Our first holiday abroad since my [MTF] TRANSITION | EP. 15 | The Blake Debate

[@marenbrown5072]

Hey Alexis, I'm not trans, but I AM 5'10" with a size 11 foot and the biggest hands I've ever seen, and I totally relate to the staring and feeling a bit uncomfortable with how people will react to me. You're beautiful inside and out, I'm so appreciative of and honored by your vulnerability. Thank you for trusting us. ❤️

[@FRAME5RS]

I'm only 5'8" but have size 11 feet. Not the smallest hands either. I don't think anyone stares at me over my feet but I often catch myself in a store window reflection or something out in public and think "your feet look like you could be wearing the shoe boxes"!! It is what it is. B

[@princessbubbles9222]

I relate so much to this! I'm a 5'11 woman with Size 9 ( UK )

[@Rebwell]

@@FRAME5RS😂 bless you, that was hilarious 💗

[@s4di.3]

This is kinda what I was thinking about watching this! There are biological women who are tall/larger than most women are. If I met Alexis in person without prior knowledge she was trans, I’d probably just assume she’s a larger woman

[@amaxolotl-l3s]

I’m a woman, I generally notice trans women. I’m so pleased that they’re out living their best lives. I always see it as an opportunity for a smile and a compliment and hope it brightens up their day just a little.

[@MarthaAnthony]

I wanted to say the same. Just because someone clocks you doesn't mean they don't like you (: I'd be wondering how you are so good at doing hair when I had a lot of years' headstart and am hopeless lol.

[@CharliStar]

This is me too!! 😊

[@CharliStar]

@@WakandaleezaRazz based on what Alexis looked like in her shown holiday reel - I reckon people weren’t clocking her at all - I think they were probably just staring at a beautiful woman….. (because it’s hard not to…!!)

[@Ilive_420]

​@@CharliStar Yeah same 😅. Now I wonder if I've made any trans women uncomfortable bc I stared (I'm a woman but I stare at pretty women bc I admire their style etc. 😆)

[@CharliStar]

@@Ilive_420 next time you think that, just a comment over liking their outfit/hair/etc - it will make them feel comfortable and accepted ☺️

[@klg4zy]

Alexis I totally relate to being aware of your surroundings. That’s something almost all of us women have to do!

[@cemccrea]

Welcome to womanhood! None of us like swimsuit shopping!😂

[@meredithchapman2009]

Amen.

[@carolynbrubaker1619]

Just what I was thinking.LOL Alexis, yep you've transitioned. Sounds exactly like what 90% of us go through when trying on bikinis. As for people clocking you...are you sure they didn't just recognize you???

[@solsticearts3393]

Absolutely! She’s far braver than me. Would have to pay me a million bucks to wear one in public.

[@BloodSweatandFears]

I know right! 😂

[@alexiacandy9999]

@@meredithchapman2009he is not a woman. Thats a man and will always be a man

[@cas4014]

Hi Alex and Liam, a big hello from Darwin Australia. You are both so chilled and honest about who you both are. It's easy to see that you both care very deeply for each other. I love your podcast. I love the truth telling and truth sharing conversations. I'm an oldie, however your experiences will definitely help young people and their families as they go through their journey. God bless you both. ❤

[@justjulia8007]

Being hyper aware is an absolute necessity in the world we live in, unfortunately.. I can’t relate to being trans but I can 100% relate to feeling extremely uncomfortable in new surroundings. Love hearing about your experiences, you both make me smile! ❤

[@christywilson986]

A word of wisdom I am borrowing from someone else, Don't worry about what other people think about you, it's none of your business. And yes I often have to remind myself, but it certainly helps under some circumstances.

[@Alexis_blake00]

Liam's said his Nan used to say this exact thing to him all the time when he was feeling the same way! x

[@christywilson986]

@@Alexis_blake00 sometimes I have to remind myself.

[@That80sChild]

It is so true that most people couldn't care less what you are wearing or what you look like. I have been overweight most of my life and I constantly think people are snickering or saying things. 99.9% of the time, they don't know I even exist. I love your channel, both of you are so cute and I'm so glad you had a great holiday ❤😊

[@Alexis_blake00]

Aww thank you so much - yeah I need to work on it a little bit! Yeah nobody paid any attention at the waterpark and it was lovely x

[@rosemaryjoynson7447]

Women are hyper aware of their surroundings. We subconsciously and consciously risk assess everything.

