Why Girls Cheat

[@alinalll2999]

"I don’t care if there’re people better than me as long as there’re losers worse than me” my motto in class!

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

My motto in life!😭

[@alinalll2999]

@@user-vy2hz6fl6x yeah honestly same

[@futurecatlady3399]

@@user-vy2hz6fl6x fr

[@whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou]

im going to quote this. thank you

[@alinalll2999]

@@whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou you’re welcome 😩

[@taniquevirgo]

Mans like "go to college" and Dylan instantly disapproves lmaoo

[@sofia-jf8xm]

Did u know Dylan's college closed!!??

[@taniquevirgo]

@@sofia-jf8xm yes, which is what makes it the joke.

[@nemadawkins]

@@sofia-jf8xm he doesn’t mention it nearly enough

[@zoey5072]

@@sofia-jf8xm certainly not!

[@arriibacon531]

As he should 😌😂😂😭😭

[@adaynadir]

Dylan being the opposite of toxic masculine is single handedly keeping my faith in humanity alive(until he starts setting orphanages on fire, that is)

[@mausebaer69]

until? i think you meant ESPECIALLY

[@MystiqMiu]

if it's an empty abandoned orphanage I'll join him 0_0

[@adaynadir]

@@mausebaer69 I mean… I guess it would depend on the kids 😅

[@adaynadir]

@@MystiqMiu If it’s one of those ugly 60s buildings, you have my blessing. But don’t burn historical buildings(at least let me explore it 1st)

[@randohuman5084]

Do you watch Kurtis Conner? He's a good anti-toxic masculinity guy to watch.

[@ruoye7]

This guy gives major “one girl rejected me and now i hate every single woman that’s ever lived” vibes💀

[@Lenore.18]

That’s a lot of alpha male podcasts and channels😂

[@butterflyunicorn3499]

😭😭Honestly not all the girls are the same

[@TheSmooxer]

So, incel vibes

[@talya6668]

@@TheSmooxer you know not every guy with this mindset is a virgin right?

[@fredar1217]

@@talya6668 true but most are

[@Skooskah]

I'm so used to Dylan's sneaky ads that when he said "Did you just say learn a new skill every day? How to READ?" I really thought it was gonna become an Audible ad

[@Skooskah]

(Skillshare could have fit too)

[@auden4531]

SAME!!!

[@payalgandhi1603]

I’ve seen this video multiple times and I still get caught off guard by the missed SkillShare opportunity

[@Me-ov4qk]

@@payalgandhi1603hahaha yeah

[@OtelRacha]

As a woman, I'm really grateful Dylan introduced us to this channel that explains why I, as a woman, am a horrible piece of shit 🙏 It's just in my nature 💁🏼‍♀️

[@virginiafernandez6846]

Me, burning down an orphanage: “Sorry bbys, it’s in my nature~ Just a gal doing girl things~

[@Hasdfgh12321]

great now you know how men feel everytime feminist generalize men as pieces of shit

[@g996]

@@virginiafernandez6846 just doing hot girl shit- 😳🔥

[@MoniqueNatasha]

@@virginiafernandez6846 I can’t with you guys, you are just so funny 😭😭

[@Jumpinpasta]

@@virginiafernandez6846 omg girl~ you’re so quirky slay queen~ \( ˆoˆ )/

[@rainbowmoonlight._.]

Those scenarios were a little TOO specific, and Dylan was getting TOO invested

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

Just SLIGHTLY concerning

[@scintilliance5665]

yeah his face being like, "how did he know?" was hysterically hilarious.

[@kaylynlewis]

he just wanted to know what his best friend from third grade did👀

[@wishingwell_333]

true on the oddly specific lol. honestly tho if yr car breaks down and yr partner leaves u stranded...... kinda fucked up lol

[@realsongoku1803]

@@kaylynlewis we know about yall don't care about yall self

[@JeM130177]

Never seen anything scream "women hate me and it can't be my fault because I can't handle that so I'm devoting my time to convincing myself biology and evolution make females completely alien creatures I am not meant to fully understand and it is not my fault, it is the natural way of things or the women's fault, but it is not mine" so freakin loudly. Also if any dude tells me he doesn't cry like it's some macho impressive thing I'm immediately out. Absolutely not. Take your repressed ass elsewhere I don't wanna be there when you're confronted with emotions and commit murder.

[@scintilliance5665]

i feel like women have been going on and on about how attractive emotional availability is since ages! and this dude is saying never open up to women because it'll not make them wet. like bruh?

[@JeM130177]

@@scintilliance5665 right?! These guys' version of opening up is probably like "sometimes I wish you'd wear a dress" then they're like damn I opened up to you and now you hate me

[@kendelle4216]

@@scintilliance5665 just more proof that most men don’t actually listen to women or care what they have to say.

[@scintilliance5665]

@@JeM130177 yeah so true. 🤣 "hey, i really dont like it when you talk back to me and when i come home from work and you haven't prepared good food for me. its just some things that bother me. what do you mean you dont want to have sex with me anymore?"

[@alina5110]

@@scintilliance5665 what a wild concept to ask women what they would wish for! Why should men do something so ridiculous if they can just watch videos like this and tell themselves that women are evil, manipulative creatures? 😂

[@jax_firestorm9689]

As a gay man named Nate, I’m glad you are on board, and supportive of my lifestyle of being in love with my best friend who’s girlfriend did not show up to fix his car when it broke down in Oakland.

[@verob2002]

😂😂😂😂

[@sampamspam5105]

I laughed harder at this than I should have

[@presleyhughes]

I can't even explain how much I love this comment😂

[@SoulSonder26]

What's worse is his sister was arrested for being best friends with some dude named Dylan in 3rd grade!!

