Off The Record: Guys Are Really Letting the Bishes Down in Dating

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Cast:
• Hosted by Steve Greene
• Commentary by: Kalyne Lionheart, Ryan Conferido, Joe Jitsukawa, Bart Kwan, Nick Dunn
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[@PandaDaAsian]

This Nick Dunn fellow is quite a hoot!

[@SankyGamerUHD00]

Nick is good human

[@ryanimay]

He really is

[@GYSMelanie5]

He's the best!

[@happyrunner10]

Kalyen literally vocalized everything that’s been in my head over the past year of me dating. A lot of jaded people out there and having these avoidant behaviors the moment things start to become serious if you’re even lucky enough to get to that point with someone.

[@thomaschristopherwhite9043]

Thank god Khalyn is in this one. We finally get a female's perspective in a convesation like this.

[@bethnichols2875]

And yet some women are still coming in here and bagging on her for speaking her mind and her truth.

[@wanglee21]

She's very logical like a man. Most women don't think like her and don't even see what they are doing today.

[@user-ys5mn1jc3i]

U would be right if u hadn't said most women making a generalization like that is what makes it wrong

[@bbssuunn8877]

I'm 36 and I think I've given up on dating. It's been easier just getting to plan cookouts with close friends.

[@fuwwe2]

Same..connected with old friends.

[@geezjunior]

This is a scary topic as 22 year old, kalyne & Joe have the most honest and clear understanding of the shift happening, like yo gotit said “it goes down in the dm” 😂 male and female are in the, filing void and having fun type of motto

[@looloo960]

I think Kalyne summed it up right when she said people lost their minds and it bleeds into the dating pool!

[@GeekyC]

Been with my partner for 13 years (met when we were 16 and 17) and ive told him "we better stay together because i cant imagine doing this all over again id rather just stay single. Plus it seems more harsher and harder to get into relationships now" He agrees with me and luckily we have had wonderful years together. Planning on getting married next year and starting a family :) We met on Facebook back in the day and we thought THAT was risky and hard .. god help people nowa days. Ive always been old school mentality in my want for a relationship and my ex friends hated that about me. They wanted me to sleep around and get drunk and be reckless when all ive ever wanted to do is personally be a wife and mother since i was young. Apparently that is a red flag to people in my life but im happy and it gives me so much joy and makes me feel fulfilled. Everything is so harsh and political and sensitive nowa days im not surprised people have given up on trying. Just sucks because id love if everyone could find love and their one.. its a wonderful feeling.

[@daisyhinojosa23]

Honestly if I knew how hard dating would be as an adult I woulda stayed w my first too

[@Z-Ack]

Ya i agree.. must be a good feeling having that stability and a person who you know will love and cherish you throughout your lives.. i thought i had that and spent 10 years with her then out of left field she leaves a note under my windshield wiper saying shes movibg across the country and goodbye. Then i find out she was fuggin a bunch of my friends, or people i thought were my friends.. then apparently one of those guys was abusive which i found out after the fact when she came back to my place randomly crying saying she was afraid.. so i had to kick her out on her own to deal with her own bs.. stuff hurt.. she stayed around town a year until she left to move.. i found out that after fuggin 4 of my buddies within the span of a year she found another guy where she moved to and married him within a few months of knowing him.. which she immediately filed for divorce and took all his stuff. Then remarried who she is with now.. meanwhile it took years for me to get over that crap mindgame stuff she put me through.. now since i gave her all my good years im too old to get back out there and too much work to find somebody then gettibg to know eachother.. so i plan on dying a sad lonely man.. you put all your shits in one basket then that basket turns out to have a damn hole in it then you screw yourself.. now i have no basket or any shits to give it.. fml.. we were stable, fugged every night, went out and had some good times, she didnt have to work, had a big house and the whole kit but out of nowhere she just left.. one day ik content and the next im broken and done..

[@VanessaKira-wi6jo]

In your opinion, was it harder for those friends that just wanted fun to settle down or did they ever settle? Did they have to deal with the consequences?

