Our Souls Were Meant For Each Other | {THE AND} Melisa & Lloyd

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Melisa and Lloyd re-enter {THE AND} space to discuss how they've supported and changed since their last time visiting. The two talk about understanding each other's love languages, their hopes for building a family, and how they believe God has been a part of their journey together.
We'd like to thank Melisa & Lloyd for participating openly & vulnerably in our project. We appreciate what they've shared with us and hope you do as well.
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AUDIO | Jesse Stormo
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WITH THE PARTICIPATION OF | Melisa & Lloyd
Our Souls Were Meant For Each Other | {THE AND} Melisa & Lloyd
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[@Iwish387]

Father God… I pray that you bless her UTERUS right now. I pray that you touch every single cells in her body and allow her to conceive, in Jesus’s name Amen. You go ahead and be blessed. Next time, you’ll be back with the best news of your life that you’ll become a mother. Praying for you and I’ll add you guys’s name on the prayer box at the church.

[@xlaydee123x]

I come in agreement in the mighty name of Jesus Christ amen 🙏🏿

[@lillymcintosh7114]

🙏

[@daavikesedovo1188]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@diandrad406]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 There’s nothing he cannot do

[@je39981]

Amen, he will make a way.

[@jetunnadine]

She is one gorgeous Black woman omg!

[@queeng643]

I was thinking the same thing! She's stunning!

[@soa2444]

She over weight

[@soa2444]

@Love Life and how do you know how I look? If she really loved him she will lose that weight. If he really loved her he would encourage her to lose weight.

[@marliemarl2278]

@Jetun Nadine you’re 💯 right

[@weswilliams3783]

Facts

[@franman576]

Most people spend their whole lives not being able to love and not being loved this deep. You two are blessed.

[@Lydia_m]

I literally just saw your comment on my video haha.

[@starfab7]

Most people?

[@karenmcgee1869]

So precious! Love this comment.

[@marikabastien]

9 years and they are still learning how to love each other and willing to learn. That's beautiful.

[@anele.nsithole5593]

The empathy in his eyes, he truly feels her emotions with her and she allows him to lift her out of that sadness, it's the trust she has in his words, the trust she has in him. That right there ladies and gentlemen is intimacy.

[@urennakiwanuka6688]

I came to write the same thing! So much empathy in his eyes, he's hurting along with her!❤❤

[@jyj2491]

I long for that.

[@thecreativediet4918]

EXACTLY!!! I FELT THE SAME. As a man myself I know that feeling of just wanting to take away the pain to just solve the issue casuing difficulty in the lives pf those you love. Its like you can feel what they feel when they feel it.

[@Emerance_]

I love seeing black love, don’t come at me y’all I jus love seeing black love 😍😍😍

[@EboniFaulkner]

I support this comment! 🥰😊💖

[@yonnahmae1157]

Same 🥰🥰🥰

[@coollikethat2691]

When I say that I get attacked, but I love to see two black males and females together it's like WOW!!!!! my day is coming 😍

[@AirItTfOutPodcast]

You should never be attacked for this! 💕

[@coollikethat2691]

@@AirItTfOutPodcast Tara ranceee in her comment even said ( don't come at me y'all )

[@Iwish387]

Her love language is: Acts of service and his is Physical touch.

[@cupcakely997]

very common.

[@Gaffersly]

It's nice if you both understand each other

[@Tnc874]

Ok miss break down analysis

[@Iwish387]

@@Tnc874 lol I’d say I’m pretty good at love languages hahha I had to learn the hard way.

[@swoosh3684]

Thank you❤️

[@naut_nigel]

Your episodes make me believe in love.

[@MsCrooklyn718]

Thank you so much for watching . Please follow our journey on youtube- Memaoncloudfetti and ig - Memaoncloudfetti

[@ShadezYNB]

No cap

[@Queenmother2508]

Same

[@Kaykay-jh1zu]

Same

[@applejackzo]

I can see/feel their love for each other. His eyes tell it all

[@callensausi2076]

The way he looks at her 😍

[@jsantiago102]

Yes! The way he looks at her is everything. ❤️

[@inthisworld414]

She is soooo beautiful, that color on her is amazing.

