Our first video Q&A!

Welcome to our youtube video! Let us know in the comments your thoughts and what you want to see next!
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Time stamps
00:00 Intro
00:50 How did you guys meet?
02:22 What is your favourite thing about one another?
03:36 How do you feel about the age difference?
04:53 How did you tell your parents about Shaa?
06:17 How did you know he was the one?
08:44 How comes you didn't have a wedding
12:01 What expectations did you both have when you got married?
13:35 How is married life going?
14:38 How do you solve arguments
17:24 Advice on a 21/22 year old looking to get married
21:23 How do you find your in-laws?
24:41 What made you want to move to Dubai?
27:03 Are you both Self Employed?
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[@kz6uw]

no matter what the family issues are you should never trash your family online. furthermore you should never let your partner disrespect and trash your family either. there are many years and problems to come and your family will turn up and support you no matter what! bad move, you are reducing your blessings in life. money and designer bags dont mean a lot in the bigger picture.

[@TasnimAndShaa]

@@kz6uw If you open your small mind you will see that no one was “trashed” in the video, we were speaking about our experience throughout our nikkah, I’m not going to be fake and say everything was perfect, my family treat me amazing with so much love blah blah, because that would be fake and stupid, I’m being real. Even if it was the other way round I’d say the truth and hun we have never once mentioned money and designer bags? What has that got to do with anything …. So what I like nice handbags, Alhamdullilah my husband is able to treat me to them.. he’s my husband there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that so stop being a jealous troll lol!

[@lipz11223344]

Please do a video on the drama you had from your family as it will be a real help for young girls. As most just give up To please their family. And miss out on what can be amazing life.

[@TasnimAndShaa]

So so true 😢 we would absolutely love to if that’s what you guys want to see ❤

[@tasneemkhanom1954]

@@TasnimAndShaa would really appreciate it if you do xx

[@safatariq5665]

Omg loved the video so much!! Congratulations on ur wedding we want a story time on family complications you had plsss!!! ❤❤

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Thank you so much! If enough people are interested in a story time we absolutely will!

[@fetanolive]

@@TasnimAndShaayes pls!!

[@ItsMyshh]

Loved watching this🫶🏼🥹 and how transparent & honest you guys were. So excited for the upcoming videos!💕

[@AmeliahA-z4k]

I love how REAL you are as a couple, makes it very relatable to watch x

[@zayzar22]

I love this video! Didn’t skip one bit. So nice to learn more about you guys after seeing your content on Instagram. May Allah bless you both always 🥰 Keep them coming!!! I wanna hear the Paris storytime and more about in laws!

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Ahh that is so lovely to hear thank you so much! Absolutely if enough people want to hear both story times we absolutely will! 🥰

[@AA-tl5qj]

Her transparency, mashaAllah, she’s human! Not like other influencers and her influencer friends seem so fake, but she is so REAL 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@TasnimAndShaa]

So kind thank you!

[@sxvii_]

You know, I appreciate the transparency🥹 a lot of people wouldn’t usually admit the the complicated parts about getting married and families etc. Great video, ya’ll are cute ❤️ mash’Allah

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Honestly everyone goes through drama when it comes to weddings but not enough talk about it, we are all about being completely transparent with you guys, thank you so much!!

[@sophiaakhtar6902]

I love and agree with this comment

[@tanjkhan]

Loved this video, allahumma barik such an authentic and chill vibe! Please could you share the ebooks/books Shah read to move to the UAE and how you guys got there? Thank you x

[@aliza8233]

Love you both , this was amazing ❤

[@username03777]

Omg wow. Tasnim, I’d love a separate video talking about your family dynamic and how Shah and his family changed your perception on love, affection and care in general. I’m ngl I did have an assumption of you but you’ve completely changed it for the better. I hope Shah brings you the love and affection you’ve longed for your entire life that some Asian families fail to give. Sending loads of love your way, may you both be together in this life and the next ❤

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Thank you so much!

[@sophiaakhtar6902]

I loved watching this bring us more ❤

[@nxux_u]

Loved this video so much. Please do more with story times! ❤

[@sumiyyahahmed4265]

Really enjoyed watching ur video and I’m really happy for you both, enjoying life away from the drama!