[@GeekyC]

@@VanessaKira-wi6jo Yes it was .. some of my ex friends are now onto their second marriages. Others have children with 2-3 different people and are single. Some of them never met anyone and have no partner or kids and are always claiming to be down about that but set impossible standards to be met. They are always shocked when they see me years later and im still with my partner. I feel bad for them but im also glad i didnt go down that path and im much happier with myself and my relationship. Im glad i never went out clubbing or hooking up with random people as for me personally that makes me feel gross and unwanted and used ive always just wanted to be with someone i love and be intermit that way which was always laughed at by these friends. They dont seem very happy and blame the world for their problems without realising maybe they should look inwards and realise maybe the path they chose to live is the issue. Some of them still have the mindset we had as kids despite having their own kids now. I wish them well and hope for the best for them because it must be a horrible to live like that. Quite a few are on anti depressants and alcoholics as well but i understand myself what its like to be on medication for mental health .. some of theirs is because of their situations they told me. So yeah their actions had some consequences.

[@applepieclub5012]

Loving this episode simply because Kalyne is speaking a lot more than usual. She’s very intelligent & grounded, so it’s nice to hear her perspective on things.

[@thalunizz21]

Yup, especially in the beginning when she was using idiotic manosphere bullshit.😂

[@bethnichols2875]

@@thalunizz21 Nice try. Yet she was giving her true and honest opinion over what it is like in the dating world currently, based on her experience with it. She straight up pointed out, with an actual intelligent answer; unlike yourself with your BS buzzwords; what the issues both men and women have when it comes to dating nowadays. Other women and men in the comments agreed with her take on the situation from their own personal dating experiences as well.🤨

[@thalunizz21]

@bethnichols2875 Anecdotal evidence isn't facts. She generalized women and stated it's mostly their fault.

[@bethnichols2875]

@@thalunizz21 No, she didn't. If you had actually been listening to hear and comprehend vs just hearing what you wanted to in order to spout off you would have heard her say it is equally men and women who are to blame for the difficulties in dating currently. She even went on to explain those differences and circled back around to them when she explained what she is looking for in a guy. As to the joke she made at the end, it was satire(this being a satirical comedy show) about what some guys say is "all women want in a guy now". Learn the difference. 🤨

[@GYSMelanie5]

​​@@thalunizz21not true at all and If you've been watching long enough you'd know that's bullshit.

[@kayla9891]

the group chemistry was off the charts especially in dis one

[@jnightmare0]

The problem is people are suffering from grass is greener mentality and have been brainwashed since childhood to believe the person who they are with need to be perfect in every way. I’ve seen people throw away relationships because they don’t look perfect, I’ve had friends say oh she’s not a 10 so I can’t date her. Too many people don’t know how to compromise and ignore all the important things such as the person and how they treat you and if they’re an actual good human. I think more people need to be aware that relationships are risks because you could get hurt but also people need to start dating with intention again. People need to realise love is a feeling that comes and goes and the way to make the relationship last is to realise do I like this person enough to stay with them even if everything comes crumbling down. Stop dating off of lust

[@laalah143]

This is the most I have heard Kalyne talk and I am here for it!

[@uncojemima9565]

It’s rough out here for dudes. Girls got too many options. It’s a drag tryna compete. So all the guys just focus on themselves and stop trying. What a time to be alive 😅

[@wanglee21]

The dopamine of women getting access to any man in their DM's have lost any value of holding things together. One wrong move and they know they have a few dozen or thousand of men waiting to get in their pants.

[@djp_films]

Which ends up making you happier and richer. While the ladies go after the thrist traps and regretting it the nice guys are getting passports and dual citizenship 😂🎉 time to be alive indeed!

[@21ventura]

Thanks to Joe for explaining the divorce statistics. So many ignorant people out there

[@FuryOfCalderon]

Turns out, having well defined social roles, rites of passage and a coherent sense of what your life's milestones are supposed to be is important. Go figure.