[@jsantiago102]

“ I married my best friend, who helped me change my life.” Wow. Powerful.

[@juliem1674]

Sis....you WILL GET that baby and many more, I claim it for you right now so PLEASE LET US KNOW WHEN IT HAPPENS for you. God Bless you both. God did it for Hannah in the Bible and he can do it for you too.

[@ClaudiaNkeji]

AMEN

[@peterlarbi9531]

Amen 🙏

[@Haise8]

Amen namesake... 254 reppin

[@JaneInThisThang]

When two or more are in an agreement

[@nkiru61]

She will need to lose weight before getting pregnant to carry a healthy baby to term.

[@amnika2536]

She’s absolutely beautiful. I have been through infertility due to pcos and I know the pain she feels. I’ve been blessed with 3 children and if I could have kids when I was told I’d never will, she can too!! Praying for this miracle for her

[@msfeistyman]

I hope you don't mind but did you do anything special to enable you to have your 3 children? I have pcos and would love to hear from you.

[@stryfetc1471]

​@msfeistyman my wife is in the same place, breaks my heart, she's a natural mom without the kids.

[@EverybodyAuntie]

God, bless them with a child. We.know you are able, please be willing❤️❤️❤️

[@nellyalier-pina3444]

@@msfeistyman- I’m not sure about the couple on the video. But my daughter have PCOS. She loss a bunch of weight and about 6 months later she got pregnant. Now she got 2 beautiful babies. She didn’t go in any other treatments but loosing the extra weight. It helped a lot of her symptoms.

[@liftedenergy3693]

This is the key.​@@nellyalier-pina3444

[@Jessbaby215]

Now this is a relationship they feed off of each other's love that is so awesome. Can't wait for the day when God sends me a husband..

[@rantsandfaves]

Damn, she is entirely too fine for no reason! Their bond is awesome, I wish them years together in abundance.

[@MsCrooklyn718]

Thank you so much.

[@derkiathomas7748]

watching her cry broke my heart bc this is the same space I'm in. (also, I wish I was this beautiful when I cried. She's literally grace personified) and I love his strength and positivity in her time of weakness

[@lizwanyana8001]

Saying a prayer for you! God is in control 🙏🏾

[@justjay488]

I love them. Literally one of my favorite couples. “Your love is like soul food” ❤️😭 my heart is so warm listening to them speak.

[@symphonib4557]

The hair, the skin, everything about them is perfect.

[@LifewithLatriceL]

This couple is the reason I bought my first deck of cards... and I'm single. I literally have brought 4 total to date to give away and to save for when I meet someone special.

[@micahjones2924]

You should write me back

[@Bine06]

Every time I see them I am always excited. After being married for so long, they are still figuring things out but patient and receptive to each other. I will pray for God to deliver a child/ children to you in the way He believes is best whether naturally, adoption, etc. May He continue to bless your union

[@AnnaM4117]

My cousins were having fertility issues and once they got serious about losing weight, they both conceived and carried successfully. It’s a journey but their prayers were answered through consistency and dedication. Spiritually and physically. The babies were born 3 years a part. They weren’t pregnant at the same time.

[@Opinions.of.Rih.]

A lot of women suffer from PCOS, which makes it harder to lose weight but once you do it balances out your hormones and increases your chances of conceiving.

