Nurses Are Broke Vol 2| Why Are Nurse Broke| THE COMMENTS: 11 Reasons Nurses Are Broke

[@redrock740]

There is literally a line of broke men waiting to pick up their wives and girlfriends who work the graveyard shift every morning at my healthcare facility. These women are so broke, they share the fancy car with their man. They work extra graveyard shifts to enjoy fancy vacations with their man. They work extra shifts to gamble money with their man. When you ask them what their man does for a living they say, he is on disability, he owns his own business, he is retired, he is a student in school, he takes care of the kids and extended family. It's so sad to see how much these women give up, in order to have a broke man in their lives. Eventually you hear that the broke man was cheating on them, stole their money, divorced them and getting alimony/child support, or straight up ghosted them.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

It’s happening!! Thanks for watching 😊

[@Lisa-kz7vw]

Lol I'm telling you everything you just mentioned I hear and have heard at every facility been a nurse almost 18 year's this is real yes everyone situation is different but just letting someone use you like that to be able to say I got a man it's sad I see someone who can't be alone it's really sad those nurses are never happy their usually very negative at work, moody or just rude hard to get alone with because their home life unstable.

[@redrock740]

@@Lisa-kz7vwThese nurses are beyond unhappy. They are downright miserable and exhausted. It is like their man is their pimp, hustling them for a bigger and bigger paycheck. Some of these nurses never take a day off. They work two jobs, and only take a day off if it is paid PTO.

[@hebrewharv8018]

As a man how could you just let your woman kill herself. I’m a go out and do the 80 hr weeks. Do your little 5 day/ 8hrs off on weekends and holidays😂😂😂

[@ROYALP100]

This sounds like Filipino culture to me… American women (Black/White) usually wouldn’t take care of a man in this manner.

[@briyalevette]

Lawd they forgot the BBL, breast, and tummy tuck procedures. I worked at a recovery house for the last few years in south Florida and 3/5 of the women coming in were nurses 😭😂

[@ZoneE3]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@t.taylor6879]

Lmaoo you ain’t never lied. I was thinking about getting one too lol

[@chinaarlene7035]

@@t.taylor6879 lol

[@TheDoriette]

🫨

[@msfredijr]

I’ve been a RN for decades and I’m single as a dollar bill. Recently had a guy tell me he can no longer talk to be because of he doesn’t feel like a man even talking to me. He’s on very very hard times (getting groceries from the church, no car insurance, threatening repo, back child support, lost his job, etc). I just wished him well and pivoted. I’m not the Hope House, I’m not a “nurse with a purse” and I won’t be taken advantage of. I’m too busy trying to get these educational, personal and spiritual goals checked off. Sheeeesssssh!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Yesssssss! Let him find SOMEBODY ELSE👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾At least he knew he wasn’t READY!

[@msfredijr]

@@AccordingToTawanda I just found your channel tonight and I immediately became a subby! I’m a big-haired natural as well. Absolutely ♥️ your content! 🌹

[@AccordingToTawanda]

@@msfredijr Awwwww❤️ Thanks so much, and welcome to The Fam🤗

[@TamikaMack-fi2yk]

EXACTLY 💯💯💯🎉

[@King_Ajani]

I wholeheartedly concur and I’m a male NICU RN. The parking lot looks like a luxury dealership.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@deliteful1991]

Lol 😂 I’m driving my paid off KIA till the wheels fall off.😂😂😂

[@Tfolife528]

😂😂😂

[@theinspiredhomedecor]

Omg! The Starbucks! I’m a Case Manager RN and I ALWAYS see Starbucks, Jamba Juice, in the drink section. And when I go to the break room lol it’s like a smorgasbord! I make my own coffee and cook and bring my lunch. I’ve been a RN for years. I did have a bum fiancé when I was a new nurse and got rid of him. I stopped telling men I was a nurse when I first get to know them. When I tried online dating I had to take that I was a nurse out of my profile. I know several nurses who are the breadwinner and their husbands or boyfriends are stay at home dads or just stay at home period with or without kids. And oh my goodness I know several nurses who are paying alimony too here in California. I do travel a lot but I do it for business (I have several businesses for home decor) and it’s a business expense. I also do not work extra. I have several streams of income now in addition to my part time nurse job.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Amazing!! I love it❤️

[@shalesiamattews2981]

Thanks for sharing this video I believe it's time everyone should learn to Live below their means" adjust their lifestyle, be frugal, budget, save and invest. This helped me out as a 6 figure earner. I've grown over half a million in retirement savings with this method

[@kalonb5101]

Now see when you get to $3-5 million when you retire ppl are gonna be all shocked.

