One Of The Worst Parents Ever...

Why would you openly say something like this on Twitter?
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[@Opti]

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[@LondonTraveler358]

Hm can you made a video about a sushi factory a worker who lost his fingertips in a horrfic accident the boss basically refused to call a ambulance and told him to call a bloody taxi literally 🤣 not only that they also threw his fingers in the bin 🤔

[@w4tt58]

I started working at 15 "2 months til I turned 16" in a distribution factory that distributed goods like drinks "not alcohol" and generally stuff that goes in gas stations, so yeah I handled cigarettes but I don't smoke or drink. Gotta say even thought I don't work there anymore, it was probably one of the best experiences of my life. I had money made friends with other guys at work and I was the youngest.

[@YoMateo.]

Read my name,

[@DragonSlayerIsBack]

I am among the few....

[@jacobgutierrez1108]

Is it possible that if the angry joe show vs cbs gets a little more out of hand that we’ll see a video on it especially since it has to do with fair use

[@zato-1766]

Bruh people have such a weird overconfidence with therapists and therapy nowadays. Woman is literally saying she's not qualified to give motherly advice to her child since she's not a therapist lol. She's basically causing a problem one would want a therapist for by saying a therapist should handle it. A therapist is not a replacement for an active parent.

[@supercoolguy466]

I don't think so and judging by her tweets her child will need that therapist

[@courier4529]

@@supercoolguy466 Nah that child just needs to get out. That's a wine mommy for sure.

[@lucashall8761]

"A therapist is not a replacement for an active parent." *THIS*

[@supercoolguy466]

@@courier4529 look i agree but what if the parents dosen't fullfill the parental role? Ideally that dosen't happen but if it happens a therapist is the best replacment and in terms of talking about problems and imoroving mental health most of the time the therapists is better than the common parent

[@joshwongwai3532]

That's the problem, lot of parents nowadays aren't " actively " involved in raising their own children.

[@thelaststeakbender3150]

Optimus, you made a terrible mistake. You said that people on Twitter “don’t really think”. They never think. They have 2 braincells, shared between every user.

[@tpmason9998]

I should get an account then so I can double the amount of braincells

[@audiojack2540]

@@tpmason9998 only works in dream land

[@Messup7654]

Sorry to break it to u but a ton of dumb people doesn’t mean all dumb people same with tiktok

[@Flesh_Wizard]

One is perpetually angry, and the other is perpetually full of itself

[@thelaststeakbender3150]

@@Messup7654 it’s a joke

[@DubYuhGChoppa]

Speedrunning her way to being a bad person, quite impressive what people have done in the "all glitches" category

[@michaelcampos6451]

Yeah I know, I'm just trying to play the game normally

[@Messup7654]

@@michaelcampos6451 u sound like the guy that opened all the doors tuned in power and ram across the map to revive people

[@Leo._...]

The racist strategy is also pretty good, results in good runs but it's tricky, you can get cancelled real quick

[@lonkzelda7871]

Summoning salt history speedrunning video when?

[@bigbrisk8423]

@@Messup7654 isn't that the only way to do it tho?

[@thelittleowl1]

Imagine literally getting a child and complaining about being a parent. These are all totally normal things parents do lol.

[@ep1x3]

ffs this is lighthearted commentary. Shes not in genuine distress and probably barely cares. Shes playfully making fun of her kids, not saying she regrets being a parent

[@thelittleowl1]

@@ep1x3 this is a lighthearted comment… why else would I put lol at the end?

[@ep1x3]

@@thelittleowl1 because it doesnt change the purpose of the comment. regardless of the tone, you're still claiming she did something wrong by making a joke abt having to do parental things. Like for example, if a parent said "Being a parent is hard - today i had to deal with timmy crying after i cut his sandwich the wrong way", you wouldnt go "OMG!!! YOURE SUCH A BAD PARENT!!! YOU CHOSE TO HAVE KIDS YOU DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES!!!!" would you? like some things arent meant to be taken seriously

[@thelittleowl1]

@@ep1x3 problem is you can’t tell if someone’s joking through text. Also no I wouldn’t do that. I won’t reply to you any further as you are putting words into my mouth that I never said.

