There is literally a line of broke men waiting to pick up their wives and girlfriends who work the graveyard shift every morning at my healthcare facility. These women are so broke, they share the fancy car with their man. They work extra graveyard shifts to enjoy fancy vacations with their man. They work extra shifts to gamble money with their man. When you ask them what their man does for a living they say, he is on disability, he owns his own business, he is retired, he is a student in school, he takes care of the kids and extended family. It's so sad to see how much these women give up, in order to have a broke man in their lives. Eventually you hear that the broke man was cheating on them, stole their money, divorced them and getting alimony/child support, or straight up ghosted them.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
It’s happening!! Thanks for watching 😊
@Lisa-kz7vw Жыл бұрын
Lol I'm telling you everything you just mentioned I hear and have heard at every facility been a nurse almost 18 year's this is real yes everyone situation is different but just letting someone use you like that to be able to say I got a man it's sad I see someone who can't be alone it's really sad those nurses are never happy their usually very negative at work, moody or just rude hard to get alone with because their home life unstable.
@redrock740 Жыл бұрын
@@Lisa-kz7vwThese nurses are beyond unhappy. They are downright miserable and exhausted. It is like their man is their pimp, hustling them for a bigger and bigger paycheck. Some of these nurses never take a day off. They work two jobs, and only take a day off if it is paid PTO.
@hebrewharv8018 Жыл бұрын
As a man how could you just let your woman kill herself. I’m a go out and do the 80 hr weeks. Do your little 5 day/ 8hrs off on weekends and holidays😂😂😂
@ROYALP100 Жыл бұрын
This sounds like Filipino culture to me… American women (Black/White) usually wouldn’t take care of a man in this manner.
@King_Ajani Жыл бұрын
I wholeheartedly concur and I’m a male NICU RN. The parking lot looks like a luxury dealership.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@deliteful1991 Жыл бұрын
Lol 😂 I’m driving my paid off KIA till the wheels fall off.😂😂😂
@Tfolife5285 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@briyalevette Жыл бұрын
Lawd they forgot the BBL, breast, and tummy tuck procedures. I worked at a recovery house for the last few years in south Florida and 3/5 of the women coming in were nurses 😭😂
@ZoneE3 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@t.taylor6879 Жыл бұрын
Lmaoo you ain’t never lied. I was thinking about getting one too lol
@chinaarlene7035 Жыл бұрын
@@t.taylor6879 lol
@TheDoriette5 ай бұрын
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@msfredijr Жыл бұрын
I’ve been a RN for decades and I’m single as a dollar bill. Recently had a guy tell me he can no longer talk to be because of he doesn’t feel like a man even talking to me. He’s on very very hard times (getting groceries from the church, no car insurance, threatening repo, back child support, lost his job, etc). I just wished him well and pivoted. I’m not the Hope House, I’m not a “nurse with a purse” and I won’t be taken advantage of. I’m too busy trying to get these educational, personal and spiritual goals checked off. Sheeeesssssh!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Yesssssss! Let him find SOMEBODY ELSE👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾At least he knew he wasn’t READY!
@msfredijr Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingToTawanda I just found your channel tonight and I immediately became a subby! I’m a big-haired natural as well. Absolutely ♥️ your content! 🌹
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
@@msfredijr Awwwww❤️ Thanks so much, and welcome to The Fam🤗
@TamikaMack-fi2yk2 ай бұрын
EXACTLY 💯💯💯🎉
@shalesiamattews2981 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this video I believe it's time everyone should learn to Live below their means" adjust their lifestyle, be frugal, budget, save and invest. This helped me out as a 6 figure earner. I've grown over half a million in retirement savings with this method
@kalonb5101 Жыл бұрын
Now see when you get to $3-5 million when you retire ppl are gonna be all shocked.
@gracedaniels6172 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations ma'am so happy for you, I'm trying to get started I know it takes consistency to be successful. It's really so hilarious. Sadly there's actually people still living paycheck to paycheck
@eiraantoinette6793 Жыл бұрын
You said it all right there, great accomplishment keep it going 👍
@keishalewelling849 Жыл бұрын
Keisha GA, 32. I Just started at my six figure job after being in and out of the poverty line. I really hope I don't end up like this. I'm scared really scared!!!
@shalesiamattews2981 Жыл бұрын
@@kalonb5101 exactly it's really good to play your cards right
@MajsPursuit Жыл бұрын
I’m not a nurse but I am on a debt free journey so this is helpful and entertaining 😂❤
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@JayJackson007 Жыл бұрын
Yes very!! I’m not a nurse & don’t make 1/2 of 6 figures. It’s good to know these things!!
