw Hurrem's preference for Bayazid. Nurbanu was not going to allow her family to die, she was only loyal to her husband.
@kawsarnaseri32082 жыл бұрын
1:35 look how threatened and scared Nurbanu is, she was raising her voice and sweating with fear, as Safiye Sultana remained calm and relaxed, because Safiye was ten times smarter than Nurbanu could ever be! 😃😃
@grandetristesse33702 жыл бұрын
Historically speaking... Nurbanu is the founder of the sultanate of women and she's the first women to rule as coregent, safiye stayed loyal to her until her death and hurrem never was a recent nor valide sultan 💀
@yumekojabami41792 жыл бұрын
@@grandetristesse3370 Safiye wasn’t loyal to nurbanu
@crlh65332 жыл бұрын
@@grandetristesse3370 No, historically hurrem sultan was the founder of the sultanate of women , not nurbanu
@crlh65332 жыл бұрын
@@grandetristesse3370 Hurren wasn't valide but she was the first ottoman woman to enter state affairs of the empire, then followed nurbanu was the second woman
@ImMarius12 жыл бұрын
This is really inspirational . When someone with power and influence guide an inexperienced human, that human become smart, patient, ambitious. That's Safiye's case.
@syazwaniaris26492 жыл бұрын
3:15 When the future Sultan come Everyone is bow head to Selim Meanwhile, Mihrimah be like: The way she looked down on Selim as if his power and position was meaningless
@MrA1R1S2 жыл бұрын
Mihrimah Sultan took the title "Valide Sultan" so she didn't need to bow to anyone
@NandeniTiwari2 жыл бұрын
@@MrA1R1S wait she did ????
@MrA1R1S2 жыл бұрын
@@NandeniTiwari yes
@NandeniTiwari2 жыл бұрын
@@MrA1R1S ahh ohk ohk
@frennyrodriguez56832 жыл бұрын
@@NandeniTiwari yes, when Rustem pasha died, The sultan asked Mihrimah to move back the crown palace, where she was in charge of his harem , since Hurrem sultan passed away, she occupied her room and position besides that she was the sultan’s favorite child
@syazwaniaris26492 жыл бұрын
"You will lie at the bottom of the Bosphorus" The same threat, but different reaction Nurbanu: She was frightened and appealed to Sultan Hurrem Meanwhile Safiye: Her reaction seems casual. She wisely hid her fears in front of the enemy😍👑
@Redorgreenful2 жыл бұрын
The motivations for the threat were different, too: Hurrem had reason to do that because she wanted to protect her family. Nurbanu’s threat was unprovoked and made her look weak. The fact that a mere girl could make her feel intimidated just by being there.
@lilymasood3O672 жыл бұрын
I love how Safiye smiled at Nurbanu’s words 1:51. She knows Nurbanu is 🤡🤡🤡
@piotrrutkowskl99722 жыл бұрын
1:19 Safiye is so cunning and smart. I love her!🧡
@sarahdemir7762 жыл бұрын
1:35 Nurbanu trying so hard to resemble powerful Hurrem Sultan, but all she is - a coward Walmart version of Hurrem.😄
@HarshitaEzil2 жыл бұрын
Lol Walmart version 🤣🤣🤣
@KingSahi2 жыл бұрын
Nah walmart hits different during late night cravings so even Walmart is better then Nurbanu 🤣🤣🤣
@ninaj.49182 жыл бұрын
5:52 mihrimah's daughter is so beautiful!
@j2cinvestments Жыл бұрын
I find it amazing how these girls all knowingly choose their predisessors. Hurrem choose Mirhimah to be her substitue and choose Nurbanu to be the next Hurrem, Mirhimah choose Safiye, and Safiye choose Kosem. Each girl almost distroying their elder yet it's like they knew it would happen eventually. (ofc Nurbanu never toppled Hurrem) it's spectacular planning. Plus the way they set up Kosem's story with Safiye insted of Nurbanu actually makes tons of sence. Do wish we could see more Nurbanu though, she's honestly my second favorite Sultanate of Women. 1. Hurrem 2. Nurbanu 3. Kosem
@somerandomnon-importantper3219 Жыл бұрын
When you put it like that, it's almost like the Sith. The apprentice must eventually kill the master
@truthseeker-nv6ny7 ай бұрын
Also turhan and kosem
@supeskrim Жыл бұрын
What goes around, comes around, that's circle of life.