[@Baby_Bibble]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sakinapdf]

as a woman, I can confirm, if you show any emotion(including happiness) we will be drier than the Sahara desert. just be lifeless throughout the day and woman will be running behind you. +100 points for being attractive and rich asf. we do not care about personality at all. definitely do not care about guys' mental health 🤠👍🏻

[@Overseer2579]

Love the sarcasm

[@heyitsmira17]

The narrator seems to have watched way too many dramas like Playful Kiss or smth lmao

[@ya_done]

+ anger issues 😍 just dream

[@Overseer2579]

@@heyitsmira17 don’t know what those are, but I believe you. Also, in my experience as a guy, women seem to be more so focused on personality as the number one concern, as opposed to looks. Men, on the other hand… well, I don’t need to tell the women in this comments section lol

[@heyitsmira17]

@@Overseer2579 Playful Kiss is a story originally from a manga that has been adapted to anime and also countless live action drama adaptations. It centers around the "love story" of a girl who ends up having to live with the guy she has a huge crush on. Her grades are not good while he's a genius. But he literally never shows any emotions and constantly steps on her feelings for him. Eventually they get married and even when she's pregnant, he shows 0 concern for her whatsoever, doesn't care about her feelings or well being. Whenever she mentions that she has many other better options than him, he tells her that it doesn't matter bc he's the one she likes so she will never really be able to get out of this relationship even if she tries. So yeah, a "love story". The guy looks likterally dead inside and doesn't give a crap abt her feelings, but hey he's the male lead so ofc we as an audience should like him! Lol

[@amandaannengland3026]

Narrator: “go to college” Dylan: *DISSAPROVES*

[@leeneedsfriends6750]

hey, did you know that dylan's college got shut do-

[@nidaahmed3264]

@@leeneedsfriends6750 hide. Dylan is going to hunt you down

[@amalhashe6734]

-wn. Yeah, I don’t think he talked about it.

[@AdamIshak01]

That moment had the same energy from his Tangled video in that small section where Flynn opens up to a woman (-gasp- the worse thing he can do as a man according to this video) “for the record, I like Eugene better” and Dylan in his most high pitched cracked voice “I DISAGREE!”

[@alexadonahue9648]

yeah bc you might get scammed and kicked out of your college

[@sabahk]

"Men, we just need to be gay" thanks Dylan for opening us up to the realities of life

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

Nothing but reality on this channel

[@justlottie]

That was my favorite jsjsksksjjsks

[@pedroxqui]

I'm waiting for Dylan on the rainbow side

[@lalalanddddd7584]

lol your acting as if being gay is a personality trait

[@deactivatedbcsomecommentsi2279]

@@lalalanddddd7584 huh ??? ? ? ? . how

[@AngelAngel-we7pl]

“who are you to speak for women” fucking thank you

[@solus8685]

_Men_ talking about how _women_ feel/work will never not be hella ironic

[@Wargatron]

I’ve never met a woman who’s been like “Hey, you know what my favorite thing that a man can do is? Act like a fucking sociopath.”

[@Barbwire710]

I have 😅

[@heyitsmira17]

Open up one of those stories about wolves or CEOs and you'll realize the source material for this guy's POV. I'm quite disturbed by some stuff that I've read there... 💀🤡

as a woman, being able to watch this video and feel more amusement than rage and disgust is really comforting! Dylan says it all with his commentary, so i can just sit and enjoy and laugh bc besides saying some real truths, Dylan is also quite funny. sometimes is hard being on the internet and seeing certain stuff, but this feels like a safe place and for that many thanks!!

[@heliam.5497]

“People who talk about women are people who don’t understand women” Preach! Also, the beard joke was worth it😂

[@anthonygilbert2903]

But he doesn’t have girlfriend lol

[@mi.l3na]

@@anthonygilbert2903 what has that got to do with anything

[@llama4president195]

@@anthonygilbert2903 he doesn't need to currently be in a relationship to have a better understanding of women than these incels lmaooo

[@margauxflowers7084]

@@anthonygilbert2903 and what does that have to do with it?

[@nereidagomez2940]

@@anthonygilbert2903 how do you know he doesn’t?

[@TigerCheer097]

His reaction to the “…get robbed at gunpoint if that’s what it takes” sent me! 😂

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

Lmfao same

[@taniquevirgo]

That sent me😂😂 this whole video had to be rewatched

[@morganbaines4996]

As a female in his audience, I can confirm that the beard, disconnected moustache combo is a winner!

[@marionapina]

Agree

[@excessivelyfangirlingbookw3339]

As a female audience member, I agree ☝🏻

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

As another female audience member, I do agree with this statement

[@renoirrr]

as yet another female in his audience I agree

[@byebyebae]

Agree agree agree

[@japanese-michael-jackson1533]

as a woman, literally the most attractive thing to me that a guy can do is to open up to me, let me know what’s on his mind, and show that he trusts me! it makes me so sad that these videos seem to be sabotaging anyone who believes what they say into never being able to have a stable and fulfilling relationship. being strong enough to be vulnerable is an amazing quality. there’s a tedtalk by Brenee Brown on vulnerability actually, and it’s awesome. any guy who reads this, PLEASE choose to be vulnerable and find a girl who will do the same. that’s what healthy relationships are built on!

[@vlo4829]

I think the weird thing about the "men should show emotions" vs "men shouldn't show emotions" nonsense is that it always seems to get pigeon-holed into being about CRYING on both sides. Men don't cry a lot and rarely feel like crying, so equating "showing emotions" to "crying" will make men feel like it's reasonable. On the flipside, when people who want men to show emotions always talk about crying or "breaking down", that sounds WEIRD to most men (and a little like fetishizing rather than concern). Like why do you want to see them CRY so badly?? It's just a really bad way to get into the topic and can make women have a false sense that her guy is NOT "opening up" when he actually is just because he isn't weepy. I think it's likely that "showing emotions" or "sharing emotions" is different for men than women and that it's worth exploring, but weight needs to be taken off "crying". There are many ways to express one's emotions that aren't crying and if those other ways are preferable for men, it seems more worthwhile to look into them IF men's mental health is really the concern.