[@xnotasweatx]

@@ep1x3 do you have half a brain cell

[@thenovicewhispers]

Honestly, this really grinds my gears. There's a lot of kids who can't talk to their parents. And this person is saying "He has no consistent adult voice in his life." Right. Because YOU are the consistent adult voice. You are his parent, you knucklehead. You should want him to talk to you about what's on his mind

[@jrock42_39]

I’ve spent 27 years not being able to talk to my dad because he’s just not that kind of person. It sucks

[@thenovicewhispers]

@@jrock42_39 same here

[@FlareJollyDragoness]

@@jrock42_39 For me, it's both of my parents. My dad and my stepmom. They mean well, but are stuck in their old ways and don't understand my issues.

[@rengoku2195]

Same for me, both of my parents for all my 19 years, even when I almost killed myself when I was 13. They're both narcissistic and are unable to admit fault. They always end up fighting each other too. But hey, at least I'm doing much better now. I started not caring about it for a while. I guess working torward my goals has helped me a lot forgetting about it.

[@FlareJollyDragoness]

@@rengoku2195 I'm so glad you're still here.

[@tapuchris3329]

Every child needs parents, but not every parents deserve children.

[@alkebulanawah4242]

Some children don't deserve parents

[@BlissGeometryDash]

@@alkebulanawah4242 no lol. From your idiotic comment I'm going to suspect you are a parent yourself, and if so the OP has just been proven correct

[@Sebastianator01]

@@alkebulanawah4242 No, children need adult role models. They need parents.

[@logicandemma8474]

You act like having a child is a blessing.,lol it's probably more like a responsibility

[@slicepie410]

@@logicandemma8474 what point are you trying to make? Every child deserves parents (because they are children after all. They need someone to look up to) but not every parent deserves children (if they are not responsible). This is what they literally said

[@timothynordgren2673]

It's essentially kids raising kids.

[@josecano326]

Yes, I noticed it too, people nowadays seem to be infantilized, they think and behave like children. Compare adults before to adults now and you will see it too.

[@fragileomniscience7647]

@@josecano326 People are getting kids later and later, which causes all sorts of metabolic and behavioral issues.

[@junglejim4254]

@@josecano326 My dad was born in the 60's and still living, thank god he was borb in a time.

[@putraseptiadi3071]

Ah, the "I have had a terrible life so my child should also have a terrible life" kind of parents.

[@theecharmingbilly]

They act like all they thought they were getting into was a puppy.

[@devenrivera5842]

When a parents spends more time on Twitter than their actual child, they have failed as a parent.

[@Lol-jp1ju]

Not only failed as a parent but also as a human in general

[@c.k.harrower8672]

"how do i tell the 18yo that using me as a therapist and a crisis counselor isn't healthy for either of us?" If you're genuinely unwilling to answer whatever question that the child YOU decided to have throws your way, you shouldn't be a parent. Period.

[@ComposedSage75]

Agreed

[@Missingno_Miner]

I dunno, that's literally the most reasonable thing they said. While I doubt that the kid is actually using them as a therapist and crisis counselor, that's almost definitely hyperbole on their part, that would, in fact, be unhealthy for both. It can even be unhealthy for therapists to do their job, they often experience mental health issues of their own as a direct result of the toll their job takes, in spite of being far better equipped for it than most parents. It's way harder work than anyone really gives them credit for.

[@x-49nightraven]

@@Missingno_Miner which is right, but as a parent, you're obligated to do it anyway. You chose to have kids. Remember. You chose to, you always had the choice. The kids don't. They can't choose who their parents are, or whether they want to be born or not. And at that point, it's become your debt towards your child that you do your obligation. It doesn't matter that it's hard or emotionally exhausting, it's the consequence of their actions.

[@Missingno_Miner]

@@x-49nightraven Ummm... no, parenthood does not create an obligation to perform a task that you aren't qualified to do and which could have an negative effect on both your mental health. The responsible thing to do if your kid is legitimately using you as a therapist is to get them in front of an actual therapist. It's one thing for a kid to ask a parent for help or advice, that sort of stuff is part of a parent's job, but unless said parent is also a therapist, they should not be trying to act as a substitute for one: that's likely to end poorly for both parties.

[@x-49nightraven]

@@Missingno_Miner But i didn't said the kids need to be using the parents as a therapist. I said that parents should do their obligations. Yes, they aren't psychiatrists, they aren't well qualified to do that, but in this case, it's just a simple emotional support. In which the parents are obligated to do in the first place.

