Oprah In Conversation with Viola Davis | Oprah's Book Club #95 | Finding Me

[@bacheera1]

"When it comes down to disappointing yourself or disappointing other people, choose other people." For someone who likes to put other people's need first all the time, that quote from Viola Davis helps!

[@Bobbcee]

This is one of the most POWERFUL book I’ve ever read. Viola’s writing was so impactful, RAW, vulnerable and beautiful! I loved it!

[@johnsoncarter104]

Viola's book is so heart wrenching, heartfelt and full of inspiration. God bless!

[@gorsamvel2723]

One of the most impressive biographies I’ve ever read! She cuts you through and lays down bare truths about the violence we go through but also the chances of healing the life is also generous with

[@stephanieclark-castro6981]

Listened to this book on audible it was captivating I didn’t want to stop listening. Viola is a true queen and very talented and resilient woman. #Woman warrior

[@lovingme1st973]

This is a must read for black women. Oh God how I thank you for letting her this memoir it's so needed.

[@GardensFlowers-f7k]

I just love Ms. Viola Davis! ❤ Thanks Ms. Oprah❤

[@TheGayStoic]

Viola is a modern day alchemist! her vulnerability freed me in many ways. thank you ma'am.

[@ArielTionna]

I’m 14 and am Inspired but Ms. Davis everyday. I’m currently reading her book and I’m loving it so far…Loved this whole video

[@r.r911]

Viola is so beautiful - inside and out. Great book!

[@Takisanti]

I bought the audio book. If you haven't yet, you must! Her narration of the book is the best I have ever heard. There's so much emotions and playfulness in her voice that you forgot she's reading from her book. When she bust out her school anthem in song i was literally LOL. I love her from all her movies and now I love her even more for her life story. One of the best audio book I've ever had the pleasure of listening to. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us and thank you Oprah for highlighting this book.

[@Mgh-r]

Thank you all dear viola and ........ all❤❤❤❤❤

[@khololunjenorexe5461]

I am so glad that I found this video. I feel so inspired this morning. Thank you Oprah Winfrey and Viola Davis for this message. ❤

[@juliewilliams1441]

I love Viola Davis. She’s such a good soul & strong spirit!

[@windowjumping1121]

I listened to this book and it’s a masterclass🥹what a story. I thought I loved her before but now I understand what a gift her light is to the world❤️‍🔥

[@trayshana]

LOVED the book. Viola is a MASTERPIECE

[@PhyllisEllison]

I enjoyed this moment with you Mrs. Viola. You are a pillar of joy, strength, beauty and authenticity, such a refreshing gem and spirit. You are beautiful from the inside outside and sexy! Embrace it and feel it And Oprah thank you for giving this Queen her moment and being captivated by her life story in listening with true interest. ~ Your Other Dark and Lovely Sista🌷🦚🌱

[@ginalipkin4849]

I listened to Viola reading out her book as an audio book Finding Me, I love the tools she has created to survive and find herself, I love the discussion and connections, thank you ❤

[@PushThruJourney]

I am proud of the strength of Black Woman. Thank you for making me the man I'm today!❤️

[@deannamadrigal7503]

Listening to this was beautiful. It was your soul that needed this experience... I say this because what Viola shared, that at 28 she was seeing a therapist. Between 28 and 29 1/2 years we go through are 1st Saturn return. Astrologically this is huge. Funny that your putting this book out at age 58. The start of are 2nd Saturn return. Great interview Thanks Blessings to all you beautiful ladles 🙏💕🦋

[@babygirl4949]

Her book was soooo good. I’m so glad I bought it and own it and didn’t just rent it. So worth the money.

[@Valuofnature]

Yes! That's my power; my head and my heart. Thanks Mrs Davis

[@cynthiawills8944]

I love Viola, her book was inspirational and she is one of my favourite actors to watch truly amazing.