[@annamossity8879]

Not me, I’m oblivious, I thought it was a guy thing. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@andreagalda28]

I'm guessing lots of people must stare at Liam's tattoos 🤔 I love tattoos, but don't have very many. When I see someone with lots of tattoos, I can't help but look and admire them. Gosh I would love to make friends with a fun couple like you guys when we are on vacation!

[@Alexis_blake00]

Liam always gets checked out hahaha and people always ask him about his face/head tattoos x

[@IamTHEMumma]

I love looking at people's tatts and sorta dating them..........The tatts not the person

[@petitevintageladybug]

You two are such a beautiful couple! Thank you so much for sharing your holiday experience. So fun to hear about.

[@Alexis_blake00]

Our pleasure! And thank you x

[@happymommaa]

@@Alexis_blake00 you guys are too cute ☺️ sounds like you guys had a wonderful time. You both described the trip perfectly, I felt like I was right there. 😁

[@summrflowers7253]

They were only staring because they are not used to seeing such a beautiful woman unless she's on the cover of a magazine! Just keep being you Alexis, you look great.

[@completelycrazy1]

Did you just create an account to specifically crap on transpeople? How obsessive and weird​@@TransadultswithChildsbrains

[@Alexis_blake00]

awww haha thank you! That's too kind

[@Alexis_blake00]

Is that not just really strange of people to do? Like I can literally just block them from the channel - people who comment on this kind of content are clearly searching for it.

[@j5892000]

No. Don't lie. Deal with reality. They can tell thats a guy who thinks they are a woman.

[@j5892000]

​@@Alexis_blake00no. Video get recommend based on other content watched. They might have watched a travel video.. then later this video get recommended. You need to deal with the fact you arnt that important.

[@yogattabreathe7945]

Thank you so much for your content! I needed a break from the political rhetoric in the US. Keep sharing such wonderful content

[@Alexis_blake00]

Yeah its been a week hasn't it - Liam was like 'lets just have a chilled episode this week' x

[@almac7976]

Think that the combo of a stunning 50's pin up girl with a buff tattooed guy is what they were looking at.

[@CarrotsAndOtherVeg]

Alexis you look fantastic, I wouldn’t have clocked you in a bikini. When you’re wearing a bikini people do look, you probably weren’t clocked, people were probably just looking at you looking great. You’ve had one hell of a journey to get where you are. It doesn’t matter who you are, there will always be someone who judges. Hold your head high, be proud, the judgement of others is their problem, not yours.

[@meredithchapman2009]

Total agree with this. She is over thinking it. She was probably being looked at because she is beautiful with or without makeup.

[@miniscenesgb]

Alexis the slight edginess you felt, I feel like that as a regular woman, so that's ok for you to feel that way. Just makes you more womanlike :) We're all self conscious and feel like we're being looked at and worry a little. Hugs you two. I'm glad you had a good holiday

[@miniscenesgb]

also good to see you both all relaxed in your lounge

[@DLFH]

We all have that rearview mirror, self conscious moment where we see what was, but making eye contact with who I am now reminds me to leave that person in the past.

[@Chick4choice]

Here, here to Greek food! Grew up close to Tarpon Springs, Florida and would enjoy every month. Here’s the thing…. You’re not the kind of “transgender” person women are afraid of running into in the toilets or locker rooms. You have fought and worked hard to make your transition complete. Real women aren’t threatened by ladies like you Alexis. Keep living your life and enjoying all the things.

[@annamossity8879]

Alexis, if you didn’t know Tarpon Springs, Florida is a Greek founded city as authentic Greek as you can get in the U.S.! Lovely place! ❤

[@mariamelachroinou3014]

I am so happy you visited my country. I am a Greek woman living in USA,and you are my favorite people on KZbin.You both amazing

[@melissadwiggins]

Other than the accents, y'all make me feel like I'm sitting and talking to friends!😂

[@Alexis_blake00]

good this is how we want it to be - down to earth chat. We are the same in real life x

[@melissadwiggins]

@@Alexis_blake00 I can tell! You're both just beautiful souls! And Liam looks like a tattooed Michael C. Hall!😂😂😂 Love y'all, all the way from Coastal Mississippi!🫂❤️🥰

[@indigoskyholistic]

You guys are awesome. That's such a good point for everyone watching. That most of us are way more interested on our own lives to be staring at others or judging them. So why we think others are judging us is a weird reflection we have. I loved listening to this, keep up the creative life ✨️💜

[@bridgethoskins9809]

If I didn't already just love the two of you, this video would have definitely sealed the deal. Such genuine nice people. I don't care gender, race, or nationality if you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you, or if I'm nice to you and you return it, all is good. There are many more things in this crazy world than people feeling comfortable in their own skin to worry about. If you're happy with you, I'm happy for you. Sending lots and lots of love from the USA 🇺🇸