[@funcloudrider7928]

Seeing how bad some parents are makes me realise how amazing my parents are

[@iamacatperson7226]

Same

[@evanmaldonado9799]

Yeah man, me too, I feel you.

[@greenlyyy]

(love you mom!)

[@mikkitoro8933]

Well she isn't the "worst" parent, but she definitely is a bad parent.

[@lucasinazumai9873]

The title does say "One of", but what do I know? I'm not a parent.

[@endcensorship874]

Opti, totally with you here. I have two kids (20 and 22) and they feel comfortable coming to me and talking and that's how it should be. You never stop being a parent. Even when my kids are in their parenting days, they will still be my kids and I will still be their dad. This never ends, and I feel like this nominee for "parent of the year" just doesn't get that.

[@youngxanwar6790]

Don't care bum+ratio

[@haiazii]

@@youngxanwar6790 major L

[@haiazii]

i cant like bc it's at 69

[@DoomShrm]

@@youngxanwar6790 somebody's fatherless

[@JewelWildmoon]

@@youngxanwar6790 L + failed ratio + ratio

[@xbro154ever]

Wait, so you’re telling me that this parent hasn’t figured out how to properly converse with your child that YOU YOURSELF DECIDED TO TAKE CARE OF AND RAISE after 18 years of having them? How tf are you an actual parent and a sane person?

[@m3ntallyd3fficient11]

You can be a parent but not a sane human being unfortunately

[@xbro154ever]

That is correct

[@oliveoil2549]

This sounds all too familiar to me. 👀

[@mantisshrimp6169]

Man I swear people like this girl are the reason there are so many kids out on the street.

[@marcusmeins1839]

Being a degen is very easy

[@Loonfuzzy]

You probably brought this up but it's funny that she's basically mad her kid is trying to get comfort from her when most people I know say they don't confide with their parents because they think they are gonna get yelled at or whatever

[@FlareJollyDragoness]

I have that issue with my parents. I either get pushed to the side, unintentionally ignored, or fussed at. It's frustrating for an adult child to be subjected to this, but I have no choice.

[@toothclaw6985]

It's almost as if being a parent requires you to physically AND emotionally support your children. If you're unable to do either one, you shouldn't be a parent in the first place.

[@aegis6485]

This is why people like me end up just growing out of the foster care system with a pessimistic attitude toward it all.

[@heavenly5545]

Top thing's twitter is known for: 1: crimes 2:porn 3:Stupid takes 4: bullying 5:onlyfans 6:Too much furry 7:Bro get off twitter 8:china 9:L+ratio 10:Dream

[@Lol-jp1ju]

11. Being downbad

[@titaniumcranium3755]

6 is 100% correct

[@LichTempest]

Calling your child “my dude” just screams horrible parent

[@jeiku5041]

For me, it's making your children call you sir or ma'am. You're their parent, not their drill sergeant.

[@Fraudkuna9]

Nah not really I feel it establishes a positive relationship. Making your kid call you sir or ma’am Is hallmark of a bad parent

[@trigzzfrl3013]

Ehhhh idk about that my dads been calling me bro my whole life and we have a great relationship and he’s a great father

[@jeiku5041]

@@Fraudkuna9 Finally, someone agrees that it's, for lack of a better term, cringeworthy.

[@iamacatperson7226]

Maybe. It kinda depends on the person I guess. I don't really mind someone calling their kid dude or something like that, it's just different

[@Hornsifter]

Im so happy that my mother did all she could to prepare me for adulthood, and even then when I dident know where to go, she was there to help me the best she could. I can wholeheartly say that I owe so mutch to my mother and my father, even though my father was not allways there for me when I needed him. He had his own demons to take care of back then and now he's in a way better place and our relationship is mutch better too. One thing I've realized is that my mother is pushing 50 and my father 60.... They are getting old, as well as I am. This scares me, becouse the thought of losing them to old age is horrifying. I even had nightmares about it--

[@emma6648]

Didn’t* Much* Always*

[@are_you_f_serious]

You're right, that moment is inevitably getting closer and closer .... Especially when you're there only child, it's somehow even harder than with siblings. Siblings have each other but you're gonna go through it alone. That's Life .. Mhm? What can we do about it. 🤷‍♂️

[@rengoku2195]

@@emma6648 ?

[@Diego-id7jn]

@@emma6648 L

[@megapeebs2631]

Reminds me of the parent who deleted their child's minecraft world on a day off of school

[@marissawolff8491]

Ummm.....I must've missed that story. Would you mind explaining that to me?