@riseupreese10 ай бұрын
This is hilarious but do what makes you happy ladies. You have to have a balance. I drive a BMW and love nice luxury items. I still manage to max my 401k, pay my tuition out of pocket for NP school, and also invest in real estate. One thing I do is buy myself some quality uniforms and work shoes, they are comfortable and the last. I do have a supportive husband that’s a go-getter like me. But don’t feel bad for treating yourself. You worked hard for that license, enjoy the fruits of your labor! 🥰
@AccordingToTawanda10 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching, and CONGRATULATIONS on cashing flowing NP school🎉
@Ck-pj3vu Жыл бұрын
TRUE! That’s why I don’t tell anyone I’m a nurse.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Don’t tell ‘em!! Thanks for watching ❤️
@gingerandspice1209 Жыл бұрын
Or how much you make?
@kayabe856 Жыл бұрын
I don’t even like wearing my uniform into a store. Had one lady walk up to me in Kroger trying to get me to diagnose her toddler.
@deniseg8526 Жыл бұрын
I tell men I'm a desk clerk
@ZoneE3 Жыл бұрын
@@gingerandspice1209never everrr
@raemaxey3401 Жыл бұрын
I know a young nurse that has been in the field about two years and she has been to Dubai, Hawaii and Miami so far and we won’t even talk about all the brand name bags, clothes and Jordan’s she wears!!! I asked her how much student loan debt she had and at the time she said 90K and that she’s going back to school to become a NP. I was speechless. It’s so sad to see that so many of them have no clue how to budget and handle there finances properly!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@TheDoriette5 ай бұрын
Expects the taxpayer to pay back her student loan, I'm willing to bet.
@KleanAsmr4 ай бұрын
Maybe she has other income? Nursing is my second income and my first source pays all of my bills (I went to nursing school already having it). Nursing is my fun money lol.
@KleanAsmr4 ай бұрын
This actually sounds like jealousy to me lol. Let them live their lives how they want. Not everyone wants to work themselves until age 67. The millennials want to work and also rest. Vacations are healthy for us. We should rest whenever we feel we need to. Boomers are so used to working like dogs, they get offended when someone doesn’t. 😂 We’re only here once!
@itsniquenique453 ай бұрын
@@TheDoriettey’all paying for corporate tax cuts, war and the local police and fire dept. Surely you can extend some grace to the hardworking college graduates too
@soinda87 Жыл бұрын
LVN and bought a 80k property once I was done with a 500 car note. Didn’t want to spend on another car. 3 years later the property is 250k. Teaching my son’s too on money handling.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
This is how it should be done!! Thanks for sharing. Thanks for sharing 🤗❤️
@soinda87 Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingToTawanda you’re welcome.
@mari0c0leman Жыл бұрын
That part about having boundaries with friends and family when it comes to money is true. I’m at a great point in my life now where I don’t interact with them anymore. I used to look at them sideways because I’m a single guy and they’d be in a relationship needing a loan from me. I’ve relocated to another state and lost touch with a gang of people.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and joining the discussion ❤️
@sabrina.natalie Жыл бұрын
🩺 One day, if you ever make merchandise for your KZbin channel, “According to the comments” should definitely be a slogan on a mug and a t-shirt.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Most definitely Sabrina🤗 Thanks for watching ❤️
@Alyssaj1236 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@victoriaprince152 ай бұрын
AGREED! Lol
@dimediamond Жыл бұрын
YES I KNOW PLENTYYYYY of nurses taking care and keeping there BUM mans. There man is a princess in the relationship and well kept. Its a epidemic. ❤ These men are spending all these women money. ❤
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching ❤️
@sabrina.natalie Жыл бұрын
“Spending money like they’re drug dealers”. LOL. El Chapo La Enfermera in the building! 😅
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
LOL!😂❤️
@ZoneE3 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@insideanurse Жыл бұрын
I definitely think men target Nurses. Smh
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Facts!!!!!!🤗
@arandaholley1719 Жыл бұрын
I am a lawyer and same sis.
@insideanurse Жыл бұрын
@@arandaholley1719 😫 smh 🤦🏾♀️
@Lisa-kz7vw Жыл бұрын
They target any women with a steady income who looks like she earning a good living and they don't have to work much or at all facts
@blackmary9995 Жыл бұрын
You all who are Nurses, worked so hard for that License. Don't give up. If this is what you love doing for a living w/o the toxicity, then you may want to consider raising enough funds you need to open up your own Skilled nursing Facility that you can run and hire Qualified Staff that you can carefully screen before they come through those doors. You don't have to put up with Toxic and incompetent rude Co-Workers.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support ❤️🤗
@theinspiredhomedecor Жыл бұрын
Omg! The Starbucks! I’m a Case Manager RN and I ALWAYS see Starbucks, Jamba Juice, in the drink section. And when I go to the break room lol it’s like a smorgasbord! I make my own coffee and cook and bring my lunch. I’ve been a RN for years. I did have a bum fiancé when I was a new nurse and got rid of him. I stopped telling men I was a nurse when I first get to know them. When I tried online dating I had to take that I was a nurse out of my profile. I know several nurses who are the breadwinner and their husbands or boyfriends are stay at home dads or just stay at home period with or without kids. And oh my goodness I know several nurses who are paying alimony too here in California. I do travel a lot but I do it for business (I have several businesses for home decor) and it’s a business expense. I also do not work extra. I have several streams of income now in addition to my part time nurse job.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Amazing!! I love it❤️
@rubychew6535 Жыл бұрын
I worked at a technical school, and they had a two-year nursing program and the instructor said that men want to marry women who are nurses. There was a nurse who completed nursing school (the school that I worked at) her husband kept having her apply for different jobs and he would tell her that the job you have is not good enough for you. The instructor got tired of writing letters of recommendations for her. Her husband was using her.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
WOW!! Thanks for watching 🤗
@naturallyvdeb2040 Жыл бұрын
Yes, there’s some of that going on. Men who sit back watch their wives working I’ve personally seen 3 different jobs-1 FT & 2 PDs. I always warn the young, unmarried ones of this phenomenon. Have to be smart & keep all eyes open when dating.
