Office Politics - How to Deal with Workplace Politics

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Adriana Girdler

Adriana Girdler

Күн бұрын

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@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! If you’re going to use these office politics tips at your organization, write “SURVIVE AND THRIVE!” in the comments below. Cheers!
@pbbhaskar
@pbbhaskar 2 жыл бұрын
Summary: 1. Don't pick sides in the event of situations / conflicts. Be neutral and focus on what can be done to bring situation to normalcy and progress with the activity 2. Document all the major agreements in discussions or meetings for future reference 3. Don't get personal: everyone has different views and ways of expressing. stay calm and focus on the issue 4. Stay away from gossip: It spirals you into negative energy loop quickly 5. Stay positive: Be compassionate, give benefit of doubt to others, see things from different perspectives.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment, cheers!
@Seed2Stem
@Seed2Stem 6 жыл бұрын
Choose positivity. Assume positive intent. Start every day with a fresh slate and leave behind the baggage from yesterday. Great stuff Adriana!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes and yes! Thank you for watching and glad you seek positivity in those difficult situations. Cheers!
@banderas2000
@banderas2000 Ай бұрын
Easier said than done when you have to be in the environment every day
@suziebujok3810
@suziebujok3810 6 жыл бұрын
Great tips! I like how you mentioned that when someone is angry it's probably not about you and you need to walk away.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Suzie! It's true, when others are making things personal and unprofessional at work, it's more often than not a reflection of them. Glad you stopped by to check it out, cheers!
@cryora
@cryora 2 жыл бұрын
Get angry back and fuck them up.
@lizbettalksmoney
@lizbettalksmoney 6 жыл бұрын
I love that you mentioned to choose POSITIVITY, sometimes work gets crazy and overwhelming but choosing to look at the bright side can be the difference in stress levels for sure. You're so awesome Adriana, keep these videos coming!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
You sound like a positive person! I'm glad you agree that it's easiest to handle when you keep things positive. Thank you so much for the kind comment, cheers!
@laurendempsey9644
@laurendempsey9644 6 жыл бұрын
I agree - office politics are tricky to navigate when you're new and trying to make friends and be nice to people. I think gossip is the worst because it's hard to know how to respond without also being a gossiper or being negative! But you're right, everyone knows who the gossipers are and everyone wants to steer clear of them so it's best not to get involved.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Lauren, it's definitely difficult to know how to respond when you're presented with gossip and negative talk. I find it's helpful to simply respond back with something positive about the person/situation that's being talked about. That way you're still able to interact with those people while not becoming a gossiper! Thanks for watching, cheers!
@AngieNFilms
@AngieNFilms 6 жыл бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree with what you said about documentation. If it’s not documented then it never happened.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
It would be nice if it didn't have to come to that, but unfortunately, it is often necessary. Thanks for watching. Cheers!
@HeatherGerhardt
@HeatherGerhardt 6 жыл бұрын
Stay in your lane, if it doesn’t concern you, stay out it! Hate office politics. Great information!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
I agree, Heather - don't get into other people's business! Thanks for watching, cheers!
@marksummers463
@marksummers463 3 жыл бұрын
If you get the chance, check a piece titled The Hatchet Man's Playbook - a LOT of eye-popping, non-obvious stuff! Can't recommend it highly enough!
@weizien5057
@weizien5057 Жыл бұрын
YESSSS
@forthdimension686
@forthdimension686 3 ай бұрын
Thats how you lose, to succeed you HAVE to play
@Vhvjdow0ajsbcdhcuei3o22-om4sm
@Vhvjdow0ajsbcdhcuei3o22-om4sm Ай бұрын
Let it rot, they dont pay you enough
@VictoriaLioznyansky
@VictoriaLioznyansky 6 жыл бұрын
Great video! Office politics can be absolutely poisonous, and take all the fun out of a job you love. My favorite advice is look for mentors, not for gossipers. So true!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Victoria! Having mentors is a great way to learn the ropes of the job and ensure you're spending time with quality workers. So glad you liked the video, cheers!