[@gracedaniels6172]

Congratulations ma'am so happy for you, I'm trying to get started I know it takes consistency to be successful. It's really so hilarious. Sadly there's actually people still living paycheck to paycheck

[@eiraantoinette6793]

You said it all right there, great accomplishment keep it going 👍

[@keishalewelling849]

Keisha GA, 32. I Just started at my six figure job after being in and out of the poverty line. I really hope I don't end up like this. I'm scared really scared!!!

[@shalesiamattews2981]

@@kalonb5101 exactly it's really good to play your cards right

[@riseupreese]

This is hilarious but do what makes you happy ladies. You have to have a balance. I drive a BMW and love nice luxury items. I still manage to max my 401k, pay my tuition out of pocket for NP school, and also invest in real estate. One thing I do is buy myself some quality uniforms and work shoes, they are comfortable and the last. I do have a supportive husband that’s a go-getter like me. But don’t feel bad for treating yourself. You worked hard for that license, enjoy the fruits of your labor! 🥰

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching, and CONGRATULATIONS on cashing flowing NP school🎉

[@MajsPursuit]

I’m not a nurse but I am on a debt free journey so this is helpful and entertaining 😂❤

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@JayJackson007]

Yes very!! I’m not a nurse & don’t make 1/2 of 6 figures. It’s good to know these things!!

[@MG-jj3pn]

I’m a nurse and what you say is so true. Whatever happened to cooking at home and taking leftovers? Making your own coffee beverages and use the ice at work? The only people impressed by your designer bags and luxury cars are others with the same. I will retire in 2 years with $1M and a home that is affordable on social security. Ladies and gentlemen nurses please think about being able to retire comfortably at 65 or earlier.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Congratulations 🎉🍾🎈❤️❤️

[@rubychew6535]

I worked at a technical school, and they had a two-year nursing program and the instructor said that men want to marry women who are nurses. There was a nurse who completed nursing school (the school that I worked at) her husband kept having her apply for different jobs and he would tell her that the job you have is not good enough for you. The instructor got tired of writing letters of recommendations for her. Her husband was using her.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

WOW!! Thanks for watching 🤗

[@naturallyvdeb2040]

Yes, there’s some of that going on. Men who sit back watch their wives working I’ve personally seen 3 different jobs-1 FT & 2 PDs. I always warn the young, unmarried ones of this phenomenon. Have to be smart & keep all eyes open when dating.

[@mari0c0leman]

That part about having boundaries with friends and family when it comes to money is true. I’m at a great point in my life now where I don’t interact with them anymore. I used to look at them sideways because I’m a single guy and they’d be in a relationship needing a loan from me. I’ve relocated to another state and lost touch with a gang of people.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching and joining the discussion ❤️

[@raemaxey3401]

I know a young nurse that has been in the field about two years and she has been to Dubai, Hawaii and Miami so far and we won’t even talk about all the brand name bags, clothes and Jordan’s she wears!!! I asked her how much student loan debt she had and at the time she said 90K and that she’s going back to school to become a NP. I was speechless. It’s so sad to see that so many of them have no clue how to budget and handle there finances properly!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@TheDoriette]

Expects the taxpayer to pay back her student loan, I'm willing to bet.

[@KleanAsmr]

Maybe she has other income? Nursing is my second income and my first source pays all of my bills (I went to nursing school already having it). Nursing is my fun money lol.

[@KleanAsmr]

This actually sounds like jealousy to me lol. Let them live their lives how they want. Not everyone wants to work themselves until age 67. The millennials want to work and also rest. Vacations are healthy for us. We should rest whenever we feel we need to. Boomers are so used to working like dogs, they get offended when someone doesn’t. 😂 We’re only here once!

[@itsniquenique45]

@@TheDoriettey’all paying for corporate tax cuts, war and the local police and fire dept. Surely you can extend some grace to the hardworking college graduates too

[@Ck-pj3vu]

TRUE! That’s why I don’t tell anyone I’m a nurse.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Don’t tell ‘em!! Thanks for watching ❤️

[@gingerandspice1209]

Or how much you make?

[@kayabe856]

I don’t even like wearing my uniform into a store. Had one lady walk up to me in Kroger trying to get me to diagnose her toddler.