[@kiarademoner]

Kylene is not only beautiful but her personality is awesome. Any guy that can get her is lucky ❤

[@jadowarcadia6227]

From a guys perspective it just doesnt seem worth it anymore. Its a headache. The social climate has created a vibe where youre putting all this work in to get eye rolled or disparaged. Dates arent "fun" anymore half the time. Women have created all these conflicting expectations and its left a lot of guys kinda baffled where there nobody can work out what the right way to date is because one girl will call you a dickhead for the same thing that another girl thinks is respectful. Its shitty to say but people being so desperate to get rid of gender roles means nobody knows how to interact with eachother anymore and that goes for both men and women. Kalyne also makes some solid points. It just doesnt seem worth it anymore. I've found myself passing on girls that might be great but the wall has built up now and it just feels like its gonna be a waste of time. I take things super slow now so I can be sure and a lot of girls cant understand that Im just being careful. So many just want to rush into things heavy and they think if you arent desperately pursuing them it means youre wasting their time

[@FuryOfCalderon]

There's a quote I sometimes see going around: "Men today have to work 4 times harder than their grandfather to get a woman 4 times worse than their grandmother." Don't remember the exact numbers mentioned, but you get the gist.

[@MarcelHoskins]

I agree! It's literally the girls who are ran through demanding crazy things but have kids 😂 the good women are probably staying home or something else.

[@aaronmontgomery2055]

It's not that hard man. Just be an asshole. Not one that ignores their feelings but more "I feel you in this moment". Basically be a hippie about it and feed into their insecurities. Now if you want a proper relationship built on trust and respect I wouldn't do this but that's just my experience of what has worked.

[@victoriamiranda-stotelmyre4382]

I think the guys and girls that are dating now have a very similar mentality as the generation during the Mid 60’s Early 70’s when the sexual revolution, free love and carefree relationship was deeply ensconced as a quasi-relationship in American society.

[@fellyf89]

Kalyne with sound advice. And I love Ryan's reactions to Steve's comments

[@Max25670]

Joe was so completely lost at Steve's mommy comment 😂

[@emogirlhashervengz]

I agree with Khalyn whenever my friend tells me about her dates she always comes back telling me how the guys are all talk or they just want to hook-up. The last guy I was intrested in didn't really try to get to know me either and I got the same feeling of him just wanted to hookup. It's truly disappointing. Still, I rather be single than be with someone who doesn't want to actually wants to learn about each other and grow and build together.

[@Tarrzan]

I feel you.

[@yellowdrangon]

The Best advice I can give right now is, go on dates looking to enjoy the date don't place any huge pressures on it, make sure you are a gentleman while on the date. Try to putting you best foot forward! If shit ain't meant to be...then at least you can look back and say " hey I gave it my best and you keep trucking forwards."

[@geezjunior]

19:17 😂😂😂 Steve reminding us what we watching

[@daisyhinojosa23]

Honestly I think everyone is just bored of each other & have too high standards

[@user-bu1gn8ns7f]

Anyone noticed Joe having a prime bottle in his hand💀

[@FiveSubj3x6]

I wanna try it too, I wonder if it's good

[@bethnichols2875]

It would be a bit hard to miss since he turned the label in the direction of the camera.

[@looloo960]

I know a lot of people don’t like Logan Paul but Prime is actually really good

[@synesthesia.aesthetic]

There are women putting their best foot forward and still getting rejected, used, lied to and worse. We don't have it easier in dating, we just have different sets of problems.

[@RP9_rp9]

thank you for this comment, was looking for fellow female support. u hit the nail on the head

[@Willy_Gee]

I think you hit the nail on the head for many different issues between men and women were facing different issues and we don’t always understand the other side of the story

[@aaronmontgomery2055]

Used and lied to would be the norm for bad relationships for women but for that it seems like they have a habit of being attracted to red flags. Just a generalization of women in the US who are attracted to obvious red flags.

[@wanglee21]

Dating polls show women would rather date a toxic man than a loyal SIMP. They love toxicity for some odd reason.

[@NotAvailable-pv4iy]

Its not worth it anymore for a lot of people including myself. Especially with how much people cheat and backstab etc. etc. Ofc Not everyone does that , but nowadays I'd rather focus on myself. I know how to do me. I don't know how to do heartbreak which is something I've already experienced that fkd me up.