@shanzie81 Жыл бұрын
These are some of the reasons why some people outside of health care think nurses make bank. It can be true, or they can be wearing it, driving it, and in my case, eating it.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@MG-jj3pn Жыл бұрын
I’m a nurse and what you say is so true. Whatever happened to cooking at home and taking leftovers? Making your own coffee beverages and use the ice at work? The only people impressed by your designer bags and luxury cars are others with the same. I will retire in 2 years with $1M and a home that is affordable on social security. Ladies and gentlemen nurses please think about being able to retire comfortably at 65 or earlier.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎉🍾🎈❤️❤️
@blessedbygod3430 Жыл бұрын
EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS TRUE 💯 please do a volume 3!!😂
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support ❤️
@helena3631 Жыл бұрын
1000 agree especially the targeting nurses in the hospital like the janitor, maintaince .. and nurses always seem to date broke men and give them they check.. also why u a nurse and driving a Porsche and wearing a LV neverfull to the hospital.. the doctors not even doing it like that the dermatologist at my job wear the same blue and black scrubs and saconny’s for the last three years and he has three offices … nurses need to get it together and get off this hamster wheel of overtime and check to check
@Tfolife5285 ай бұрын
Yes volume 3 is necessary!
@iinicholas2682 Жыл бұрын
The men definitely target nurses ....and it's working. Nurses are caregivers and I have never worked anywhere that didn't have that dynamic.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@gmorris2891 Жыл бұрын
Walmart had uniforms on sale $1 top and $1 bottoms. I’m one of those nurse who will not be caught dead in those expensive uniforms. I also get my uniforms from DDs $6.99 to $9.99 for tops and bottoms. I’m cheap cheap cheap cheap.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Girllllll I caught that Walmart sale😁
@gmorris2891 Жыл бұрын
❤
@diplomat2623 Жыл бұрын
I’ve had janitors holla at me all the time. I just make small talk back eventually it became a friendly neighborly interaction. Men eventually get the memo. I 100% believe any time of relationship starts with the second person-me. If I’m not catching what you’re throwing nothing is going down. Ladies, please stop giving dusties your precious energy. The ball is in YOUR court.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@HeyMsVal Жыл бұрын
OMG...Tawanda brought the tea 🍵 ta-day in 10 minutes! I was all for it. As you ran down the line I could only think of my friend who is a travel nurse. Wanna talk about team too much? Here we go. She eats out all the time. Just bought a 6 bedroom home here in Florida. She drives an SUV and a Jaguar. She doesn't like to drive to her assignments so she flies to her destination and pays someone to drive the SUV. Then pay to fly them home. When the assignment is over she does the opposite. She flies back to Florida at least 1-2 times per month. Now she wants to do a girl's trip to Dubai! NOT ME GIRL! I got it but I have better things to do with my money. Oh and she doesn't have medical insurance. I had to pop the boil in her armpit because she didn't want to go to at least a walk in clinic. Team too much!!!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Girllllll folks got to do BETTER!! Thanks for watching and sharing ❤️
@ugochia212 Жыл бұрын
A nurse and no medical insurance. Health is wealth, and it's better than material things!.