[@AnnaM4117]

@@Opinions.of.Rih. Agreed. Pcos and thyroid problems definitely doesn’t make it any easier when it comes to weight control

[@shroff3417]

Yup!!! I’ve been overweight since I was 10 and had all symptoms of someone suffering from PCOS, but it was never diagnosed. My facial hair grows like crazy, I put on weight very easily and it’s almost impossible to lose any. The list goes on and on. They gave me metformin just cuz I was fat and it did not help with my mental health. I always thought I wouldn’t be able to get pregnant but I actually did and expecting a baby rn. I happened to lose weight when I started intermittent fasting. I cut down on dairy products, meat and poultry. The hormones in chicken just worsens everything. It’s not hard to lose weight, it simply requires consistency and loving yourself enough to know you want to be in a better health. Exercising can literally change your life. I also used to drink spearmint tea twice a day, and just do yoga to release everything that was blocked in my body. It’s hard on us fat people but we gotta make changes for ourselves cuz no one will.

[@AnnaM4117]

@@shroff3417 Wow that’s awesome and although I don’t know you, I’m proud of you! I applaud you for your determination. I’m happy you found what works for you. Congrats on your success to motherhood! For my cousins, their journeys were SO different than each other’s. And because it was a lot of trial and error, they were on different timelines and reached milestones separately despite starting to get serious about it together. Consistency is one of the hardest skills to learn and apply to any area in life.

[@AtheneHolder]

@@shroff3417 happy for ya...seems to me the people who want children the most are the infertile or otherwise unable ones and there are so many children out here born to parents who have no clue and can't provide for them... be the best parent you can love ❤

[@annieveronica2855]

she’s so beautiful

[@tamirajohnelle4700]

Are you kidding me girl? He is NOT leaving you! You are a great woman and y’all are great together!

[@makebacunningham6795]

I love how when they speak they look at each other

[@morganmurrell2951]

The way they communicate with each other is so beautiful!! Not only are they a fine couple, but you can tell how much they love and support each other just by the way they look at each other. Wishing them a lifetime of happiness, and prayerfully, children 💜

[@loveablej2]

Beautiful Married Couple. Dear God, touch her womb. Help her to bring forth children. Do it for me. Amen

[@trudy-annsmall9600]

Ohhhhh....thats so thoughful of you to pray like this and I do hope your prayer is answered for her sake..in Jesus name...Amen❤🙏

[@Iwish387]

I love the skin deep and literally seeing notifications, alleviates all the stresses through my daily hectic life.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Ruthie, as always, you are so sweet! And so valued by us!

[@Iwish387]

@@TheSkinDeep aawww thank you. I’ll buy the cards and do one with my bf… that’s on if we make it to 6months lol. We’re on 5 now.

[@laquisha900]

Imagine having a relationship this healthy! #swoon

[@Iwish387]

Omg… they’re back. My favorite couple. How y’all doing? Beautiful couple! Thank you for coming back!

[@swoosh3684]

We are doing well. Hope you are good😊

[@pawlakar]

People know when they meant for each other... They can feel deep inside 😌💓💕💕💕

[@meesheeli9107]

People are inlove and feel each other than there's me who's just breathing and watching love happen.😭😭😭💔

[@meesheeli9107]

@@MsCrooklyn718 most definitely♥

[@mrskrysthaboss]

His response to her breakdown about children 😭😭😭😭 blessed to have each other ❤️

[@danielleakeea]

I love them and immediately recognized them from their older video: I love that they keep God centered and my prayer for them is the bring a baby int his world a healthy baby in Jesus name! God continue to cover their union and let your miracle power take place now in Jesus name! amen 💖

[@msanamaria007]

When she started crying about having a child together...I felt that! Deep! I been there! Sending thoughts and prayers 🙏 ✨️ ❤️ 💕

[@marcusspicer4806]

I thought she was a celebrity. 🔥🔥

[@diandrad406]

This was beautiful! She’s beautiful and kind of resembles a mixture of Monique and Chrissy (Jim jones girlfriend)

[@onelove4132]

She kinda sounds like chrissy when she talks

[@ladyBloom.]

I’m reading your comment and shaking my head saying “yes I do see that too”.

[@meaganc.9955]

Your so right about that mixture!!!