[@deniseg8526]

I tell men I'm a desk clerk

[@ZoneE3]

​@@gingerandspice1209never everrr

[@sabrina.natalie]

“Spending money like they’re drug dealers”. LOL. El Chapo La Enfermera in the building! 😅

[@AccordingToTawanda]

LOL!😂❤️

[@ZoneE3]

😂😂😂😂

[@sabrina.natalie]

🩺 One day, if you ever make merchandise for your KZbin channel, “According to the comments” should definitely be a slogan on a mug and a t-shirt.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Most definitely Sabrina🤗 Thanks for watching ❤️

[@Alyssaj1236]

😂😂

[@Friendly_Black_Hottie]

AGREED! Lol

[@insideanurse]

I definitely think men target Nurses. Smh

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Facts!!!!!!🤗

[@arandaholley1719]

I am a lawyer and same sis.

[@insideanurse]

@@arandaholley1719 😫 smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Lisa-kz7vw]

They target any women with a steady income who looks like she earning a good living and they don't have to work much or at all facts

[@blessedbygod3430]

EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS TRUE 💯 please do a volume 3!!😂

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for the support ❤️

[@helena3631]

1000 agree especially the targeting nurses in the hospital like the janitor, maintaince .. and nurses always seem to date broke men and give them they check.. also why u a nurse and driving a Porsche and wearing a LV neverfull to the hospital.. the doctors not even doing it like that the dermatologist at my job wear the same blue and black scrubs and saconny’s for the last three years and he has three offices … nurses need to get it together and get off this hamster wheel of overtime and check to check

[@Tfolife528]

Yes volume 3 is necessary!

[@soinda87]

LVN and bought a 80k property once I was done with a 500 car note. Didn’t want to spend on another car. 3 years later the property is 250k. Teaching my son’s too on money handling.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

This is how it should be done!! Thanks for sharing. Thanks for sharing 🤗❤️

[@soinda87]

@@AccordingToTawanda you’re welcome.

[@ameliajohnson4454]

This was so good👍🏽I was able to relate to everything that was said here... I noticed 6 people have been putting me in their rotation to borrow money. That shits stops today 🛑✋🏿need more content like this, "The People Said"...

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Yes Amelia stop it NOW!! Thanks so much for watching and commenting ❤️

[@dimediamond]

YES I KNOW PLENTYYYYY of nurses taking care and keeping there BUM mans. There man is a princess in the relationship and well kept. Its a epidemic. ❤ These men are spending all these women money. ❤

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching ❤️

[@blackmary9995]

You all who are Nurses, worked so hard for that License. Don't give up. If this is what you love doing for a living w/o the toxicity, then you may want to consider raising enough funds you need to open up your own Skilled nursing Facility that you can run and hire Qualified Staff that you can carefully screen before they come through those doors. You don't have to put up with Toxic and incompetent rude Co-Workers.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for the support ❤️🤗

[@randomvideoshere6540]

The comments were so so right. My ex husband and bd were inlove with the nurse atm . They thought she was the kindness, sweetest, softest, easy to deal with person untill she set boundaries and then they called her user, abuser, cold, sociopath, narc, psychopath. Maybe I should write a book of what my life experiences in the last 2 years have been. And my sister in tech...... her ex husband got her wrapped up in medicaid fraud. She's lucky to only get convicted of a misdemeanor. Sometimes I feel like we just cannot trust men at all.😊

[@AccordingToTawanda]

WOW!!!!! Thanks for watching, and sharing your story 🤗

[@Sportsbikeguy]

In 2021 post covid when my work got busy I stopped cooking and started ordering out. It became a bad habit and sometimes it was 6-7 times a week. I've calculated in the last 2 years, I've spent 6-8k on takeout + 50lbs weight gain. That's a new car, new motorcycle, dream vacation, emergency fund etc etc. I've had a mindset shift and I'm now committed to reversing this. For the next 2 years, NO MORE takeout. No more starbucks. I want my extra cash sitting in my bank account not around my waist! Thank you for making these videos.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

You got THIS‼️

[@BPink-ke7jy]

Hi Tawanda! I loved the videos! I am a RN and I am very conscientious about what I spend money on. I cannot believe some nurses are spending $1000 per month on a car note. I plan to buy a used car soon, and my budget is $30K or less. Sometimes, I do feel like I want to splurge, but I don’t. Living paycheck to paycheck would completely stress me out. I love your personality and will be subscribing to your channel 😊

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Yes, living paycheck to paycheck is STRESSFUL! Thanks for subbing ❤️

[@Dee-oq5ms]

I'm so mad my car was 30k lol but once it's also off this is IT!

[@Hope27946]

30k a car ? 😢still a lot Mine I decided would be 10k or less . And by God Grace I found a good one 10k

[@Dee-oq5ms]

@@Hope27946 haha yea after the fact I was mad with myself but it's a honda so I hope to get a lifetime of use.