@Lisa-kz7vw Жыл бұрын
Lord she a hot mess sounds like it no thankyou
@deliteful1991 Жыл бұрын
No Medical insurance….whew 😢
@Pylypczak Жыл бұрын
Youll get fined by IRS for no medical insurance at the end of the year
@shesosweet2781 Жыл бұрын
Lmao when I just started out, I got my uniforms at the thrift store 🥴. When I got a little more money, I started shopping at DD’s Discount Store 😭🤣
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Amen👏🏾Thanks for watching 😊
@adrian3747_ Жыл бұрын
Some nurses be living luxurious like they’re part of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills lol 😂
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
True! Thanks for watching 😊
@ZoneE3 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@adrian3747_ Жыл бұрын
@@ZoneE3 it’s true 😂
@stephaniemartin9253 Жыл бұрын
STEP ON THEM TOES!!! Two nurses in the family and the men they got with...NO. JUST NOOOOOO!!! So glad one of them is a vet, he can't get that house EVER! The PREDATION IS REAL!!!!!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Stephanie thanks for the support ❤️🤗
@stephaniemartin9253 Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingToTawanda Thanks for trying to help those who don't know they need help❤
@BPink-ke7jy Жыл бұрын
Hi Tawanda! I loved the videos! I am a RN and I am very conscientious about what I spend money on. I cannot believe some nurses are spending $1000 per month on a car note. I plan to buy a used car soon, and my budget is $30K or less. Sometimes, I do feel like I want to splurge, but I don’t. Living paycheck to paycheck would completely stress me out. I love your personality and will be subscribing to your channel 😊
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Yes, living paycheck to paycheck is STRESSFUL! Thanks for subbing ❤️
@Dee-oq5ms Жыл бұрын
I'm so mad my car was 30k lol but once it's also off this is IT!
@Hope27946 Жыл бұрын
30k a car ? 😢still a lot Mine I decided would be 10k or less . And by God Grace I found a good one 10k
@Dee-oq5ms Жыл бұрын
@@Hope27946 haha yea after the fact I was mad with myself but it's a honda so I hope to get a lifetime of use.
@randomvideoshere6540 Жыл бұрын
The comments were so so right. My ex husband and bd were inlove with the nurse atm . They thought she was the kindness, sweetest, softest, easy to deal with person untill she set boundaries and then they called her user, abuser, cold, sociopath, narc, psychopath. Maybe I should write a book of what my life experiences in the last 2 years have been. And my sister in tech...... her ex husband got her wrapped up in medicaid fraud. She's lucky to only get convicted of a misdemeanor. Sometimes I feel like we just cannot trust men at all.😊
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
WOW!!!!! Thanks for watching, and sharing your story 🤗
@rae7269 Жыл бұрын
Girl I noticed the bus drivers, maintenance men and RT men all go after the nurses. Especially trying the new ones. The men seem obsessive and overlly polite and aroused. I think they want to get someone pregnant and trapped. Some even are married.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Facts! Thanks for watching ❤️
@TelesiaKyler Жыл бұрын
Im wasn’t social media friends with any coworkers at an old job but I stumbled on a facebook argument between a nurse & EVS guy about how she wasted his time & was rude & she said “when u asked me for money i drew the line”.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
@@TelesiaKyler OH MY😬
@mirandaholley9797 Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingToTawandaI am a lawyer. The men target the women the same. So scary.
@ameliajohnson4454 Жыл бұрын
This was so good👍🏽I was able to relate to everything that was said here... I noticed 6 people have been putting me in their rotation to borrow money. That shits stops today 🛑✋🏿need more content like this, "The People Said"...
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Yes Amelia stop it NOW!! Thanks so much for watching and commenting ❤️
@Lisa-kz7vw Жыл бұрын
This is so funny I agree I see it as a RN in California nurses are driving very expensive cars Tesla, Range Rovers,Mercedes Honda and Toyota not worthy I drive a Toyota. I know many taking care of grown people children, spouses and boyfriends, girlfriends that could be out there working or doing more everything you said 100% correct we make good money we are not rich we earn this money you can definitely over extend you're debt beyond you're means and have nothing left on payday.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support ❤️
@vaberbook4734 Жыл бұрын
Ya I agree I work in LA region and I just do not understand - I had a Honda Civic for 12 years sometimes I do get envious but then I look at my retirement fund:)
@Lisa-kz7vw Жыл бұрын
@@vaberbook4734 Its natural to want nice or fancy things we work hard but you'll be at home retired relaxing they'll be 70 still working I literally have nurse's that age and older still working can't afford to retire have to much debt.
