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@deewavy71822 ай бұрын
In your deep voice.
@mcculler12 ай бұрын
I really need your advice on my girlfriend
@davidakins3788Ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS Amen 🙏
@Bob_Sunday2 ай бұрын
"Walking away can be tough but staying in a toxic situation can be tougher".... Choose wisely dudes.
@ronaldnkausu45063 ай бұрын
You are never in control of someone's actions but,but you are in control of yourself
@marguskiis77112 ай бұрын
Does not matter
@AnnihilateddАй бұрын
@@marguskiis7711 why
@marguskiis7711Ай бұрын
@@Annihilatedd You can do whatever you do, women just don`t care at all.
@AnnihilateddАй бұрын
@@marguskiis7711 Depends for sure 👍🏼
@RichRayBeatsnFilms3 ай бұрын
This is how (and why) so many women are single. No man has time for those childish games.
@tayebizem37493 ай бұрын
And all of them say they're not single to seem desirable
@Aditya-qo1yy3 ай бұрын
@@RichRayBeatsnFilms yes absolutely, a man is someone with a purpose earning bread and reputation he has no time for this bs
@simbarashetereraichimhanda63863 ай бұрын
Thats a red flag to me. a woman that speaks of another man especially in my presence is a deal breaker @@tayebizem3749
@hermesalonso23103 ай бұрын
Thank you,I keep it moving,grow up
@carlossantana4252 ай бұрын
FACTS 💯
@Victory_Channel0013 ай бұрын
Setting boundaries is not about controlling your partner but about safeguarding your self. On point 👉
@marguskiis77112 ай бұрын
Women do not care of your boundaries.
@princenelsonsinko52373 ай бұрын
It is important to remain calm, don't allow them to manipulate you, they love playing stupid games yet risking your life
@MichaelMillerVlogs3 ай бұрын
How to deal with a woman playing games. Stop talking to her. Find another woman.
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
😅 basically
@Princewilly2263 ай бұрын
@@MichaelMillerVlogs The best way up
@nanapoku52593 ай бұрын
Simplicita!! No time to waste - keep moving!
@deantecunningham12413 ай бұрын
U just don't play them at all accurate
@Paschal1233 ай бұрын
@@MichaelMillerVlogs Hey Mike. Wish we were close; would have bought you a beer Lol.
@ellyomondi66133 ай бұрын
I can't stop listening your videos ..i just got married last year..keep posting Jessica and be blessed ❤ much love from Kenya ,the pride of Africa
@mountzioncenter3 ай бұрын
A good wife comes from the Lord brothers , if you wanna marry the right person. Be right with God and he will bless you with a good woman
@ModelJames133 ай бұрын
It's not promised and there is no guarantee.
@masannehceesay3 ай бұрын
@@ModelJames13there’s 💯 guarantee with God
@darrylwilliams66273 ай бұрын
😂
@ModelJames133 ай бұрын
@@masannehceesay Where in the Bible is there a guarantee that every man will be given a good wife?
@joybwoy3 ай бұрын
@@ModelJames13 Your so ignorant about it why ✍ there's plenty a verse for that anyways
@yelughoo12893 ай бұрын
While she plays mind games for real, “walk away” and never look back for real 😊
@TheFriendlyPsychopath3 ай бұрын
How long have you had this information?!🤔
@yelughoo12893 ай бұрын
The day Sega released their first console video game 😁
@christianbenn3162 ай бұрын
& it,s a total red flag
@marguskiis77112 ай бұрын
And then? Wank alone?
@pboi53392 ай бұрын
@@marguskiis7711😂 u crazy bro .
@Phillips66GeoАй бұрын
Great advice for men. Thank you Jessica
@MrCarlero13 ай бұрын
Thanks, Ms. Os. I will listen to this over and over again. There two many women playing games
@HJCreative183 ай бұрын
Your videos are always on point,it has helped me alot to overcome relationship stress, know my worth as a man & etcetera.... Much love from Nigeria...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Wonderful
@rahabmugambi76973 ай бұрын
The content is so timely.very important piece of advice.thanks Jessica
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@collinskirui3 ай бұрын
This video came right on time. I now feel relieved. Thanks Jessica.