@marksummers463
@marksummers463 3 жыл бұрын
From my experience, mentors choose you, but it's important to know that they need you & other recruits to build their political empires. If you get the chance, check out a piece titled The Hatchet Man's Playbook - a LOT of eye-popping, non-obvious stuff! Can't recommend it highly enough!
@viviennejohnston1046
@viviennejohnston1046 3 жыл бұрын
Love your calmness. Love the tip about staying away from gossip. Things often stated to others often go back to the person being talked about.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching. So true...gossip will always come back and bite you in the.... ;-)
@schmidtandcompany
@schmidtandcompany 6 жыл бұрын
Tip #1 is vital!! Great advice to be neutral regardless of where you are working. Great conversation Adriana 👍life is simpler with less drama. Afterall you're there to work.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Yes! And you don't want to impact your career negatively by picking sides. Thanks for watching, Cindy-lou. Cheers!
@axsonm6256
@axsonm6256 3 жыл бұрын
This was super helpful to me. As we know today, there is no longer the come and do your job and leave and repeat. It's all changing and people are expected to partake in politics and gossip now so this video on tips was EXTREMELY helpful to myself and a ton of people I would be thanks alot again Adriana. Great job!! Axson - Los Angeles, CA
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, Axson. Thank you for watching and your comment. I’m really happy that this video was so helpful. Hopefully you aren’t dealing with office politics at the moment but if you are I hope the tips in the video will help. Wishing you all the best. Cheers!
@erockbrox8484
@erockbrox8484 2 жыл бұрын
I keep on making the mistake on talking to people at my work and they end up complaining on me, and I find this funny because it just shows how insecure they are.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 2 жыл бұрын
It's ok to be a sounding board as long as it doesn't put you in a position that you are uncomfortable with. Always know it is ok to politely end the conversation:) Thanks for watching, cheers!
@Fred-zt5ky
@Fred-zt5ky 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve done all of these mistakes when I was in my early 20’s. But now I’m 25 and never do them anymore!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
We have all made these mistakes at one time or another. Thanks for watching! Cheers!
@sabrinawanderer7560
@sabrinawanderer7560 4 жыл бұрын
It hurts that those who were blessed to be in good position use it to take advantage of people they dislike. I hope they change him
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
Sadly that does happen from time to time but it's hopefully not the norm. Thanks for watching, cheers!
@shresthaditya2950
@shresthaditya2950 5 ай бұрын
1) Stay Neutral 2) Document:1) Who is at meeting 2)What we were supposed to do etc.. 3) Don't get personal and don't stoop to their level and if they are angry it's about them not you 4) Choose positivity
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment on the videos you have watched. Cheers!
@healthyvoicetips
@healthyvoicetips 6 жыл бұрын
I hate office politics and it's always challenging to deal with it. And I've been working for a long time now! Great tips. Thanks.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
You're right, office politics are often tricky to navigate. Even if you've been working for a long time, you'll likely still have to deal with difficult situations. Let me know if any of these tips help you face the challenge of office politics! Cheers!
@healthyvoicetips
@healthyvoicetips 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, I never take sides. I try to take the "Switzerland" approach but it can be tricky too!
@PalmTreeTeachingTV
@PalmTreeTeachingTV 6 жыл бұрын
Playing it safe is a good plan! Many thanks for this information. Deirdre. X
@HR2-2024
@HR2-2024 3 жыл бұрын
I have always done what you said in this vedio and have remained nuteral which has benefited me. However, sometime people because of their perceptions and stereotypes will think of you being part of a specific group and deal negatively with you without any reasons. But yes, the precious things that have helped me are honesty and positivity. Loved this video.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
We can never change others perceptions but as long a you know that you are staying positive and honest, that's what counts the most. Thanks for watching, cheers!
@-Bloomingtales
@-Bloomingtales Жыл бұрын
I’m actually really grateful that in my new position and location that I’m already implementing most if not all of these practices.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
Fantastic to hear! I really makes a difference in day to day work life when you know just how to deal and or avoid office politics. Wishing you all the best in your new position. Cheers!
@SocialMediaLove
@SocialMediaLove 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, there is one weird one at my work...about lunch hour outside of the office...you can't have a glass of wine!!!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Haha! Thanks for stopping by to watch and comment. Cheers!