@ZoneE3 Жыл бұрын
@@vaberbook4734 keep it going 💪🏿💪🏿
@kaylahood1000 Жыл бұрын
I’m not in nursing school I looked up how much those figs scrubs cost no thank you. I prefer Cherokee they are comfortable plus I am petite. I think people nowadays just wants to be apart of the trend crowd not me. I have a IPhone it’s not the latest one and you know what who cares. I rather be debt free then broke. That’s just like people going to a top notch nursing school because of the name instead of looking at there budget. I’m at a community college taking my pre reqs paying way less than a 1,000 for a class. I’m not trying to go to a private school just to become a nurse or saying I went to this big name school. I just want to get accepted into Nursing school and come out with less debt or no debt. I rather go to a school that has a awesome NCLEX pass rate then a big name school okay.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Kayla, you got your head on straight. Thanks for watching and sharing your story ❤️
@peachesroyale Жыл бұрын
IKTR
@rae7269 Жыл бұрын
Broke men 😂😂😂😂😂I’ve seen them bring lunch to the back door for their girlfriends
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Facts!! Thanks for watching 🤗
@skylarngugi9894 Жыл бұрын
Luxury apartment- guilty of that, high car note- guilty of that, family- shopping for them like its the end of the world and sending money home while they are chilling on your money - guilty of that too BUT NOT anymore l have wised up
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Yes Skylar, we live and we wise up!! Thanks for watching ❤️
@vaberbook4734 Жыл бұрын
Interesting I am an older nurse and debt free thanks goodness but when i come in to work all I see is high end cars, long gel nails, lashes and extensions, high end purses and lavish vacations. I never could afford those things and I hope these young ones know to put money away in their savings
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Facts!! Thanks for watching 😊
@peachesroyale Жыл бұрын
Long gel nails? 😮
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
@@peachesroyale Y’all gone get me cancelled 😂
@peachesroyale Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingToTawanda no we are not, real recognize REAL
@vaberbook4734 Жыл бұрын
@@peachesroyale Ya! infection control says no but they get away with it Joint Commission did point out one nurse's nails last time
@charlenemyers7599 Жыл бұрын
Been a nurse 17yrs. Just graduated NP school. I have 1 set of scrubs I wore to clinicals and 2 navy's for the hospital that I've had at least 5yrs😂 I ain't bought that spend all your hard money. It's not gonna change when I take my boards either!😊
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Girllllllll!! They not getting my money! No No!!!!! Thanks for watching 😊
@magimagsbromfield8584 Жыл бұрын
A wesome. You're a rear kind. Keep it up. Take care of you. Not a bag of users
@gingerandspice1209 Жыл бұрын
The taking care of men needs to completely stop, im not no ones nurse with a purse.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
I know that’s RIGHT!!!!!
@Lisa-kz7vw Жыл бұрын
Lol say that again
@ermithe18 Жыл бұрын
I'm Haitian we even have movies about young hanging around nursing school in order to get a nurse.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
WOW!!!! Thanks for watching and adding to the discussion 🤗
@naturallyvdeb2040 Жыл бұрын
Sak pasè! to my fellow infirmière 👩⚕️. We definitely get targeted but certain men but we need to also open our eyes to the game.
@kabriamarie Жыл бұрын
I’m guilty of the scrubs!!😂 what I do is save up a few months and then spend on my self, one set at a time! I already told myself when I graduate I’m not getting no man with no career, not stressing myself out for no reason. The whole thing is, be strong and disciplined!! It’s ok to spoil yourself but budget!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Discipline and budgeting is EVERYTHING!! Thanks for watching ❤️
@Nacole_Lashoun Жыл бұрын
Hi Tawanda, Great Video. NP here! Financial literacy is key. Many nurses are first generation “middle class”. They are the first in their family to have access to credit, loans and other “luxury” items. So helpful to learn about financial literacy earlier rather than later. But its never too late ❤❤❤❤❤
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Nacole, so TRUE!! Thanks so much for watching, and adding to the discussion ❤️🤗
@yellowplasticsporks Жыл бұрын
We need a part 3! This was great and really put things into perspective.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
I got you!!!!
@apRN1993 Жыл бұрын
Tawanda this was hilarious 🤣😂 everything was so on point & true but your delivery is my favorite 😂 “they said y’all taking care of big mama nem” 😂😂 not 1 lie told!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
I’m just the messenger 😂😂😂😂
@preciouso358 Жыл бұрын
Yesss !!! Her delivery is so great.
@BigDiscussions76 Жыл бұрын
I don't hang out on TikTok a lot but on Twitter and Instagram, there are a lot of nurses taking selfies and turning up.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@MyFunSizeBudget Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@vietnamemperor123461 Жыл бұрын
Unbelievable to the part where you mentioning nurses taking care of broke men. Absolutely shocking. So true about keeping your boundary. Alot of my friends turning their back on me because I don't let them borrow my money and that ruin our friendship but yeah you just got to learn how to say or else these people will take advantages of you.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@BigDiscussions76 Жыл бұрын
Tawanda I was about to step away from the computer for a restroom break but I saw this part two and the restroom can wait🤣 Back when I was a first year graduate student, I talked to a nurse for a brief time. I'll just say that she was all about the money and more than a little selfish.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Please go take your restroom breaks! Your bladder will thank you 😂😂😂
@lilianamanor7549 Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingToTawanda nurses know it! 🤣💪
@adulttalks3348 Жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head with all that. Just left out those that make themselves single mothers having babies by incompetent men. Like the ones they let hold their cars.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@candaycekeller1874 Жыл бұрын
I’ve seen literally ALL of these happening plus getting Bbls and lipo suction and taking diabetic pills.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 🤗
@Lisa-kz7vw Жыл бұрын
Thats was something she forgot out here in California they all about the cosmetic procedures botox,liposuction breast implants,bbls,permanent makeup everything designer this that taking all they money and it's never enough.