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Thank you so much! Drama free alwaysss ❤

[@Lk24262]

Such a refreshing video to watch! So nice to hear your story, very inspiring 👌🏼 Beautiful couple wish you every bit of success, peace and happiness 🙏🏼🤍

[@TasnimAndShaa]

So sweet, thank you so much!

[@Mia-ge7xf]

also mashAllah so inspiring that you found such great in laws as someone who also comes from a very complicated family this is so hopeful

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Never lose hope honestly I love my in laws so much and can’t imagine life without them ❤️

[@Arabianvoyage_uae]

Keep it up with the videos looking forward to seeing more videos with Shaah ❤ Allahummah barik may allah Bless you both

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Thank you so much!

[@sj5677-w9z]

Allahumma zid wa barik! I really enjoyed your video. I would also love to hear more about how you made the move to UAE happen, in terms of opportunities available etc. Also, please could you share the ebooks / materials that you found beneficial.

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Thank you so much we are both so pleased to hear! Absolutely!! If enough people are also interested in this we absolutely will share everything 🤍

[@jinanoah8542]

Looking forward to future videos 🎉

[@Akhhhhhhh]

Tasnim u seem like such a sweet girl. I feel bad that u said u were not use to all the love. U deserve everything. Shah is a nice decent bloke and I’m glad u both have each other

[@Shabz12345]

Aww honestly you actually one of my fave influencers and I don’t have many, this video has just made me like you even more, it’s so nice to see your personality and it’s so refreshing to see how open you are, you can see that this man has shown you love like you’ve never felt before and that is beautiful, it’s such a shame your family haven’t accepted him, may Allah soften their hearts towards him and always keep you both happy ❤

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Thank you so so much! Means the world to us ❤️

[@misbahqayum3923]

Absolutely loved this- can sha please share his journey on his career and how he has moved abroad. Thank you

[@shantiii]

Tas give your family time they will come around more inshaAllah

[@Annaan-sf8oc]

Thank you for the great video may Allah always keep u both happy ❤

[@RajiaRahaman]

Love you both ❤❤❤this is so amazing 🤗🤗🤗

[@TasnimAndShaa]

We love youuu 🥺❤️❤️

[@Mia-ge7xf]

wow wow wow mashAllah! so so happy for you. he seems so kind and love the way he looks at you! you look so happy and comfortable too! may Allah bless you with an amazing life ahead

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Thank you so much! He’s honestly the best thing that’s happened to me Alhamdullilah ❤️

[@shimlakamaly9970]

Tasnim may Allah shower you with endless blessings. ❤

[@videosforfun2843]

I love this so much. I love the honesty between u both ur far from fake and tbh on instagram u do come across like that but this video is refreshing. I would love more advice videos tbh. Yes shaa pls talk us through the ebooks u read and ur career journey. Shaa is so not ur typical Bengali guy love it but I imagine u would rock some boats but who cares Bengali culture is toxic as fuck it needs changing!!

[@hassan9311]

HIYA TASNIM....... CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU........ I REALLY MISSED YOUR VLOGS....... I HOPE TO SEE YOU MORE OFTEN WITH YOUR VLOGS........ TAKE CARE AND SEE YOU SOON......... ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Omg Hii!!! Thank you soo much!! More vlogs coming upp In Sha Allah 🥰❤

[@rushmeemrahaman2558]

This made me so happy! 🫶🏼

[@TasnimAndShaa]

We love you 🥺❤️

[@tanyaj1875]

Would be interesting to see how you guys got to where you are today x

[@Arabianvoyage_uae]

Please share the E books on how to get to the UAE

[@rohimabegum3994]

Yes please share

[@username03777]

Loved this! Please put timestamps on the next video, that would help a lot 😊

[@TasnimAndShaa]

done! :)

[@NoLove-kt5ne]

Please do a story time on family complications as this is something I am going through right now. I am finding it very hard to deal with and my wedding is not far off :(((

[@username03777]

I died when shah said you’re like his brother 😂😂😂😭😭😭

[@Magicalhooman]

Where did you get your set from?

[@TasnimAndShaa]

cos :)

[@nullah406]

🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

[@jennyy6159]

Can you do a video explaining the process of moving to the UAE

[@Sam-op2sz]

I actually like Shaa after this video 😂

[@glossyshine1]

Its sad about family but who knows they might change since you dont live close anymore. If I remember correctly your sister did youtube few years back. I know people keep saying to say more how your family was but just dont only cos it will probably create more fire. Your better than that and I understand how hurtful you must feel but its best to ignore and enjoy your life with your husband. It kinda pisses them off more when they realise your happy. I do pray things get better for you all.