[@roenalaurice]

Yes really does beautiful lady

[@Xaawotaako7]

Couldn’t pin point who she looked like! But she’s absolutely beautiful 😍😍😍

[@inthisworld414]

Oh I speak fertility, abundance, health, wealth........all the intimate desires of their hearts.

[@gab19guerin72]

Love is so grand. She made my eyes water when she discussed the kids. I pray they get their hearts desire. He loves her and she loves him. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@loveheals6184]

Y'all are so beautiful physically and spiritually. ❤🙌🏿 And sis, that dress and those shoes!!!! 🥰 I look forward to y'all returning with tears of joy to tell us about your baby/babies. 🤲🏿🙏🏿

[@chocolateladycap2773]

I was thinking the same thing!!!

[@onyinyeudenta8500]

She’s going to have a baby… WATCH ❤️❤️ love y’all

[@tamirajohnelle4700]

Yup, I can’t wait!😘

[@TheCtlocs]

Nothing happens before it's time. Everything is in Gods timing. You two have the Blessing of truly growing and Loving each other. And the fact that your husband says he does not feel slighted and you are his Best Friend. It will happen in due time.

[@Demebeso714]

They're constantly wrapping each other in love .. omg it's so correct!

[@MindfulMoments1444]

They are a beautiful couple in all ways-physically, emotionally and spiritually. They way they acknowledge and affirm each other, beautiful!! Praying they get the baby they deserve.

[@auntieshugah9330]

I had a procedure to loose weight. As soon as I did. I got pregnant.

[@JuliaPedro]

@0:53 you know the emotions are overwhelming when they start blinking that much. This man has her button and knows just what to say to put her at ease and calm the tide. Their love for each other is evident. Wishing them the best.

[@MsJai_1]

I really like these two & wish them nothing but happiness, love and success.

[@riechriech592]

He really loves her its the way he looks at her for me awww.

[@daniellemclean8171]

He loves her SO much. She is so damn strong and beautiful 🥺

[@judgepritchett4120]

Intimate love is not perfect, but it is powerful.. this is a beautiful example of that. I believe that part of our purpose is to love and be loved..I wish more people understood that. While never perfect, it can be powerful and worth the maintenance..

[@stephanienelly90]

They’re so beautiful together! She’s gorgeous!!

[@londonsars0234]

They absolutely balance each other out. She is like my mom and worries so much, even about things she can’t control, but he keeps her going and gives her that space to feel all the pain and anger, but takes her out of it quite quickly. They have been through so much, to experience happiness and laughs is special, but to also be there when the party dies down and true sorrow or what have you occurs is even more special. They are absolutely beautiful and love is something that you can feel through the screens. I hope you get the chance to be a mother because you will be a GREAT one, whether you foster, adopt, are able to have one, any child would be lucky to have you both as loving mentors throughout life. I’m wishing you both continuous love and prosperity!

[@dcuffmaster]

Lord Jesus I first want to thank you for this beautiful unit that you brought together. I thank you for their love! I ask that you bless them with nothing but positivity, prosperity, healing and especially a family of their own! Lord only you know what they go through and I ask you to cover and protect them. In your name I say and pray, Amen!!!

[@EOOgunro]

My goodness, she is GORGEOUS 😍

[@thandiwemaphanga1205]

AND THEY ARE BACK 😍 I love this couple so much. They have a beautiful relationship. Melisa girl, that dress, the shoes, hair & makeup, you are a QUEEN. Hopeful that one day they will become parents. God bless them.

[@beryl804]

Next time they are coming here with double/tripple testimony. God is working on that,the tears aren't in vain, let's say Amen.

[@ttballa32]

She sounds exactly like Chrissy Lampkin! She’s beautiful though and their relationship is beautiful as well.

[@tobemeis2bfree]

Yes!!!

[@je39981]

Such a beautiful couple and a beautiful woman. My heart goes out to her and I am hoping all works out for her.