@Sportsbikeguy Жыл бұрын
In 2021 post covid when my work got busy I stopped cooking and started ordering out. It became a bad habit and sometimes it was 6-7 times a week. I've calculated in the last 2 years, I've spent 6-8k on takeout + 50lbs weight gain. That's a new car, new motorcycle, dream vacation, emergency fund etc etc. I've had a mindset shift and I'm now committed to reversing this. For the next 2 years, NO MORE takeout. No more starbucks. I want my extra cash sitting in my bank account not around my waist! Thank you for making these videos.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
You got THIS‼️
@KandyGTV Жыл бұрын
No, lies told. Especially about the high-rise living and dusty men. I plan on being the vacationing nurse, but I have a two year goal to either purchase some land and put a small house on it (less than 1300 sq ft) or purchase a small condo under $150,000 so I can offset my traveling expenses.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Yessss! Planning is EVERYTHING ❤️
@livelife9644 Жыл бұрын
I love how she keep saying "according to the comments" hahaha. I'm not a nurse but I find these videos hilarious. Truth is truth though
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@lilianamanor7549 Жыл бұрын
True 100%. Nurses need to change their bad habits
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
🤗
@toughsuga2 Жыл бұрын
I love this series - so applicable, relatable, and funny at the same time
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂Thanks for watching 🤗
@insideanurse Жыл бұрын
So so true😫😬. I definitely have been caught up in the Starbucks and door dash before😫 absolutely crushed my account
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Just crushes it!!
@Slimm_Sheedah1 Жыл бұрын
Lmao you saying "im just telling you what they said in the comments" and laughing got me laughing too!. Im a nursing student currently and i cant wait to be one! i just finished my budget with my current salary and i know its gonna double when i graduate but im def not planning on killing myself with hours OR mistreating my money. I would love a vaca and its much needed and i will be going at some point.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
You’ll do just fine❤️
@Pinesol605 Жыл бұрын
😂 The vacation one got me! Tawanda we need a part three
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
I got you Care-bear😂
@jueileen4599 Жыл бұрын
I’m a nurse and this is all facts!!! A lot of times it’s like high school 😂
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Facts!! Thanks for watching 😊
@getboogie1950 Жыл бұрын
I met one who was studying to be a RN, who currently worked at a crazy house distributing meds third shift, making $75 an hour, could not afford to pay her rent, and her $800 jeep Cherokee car note. I said bitch you doing some wrong.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
It happens! Thanks for watching 😊
@jennib9953 Жыл бұрын
This was a great video. Social media plays a big part of how some people want to live their lifestyle. Although some nurses may live like that but not all. I believe nurses should go on vacations just like anyone else. Working extra shifts all the time is too much and if you are a nurse eventually invest into your retirement.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
I definitely believe in me some vacations! Thanks for watching 😊
@tahmarabare Жыл бұрын
The way this had me laughing 😂 I’m so glad i found you while I’m still in nursing school
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on nursing school 🎉Thanks for watching 😂
@prettychunks1011 Жыл бұрын
Towanda giirrl I'm over here rollin😂 at "I'm just telling yall wat they saying in the comments"....its the hard truth tho
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Facts!!!! Thanks for watching ❤️
@DevTheDudeRN Жыл бұрын
Take a shot each time she say it 😂
@prettychunks1011 Жыл бұрын
@@DevTheDudeRN exactly 😄
@MRyWil Жыл бұрын
I had a coworker last week with a Maserati truck ! I know a nurse who lets her deadbeat man drive her car and drop her off, then goes wherever. Also the expensive Figs uniforms. Too expensive and I don’t think the intent of the company was to market to nurses but doctors. The doctors don’t wear them. They wear old scrubs. Great videos and so accurate
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 🤗
@gmorris2891 Жыл бұрын
I was getting my car serviced and I overhead a man talking about the fact that he drop his wife to work and pick her up. He was on the phone saying she was a nurse and she was so happy to give him money. He goes over to the side chick house all day and then go pick her up from work. I was so disgusted by him. But he’s not lying. I see the nurses outside work waiting for their man to pick them up with their cars.
@MRyWil Жыл бұрын
@@gmorris2891 i don’t know why women want broke men. A man MUST make at minimum double my salary or I wouldn’t even go on a date lol. These men make fools of these women just to say they have a man.
@MRyWil Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingToTawanda your video topics are great. Please make more of them 😊
@ZoneE3 Жыл бұрын
Time for me to get a nurseee😂😂😂
@ladybirdehrmantraut1245 Жыл бұрын
$1000 car note??!!!!!! Omg
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am it’s happening!!
