The Dark Side of Polygyny: 5 Common Manipulation Tactics Women Use Against Men

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Men practicing polygyny, beware! This video uncovers the emotional games women play and equips you with the tools to stop manipulation in its tracks. Guilty people may be TRIGGERED by this video.
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[@amrabdeldayem8333]

That is actually a top notch very well structured advice and video ❤

[@zakariyyamccullin1005]

I’m buying this book. Looking forward to it.

[@j4pmarketers]

This manipulation techniques are actually what men who want to go into polygamy need. It's so real

[@zxcccccc1]

Asking for help is separate from a man having another wife or wives and family planning should be discussed especially if you want everyone to operate has a family. A selfish non-providing man is going to continue to be one with another wife or not. Just two initial problems I noticed first.

[@zahrahramnath9380]

When you read that post, I laughed so hard, saw the manipulation right there, tapping into the emotions of others, I like how you broke it down.

[@DaughtersofTMH]

She's exhausted and wants more support with the kids and more quality time with her husband in general but went about it wrong. Instead of speaking to him and being direct voicing her concerns-she spoke at him in an accusatory tone. She let her anger get the best of her which will only make things worse. Now there's 2 problems to fix----her feelings of being unable to cope with the kids while he's with his other wife (which may actually be valid) and her disrespectful manner 😩Needless to say, she's struggling with their new dynamic. I have never heard the term gallivanting used in a positive manner 😅

[@DaughtersofTMH]

She posted anonymously but she's probably bringing it to him in the same way and wanted her feelings justified by others.

[@sandycheeks1580]

She can get extra help from her cowife or friends with the kids. She can ask family members. Leading Men are so busy working & networking 💰. They need sleep & selfcare “me time” too! She’s needy & clingy. That does not make a good wife. It helps for everyone to come together & make a schedule that works. She needs to organize & minimize her life if overwhelmed.

[@DaughtersofTMH]

@@sandycheeks1580 Coming together and making a schedule with the other adults is a good idea. Or she can focus on how to improve her situation herself if they can’t figure it out collectively. We don’t know how her workload at home and time with her husband changed when they went from monogamy to polygyny. It could’ve been drastic. It’s an adjustment. A woman is going to cling to her husband naturally as well as need him so it’s going to take time to adjust to another wife “clinging and needing” him equally as well. The issue could be more than just poor organization on her part though. Hard to tell with only getting one perspective.

[@AuthorPreneurElite]

You only get what you’re willing to walk away from. This video comes at a good time. I’m dealing with the same. My response: “No one wants you to be unhappy. Go find your happiness. I wish you the best”

[@outstandingpersonalrelationshi]

✊🏽💪🏽👑 Happiness is overrated & fleeting. Fulfillment is much better and satisfying الحمد لله

[@aerolongercosmos4487]

Great strategies by Coach Nazir. Still, men would be powerless against a woman who makes herself small, sick, and vulnerable.

[@outstandingpersonalrelationshi]

Why? How would he be powerless except by his own choosing? Whether or not she has mental health issues doesn't abdicate him from making decisions which is where his power lies.

[@aerolongercosmos4487]

@outstandingpersonalrelationshi Because a frail human's helpless tears throws people off balance. It's easy to be lead by the nose when the tone is not accusatory but rather pitiful. Which is why like Coach Nazir says it's important to build emotional intelligence and resilience. Otherwise, one will end up with just the illusion of power.

[@devononeseven]

I love your videos and wisdom. Whether in polygyny or not, these are helpful gems for identifying and approaching emotional manipulation tactics. Ways I have known they are emotional manipulation is because they feel bad, are meant to feel bad. I think it was Jesse Lee Peterson that said she's the devil and you don't argue with the devil lol

[@901guineas3]

May Allah bless you and your families. Amin. Keep that necessary truth coming.

[@titusnare7228]

Coach, Thank You for the video, I wish it was uploaded last week, I was dealing with this exact issue , the tactics, the words the tears , I reacted and stepped down and succumbed to shame guilt and reacted instead of responding. Such videos build me up , thank you , I want to marry 3 wives but my first and 2nd wives don't want each other at all due to my reaction to issues and not responding. What can I do coach , to build up my confidence, second to fix my reactions in future or fix my past responses , now am lost and don't know what to do , I really want to build my legacy , my kids , my homes.

[@outstandingpersonalrelationshi]

Short answer: If you're committed to legacy and want exponential growth in your leadership & thinking,, get SHIFT coaching. http:coachnazir.com Or join our community who get early access to videos like this (there are 3 more on deck), have access to our courses, DMs, and we have conversations daily. PolygamyCommunity.com

[@goldiekhan7117]

Yah I got to work on the false dichotomy 😄

[@outstandingpersonalrelationshi]

😂

[@BlacFireSan]

Man, uncle is back with another 🔥 video. Thanks UNC god bless🙏🏾 🤩

[@DanishF]

At the end where she calls out all men as unepathetic reveals how her own relationships are going.

[@Shamgar444]

Thanks for the GAME coach.

[@joyful610]

Show up with dignity and respect! All of us!

[@DanishF]

Next level video Coach! 🔥💚🇵🇸

[@shalawnmayfield1116]

🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@LanLe-rz4lm]

My problem is seeing through manipulation and allowing it to make me laugh uncontrollably, with those I’m seeing if I should make her a wife, not my actual wife. That makes them really angry 😤 Lol 😂 I’m then called a sociopath for laughing at something that I see as foolish, no matter her grave narrative, I know is false. Maybe coach Nazir would see my response as immature, and I should be ready to respond the way he shows, with logic. I’m working on it. But it does nullify the foolishness, quickly with my curveball of laughter, as if she just gave a punchline.

[@outstandingpersonalrelationshi]

Hey, it's just a different way of calling it out, the main thing is to not let it slide, but if she isn't your wife, laughter seems appropriate. 😂

[@cr8cat794]

lots of emo here..