[@TinyCloud90]

@@vlo4829 i mean there are more emotions than sadness, right? But i would like to know if my partner is upset or sad, angry about a situation, as much as i like him to know what makes me the same way. its about getting to know the other person, and understanding. It shows that i care about his well being, as i want him to care about mine. And even if, god forbid, he is crying because shit hurts sometimes, he shouldnt feel weak, he should feel safe, because only then, he isn't judged for being himself. I want my partner to feel safe with me, as i want to feel safe with him.

[@vlo4829]

@@TinyCloud90 Sure. It's just whenever I see this "debate" occur, I find that there is too much focus on GRAND expressions of emotions and there are women who seem oddly unsatistifed with men expresing themselves calmly or in milder ways, for example. A discussion about men's emotional expressions should have more focus on how men DO express themselves so that women may understand the signs, because it's almost never going to be "crying" or "breaking down". Some women in these discussions seem to make it about themselves and how they WANT men to express themselves, which is selfish and as I said above, sometimes feels like a weird fetish.

[@GubbiGap]

Yea and they don't even need to cry to do this - it's more about being able to express your feelings in some way. It doesn't even have to be about his feelings about me - it could be telling me about the shitty co-worker you had to deal with all day or how awesome your new boss is. Opening up and talking about it is so much better and I also agree that it's a very attractive thing.

[@sm1purplmurderedme583]

i agree. my bf is so emotional around me and cries around me and i love to comfort him. he’s my precious baby and i love him. i never want him to fear telling me stuff

[@danaportnoy9153]

“Why is it gender specific,” I feel like is a really great question, to just keep in our back pockets, as people, and ask about any generalizations towards any gender we come across.

[@zagrych]

yeah honestly the same thing can go for any generalization. Why is it gender specific, why does it matter its that race, why does it matter its that age person, etc. There are actual conversations and subject matter where it is actually specific to one group. However the majority of the time we are applying something to a group that isn't actually specific to that group at all.

[@stupid4parx_]

"show no emotion" I feel like guys like this forget that anger is also an emotion

[@LeylaKaratas]

they always do. they're like "women are soo emotional and men are logical and calm". but when their favorite sports team loses a game they're the ones screaming and punching holes into walls 💀

[@mimah1015]

Some don't get angry, just stoic.

[@mimah1015]

@@LeylaKaratas 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@swbymii]

@@LeylaKaratas not related to your comment but I love your pfp

[@celianunn2070]

@@LeylaKaratas Which is ironic because our brains, once fully developed, are wired to basically be the opposite

[@calistusjay60]

This guy’s video actually really helped me. Because it showed no matter how messed up my life gets, I’ll never be as fucking insane and pathetic as the dude narrating the videos lmao.

[@llama4president195]

Dylan's "I just want to not be the worst" mindset in action lol

[@dhairiyasundar1285]

I hope you're feeling better ❤️💫

[@Overseer2579]

Yup. At least you’re not single-handedly making yourself into a self-fulfilling prophecy of failed relationships

[@Overseer2579]

@l3ulaklak l3looming ok, the insult to the main commenter wasn’t needed, but I see your point. Obviously, don’t abide by the toxic ideologies of what was preached in this video that Dylan talked about, because they are toxic ideals. But, saying “you’re just as bad when you think about it” doesn’t help either as a critique

[@Overseer2579]

@l3ulaklak l3looming everybody has slipups, but it ain’t okay to be toxic. Ever.

[@marinamiranda1027]

"This is psychopath juice" Precisely, Dylan, precisely

[@anxioushungry3317]

I’m the daughter of a single, divorced, red pill man & omg this had me in deep flashbacks about my childhood. Like I still get told in passing conversations with him that “women have too many feelings & can’t separate them enough to be in important or corporate jobs” or “women don’t have the superior instincts to succeed without men”. How do you raise 2 daughters using that mentality!? Well hankfully I’m now on the road to my dream corporate career, & in a long term relationship with a great man. Like my eyes twitching as I laugh so hard, this video is a real trip!

[@rebeckajg2862]

I am so so sorry you went through that. It blows my mind that real people genuinely believe all this shit.

[@thisisrey8]

Im proud of you for going after what you want, it couldn't have been easy. Best of luck!

[@alexismena6812]

That’s terrible and I hope watching you succeed changes his heart.

[@lizzlocke3130]

I'm sorry you had to experience this! But you seem so strong and happy. Glad you're here.

[@astrowolvez]

“Women think they’re entitled to the 1 percent because of their beauty.” Great way to blatantly admit you think women don’t work hard in their career path.

[@alaijahsims5083]

Video- “Get beat up if that’s what it takes. Get robbed at gun point if that’s what it takes” Dylan- wide eyed shocked face

[@spacegirl9006]

Shocked pikachu face

[@alysongrace5044]

Dylan: 😳😧

[@Lavender7193]

👁👄👁

[@marion_t]

"I can probably overlook the orphan thing...cause..who's gonna miss them?" DYLAN I LAUGHED BECAUSE YOU HAVE A DARK SENSE OF HUMOR THAT I LOVE.

[@bookswmadi]

Why aren't more people talking about this fire joke!????

[@jasmine.584]

that joke is my new reason to live.

[@karleychouinard4034]

@@bookswmadi fire like the orphanage LOL

[@bookswmadi]

@@karleychouinard4034 AHHHHH NOO

[@thefifthbean]

Me and my friend were watching the video together, and she said "as someone who was once an orphan, he shouldn't feel bad at all for the funny joke xD" 😂

[@scintilliance5665]

at this point, the gods are conspiring to resurface Dylan's trauma about his closed down college. 🤣

[@madie2643]

gods and his followers 😂

[@you_know_me8218]

*scam collage

[@omgthisissoawesome]

I just love how even when Dylan makes videos about serious topics, he keeps this casual tone to them. Like, he gives the topics the gravitas they deserve, but it also feels like it's a conversation I'm having with a close friend. I adore that that's the feeling he brings to all his content

[@lizzlocke3130]

Retweet this! This is why I love him. I feel like we are on the couch chating and laughing!