[@iinicholas2682]

The men definitely target nurses ....and it's working. Nurses are caregivers and I have never worked anywhere that didn't have that dynamic.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@shanzie81]

These are some of the reasons why some people outside of health care think nurses make bank. It can be true, or they can be wearing it, driving it, and in my case, eating it.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@Nacole_Lashoun]

Hi Tawanda, Great Video. NP here! Financial literacy is key. Many nurses are first generation “middle class”. They are the first in their family to have access to credit, loans and other “luxury” items. So helpful to learn about financial literacy earlier rather than later. But its never too late ❤❤❤❤❤

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Nacole, so TRUE!! Thanks so much for watching, and adding to the discussion ❤️🤗

[@Slimm_Sheedah1]

Lmao you saying "im just telling you what they said in the comments" and laughing got me laughing too!. Im a nursing student currently and i cant wait to be one! i just finished my budget with my current salary and i know its gonna double when i graduate but im def not planning on killing myself with hours OR mistreating my money. I would love a vaca and its much needed and i will be going at some point.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

You’ll do just fine❤️

[@yellowplasticsporks]

We need a part 3! This was great and really put things into perspective.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

I got you!!!!

[@gmorris2891]

Walmart had uniforms on sale $1 top and $1 bottoms. I’m one of those nurse who will not be caught dead in those expensive uniforms. I also get my uniforms from DDs $6.99 to $9.99 for tops and bottoms. I’m cheap cheap cheap cheap.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Girllllll I caught that Walmart sale😁

[@gmorris2891]

❤

[@apRN1993]

Tawanda this was hilarious 🤣😂 everything was so on point & true but your delivery is my favorite 😂 “they said y’all taking care of big mama nem” 😂😂 not 1 lie told!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

I’m just the messenger 😂😂😂😂

[@preciouso358]

Yesss !!! Her delivery is so great.

[@Lisa-kz7vw]

This is so funny I agree I see it as a RN in California nurses are driving very expensive cars Tesla, Range Rovers,Mercedes Honda and Toyota not worthy I drive a Toyota. I know many taking care of grown people children, spouses and boyfriends, girlfriends that could be out there working or doing more everything you said 100% correct we make good money we are not rich we earn this money you can definitely over extend you're debt beyond you're means and have nothing left on payday.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for the support ❤️

[@vaberbook4734]

Ya I agree I work in LA region and I just do not understand - I had a Honda Civic for 12 years sometimes I do get envious but then I look at my retirement fund:)

[@Lisa-kz7vw]

​@@vaberbook4734 Its natural to want nice or fancy things we work hard but you'll be at home retired relaxing they'll be 70 still working I literally have nurse's that age and older still working can't afford to retire have to much debt.

[@ZoneE3]

​@@vaberbook4734 keep it going 💪🏿💪🏿

[@skylarngugi9894]

Luxury apartment- guilty of that, high car note- guilty of that, family- shopping for them like its the end of the world and sending money home while they are chilling on your money - guilty of that too BUT NOT anymore l have wised up

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Yes Skylar, we live and we wise up!! Thanks for watching ❤️

[@adulttalks3348]

You hit the nail on the head with all that. Just left out those that make themselves single mothers having babies by incompetent men. Like the ones they let hold their cars.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@gingerandspice1209]

The taking care of men needs to completely stop, im not no ones nurse with a purse.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

I know that’s RIGHT!!!!!

[@Lisa-kz7vw]

Lol say that again

[@charlenemyers7599]

Been a nurse 17yrs. Just graduated NP school. I have 1 set of scrubs I wore to clinicals and 2 navy's for the hospital that I've had at least 5yrs😂 I ain't bought that spend all your hard money. It's not gonna change when I take my boards either!😊

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Girllllllll!! They not getting my money! No No!!!!! Thanks for watching 😊

[@magimagsbromfield8584]

A wesome. You're a rear kind. Keep it up. Take care of you. Not a bag of users

[@ermithe18]

I'm Haitian we even have movies about young hanging around nursing school in order to get a nurse.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

WOW!!!! Thanks for watching and adding to the discussion 🤗

[@naturallyvdeb2040]

Sak pasè! to my fellow infirmière 👩‍⚕️. We definitely get targeted but certain men but we need to also open our eyes to the game.