@HeyMsVal Жыл бұрын
Not me girl. 😂😂😂😂😂
@docdoctme Жыл бұрын
Also they like to have elaborate weddings and don’t forget the large diamond engagement ring.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Facts!! Broke Nurse 3 just DROPPED!! Thanks for watching ❤️
@had123ish Жыл бұрын
Tawanda…could you cover the legal documents that nurses need??? Like Wills, Power of Attorneys, Medical Directives, etc? Nurses need to do the adult things…get a financial planner, do estate planning, and make a money plan so they can live BENEATH THEIR MEANS!!! (We beggin’ for a Part 3)
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Will definitely add it in!! Thanks for watching ❤️
@Lexicon345 Жыл бұрын
I'm not a nurse,I'm a videographer who is getting his house in order. You're really helping me re evaluate my spending habits.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Oh WOW!! Thanks so much for sharing ❤️
@aisoaification Жыл бұрын
Please do a part 3!, I loved this! And it was eye opening as I'm an RN really willing to try to take back control of my spending habits, it's actually irresponsible and embarrassing at this point.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Budget that money!! Thanks for watching 😊
@SignedEmma Жыл бұрын
Tawanda!!! Not driving these men driving your car and not even picking you up on time! lmao!!! I'm in tears! Loved this! ❤ And congratulations on 10k subbies!!! Love witnessing your growth!!! 🎉
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Right, that’s According To The Comments 😂😂 Thanks Emma, you are up next! Get ready for your 10K plus MORE❤️
@SignedEmma Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingToTawanda I'm taking notes ma'am! 📝
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
@@SignedEmma You got THIS!!!! Keep pushing out content!!!!!
@chrisk4053 Жыл бұрын
I loved this !! I am an NP driving an 11 year old car living below my means. The parking ramp is loaded w those fancy cars !! I think nurses have to keep in mind that the job is physically demanding a lot of times and you could get injured and then be stuck w all those huge debts. I think it’s wonderful to enjoy your salary but is it worth all those extra shifts and relying on OT which may not be avail ? Just a thought!!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
So true! People need need to be a little more cautious about spending hard earned money. Thanks for watching 😊
@jwatson2267 Жыл бұрын
This applies to a lot of people not just nurses!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Very true! Thanks for watching 😊
@valariegaines3550 Жыл бұрын
Lol this is funny … I’m not a nurse… I’m a OT but still on a debt free journey … i think this goes for all woman in healthcare.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching ❤️
@WW-qt9dw Жыл бұрын
Amen
@ebonyroddy4473 Жыл бұрын
It's funny when black women step out and get that bag 😂😂. All the black nurses I know have built business including myself and self -loving ourselves. Traveling, making our own schedules, living our best life and why they are counting our money. lol if I want something special financially, I can do numerous things to make a quick buck as a nurse ... Blessed is all it is. 🤑🥰 I say go get you a degree, a trade, start that business and don't limit yourself. People do assume when they see you living a lavish life, you have to be broke or financially uneducated. I lease a BMW every three years. I don't worry about Maintenace, I don't need take my car in they pick it up. My note is less than just about everyone I know with car headaches. I don't need to owe something the depreciates in value and I have to constantly spend on. Everyone reading, please don't believe that the goal is retirement, its freedom.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
It’s the FREEDOM for ME!!!! Thanks for watching 🤗
@riseupreese10 ай бұрын
Exactly. Congratulations on your achievements.
@MandieHeartsLife Жыл бұрын
This was the best video!! I was laughing so hard at some of those and taking notes on some other ones. You definitely should do another “according to the comments” so happy I found your channel before I get my first nursing check!! Please continue to keep us nurses on our game!!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Will do!! Thanks for watching and commenting ❤️
@MyFunSizeBudget Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I almost bought the figs. Glad i didn't. Wonder winks for 13 yrs and have bought probably 8 pairs of scrubs total. I hardly ever buy scrubs until they wear down
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Girl they stuff is to rich for my blood. Especially for when I work ICU and ER with the chance of getting a patient’s bodily fluids on me. No, and NO!!
@JaeSpeaksLive Жыл бұрын
Phew! This tea 🍵 was piping hot Tawanda!!! Thank you 😊
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Jae❤️🤗
@theartesana Жыл бұрын
Facts! I have to admit..I’m guilty of the nice vacations. Though I have slowed down since Covid. However I also have one to add to your list exquisite wine or top shelf alcohol gets my pocket in trouble! 😅
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Put it in the budget! Thanks so much 😊
@lcollins1051 Жыл бұрын
“According to the comments!” 🤣🤣🤣👀👂🏾
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching ❤️
@AbundantlyBlessedByTruth Жыл бұрын
This took me out 😂
@AyyeMikey Жыл бұрын
Citing the sources 🤗
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
@@AbundantlyBlessedByTruth 😂😂😂
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
@@AyyeMikey Facts!!