[@dbdnights]

I'm never on the "lookout" for better men. Once I am in love with a man it's the opposite, I am not even attracted to anyone else. My boyfriend is the only man I think about and the idea of being with anyone else makes me physically sick. Just be a good person, recognize and evolve your own worth, and find a person that matches your energy. When a woman loves you, there is no one more loyal and supportive.

[@TheScarletteWhisper]

Exactly!

[@Gucciblackberry]

SAME!!!!! I do not understand how people can have the mind set of “ just cause I’m on a diet doesn’t mean I can’t look” 😒

[@sparrowskeleton1831]

“Get robbed at gunpoint if that’s what it takes.” That was so unexpected and said so calmly I choked on my iced coffee from laughter XD

[@mimah1015]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ladysilvara]

I laughed so hard I dropped my toothfloss thingy.

[@kayleewilson12]

I laughed so hard I dropped my food stabby thingy.

[@katiebailey3439]

At times I was like, is this video dude just trolling everyone? He has to realize how ridiculous this is…

[@sparrowskeleton1831]

@@katiebailey3439 he’s just joking around

[@evelyncarmo2490]

I’m really worried how everything is REALLY specific , like “nobody is going to love you, they’re using you, your friend is now a stripper”. I wonder if the person who wrote the scrip for those videos is ok.

[@artbyvru]

Notice how every example had a female who was either in jail, became a stripper or spreading gossip. Somehow men are not even capable of doing that!

[@devilinbluejeansxx8925]

obviously not

[@Sujaljaina]

Generally speaking they come from a third world country where men and women talking is not allowed so the difference between them widen i come from India and i couldn't even talk to a girl because it was shamed upon but now when i in college i get to know them and know that they are just like us.

[@snehasinghal491]

@@Sujaljaina bro where were you living!? was it like a very backward area? because both my parents come from villages and when we go back I still dont see such a thing.

[@ij6753]

@@Sujaljaina u r really generalizing India in your comment . I too am from India only but it is not as serious as you said tbh atleast in most parts. Third world country mentality is also very old .

[@theonlyplanetvenus]

Ive been married to my husband bill ( whom i find repulsively unattractive ) for 29 years and we have 3 kids together, can confirm that im to this day disgusted to hold hands or even smile at him in case he gets the wrong idea... the other day he told me i love you like yikes take a hint i do not like you my guy

[@meermal222]

Lol I thought that you were being serious until I realised

[@hazelverse]

lololololololololololol

[@kaylay65]

Hold onto those branches my good sis. Keep swinging!!!

[@theonlyplanetvenus]

@@kaylay65 yup 💪💪💪 not gonna let my husband stop me from finding a better husband 🙌💯🔥

[@dhairiyasundar1285]

I don't understand?

[@luvnatexo]

I'm taking a Humanities in Women's Studies class this semester at a community college and I'm literally the only guy in the class. the professor and all my classmates are gurlies. there's a good amount of lesbians too. and it's great. It's such a safe and welcoming environment and I love the class.

[@golflefleur887]

This right here is fourth wave feminism

[@aces_pretty_face2927]

Can confirm started at my first job it was almost entirely women staff and costumers. Genuinely awesome environment

[@yetanotherethan9747]

women are safer for me to be around than men most of the time

[@hufdsnhf]

Ah, the three genders: guys, gurlies, and lesbians

[@Lemonpie167]

Yeah we can guess why you feel sooo welcoming in a class full of girls

[@Overseer2579]

I love how, in a BIG way, this guy's clearly trying to just deliberately sabotage any other romantically or sexually frustrated guy's chances at having a sex or dating life. Like, that's where, I guarantee, his hateful takes come from; he's pissed he didn't get any from women, so now he's gonna go out of his way to make sure other frustrated, miserable guys stay frustrated and miserable

[@brie1026]

Male Dating Coaches in a nutshell

[@Overseer2579]

@@brie1026 big facts

[@spacegirl9006]

The person who made this video clearly did not get enough hugs in their life to suggest others to hug perfectly.

[@wehaveadarkside]

he also clearly hasn't been around women ever

[@brenyselira3714]

He probably also places his hands in inappropriate places and thinks women “require certain types of hugs”

[@onlyhousestarklivesmatter]

I'm here for Dylan dragging toxic masculinity and calling out red pill community

[@amyfarrel4374]

whats a red pill community?

[@daisy-ss7cu]

same, it is great

[@belaorhideja4020]

@@amyfarrel4374 he literally explained at 9:07

[@amyfarrel4374]

@@belaorhideja4020 lmao i m so sorry i couldn't watch the whole vid

[@onlyhousestarklivesmatter]

@@amyfarrel4374 it's basically a politically and socially right wing group who believe in traditional gender Roles, think women belong in the home and men need to be in charge at all times. They see Feminism as a negative and red pilled men have a constant victim mentality where they think women owe them attention/respect/their bodies/love etc. Many of them are incels tbh, they want women but also see women as objects and hold all kinds of negative beliefs about them eg: women are promiscuous, only want status and money and you need to dominate them.

[@jopo4457]

The book “men who hate women” by Laura Bates is a really good book on this topic.

[@no-ll7pi]

That book is such a depressing reality but yeah it’s a really good source on these type of things

[@bendover7841]

Books like that are the alpha male guides, just for women. Stop reading garbage like that. Its creating so many toxic incels and femcels.

[@envy2069]

Men who hate women? More like incels!