[@amandaely9983]

You have more confidence as a woman than I have ever had. I’m fat and ugly and hate myself, how do I try to make myself feel better? I eat! I need to love myself as much as I love others xx

[@aprilapril2]

You look beautiful in that photo. You need to have a word with yourself ❤

[@cruel_brittania]

When you were talking about safety issues, my first thought was, I can't wait for the day when as a Trans Woman you don't have to be hyper vigilant for your own safety, but then I realised, you'd still be a woman, and as woman, we have to do the same, especially in a foreign country, we have to know the emergency number, we have to be vigilant of creeps at the pool or the bar. Maybe there will be a day when none of us have to be hyper vigilant, doubtful, but there will definitely be a day where you feel at peace in your body and proud of what it has been through to get you there. We don't talk about it a lot but puberty is so hard as a girl as every can see your body change. I think of a Trans person who transitions as their second puberty, as them growing into their skin and their confidence, every year you will grow more and more comfortable with your body. Us tall, statuesque women are meant to demand attention.

[@danishpastry4277]

Alexis, please, Denmark is a country. I laughed so hard at this 😁

[@natasja1977]

Yes me too. I'm from the Netherlands and i was like what???

[@Alexis_blake00]

ooooopssssssss 🤦‍♀️

[@cruel_brittania]

@@Alexis_blake00 Danish people are from Denmark. The Netherlands has 12 provinces, and the people are called Dutch. The reason you thought it was made up of other countries is because foreigners ( I think mainly Americans ) would refer to The Netherlands as Holland, when Holland is just two of the 12 provinces (North Holland and South Holland).

[@JBSRCS]

😂😘

[@barbarablair3225]

​@rule_brittania2142 don't get me started on explainng Northern Ireland to people! Lol People from the States seem to have the most difficulties in understanding the difference between The Republic of and Northern Ireland.

[@jhutch1681]

Welcome to the club, Alexis! You really do look great - regal and elegant. You make a great woman. Facts about women: 1. we can all be catty 2. we can all be lovely 3. we all hate our bodies at times 4. we are all self conscious 5. we can all think we are all that 6. we can all be paranoid 7. we can all be judgmental 8. bathing suits are the worst! 9. none of our bodies are the same 10. even the models are air brushed 11. some of us are tall and broad with big hands and feet and coarser features and receding hair lines 12. some of us are short, fat, wrinkled, splotchy, fit, jiggly, skinny, flat chested, big busted, flat bottomed, straight hips, saddle bags, etc. 13. none of us is 'perfect' whatever that is according to the fashion of the day 14. we all look in the mirror and see our flaws, real or imagined or remembered 15. we are NOT all beautiful or even particularly 'feminine' When I have wet hair and no make-up I look in the mirror and see a hag! Remember Jim Carey in the Grinch trying on the outfits and vogueing in the mirror before announcing, 'That's it, I am not going!' He could have been one of us. When you talk about getting clocked, I am reminded of my days of nursing my babies in public. I never noticed the stares or cared if someone was looking, but friends took every glance as a judgement. Most often, though, people made nice comments. I think the insecurities most often come from within. Love yourself and no one else matters :) xo

[@amberatartimec2564]

Love this. Great reminder that we're all unique, which makes it the largest commonality

[@tatsf]

Glad to hear that your holiday went well overall! I would say that, similar to Liam, as a gay man who has anxiety I am very conscious of my surroundings, exactly who is around and if they potentially pose any danger. I appreciate that with each segment I feel like I get to know you each a bit more. The dynamic between you is very sweet and I actually *love* that most of the time you are normal "boring" people who watch tv just many of the rest of us! I also very much appreciate that neither of you is constantly snarky or sarcastic as a way to try and be funny as you discuss the issues. Once in a while can be fun but constant reading comes off to me as juvenile, tedious, and mean-spirited. Thanks for the continued content!

[@lisabadell7864]

You look really good! I thought you absolutely rocked those bikinis. Funny thing is there’s a lot of women and girls nowadays that are taller, broader shoulder ladies. I have a feeling you were just blending right in.

[@heathergordon1159]

I am a biological woman, I'm 5"10 big boned hands feet shoulders ect ... plenty of us woman with your build. 😊❤ hugs you are beautiful person inside out ❤

[@survivor4041]

You two are the nicest couple I have had the honor to meet, even if it is only on here. I love the way you two relate to each other. I find your vids very engaging and interesting. You both are so respectful of each other, love it.