@TeenaHughesOnline
@TeenaHughesOnline 6 жыл бұрын
5 great tips Adriana! I'm a solo-preneur and every now and then I miss the camaraderie of having workmates to bounce ideas with -- and then I hear horror stories from friends and I'm so glad I work alone :-) These tips are essential - thank you.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Teena - I agree, there are pros and cons to both, but office politics can be one of the downsides of working with others. So glad you're happy with your decision to be a solo-preneur! Cheers!
@WendyLeungCoaching
@WendyLeungCoaching 6 жыл бұрын
These are all great tips for dealing with office politics! I certainly navigated my way through a fair share of them when I used to work in an office setting. Staying out of it and focusing on your work is the best tactic, if at all possible! Great video, Adriana!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Wendy! I agree, being independent and focusing on the role you play in the company keeps you from getting sucked in. I'm glad you were able to develop strategies for dealing with office politics. Thanks for sharing, cheers!
@Jump15official
@Jump15official 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent tips! They will definitely come in handy in my current office!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad they're going to be helpful for you! Let me know if you notice a difference after implementing the tips. Cheers!
@melisavong8096
@melisavong8096 6 жыл бұрын
As much as we may try to avoid office politics, sometimes situations arise and are out of our control but these are great tips for handling them when they do happen!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I'm so glad you found these tips helpful and hope they help you out the next time you're faced with a sticky situation. Cheers!
@derejemiti5641
@derejemiti5641 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, I love your tips.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! Thanks for watching, cheers!
@Nick-kb2jc
@Nick-kb2jc 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this, I really needed to hear these tips right now. Things have not been going well at my new job (been there for 3 months), and it got even worse today when I got into a heated exchange with two co-workers on my team. It's all just office politics and I'm getting really depressed because I'm realizing I'm most likely going to run into this kind of thing at whatever organization I join.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 2 жыл бұрын
I hope these tips will help as you move forward. Thanks for watching and I’m sure there are better days ahead.
@issaadan4909
@issaadan4909 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Adrian , just landed on your Chanel after performing very well in my new role, and was very had for me to take sarcastic comments from colleagues. Cheers
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Issa, I am sorry you have had to deal with such comments in your new role. Remember your value and that you were hired because you are knowledgeable and right for the job. Keep your head held high but also remember if these comments become too much make sure you take action with your boss or HR. Wishing you all the best and great success! ❤️
@CatchUlaterAdvetures
@CatchUlaterAdvetures Жыл бұрын
Choose positivity! Great point. When you want to choose violence choose positivity! Today is going to be a good day because I choose to look at the good and let the bad poison it’s own self without my help.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love your positivity!!! Wishing you a wonderful week and thanks for watching, cheers!
@SimpleMarketingAcademy
@SimpleMarketingAcademy 6 жыл бұрын
Yikes! I am so glad I don't have to deal with that, being self-employed. Your tips are spot on, Adriana!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
That's fantastic, Jill! Thanks so much for watching, cheers!
@marksummers463
@marksummers463 4 жыл бұрын
If you're going to manage a business, you NEED to read a piece titled The Hatchet Man's Playbook - a LOT of eye-popping stuff!
@Life.giodio
@Life.giodio Жыл бұрын
Survive & Thrive
@primeobjective5469
@primeobjective5469 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in need of a subject for class, *office politics* caught my eye. Good work. Thanks
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
That’s great! Hope this video has given you some inspiration and that your students enjoy the class. Thanks for watching, Cheers!
@LeanneWeaver
@LeanneWeaver 6 жыл бұрын
Love all these tips Adriana! Not taking things personal is so important!!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, it truly works! Thanks so much for watching, Leanne. Cheers!
@sujatashroff6385
@sujatashroff6385 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Great tips. Give unconditional love to everyone, be firm, document, build rapport with high bosses
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 2 жыл бұрын
Well said! Thanks for watching, cheers!
@jschultzf3
@jschultzf3 6 жыл бұрын
Playing it safe and documenting....so smart!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, James! Unfortunately, sometimes documenting is the safest thing to do. Cheers!
