Damn man this was exactly what I needed to hear. Me giving her everything she wants is what’s been killing my relationship.. Standing my ground for how I feel/believe will be a test but I get how it should help. Wish me luck
@K.S.Browning5 ай бұрын
Guys, you can be sweet, you can be charming, you can be generous, you can be supportive, you can be kind. But never ever be nice.
@BulldogMindsetArchive Жыл бұрын
Great video. A whole education in dealing with women condensed in one video. Well done.
@marriagereset Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@a-aronw1186Ай бұрын
Man you are the best thanks! Learned a ton on male female relationships in your videos the past few weeks and subbed. I can tell my marriage is improving, thanks sincerely brother!
@jamiebenti10 ай бұрын
This very well may be the absolute best video in my situation I've ever ever watched, seriously. It's 3AM, I can't sleep with what facing and I can say yeah that video was like Josh had Zoom or Whatapp's video called me like a brother and was speaking DIRECTLY to me. Everything I needed to hear, made absolutely perfect sense to me, crystal, crystal clear. Thank you. I might watch this everyday for weeks to come. I'll be in this program 1000%
@mannywhitaker52295 ай бұрын
Love how real you are about it.
@keithribeiro83878 ай бұрын
Thank you a million times Josh. I’ve been a people pleaser to a fault until it affected my marriage the way you explained. No one ever taught me these lessons, not my father, teachers, pastors. Only a friend of mine recently alluded to these concepts especially those regarding personal accountability and self-improvement. I believe I am now on the road back from separation but more importantly I now have an opportunity to better myself - for me first, then my wife.
@marriagereset8 ай бұрын
That's exactly the key! Any change should be for yourself first, it assures consistency and positive change. This is something your wife notices and respects too.
@AscendedMasculine Жыл бұрын
Man, I really related to that story for some reason 😂
@donnypurdon4557 Жыл бұрын
Josh, I spoke to Chey the other day. It was without a doubt one of the biggest eye opening moments of my life. That 50 minutes was very educational and made me want to join your program immediately. Because during that zoom call, I had a real moment of realization that was like a punch in the gut. Every video of yours that I’ve watched have hit home. It is like you are literally speaking directly to me regarding my current separation situation. I cannot thank you enough for allowing men like myself to understand things a great deal better, than we would had without your knowledge. I am excited for your program, and I am 110% ready to go full steam ahead because I am in dire need of change to prevent these same mistakes in the future regardless who I’m with. Thanks again.
@marriagereset Жыл бұрын
Man, this is exactly why I do what I do. I love to hear it!
@d1s3ng4gE Жыл бұрын
This is the best video I've seen on your new (ish) channel. Very hard hitting.
@daviddoan9447 Жыл бұрын
Shout out to Josh. It literally took me hundreds of hours of learning (videos, articles, self reflection, situations, and playing past situations repeatedly) these things. I highly recommend his courses because you can take the long road like I did (I didn't stumble onto Josh until recently) or learn to take the shorter route. It will for sure change your mindset and yourself as a whole. Everything Josh says in this video is true, but it is the 99% of men that won't fully understand how to link everything together is the issue, that's the difficult part. Having the tools but not know how to use it doesn't help. This is the paradigm shift that most don't understand and it will take a ton of practice.
@acousticambiance Жыл бұрын
Josh, I love you man. You're amazing! Thank you for talking to us this way and knocking some sense into us, we really need it!! 😅
@marcusreif9280 Жыл бұрын
I love this candid approach. Drop a couple f bombs for authenticity. I'm here for it!
@marriagereset Жыл бұрын
Noted!
@alexpoklewski4416 Жыл бұрын
This video explains EXACTLY why my wife is leaving me. Every single word applies.
@andrewmurillo786110 ай бұрын
This is os the pep talk i needed right now. Thanks bro.
@marriagereset Жыл бұрын
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@davidgilbert5540 Жыл бұрын
Yes.
@KevinMcClave Жыл бұрын
This was definitely a great one, Josh.
@gerard143 Жыл бұрын
Not for all videos but this was a nice change of pace. Appreciate your work.