[@ragekid2423]

@@marissawolff8491 optimus made a video on it I think back in 2020.

[@yourface2464]

@@marissawolff8491 TL;DR Kid does a very minor bad thing, something along the lines of skip a day of school or something. Father deletes kid's Minecraft world that he spent over a year on. Posted to r/AITA of all places.

[@marissawolff8491]

@@yourface2464 Okay, I must've missed out on that video for some reason. By the way, what's r/AITA about?

[@dangerdan2592]

The fact that she said "femme labor paradigm" tells me all I need to know about her. I don't even know what that is but it sounds like a made up sociology term.

[@Lil_Valor]

If a child or young adult feels they can’t go to their own parents for emotional support or advice… That can very much manifest into mental problems & difficulty on dealing with their emotions later in life.

[@williambenton6254]

Can confirm

[@ItIsGonnaGetWayWorse]

TikTokers: "Hold my soy latte."

[@Oscario2004]

Hold my cringe dances

[@chloemarlowe3817]

I hate the comment the girl made about "the amount of emotional labor I've performed in the past two hours." I've never once heard "emotional labor" described in a way that couldn't be summed up by saying "being a morally decent person is exhausting."

[@Speedy_Cy]

People will run off labels at some point… just say your a bad parent and move on

[@Kyrious]

18 years of age is when a child needs their parent. It’s a massive transition in their lives to learn how to do basic adult things. If your trying to be a parent until 18 and then getting rid of your kid, you’re not a good parent.

[@lisapop5219]

It's insane that people just don't realize they are raising future adults. Also, why are you washing an 11 yo hair? They are absolutely old enough to do it themselves.

[@jaydenkoopmans4425]

My guess is for a certain hair style, my mom had to do my 20 year old brothers hair because he wanted it braided

[@PeacepiperF20]

Stay at home dads say its the easiest job in the world while stay at home moms swear up and down its the hardest job in the world. 🤣😅😂

[@leradmuiel7634]

This lady doesn’t deserve to be a parent.

[@Gamer1990100]

I'm starting to think that maybe just maybe the boomers have some things right about how awful our generation is

[@zanyraccoon6361]

While plenty of Boomers are entitled brats, there are also plenty who spent their years gaining wisdom.

[@sultanofswag8901]

Go back like 2 generations for the boomers, these people are like 30-40

[@TheRockLobsterMafia]

These aren’t boomers tho these are Gen X and or Millennials.

[@The1Shawn]

As a person who can barely talk to their parents about their issues, this is just upsetting. My dad couldn’t even bare to lend me his ear because every time i tried talking to him about issues it was met with “man up” or “your mangina is growing”

[@bungersinyourarea]

Yeah, kinda have that going on currently too, not as bad, but enough to the point where I feel like I can't share my interests or problems without being silently judged for everything

[@emma6648]

Chad dad 😂

[@jooot_6850]

@@emma6648 Fed

[@bulldozer6781]

Have you considered violence?

[@NeloBladeOfRanni]

Maybe stop growing a mangina 😂 jk

[@laboskie349]

It's like the parent is the child in this situation. The audacity to complain about being a parent is ridiculous.

[@alexoxo1]

She sounds like she's only 5 years older than her 18 year old. she's like a teen trying to take care of another, younger, teen

[@arturoperezify]

Parents like this will complain about having kids to the point to where they regret having them , then a month later get pregnant again with a photo of an ultrasound captioned "Little Aiden coming in 2023

[@flankingfoxtrot]

Every child deserves a parent but not everyone deserves a child

[@Vociferous]

These people shouldn’t be conversing these type of things on a platform were people will dogpile you for having an opinion, no sympathy for these people.

[@drewseff]

Parent complains about child not being ready for adulthood while in a shocking turn of events they are also not ready for adulthood

[@GuranPurin]

This is what happens when kids grow up on the internet Literally cannot grasp reality when they become parents and realize they're responsible for the lives and well-being of other humans.

[@ComposedSage75]

Some ppl truly don’t deserve to be parents

[@Gandhi_Physique]

Nobody does, I think a parent has to prove they do deserve to be one.

[@notrevy]

@@Gandhi_Physique I mean the child also have to be considerate to their parents, but yeah parents role are to raise and grow their child and teach them about life.