@farhanhehe4612 жыл бұрын
3:16 Lmao The most powerful princess mihirimah sultan didn't bow to him 😂😂🔥
@HarshitaEzil2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the exact timeframe, it was fun to watch 🤣🤣🤣
@kassyqueen80892 жыл бұрын
While her father was still on the throne she didn't need to. When selim takes the throne she has to
@shoshokikocockerspaniel67ll82 жыл бұрын
@@kassyqueen8089 No she didn’t
@HarshitaEzil2 жыл бұрын
@@kassyqueen8089 No, she does not have to, because she's the eldest. She gets to chose whether to bow or not. Plus, she made it clear to Selim that in her eyes, he is a fraticide. So why should she bow? She has the rights to not bow.
@KingSahi2 жыл бұрын
@@HarshitaEzil isn’t she as well though?
@gunescelik42072 жыл бұрын
0:01 I love watching scared Nurbanu. She was such a coward, always scared of Hurrem and now of Safiye! 😂
@DimSK.2 жыл бұрын
Exactly hahaha she is trembling in this scene out of fear
@aeroTnz Жыл бұрын
This scene the magnificence and the muscic is just the cherry on top
@MohammadTahaChaudhry4 ай бұрын
I love nurbanu at the end of hurrem when she was close to death how nicely and bravely she expressed the beginning of her era❤😊
@blessingsofparadise44392 жыл бұрын
3:48 👑His Majesty watched the entire departure unfold, ROFL‼️‼️‼️‼️❕❕❕❕❗❗❗❗😸😺😹😆 I'm glad Shehzade Selim paused, briefly, then continued walking. Mirihimah Sultana was also just as guilty with helping execute Mustafa. 😳🥺 • YIKES • 😳🥺
@anaelivillarreal88302 жыл бұрын
They should make a series about safiye in her time when she was valide
@MohammadTahaChaudhry4 ай бұрын
Its only nurbanu who makes selim a king❤
@muhammadhariszahid54062 жыл бұрын
We want *Muhteşem Yüzyıl Safiye*
@medixstar91842 жыл бұрын
Safiye was the most smartest sultana ever.
@iqbalindrafauzi56002 жыл бұрын
Safiye Hatun... Later Safiye Sultanah, grandmother of Sultan Ahmed I.
@oyinade842 жыл бұрын
I am dying laughing at all these Hurrem fanatics dissing Nurbana when she is doing exactly like Hurrem times 10x on evil steroids 😂🤣
@piotrrutkowskl99722 жыл бұрын
Hi BOTTT! Hurrem never was evill as Nurbanu. Try harder! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@gunescelik42072 жыл бұрын
Bwahahahahaa! Really? Hurrem never did 1/1000000 evill of what Nurbanu did, but keep talking😂
@oyinade842 жыл бұрын
Maise- yes she did ? You dimwits just hate hearing the truth . She did evil things as typical of her kind & Nurbana only improved on it . That’s what happens when you have a serpentine spirit🤫🤣😂
@oyinade842 жыл бұрын
Miray- she did evil not on the scale of Nurbana because they fought for different power plays . But why are you lot mad . She only improved on Hurrem’s evil ways . I guess you do t comprehend English grammar . Hurrem was evil after a point . Nurbana simply improved on it 🤣😂
@kawsarnaseri32082 жыл бұрын
@@oyinade84 hahahahahaha! Hurrem was kind and smart, Nurbanu was evillll! Keep cryiiing🤖🤖🤖🤖🤖🤖
@hakimnazir6998 Жыл бұрын
Don't worry Safiye Sultan, the future of Kosem Sultan is waiting for you🔥🔥
@ashrafgafoor55002 жыл бұрын
That safiye hatun became the toughest and most successful valide sulthana ever
@theladymorgana8657 Жыл бұрын
The strongest was Kosem Sultan
@S.K-v2c2e Жыл бұрын
Actually, historically Nurbanu or Turhan are safest choice for "most powerful sultana ever"
@34Kkhlox34Kkhloxx Жыл бұрын
@@S.K-v2c2e kosem is the strongest of them all
@taehyungcandy14282 жыл бұрын
Canfeda hatun doesn't know how to age
@kassyqueen80892 жыл бұрын
😄😄
@kassyqueen80892 жыл бұрын
I really don't like the choice of costume and jewelry for nurbanu.