@jschultzf3
@jschultzf3 6 жыл бұрын
I've actually started doing this recently, with important conversations, and it definitely gives me peace of mind.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Peace of mind is huge! Even if you don't end up using the documentation in the future, it removes the anxiety of the situation becoming even worse. Thanks for sharing your experience!
@cryora
@cryora 2 жыл бұрын
Documenting takes too much time and takes your concentration away from the conversation. It also makes you inflexible in the future if you need to change something and someone else is holding the documentation against you saying that you agreed to such and such and need to do what was agreed upon. If you're not the boss to begin with, documentation doesn't help for shit, because the boss has the authority to override decisions at any time and rewrite history as he please.
@CliffordStarks1
@CliffordStarks1 6 жыл бұрын
Great tips Andriana! Haha yes really do not want to play in the field of politics with others. Unless you want to be in an emotional battlefield 😂😂. Hope you have a blessed day 😃👍
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
You definitely don't want to get caught up in that emotional battlefield at work! Keeping things professional is so important and will benefit both you and the organization. So glad you agree, Clifford! Thanks for stopping by!
@alinedasilveirabrasil
@alinedasilveirabrasil Жыл бұрын
Love it your tips advices, however each case is one scenario
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
Very true! Thanks for watching, cheers!
@DrBiohack
@DrBiohack 6 жыл бұрын
All your uploads are so helpful!🙌😁
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, Elizabeth! Glad you find them helpful. Cheers!
@MM22272
@MM22272 10 ай бұрын
Job well done! Subscribed.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 10 ай бұрын
Thank you and thanks for subscribing! Cheers!
@MM22272
@MM22272 10 ай бұрын
@@AdrianaGirdler Happy New Year!
@inspiringsyedmasroor
@inspiringsyedmasroor 2 жыл бұрын
Good tips Adriana
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for stopping by to comment, inspiring syed masroor. Cheers!
@wildwomanenchanted6742
@wildwomanenchanted6742 6 жыл бұрын
These may be workplace tips.. but I'd say... they are good for LIFE tips too! ~Elizabeth
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Elizabeth! It's true, many skills you learn in the working world can be easily transferred to everyday life. Thanks for watching, cheers!
@wildwomanenchanted6742
@wildwomanenchanted6742 6 жыл бұрын
anytime :)
@ronin2963
@ronin2963 9 ай бұрын
Wow! You actually said the quiet part out loud.
@mickmeadows
@mickmeadows 5 жыл бұрын
Great tips and ones I try to implement daily! Funny you mention Switzerland, I’ve always thought how I would love to visit or live there based on being neutral!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Gareth and let me know if you ever make that trip to Switzerland! Cheers!
@improvingmyself7410
@improvingmyself7410 Жыл бұрын
thanks very helpful but it would be more helpful if you post a video on these points like a film with one minute or less for each point with characters so that it will get into us deeply. anyways nice video thanks. again
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the suggestion and for watching, cheers!
@samuelndu2003
@samuelndu2003 2 жыл бұрын
Great tips especially neutral part and record keeping. Though every day brings new challenge
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you and thanks for watching, cheers!
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 6 жыл бұрын
Great video Adriana!! right, time to be like Switzerland :D
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Haha yes! Let me know how it goes! Cheers!
@sankarraj229
@sankarraj229 3 жыл бұрын
Really Great Suggestions....👍
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, cheers!
@avinashavi3659
@avinashavi3659 Жыл бұрын
Thank for motivation
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
You're welcome 😊 Thanks for watching, cheers!
@ruthmusiime6258
@ruthmusiime6258 5 ай бұрын
Survive and thrive 😊
@dr.alaminkhan.4824
@dr.alaminkhan.4824 6 ай бұрын
Great tips
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 ай бұрын
Glad you like them! Thanks for watching, cheers!
@KirstyBortoft
@KirstyBortoft 6 жыл бұрын
This is such great advise Thank you
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you liked the video, Kirsty! Have you been faced with tricky office politics?
@UniqueFamily987
@UniqueFamily987 3 ай бұрын
Stay Positive and you always have choice...!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 ай бұрын
YES!! 100% Thanks for watching, cheers!