[@divagirllove3977]

Viola is a force of nature. Long live Viola Davis!! ;)

[@iamliazai94]

Both of you are when intelligence & elegance meet. This made my day! May you continue to share your wisdom with the world for many years to come. Happy Birthday Oprah ❤️🎁

[@khloecalala7606]

Thank you Viola and Oprah for this book topic/ positive message! I wish everyone who gone through trauma of any kind to live longer to know why they went through what they went through! I can’t wait to write my own book 📕 as well! It will take me ages but it will happen in Jesus name 🙏

[@ellg3441]

I just love Viola's honesty and confidence. 😍I will definitely be ordering that book 📖 on Amazon.

[@denizericardi2285]

Beautiful. Beautiful. Beautiful. Thanks a million. A big hug from Brazil. ❤

[@sparkle3000]

Thank you Ms. Oprah Winfrey for teaching this ♒ woman how to deal with haters with grace and class. Happy Birthday my love. 🥳 🎊 You help so many people. They stay mad. You stay winning! 🙏 ✝️ You are a gem. 🌎 💎💜 💎

[@gpinkard]

Thank you for your transparency, Mrs. Viola Davis. Getting to know the woman you are is a beautiful, inspiring journey.

[@monacannon6644]

Love this! This was great on so many levels. Can't wait to read it. Thank you Oprah and Viola.

[@citizenforfun]

18:50 - 18:53 The sage is not sick but she is sick of sickness. Thank you all for sharing your enriching perspectives and living wisdom :)

[@sheenestevez6710]

I am not much of a book reader, but this discussion moves me to buy the book.

[@juraygreene]

hmmm, I so love Viola's reference to the attribution of beauty. My mother especially would tell us girls we were beautiful but she NEVER dwelt on that as a useful quality and so I developed the values that Viola mentioned, the most important of all is resilience, high self esteem, and being a competent (useful) human being... and not needing to be liked, (permission) to forge your path in life.

[@debrahjean0927]

I love and respect Viola ❤ I will read the book. Thank you O and V.

[@tammied1858]

I agree Viola 🌹- push back until you get the response that sits well with you. Oprah🌹

[@TheName963]

This is crazy! I just finished reading her book today and this just popped up when I was scrolling!

[@KayDaHrGuy]

I finished the book and I came to KZbin for reviews on it.

[@yeshiworkgashu3192]

It is very nice when you have the chance to visit in back in time of your pain❤ I thought you don’t find yourself but you creat yourself because you still there.

[@Mgh-r]

Hiiiiiiii dear Oprah ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 welcome back ❤❤❤

[@mariadawson8503]

Oh yeah, I'll be buying this book. Let me log into Amazon right now!!

[@missywatson8431]

What an amazing woman 🥰

[@Eli-oz8mo]

Oh Viola, I'd love to be in your circle ❤❤❤

[@Benito-fn4ip]

Great interview...(Of course)...Viola and Oprah...Wow!..My experience and an important realization taught in a spirituality workshop in CA 40 yrs ago, it is important to heal and recognize the emotions of the inner child. Listen to that child and communicate in meditation.

[@michaelreyes744]

I’d love to see Latina American or Canadian, Indigenous, Asian American or Asian Canadian, Indo American or Canadian, Arab American or Canadian, Jewish Canadian or American women included in these conversations. So fascinating. I Love Viola so much 🫶🏽💜🫶🏽💜🫶🏽

[@Jay85_38]

This book is so so so good. A must read

[@thamilton007]

I love Viola Davis, thank you, Oprah♥️

[@asinn2020]

One day, you will tell the story of how you overcame what you went through... It will become someone else's survival guide.

[@AndreaHunt-yk5do]

Inspirational!!!!! God is good 🙌🙏

[@Akeswill]

I love this I want to join the book club

[@AngelicaFWhite]

The strength to be ourselves to wear our marks with pride. We are alive we overcame we still can dream.

[@Aplaceformermaids]

"Omg, this is a lifelong journey- you need to give me my money back!" haha 🤣❤

[@jamielunes1841]

Sip and read ❤

[@Unique77783]

I enjoyed this video! I will be reading the book as well.