[@rae7269]

Girl I noticed the bus drivers, maintenance men and RT men all go after the nurses. Especially trying the new ones. The men seem obsessive and overlly polite and aroused. I think they want to get someone pregnant and trapped. Some even are married.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Facts! Thanks for watching ❤️

[@TelesiaKyler]

Im wasn’t social media friends with any coworkers at an old job but I stumbled on a facebook argument between a nurse & EVS guy about how she wasted his time & was rude & she said “when u asked me for money i drew the line”.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

@@TelesiaKyler OH MY😬

[@mirandaholley9797]

​@@AccordingToTawandaI am a lawyer. The men target the women the same. So scary.

[@rae7269]

Broke men 😂😂😂😂😂I’ve seen them bring lunch to the back door for their girlfriends

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Facts!! Thanks for watching 🤗

[@HeyMsVal]

OMG...Tawanda brought the tea 🍵 ta-day in 10 minutes! I was all for it. As you ran down the line I could only think of my friend who is a travel nurse. Wanna talk about team too much? Here we go. She eats out all the time. Just bought a 6 bedroom home here in Florida. She drives an SUV and a Jaguar. She doesn't like to drive to her assignments so she flies to her destination and pays someone to drive the SUV. Then pay to fly them home. When the assignment is over she does the opposite. She flies back to Florida at least 1-2 times per month. Now she wants to do a girl's trip to Dubai! NOT ME GIRL! I got it but I have better things to do with my money. Oh and she doesn't have medical insurance. I had to pop the boil in her armpit because she didn't want to go to at least a walk in clinic. Team too much!!!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Girllllll folks got to do BETTER!! Thanks for watching and sharing ❤️

[@ugochia212]

A nurse and no medical insurance. Health is wealth, and it's better than material things!.

[@Lisa-kz7vw]

Lord she a hot mess sounds like it no thankyou

[@deliteful1991]

No Medical insurance….whew 😢

[@Pylypczak]

Youll get fined by IRS for no medical insurance at the end of the year

[@lilianamanor7549]

True 100%. Nurses need to change their bad habits

[@AccordingToTawanda]

🤗

[@shesosweet2781]

Lmao when I just started out, I got my uniforms at the thrift store 🥴. When I got a little more money, I started shopping at DD’s Discount Store 😭🤣

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Amen👏🏾Thanks for watching 😊

[@JamesJones2.15.19]

To be fair, my fiancé a nurse we live in high tax ass Chicago. My wife do not take care of me, but I do watch kids for 14 hours, feed kids, I’m basically a stay at home wife😂. My homies like “why you acting like a bih?” I’m thinking I’m being a stand up nigga, “my girl make more than me, so ima bite the bullet and watch the kids..” nah, she make more than me on paper, but never have money. Shit is crazy. Everything you named is true, and I can’t speak for everyone but I got my own money, shit, I still finance her and kids that’s biologically not mines. These mfs do think they on bad girls club 😢 Shit is sad

[@Lexicon345]

I'm not a nurse,I'm a videographer who is getting his house in order. You're really helping me re evaluate my spending habits.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Oh WOW!! Thanks so much for sharing ❤️

[@toughsuga2]

I love this series - so applicable, relatable, and funny at the same time

[@AccordingToTawanda]

😂😂😂Thanks for watching 🤗

[@ChinaDoll305]

😂 The vacation one got me! Tawanda we need a part three

[@AccordingToTawanda]

I got you Care-bear😂

[@BigDiscussions76]

Tawanda I was about to step away from the computer for a restroom break but I saw this part two and the restroom can wait🤣 Back when I was a first year graduate student, I talked to a nurse for a brief time. I'll just say that she was all about the money and more than a little selfish.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Please go take your restroom breaks! Your bladder will thank you 😂😂😂

[@lilianamanor7549]

@@AccordingToTawanda nurses know it! 🤣💪

[@kaylahood1000]

I’m not in nursing school I looked up how much those figs scrubs cost no thank you. I prefer Cherokee they are comfortable plus I am petite. I think people nowadays just wants to be apart of the trend crowd not me. I have a IPhone it’s not the latest one and you know what who cares. I rather be debt free then broke. That’s just like people going to a top notch nursing school because of the name instead of looking at there budget. I’m at a community college taking my pre reqs paying way less than a 1,000 for a class. I’m not trying to go to a private school just to become a nurse or saying I went to this big name school. I just want to get accepted into Nursing school and come out with less debt or no debt. I rather go to a school that has a awesome NCLEX pass rate then a big name school okay.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Kayla, you got your head on straight. Thanks for watching and sharing your story ❤️

[@peachesroyale]

IKTR

[@chelsealeonard1766]

Them comment ain’t never lied 😂

[@kabriamarie]