@promlapresleyjohn6853
@promlapresleyjohn6853 4 ай бұрын
Thanks 😊
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@VictoriaVic789
@VictoriaVic789 Ай бұрын
Thank you
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Ай бұрын
You're most welcome! Thanks for watching, cheers!
@hl0984
@hl0984 4 жыл бұрын
What if the gossipers are the ones that are mainstream and try to push you aside just because you are a top performer and better than them?
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
Gossiping will never end well down the line so those mainstream colleagues may find themselves down stream very quickly. If the gossip is causing issues with productivity, the job and the overall emotional well being of the individual then having a conversation with management and or HR would be in order. Thanks for watching and for your question. Cheers!
@nitinjaiswal7224
@nitinjaiswal7224 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome.. Thanks
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Your very welcome! Hope you are keeping well.
@RVersity
@RVersity 6 жыл бұрын
I always get dragged into office politics. I'm probably bad about picking sides, but just my own :) I like to think I'm pretty reasonable and more of the go to gal in the office. Everyone comes to me for advice and help instead of "the boss" aka my better half lol
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
It's great that you're the go-to person for advice! You must help create a positive environment at the office, making people feel comfortable with going to you. Thanks for sharing your experience with office politics - cheers!
@karinakeith2695
@karinakeith2695 6 жыл бұрын
Great tips in office politics!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Karina! Glad you enjoyed the video. Cheers!
@hariharantamilarasu4799
@hariharantamilarasu4799 2 жыл бұрын
Love it 😍
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, and thanks for watching, cheers!
@adamwood2827
@adamwood2827 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks ❤
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome 😊 Thanks for watching, cheers!
@bayangnelson
@bayangnelson Жыл бұрын
nice very inspiring
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much and thanks for watching, cheers!
@AminPishehvar
@AminPishehvar Жыл бұрын
Great tips! Some questions. I've been around for a long time, and although I always try to be super kind and compassionate towards my coworkers, but somehow, I always seem to end up with the short end of the stick! And to this date, I have not been able to figure out why and what happened! Maybe too honest or too naive!? I would appreciate all positive feedbacks...
@LucyGriffithsdotcom
@LucyGriffithsdotcom 6 жыл бұрын
Great video lovely! I will also talk about a related topic which is office bullying in my next videos. Have a great day!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Wow, that's a great topic, Lucy! I'm excited to hear your take on it. Will definitely watch it when it's out. Cheers!
@LucyGriffithsdotcom
@LucyGriffithsdotcom 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you lovely!
@LucyGriffithsdotcom
@LucyGriffithsdotcom 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you lovely!
@laurenconrad1799
@laurenconrad1799 4 жыл бұрын
Great video, but I think it’s incredibly important to distinguish what is petty office politics vs what is abuse, bullying, and sexual harassment. If a male boss remarks on how cute his female associate’s butt is and she feels uncomfortable, that’s no longer office politics. That’s sexual harrasment, though it may have begun as something seemingly innocuous.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, Lauren. Abuse, bullying and sexual harassment is far outside the scope of office politics. I wouldn't consider a remark such as the one above to be considered office politics from the get go, this would be an issue that would need to be taken to HR immediately. Thanks for taking the time to comment and watch, cheers!
@Eric-oj1cl
@Eric-oj1cl 4 жыл бұрын
I have a colleague, I thought he is my friend or on my side. He started gossips first, a lot about almost everything. Of course, during the conversation it is normal to talk about my own feelings and all these things, I learnt my great lesson. In the end, he backstabbed me in front of my boss when I wasn't there. What should I do? Should I expose in front all the gossips he had talked about inclusive about my boss? On appearance, he looks like a genuinely friendly person, but I didn't realise what he is doing.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
It is unfortunate you had to experience that. Don’t start gossiping to your boss about what he said, it will only make you look bad. Instead ensure you always do your best work and set up regular debrief meeting with your boss to review your work, ask questions etc. This will ensure when anything bad is said you have established a routine of reviewing your work with your manager and they will be in the loop of your progress. This will help your manager distinguish gossip from truth. As a side note, I know how much this betrayal can hurt. Look for the positives and choose to grow from this.