@taehyungcandy14282 жыл бұрын
@@kassyqueen8089 yeah they made her look super old when she literally was in her late 30s
@nawazhussain9882 Жыл бұрын
@@taehyungcandy1428she was in her 40s in that clip
@princess7jasmine2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, she didn't even need to do this at all. Nurbanu eventually became Valide and Murad was still loyal to her over Safiye, she had nothing to worry about.
@gunescelik42072 жыл бұрын
Who lied you, Nurbanu’s 🤖🤖🤖🤖Safiye>>>>>>>
@shoshokikocockerspaniel67ll82 жыл бұрын
Murad shifted all loyalty and love to Safiye. Even Selim chose other concubines. The only thing Nurbanu had was Valide Sultan title, she never had any power! 😆😆
@princess7jasmine2 жыл бұрын
@@shoshokikocockerspaniel67ll8 I'm sure that's all true in the little fanfic you've made.
@jeanneaubert41932 жыл бұрын
@@princess7jasmine No; read history; Nurbanu’s 🤖🤖🤖🤖🤖 Safiye made nurbanu’s life 🗑🗑🗑🗑
@princess7jasmine2 жыл бұрын
@@jeanneaubert4193 I recommend you read history as well :)
@danikameric92362 жыл бұрын
0:42 Lmao coward Nurbanu! 🤣🤣 She knows Safiye is >>>>>>>>>>
@jafrinkhan8172 Жыл бұрын
prince selim looks like that evil guy from spider man lol
@jayk10238 ай бұрын
Nurbanu actress be giving me Glaiza de Castro vibes.
@Husn-e-Parwar_Sultan2 жыл бұрын
Noorbanu, now kind of reminds me of Valide Ayesha-Hafza Sultan, during her Bas Kadin era.
@syazwaniaris26492 жыл бұрын
Nurbanu in the end season really try hard to make herself resemble like Hurrem Sultan. Once again, she copy paste Hurrem Sultan threat😂
@SexhatClhxlhxyoxyl2 жыл бұрын
Discount version
@farhanhehe4612 жыл бұрын
Hurrem Sultana in cheap version
@pialhiannaapostol83842 жыл бұрын
Walmart version
@syazwaniaris26492 жыл бұрын
You can see how Nurbanu reaction when Safiye seems not triggered with her threat😂😂 She look so angry and feel humiliated infront of concubine
@vivayoutubr69852 жыл бұрын
Can i know when selim ruling started where they put mihrimah? In the capital palace or the palace of tears?
@GrinMonister2 жыл бұрын
She actually became his Valide and ruled the harem for a bit as well as became his advisor.
@amarljuca7968 Жыл бұрын
When Selim become sultan yanisaries stoped him and they demendad money from him, Selim didin't have the money beacuse he wasen't even in capital so he asked Mihrimah and she gave him the money. Selim thanked his sister and he made her head of the Old palace harem( old palace was important). Fun fact Mihrimah and Nurbanu together with their dauthers freed two Turkish woman from captivity
@Brin_Londo2 жыл бұрын
Poor Safiya Sultan, she doesn't know what awaits her. Rivals like Shams-e-Rukhsar Sultan, Nazparwar Sultan, Zerefshan Sultan, and Sarfaraz Sultan. Not to mention, Meharban, Shah-e-khuban, and Fakhria khatoon. Oh, woe to you Safiya.