I’m guilty of the scrubs!!😂 what I do is save up a few months and then spend on my self, one set at a time! I already told myself when I graduate I’m not getting no man with no career, not stressing myself out for no reason. The whole thing is, be strong and disciplined!! It’s ok to spoil yourself but budget!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Discipline and budgeting is EVERYTHING!! Thanks for watching ❤️

[@chrisk4053]

I loved this !! I am an NP driving an 11 year old car living below my means. The parking ramp is loaded w those fancy cars !! I think nurses have to keep in mind that the job is physically demanding a lot of times and you could get injured and then be stuck w all those huge debts. I think it’s wonderful to enjoy your salary but is it worth all those extra shifts and relying on OT which may not be avail ? Just a thought!!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

So true! People need need to be a little more cautious about spending hard earned money. Thanks for watching 😊

[@BigDiscussions76]

I don't hang out on TikTok a lot but on Twitter and Instagram, there are a lot of nurses taking selfies and turning up.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@MyFunSizeBudget]

😂😂😂

[@jueileen4599]

I’m a nurse and this is all facts!!! A lot of times it’s like high school 😂

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Facts!! Thanks for watching 😊

[@docdoctme]

Also they like to have elaborate weddings and don’t forget the large diamond engagement ring.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Facts!! Broke Nurse 3 just DROPPED!! Thanks for watching ❤️

[@tahmarabare]

The way this had me laughing 😂 I’m so glad i found you while I’m still in nursing school

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Congratulations on nursing school 🎉Thanks for watching 😂

[@insideanurse]

So so true😫😬. I definitely have been caught up in the Starbucks and door dash before😫 absolutely crushed my account

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Just crushes it!!

[@adrian3747_]

Some nurses be living luxurious like they’re part of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills lol 😂

[@AccordingToTawanda]

True! Thanks for watching 😊

[@ZoneE3]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@adrian3747_]

@@ZoneE3 it’s true 😂

[@jennib9953]

This was a great video. Social media plays a big part of how some people want to live their lifestyle. Although some nurses may live like that but not all. I believe nurses should go on vacations just like anyone else. Working extra shifts all the time is too much and if you are a nurse eventually invest into your retirement.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

I definitely believe in me some vacations! Thanks for watching 😊

[@LifeUnfilltered]

Phew! This tea 🍵 was piping hot Tawanda!!! Thank you 😊

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching Jae❤️🤗

[@stephaniemartin9253]

STEP ON THEM TOES!!! Two nurses in the family and the men they got with...NO. JUST NOOOOOO!!! So glad one of them is a vet, he can't get that house EVER! The PREDATION IS REAL!!!!!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Stephanie thanks for the support ❤️🤗

[@stephaniemartin9253]

@@AccordingToTawanda Thanks for trying to help those who don't know they need help❤

[@vaberbook4734]

Interesting I am an older nurse and debt free thanks goodness but when i come in to work all I see is high end cars, long gel nails, lashes and extensions, high end purses and lavish vacations. I never could afford those things and I hope these young ones know to put money away in their savings

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Facts!! Thanks for watching 😊

[@peachesroyale]

Long gel nails? 😮

[@AccordingToTawanda]

@@peachesroyale Y’all gone get me cancelled 😂

[@peachesroyale]

@@AccordingToTawanda no we are not, real recognize REAL

[@vaberbook4734]

@@peachesroyale Ya! infection control says no but they get away with it Joint Commission did point out one nurse's nails last time

[@diplomat2623]

I’ve had janitors holla at me all the time. I just make small talk back eventually it became a friendly neighborly interaction. Men eventually get the memo. I 100% believe any time of relationship starts with the second person-me. If I’m not catching what you’re throwing nothing is going down. Ladies, please stop giving dusties your precious energy. The ball is in YOUR court.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@aisoaification]

Please do a part 3!, I loved this! And it was eye opening as I'm an RN really willing to try to take back control of my spending habits, it's actually irresponsible and embarrassing at this point.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Budget that money!! Thanks for watching 😊

[@prettychunks1011]

Towanda giirrl I'm over here rollin😂 at "I'm just telling yall wat they saying in the comments"....its the hard truth tho

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Facts!!!! Thanks for watching ❤️

[@DevTheDudeRN]

Take a shot each time she say it 😂

[@prettychunks1011]

@@DevTheDudeRN exactly 😄

[@getboogie1950]

I met one who was studying to be a RN, who currently worked at a crazy house distributing meds third shift, making $75 an hour, could not afford to pay her rent, and her $800 jeep Cherokee car note. I said bitch you doing some wrong.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

It happens! Thanks for watching 😊

[@KandyGTV]

