Open Relationship

[@MillenniaThinker]

1) Your girlfriend/boyfriend bursts into your room and says "hey let's open our relationship". What is your response? 2) What is the cause of someone to even consider opening relationships?

[@darkageedits422]

Insecurities

[@stageiiwappie950]

I love to see her busy with Tyrone

[@Vernnus]

We can open after the divorce.

[@100bulletsmiranda9]

my response is fuck off.

[@amazegamer6428]

1. “Hey let’s break up” 2. I would guess boredom or dissatisfaction.

[@dr3armer]

The "she only wants an open relationship if she knows you won't be fuckin bitches" is too accurate.

[@creatingvideostobreakmyspe6049]

just hire a prostitute I guess

[@bunny6820]

Maybe because no one takes open relationships seriously

[@pallych]

@@bunny6820 can you please shut up?

[@Intuitive-idiot]

@@pallych Let the man speak

[@FrostB312]

@@bunny6820 Because no one should take them seriously. It's a joke.

[@iatetonkatsu3902]

Open relationship is like giving the "fun" part of being in the relationship to the strangers while you experience the "shit" part of being in a relationship.

[@AkshayKumar-kz6zh]

And by fun it's not just s#x. But also the intimacy, bond, caring, flirting and RESPECT. Basically the good part.

[@robhulson]

You are 100% correct in all the examples I've experienced and seen. While my ex got plenty of action, I got a lot myself. Eventually she complained that she couldn't compete with this sort of conglomeration of women I was involved with. She didn't worry that I was going to run off with any single one of them (she ended up leaving me for one of her suitors). But she felt like she couldn't compete with the collective novelty from each woman I was with. What's left in the original relationship is nothing but _work,_ and respect has fallen through the floor. It is _not_ good and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. It's a mirage and a lie that it will enhance your relationship past the initial buzz of violating societal norms together.

[@pepelefrog1121]

Liberal socialists created this shit in the last decade and now they pretend they have nothing to do about it. Its so sad.

[@fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874]

@@robhulson haha i knew getting high would be better.

[@KaeganThornhillTheCyberRaven]

Bro spitting facts.

[@Napoleonpilled]

I'd rather be alone than be in an open relationship

[@MeharsbrotherTV]

agreed, unless I'm the other guy lol

[@blackdimondx6049]

EMIYA Shirou, ... Better that way!... Better to Save your Dignity as a Man ,than to loose it while chasing after one girl like a puppy...Like a Pendejo

[@dr.downvote]

@@MeharsbrotherTV this!

[@andnowyouknow3363]

Well said, rather be lonely than to sell my dignity to being some c**kold.

[@fyurerys]

As a result, this whore cheated on him. and this guy couldn't fuck another girl. in any case, if you start an "open relationship", you can already forget about relationships in general, as well as about fidelity.

[@sui1162]

"Honey, I want an open reala-" "Get the fuck out of my house"

[@senseiii3986]

Factssss

[@terminatorh67]

"YOU PICKED THE WRONG HOUSE, FOOL!"

[@kal9896]

She belongs to the street!

[@enriccreus6024]

For sure! That's what I would instantly do! Even if I need to grab her hair to take her outside...

[@ELMO899]

@@terminatorh67 big smoke, it's me, carl! chill, chill!

[@torachan23]

People who want an open relationship want the benefits and status of monogamy without the responsibilities and limitations of monogamy

[@TwoFourNineNine]

exactly

[@berniekatzroy]

Well said.

[@chary5296]

I'm not trying to be rude but why is this a bad thing? If someone doesn't want all of these unnecessary responsibilities why should we force them onto that person? It just sounds easier for everyone if they can do what they want.

[@sigmamalegrindset132]

most of them are egoistic, every single person I know who is in an open relationship

[@chary5296]

@@sigmamalegrindset132 That's interesting, do you think there's a correlation between being egotistical and wanting to have multiple partners?

[@harleyx7332]

Open relationship sounds like a speedrun to a therapist

[@lukemorgan6166]

If you need a therapist. Your relationship is already a joke

[@carpelunam]

@@lukemorgan6166 seek help you're obviously Disturbed

[@teddysam9307]

@@carpelunam Why is he distrubed?

[@ItsOver9000Productions]

@@teddysam9307 because he says retarded shit like that

[@bunny6820]

Maybe you think that because you need a therapist to begin with, not an offense, just mental health advice

[@f3m7ar]

I call your videos "social horror". Thinking that this is the reality for someone makes me shiver with terror.

[@ricardoas4350]

Just invented a new genre, that’s actually so accurate. Imagine a whole horror movie about that kind of horror

[@johnm4581]

Thank you for this... You're on point with it

[@kayoma4966]

I feel that

[@Jandeganjaman]

If you want life as cuck you get life as a cuck. Its all up to you

[@Jandeganjaman]

@@ricardoas4350 get outta here I call that real life judging by the sheeple and idiots around me.

[@somerandomguy5507]

An "Open Relationship" is literally just your partner asking for permission to cheat on you.

[@evi5619]

Not always. I had an open relationship before and it was pretty good. My boyfriend and me *both* decided to make it open.

[@MechAdv]

@@evi5619 So what you’re saying is you managed to successfully gaslight him AND yourself? Damn. Impressive.

[@evi5619]

@@MechAdv gaslight? Thats disrespectful.

[@bigpuma444]

“Open relationships” are for simps and whores, I get an extra side of meat without the main bitch knowing. Codependent bitches are fun, you can mess around with as many other women as you want and they still won’t let go or do the same 😂

[@MechAdv]

@@evi5619 Alright, perhaps you’re the one in a million couple where you loved everything about each other but lacked sexual compatibility, AND you were mature and self aware enough to not let jealousy enter the equation. However, since he’s your Ex now, I doubt y’all were the unicorns. The only time I’ve ever seen this work long term, was a coworker of mine who married his high school best friend, only to find out that she was asexual and feeling obligated to have sex made her miserable. They arranged that he could have sex outside their marriage, but only if it was with a pro. He used to go to the massage parlor a LOT. 😂 wonder how that guy is doing these days.

[@torachan23]

If she suggests an “open relationship”, just know she already cheated and no longer wants to go through the effort of hiding it

[@Cheemszit]

facts

[@hectordelarocha10]

Not only that, she doesn't want to feel guilty about it. Let her suffer for it. She'll experience the true meaning of misery

[@szczecin_]

And you should LEAVE HER ON THE SPOT SHE DOESN'T DESERVE A KING

[@Lordofwarz]

This tbh

[@chary5296]

I mean more than half of all relationships fall apart. I personally think that the main reason for this is that people get bored. Of course you might SAY that you'll be 100% loyal and youll never even glance at someone else. However it is quite literally in our nature to want as many mates as possible. So while yes it is possible for someone to stay 100% loyal I can't imagine they would stay completely happy. Especially young daters since most lack the maturity in order to not get bored of one girl after an amount of time. I think this might be the reason relationships fall apart. This makes me think that if done right, it's possible that an open relationship can save a relationship. I mean, think about it, in this relationship you'll most likely never get bored, you can have as many partners as you want, and everything is consensual so there's no need to really hide anything. I'm aware that things like open relationships are looked down soon by society for being "basically cheating" or because it's "Not what god intended" but I think it's about time that we get rid of these stupid old social norms. They only serve to hurt and judge people for living a different life style. Sorry for ranting about this, my comment started out simple and just kept going. I'm not trying to be rude or anything just giving my opinion.

[@ivansgirl144]

The girlfriend's mental gymnastics justifying this are not just exhausting, but extremely accurate.

[@jimjohnson394]

"How do you write women so well?" "I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability"

[@CanariasCanariass]

Open relationships are for women who want to cheat but still want the security and money etc from the male, the "cuck".

[@jimjohnson394]

@@CanariasCanariass exactly. She wants to use the man she made a commitment to and relinquish her responsibilities of the relationship but still hold him accountable.