@MohammadTahaChaudhry4 ай бұрын
I watch nurbanu that when hurrem wants to kick out him and then how she daced her by saying that if you dare to do with me then I will expose you that you were involved in the death of huriciane❤
@alyssamaecortel64712 жыл бұрын
Bro is it just me or nurbanu looks a bit like mahidevran..?
@marieantoine2 жыл бұрын
How did Safiye end Nurbanu in real history? Did she assassinate her or something?
@muhammadhariszahid54062 жыл бұрын
I think she poisoned her
@eurech2 жыл бұрын
Poison I think.
@keizelharf53932 жыл бұрын
No. Nurbanu just had natural death.
@graciaabumohor5897Ай бұрын
@@muhammadhariszahid5406 No, Nurbanu wasn’t poisoned by anyone, she had been sick for a couple of months before she died. It’s believed she died of stomach cancer.
@ramn_bennington2 жыл бұрын
Safiye ❤❤
@azunieizma33402 жыл бұрын
what episode is this ?
@teresaharris-travelbybooks55645 ай бұрын
Mihirimah is all that Suleiman has left.
@JessicaLore-ep3up8 ай бұрын
Who knew the same safiye would become the most cruel sultana in the future in the reign of sultan Ahmed Khan! She's the same safiye in magnificent century kosem!
@WatermelonCat-yc4bq13 күн бұрын
How selfish was this Nurbanu portrayed as! So unfair from the screenwriter! He didn’t give us the chance to see Hurrem’s successor just as fair and good as herself!
@ezrabashnan3758 Жыл бұрын
So much hate on Nurbanu while she is very great. Obviously Hurrem's fans doesn't know how to detach themselves enough from their idol to admit that Nurbanu won the battle and by the way even if she is suspicious on Safiye, I see no fear on her face.
@ezrabashnan37588 ай бұрын
@Dreamfyre2 Who cares how Nurbanu came to power. Even if your dear Hurrem is dead, if Nurbanu wasn't intelligent, she wouldn't have achieved anything. In the same way that when Nurbanu dies, Safiye also gets full power and so on. As for the rest, Nurbanu is just suspicious, and it's to her credit that she spotted the poisoned gift from the start. All I see is mistrust and she is right.
@ezrabashnan37588 ай бұрын
@Dreamfyre2 Do you know what panic is ? Obviously not 🤣. By the way I aint worship Nurbanu, I'm a normal viewer who doesn't follow the herd of "crazy Hurrem fans" who jump at the slightest opportunity to criticise or see things that don't exist in the characters who stand against her.
@ezrabashnan37586 ай бұрын
@Dreamfyre yeah you're one of Hurrem's crazy fan because there is normal fans. Look how nervous you are just because I'm defending Nurbanu.
@ezrabashnan37586 ай бұрын
@Dreamfyre by the way, all your speech is a total lack of arguments
@ezrabashnan37586 ай бұрын
@Dreamfyre you don't even know what a normal fan is because you're a crazy one. Don't try to be manipulative with your long ans useless speeches you are just confirming what I think about u
@eunicedeshps27736 ай бұрын
Love Safiye Sultan...Great actress.
@shaynecapalad26512 жыл бұрын
Which episode is this
@FatimaKhan-fm5jd Жыл бұрын
It ain’t fair Mustafa should have the throne and Mustafa was suleymans 1st son what a shame suleyman choose a drunk man for the throne Mustafa deserved the throne not that drunk bad guy
@krimokrimov6050 Жыл бұрын
were the words of Suleiman in the end real ? are they realy his from his poetry ?
@rachaelsnapp86542 жыл бұрын
Nurbanu is such an unlikeable character. I can't find any redeemable qualities about her.