[@gloriousgal9958]

Wow, it's almost as if you have to be a parent when you have a child

[@forrandomsites3336]

Then parents wonder why the same child/young adult that they "raised" like this, are either doing substance abuse, crime, or finding ANYONE who could be seen as support for them who may or may not have good intentions, or is struggling to socialize with people, which is especially important in the workplace. It's not like the child held the parent at gun point saying "make me" smh. You let your door be unlocked, so take responsibility for what happens after.

[@esc3954]

as someone who grew up in a household where communication was rare especially when its about emotions i don't see why people complain about things like that. when i was a kid with my dad because my mother died when i was young i never really communicated and found my own way to do things so communication was something that i always wanted but never got it made me jealous of the kids who did communicate with their parents. it came to a point where i was closer with my friends parents then with my own of course neer on the level where id open up about my feelings to them. so a parent should be proud that their child is communicating with them because that shows trust and love, which is something that a lot of kids don't receive or give nowadays.

[@Some_random_user236]

Love the custom zombie gameplay.

[@conatus7309]

That lady represents your brain on feminism and socialism.

[@ralphjiandelacruz9593]

that person shouldn't be a parent in the first place. a parent is a duty, a responsibility, its not something to complain about. especially in media.

[@Bonobo_JoJo]

Isn’t crazy how the least qualified or prepared people to have kids seem to pop them out far more frequently than those who are actually ready for it (both financially and mentally)?

[@asliceofpai]

Being a parent is probably the most emotionally involved things a person can do. Many parents will tell you the nightmares they have about their kids being hurt or dying. Idk why she thought she’d get sympathy for washing a kids hair. Also, the last tweet should make anyone angry. She’s taking in foster kids and these kids probably have a lot of emotional stress depending on their situations and the fact that one is an 18 yo tells me something happened in his former home.

[@gangweed9979]

A lot of people need to do some manual labor, that will make them normal .

[@Djoki1]

This person is the type that would probably be surprised at the fact that a 4 year old can talk or something.

[@miceltusav88]

Im not a therapist, you know how many of my friends come to me hoping for therapist like advice? Most of them. Anyone can perform the more basic aspects of being a therapist, all you gotta do is listen to their problems and if able, say what you'd try. A friend called me asking what they should do regarding their rent, and since their husband's mother and sister also lived with her, I said "let those two know you're having trouble, then tell them that you'd like them to chip in for rent from now on"

[@the_infernoking3838]

As a wise commenter once said: “ Parents don’t deserve kids “.

[@highlander2319]

*some parents

[@Sir_Zangrief]

*Parents nowadays

[@ShadowHoodKnight]

My mom for 20 and a half years would never show an inch of respect towards me. She'd make fun of me, laugh at me, mock me and mock my disability, tell me I'll never function like I'm normal, lay her hands on me then call the cops when I defend myself, throw me out of the house on multiple occasions, always announce every conversation that I'm Autistic even if I'm not with her, and so much more. I sat down several times and attempted to have an adult conversation about her behavior and it always turned into "Yeah its my fault always is." She acted like I was arguing with her despite me never raising my voice to her. I had no one growing up and truthfully still don't. Everyone who liked me either died or left, and even to now I don't feel as if she loved me because she did what my father did. My psychiatrist and therapist told me that my Autism is hardly noticeable and I can do what others do, and she wanted to argue that I wasn't capable. It was February of this year when she approached me and apologized for how she treated me and told me that she took time to reflect on how she's acted and treated me, and that she doesn't plan on making me feel singled out for my disability. Currently my mom is the one who has to tell me to stop being down on myself and that I'm normal.

[@HowAreYou2]

Emotional labor?..House labor?... I thought these are supposed to be responsible but here I am learning something new

[@averymartin1327]

He's coming to his own mother for advice/vent and any possible solutions to his problems, but you actively ignoring him is only gonna make sure he has to go to therapy and never speak to you again.

[@adamnorthwood1673]

It feels like the person was just adopting a child for social kudos and now is paying the piper lol.

[@sleepyproduction7166]

I love being a parent and can’t wait for what’s to come, I’m off social media and so will they be. It’s so weird the unspoken rules other parents have ‘you can’t criticize another parent because you can be doing just as bad’ or it’s weird. I There is an epidemic of people who shouldn’t be parents being parents. There are so many parents not putting in time or love with their kids. It’s so sad. I can not imagine what it’s like growing up online and going to the internet for attention they don’t get at home. We know what the internet and social media does to adults, and it’s not good. Who knows the outcome of everything that’s going, but it’s not going to be good.