[@diobrando2160]

This is based off a real video and it's just like this. Mister Metokur covered it ages ago, I think in the same stream he watched the "Geek Love" series.

[@ecogreco]

actually this video is very inaccurate over how woman really are. My problem with this channel is that woman are depicted as manipulative and shallow, while men are the helpless victims. If this channel was to depict men the same way women are depicted in this channel, then you same guys would say "this is not realistic! not all men are like that!!!!", but since women being potrayed in a negative way, you same guys are like "soooooo accurate!".

[@dannysummers4591]

being in an open relationship is like being a kid whos parents take somebody elses kids to Disney Land while you stay at home doing chores

[@paulpatterson7737]

Well said

[@ajakks6551]

I've always tried to put this stuff into words but I never could, you have helped me with that because that's exactly how I would assume it would feel like experiencing this.

[@paganhalloween]

Sounds like someone who hasn’t been in a successful open relationship. I will continue fucking dozens of guys and galls WITH my partner also balls deep in them. Straight people really have learning to talk issues, it’s not that hard, just communicate like damn.

[@sourmilk2395]

Yo my boy 😂

[@OliCrown]

😂 You got that right

[@ImpulseACE]

5:55 I literally yelled "YOU COWARD!".

[@Mptappin12]

Yep like have some backbone she literally had a dude in the bed when you told her not to the previous day, but you can’t even go on a date with some fat chick? 😂

[@user-nf9xm7is3m]

What's funny about open relationships is everyone fools themselves into thinking they are mature and enlightened enough to make it work lol

[@otroweonllamadoseba]

@@kingbael6903 how?

[@Ropewatch]

@@kingbael6903 sounds like cope

[@rockstopsthetraffic]

If they're "mature and enlightened", they know not to play such silly games.

[@otroweonllamadoseba]

@@kingbael6903 i mean, that might work if you don't think about it. But if you take more than 2 minutes to realize that someone else is banging your wife, you will probably not like that that much. Especially if you don't get too much action.

[@brandonriggle3860]

@@kingbael6903 the only point of an open relationship is to boink someone other than your significant other. Which if you can't control yourself and limit yourself to just the one person, are they really "significant" to you? Also, might want to talk to CPS about your uncle.

[@xXNP4CNuclearXx]

If your relationship is already failing, changing it to an open relationship is just adding another layer of tape on something broken.

[@fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874]

adding tape? more like taking a hammer to an already fractured bone.

[@-weaponized6493]

Dipping it in acid.

[@MrOssyMoro]

I start open, not a desperate trying to fix a relationship with sex with others.

[@hanneskannes4128]

@@MrOssyMoro same here i think it can work if you just dont do it out of an excuse and you lie to yourself

[@alansshtr]

I fuck with the Earl pfp

[@mommymilkers4119]

You can always tell when you see these couples irl which one suggested the open relationship and which one cries themselves to sleep every night

[@cinnamoncigarettes]

Always.

[@ponternal]

Good.

[@mahiiin-tm1gt]

98% of the Time ist the Woman who brings this up.

[@mateonikolic6984]

@@ponternal are u aware that these men are stuck? If they divorce or something they will lose all their shit plus potentially kids.

[@evi5619]

@@mahiiin-tm1gt what studies u got that sh from 😀

[@dimitri2808]

I fucking love how accurate and realistic this video is, from the character portrayal to the D tier gaslighting

[@marlom7882]

Hahaha! D tier gaslighting as if there’s quality to manipulating people’s emotions/thoughts

[@okn3297]

@@marlom7882 there is, highest quality is almost imperceptible

[@mr.dudbud4551]

How you know this is an accurate video ıf you didnt have any open relationship?

[@p39483]

​@@mr.dudbud4551Maybe he was a secondary.

[@mr.dudbud4551]

@@p39483 well that could happen but one couple is not enough sample to make a streotype if thats how we gonna make it we would hate every people on earth

[@ItsJCrew]

"I used to think the worst thing in the world was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone." - Robin Williams

[@Gaming_Legend2]

that quote hits kinda different after what he did :/

[@abp1400]

And then he hung himself...

[@mathieul4303]

@@Gaming_Legend2 don't reminds me...

[@nightingaleforrest]

It’s true, actioning the decision to leave someone after years of them making you feel alone is really hard. Especially when they try to make you feel like they were a necessary part of your life. Amidst other forms of cruelty inflicted by the person, discovering they were disloyal is hardly a surprise. It’s better to be single and know where you stand then in a relationship muddied by betrayal and abuse.

[@idanshoham1468]

gotta say, being alone sucks too

[@Alex_FRD]

"I'm in an open relationship", just a fancy way of saying "My partner is a cheater and I lack the self worth and respect to walk away."

[@WTFIWFYDB]

Only if one side is opened. Or someone was pressured into it.

[@M-DVD]

@@WTFIWFYDB usually thats the case.

[@justaguywithagoodphoto4801]

Not the worth and respect, the willingness to break up without guilt

[@WTFIWFYDB]

@@M-DVD I think it can work if you have 2 wh*res that don't treat physical intimacy too seriously, pornstars for example.

[@narutogoku6514]

Reminds me of Will Smith

[@BlitzAMV]

This is how my marriage ended....except we never agreed to any open relationship, but apparently she did.

[@purest_evil]

I hope you're okay now man

[@BlitzAMV]

@@purest_evil I'm trying, I do a little better each day, but it's hard..

[@purest_evil]

@@BlitzAMV I'm sorry man don't want to dig too much into the wound but I'm sorry

[@BlitzAMV]

@@purest_evil I appreciate you brother, it actually feels good knowing someone cares, so I should be thanking all of you.

[@Hennessydream]

@@BlitzAMV don’t worry man. Plenty of people care even if we don’t know you. This should never happen to anyone, I don’t get why people don’t just leave before cheating. Stay strong brother you’re still here after all, some men wouldn’t be after going through that.

[@MotivationSalvation]

Opening a relationship is like letting your house be voluntarily trashed by random people. Everybody wants in on the fun of trashing it, but nobody wants to be involved in the drama of cleaning up the mess up and fixing the house.

[@hanspeterfake3130]

So you compare the situation of letting your partner choose additional sex partners with just letting your house open to “random strangers”? That reveals much about how you think about your partners choices. How sad! I really hope for you that you'll find someday more trust into others!

[@michaelatlas2341]

Don't worry, she's willing to clean up everything like the best damn hoover, but you never get to party.

[@michaelatlas2341]

​@@hanspeterfake3130 are you a bot? Because you punching bags always type this exact same comment.

[@dragonlord1689]

​@@hanspeterfake3130Found the cuck

[@Yoruharu]

@@hanspeterfake3130 ok cheater

[@ZoeyTheSobble]

I would rather be single forever than be in an “open-relationship”

[@sdawdaawdasd2690]

Okay, and some people would rather be alone than in a closed relationship. What is your point?

[@cyntdestroyer69xd]

@@sdawdaawdasd2690 That "open relationships" are: - Cop out for one partner to cheat - Horseshit - All of the above

[@killthem9669]

@@sdawdaawdasd2690, nice joke😂

[@extraaccount4852]

Well you have prostitutes to fill your needs. If they are legal in your place .

[@soupa8082]

@@sdawdaawdasd2690 if You don't wanna be in closed relationship let's one night stand, and stop pretend relationship because it's pretty stupid XD If you like fuck with many People, free way. But if you are in open rs that mean "I wanna have benefits by rs and benefits by free sex without responibility and i don't care about my partner i like only his attention" It' cowardly to be between rs and free sex live, In fact nobody like to be cheated even if Say "it's ok" its only trade with yourself, you can suffer by cheating But you can fuck with others. Its childish

[@drunkfuck69]

A girl asked me to open our relationship once, so the next day I got another girls number. She threw a plate at my head, damn double standards. FIN

[@lawea1398]

What a s lvt

[@soy_boy69]

Bro that is domestic abuse .