[@Overseer2579]

Just put that book on hold at my library. This sort of topic is compulsively fascinating and intriguing to me, as dark as it undeniably is. UPDATE: I read about that book awhile ago now, and it was disturbing but enlightening read at the same time about the topic

[@loisborsetti7581]

SHE WILL NEVER TRULY BE WET FOR HIM. That was the funniest thing I ever heard

[@TiffTiff4077]

Science nerd time! I really like how Dylan phrased "not every instinct and not every thought needs to be acted upon". It's true that there are a lot of human behaviours that are rooted in basic biology but, generally speaking, these behaviours were selected for evolutionarily during the times of our early ancestors. That means that as societies formed and became more sophistocated, these behaviours were still present genetically but didn't manifest as prominently. They were not as "necessary" and some were phased out socially. For example, behaviours such as preferences for facial symmetry or preferences for partners who are providers, still exist today but are not necessarily the be all, end all in our decision for a partner. So, circling back to Dylan's statement, he's right in saying that not all instincts need to be acted upon since most are artifacts of human biology and evolution that would have previously promoted survival and reproduction in our ancestors. :)

[@anasilva1242]

I'm having such a shitty day and I haven't even watched the whole thing but this is making me laugh so hard. dylan always comes through when we need him the most

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

I hope your day ends much better❤️hang in there, there’s always tomorrow

[@anasilva1242]

@@user-vy2hz6fl6x thank you

[@TheScarletteWhisper]

Same here, Dylan has perfect timing, always brightens the day. I hope your day gets better and take care of yourself 💛

[@renzies3683]

seriously, day instantly made. i hope your days gets better

[@Ms.president_]

Hope your day gets better

[@nakhiahodges]

Imagine being one of the stock video actors that play during the "ugly men" part

[@wawaicedcoffee]

Haha I was thinking the same thing

[@Rickety_Cricket]

YES! When they panned to any guy holding a moving box or sitting on a couch talking to another stock actress - I was like daaamn that's gotta sting! Poor guys...

[@GreySeashell-j3m]

Guys are the ones calling other dudes ugly most of the time 💀

[@naf9443]

"Why doesn't your top lip connect to your bottom lip" Hahahah 😂😂 My new comeback! The way I always get my comebacks from Dylan 👀

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

I thought I was the only one who did that😭glad to know we all steal Dylan’s jokes…

[@whatnow3850]

Oh this community gets me 🤣

[@naf9443]

@@user-vy2hz6fl6x If you don't steal his jokes, are you even a boogie?

[@rufiredup90]

He got some noice fresh comebacks.

[@larissaleone1100]

Dylan really gives some great advice in this video, I even took notes. - if I lose my job: one day off - if I lose my dad: two days off

[@camilamoscoso8104]

The opening joke was very much worth it Dylan. We appreciate it

[@srinidhir3140]

As a woman, I can confirm that everything that the videos said is 100% true, all facts, DEFINITELY not lies, definitely not

[@akaneshio6406]

@@LinaDesireeDiaz Ever heard of sarcasm? XD

[@OrangeSheepO]

as a women, I agree with you

[@g996]

@@OrangeSheepO ayy username buddy

[@ekaterinakuznetsova]

@@g996 omg I've never seen that in my life what a coincidence 😂

[@erinbond9156]

Yes I hate it when men show emotion 😒 they must stay neutral 😐

[@francescagiacomel7095]

As soon as he said: “I could probably overlook the orphan thing…” you could see in his eyes the instant regret, but then he added CauSe WhO Is GoiNg tO MiSS TheM I couldn’t breath hahahaha

[@thefifthbean]

I thought he was like 'oh no 😗' in his brain and it showed on his face, when he thought of that phrase but said it anyways 😅

[@maryem9225]

Yeah, I agree, women are taught to stop being shallow and accept men for how they are. Just think of all those movies (written by men) where unbelievably attractive women has horrible time with equally attractive men and thus learn to go for the goofy ugly guy who was there all along (Like Paul Blart or Superbad). VERSUS how many movies are there where a man can only see a women as a viable love interest once she proves herself to be attractive (Miss Congeniality, for example).

[@yourfriendlyneighborhoodmi2069]

Oh god we have so much of this in Italian movies. The old bald mediocre guy falls for the young and fun pretty girl and ends up with her even though he's a creepy fuck

[@findme7585]

EXACTLY

[@ilana8153]

It's so funny how society always portrays women as the shallow ones yet men are literally the ones who only view women for their bodies and women date men less attractive than them all the time. Yet men want us to believe women are the shallow ones with no brains.

[@adorablewaffles9818]

Absolutely, it’s RIDICULOUS

[@lilawkwardbaby9600]

Specially those movies where a woman is nerdy and is in live with a joke but the joke doesn't find her hot so she converts herself into conventionally attractive woman and bam the joke is on her knees for her confessing how he always liked her

[@weronikalinda4917]

"The worst thing a man can ever do is open up to women." Ted Bundy: 👀

[@FernandaLima-cf6dg]

"Who's gonna miss them?" I screamed laughing! 💀

[@kels8872]

The part where you say you think women are more forgiving of men's looks than men are to women, is ridiculously true. This is a truth more people need to pay more attention to.

[@skayles4716]

At least for younger women, this is a huge misconception. I mean, it might only apply to hookup culture, but if dating apps taught us one thing, it's that it's pretty much the opposite. Women really _do_ tend to go for the "top percentile" of men, while men in general don't really care what you look like as long as you don't look a total mess. These dynamics tend to shift around in pure "live" settings, as - studies say - men tend to be more visually stimulated, while women tend to be more emotionally stimulated. Except in this day and age, with dating apps being as big as they are, even "live setting" dynamics tend to shift.