[@dakotac180]

Viola is so gorgeous and an inspiration.

[@sandrakillett9242]

💯💯💯Loving you Ms. Viola👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🎉🎉🎉💕💕❤❤

[@tinagaston8715]

VIOLA, I LOVE ❤ YOUR BRAVERY, YOUR STRENGTH, & YOUR POWER THAT YOU ARE USING & HAVE USED TO OVERCOME ALL THE ADVERSITY IN YOUR LIFE! ❤ BLACK WOMEN ROCK! YOU ROCK! THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING THE TRUTH, SPEAKING YOUR TRUTH, & STANDING TALL/BOLD TOWARDS THE TRUTH! MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU OVER AND OVER AGAIN! 🙌🏾👏🏾🙏🏾❤️ REMEMBER MY MOTTO (WORK SMART NOT HARD) I HOPE I MEET YOU 1 DAY ON YOUR BOOK SIGNING TOUR! MAKE SURE YOU VISIT MONTGOMERY, ALABAMA BOOKSTORE OR A SURROUNDING CITY NEAR MONTGOMERY, ALABAMA SO I CAN GET MY BOOK SIGNED BY YOU! 😊 HOLLA, TINA G. V.I.P.💖 SHOUTING OUT ALL THE WAY FROM MONTGOMERY, ALABAMA AKA THE GUMP AKA MONKEY TOWN ❤️

[@DonnaHall8117]

Love Love Viola Davis ❤ I felt a lot of the same things growing up

[@AlisonDavies-vj9un]

Opera you're just going along with what the lovely viola is saying

[@deeprincess3159]

❤Thanks for sharing I'm a poet I write thought provoking poetry and a musician stay blessed

[@crownroyalcateringandevent7149]

Omg I just launched my book , Finding me. Didn’t know someone else had one out there.

[@kaythereader]

Jamise!!! Wonderful to see her!

[@michaelreyes744]

Canada in the casa!!! 🇨🇦 🇺🇸 🇨🇦

[@MomTube-i9w]

So glad she wrote rhat book.

[@lehmanxo]

God made us all exactly how we are to be. Black is beautiful and I don’t wanna know where North America would be without the influence and deliverance of black culture ❤

[@flickrebeat8936]

I agree with what she said about Friendships are honest No, cause me and My Friends are Very Passive will Leading each other gently not being Disrespectful to each other

[@elisataylor-carthon5450]

Viola, Viola...❤❤❤

[@michaelreyes744]

Chose other people all the time!!! 🤯🥰😃

[@sandrakillett9242]

Amen!❤

[@stephanieawuah]

This was good

[@Imgonnaswingby]

Personally, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The beholder first is me. If what my presentation is, is unbecoming to me then it is unbecoming. When I can change it, then I will. For those who can't change whatever they see as unbecoming of themselves then leave it in God's hands. What can you do?

[@meewannabe2525]

She tried to hide her Superpower but the saw it!🤩

[@ginalipkin4849]

I bought her audio book where she reads it herself

[@AnthonyStewart-e8z]

👁️just 🧡the 💩out of Viola Davis..........and that hardy Black Lady laugh 🥰🤗👊

[@SFoureman]

The most pivotal, profound thought shared was Viola's eight-year old self identifying the term of abuse that she was experiencing, as a dark skinned Black girl deemed "ugly" by society = the term, erasure. The gift of such recognition to identify this anomaly, at such a young age---shifted her to the powerhouse that she is! She was lead to believe that she wasn't gonna get by in life with a wink and a smile; but, that her course of action would be to become skilled, crafted, smart, and worthy. ...and boy, has she done that! Erasure. This term reflects centuries of racism piled upon her little eight-year old self. Erasure. ...and, the toxic, neglectful, abuse she's talked about. Erasure. ...and, the patriarchal misogyny she's experienced. Erasure. ...being systemically and repeatedly dismissed for a lifetime. Her words and experiences touch the issue of centuries old racism. It, also, addresses the universal sicknesses that have gone on for too long in this world. How bright her star has always shined.