[@markcoleman7246]

lol "FIN"

[@リンゴ酢-b8g]

@@soy_boy69 do you mean the emotional abuse he put her through?

[@5imbah]

@@リンゴ酢-b8g least of your worries if u throwin dishes

[@chucklenuts2294]

I love how your art style is evolving. All the wojacks have their own unique style and personality now.

[@AldousLearySound]

metamemetic

[@CarbonGod666]

Chuckle nuts no

[@Verårtu]

nice pfp

[@megnus3rs]

Zyzz

[@FalconRS]

Better than some Banksy with spray cans.

[@WakkoKakko]

Opening the relationship automatically means the end of the relationship. No exceptions. At least one of the partners is looking for an exit strategy, the partner who proposed it was looking for a loophole to cheat at will, and both partners now have an irreparable breach of trust in each other.

[@nonreturn7386]

I tend to agree

[@Dimitriyazov]

Yea..

[@ayushsrivastava1672]

How tf did you commented an hour ago?

[@vancefr]

how did you comment 1 hour before the video even uploaded?

[@angelolopes7840]

100% agree

[@alcoholically4280]

Never been in an open relationship and not even in a current one, but the loneliness, manipulation, and pain had me feeling dam near suicidal towards the end💀

[@YandereEnthusiast]

I'm better off alone than feeling like this lmao

[@thesfnb.5786]

Me 2

[@GoldFishMuzzle]

Hey bro, just letting you know this is just an abusive relationship. If you are communicating and respecting eachothers boundries none of this shit happens.

[@Zellkid]

@@GoldFishMuzzle no it does. There is no excuse for this. It's just for selfish desire for weak people who don't care for relationships. This is the result of hookup culture killing our society

[@prepucenary]

@@GoldFishMuzzle Open relationships are in no way healthy for either party. The only reason you’d have an open relationship is because whoever you’re with isn’t enough to satisfy your wants/ needs. It’s a good way to end a relationship whether you respect one another’s boundaries or not. It’s wrong to be attracted to someone for their body alone. It’s objectifying and manipulative. You’re using the other person for their appearance- purely to sate some insignificant desire to get high off of sex. Going on dates is useless in an open relationship because at the end of the day you only want that person for their body. POLYAMORY however CAN be healthy because ideally it’s full of individuals that love and respect one another equally- instead of one person liking another more than you might. You like those people for who they are not what they look like exclusively.

[@priyanshuroy7236]

I'd rather die single and virgin than a "relationship" like that

[@lordakiasantiago7562]

x2

[@marshvif]

x3

[@Klaus-Schwab_Dictator]

x4

[@devthegoat69_]

x5

[@spex4558]

x6

[@joetrades2472]

If you’re an average straight male, open relationships are suicidal fuel.

[@defireleaf]

Yes sirr

[@JohnSmith-nj9qo]

I love the ending. "Oh shit my partner is going to be with other women. Now that I'm the one being cucked I suddenly don't want an open relationship anymore." Guys who let this shit happen to them need to have some self worth. Being alone is being better than being constantly cucked by someone who is supposed to love you.

[@dantezoid]

And in the end she just cheated? I didn't understand it that well

[@M-DVD]

@@dantezoid he bought "the never again" bs and she stayed ridding sauces.

[@aSSGoblin1488]

if you are male and not a celebrity, open relationship is not for you

[@bunny6820]

Open relationships are about consent If you don't like other people in your relationship, don't go for an open relationship doofus

[@Zellkid]

@@bunny6820 classic blaming and not understanding that this is just for selfish people who don't value an actual relationship and just want to be pos who only care for sex

[@domb7168]

Never do this. Never allow her to take control of the relationship. If she wants to open it up, she doesn't want you. She wants your security and that's it.

[@hentajs]

word

[@aldrans1998]

She wants the cash and thats it

[@Redditor6079]

100%

[@zl8731]

@@aldrans1998 Cash is security bro.

[@aldrans1998]

@@zl8731 yea thats what im saying

[@Sato_Goth]

Dating in 2022 has me living in constant fear of ending up like Will Smith.

[@tilted1165]

Oh no what happened

[@jc30081983]

So sad

[@lucadesanctis563]

@@tilted1165 his wife publicly said she cheated on him. Also, she's been so toxic towards Will and he prolly didn't ask for divorce cuz he's too weak/afraid of alimony

[@SiriHakuoh]

I feel this....

[@cultofthevoid5677]

I'm bi and used to date women a lot more but these days I only date dudes because women these days aren't worth the trouble they put you through. I'd rather just avoid that sort of thing all together.

[@user-tz5uq2bt1s]

If my wife ever suggests an open relationship I'll tell her I need to think about it, then contact a divorce lawyer and figure out the best way to divorce her.

[@andymac6207]

So will I. Heartbreaking sure, but I rather risk spending the rest of the life alone than be this dude.

[@alonsolaw8380]

I agree

[@alonsolaw8380]

It's always all about them. F...the guy. Very selfish and devious very common

[@jersey3686]

There’s two people in an open relationship: The one who suggested it, and the one who cries them self to sleep every night

[@strafbomber98]

True, one is always losing.

[@GeoffreyBronson]

This is true even if you're the one on more dates/getting more sex. My ex suggested we try it and while it looked like I was the one having the most fun I secretly mourned the eventual end of our relationship that night.

[@bunny6820]

This is only true if the consent is not mutual The consent should be mutual

[@Zellkid]

@@bunny6820 literally shut up you're in every comment section replying justifying this. I guarantee you're a girl and hookup culture has rotted your brain

[@DUWANGlai_kangyi]

There is two people in THIS TYPE of "open relationship". This is NOT a functional open relationship, that's... Kinda the point of the video.

[@Aymelia-colon3]

"Let's open our relationship" The only thing I'm opening is the front door for you to leave.

[@randomdudeontheinternet6165]

*"WRITE THAT DOWN, WRITE THAT DOWN"*

[@Moniker08]

Based.

[@PatitoSkull]

This comment is so underated

[@Albert_7]

Wise words from PS2 nedward flanders

[@hyberkonawa272]

Dam!!!! Savage!!! Nice one bro👌

[@Mr._Pancakes]

I'd rather be alone instead of practicing borderline polygamy. Edit - What have I done...

[@personsn2586]

Im that case just don't date

[@kaletovhangar]

@@personsn2586 He should stop dating because he finds it insulting to end up a 3rd wheel to someone?

[@JR-xt4nk]

fr

[@TheJotaroKujo]

Substitute "borderline" with "legit"

[@zojaXII]

Fuck borderline polygamy, I'm crossing the border now B)

[@cg4304]

A significant other asking for an open relationship is probably the most heart breaking thing you could ever see/hear

[@nonamej1591]

Would have to cry and pack my bags (And steal some of there money) to hell with that.

[@machomota]

She: "I want a open relationship." Me: "Sign on the divorce papers and we both can have an open relationships"

[@loturzelrestaurant]

This is honestly so harmful i dare to report/flag polyamory-channel on tiktok & youtube and honestly i even advocate for you doing it, too. Ask YT very polite and calm 'Can you remove this?' YT does not want to hear your 'Opinion' so keep it simple and factual'.

[@MrCharrrles]

How about "I'm putting all your stuff outside tonight and tomorrow I'm changing the locks"

[@elguitarTom]

* we *

[@justanotherperson2960]

Completely agree, open relationship = GTFO.

[@the_honey_badger2435]

@@loturzelrestaurant bro took it personally. 💀

[@lukemclaren3386]

Notice how Rachel says "my relationship" and Steven says "our relationship" when they talk about opening their relationship at the start of the video.