[@atheteusalexopoulos6876]

My little sister has a round face and guys literally tormented her over it. I remember once a dude in our school was mocking her chubby cheeks and people were cheering him on. This dude had a nose in the middle of his eyes. Like her face was a bit wide and that's unforgivable but this dudes nose literally was in between his eyes.

[@crimson_auror]

@@skayles4716 I agree with you tbh. Online dating has twisted everything around so now women can be extremely picky if we want to. It does shift a bit in real life settings however.

[@skayles4716]

@@atheteusalexopoulos6876 Welp, that's a testament to school kids being jerks in general moreso than a reflection of the dating market lol.

[@Bringon-dw8dx]

@@skayles4716 dating women care very little about looks, it’s only hook ups where women will care more about looks (because realistically that’s what hook ups are for)

[@8Makes1]

This whole video is a yes. I love how Dylan unapologetically dethroned toxic masculinity within this video. I knew I followed him for a good reason. PSA: WOMEN LIKE WHEN MEN SHOW EMOTIONS AND VULNERABILITY. As a woman myself, men showing emotion is incredibly attractive. Its shows that we can be vulnerable together and work through any issue that may come.

[@hotsexyangel]

YESS EXACTLY

[@Joeysaladslover]

Lmfao generalizing in the opposite way of the people you hate is equally as stupid, there are women who don’t like it and there are women who do.

[@tiffanykim2773]

@@Joeysaladslover bingo I'm 50/50

[@Arvak]

@@Joeysaladslover I think 99% of women appreciate their partner being honest with them and coming to them with their problems, otherwise you just have an unhealthy relationship. Like sure, they may not be attracted to a super emotional guy, but they'll appreciate their partner turning to them for support.

[@wtf-is-kwangya483]

@@Arvak exactly, you worded it perfectly.

[@lp_grumpy]

"So it's almost like a fear mongering technique where they try to keep you afraid so you stay in this community of like minded people who are also afraid but won't admit it." I feel like this is a very true statement that can be used to describe any extremist belief system.

[@dhairiyasundar1285]

Oh that's actually true. You can admit this into any extremist system. Even religion. Any cult. So on. True.

[@josiahbaumgartner7643]

I got turned down by so many women and the only woman who I ever actually ended up dating (and am now engaged to) was the woman who I thought I had no chance with and didn’t try to get… lmao

[@Kai81194]

People seem to often forget that being brave isn't to not be scared, being brave is being scared and facing those fears to do things anyway.

[@howisgamora_]

" I could probably overlook the orphan thing because who's going to miss them" this has to be one of his best ones yet

[@palomacaldermackay3913]

Dylan I think the reason you're so popular is because you seem like such a good person. Not only you're nice, because lots of people can be described as that, but you're very truthful and are not at all afraid to share your opinion. It's not only very funny to watch you're videos but also refreshing in a strange sense.

[@virginiafernandez6846]

Also he’s funny. And the beard. Chicks dig the beard

[@arriibacon531]

Also he's hot, his personality makes him 10x hotter 🥰🥰🥰 PURRRR

[@lightandleaves3858]

He's not only nice, he is good too. A nice guy is usually only nice on the surface, and Dylan is not always nice but we know he's good inside !

[@amybethwalks]

When he said “who’s gonna give me the money to start an orphanage…?” I could’ve sworn it was all going to have been a sponsorship lead-in

[@caroelizau]

Saaaaameeeee

[@mangosorbet]

yes and with the skill stuff too

[@megriorso4516]

Sameeeeeee 😭

[@Maouww]

3:56 - "My buddy, Nate" 4:07 - "You know who I really love? it's Nick!" Nate: How could you do this to me?

[@amanix10]

Being able to be vulnerable and show emotions is a sign of maturity, regardless if gender.

[@DullestStar9299]

More specifically: being able to be vulnerable and wing in control of your emotions…

[@johnnyneedscash6753]

these alpha male videos are actually really helpful - just do the exact opposite of what they advice, and you'll do good

[@Overseer2579]

Amen

[@nagag-cube3225]

I really liked what you said about instincts...as a woman I have also dabbled in the red pill community a lil and the entire talk of biology and instincts is just so off..like you realise the entire point of being a human is so that we are not a slave to those animal instincts right?? That's why rape is illegal...

[@-kr1st1n52]

they need to be psychologically evaluated if they can’t control their urges

[@rebeccahicks2392]

Also, they always think instincts prompt people to do bad and gross things and to treat people badly. But we have so many GOOD instincts. We have an instinct to form friendships and relationships, an instinct to treat the people we love WELL, etc, etc./

[@justlottie]

They love using instincts as an excuse for their behavior when in reality they just confirm that they're not capable of basic human abilities to control and evaluate "biological" urges

[@inescampelo7174]

Well the people in that community are probably those who also say that if a woman/guy gets rapped it's her/his fault for looking hot, because the other person is only following instincts :) obviously very sane and balanced people....

[@DullestStar9299]

This is why so some experts literally consider us Homo sapien sapiens (emphasis on that second sapien). I guess some people are still lagging a little behind on the evolutionary line???

[@amyb0621]

“It’s ok to show your feelings and cry once in a while.” Yes Dylan, only a true man could cry watching Beauty and the Beast

[@Overseer2579]

Agreed. Also, unrelated, as a man, I TOTALLY cry like a baby every time I watch Finding Nemo (2003) and Dory begs for Marlin not to leave. I am also 22. I have no regrets

[@winstonmarlowe5254]

@@Overseer2579 Sounds like a case of arrested development.

[@japanese-michael-jackson1533]

@@Overseer2579 dude i love that, crying to movies is the absolute best, no regrets for sure!!

[@Overseer2579]

@@japanese-michael-jackson1533 :)

[@Overseer2579]

@@winstonmarlowe5254 lol

[@danaeclean1328]

i also love how when he made that point about bad people pretending to be good people, he only used examples of women turning out to be "bad people" lmfao. that guy killed all my brain cells

[@glove5421]

This is the best video of yours that I’ve even watched 😂 it is so nice to have a male KZbinr you like make a video like this making fun of toxic masculinity. What a vibe I’m loving this❤

[@shay5323]

I just love when Dylan makes himself crack up 🤣🤣 that laugh kills me

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

Same!