[@tiffanytucker6733]

Definitely my favorite couple. Love them so much 😭

[@lucyj175]

This love right here, is beyond amazing. To have a love like this is so rare. If you're fortunate enough to have this, please don't let it go.I can feel the love, these two have for each other. I'm sending abundance to your womb. They will have healthy and beautiful children. Ase 💜.

[@msgaffney2357]

Lord bless this couple abundantly, expand their family! In Jesus name I pray Amen.

[@jazzy5975]

I love them both and not everybody experience this type of love and ure lucky and treasure it if u do have it. She's gorgeous. And i hope they get blessed with a little one.

[@orian3131]

I love her accent. She’s to beautiful. Dude is lucky. I wish I could find someone like her.

[@trudy-annsmall9600]

Hope Our Creator have blessed you by now with that person your heart desires....❤🙏

[@MXC912]

Whatever comes from God Will be beautiful. I loved how she explained that God has been in their relationship since day one. ❤️

[@YvenasDaughter]

I too have found this love. The absolute love of my life and the one thing we're missing is our babies. We will get there and overcome it together.

[@newwave2705]

She is stunning! And the yellow on her is 👌🏾

[@physicalmediamp4]

They really seem like two special souls who are meant to be together. Their love is so grounded and it’s beautiful to watch.

[@Noise_floorxx]

I hate to say, i mean really hate to say but her losing weight could have a huge positive impact on child bearing. No disrespect at all. I just hate if it were beyond her reach due to something she could possibly change. Again, all love to the two of them.

[@kamiafunchess2126]

I'm so glad you said that!! I am also Big Bold and Beautiful and it wasn't until I lost weight, that I was able to get pregnant. And saying this should not be taken as we are being bullied or hating or being stupid. I am almost positive her doctor has told her that OR it could be something else! Everybody's body is different so it's hard for us on the outside to really know. The weight loss suggestion for me is out of love and I feel it's the same for you as well Sablo! 💪🏾💜👸🏿🤴🏾

[@SoftEarthHoney]

Thank you for saying this respectfully and informatively. Our bodies know exactly what to do and how to do IF we take care of them. A plant based-type diet and 30mins of exercise would change her life. I love this couple, they are so so beautiful and I pray they’re blessed with amazing babies✨

[@daishawilliams1093]

Yesss I wanted to say my friend couldnt get pregnant till she lost her weight she used to joke about it..not getting pregnant due to weight

[@Firefly471]

Yes, my doctor said this to me as well

[@Shegroovyy]

Yess ! They told my bestfriend she couldn’t have babies because of ovarian cysts and she lost a lot of weight because they told her that it would help and she had twins !. Everyone’s body is different but that definitely could be something to try

[@fredrickstroud411]

Great to see and hear positive sisters and brothers.

[@nicolenicole9288]

These guys are my favourite couple from the entire series. I watched a few years ago and I fell in love. Super pumped to see them back!❤

[@trudy-annsmall9600]

Yes....they are my favourite too❤

[@Reeses710]

You can feel the love between them, they support, uplift, encourage & balance each other perfectly....sending good vibes & cont'd blessings to you both!

[@xKeepTheFaithx]

I'm so happy to see this lovely couple on this channel again. I pray that God will bless them with the gift of many children 💛

[@soblessed_21]

I love their union, it was destined🙌🏾🙏🏽🥰

[@MsCrooklyn718]

Thank you so much

[@shandamitchell5334]

I love them together 🥰 I wish them the best! & I pray they get those babies 🤗

[@jasmines.7927]

I can feel the love that they have for each other and that is beautiful ❤🥰. I pray🙏🏾 that she gets blessed with a baby and live happily ever after 🤰🏾🤱🏽❤💙💜💙💛🧡

[@melodylijoodi2174]

I know I'm not the only one that broke to prayer for them. God will come through for you and you will be back to testify

[@anitaseidel6645]

Can we keep getting a update of this wonderful and beautiful couple I just love these two . They remind me of me and my boyfriend they need to try ivf and she also needs to do a check up regarding her fertility praying 🙏🏾 she has lots of babies

[@semajteshari6232]

I had to stop the video because its crazy scary how similar their story is to mine. I want to hug her because we are honestly the same person. Wow thank you for this video.