[@zenraloc]

That's because this is a scenario where they aren't actually in an open relationship. This whole video is the fear of someone bad trying to start an open relationship post conditions and expectations

[@stickinittotheman1]

@@zenraloc unfortunately, I have seen this kind of thing firsthand. Whomever is the more attractive/desirable partner (male, female, nby, etc.) has already decided their partner isn't good enough: after deciding this, these dominant partners pushed the other for weeks-months until they agreed to opening their relationship/marriage; one used a threesome as a smart gateway. In the worst case, the couple had been married for around 6 years, with two small girls already born. In fairness, this marriage was doomed to fail since the beginning, as both partners had cheated back and fourth for years, but regardless, it has been a tragedy. The caricatures here are exaggerated here, sure. make no mistake though, you're playing with fire.

[@davefenner3328]

@@stickinittotheman1 No such thing as nby

[@kj_H65f]

@@stickinittotheman1 its interesting that a mutually happy couple isn't being depicted. Almost as if someone has an axe to grind about their failed relationships. Bottom line is be with someone who respects you. I'm not in an open relationship and I can't imagine being happy in one, but thats me. I know people who are and have been together for 15 years and still love and care for each other deeply, they just aren't monogamous. I don't know why the possibility of such a relationship is anathema to so many men, that they'd try to tell others that such an arrangement is impossible. I think its because they're afraid they wouldn't be able to control their spouse.

[@kj_H65f]

@@davefenner3328 oh I get it. Should have known this was THAT kind of channel. My bad, I'll leave.

[@l__l2328]

I've never understood open relationships. Just be friends at that point.

[@Th3BigBoy]

Ignorant to think you can "be friends" with people you have slept with.

[@gsc8713]

Glorified roomates

[@Lemme-sniff-ya]

uhhh why?

[@steamline4597]

Its for people who cant control their sexual desire

[@slent5346]

Me neither a relationship is about 2 people being into one another not 3

[@paulclark9960]

Man.. this brings back some memories.. Had this exact thing happen to a great friend of mine. It's really sad how it happened.. he's a software engineer that makes pretty good money (around 90k) a year and she can't keep a job whatsoever and just uses him for his resources. She opened their relationship because she had "needs" but the reality was that she didn't like her boyfriends height (he's around 5'5" tall) and would sleep with around 3-4+ tall men (6'+) a week. She would also constantly talk shit about short guys (often around him), praise tall guys like they were gods, and exclusively slept with tall drug dealers to get her rocks off and actively use marijuana, cocaine, and alcohol on a daily basis while my friend worked constantly, coding for their survival. He wasn't allowed to question her or put any rules into the open relationship either and would often open up about it to me. It got to the point where he eventually broke down and they had a major argument about the entire ordeal that involved her threatening to leave if he didn't allow her "needs" to be met, and she claimed he was abusive and controlling due to the fight, complaining constantly about him for a while to our friend group. After all of this, things changed a lot and he became completely stagnant with the issue and a shell of his former self. I'd point this out to him (just trying to be helpful and get him to reflect on the ongoing issue), but rather than be open about his feelings toward the subject like he used to, he would become defensive and defend her actions even though it was obvious to everyone around him that it was killing him. It got to the point where I eventually had to cut off my relationship to both of them due to how toxic it had become. It's really sad because he's a brilliant guy and deserves better, and she's a literal snake, but I guess that's just life these days for some people, sadly. If you notice this kind of abuse, try your best to save your homies, otherwise they may just end up like my friend did. 😔

[@locomotive9000]

This is fucking tragic. Thanks for putting up this massive warning sign for the rest of us.

[@colonelradec908]

Man I hope you told him that he can text you or sonething when he will wake up and throw the bitch out of his house. He will understand what wrong and probably will be too shy to try and restore lost connections

[@cockoffgewgle4993]

You should have been more vocal, to her and your friend group. And told her what a despicable, abusive slut she is.

[@harsh3948]

"It's really sad because he's a brilliant guy and deserves better, and she's a literal snake, but I guess that's just life these days for some people, sadly. If you notice this kind of abuse, try your best to save your homies, otherwise they may just end up like my friend did." That isn't abuse, he seems like a typical unattractive nerdy simp that never got girls and is stuck with the first toxic b!tch he came across once hew got some cash. The embodiment of why the quote "nice guys finish last" was invented.

[@paulclark9960]

@harsh3948 Sad to hear you see it this way, he was a great homie and such a cool guy, not nerdy, just smart and competent and overall a well-rounded individual. Best of luck to you with that pov.

[@EvIlducky5]

Reminds me of a thing I watched where the wife insisted on an open relationship, but she kept getting rejected while the husband decided to try getting with dudes. The wife wanted to put a stop to it because he was getting more men than her.

[@mysteryjunkie9808]

Yeah when you’re having sex with someone else suddenly they worry about STDs and

[@bunnieskitties293]

"I didnt even know he LIKED trans girls.. IM NOT TRANSFPHOBIC I SWEAR."

[@kenneth6895]

SO FUCKING BASED

[@JohnShinyable]

source?

[@alexanderpherigo6806]

Gigachad

[@mhelm0225]

I remember hearing about some guy that broke off what I think was a 5-6 year relationship the second his girlfriend seriously suggested an open relationship, and I couldn't get over how dumbfounded she was over what most people would think was a reasonable response to something like that.

[@calor6990]

That guy is a wise man, and a man with a backbone that can say NO

[@rifarira9160]

@@calor6990 He's a chad

[@yb7278]

I think I saw that one to in a video from The Lotus Eaters

[@marekb1556]

He is an insecure pussy then

[@andybuscus383]

I remember seeing that story.

[@itsmartin9202]

The moment your partner offers you "open relationship" - you know its the right time to break up with him/her. Edit: anyone who is in situation like this currently, do not be afraid to end the relationship, maybe it will be painful, but YOU need to know your worth and YOU deserve someone who will love you and respect you. Heads up kings and queens ✌❤

[@raouljoseph1411]

Yup

[@Zynet_Eseled]

I wish I knew that years ago...but I was a complete bitch who couldnt stand up to others taking advantage of me. Now I am able to, albeit with extreme reservations and guilt.

[@itsmartin9202]

@@Zynet_Eseled its never too late to work on being better version of yourself, leave the past behind and try to change you life completely💪💪

[@Zynet_Eseled]

@@itsmartin9202 I still miss him. Being an outcast furry (at the time) in high school wasnt healthy. And for a year and a half with him, in an online relationship, things looked like they could work. Then...covid happened, and everything went to shit one year and seven months after the world shut down. And I thought, "maybe if I stay loyal and give him all the attention I can, it will show that I love him". Turns out...it was obsession in his eyes.

[@itsmartin9202]

@@Zynet_Eseled i hope you find the right way ❤

[@danielstarr8957]

I used to be friends with a guy who was in an open relationship simply because his gf could not stop cheating and he didn't want to leave her. It would be pathetic watching him fight with the other guy over who gets to sleep with his gf on certain nights. "No it's my turn Tonight!"

[@Dooger414]

Never take dating advice from someone in an open relationship. They are either the one with no loyalty or no spine. Pray there is no kid in the mix if it ever happens to you.

[@KASHKUR_7.62]

Specially if they are w0man They are the ones who pushed this kind of schemes Open relationships for woman is total fun Open relationships for men (most of the times) are cuckolding/cheating with extra-steps

[@rolson99]

I'd say take the advice and do the complete opposite

[@Labyrinth6000]

Especially of that image of the girl with 4 guys. It was later found out there was a kid in the mix and one of the dudes that wasn’t the father killed the kid

[@リンゴ酢-b8g]

"mum, why do you have so many husbands but I have no father?"

[@epsorks]

@@kingbael6903 because that's not a relationship you nimrod.