@scrubz.n.squatz2495 Жыл бұрын
Who is wearing Figs lol it don’t even fit the black girls who have a body, it’s Healing Hands all day for me. But you are very much on point. Can you make a video on how to save your sign on bonus or how to invest it. I think the younger nurses need to hear this frfr.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Healing hands, I’ll definitely look into them. Yes I actually plan to discuss sign on bonuses in a upcoming video. Thanks for the suggestion 😁
@JusticeXFalls Жыл бұрын
I'm not even a nurse and idk how this content got directed to me but I love it! You're very entertaining imma keep tuning in!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that! Thanks for watching 😊
@JusticeXFalls Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingToTawanda No doubt! I'm here to stay lol
@loveandjoy810 Жыл бұрын
OMG. Starbucks. My nurse friend hits Starbucks daily.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Girllllll! Thanks for watching ❤️
@vikki7286 Жыл бұрын
I cosign on all the commenter thoughts!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Vikki thanks for the support 🤗
@dianaw203 Жыл бұрын
i definitely agree with tik tok influencing us it’s keeping us broke !
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@beatricealboth1242 Жыл бұрын
I am a HHA I went to patients house who said they was nurse and retired and other jobs and I look around all I see stocks of paper 📑 all over and juice and water packs and wipes
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Oh WOW!! Thanks for watching 😊
@xx-knight-xx2119 Жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with a life of humility and prosperity. That also means theres nothing wrong with having what you need and not everything you want. None of that stuff you buy will bring you happiness.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Thanks for watching 😂
@reneeprince639910 ай бұрын
😂Tawanda, I always enjoy your channel, but this video is so on-point!!! Even though I have been laughing while watching, hopefully the essence of what's been shared will be taken seriously.
@AccordingToTawanda10 ай бұрын
Renee, this one tickled me as well😂 Thanks for supporting the channel 🩷
@wavynaturalista Жыл бұрын
First of all, the Figs be on sale when I buy them, ma’am 😂😂😂😅🤕
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
That’s just what the people said😂😂You got me ROTFL😂😂😂😂
@FOD832 Жыл бұрын
man she funny 😂 her delivery right on time pure love and truth
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 😊
@JamesJones2.15.19 Жыл бұрын
To be fair, my fiancé a nurse we live in high tax ass Chicago. My wife do not take care of me, but I do watch kids for 14 hours, feed kids, I’m basically a stay at home wife😂. My homies like “why you acting like a bih?” I’m thinking I’m being a stand up nigga, “my girl make more than me, so ima bite the bullet and watch the kids..” nah, she make more than me on paper, but never have money. Shit is crazy. Everything you named is true, and I can’t speak for everyone but I got my own money, shit, I still finance her and kids that’s biologically not mines. These mfs do think they on bad girls club 😢 Shit is sad
@blurose2479 Жыл бұрын
Love this! I am by no means a nurse or make nurse money. But this keeps my life in perspective, thanks!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Blu Rose, you are welcome 🤗
@samarch218911 ай бұрын
Maybe its because Nurses see Death on a regular basis, that it's something psychological to live in the moment and not save or wait til later for anything.
@chelsealeonard17664 ай бұрын
Them comment ain’t never lied 😂
@robgrant4265 Жыл бұрын
You are a Leader Ms Tawanda! You make a great wage! Most people live at their wage and or way above their means. Example: Buy a bigger house, a much nicer car, etc. Which uses up that great wage! What should be happening and requires discipline and consistency is living way below your wages and having more money to put into investment vehicles that can then give you much more options like..buying your independence back. Like taking a year off and doing what really stokes your fire. It could be as simple as working around your home for that year. Why, because you have no debt and your investments/savings are taking care of you. I tell my grown boys that only get into debt if that debt can make them money otherwise they become indentured servants to that debt. Its all about total freedom and giving yourself more options. Keep learning and leading.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Rob, thanks so much for your kind words! One of the best things that I have ever done is to put myself in a financial position where I have been able to take extended career breaks throughout my life . It has proven to be PRICELESS!! This is why I show up on the channel and stress the benefits of managing money properly. I really appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment❤️
@s-man9528 Жыл бұрын
I’m starting nursing school this fall! Thanks for the advice.
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
My pleasure! Thanks for watching 😊
@MissGinaAccountingForStyle Жыл бұрын
I'm not even a nurse but number 4 and 6 was just hilarious to me!🤣 Vol. 3 please!
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Stay tuned for Vol. 3❤️
@jeremyrivera70792 ай бұрын
I did uber eats for a bit. About 25% of my deliveries were to a local hospital nurse
@joserodriguez-og9zd2 ай бұрын
I love this lady. She tells the TRUTH!
@BudgetWithBey Жыл бұрын
"I'm just telling yall what they said in the comments" LMAO
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Bey, that’s what they said😂😂😂
@rossmacintosh5652 Жыл бұрын
Tawanda, clearly you have very smart commentators! 😁
@AccordingToTawanda Жыл бұрын
Thank you! 😃
@deliteful1991 Жыл бұрын
I just heard of a classmate who purchased a brand new Lexus after passing boards and another bought a house. I’m happy for them though.🤷🏽♀️