[@CuongChanster]

I feel attacked 😅

[@bethnichols2875]

And I will say straight up, considering the bashing Kalyne was getting from other women on the video they did about "is the movie business wrecked?" If you try to claim again that she is "making disparaging comments about women", you best keep in mind that Ryan has also told a story before about how when he and his friends would go out to dinner together, a group of women would show up at their table uninvited. The women would be dolled up, and invite themselves to their table in order to get a "free meal". The women didn't ask if they could sit with them and they had no intention of covering their share of the check. When the women were called out for it after they tried that one too many times, the women started whining because they didn't have the funds on them to cover their share of the tab, figuring they could use their looks and flirty behavior to get the guys at the table to cover their meals. So yes, it does happen.

[@applepieclub5012]

Not sure why anyone would bash Kalyne. She’s grounded, intelligent, and doesn’t pander just to be “one of the boys.” She’s the opposite of a “pick me girl”

[@GeekyC]

@@applepieclub5012 Trust me some women will shit on us women because we dont back them up and share their opinions or beliefs. Ive been called a pick me soo much just for standing up against the narrative of "all men" (was raised by men and been with my partner for 13 years who is the kindest most genuine lad out there and it boils my blood that some women would judge him just for being a bloke) and called an enabler and traitor to my gender and all sorts of other mad wild stuff just for having similar views that Kalyne has. Its disgusting and its a bullying tactic. "You dont follow us and agree with us ? were going to dog pile on you and kick you out to teach you a lesson". This is why i only have one friend and my partner and grandmother as best friends lol

[@applepieclub5012]

@@GeekyC I guess it’s true that men will physically fight other men, women will ostracize other women. It’s just such a childish and energy draining behaviour. I don’t understand it. If someone doesn’t agree with me, I just simply move on. I don’t have time, energy or patience to try and change someone’s mind. I’m sorry you went through that but, kudos to you for still sticking to your beliefs and values. I respect people like you, like Kalyne, that are able to independently think for themselves, rather than confirming to some sort of ideology, simply to fit in. I’m happy to hear you’re in a happy relationship. Best of luck to you both!

[@GeekyC]

@@applepieclub5012 it really is .. and thank you mate all the best to you ! Stay safe and well.

[@toomuchofanythingisboring]

Oh god. No shit there are "bad" women. There are "bad" people everywhere. The observation was that Kalyne rarely backs up women in any situation whenever the boys point to her to give her opinion for the ladies pov. Y'know throw in some "boys drool girls rule" jokes to shake things up lol But it's the narrative that ALL women are crappy in almost every situation when compared to boys that people were criticizing her for

[@TheTinyOrc]

Damn Kalyn is on fire on this one. She’s letting out.

[@limiteddetailing6686]

Womans check list: bank account status, what car you drive and how tall are you. 😂😂

[@lil_rata6994]

I’ve always said that things will come to me when it’s time. I’m not on any dating apps cuz i want a guy who can just walk up to a gal, and politely ask me out. I also do that like “oh hello u look so cute would u care to go out to dinner” and they always freeze and don’t know what to say 😂 and then i follow up with “yo it’s a yes or no question it’s not that hard”. if they say yea we exchange numbers if thay say no i walk away sayin “have a great rest of ur day cutie” idk i dont get offended when ppl say no or show their true intentions so when things like the brick girl happen i get so sad and confused. just remember the world has something is store for u ur only job is to enjoy life until it happens then you’ll get to enjoy life even more.

[@Calida]

It def is frustrating when you're looking for a real relationship. I date guys looking for a long term relationship, and a lot of the ones I have met are really apathetic and don't know how to plan dates or hold conversations, it gets exhausting 😩

[@allio3459]

I got the other way around. I’m a man and it’s so hard to have women follow through on dates without backing out.

[@limiteddetailing6686]

kalyen is a beautiful human, very down to earth.

[@zezeti2246]

Joe,its 40 to 50% of first time marriages that end up in divorce,still high as hell😂

[@bethnichols2875]

What Kalyne was saying kinda reminds me of something Tim mentioned to David on their podcast. Tim said he had a homegirl back in the day who was surprised when Tim opened the door for her because she said she had never had a guy do that for her before. And Tim and David were both surprised that the girl had never had a guy open a door for her because they consider that just being chivalrous.

[@FuryOfCalderon]

Feminists killed chivalry.