[@sharpenedsphere8345]

Open relationships are open to everything but critcism

[@smuggler9837]

Lol best comment imo

[@TheSyconerd]

While im not in favor of open relationships, I will add that especially what we are seen here is not a real open relationship but rather the woman just abusing her husband and cheating on him

[@infiniterick6479]

@@TheSyconerd most open relationship usually are one sided

[@TheSyconerd]

@@infiniterick6479 it’s not that I necessarily don’t disagree but I’m looking at the perfect example of an open relationship. Of course there is a abuse and cheating. But by definition, it should not.

[@athiefinthenight6894]

lol

[@lovelysix6296]

If my partner asked me to be in an open relationship I would break up with them right there on the spot. That’s just telling me they aren’t happy nor satisfied with the relationship

[@00piumSora999]

Same

[@hansbauer5997]

And people are wondering why their partner is cheating on them. If you actively discourage you partner from being open about their thoughts and feeling of course that is just gonna lead up to taking in the pressure until they either a) leave you or b) start disliking you or c) do the shit route and cheat Actively discouraging certain topics will always lead to the relationship going toxic

[@truzt1124]

@@hansbauer5997 you haven't watched the video yet, didn't you?

[@thisismyhandle745]

@@hansbauer5997 if someone in a relationship asks to open it, the relationships been over for a bit but one side hasn't realized it.

[@dontspeaktoelectrohead1491]

​@@hansbauer5997 How does not wanting an open relationship mean you don't want them to be open about their feelings. You clearly have never been in a relationship or are a woman

[@burgeristhename1442]

I just realised- my gf( now ex) did once suggest abt open relationship and i disagreed, idk how but my instincts started pushing her away and i broke up w her soon after but she still acted like we are still dating while she was dating other guys , i kept thinking why did i breakup and after a year after seeing this video i realized my instincts saved me

[@silvestervanmeijgaarden5350]

Respect brother, hope you are doing well! Single or not. 😊

[@mrtrollnator123]

Your instincts saved you, you made it out of that toxic relationship!!!!! Respect to you brother!!!

[@intr0vertig0]

Seriously, thoughts and prayers to whoever's out there living this right now. Hope you find a way out that doesn't make the news.

[@lawnmower6591]

Damn, I understood that 100%

[@cinnamoncigarettes]

I hate seeing it. Especially with friends or ppl I know. You just wanna smack them to their senses

[@Lilp181]

Word only so much mental trauma you can take before doing something you will regret

[@loturzelrestaurant]

...Open Relationship = Less-Civilized; the Minority for a Reason; something Tiktok adovcates cause of course.

[@intr0vertig0]

@@loturzelrestaurant It's all the benefits of a relationship without the responsibility of maintaining it. ...At least for one person.

[@PVT.Ramirez-x2y]

My brother's girlfriend suggested this and my brother said "yeah" then when she came back all her shit was on the driveway and he changed all the door locks, she stayed outside for two days crying begging for one more chance, he gave her everything she didn't even need to work, she ended up pregnant by a dead beat(🤷🏿‍♂️) and working two jobs to survive. My brother ended up marrying a traditional Latina and now has two very smart kids.

[@xayoo_2651]

Chad

[@jeff230394]

I hope its true but sounds like a made up story lol

[@windghost2]

@@jeff230394 This sounds fake as hell in all honesty.

[@YTUserOnYT]

@@jeff230394no bro she legit stayed outside his house for 2 days crying

[@Unknownmaskedman9790]

What do you mean all her shit in driveway I'm not from USA so I don't understand

[@andrejholubjak9645]

"They wanted to do it the old-fashioned way" "They ? Who's there?" That hit me hard

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

Choo choo!

[@Tom-iv3nd]

Did anything happen to you personally which made that more painful?

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

Open relationship = Be single and sleep around. It's literally the same thing, except being single means you can't destroy someone mentally, which is what a lot of women seem to want to do in order to feel strong.

[@calyx5087]

​@@r.1.336What the fuck are you talking about

[@demetriusean]

​@@r.1.336People in the vast majority of open relationships never agree fully to it (one partner eventually gets jealous and tired of the other partner's bs), which is why these "relationships" always fail. Even in the unicorn situation in which both partners are on the same page, they still don't last lmaooo

[@johnwayne2898]

Actually I had an ex girlfriend named Julia, and the whole reason why we broke up was because she wanted an open relationship. I fell in love with her and it seemed like a great relationship. I loved her, and she told me she loved me. However, back in May she told me she wanted an open relationship. Being Christian and monogamous, I hated the idea. She told me to choose between her and my religion, I chose my religion. I was heartbroken yeah (and still get sad sometimes, but I know that I'm better) however if I could do it all again I would choose my religion over and over again. I know I made the right decision and I thank God for protecting me. Since then my life has gotten better: I've converted to Eastern Orthodoxy and love my church as well as my family (both church family and real family); I've been doing a lot of world travelling and have been to 7 countries this year alone. Life is difficult, but my advice to anyone who is put in this position is this: don't do it. As hard as the heartbreak of breaking up can be, just know that you will be miserable if you are in an open "relationship" God loves you and you are worth so much more than someone's plaything

[@agent-33]

I don't need any religion to figure out this is a bad idea, it's just common sense. I'm agnostic though.

[@2.4minutepapers9]

I am an atheist and my GF put me through same situation after a 5 years of exclusive relationship. It was heartbreaking, but I broke up with her. Turns out she was cheating on me on top of that, so my decision made me feel good. Religion has nothing to do with it, open relationships are just awful and an exclusive partner bringing it up implies she is cheating on you. And yeah, God doesn't exis... Jk. I respect your beliefs, keep it up.

[@bendover9813]

Lmaooo, you don’t need religion to realize that an open-relationship is a misguided attempt at finding intimacy instead of asking for more directly. It’s a spineless cop out fr

[@justjoking5841]

She is the one who suggested it, so she is the proverbial devil in this situation.

[@johnwayne2898]

@@2.4minutepapers9 Ay thank you king, I respect yours too 😎🤝 Also I know how terrible of a situation it is so I can definitely relate. Know you deserve better than her

[@LuisC7]

Two of my wife's boyfriends approve of this video story. Good job

[@whatisaman689]

Why the others don't approve?

[@shynx9950]

@@whatisaman689 They still think they are the only one

[@nivaldolemos5280]

I approve it too, so three.

[@Coffelvlojlka]

Ha-ha-ha Western world, the crown of civilization. I can't, I'd just throw her out on the street before I broke a couple of ribs

[@cristiantapia631]

Lmao

[@ayushsrivastava1672]

The term 'open relationship' is itself an oxymoron

[@ofir.ll2004]

how so?

[@galactica604]

@@ofir.ll2004 a relationship is between two people, "open" make it worthless

[@ayushsrivastava1672]

@@ofir.ll2004 Loyalty and commitment are one of the most essential aspects of a relationship, and you can't have both of them if there's a third person involved

[@cristian-bull]

@@galactica604 guess friendships are not relationships then

[@starkid9736]

@@cristian-bull u d ur friends?

[@Icey_beats]

if i had a girl who even suggested an open relationship id break up immediatly

[@lucykaede5863]

If they want to open the relationship, it either means two things: 1.) They're already cheating on you, or 2.) They already know who to cheat on you with.

[@sneed.]

@@orangeinthesoup1594 go back agent goldstein before I go ER at your office in Israel

[@TheWolf-lt6ig]

@@orangeinthesoup1594 we can, but some people don't want to

[@mirrors8913]

@@orangeinthesoup1594 Yes, all open relationships are formed due to lust and commitment issues. Human children aren't born fully developed so two parents are necessary to raise them even in the most basic versions of society. An open relationship is completely impossible to raise high functioning children in if you look at how repetitive parental separations effect their minds. More parents does not mean more stability. Messages conflict and they learn a poor sense of right and wrong. Parents also have a huge influence on identity, and the more people with say the more confused they will be. If we are debating human nature, then naturally such a situation would lead to many children with many fathers, most of whom abandon their children in this singular household. Look up anecdotes of those who spent time in group homes, there are no good stories. This is all assuming they even stick around long enough to register in the children's minds as a parental figure. But think, if a person is bringing random people into the house, that is a safety risk in and of itself. If you spend enough time to know them well enough to trust them then there's only two possibilities: 1. You're not spending enough time at home to take care of your responsibilities. 2. They are around the house long enough that they form a bond with your kids. In summary: perhaps open relationships are good for the individual, but they are not functional. There is no point in engaging in an open relationship and they contribute to the decline of civil society. The core purpose of a relationship is not sex, and that is what arguments in favor of polygamy forget. If you want to bang as many chicks as you want, there's no reason to have a relationship at all, just be a ho.