[@mcgavinclapping9490]

I had a my daughter at 20 and after 5 years in the game I will say parenting is an active thing. You honestly have to dedicate as much time and effort into it as anything else. That includes making mistakes and realizing certain concepts or tactics that help with your child’s growth. This lady sounds like she was her kids friend growing up and not a parent. You owe your child everything they owe you nothing

[@goosefootjones7196]

Strong men make good times. Good times make soft men. Soft men make hard times. Hard times make strong men.

[@rustymustard7798]

Twitter is where you go when you want to say the quiet part out loud.

[@ifyoudontlikemethenimabot7354]

“Horrors of capitalism”…. What does she think communism would be like for people like her?

[@cadenvelazquez8450]

I want my own children and guess wut I'm gonna take responsibility for it I'm not gonna sit around and let an iPad raise my kid. I'm gonna teach them right from wrong and I'm only 17.

[@dumlord1581]

For the first few, it may be possible the whole “emotional labor” might have been a hyperbole. You know. Exaggerating how much she did for comedic effect joking about the difficulties of being a parent. I don’t believe they were all her legitimately complaining, just playing up the difficulty Tho the whole “not your therapist” one is admittedly harder to justify

[@Nerevarine420]

She's a parent Not a friend Act like it

[@dumlord1581]

@@Nerevarine420 That really how I’m sounding? I’m just trying to say that some of this stuff might have been jokes on her part, cuz using jokes to help process stuff. Not saying all of them would be very easily explained away as jokes, just a few. The others I can totally see the issues people would have with it lol

[@brtt150]

Nah, none of them were exaggeration for comedic effect. You can tell because she uses a phrase like "femme paradigm". She lives in a fantasy world. I feel particularly bad for her son because I guarantee she holds softer attitudes toward her daughter

[@stephenhonking8770]

My grandmother who raised me got me counseling since she worked alot to provide for me and 7 siblings and I'm the oldest and whenever I wanted to talk my biological mother about my problems (I have Epilepsy, CKD, and alot of other issues) she said what do I have to stress or worry about taking care of 8 kids is enough I just gave up and trying to explain and ended up getting depression but me and my bio mom still are on good sides I live in my uncle and grandmother and no longer depressed

[@DionGolston]

I literally get an ad every 1 minute every time I watch Optimus 💀

[@deepfriedegg3232]

You're the worst parent ever! (I'm assuming Optimus is a father of 1738)

[@deepfriedegg3232]

Ayy!

[@wyatt-mv6pd]

what...?

[@deepfriedegg3232]

@@wyatt-mv6pd I'm yourself 😳

[@michaelmodaffari3624]

Those 3 tours In the Stan were the best and worsr 24 months of my life lol.

[@Sonic-dj9sm]

Worlds worst parents

[@mockingjay_2397]

Who's gonna tell that poor kid his mother is complaining about having a child.

[@kanyegaming9136]

Video starts on 2:40

[@iang257]

Ngl that opening gaming clip I thought was part of a campaign but then I saw the Zombies HUD

[@austinbevis4266]

The self righteousness is killing me

[@jakdaxter6033]

It's funny because you usually hear parents complain that their kids don't talk to them/confide in them enough xD

[@Sponsorbagel]

you already should be happy that your child trusts you enough for you to be someone to confide in

[@thenobody7509]

Reason most people have kids is exactly for this reason, They have kids just so the kids can do things for them. Then they have no idea how to actually interact with them because of that reason, They don't have kids to have kids they have kids so the kids do things for them.

[@understandingguy3637]

Understandable, have A great day.

[@nathanfinley7654]

My friends tell me I need a therapist because I vent to them and have emotions. They're the type that if you have any kind of internal struggle then to go to a therapist and it's almost cult-like how much they're OK with prescription pills. Drugs aren't always the answer.

[@drippyhentai8558]

As an 18 year old right now who is just going through the basic stress of going into adulthood, I genuinely think I would've ended myself earlier if it wasn't for my parents being there for me. I have a therapist too but they are not close to being the same as a parent. A parent should always be there for you emotionally, as often that's who a child relies upon. This women shouldn't have become a parent if she wasn't ready to take that very necessary role.