[@marbellarendon7354]

Definitely shows the reality of how much time and effort goes into a long beautiful relationship ... it doesn’t just happen! That’s what makes it so worthy and special

[@meganhoben8034]

her crying made me cry... wishing only the best

[@ascott4502]

i love you both as a couple - PRAYING for your journey to parenthood. God is not holding any good thing from you -- it is evil that is stopping conception. We love you out here!!

[@trulyinsane9141]

Its the eye contact for the literal whole videoooo for mee

[@natashagrant6846]

Facts. Real love.

[@nca4794]

Lord, I pray they'll become parents. I hate to see people with a desire to parent, be without children. May God bless and keep them. 🙏🏽❤️

[@allhailchelle]

Ok, but she is STUNNING.

[@keylanistyles]

I love this couple! Beautiful! I pray that they're able to conceive but she has to focus on what she can control like losing weight and making her body ready to receive a baby. Praying for them!🙏🏾❤️

[@Sungwryter]

Aww!! I remember this couple from before. I just Love how much they love each other. 😊

[@pritchettee2905]

This was dope to watch. I’m patiently waiting for my SM!

[@WashingtonDC20032]

His freckles and beard are giving me ALL the life I need right now and her edges are LAYED to the GODS!!!!

[@lovlilady]

What a beautiful couple. He had me when he said he married his best friend. The love is strong!!!! So beautiful.

[@XlogicXX]

This was beautiful. I was enriched with a tear in my eye as I watched them affirm each other’s love and purpose.

[@tsekose8987]

Omg y’all have become so so beautiful since the last time you was here. Thank you for coming back

[@southernbellej]

This was beautiful. I wish my exes listened to me when I told them this. You don’t learn and adjust to your significant love language overnight! It takes work. I’m order to grow in security (love language) trust needs to be built. I remember a ex of mine like second week of us dating was like I trust you with my life etc and he put soooooo much pressure on me. In two months, he expected everything to be perfect etc. love is a journey and sometimes your journey is short, while others are longer. I wish everyone a strong love, that lasts forever ❤️❤️❤️

[@a.nadyaaa_]

Aside from her being STUNNINGLY GORGEOUS and him being handsome, they’re love for each other is so strikingly raw to me. 🙊👏🏾 You can literally feel as well as see they’re deep connection towards one another and I definitely agree with her when she said they’re soulmates. It’s the care , respect, mutual admiration, compassion and overall love for not only eachother but they’re union as well that has me captured with them. I noticed she has a cute little accent too so I’m curious to know where she’s from. 😇 I wish her all the babies she desires though. God Bless them 💛🥺🙏🏾

[@Kaylamacc]

They are one beautiful couple !! He’s handsome, she is so beautiful. Love the transparency and wish that my man & I could have a sit down like this !

[@itsjooo7527]

Love, true love, is such a beautiful thing. I pray that we all experience this type of vulnerable, prosperous, deep love one day with the person whom God sends to us… not who WE think is good for us but with someone who is truly for us. This world needs a lottttt of love back in it. 💜

[@MRSYELLOWJELLO021]

Its so nice to see them back. They look more amazing than they did the last time they were on here. Makes me smile to know they continue to be wonderful souls

[@dnd1007]

This couple is so genuine! Their love absolutely radiates. Beautiful!

[@resilientjhay]

Omg 😱 imma cry 😭 I’m praying for you sis !! This is so beautiful 😍

[@WakeAndBakeWithUncleRay]

I truly love what they seem to stand for, from their brand, to their company, to their respect and love for one another. Truly an inspiration.....

[@ndutakaranja4604]

I love watching the chemistry between two people who almost look like a copy of each other physically

[@dinas1825]

Is she a model? she’s STUNNING they both are