[@187onaPigeon]

Well it's simple. Every woman already does point 2, they always have a backup, or more. 1 always happens unless they end the relationship. At the end they will cheat, no matter what you do.

[@chakraffk8355]

@@187onaPigeon You must be broken to think like that dude

[@yonaMISC]

when someone first told me what an open relationship was, i thought they were joking. its crazy some people live like this

[@yonaMISC]

@Lil Queerdoe naah 😬

[@yonaMISC]

@Lil Queerdoe HAHAH too bad im not into women

[@yonaMISC]

@Lil Queerdoe ey?

[@yonaMISC]

@@1.8T20V i even know men who try to push it onto their gfs like bro cmon..

[@tommoya7452]

@@yonaMISC you dirty boi he prolly the one slaying these chicks 😮‍💨😂😂

[@Bnmohsen]

*Everyone like Rachel belong to the streets brothers*

[@joemayo1589]

Open relationship = I found some one better than you but i don't know if they like me enough to commit.

[@theoldschooldude5059]

@@kingbael6903 your uncle is weird.

[@theoldschooldude5059]

@@kingbael6903 stop defending degeneracy and people won't be rude to you. This 'open relationship' shite is absolutely cringe and unbased.

[@prideneverdies1001]

@@theoldschooldude5059 Dude his uncle is happy therefore everyone who is not happy getting cheated is wrong, grow up we're in 2020, open your mind!!!

[@joemayo1589]

@@kingbael6903 Is he a swinger? That's a different thing.

[@hakobo2744]

@@kingbael6903 least he’s happy I guess, couldn’t be me though

[@FDatas]

Oh trust me I've done this and it ended up literally like this. I didn't agree at first because I was brought up by a family which NEVER agreed with this open relationship thing. But after seeing that I "might have been too rough" I agreed to open the relationship up. Felt like garbage for 3 weeks because I had felt there was a HUGE breach in the trust between each other. Saw her being w other ppl as well and after a while I pretty much stopped caring, started treating her like a friend instead of my s/o. A while later I met another girl that was actually super cool and I started going out more often. Fast forward 3 weeks later and she felt bad because "she doesn't see me much anymore". I agreed to close the relationship afterwards but it lasted 2 days before I called it off since all the feelings I had for her had vanished long ago. DON'T EVER PROPOSE AND / OR ACCEPT AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP. IT INSTANTLY KILLS THE RELATIONSHIP, NO MATTER WHAT.

[@mittag983]

I hope the other girl is now your devoted girlfriend...

[@stefanomorales2228]

@@mittag983 Hope It too

[@peterv5935]

@@mittag983 would be nice but somehow I doubt

[@FDatas]

@@mittag983 She is! We've been together ever since then, and we're past the honeymoon phase. I think as of now this might be my definitive relationship since we're projecting a ton and planning tons of stuff (some already done).

[@ElsaChan597]

@@FDatas good ending, congrats on the big W king

[@LibLibertyLibertarian]

People who want/accept open relationships don't respect others pr themselves. Stay strong kings!

[@ThatOpinionIsWrong]

If you opt for an open relationship she wants you to be her daddy. Not the kind of daddy that slaps her buns and breaks her choker, but the one that pays for her food, rent, clothes while she brings home guys to bang and pretend that she's still his "little princess".

[@Tempusverum]

🤢 🤮

[@2PJRR]

Really detailed you could of said dad, are u okay bro?

[@justjoking5841]

Nice observation skills. People looking for relationships want usually 2 things : Resources and Intercourse. There is no in-between.

[@moontears3887]

I want both but with one man only lol.

[@99Gara99]

This is so crazy. To me, opening a relationship is a synonym of breaking up

[@candycane1744]

More like cheating

[@BirdaeBlue]

It works for some, it’s not always manipulative

[@Zellkid]

@@BirdaeBlue it's just selfish and everyone who engages in it should be rid of the earth

[@Alex-ft8bs]

@@candycane1744 and what should you do if someone cheats on you? breakup

[@candycane1744]

@@Alex-ft8bs well yeah but I'm saying open relationship is more of a synonym to cheating bc the partner wants a free pass to sleep around

[@jokerpilled2535]

FYI, the people who engage in “open relationships” are also the same people who make fun of single lonely men. They actually think they’re getting the better deal…

[@-whackd]

I never agree to being exclusive to one woman. It's not right for a healthy male with libido who doesn't want to be a provider-slave.

[@bearzdlc2172]

@@-whackd youve never been with a woman or anyone else. you wouldnt be here trying to brag about it and seem awesome and likable if so.

[@catlord9276]

@@bearzdlc2172 yes and this guy probally doesnt know what TRUE love is about

[@ayacyte443]

Where lol

[@jokerpilled2535]

@@-whackd all men feel that way, unfortunately not all men have the privilege of getting their wildest sexual desires met. Unless you’re a part of the elite male subgroup, you need to settle for the best possible option.

[@akbarramadhan2691]

And you know what ? If she suggests an open relationship and you refuse, she automatically became a victim of toxic possessive patriarchal boyfriend. And all her friends will suddenly hate you for what you’ve done to her

[@orangutex468]

dont complain it will make the situation worse

[@DarkKnight-db1dy]

best thing is to politely break up with her, use gaslighting if required but do it, as it will save you from the potential hazards that would come if you don't

[@arturnorge6875]

who cares about that?

[@ptasznik5973]

If she starts proposing shit like that the only resonable reaction is to break up so at this stage you should never care about manipulation like this

[@fredjung]

They aren't your friends so you shouldn't care about them.

[@buttertool6211]

ah open relationships, basically a wonderful example of wanting to have your cake and eat it too

[@CarbonGod666]

Ok

[@-whackd]

I never agree to be exclusive, it is not right for men

[@mittag983]

@@-whackd Open doesn't work either.

[@carlosjavier771]

@@-whackd Well guess I'm not a man anymore by that logic.

[@roguedoge2479]

Yeah I *knew* a friend that does open-relationships… where she was the only one allowed to see other people. She’s controlling and anytime her boyfriend talks to another girl she gets moody and jealous. Looks absolutely miserable to be in. She’d text me upset that she was crying and having a panic attack because her “boyfriend” casually talked to a girl for five minutes while she sleeps around, completely oblivious to how he must feel. We don’t talk anymore.

[@mittag983]

That's why both just stay closed. One will always get hurt.

[@TheoTungsten]

Keep an eye on her, both online and in real life. Warn any boyfriend she has.

[@Devilman45ls1]

i don't want to believe some people actually have this kind of relationship

[@riteshjadhav1382]

@@kingbael6903 exactly

[@joao_1986]

Me neither, but barely anything surprises me at this point..

[@pepelefrog1121]

Liberal socialists created this shit in the last decade and now they pretend they have nothing to do about it. Its so sad.

[@maximilianoferrer6841]

I used to play D&D, one of the players was married but had an open relationship.

[@Labyrinth6000]

Redditors

[@yatarookayama8329]

0:04 Of course they are from California !

[@Jakobbeazley]

Bro hating in first 4 seconds 😂😂

[@Schizonibba]

Open relationships means someone gets to have sex and the other gets to cry itself to sleep

[@EvTheWeebslayer]

“I think our relationship is missing something” So instead of finding the missing something with your partner, you decide to become the town bicycle.