[@happyrunner10]

I felt the same way. 8 years with a dude that never opened the door for me and it was also not something I ever expected from guys in my generation. My dad always did it but I never thought much of it before… it was never an expectation or requirement I set for a guy I was dating because I never saw dudes in my age group, do that before until recently. I was so shocked and it made me like the guy so much more. It’s something so simple and now going forward I hope to find that again one day. I think I thanked the one guy multiple times and he was so confused because he even said that alone is bare minimum. But to me it meant so much more.

[@notthanos8580]

Well said, Kaitlyn

[@woo9194]

"Chivalry died. And women killed it." -Dave Chappelle

[@jimenez2403]

I've talked to my girlfriends about this as a straight dude and apparently guys are dogs so in there head why give 100% to someone thats gonna make you feel like shit anyways. So they would rather choose a hookup because there's no choice to get there heart broken.... guys did lose effort but because the bar is so high to even start like girls just as well are heavily known for playing with emotions like, the whole dynamic has changed and overall the effects are negative. As well men feed very heavily into the female ego especially with Only fans girls that wonder why they're attracting quantity over quality.

[@universal1771]

They are choosing the guy's who are dogs. The guy's your female friends are talking about have options and because of hookup culture those guy's get easy sex so they don't feel the need to to treat girls like girlfriends. Most men aren't like that and don't have the ability to be dogs.

[@Zhcwu]

I have many friends, and the good looking guys are straight up assholes to women and it doesn't matter because they are good looking and another girl will jump to date them, the regular looking nice guys don't get any love very low date counts and not many 2nd dates probably because they are so nervous on the 1st. And that's how the world works

[@jimenez2403]

@@universal1771 one of my friends had gotten out of a 6 year relationship because her dude just wasn't enough, mind you he had graduated with an engineering degree so it wasn't some gangbanger with 3 baby mommas like he was a decent dude he just took her for granted, she was playing the long game and he was just too comfy. But not all guys are getting swiped on it's usually the same guys saying the right things doing the right things but they're gone in the morning because it's a game. The guys that try just play the numbers while the rest won't risk the rejection or the girls egos are so high they're forced to date someone less desirable feeding into his ego after a while.

[@GYSMelanie5]

Love Kalyne! Dating,marriage all of it takes work. Great video guys but the best is when Steve said " and why come?" 😂😂😂. My grandson says that phrase all the time 😂. Two divorces here, not proud of that fact that all. Wish my second didn't end the way it did.

[@ericrodriguez5729]

I used to open doors for women until 2021 when I had 2 women like a month apart complain to me cus they don't need no man" to open a door for them. Chivalry isn't dead. Women don't want it.

[@nenavega6641]

I’m from California. When I got to Texas I was so surprised to have men almost stumble to open my door and I was kinda of taken a back and was like, It’s ok. Thank you, I got it. But that’s because I never had that before, it’s definitely not a custom in California. Now, I so appreciate when a guy holds the door for me and I make it a point to make eye contact and genuinely thank them because it is something I realize women can change and make a positive impact. I’d admire things like that when I watched in movies that I always wanted for me but when it finally happens it is surprising and it made me feel awkward until I saw how nice it was and I so appreciate it. I wish more men did that.

[@GeekyC]

Omg this is so true and im so sorry you went thru this ! My partner held a door open for a lady when we were in town .. she looked him up and down and said "ew wtf" and laughed in his face .. she didnt realise i was with him so i ripped into her .. "oi ya stuck up cow laugh in his face like that again and il pop those fake duck lips you rude insecure dog. Say thank you now and that your sorry" she went red in the face and said "oh im sorry i didnt realise he had a gf" (like that mattered) and just apologised to him and pretended to be on her phone. I was fuming that day and my partner told me to leave it he was ok and dont worry .. He is such a gentlemen who is very kind and old school and the fact this person had the nerve to think she was entitled to treat him like that ? oh was i was bloody fuming that day. Bottom line is i agree with you about the door thing .. lucky she went through it or i would of swung it back into her face.

[@nenavega6641]

@@GeekyC yeah, I’ve actually call out women on a bad move now after a man holds their door and they don’t even say thank you. I’ll say it loudly for them and say thanks for having good manners, some don’t know how to appreciate that cause they don’t know any better. We need to get back to the old days when women were lady’s and men were MEN. The world seemed so much better back then.