[@arrgggod4656]

i subconsciously copied his laugh whenever i find something so funny 😂

[@melinoeth]

as a lesbian, i can objectively say the beard looks good!

[@goldenageofdinosaurs7192]

As a straight man, same..

[@nailaizadeen]

As a straight women … i agree

[@Rae-gp2wx]

As another lesbian I second this

[@asleegraves4901]

same!!!

[@helenahell9022]

As bi woman, i agree

[@sharna1088]

I really hate it when these “alpha males” say that females don’t want you to open up to them or be emotional like wtf noooooo!! That’s the absolute worst advise you could give!! We want you to open up to us, we want to know that you feel comfortable with us and trust us enough to be your 100% raw authentic self. If the guy I’m dating doesn’t show his emotional side and doesn’t come to me for support when they need it then it actually really hurts me and damages the relationship, it feels like you don’t trust us and have someone your closer with to go to. Honestly from my personal opinion and from the girls i know, the biggest turn off is all the shit these misogynistic “alpha males” say is the best male and “what we want”. Just be a fucking human being! No gender is better then the other and no person should be made to not have emotions because some assholes view it as “weak”, its actually so much stronger to get the support you need despite society’s sexist standards. Every person is different so obviously people will find different things attractive but that’s exactly why those kind of videos are stupid because there is no “perfect” person that everyone will find attractive, just be yourself and you will find someone that genuinely loves you not this pussy act you put on because you got rejected too many times. It makes me so mad that young guys will watch “alpha males” and believe everything they say and become another misogynistic asshole who is never going to be happy because they suppress normal human emotions and needs. If any guy has read this please don’t take advise from those types of people, just be yourself, be a nice person, treat women like actual people and you’ll meet the right person one day. No matter the gender we are all just humans at the end of the day, there is no reason one gender should be treated any different from the other, we all deserve respect, we all have emotions, we all have different likes and dislikes, just because I’m a female it doesn’t mean I’m the same as every other female and same goes for men, we are all more then our gender so lets stop grouping people into what they should be allowed to do and not do or what they think or don’t think just because of their gender.

[@lalalanddddd7584]

same thing with feminine woman, it goes both ways, men and woman are cringe

[@bendover7841]

I despise these so called "alpha males" but I also disagree with what you said about opening up. Toxic femininity is rampant in this day and age. So many dudes get mocked and abandoned for that. Once you've experienced that, there's no going back.

[@saanasalonen8684]

preach sister!!

[@thedovehandsoap1600]

Yesss!!!! Exactly

[@junekelyooot]

"Just be a fucking human being" 📣 LOUDER PLEASE

[@pavinipizza]

the 'why isnt ur top lip n bottom lip connected' goes so hard lmao

[@naiadoftana7317]

11:27 great point about fear mongering. Glad to have discovered this genuine dude.

[@CarolinaSchmeed447]

As a woman, I can confirm that we are a slave to our subconscious and I’m actually unconscious while typing this

[@lucyandecember2843]

Im unconsciously replying, biology is fascinating😯👏

[@ekuabrew4547]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@darya9103]

reacting to misogyny is always funny

[@mun3698]

This was my ex. I couldn’t do it anymore after two months of him being a PUA red pill loser. Which is a shame because he definitely wasn’t like this 10 years ago when we were friends in high school. We dated for a week back then and he treated me the sweetest I’ve ever been treated. The internet (red pill incel culture) and porn ruined him. The friends he made in those 10 years also fed into the women hating rhetoric. It’s a travesty. He lost himself. Edit to say that he also thinks ‘sausages’ are the superior genital and that was said at the weirdest and most terrible times he could have said such a thing. Not to mention downright disrespectful, ‘like, my guy, I’m a cis woman. What did you expect getting into a relationship with me??’ Weird neg, but ok

[@mikaeleugh546]

ew, just ew. glad you’re not putting up with that anymore

[@tamires9897]

Jesus Christ... Glad he is your EX

[@mun3698]

@@mikaeleugh546 oh believe me, me too! Boy made me break out in acne I was so stressed with him 😤

[@mun3698]

@@tamires9897 Me too, it was such a strange and twisted relationship. Do not recommend giving these types of guys a chance and to walk away at any hint of sexism because it screws with your mental well-being

[@FeyFishify]

good thing you're free from him. but don't blame porn. If he can't understand that these are ridiculously bad scripted movies he's just an idiot.

[@kiyekostarchildunicorn9155]

3 minutes in and I'm crying laughing. Thank you I needed this. 🙏🏾

[@kiyekostarchildunicorn9155]

Also 5:47 I see you....

[@taeminislove]

I love how he says that "the worst thing a man can do is to open up to a woman" when I ended up breaking up with my ex cause he wasn't opening up to me about things I needed to know so that I could understand and adjust to him better.

[@angelinaiannacone6684]

Someone hurt that man and now he wants other men to feel the same way.

[@StoriesByDighe]

He shouldve gotten therapy, tbh

[@oa0311]

speaking on behalf of so many women: we actually do LOVE when men are being vulnerable to us. it's so special and makes us fall in love with them even more because they simply trust us with their emotions.

[@TheScarletteWhisper]

Exactly this.