[@evi5619]

town bicycle is too much.

[@B3an01]

@@evi5619 town unicycle

[@MrLove717]

​@@evi5619city bicycle!!

[@r.1.336]

What do we call it when a man sleeps around ?

[@r.1.336]

Or do we not shame men for there sex lives ? Lol odd

[@caitlynvayne435]

That. Was. Difficult. To. Watch. While I was watching, I went from experiencing cringey feelings to downright misery. How could someone put themselves in this kind of situation?

[@deusvult9439]

I stopped at 1min too much to handle ngl

[@verychristianboi3584]

Fear

[@makutas-v261]

Abuse

[@lordakiasantiago7562]

Fear to loneliness

[@icognitoblackmatter4973]

I hate the concept of open realtionahips. My ex boyfriend always tried to convince me to have a threesome with another girl but I never wanted to. It made me feel so uncomftable and I didn't understand why he wanted it so badly. After sometime I found out he was texting girls on tinder without me knowing. I felt so betrayed and heartbroken. I felt like I wasn't enough for him and I suddenly had a really low self esteem. To this day I have a phobia of open realtionships and sex involving more than two people because this experience traumatised me so much.

[@FeLix-kj9hm]

Open relationship always ends with the female getting sex and it's most likely never the guy asking for the open relationship

[@torachan23]

That’s exactly what simps deserve

[@FeLix-kj9hm]

@@torachan23 I agree, if you base youe self-worth on what someone else thinks of you then you need a rude awakening

[@user-nf9xm7is3m]

Your opinion would differ if you were a lesbian on tinder lol. The amount of "unicorn hunters" on there is so freaking annoying and yes, I'd say a good majority of the time it's the guys idea.

[@aaaaZa100]

I’ve always seen the opposite

[@ThunderArchangel098]

An Open relationship is like sharing food with a starving dude

[@victorjun2421]

Open relationships means wanting to have the benefits of being single and being engaged without the responsibilities of neither. A lack of commitment can only lead to failure.

[@hbc431]

cant imagine anything worse than an open relationship

[@zenraloc]

A Shard of glass in your eurethra You lack imagination. Never pick up an art/music/writing hobby

[@NeoFromXbox]

@@zenraloc holy shit

[@championgundyr1092]

idk man, losing all of your limbs sounds pretty bad

[@TheShineSpark]

TWO open relationships

[@Stayler17]

How about me dragging you to my basement tying you up. And torturing you in the most horrendous ways possible for days until your body fails and you die? I can actually imagine many things worse than an open relationship.

[@alexanderluna895]

So far I've had two relationships (one in HS and another in my early 20's) where the girl wanted to go out with other boys but would either threaten to stab me or threaten to hire someone to kill me if they saw me with another girl. Guys really, get out of these type of relationships asap.

[@Gaius_Julius_Caesar_Augustus]

Did u ever tell the cops

[@honkhonk6359]

That was excruciatingly painful. Your most transgressive and based video to date. Incredible work, keep it up

[@DonRoyalX]

Hahaha this had me cracking up. Seeing the boxers laying around. The ending with the herd leaving. One of his best yet for sure.

[@pokiepoke91]

@@DonRoyalX the cuck though it's only 1 dude, and it's actually a herd LOL!!

[@blocky074]

I’d rather die a virgin than be in an open relationship 💀

[@iamcleaver6854]

That is Escobar's axiom in its finest...

[@dhruvil2005]

What is open relationship

[@blocky074]

@@dhruvil2005 the video explains it

[@pastaboy9371]

Amen

[@3HorsemenOfMovingPictures]

Same💀

[@nicolaspolychronopoulos5766]

“We have their full consent to monetize their horror story” lmao 😂😂

[@Jacknife17shadows]

Remember if a girl ask you to be in an open relationship just open it all the way. Call her for sex and only sex like all the others do.

[@evi5619]

Idk abt that

[@marshvif]

to be fair, that's probably what most of these "relationships" end up being like

[@davidmays8974]

As long as no one is hurt I don't understand what's wrong with it.

[@davidmays8974]

@HasekilerinHasekisi No u.

[@lula221h]

I've actually seen this happen, girl I knew from work wanted an open relationship and started messing around once the boyfriend said he was ok with it. As soon as the boyfriend found a girl she immediately said she felt bad and asked to close it. Don't undersell yourself kings, if she asks for an open relationship just leave, they'll very likely do it behind your back after a while if you deny it.

[@fumothfan9]

Nah BF should've said okay then when he met the other girl; broken up with the old one. Imo if people want open relationships say yes and gather evidence. Then find someone else. Once they see you got game too and their meal ticket is walking away they wanna close it off. Then you flake for the new gf whose a much better well adjusted person. If the ex wants to sue or whatever for anything (property, money, kids, etc.) use the evidence and basically waltz away scott free. Lets face it Open relationship are a ticking time bomb that cannot be defused. At least if you notice it early enough you can better prepare for the fallout afterwards. The time bomb was already planted aka she already cheated or let you go mentally and emotionally and wants to cheat. May as well make a pre-emptive strike before she hits you with "I'm leaving you for X person" "I wanna close it off i don't want you with other girls" "Then break up. You're not mature enough for me or us".

[@lighlotus117]

I'm so happy to see the top comments. I've been hearing more and more about open relationships and how people think cheating is okay and its been driving me crazy. Made me feel like I was a dumb boomer on crazy pills and the world wasn't going to hell but is already there. Top Comment Bros, you give me hope for the world.

[@adibtianto4757]

Not many people think open relationship is ok, but the one who does speak the loudest for some reason.

[@anthonyfernandez82]

Saw this woman on TikTok trying to justify open relationships with " it means you're not insecure and controlling" the mental gymnastics these people use to justify their disloyalty..... It had thousands of likes

[@Cneq]

entire world has gone crazy, the internet and global communication was a mistake lmao [and I say this as a computer science major]

[@Specoups]

Most open relationships are not created to fullfill equal needs of both partners. Most of the time, they are only the result of one partner selfishly imposing his desires on the other. Most of the time, the one who is at the initiative of the opening knows deep down that her/his partner suffers from it, that she/he and only accepted it out of the fear of breaking up; but the initiator mostly chooses to ignore it to fulfill his/her lust while the partner gets nothing, and progressively loses the only bond he had. The initiator then proceeds to never address the issue and as a result emotionnaly entrap his/her partner, guilt tripping by putting the blame of the issue on the partner in case the latter officialises the break up... Most of the time, it's also women doing it because they don't have any trouble getting attention from men. Most men don't try it because they know fully well they have to work their asses off to date and get laid, so it's out of question for most of them. They'd rather stay with their girl instead of risking to lose everything. There are couples out there who have a quite "open" relationship that works for them, but they are only a tiny minority. Most of them end up tragically because of what I explained. Opening a relationship is possible, but only if you actually CARE about what your partner is experiencing, and only if you SHARE the pleasure of it. Opening a relationship to fuck around BY YOURSELF and live nice social experiences ONLY WITH OTHERS while leaving your partner behind is not being open, it's just unilateraly leaving the couple without notice and without admitting it.

[@tienla8430]

All*.

[@AndreMalraux20341]

Pretty accurate, I guess. I met only one person who did have an open relationship: his girlfriend was using his relationship to live in his flat while fucking the flatmate. What a non-toxic, open-minded and modern relationship 🥰🥰

[@mittag983]

That's why I don't want my boyfriend to get a female roomate. I know how this game works. I'm not controlling. I just know too much...

[@Pero-zl4jp]

@@mittag983 balkan girls are normally controlling but this is very fair. That’s a game I hope you and I never find ourselves in...