[@jdstudios1912]

I'm just glad I was lucky enough to born to parents who don't use twitter

[@jackchop1576]

She IS a lawyer. Sociopathy is rampant in that profession.

[@toshineon]

That's a weird way of saying "I'm literally incapable of caring about anyone but myself".

[@pixelpowder8371]

About the "getting hyped to go to work" thing, yeah it can be tough (to nearly impossible) to get hyped for that. It's just that if we don't do it, we don't get paid. That's what it's about, not "oh boy, I get this gnarly, nasty mess people leave", or "Alright, time to deal with rude customers" or whatever. It's about money, not wearing yourself out or dealing with what you don't like, just money. Though, if you work a job you enjoy, good on you.

[@Sonic-dj9sm]

These type of people shouldn't say this type of stuff on the internet and don't deserve to be a perent

[@Kenny_Blender]

4:00 It shows that her mindset is struck in ColdWar.

[@hyst6081]

BO3 mod zombies gameplay having me feel nostalgic af

[@LedosKell]

Women: "Men would rather learn the entire history of Rome than go to therapy." Me: "May I interest you in the tale of Emperor Majorian and the last gasp of glory of the Western Empire?" But seriously, don't fall for the therapy meme. Your money is better wasted elsewhere on yourself. You don't need to pay thousands of dollars for a shoulder to cry on or someone to vent to.

[@out_of_orbit1968]

I play video games and play sports to release stress. I also call my mum, to check up on her. That's more than enough for most guys. I'll go bankrupt it I go to therapy after every little problem my life. My sister is studying psychology and she says that most therapists dont even diagnose the problem they just listen and give cookie cutter answers like maybe try yoga or reconnecting with your past lol.

[@isaiahvaldez3330]

@@out_of_orbit1968 well you can't really tell what exactly is wrong with a person in an hour by just talking. It takes some time, but yea.

[@jacobyakus8620]

Supremely intellectual dialogue.

[@BladeDevil]

she's like when a little kid wants a pet and then finds out its hard work taking care of them. this "adult" is a child.

[@OhHeyItIsNano]

That person isn't fit to be a parent to ANYONE, related or not. Geez.

[@lmao.3661]

imagine literally billions of years of parent-child relationship dynamics being dismantled by progressivism in a single generation

[@FerretTwister]

My mother was like this. She once told me not to ask her any question that isn't yes or no or whats for dinner. Meanwhile she was stealing money in my bank account that was meant to keep me set for a bit while i work as a landscaper. She took it all before i was 18. Meanwhile my Dad has been trying his best to help me. And she has the audacity to talk trash about him. Mothers arent mothers anymore man.

[@VincoVenator]

I could tell where this was going as soon as the random non-sensical whining about 'capitalism' was thrown in.

[@kuitaranheatmorus9932]

Another good Optmius video

[@ShinFahima]

Something tells me Optimus is being emailed by angry parents again for swearing or something.

[@who-_-Cares]

I think people who dont have kids should be applauded, especially with foster homes overflowing with orphans, why would you bring another into this world? 🤔 People who dont have kids should be awarded extra tax returns for not bringing another burden onto a struggling system.

[@princesspeach7496]

I thank you for your applause, i usually just get weird looks for it.

[@Cye22]

Your logic don't make sense people WITH kids need the extra money to properly support them?

[@who-_-Cares]

@@Cye22 your logic, "I'm gonna make a choice and make it other people's problem", then whine and walk around like you got war PTSD, just cause you did a normal biological thing.

[@mohameddiakite4953]

That's just antinatalism and you're not unique or intelligent for thinking like that it just your subconscious nihilism and discontent with your own life. But I partially agree not just anyone should have kids.

[@who-_-Cares]

@@mohameddiakite4953 never knew there was a term for it, thx. I love learning new stuffs. And also, my life is fine. And i am content with myself lol. But thanks for trying to be a psychologist.

[@TheTimbs_]

Never seen Optimus play zombies

[@IcE-_-Kidd]

She Has An 18 Year Old And She's Complaining On Twitter? Who's The Real Child 👀

[@atomwolf6774]

"Ever since i became a doctor people have been expecting me to help them with their medical problems. How can i tell them its not my job to help them" Same energy

[@Kjhgfd123]

I've never opened a twitter account nor will I ever do so. My knowledge about that part of the internet comes through secondary sources, one of which is optimus. Whenever he makes some twitter related video, it makes me happy that none of these people have escaped into tge real world, yet.