[@cecybellard1]

this has literally made my night, feel like im hanging out with you 2

[@Alexis_blake00]

awww good we just like it to be down to earth! x

[@jackevans3480]

I totally agree!

[@AndreeaMihai]

Why did this make me cry? I'm so happy to see people offering a smile to others, we should all be kinder to each other and to ourselves. Love your podcast, you both have such a lovely energy and you seem so in love with each other!

[@SuSan-cn7wc]

I was with my Mom who is 77 yrs young and I showed her this video. She asked me what show it was and I explained it was KZbin. We then had a very healthy discussion about LGTBQ couples, trans men, trans women and gender dysphoria. On her own, she arrived at the place of stating she didn't really understand but that everyone deserves to live happy, they deserve to love and be loved. And then she said "she has beautiful, feminine hands with such long, slim fingers like a pianist". I smiled and thought of how many times Alexis has commented that her hands are masculine but yet others see it differently. It's a good life lesson for everyone....others tend to accept us as the whole package and our perceived flaws are only seen by us. We need to be kinder to ourselves.

[@FRAME5RS]

Yea, no, those are not even close to big hairy knuckly sausage finger man hands - at all.

[@jamieangel3766]

You 2 make such a great couple, I love the dynamic and banter X

[@barbarablair3225]

You and your videos have shown me and many others, I'm sure, that our journeys to womenhood are very similar. The things you talk about are the exact conversations my friends and I were having at sleepovers decades ago. The journey can be difficult at times, but you have a load of friends out here that you've never met. Please lean on us, like smart women lean on each other. Enjoy every moment of your journey. It will go by too fast. You've got this! 🖤🖤🖤

[@annanamoose9943]

"you showed me i have reasons i should love myself" A song by BTS called 'Answer: Love Myself' additional lyrics: The me of yesterday The me of today The me of tomorrow (Woah) (I'm learning how to love myself) With no exceptions, it's all me

[@staceytroffer8287]

I’m a born woman, and I love when a trans person makes the effort to pass. It’s a lot of work to do the makeup, the fashion, the walk, and the mannerisms of the sex of choice. It’s a lot to do!! When someone really tries……..I appreciate it!! And I will give the thumbs up to anyone putting in the effort. GOOD ON YOU!!

[@mikaylajweighill]

I am from the west coast of Canada. I always wear sea shoes. I have sandals made by a company called Keen . they are great you can where them on land and shore

[@carolgrainger8578]

Alexis, you look fantastic in the bikinis, you & Liam are such a lovely couple, you obviously love each other so much & it's so good to see. I recommended your chanel to my granddaughters girlfriend who has started her journey from male to female, you explain things gently & calmly in a way that's easy to understand & I'm sure it would be a help to her. Love to both of you 💖

[@1silkiesmooth]

It takes time, but my mom said at some point in time you will just live life and it will just be life. When I 1st transitioned everything was exciting and scary, but now it is what it is. No more fears ,no worrying who clocks me.

[@mabpixie]

I just love how genuine you both are. I feel like those in your lives are blessed. Greece has always been a place I wanted to see. Sadly it will never happen for me so I love to hear about it and see photos of it. Alexis you are so beautiful and I think that is why so many people look at you. Not because they are clocking you. If I saw you on the street I would not notice that only what a knock out you are. Liam kinda reminds me of my husband. He loves to game and he does a lot of the cooking. I feel like you both are the kind of people we would enjoy hanging out with. If you ever come to the US look us.

[@SarahLB234]

That happens to me very often. I constantly feel like I'm being clocked. It's exhausting. Eventually you just accept that this is going to be your lot in life. Occasionally, you get people that affirm your place in the world and it's really great when that happens.

[@johannafluegge2597]

I've been catching your vacay photos as you posted them & EVERY time I thought to myself, "They both look fantastic!".... please try not to be so hard on yourself. We ALL are our own 'worst enemy'

[@traceyjordan9284]

I think majority of people will be looking at you becaause you look fantastic and I genuinely mean that. You look very striking ❤ x

[@vikkibuchan3450]