[@Atheera92]

Both of u are born in the same generation 90’s which is normal, I actually support relationships where both of partners are in the same generation. I was born in 92 and my man’s 94 ❤🎉

[@ar7684]

The banter isn’t bantering

[@shai674]

When you said age gap I was thinking you were going to say something like 10 years lol (not that shah looks that much older) 5 years is nothing!!

[@saikak338]

Please don’t call your wife bro you have to be careful a lot of things can affect your Nikaah

[@zaramahmood8970]

My father in law was the same about my husband taking me away after Nikkah. These olders don’t understand Islam and that the minute Nikkah is done, you are married in the eyes of Allah

[@ar7684]

They are from a different time and you should respect that but try and educate them politely.

[@LLlondon99]

It’s so sad to see how culture can be so toxic because Islam teaches us so different. There shouldn’t be any discrimination and racism.

[@DaKoolDude]

why are asian families so complicated

[@mad4raisins]

I hate guys who praise their own family and think they’re so modern when really they’re probably cultural and typical 😂 10:28

[@TasnimAndShaa]

From someone who has come from a typical Bengali family my in laws are the absolute opposite……p.s I find it weird you comment cringe on our video 2 days ago but now watching it again 🥴 it’s giving fan behaviour - Tasnim

[@mad4raisins]

That’s weird, KZbin must have messed up. But seriously stop putting your own family down, you’ll regret it later on. Honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever girl

[@TasnimAndShaa]

We’ve been married for a year and a half.. “honeymoon” phase is way over girl 👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽

[@LLlondon99]

Is Sha mixed ? You guys are the cutest 🥰

[@kimtaeseo7524]

Honestly girl you’re living ur best life! Don’t pay attention to what these haters say - you’ve got a partner who’s a proper man and knows how to look after you and that’s all that matters tbh. Please do a “day in my life” video I would love to see what it’s like living in dubai! 😍

[@TasnimAndShaa]

So sweet, thank you so much!! We've got one coming out today so be sure to keep an eye out!

[@Username25561]

What kinda Muslim couple are these? Openly admitting to going on holidays before marriage and whatnot. No wonder her family disowned her LOL

[@Shay-nayz]

It’s not like people don’t bump into their significant other in another country - even if they went to another country on their first date it does not mean they did anything wrong, it was by Allah’s will they were meant to meet in a such a special way and place which Tasnim will treasure forever in her memory. I met my husband who lives miles away from me in his hometown and alhamdulillah we are happy to have each other now. I can relate to you both, however sadly my in laws are not the bestest and are slightly narrow minded - although I enjoyed my Nikkah because I organised it all - my family did get involved in the end to help not that I needed them to as I have great skill in organising such as events or hospitality etc however since getting married my family have not visited me and always made excuses about the distance although me and my husband have visited my family quite few times, we just don’t bother asking them anymore - bear in mind I do not have parents, I was very close to my siblings before our Nikkah, no idea what happened to them since I got married, I mean there was few disagreements and misunderstanding in the process of wedding talk- I feel like my family no longer want to know me, I literally was the best to them, it’s quite sad that my husband will not have that special bond with my family members as every new wedded couple- although my are not narrow minded - please pray that I can move out of the in laws house with my husband - really enjoyed your video Tasnim can’t wait for more. Xx

[@TasnimAndShaa]

We have never said we’re perfect, we both in fact said many times in the video we are not perfect by far! Most Bengali guys take the girls to nearest travel lodge on their first date, Alhamdullilah for me finding such a man with class to be respecting me so much and treating me like a princess from day 1, but yeah thanks for watching our video 😘

[@TasnimAndShaa]

Thank you so much for your comment! I’m so glad you enjoyed your nikkah!! But sad to hear about your in-laws situation 🥺 sometimes it gets to a point where you have to stop trying and focus on your marrige and building your own family we had got there a long time ago and Alhamdullilah things are so much better, I pray you and your husband get to move out soon and are much more happier! You sound absolutely lovely and so kind hearted! Sending lots of love xx

[@mad4raisins]

Cringe

[@TasnimAndShaa]

okay mad for raisins

[@LLlondon99]

But you’re still watching 😂