@mothgirlx6707
@mothgirlx6707 Жыл бұрын
Would be interested to know how you can keep it neutral when a side (superior) forces you to pick a side through a yes/no question or an action (note you cannot go to their superior without repercussions as politics stem from there)
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
That's a tough place to be when you are asked to give a simple a yes or no answer. No one should have to pick a side but everyone is entitled to give their opinion on situations so try that if possible to help keep it neutral. Wishing you all the best, cheers.
@mothgirlx6707
@mothgirlx6707 Жыл бұрын
@@AdrianaGirdler thank you for this answer
@gamedevskenya9821
@gamedevskenya9821 4 жыл бұрын
thank You!!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching, Cheers!
@IK-qu9hw
@IK-qu9hw 5 жыл бұрын
My ma'am dicuss all project points with others..(I joint company just 10 days before) Even during project development she not help me she help others . Now I want to complaint that with my maneger sir .. So what should I do plz tell me
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 5 жыл бұрын
I would need to have a greater understanding of your situation to truly answer your question but here are some high level steps you can take if you choose. Step one: Get clarity on expectations, scope statement, your role, and document that. Ensure that you're delivering to everything you're required to deliver to. Step two: start documenting these office politics scenarios when they occur so you can highlight them in conversation. Step three: take a look inward and make sure that you've done everything you can do to the best of your ability. Step four: depending on that outcome, talk to the person who you're having issues with to get clarity on how you can work better together. If that doesn't work, talk to your manager. But the most important thing is always to document. Best of luck! Always approach things with respect and compassion.
@ahmeemfarish1381
@ahmeemfarish1381 3 жыл бұрын
So confident
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, cheers!
@AnnaM-jy2em
@AnnaM-jy2em 8 ай бұрын
Survive and drive
@ashleyching3166
@ashleyching3166 5 жыл бұрын
Neutrality Documentation Professionalism
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Ashley, glad you were able to take away some tips on how to deal with workplace politics. Cheers!
@MelindaLongoria
@MelindaLongoria 3 жыл бұрын
I choose positivity.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
🙌 Thanks for watching, cheers!
@SAKFilms
@SAKFilms 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Have you ever had to deal with some bad office politics?
@Ricocase
@Ricocase Жыл бұрын
Working among Mean Girls is the worst.
@RichTriggerBontrager
@RichTriggerBontrager 6 жыл бұрын
I hate Office politics . Or even Political conversations at the office.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Rich, I agree - office politics are the worst! Cheers!
@cartooonspeaks4768
@cartooonspeaks4768 3 жыл бұрын
SURVIVE AND THRIVE
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
🙌 Thanks for watching, cheers!
@josephinemckellips9419
@josephinemckellips9419 4 жыл бұрын
What if you already got caught up in taking a side ? How can I retract n be neutral?
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
Honesty is the best policy. Everyone has an opinion and moving forward it’s your choice to walk away from any conversation that is pinning people against each other. Hope this helps and wishing you the best. Cheers!
@Exploratorium360
@Exploratorium360 2 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome and thank you! Cheers!
@thekellybaader
@thekellybaader 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome video and great tips, Andriana! Fun fact- I live in Switzerland, so we don't pick sides:)
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Wow, that's awesome, Kelly! I'm glad to hear you know how to stay neutral.. haha! Cheers!
@rahulkumarthorve
@rahulkumarthorve 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Adriana for your valuable guidance on this critical issue... but in our India we people interested in dirty politics and gossip more than hard work. i am working in one of top IT MNC company. i have 9 years experience in drug safety profile but no use. i am getting frustrated because of lack of opportunities for my efforts and skills. even who played dirty politics including my friends also they got promoted. but i want to come up with this ..how can i ??
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Stay true to yourself and try to practice and follow the tips in the video. Thanks for watching, all the best, cheers!
@Life.giodio
@Life.giodio Жыл бұрын
Great tips shared by you. Appreciated شاباش
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
Thank you and thanks for watching, cheers!
@vikastiwari6780
@vikastiwari6780 11 ай бұрын
I am also faced situation before but the thing is the politics involve but the technology is not suitable with my previous experience... But point is capable people never do politics, they do their work done and go home ... In simple word do your job and go home....