Hi Alexis and Liam, As I was listening to your video just now, and as you were talking about when you look in the mirror, I thought I would share a part of my story on that. I started transitioning in August of 2014, but my journey began back in primary 2, I remember it was break time and as I stood watching the girls playing on one side of the field and boys playing on the other side it was like a light bulb moment, because that was when I first asked myself "Why can't I dress like them and have my hair like theirs?" growing up in the 80s of course was a different when transgender wasn't really heard of, or atleast not in my town and they scarier times when you didn't know how to tell anyone what I felt (I live in Scotland), and I tried ignoring my feelings even though it just got deeper, but the very first time I told any family and Dr who I was, was at 10 years old, My big brother and me was taken to see some Dr for tests (I won't go into that to bore everyone) I remember the Dr asked my big brother if he was male or female and he said male, and I remember thinking to myself that I have to remember to answer that, then when the Dr asked me that question I replied female (my mum said that never happened, but I seen it in my medical records in 2018 (that's a whole different story) so when I finally started the hormone treatment in 2014 I had a discussion with my gp as she was doing something on her computer, and she said to me "Vikki, I have known you for 17 years now, and in that 17 years I have read your entire medical history, and you have been failed by the NHS your whole life, and there was a lot of missed opportunities to help you when you needed it, and in that 17 years I have always known you to talk about wanting to be a woman and, but also in that 17 years I have also been learning about someone being transgender through you, and I have enjoyed being part of your journey, but I have also felt frustrated about the way your being treated by the neurologists because of your being transgender, as my colleagues and I feel stuck in the middle of a long battle to help you " I felt honoured that she felt that I was teaching her as my journey was a very long battle to finally start the medication. I faced a lot of hate from my family, who told me that if I continued on this journey, they'd disown me, and I would have no family, no friends, etc. "It doesn't," and I replied back, "Exactly just like whatever is going on in your life or marriage doesn't affect me, So unless you have something you genuinely want to know f off" I gained a lot of respect from everyone who wasn't there that night because I stood up for myself as well as from people my mum told me would hate me, my family thankfully hasn't disowned me, there are some funny stories about somethings said by my nieces and nephew though , my storyhas a lot of sad and heartbreaking moments involvingfamily/friends/ relationships and Dr's ignoring my seizures. But on the subject of looking in the mirror, I have found that there are times when I still see my old self, but then I sometimes have stages where I see me and someone else looking back at the same time, but then there's times as I style my hair I suddenly see someone absolutely different looking back, The first time I noticed it, I honestly looked behind myself, then back looked back at the mirror, thinking, "Oh wow, hello, there I am." and then I smile like the weight of the world has gone. I have found that there is a huge difference to how women ask the when/where/how questions and more unlike if a man asks the question it's immediately sex related questions and their partners telling them to get lost lol. But I can't explain it (maybe you can Alexis), but as a woman, I feel alive and more or less complete until the day I finally get the surgery. I'll end this here. And sorry putting everyone to sleep with my story 😂

[@Alexis_blake00]

You didn't put me to sleep, very interesting story and take hun, glad you understand what it can be like and I am glad your feeling more or less complete!!!

[@user-lt4lh8ux7t]

I have Celiacs Disease as well and traveling is such an annoying navigation when it comes to finding safe restaurants. I typically keep protein bars and beef jerky sticks in my purse and in a bind I will eat high calorie coffee/teas (large whole milk chai tea latte) as a meal substitute.

[@TherealMrsCothrine]

Sea shoes by the sea shore

[@Alexis_blake00]

she sells sea shoes by the sea shore?

[@TherealMrsCothrine]

@@Alexis_blake00 she should!

[@danielsullivan5458]

You two are awesome. Your podcast is my latest obsession Thanks for doing what you do.

[@s.lsoltes8161]

Liam -- You have to read Gerald Durrell's books about growing up in Corfu! They are hysterical.

[@Alexis_blake00]

I will pass this on haha

[@Liam_blake00]

Noted 👌 thank you ❤

[@Peacefulpreface6323]

Over the moon for you that your first post transition holiday together was great! You looked as fabulous as I hope you felt ❤

[@jackevans3480]