@tsukiknight9612 жыл бұрын
Question if mihrimah had a son would he be in line for the throne
@ifeanyiagupusi23732 жыл бұрын
No
@honney98372 жыл бұрын
Nhi...
@Midwest..2 жыл бұрын
No only son of Sultan
@sliverscreencritic2 жыл бұрын
She does but no.
@Diana7342 жыл бұрын
Only if Selim's children died.
@Saibabaಸಾಯಿಬಾಬಾ2 жыл бұрын
Really I feeling 😿😿😿
@blessingsofparadise44392 жыл бұрын
3:06 There's always stiff👑👑 competition among women,🤗😍 🤣🤩LOL‼️‼️‼️‼️❕❕❕❕❗❗❗❗
@xavierfoster9362 жыл бұрын
This hairstyle doesnt suit Nurbanu. She looked better with hair down.
@aronsmith26882 жыл бұрын
That’s the trick. She looks older in this hairstyle 👍
@PING13132 жыл бұрын
Nurbanu is trying hard copying Hurrem
@mariamtraore27432 жыл бұрын
Yes it's obvious. Nurbanu it's a vulgar copying of Hurrem 🙄
@Jorindeify Жыл бұрын
Who is the man with the grey beard standing next to Selim?
@anjanavasudevan64702 жыл бұрын
Idk how Nurbanu in history was, but here this woman is trying too much to be like Hurrem 2.0. The result - discount Hurrem (not even close)
@shoshokikocockerspaniel67ll82 жыл бұрын
She was evill and desperate. She killed infants of Selim from other women and also had constant war with Safiye. When Selim died she kept him in ice box for days waiting for Murad to arrive to palace. In series Nurbanu is even better than real nurbanu.
@rerai59962 жыл бұрын
@@shoshokikocockerspaniel67ll8 no keeping the king's death a secret was a rule. To keep the enemies and potential invaders away
@shoshokikocockerspaniel67ll82 жыл бұрын
@@rerai5996 No it was not rule; so stop talking lies you🤖
@sarahdemir7762 жыл бұрын
@@rerai5996 No it wasn’t, Nurbany’s 🤖🤖🤖🤖
@rerai59962 жыл бұрын
@@sarahdemir776 I think you should read into what was done when the prince was away and the king dies. They can't just annouce the death. That would lead into a war. But it wasn't huge of a issues anyways since all the other princes were young and they had to die. Since that was a very common practice to kill the siblings of the soon to be king prince. As they pose as a potential threat
@DimSK.2 жыл бұрын
And safiye will bring nurbanus ending easy Nurbanu failed
@renateserenay20322 жыл бұрын
Τι λες μωρη? εσενα η νουρμπανου δεν ήταν η αγαπημένη σου? Ούτε με ποιον είσαι δε ξέρεις ρε νουμεροοοο
@onurunlu129 Жыл бұрын
No :D Nurbanu became valide sultan, she was powerful enough to choose who’s gonna take the throne after her husband’s death. She kept everyone quiet about her husband’s death until her son come to the city. She is the first (and I guess the only) women to be buried in the emperor’s tomb. She maintained peace with Venice and France. Ambassadors mentioned her as a powerful queen in their letters. She died naturally when she get old. The emperor himself joined her funurel and carried her coffin. Safiye’s name wasn’t even known before her death.
@DimSK. Жыл бұрын
@@onurunlu129 safiye sultan won her, she ended nurbanu
@DimSK. Жыл бұрын
One hidden here. Safiye sultan won nurbanu hahaha
@kdude4087 Жыл бұрын
Idk why all sultans were so scared of the concubines when they could easily kill them for example hurram could easily kill nurbanu with her own hands and nobody could stop her since she was a queen but she just leave her alone to do what she wants
@onurunlu129 Жыл бұрын
No one can kill the mother of a prince and get no harm. If you kill you will lose the respect of your husband and son, and you’ll possibly diminished.