[@nenavega6641]

@ericrodriguez5729 keep doing it, there are some of us out there that appreciate good manners. Don’t let the low-life’s win.

[@bethnichols2875]

If I get to the door first, I hold the door for the next person whether old or young, man or woman. I've taught my son to do the same. Usually the person simply says "thank you". And if someone gets to the door before either of us and they hold the door for us, then we just politely say thank you to them. It is not a matter of "needing someone to open the door for us or not" nor should it be. It is simply common courtesy.

[@Phillip-ino]

RIP Kalyne’s DMs

[@MarcelHoskins]

In my experience if you work out, have standards and come off masculine it's somehow an issue..........i tried a app but quickly got rid of it! I only saw obese women or single moms 🤷🏽‍♂️. Not worth it

[@ryan_knowws]

I believe the problem is the expectations are that everything will be perfect because that’s what media displays. People expect to see super models made from a lab both male and female. Social Media and tv have made an insanely large amount of people think things are supposed to be perfect in every single way and when they actually encounter the real world they just don’t know how to deal with it.

[@RazielRodriguezz]

11:42 lol

[@chrisbaltazar7164]

Bishes now adays only looking for a 6’ minimum height with at least 6 figures income. Of course everyone else is a disappointment

[@bethnichols2875]

You just played into the joke Kalyne made at the end of the video when she made her voice a higher pitch and gave that answer. Yet, that isn't really what Kalyne said herself that she is looking for.

[@rem9750]

I think it comes down to so many factors these days. You had a generation of parents that didn't know how to navigate the tech rise, the internet came along and changed everything, people don't focus on themselves before finding someone, capitalism mentally f'ing us for their own gain, and even culture. Dating in America is even different to here is Aus. Even I fell into the traps and still do. Focus on yourself, hold yourself to the standard that you're looking for, and don't get caught up society, you'll find the right one. As someone who is studying mental health, I think we could societally talk about things more without blame, and actually fix the problem, things will get better. Yes, people need to face justice and have what's coming to them, but focusing on bettering ourselves is infinity more productive.

[@100XPercentX]

Yes less blame bc In most Dustin’s no one is 100 percent innocent

[@DiAntonioC]

I mean I’m looking to date for the endgame of getting married. My problem is that I can’t find someone around my age (28) who either wants the same or already has a kid.

[@SixtyNinerBW]

Alright where do I submit my application for Kalyne? 😂

[@viviangod_win]

Yeah, that sounds like a location thing. I constantly use to see profiles and met guys who want long term, but I’m Joe on his hot boy summer

[@SoutheVisionary]

AYO! Joe is holding LAME PAUL'S SLIME! bottle? WHAT?!

[@djranchpowder7497]

Prime has officially gone global if joe is holding a bottle

[@sheFEISTY.43110]

I went on a date with a guy who showed a big red flag that i personally didnt like, but i still went on a 2nd date with him cause he did have other great qualities, and we shared a lot of things in common surprisingly. However, he was moving to fast for my liking.

[@beekhang1396]

We all need a Kaylean! 🎉

[@zureai]

I avoid dating... im only 25 but some of these women i attract arent loyal lol. They need more attention than i can give. So I just focus on getting my money up. The right lady will come sooner or later

[@michael43567]

Same boat as you

[@thelastOdoyle]

The bros are calling it quits

[@Yosuken]

41% of first time marriages end in divorce though, so it's still pretty bad.

[@lnigomontoya]

Lol im that 34 year old letting bishes down. I honestly dont look because of time. Theres so many things to do in this world that a broken heart makes you waste so much time waiting for it to heal. And it might sound corny, but when youre going through it, it fucking sucks and you cant do things right. Its all in the logic, the less partners you have, the less potential heartbreaks, thus less stress, thus a longer lifespan, thus more time to enjoy this planet. take care of your heart kiddos, your old self will thank you later.

[@SpAzZzZz_]

Day 29 of ryans cult

[@UrbanLegend2k11]

Nice.

[@__jumpscare]

Had a hard time lookin for this comment through the replies. glad I found the cult post 😮‍💨 it’s a part of my jk routine

[@SpAzZzZz_]

@@__jumpscare haha awesome I love it

[@CanPoreotics]

This is what I’m here for

[@seselimbu5317]

Congratulations on prime sponsorship.