No, lies told. Especially about the high-rise living and dusty men. I plan on being the vacationing nurse, but I have a two year goal to either purchase some land and put a small house on it (less than 1300 sq ft) or purchase a small condo under $150,000 so I can offset my traveling expenses.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Yessss! Planning is EVERYTHING ❤️

[@jwatson2267]

This applies to a lot of people not just nurses!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Very true! Thanks for watching 😊

[@candaycekeller1874]

I’ve seen literally ALL of these happening plus getting Bbls and lipo suction and taking diabetic pills.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 🤗

[@Lisa-kz7vw]

Thats was something she forgot out here in California they all about the cosmetic procedures botox,liposuction breast implants,bbls,permanent makeup everything designer this that taking all they money and it's never enough.

[@vietnamemperor123461]

Unbelievable to the part where you mentioning nurses taking care of broke men. Absolutely shocking. So true about keeping your boundary. Alot of my friends turning their back on me because I don't let them borrow my money and that ruin our friendship but yeah you just got to learn how to say or else these people will take advantages of you.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@SignedEmma]

Tawanda!!! Not driving these men driving your car and not even picking you up on time! lmao!!! I'm in tears! Loved this! ❤ And congratulations on 10k subbies!!! Love witnessing your growth!!! 🎉

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Right, that’s According To The Comments 😂😂 Thanks Emma, you are up next! Get ready for your 10K plus MORE❤️

[@SignedEmma]

@@AccordingToTawanda I'm taking notes ma'am! 📝

[@AccordingToTawanda]

@@SignedEmma You got THIS!!!! Keep pushing out content!!!!!

[@ladybirdehrmantraut1245]

$1000 car note??!!!!!! Omg

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Yes ma’am it’s happening!!

[@HeyMsVal]

Not me girl. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@vikki7286]

I cosign on all the commenter thoughts!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Vikki thanks for the support 🤗

[@had123ish]

Tawanda…could you cover the legal documents that nurses need??? Like Wills, Power of Attorneys, Medical Directives, etc? Nurses need to do the adult things…get a financial planner, do estate planning, and make a money plan so they can live BENEATH THEIR MEANS!!! (We beggin’ for a Part 3)

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Will definitely add it in!! Thanks for watching ❤️

[@theartesana]

Facts! I have to admit..I’m guilty of the nice vacations. Though I have slowed down since Covid. However I also have one to add to your list exquisite wine or top shelf alcohol gets my pocket in trouble! 😅

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Put it in the budget! Thanks so much 😊

[@reneeprince6399]

😂Tawanda, I always enjoy your channel, but this video is so on-point!!! Even though I have been laughing while watching, hopefully the essence of what's been shared will be taken seriously.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Renee, this one tickled me as well😂 Thanks for supporting the channel 🩷

[@karenpatterson3726]

Please keep posting your videos, I'm crying cracking up. You telling the naked truth

[@AccordingToTawanda]

😂🤣😂

[@MRyWil]

I had a coworker last week with a Maserati truck ! I know a nurse who lets her deadbeat man drive her car and drop her off, then goes wherever. Also the expensive Figs uniforms. Too expensive and I don’t think the intent of the company was to market to nurses but doctors. The doctors don’t wear them. They wear old scrubs. Great videos and so accurate

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 🤗

[@gmorris2891]

I was getting my car serviced and I overhead a man talking about the fact that he drop his wife to work and pick her up. He was on the phone saying she was a nurse and she was so happy to give him money. He goes over to the side chick house all day and then go pick her up from work. I was so disgusted by him. But he’s not lying. I see the nurses outside work waiting for their man to pick them up with their cars.

[@MRyWil]

@@gmorris2891 i don’t know why women want broke men. A man MUST make at minimum double my salary or I wouldn’t even go on a date lol. These men make fools of these women just to say they have a man.

[@MRyWil]

@@AccordingToTawanda your video topics are great. Please make more of them 😊

[@ZoneE3]

Time for me to get a nurseee😂😂😂

[@joserodriguez-og9zd]

I love this lady. She tells the TRUTH!