I'm so glad you had such a great holiday. You are both such lovely, open, honest people and the love and respect you have for each other shines out of you both. Alexis, you always look beautiful and radiant and Liam, you're just so damn cute, but you are incredibly inspiring. I can relate to what you say about being hyper-aware of where you are. I'm not trans but I am bisexual and grew up in the 70s and early 80s in Barnsley, which was certainly far from an accepting place at that time. Even though my sexuality probably wasn't obvious to people, I was always cautious and alert, probably with no reason at times but I always felt the need to be vigilant and careful of what I said to certain people in certain places. I hope that makes sense. I'm 59 now and that still is something that I do now. It does stay with you, I think, however open you are generally. Strangely enough, most of the negativity I have experienced has come from the LGBT+ community, where I have been challenged for being bi, and accused of being semi-closeted or afraid to be true to myself. Actually, nothing could be further from the truth. Personally, I have always said that I would rather simply describe myself as "sexual," with no prefixes as I am far more attracted to what is in a person's mind and heart than between their legs. I hate it when people assume that sexuality - or gender - defines us. We are complex beings and all of us are different. One day, hopefully, we may no longer need to "come out" in any sense, or categorise ourselves simply because society needs to pigeonhole us. Sorry, I digress. When I watch your videos, I see a deeply loving, intelligent, warm couple whose love for each other has helped you both to overcome circumstances which could - and probably does in many other cases - have driven you apart. Instead it seems to me that it has brought you closer and made you stronger both as individuals and as a couple. You also speak such sense, both of you. There are many people - trans people, allies, and those who are anti-trans - who will simply not countenance any kind of debate or dialogue or even simple questions regarding trans issues. They have their views and refuse to acknowledge other opinions even for a second. You two, however, are so tolerant, accepting, reasonable and understanding which is refreshing and heartening. I hate to use the phrase "the voice of reason" as it has often been used as a tagline for some of the least rational people imaginable, but it is a phrase that really describes how I see you both. I hope you don't mind my saying that. I genuinely love listening to both of you, together and separately. You make such a lovely couple and every video makes me think how proud your friends and family must be. Enough compliments, sorry. You're just lovely and inspiring and I wish you were my neighbours! Much love to you both, and thank you for your insight and your kindness, and for granting us the privilege of sharing a part of your life x.

[@marieoflaherty1686]

I am a straight woman and I always feel self conscious in swimwear and I always wear sea shoes too! (I am also a coeliac). I was a nurse for 35 years and nursed a few trans people and they were just ‘normal’ in my eyes. You are such a beautiful couple. I love listening to you both ❤

[@kathryngreaves432]

Awwww Alexis you deffo made the right choice to transition. Your beautiful inside and out and I love your positivity. Will always defend you when people are getting shitty on social media about you. And Liam just such a cute well suited couple. Deffo meant to be for u guys ❤

[@CharliStar]

7:22 this moment you felt right here - is literally how a regular woman feels when out and about in the world - even possible when in familiar locations if alcohol is involved. So CONGRATS GIRL !!! You have now reached your latest “Life as a Woman” milestone!!! 🎉❤🥰

[@jeanetteeast7343]

I finally realized that if everyone was as paranoid as I was that they were judging me, then they had no time to be caring about me. If it matters I’m a bio woman ❤

[@kasey6531]

Y’all are just adorable! Alexis, I tend to even forget your trans until you say it. You’re beautiful inside and out! Also, welcome to the joys of being a woman because none of us like shopping for bathing suits. You looked great! I just love seeing how much you both love each other. God bless!

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you Kasey that's lovely of you to say! Hope your enjoyed this weeks episode! x

[@staceytroffer8287]

Same.

[@Koroli]

Alexis, you are gorgeous and I just love your natural elegance, your eloquence and the general aura of your personality. All the best to you and your partner. ❤

[@ShaunaCologneOfficial]

I’m quite new here on this channel but already, from this video, I absolutely love you both, you’re so cute!!❤

[@Alexis_blake00]

awww thank you so much that's lovely to hear!

[@KittyCate-usa]

Loved this! I also get very swollen and “pregnant” when I eat gluten. It’s hard to avoid sometimes when traveling but it’s no one’s fault.

[@katsmeow123]

Seriously, people may have been noticing you (with a stare) only because you are stunningly gorgeous, period. Male, female, trans, whatever. Beauty gets noticed!

[@davidwinkle2818]

Hi Alexis, I've found your channel very useful for getting someone I know to see trans women in a better light. It helps that you're always likeable and considerate in your videos. By the way, would you ever react to something like the 1970 song "Lola"?

[@Kate-cr1fz]

Alexis, you look amazing. I think being very aware of surroundings and people is very much a woman thing, we always feel a bit on edge in unfamiliar situations ❤

[@rollingreller6346]

Haven’t seen you both in so long! Still the sweetest couple. Always happy to hear from you. Congrats on your success on social media. You’re doing good stuff. ❤️

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you so much!! yeah its been a while lol but we should be back now more regular - we just have the ethos that we post when its ready not to rush or promise a certain day - last time I did this I burnt myself out and ended up having to take a break x

[@YellowDaisy21]

You both look lovely! I hope you both still had a lovely holiday and so sorry about your holiday experience. ❤

[@shannonstevens2476]

Alexis, that pilot totally waved at Liam!! 😂😂 Looks like you all had a lovely time. Love this for you both ❤

[@barbarablair3225]

The Netherlands is Holland, which is a very simple way to think of it. Lanzarote, Costa Teguise specifically would be my holiday suggestion. It's magical.