[@sagathekawaiikilla]

This title scarring the o’s

[@Jayydubss]

Somebody need to save Kalyne! Is there anyone out there?

[@Zhcwu]

Tag dion Cole

[@BeanTalk-yz4if]

definitely got to be the leader of his friend group

[@epikh1gh536]

hell no the women are setting their standards too high. It isn't the man's fault. These 304 too picky lmao

[@KristineTran]

So many people are spelling Kalyne’s name wrong 😅

[@imnugget8085]

As someone 26 I don't think woman do that as much as people say but with that said. I don't date either anymore not cause there bad cause I relies its better being single I can travel when ever I can and I can quite my job and be well free. Dating isn't freedom it can be. But not owes cause it's a responsibility maybe at first it's fun but after 3 months they have there family and there problem and same go with me. People might be a good people, but that doesn't mean there good at dating. And I been practicing both Christianity and Buddhism here and there and honestly. I don't think I ever go to dating just friends and that's it. But everyone has a choice and I wish everyone good luck in what ever you want to be or want to learn

[@foggycraw6758]

Men are limboing standards

[@pkruez2089]

Link to that video Steve showed please.

[@thalunizz21]

Just be normal. That's it. Look for someone who might have the same interests as you - stop going for people you think you should go for instead of the ones who would legitimately be interested in you. Y'all complicate shit so much and make things too formal.

[@undefeatedaj]

Modern women want traditional men. That’s not going to work 😂

[@blackdawg7361]

Guys are letting their women down because women's demands have been raised (even during COVID), whereas men's standards in women throughout have not changed.

[@bryannguyen3915]

Maybe he’s been waiting at the restaurant for 30 minutes already and had to wait another 4. Still if that’s the case, dude needs to get a life or some video games.

[@NuUnlimited]

I need to email

[@SixFourZero]

Kalyne is a baddie.

[@lerrojcv3987]

😂😂😂😂😅😅😅

[@kevinmac6508]

50% of first marriages fail 67% of second marriages fail 74% of third marriages fail Just don't marry someone who has been divorced before then. Your chances will improve. Although only 6 out of 1000 are are marrying per year, the lowest in recorded US history. So you have to find someone willing to marry in the first place.

[@michael43567]

Women have inflated standards nowadays

[@Mr.Lee2345]

As Dave Chapelle said, “chivalry is dead and women killed it.”

[@ThatAsianGuyy]

Giiid Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuk

[@RVFFICA]

19:18 Kalyne is 1 of the boys

[@03GucciWolf]

i’m only 22 and have more friends married than single ones it’s def different in the country mfs here are still marrying their high school sweetheart and living the american dream

[@_Maxten]

My problem is the process & intent for finding a relationship is also the same process i have for finding friends. That date to marry, idk if ur sustainable. NEXT, oh wait nvm they dont value this relationship the same way y even try. nvm then its lonely out here fr mindset.

[@kyleluster4713]

Women are the issue we know it.

[@healmeimhurt-.-]

💜

[@RoderickTom-ge1vc]

Kalyne🔥🔥🔥

[@Okayyycool]

Women let themselves down, lol. Quality women are few and far between these days.

[@dttheemperor]

Kalyne a baddie.

[@misteryakamoto]

Considering divorce rates are up in the 70% and are initiated by women, it's not even worth it for men to date and even marry. It's much a bigger problem than a lot of people think. Nobody believes "for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer... in sickness and in health until death do us part" anymore. Especially women. When things gets tough, they're the first ones to leave. Been there and seen it plenty of times in my lifetime. Not to mention the court favors women over men. Men have more to lose than women. The older I get, the more I realize how important faith is. Especially if you're a Christian. Faith goes a long way. People nowadays absolutely have no idea what the definition of love is. The key to any relationship is forgiveness. If you say you love someone, and you can't forgive them, you do not love them at all. The Bible defines what true love is suppose to be. And people wonder why men takes the red pills nowadays. Stay single men. Trust me. It'll save you a ton of headaches. (Unless you truly find someone worthy of loving.)