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 11 ай бұрын
Agreed! Thanks for taking the time to comment. Cheers!
@CourageToLiveTrue
@CourageToLiveTrue Жыл бұрын
Neutral. What’s something we can do?
@CourageToLiveTrue
@CourageToLiveTrue Жыл бұрын
Document agreements.
@CourageToLiveTrue
@CourageToLiveTrue Жыл бұрын
Choose positivity.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
All of these are great suggestions! Cheers!
@TheImperfectReader
@TheImperfectReader 4 жыл бұрын
I want to work on this, I am chatty and like to know everything.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
You have already taken the first step and realized this is something you want to work on 😊 thanks for watching and wishing you the best, cheers!
@UliSwag
@UliSwag 5 жыл бұрын
What is the meaning of work place politics
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 5 жыл бұрын
Office politics can apply to the tug between departments or people. It's always best to stay neutral. Thanks for watching, Cheers!
@jeffreyokun2355
@jeffreyokun2355 3 жыл бұрын
Survive? Let's flip this around and use Miramax as an example. To survive the politics there, how would you navigate there? There is no surviving or tiptoeing around! The only thing to do is to do what is right even if you lose your job for it! That's what got Weinstein finally facing his comeuppance. When someone is is bullying, harassing, setting you up, stealing your work, they should be placed into the light of truth because that is the only way to force change into these toxic structures. Following the tips given here, are making sure that things what go on in companies like Miramax and others like it, will stay hidden and nothing will change.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Okin, thank you for taking the time to watch this video and for sharing your feelings and opinion regarding it. Stay well, cheers.
@ericmassar395
@ericmassar395 Жыл бұрын
I’d try to be neutral but workers go behind your back so I’ll stay on their side I stay on my side
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler Жыл бұрын
Yes sadly this does happen but great to hear you try to stay as neutral as possible. Thanks for watching, cheers!
@globalsetdarkpool8276
@globalsetdarkpool8276 3 жыл бұрын
Why go through all that??? Just find a product or idea and hustle...create a business!!!!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, cheers!
@luckyer1995
@luckyer1995 6 ай бұрын
in my experience if you dont choose sides and be alone, they will get easier to get rid of you. majority win
@hanhuynh1889
@hanhuynh1889 2 жыл бұрын
@Han huynh
@bahamajim1998
@bahamajim1998 6 жыл бұрын
👍
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@hanhuynh1889
@hanhuynh1889 2 жыл бұрын
Han Huynh
@NobantuGxowa
@NobantuGxowa Жыл бұрын
@ASAM90
@ASAM90 2 жыл бұрын
No one tells to survive you need yo get dirty. They all talk abt positivity
@Unknown-hu4gf
@Unknown-hu4gf 3 жыл бұрын
So, then you piss both sides off by not taking a side! Not to smart!
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and for sharing your opinion. Every situation is different, sometimes walking away may be the best option to avoid workplace politics but it's up to each individual on how they want to deal with their situation. Wishing you a great day.
@llVIU
@llVIU 4 жыл бұрын
thanks for this video on how to become a spineless insect that keeps ruining workplaces. Oh sorry for the comment, I was supposed to play it safe and be neutral
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. The choice is always your regarding the words you use. They key is to understand your intention for using them.
@outdoorminer5533
@outdoorminer5533 2 жыл бұрын
Dude, gossiping, negativity, and unnecessary BS is what ruins workplaces.
@akarameez3732
@akarameez3732 3 жыл бұрын
😔😔
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, cheers!
@akarameez3732
@akarameez3732 3 жыл бұрын
@@AdrianaGirdler 😁😁✌
@simplelearning9721
@simplelearning9721 5 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with any of these. If you follow this, you will keep doing work and no one will entertain you.
@AdrianaGirdler
@AdrianaGirdler 5 жыл бұрын
The beauty of life is that we always have choice whether to take advice or not to take it. Thanks for watching. :)
@outdoorminer5533
@outdoorminer5533 2 жыл бұрын
You’re at work. Of course you will keep doing work. You want entertainment? Go to the circus.
@DisoMadida
@DisoMadida Жыл бұрын
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