[@prettyboii8819]

Like it’s all a game

[@joshua5946]

I think while this is true, many of the following often leads to men genuinely thinking women don't want men to show feelings. 1. They found bad women. Adding on to this I think it's a case of survivorship bias. Women who are fine with their man expressing themselves and gonna be taken off the dating market sooner, and those who don't will likely have a harder time. 2. Men don't know how to express their vulnerability without overdoing it due to not leveling up that "skill," to say. This leads to the women leaving bc the guy seems emotionally unstable and could possibly be so due to letting it all out but no idea how to contain properly nos 3. All I said matter Jack shit and most women actually don't like it when guys are really vulnerable/weak and bc it's shallow women come to the defense and say it's fine for guys to be vulnerable. I'm more inclined to believe 1 and 2 over 3 but 3 is definitely what many guys in rp spaces think is true

[@TheScarletteWhisper]

@@joshua5946 I appreciate your points, until the third - thanks for saying we’re all shallow because we say we appreciate vulnerability. That’s just great.

[@joshua5946]

@@TheScarletteWhisper I'm just sharing a thought many rp guys have, I don't think that personally. I didn't mean rp guys think you're shallow for appreciating vulnerability, just that not doing so is shallow and so women are "naturally inclined," to say they do to not make themselves be seen as shallow because if they do the whole "female plan," is thrown out the window.

[@spacegirl9006]

Dylan: Says the word "procreate" My digital artist self: WHUT

[@Nessarrt]

I thought the same 😂 artists minds lol

[@nikacoldblue]

Same 😅

[@silviaaaxo]

same😭

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

😭I’m a traditional painter and I even thought of the app for a second lol

[@llama-dramaqueen2644]

I too shared this brief moment of concern lmao

[@beletrixlastrange9200]

I love seeing the evolving effort Dylan puts into his videos. It flows nicely and I know it took time to add in all these effects and sounds. Just thought I’d give it a shout out lol not only was this a great video about being a decent human being, but it was put together so clean. We notice the work you put in, Dylan! Keep killing it!

[@Resilience252]

13:00 this whole bit is of Carl from llamas with hats😂😂

[@squad1416]

This feels like some dude was hanging out with some friends and was mildly successful, and his friends asked him how he did it.

[@mahlam2582]

I dropped everything immediately to watch this. You're amazing dylan

[@taniquevirgo]

Samme.

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

My habit of dropping everything for Dylan😅

[@CAT-xo2kj]

Same I’m a simple human being, I see Dylan I drop everything else

[@mahlam2582]

@@CAT-xo2kj wise move my friend

[@Itzkeisha]

I love that you’re posting consistently on here😍anyways let me watch the video

[@marianamauricio]

omg hi queen!!

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

Hope you’re doing well, queen❤️❤️

[@aminabouba9730]

Omds Keisha watches Dylan 🤭

[@divyak9980]

Don't jinx it sis.

[@jenniferp.6370]

@@divyak9980 for real. He’s slowly transitioning here and will soon delete Dylan is in Trouble🙃

[@williambarber5574]

I agree with most of what the video Dylan was reacting to said... I think the oppositions in opinion is because of how the information is comprehended, I relate to this so much especially when i see other women in their 20's.

[@TheMaskedChef7]

Thank you for your care and passion speaking about this pure gaslighting Dylan 🌸🌿

[@hideousss493]

the narrator in that video was oddly specific about everything and i'm loving it 😭

[@StoriesByDighe]

Is the channel a troll too? Lol

[@hideousss493]

@@StoriesByDighe probably haha

[@shay5323]

"I can't believe my best friend from 3rd grade is in jail!" 🤣🤣

[@goldenageofdinosaurs7192]

That one got me as well🤣 I needed it, since that girl at 1:23 looks disturbingly similar to my ex wife, which got me, mentally, going in a not so fun direction. That joke helped snapped me out of it.

[@tanja9006]

10:50 is so dangerous, cause women will rather stay with a guy that’s toxic, abusive and think they won’t find anything better, than try to climb a ladder of “even better men”

[@pinkwatermelon9910]

I’ve been having a very harsh week and man your videos just get me back to life. Every time without fail. Thank you so much, love ya Dylan.

[@kensie5327]

Dylan is the one of the few KZbinrs I trust to give it to us straight

[@notokay9459]

"Finish high school" Yes "Go to college" No

[@ttayebro]

"the ins and outs of life" has the same energy as "highs and lows of high school football"

[@cortnie222]

BAHAH no bc I thought the same thing

[@soummya.]

Riverdale reference?

[@mrfrogkingg]

Was not expecting this comment

[@cortnie222]

@@mrfrogkingg your username is beautiful ahahah

[@mrfrogkingg]

@@cortnie222 was not expecting this comment either, but thank you, I came up with it myself *proud look*

[@luckygoldfish5331]

Being emotionally vulnerable during a time that is appropriate IS showing how emotionally strong you are. You are strong enough to express a very tender side of yourself, women LOVE that. Those videos sound like it came from a very salty guy 😅

[@lizabethrose415]

As a woman, I strongly support Dylan's speech starting at 14:40 Keep it up, friends, relearn to be humans. Im sorry society has forced people (especially men) to believe that vulnerability is a weakness when it's nothing but natural.

[@willdrawforcoke4358]

A moment of appreciation for Dylan’s youtooz being strategically placed @ 5:46. Product placement 1000

[@oa0311]

"the red pill community is a safe space for hurt men" -Dylan 2022

[@dheu]

“The worst thing a man can do is open up to a woman”…. I feel like a lot of these things are self-fulfilling. Like, yes, of course a woman will look for someone better and move on if you 1) look down on them all the time and 2) refuse to open up and share your true self with your life partner….

[@StoriesByDighe]

Sabotage basically

[@sunsets572]

Sometimes I forget Dylan is actually really smart

[@hestershaw9333]

i think he does to :)

[@doaeoubakrim9339]

I would've never thought Ooga Booga would become a comfort channel. Yes it is funny, it's Dylan what do we expect, but something about Dylan discussing actual things in a funny but still serious is so refreshing. I just love it, I love your brain 🧠🤍

[@avocadofriend2732]

As a woman, I am not a human. I am a robot who just wants to hate on everyone.