[@MandieHeartsLife]

This was the best video!! I was laughing so hard at some of those and taking notes on some other ones. You definitely should do another “according to the comments” so happy I found your channel before I get my first nursing check!! Please continue to keep us nurses on our game!!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Will do!! Thanks for watching and commenting ❤️

[@robgrant4265]

You are a Leader Ms Tawanda! You make a great wage! Most people live at their wage and or way above their means. Example: Buy a bigger house, a much nicer car, etc. Which uses up that great wage! What should be happening and requires discipline and consistency is living way below your wages and having more money to put into investment vehicles that can then give you much more options like..buying your independence back. Like taking a year off and doing what really stokes your fire. It could be as simple as working around your home for that year. Why, because you have no debt and your investments/savings are taking care of you. I tell my grown boys that only get into debt if that debt can make them money otherwise they become indentured servants to that debt. Its all about total freedom and giving yourself more options. Keep learning and leading.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Rob, thanks so much for your kind words! One of the best things that I have ever done is to put myself in a financial position where I have been able to take extended career breaks throughout my life . It has proven to be PRICELESS!! This is why I show up on the channel and stress the benefits of managing money properly. I really appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment❤️

[@livelife9644]

I love how she keep saying "according to the comments" hahaha. I'm not a nurse but I find these videos hilarious. Truth is truth though

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@wavynaturalista]

First of all, the Figs be on sale when I buy them, ma’am 😂😂😂😅🤕

[@AccordingToTawanda]

That’s just what the people said😂😂You got me ROTFL😂😂😂😂

[@JusticeXFalls]

I'm not even a nurse and idk how this content got directed to me but I love it! You're very entertaining imma keep tuning in!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

I appreciate that! Thanks for watching 😊

[@JusticeXFalls]

@@AccordingToTawanda No doubt! I'm here to stay lol

[@blurose2479]

Love this! I am by no means a nurse or make nurse money. But this keeps my life in perspective, thanks!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Blu Rose, you are welcome 🤗

[@rossmacintosh5652]

Tawanda, clearly you have very smart commentators! 😁

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thank you! 😃

[@FOD832]

man she funny 😂 her delivery right on time pure love and truth

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@s-man9528]

I’m starting nursing school this fall! Thanks for the advice.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

My pleasure! Thanks for watching 😊

[@prettybold3990]

According to the comments is hilarious! very relatable and you shared in such a light hearted way. :)

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks so much! I really appreciate your kind words ❤️

[@ARenee111]

Owweee. This good but true and funny. 😂

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks😂😂😂😂

[@MzGinaCPA]

I'm not even a nurse but number 4 and 6 was just hilarious to me!🤣 Vol. 3 please!

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Stay tuned for Vol. 3❤️

[@valariegaines3550]

Lol this is funny … I’m not a nurse… I’m a OT but still on a debt free journey … i think this goes for all woman in healthcare.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching ❤️

[@WW-qt9dw]

Amen

[@nurseallie]

I love that you’re cracking up while reading some of the comments 😂😂

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Nurse Allie, that’s what they said😂😂

[@dianaw203]

i definitely agree with tik tok influencing us it’s keeping us broke !

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Facts!!

[@tashamonetformulations]

💯 whoever is saying it in the comments is right on point t😂

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Facts!!😂

[@wickedlester2743]

Girl I am LIVING! I pray there's a volume 3 😛

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for the support 🤗

[@ebonyroddy4473]

It's funny when black women step out and get that bag 😂😂. All the black nurses I know have built business including myself and self -loving ourselves. Traveling, making our own schedules, living our best life and why they are counting our money. lol if I want something special financially, I can do numerous things to make a quick buck as a nurse ... Blessed is all it is. 🤑🥰 I say go get you a degree, a trade, start that business and don't limit yourself. People do assume when they see you living a lavish life, you have to be broke or financially uneducated. I lease a BMW every three years. I don't worry about Maintenace, I don't need take my car in they pick it up. My note is less than just about everyone I know with car headaches. I don't need to owe something the depreciates in value and I have to constantly spend on. Everyone reading, please don't believe that the goal is retirement, its freedom.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

It’s the FREEDOM for ME!!!! Thanks for watching 🤗

[@riseupreese]

Exactly. Congratulations on your achievements.

[@robertthompson4224]

Your husband & yourself are on your way to true financial freedom!!!!! And your daughter sees all this, & she’ll be good as an adult 🙌🏿🤛🏾. Love your videos sister. Love from Texas by way of NJ.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks Robert😊

[@chasityt2245]

This was a great video! Yall be wise with your money because some agencies are cutting pay.

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching ❤️

[@MyFunSizeBudget]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I almost bought the figs. Glad i didn't. Wonder winks for 13 yrs and have bought probably 8 pairs of scrubs total. I hardly ever buy scrubs until they wear down

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Girl they stuff is to rich for my blood. Especially for when I work ICU and ER with the chance of getting a patient’s bodily fluids on me. No, and NO!!

[@ivycarter2045]

Hey there, I work in a hospital and majority of what you said is true and I am a CNA

[@AccordingToTawanda]

Thanks for watching 😊