[@daleenehlers2385]

Read a great statement the other day: "You have to feel it, to heal it"

[@teresamonday81]

I'm always aware of my surroundings anytime I'm out. You're beautiful and more than passing. I know it's easier said than done but relax a little, (stay alert because that's the world we live in).

[@lynnomara7652]

Maybe more people recognised than you realise they might also be thinking how lovely and striking you are. As long as you keep yourselves safe hope both of you can except your both brilliant and not worry too much about what people think . As usual thanks for the entertaiment so glad you had a lovely time.

[@chamberpaint]

Since there’s no tide in the Mediterranean it doesn’t wear the rocks smooth. You NEED those sea shoes! I didn’t even notice them, cuz I’ve worn them, too. You looked gorgeous & so did Liam!❤

[@GrabsteinMx]

You two are *so* cute, together. Alexis, you look lovely and have such a bright personality. I hope I can look a quarter as beautiful as you, when I hit my three year mark. Thank you for being a beacon of hope!

[@Jsmall910]

Crete is AMAZING ❤

[@scottr.4885]

I was in the US Navy in the 90s and we pulled into Corfu during Orthodox Easter, me and some friends went ashore and were walking around and then all of the sudden, plates, bowls, etc. started flying out of peoples windows! Some sort of tradition there I guess. But, I had a great time in Greece, lovely country, lovely people and just all around beautiful. I also got to spend about 3 weeks in Crete during that same deployment. I highly recommend Greece to anyone going to see Europe. Also, great video! Thanks for sharing your vacation with us.

[@debbiedeacon2745]

You look amazing. My daughter is m to f trans. She's about a year in. On hormones about 8 months. You are an inspiration ❤

[@dav3109an]

I can't argue Alexis you looked great on your holiday

[@alishabale2275]

I wear sea shoes, proudly lol!

[@angelika_munkastrap4634]

Loving that lamp - it’s giving middle Eastern vibes - beautiful

[@Thinker814]

That’s such a great format! I love seeing you two chat and talk about everything so openly ❤ btw I was thinking, would you ever do a video on how your ‘behaviour’ has changed or what was your biggest aha moment when going through socialisation as a man and then a woman? I know you might still be the same person with the same values but I am just curious about the shift and the inner experiences you must have gone through.

[@jodievance1348]

Breaks my heart that you both had to be so hyper-aware of your environment for safety issues. You both are lovely, sweet souls. Know that you are loved.

[@LiA-ji6mr]

Not Trans, I’m a TA and work with a Trans student and wanted to find out more to help support and your kindness and understanding of others made me want to subscribe ❤

[@JBSRCS]

All of Europe is beautiful, but Greece is by far my favorite place I’ve visited because of the people. And the food. Loved it! Alexis, if I saw you on vacation I would totally stare because you are gorgeous. You and Liam are lovely people. And Liam makes me laugh. 😘

[@SarahLouG]

Can I just say you look absolutely beautiful in the pictures, honestly don’t pay people any mind, remember you’ll never see them again 😊I related so much to the trying on, I do it with my husband 😂 he always goes you look beautiful and then I go I hate it 😂😂 Side note: I felt really teary when you said about the girl in the loo, it was so sweet ❤

[@celestriisilver9517]

Most of us do not care, your right. But if we do notice, most of us think good for you. I love your good vibes Alexis.

[@DaiseyMayWilliams]

Hi Alexis, thank you for sharing this, I went on holiday in April time this year to Sitges near Barcelona which is very LGBTQ friendly. At the time I was still wearing a wig and had been on HRT for about 9 months at that stage. I got clocked a number of times - at the airport in both directions (partly as I had not changed my passport {this is now in progress}) At the hotel reception when checking in. and at canteen breakfast on a number of occasions (this made me really super conscious as I would walk in and it felt like they all stopped eating and stared at me). During that holiday I didn't have the confidence to wear a bikini. Since then I've had quite a lot of physical changes and I'm going away to Gran Caneria in November. I now have my girlies and wear my real hair and currently looking for a bikini and much more body confident. I'm very aware that Im going to get clocked but im actually much more settled in myself and my husband is my biggest supporter and advocate. Combined with your videos and socials channels has helped me so much. Lots of Love Daisey ❤❤

[@zoeymichael3966]

I just watched a really cool video the other day. 😉 It says, "In 100 years, we all will be forgotten, so let's have the best time NOW" (I am paraphrasing here) Love it! 😊

[@jessicagraham734]

I'm so excited for the two of you !!! Beautiful you look amazing !!! 😊

[@milliemaw]

We go to Zante regularly, fabulous place and looking forward to going again in September 😊 x

[@BloodSweatandFears]

I will always respect trans women like yourself. You CARE about women, you obviously try your best to look put together and classy, when I look at you my mind tells me “she”. Thank you for being a respectful, sane human being ❤ glad you enjoyed some vacay time, I’m hoping to get some away time myself. 😂

[@happyface1724]

Alexis your stunning inside and out you go girl and you are a lovely couple!