[@trifree]

Viola, what made you decide to write the book and do you still keep in touch with the counselor that gave you the info for the program. What would you say to little Viola now? Loved the book!

[@englishblade]

beautiful hair

[@beachsunshineapril]

Oprah - tell me about that sweater. Did someone knit it for you? I want one.

[@oopooperistavi]

I will say one thing, we should not define people by the color of their skin, we are all one. It is not a burden that people of different skin color are oppressed, no! They are just like white skinned people. They are the same people.Yes , they are... Its not like how we look and we are bulled from someone, no, we have to say how good and good looking we are, yes, we have to look ourself positive and that is what helps everybody and us too...... I work in a dental office and I have a lot of patients who are of different skin colors, I will say one thing, people who are different colors skin they are very warm.people .... I love Viola Davis and i will say that she is a like a Meryl Streep, she is beautiful , she is profesional and good actress i love her very much.

[@dijaworldworld3895]

Oprah’s um when Viola said the women in her life are basically not perfect. Love you Viola

[@dineochaka309]

What is the definition of good looking? What is pretty? Which standards do we define pretty. Regards Dineo Jeanette Chaka Kutumela with Thato Mpho Jamilla Kutumela and Tebogo Mpholo Kutumela ZA

[@SOI-wl2lo]

They re-did that interview- the last one with just them two was a little :S from Ms O’s side 😂

[@nspirationaltreasure]

❤❤❤

[@IlariaAcarrdi]

❤️🙏🏼

[@Mgh-r]

👌👏👏👍👍🙏💖❤

[@LieveLeysen-Discover-]

🙏🏻💖😇

[@jazzyflorida3757]

Oprah came on natural for Viola. Hair looks good child.

[@HeidiBreuer-Gross-fz8hk]

Maxine. You are beautiful!!

[@user-yg3dy8ei5u]

❤

[@Gavin_Gavalli]

16:05 I learned in 2023

[@Imgonnaswingby]

Finding your value from others is demeaning. They never know your worth.

[@LeslieJeanineArris1]

🎉❤so beautiful. I can not understand, but yes, I can.The blind can not see .You Ms.Davis are all kinds of mahogany gorgeous. All of you🎉.Picture our father Elohim making ugly just because😳 .I do not believe so.

[@Ifethomas]

I read ‘Finding Me’ a couple of years ago, and it profoundly impacted me with its powerful storytelling. As a dark-skinned black woman, the vivid scenes resonated deeply, bringing back many memories. One story that particularly struck me was about the caring teacher - a figure of support and inspiration. This echoes in my work; when I speak in schools, I always remember the transformative power of words. I end each talk with a mantra inspired by this book: ‘Never give up, never give up on yourself. I see you and I believe in you.’ These words are a beacon of hope, especially for those in the audience who may lack support or financial backing at home. ‘Finding Me’ reminds us all of the impact we can have, one student at a time. 🫶🏾

[@AlisonDavies-vj9un]

The same can be said about a white woman , I'm sorry but we can be white we can be ugly and walk in a room the same things said , it's not about colour . I love viola Davis she so very, very talented , so I'd like to say I'm not a hater and I am definitely not a racist, we are all the same either beautiful or not.

[@sakinagouram5752]

jadoooore

[@Beautyof_autumn]

Viola Davis. That's it

[@AlisonDavies-vj9un]

Fed up of it all ,rich powerful Hollywood get away with murder.Enough is Enough.

[@jamesmarie]

She got her EGOT.

[@MsSweetmademoiselle]

I wonder if her experience is what led her to adopt a lighter skin child …

[@turquoisepurple7sky151]

The government gave her the child. When adopting you are not really able to choose. Now, I think you aee projecting your ills with lightskinned

[@KathyBlock-e6c]

Boycott the spin

[@TheSingingMystic87]

No more purple fits, huh? 😂 yeah I wouldn’t wear it ever again if I were you