[@Animescene23]

@@mittag983 i hate how hard it is to trust people nowadays, its like most people can't control themselves

[@specterknight430]

@@Animescene23but they should be able to. I’m not an adult yet but I do find it stupid to do something like that. I feel like if you have lost feelings for that person then you should tell them, not cheat.

[@austinkline8695]

People don’t realize this is the kind of trauma that can lead someone to commit an act of violence.

[@lordakiasantiago7562]

Or suicide

[@marshvif]

facts

[@HonkeyKong54]

I'd shoot at both of them if I came home to that. Not to kill but to get the f out.

[@terribletallrus6520]

I understand how this can be traumatising but I don't think it should justify violence. But I can appreciate how difficult it must be to deal with.

[@marshvif]

@@terribletallrus6520 he never said it justified it

[@SleepyMatt-zzz]

I've had friends try being in an "open relationship", turns out the person suggesting it was already cheating on their partner. Who would have guessed? It's just cheating with permission.

[@A-TALKING-TOASTER]

There was one open relationship that almost worked but some jealous b@_#_ ruined it all trying to manipulate folks

[@SleepyMatt-zzz]

@@A-TALKING-TOASTER That usually ends up being the problem with open or polyamorous relationships. Most people don't like sharing.

[@anwaralexander3035]

An ex Gf asked me if we could do an open relationship. I agreed that evening! One day later, I told her I was gonna be going out with another girl that night, 1 hour later my ex gf was in my room complaining about not wanting an open relationship. I cancelled the date and continued the relationship for another year until the breakup. Know your worth guys! They don't want open once you are fairly attractive.

[@nonamej1591]

I would've ditched here then and there and called her a slut whore.

[@senseicho7856]

"Know your worth guys!" Mf you just agreed with the open relationship, what kind of worth do you have?

[@standingappa1160]

@@senseicho7856 Not only that. He then spend a full year dating her, while she was most likely getting her back blown out by another dude. But hey "know your worth guys"

[@reviewspiteras]

"lets forget about OUR past adventures" "I didn't have any" I keked so hard

[@lasgio_]

@@kingbael6903 how are you defending open relationships when you haven't been in any relationship ar all?

[@guilhermehank4938]

Gaslighting in its highest form. The "we were both wrong" narcissist excuse

[@MrSadSmileyFace]

@@kingbael6903 bro ur in almost every section defending open relationships, and you’ve never even been in one? Holy shit you’re sad

[@mittag983]

@@kingbael6903 I swear once you get into an relationship you won't like an open realationship anymore. I thought the same before I entered the hell hole of open realationships.

[@mittag983]

@@guilhermehank4938 My boyfriend. He's a low value narcissist lol. He always says that when he messes up.

[@santiagoserna4]

I really loved the detail of the guy being leaned and bend while the girl was sitting with her full back pressed against the seating recliner. It shows how he is the insecure and ruled-over individual in the hypotetical couple.

[@tibedog5629]

A female friend of mine in her early 20s just broke up with her boyfriend after them being together with a year because HE talked her into being in an open relationship because HE thought that he would get various girls and it'd be a 'not cheating' sort of thing. Instead she was getting all the interest in other guys and he got super jealous and started to control her, not even letting her spend time with non sexual male friends. So she had to dump him. It was his idea after all an he was getting upset because no girls were giving him attention yet she was getting messages from guys she had no interest in.

[@mittag983]

That's the same that happened to me. My boyfriend was so stupid. He knew he ain't no Chad. And I'm average so I at least can get a Chad once in 5 months. He won't get any Stacy ever

[@matterking1]

This is ironic and well deserved

[@NiVoldiza]

Hello female.

[@Silvia-qz1tp]

@@NiVoldiza hello male/female/whatever gender u are

[@hillsideonly]

@@mittag983 this is brutal, but I know a pretender when I see one

[@TheShaitan2000]

Did someone else beside me had this experience? My gf from that moment came home after work while I was just chilling on the pc and she suggested me to do this because she has being thinking about it to spice things up. I swear to god I am the most oblivious man on the planet, but when that moment happened I just broke up with her in seconds. Like I just couldn't hold myself. Its like my brain actually understood right away 'I have being cheating on you but its too much trouble to hide it'. Funny how she was instantly raging on me when I should have been the one reacting like that. Was a funny moment tho.

[@communisticorganism3416]

How was the aftermath? She try getting back with you or apologizing?

[@epicgamerevang4502]

@Mr. M i dont think calling someone an awful human being just from their relationship problems is fair

[@epicgamerevang4502]

@Mr. M Good for you? still don’t think calling someone an awful human being over relationship problems is fair

[@epicgamerevang4502]

@Mr. M some people suck at relationships and are in the wrong about a situation if it dosent work dont date them, dosent make someone an awful human being

[@davidsantoso2291]

​@@epicgamerevang4502 Cheating is literally one of the most emotionally abusive things a human can do. If you cheat, then you're a garbage human being, no matter the situation or circumstances.

[@garry693]

The fact that there are some actual human beings that think open relationships are a good idea… (I know some irl)

[@toxicgracie3772]

For me and my bf, it's great 😃 Although we usually share via threesomes. Either way, it's not something we do often and our love in bed together is completely different from the swinging sleep overs 😅

[@garry693]

@@mrwho4755 yeah dude you sound like the type of guy who would let other people smash your gf

[@garry693]

@@mrwho4755 dude imo open relationships are weird, from your point they are not weird. das it

[@toxicgracie3772]

@@garry693 I love my open relationship, but I respect your opinion and thoughts. Why can't we all just get along?

[@garry693]

@@toxicgracie3772 i can sorta see it working but isn’t the whole point of a relationship is 2 people loving each other? Plus I have no idea how do you even explain this to your kids….

[@alexitopro9999]

Open relationships suck bro, one day you could be doing the deed with yo girl and then next day 5 black men are doing the deed with yo girl 💀

[@fiat_ow7876]

Lmao

[@toxxicbangerz]

“I want an open relationship” “Let’s take ‘a break’” “He’s just a friend, baby” All have the same energy.

[@WillThat]

Yeah, my ex wife pulled the "he's just a friend" and suggested a "break." I wasn't waiting around for the "open" relationship. It's all disingenuous.

[@toxxicbangerz]

@@WillThat Glad she’s you’re Ex now 🤴🏾

[@asseylum_2.012]

Open relationship is the new friend with benefits. The perk is you can finally take their money without guilty.

[@melancholy1047]

Do you get into a relationship to get your partner's money?

[@asseylum_2.012]

@@melancholy1047 well yes. Fwb is purely 'body' transaction. None of both side will have anything to do with each other beside in bed.

[@charles-valentinalkan5681]

@@melancholy1047 why not? Use them as long as they can provide something and after there's nothing left, leave.

[@davidsantoso2291]

@@melancholy1047 only if it's an open relationship. Why else would you watch your girl getting railed by a bunch of guys while paying for all her expenses lol

[@vangoghsseveredear]

I remember my ex said she wanted an open relationship. But not for her, just for me to sleep with other women. She didn't think she could satisfy me and felt bad about it or some such. This is a dream scenario for some dudes. I said no. That our society pushes this so much is going to have disastrous results.

[@SQUELCH-zj7il]

Damn what did you do to make her so insecure?

[@michaelatlas2341]

I just hope the story is fake, because if not, poor girl. Not a dig at you.

[@108chapin]

She wanted you to go first so she could do it guilt-free. first step towards the break-up.

[@cbou713]

@@108chapinsome people have insecurities, not everyone is out to get you.

[@108chapin]

@@cbou713 nobody is out to get me, been happily with the same girl for more than five years. Bad read on an internet stranger, you'll get the next one though.

[@shl9322]

When a woman say she want an open relationship what she really want to say is : " I want to get what you can’t give me from other men and you will still be with me and provide for me even if I get pregnant with an other man child " 🤷‍♂️🗿🙂

[@vsevolodd391]

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