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you so much!!

[@Jsmall910]

Never commented before but have watched many times I can honestly say as another woman looking at you all I see is another woman but not just another woman but a very attractive young woman you look amazing.❤

[@janebennetto5655]

❤🇬🇧This episode is so educational, measured and human. I loved it. Thank you. X

[@Megan-gd7oh]

I watch the content because I like yalls personalities and the fact that Alexis is trans is an afterthought really. Really as I'm writing this it just made me realize that kinda mean Alexis is doing exactly what she wants with her content. Showing the world that real trans people are just like everyone else. Kinda like my ADHD is a mental thing that people shouldn't treat me differently for, same for someone who is trans.

[@tinamary1212]

I am not Trans. But I love watching and learning from you beautiful people x

[@stanleyfox4201]

Your holiday looked and sounded amazing! So glad you had a great time and I look forward to hearing about your next one. You are so cute together. What did you do with little Blake while you were away?

[@Alexis_blake00]

Blake had a lovely trip over to Liam's mums, he stayed there for the week. He gets on well with her two dogs as well

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

It's not silly to be vigilant when you're out in the world - it's very smart! Don't let it spoil your enjoyment though.

[@cecybellard1]

ahhhhhhh missed you guys so much , so happy that you had a long hot summer though xxxxxx

[@Alexis_blake00]

aww thank you! Yeah its been a while since last episode sorry haha x

[@MedusaEcho]

ALEX (normally I use capital letters to emphasise something or because I can’t find my glasses but now I’m shouting)…ALEX!!! I’m taller than you and I have girlfriends taller than me. I said this before. I don’t know how you look in person and there are people that camera absolutely loves and they look better on the screen but I don’t think that that’s the case with you. You truly look beautiful and you are actually more attractive than an average woman! It took me almost 40 years to realise that when people are looking at me it’s not because I look weird but because I stand out with my hight and willowy figure (as described by others), my high cheekbones, dark brown eyes that are almost sunken into my face because of the cheekbones, now I have amazing long hair but because since the age of 4 I struggled with alopecia for 20 years so I don’t really have eyelashes or barely some eyebrows which I love as it looks quite cool. Now at 50 I am more confident and aware of my looks but prior to that I was so self aware and thought that people are looking at me because I was weird rather than attractive. So, the same might be the case with you. Especially abroad, there’s no reason for people to clock you out immediately! Now, having mother taller than my father I would say that if people are looking at you it would be more likely that they are finding interesting that you are taller than Liam then that they are clocking you. I would add something that might be a bit frown upon but why would you have any need to draw any attention to you while on a holidays where people don’t know you? Normally people don’t need to know your personal information in the day to day life. You are doing the great job on this platform but otherwise it’s not like people have to go around and not being bothered. You can be BDSM, polyamory…..it’s a private matter I would say…?

[@Nikibaby74]

Staring because you are stunningly gorgeous and Liam is very handsome too! I would be looking at all Liam’s tattoos but not trying to be rude but because I love tattoos. People are just naturally very curious. I find myself staring in a direction but not looking at the person or ppl in the direction I’m just zoned out. The way you feel like you are under a microscope and ppl are think things about you is what everyone is feeling and thinking honestly. We are all too busy being judgmental about ourselves.

[@melissaelliott2966]

Just a quick comment here of appreciation for you, Alexis. I've been kind of snooping on your content for a few months now and have found you to be seriously lovely. If all trans people were as respectful, graceful and understanding as you are towards biological women, I think the community would get far far less backlash. Of course there is backlash for every group, but the amount right now is pretty heavy. Just wanna say you are beautiful and appreciated. ❤❤❤ God bless you two

[@heathergeiselbrecht8728]

Hi Alexis! I saw you on Buck Angel's channel and thought your chat was awesome! I really enjoy hearing your thoughts and opinions on being transgender.

[@smxlad]

Great video. Kudos to you both. I’ve just subscribed 😊