@terrykuculym1999 Жыл бұрын
Yes it was awesome, thank you
@CoachRyan_Ай бұрын
Provide physically...but don't forget to provide emotionally...
@bobbysteffens533016 күн бұрын
Wife is moving out she is asking if I can help with the internet by putting it on my account so she doesn't need to do a deposit or other fees and she will pay me for the service. Is saying yes to help bad or just in general a bad idea? Like being to nice
@mswt5avsfan9 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now.
@marriagereset8 ай бұрын
Glad to hear this video was able ti reach you when you needed it!
@KeVEGAN Жыл бұрын
My ex gf broke up with me on 11/12/22 - She told me this bs break up line " I love you, but not in love you " & already move on just new guy after a month or less already post a new guy on IG & we been together for 1 year & 4 months. She never post us on IG & told me lost respect & too nice can you tell me what to do & I mess up of begging/pleading etc & did no contact on 1/1/23
@GuyAnderson-vh7nm Жыл бұрын
I will honor your wishes as promised, I need support anything you decide ❤ love always an forever ❤❤❤
@davidgilbert5540 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Thx.
@marriagereset Жыл бұрын
Of course brother
@jak77lezgoАй бұрын
Lol He said, people pleaser, "Is agonizing for her to be with"
@BloodyHeck Жыл бұрын
I will always remain the nice guy because I’ve seen too many women’s lives ruined by the bad boy, including my first wife. He was abusive in all forms including physically. He hit on other women, often in front of her, including her two younger sisters, even suggesting threesomes with them. He was an alcoholic and addict who didn’t work. He couldn’t have a regular job or even a bank account because of the numerous child support orders from multiple women. Yet my ex was loyal to him to the day he died. He’d even gotten other women pregnant while they were together. My ex finally got pregnant for the first time when she was about 40 and he did the same thing he’s always did when he got a woman pregnant, he ran out. I can’t treat women like that. I’ll remain the nice guy.
@Rudy-e3f9 ай бұрын
THANKS, ON IT.
@hughjanis6439 Жыл бұрын
Is it really worth jumping through all these hoops for some affection? I don't think so.
@omegasquadlder Жыл бұрын
Look at Mallow’s hierarchy of needs. Being able to provide physiological needs and money is literally the lower 2 levels. Everything else is above that. Red pill is telling you the bare minimum. Maybe you can attract a woman, but you will never retain or have a great relationship with the bottom 2 levels. Men need to stop striving to be only a walking wallet and need to continue to develop their emotional intelligence and curiosity. Don’t look at it like more work. Look at it like making yourself a more complete person.
@prov25two6610 ай бұрын
Man my wife filed so I went to stay at a hotel. She came back to me, yet now years later says I was being feminine and she was the man chasing me. Oh and I abandoned her. So what to do
@ronmusichistory339 Жыл бұрын
My wife cheated on me left me for him took me out of everything even my stepsons life and you're telling me she's either nice and doesn't want to hurt me or she doesn't know what she wants or what she's doing I'm confused
@GuyAnderson-vh7nm Жыл бұрын
The challenge is there naturally made I’ll move on as you’re wish ❤ I want what’s natural I’ve passed every test are you able ?❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@mickey7664696 Жыл бұрын
You hit the fuckin nail right on the head
@prov25two6610 ай бұрын
Ok so how do you respond
@xavierjones6852 Жыл бұрын
I’m emotionally abusive when she annoys me so I guess this video won’t help me lol
@tcot5190 Жыл бұрын
Ppl in this situation might be suicidal so the picture with the gun to the head is so inappropriate. Please consider using a less triggering picture.
@prov25two6610 ай бұрын
Also, fk that. You're right, but fk that you know
@brucecollom8947 Жыл бұрын
You are in the "zone" in this video Josh. You have to be a nice asshole instead of a nice guy sometimes but not abusive.
@marriagereset Жыл бұрын
A-P-E-X
@dipstickdan Жыл бұрын
Yep that whole nice guy singing is me to a T. And she's told me all this stuff about being boring and spineless, and she is 100% right. So how do you challenge her in the right way without being a jerk?