[@arandomboi3353]

🗿

[@AnonYoBizness]

Bro getting Bussy during Lockdowns was like Levelingin a game on 4x Exp. if you did not level up during that time, respectfully it's hopeless for you LOL.

[@andycheung22ac]

By the time you get to 37-38, the idea of having children is meh. Paying for the kid's uni at 60? No thanks. Marriage? Over half of them fail, and divorce will cost the man half his wealth.

[@artheals8869]

I blame the red pill movement for dude’s lacking the effort in dating. I think a lot of dudes got their egos fucking INFLATED by these male superiority arguments and feel as though it’s a waste of time to put time and effort into courting a woman. But also what K said about girls using dudes for free meals is REAL.

[@TheRedemptionRain]

Brah how does red pill inflate their egos? The red pill is a place where dudes go to when they’ve been consistently hurt. If anything maybe women have an inflated ego thanks to social media and the amount of options they have. I legit believe our grandfathers generation had it easier thanks to couples meeting in small towns with less competition since the internet didn’t exist.

[@artheals8869]

@@TheRedemptionRain Yes, dudes egos have been super inflated by red pill talk, because they have reduced women into objects that should serve them, rather than seeing them as human beings in which they should be creating an equitable union with. I notice a lot of red pill dudes tell women to take accountability whilst completely shedding any sort of accountability from themselves. See, those dudes focus on the loud minority of women who are instagram models and only care about clout and making money, when there are COUNTLESS women out there who have values that would more align with what a lot of these men want but they focus on that group. If a woman says she wants a man to provide for her and also wants her own independence and wants her man to be loyal and you think that’s ridiculous, fine don’t deal with her, just like a woman should sprint in the other direction if a man says she needs to be loyal but he can have as many women as he wants. It’s two sides of the same coin. Men and women pointing fingers at each other like the Spider-Man meme. Back in the day, women also had no power and now they have the freedom to express how they want, and if you don’t want your girl to express in a certain way you can have that conversation or choose someone else (which is also exposing the contradictory nature of red pill men when they only speak to the women who portray themselves in a certain light that goes to prove their belief system).

[@Austin-if7ne]

If u want a traditional man are u a traditional woman if not stop complaining

[@dannyzurita4759]

Ryan doesn’t own his bish. He’s still financing.

[@JayJay-cw3cg]

The perfect example is knowing how many weirdos are thinking to themselves right now "I can totally treat Kalyne properly" without even considering getting to know her, or any other girl/guy as a human being first lol.. reality is it goes both ways..

[@iBeatBoxz8]

Joe needs a haircut asap

[@bethnichols2875]

No, he really doesn't. Not until/unless his wife Hannah says so. Joe has said he is leaving the decision up to her.

[@iBeatBoxz8]

@@bethnichols2875 I mean I could care less about what Hanna says. I’m stating my opinion regardless, I think he’s long overdue for a clean shave.

[@bethnichols2875]

@@iBeatBoxz8 Then isn't it fortunate that Joe cares more about his wife's opinion then he does about yours. 😏

[@iBeatBoxz8]

@@bethnichols2875 well his wife is kinda head over heels for him, She just goes along with whatever he wants to do without saying much, he mentioned it many times.

[@joeinthanou7961]

I love you Gina Darling ❤️

[@FiveSubj3x6]

I love her more! Back off!

[@joeinthanou7961]

@@FiveSubj3x6 show it more

[@user-Mikey484]

A good conservative man will make all the difference.

[@spanishvids11]

Cmon joe lol ur divorce rate definition doesnt make sense. If u take a screenshot of the total number of couples that get divorced or are married, any individual isnt gunna tally up more on one side. It’s either u are or are not in one group lol

[@Paputsza]

tbh my real standards for dating are a good personality relative to mine, aka the standards for friendship, and an attractive but memorable face. I basically have to put “skinny/muscular” and 6’1 on dating profiles solely because of the sheer amount of potatoes out there.

[@jime269]

but why would you want women that look like that?

[@MetalGearMk3]

If you want quality traditional women go to Eastern Europe and Asia.

[@zezeti2246]

😂eastern Europe is out of the equation,I live there,internet and social media converted our women to west ideals😅