@lildajo12752 ай бұрын
This video was very helpful. Thank You. I still have a lot to work on but I can now see where I was wrong. I wasn’t enforcing and setting boundaries for myself. I self sabotaged not even realizing what was going on. I wasn’t reading the board. I started becoming someone I wasn’t, and I started losing friends. I couldn’t put my finger on the why. I felt depressed. Now im protecting my energy. It’s Still hard for me to speak up about certain things. I try not to let pride and my ego get in the way now.
@gsvirk1973197329 күн бұрын
So perfectly explained. Loved it 😇
@bluelotus3332 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this thank you 💯❤️
@hendrecksethoga89213 ай бұрын
True. A person will love you regardless of having money, expensive clothes, or anything materialistic. You do not have to pose to be a person you are not...
@isaacchinonso37495 күн бұрын
This is wow..! i love this video and I think many women are not going to like you for it. .. don't settle for anything less than what you deserve in any relationship (at least a respect). know what you want and stick to it. The right person for you would LOVE you unconditionally without requiring you to play games or to pretend to be who you're not.
@TheWMBWLife3 ай бұрын
Jessica is always 💯 spot on. Understanding the game is big-time important, and once you do it is likely to be less bothersome and leave you unphased rather than drained. "Don't hate the player, hate the game."
@dalac_933 ай бұрын
Thank you Jessica! You’re an amazing sister who all need. God bless you 🙏🏾
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@exfoliage3 ай бұрын
This is one of the realest videos out there. Excellent and intelligent presentation !! I thoroughly enjoyed the realness.
@HJCreative183 ай бұрын
Applying your tips has really helped me alot in my relationship with my ex, i had to just breakup cuz it looked as if i was d only one in the relationship, she made me feel like i correct her too much, everything i do irritates her, she disrespects me, she compares me.. thank God we're separated now cuz i watched 😊 you video about knowing your worth as a man...
@robinbanx4562 ай бұрын
@@HJCreative18 yeh she was tryna play n your face hard asab. Good u bailed out.
@QuhronАй бұрын
I’m going through the same thing, but one thing about it, we reap what we sow…
@allenedufulesaah743 ай бұрын
Im going through same but thank you for these tips. I need to protect myself first.
@nakdickson3 ай бұрын
She disrespected me when I was trying to be there for her while she was angry. Out of respect, I gave her space until she tried to play victim. I called her up, engaged her about her disrespectful behavior. She justified her actions by saying she asked me not to come close when she's angry. I was stunned, had no option than to go quiet.
@antoniomckissic5402Ай бұрын
@nakdickson Wow the same thing I did & got the same response 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@nakdicksonАй бұрын
@@antoniomckissic5402 bro, that thing hurt me bad. But lesson learned.
@darriuspeterson9165Ай бұрын
@@nakdickson this! This the exact situation. I walked away. Never looked back. Now she tries to make contact
@ericheffner11213 күн бұрын
You have more options brother. LEAVE!!!
@CadePlaisance3 ай бұрын
Very clear, concise, mature, and truthful advice. This is how to attract a loving and mature person.
@issadiawara38Ай бұрын
My ex has all this you mentioned that bit..ch was good at playing games 🤣🤣🤣 I walk away now she’s coming back and I don’t want her anymore because I find peace within myself without her 🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾
@jacobmahlaba65327 күн бұрын
Don't even text her back bro she's as good as dead to you I'm going through same
@ps4ap_ballin67219 күн бұрын
Same. She was playing games, i stopped texting, she reached out in 3 weeks
@clintonziizigah99628 күн бұрын
A good woman really comes from God , let keep praying.
@samuelmawulikplim81263 ай бұрын
I come here also to learn new words and expressions. “A short fuse”, that’s a good one to keep💯
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
💯
@uplift563 ай бұрын
Wow, that last statement that you made about what an acceptable relationship should be is something that needs to be in writing in a picture frame 🤩!! People do need to do self work before they go cozy up to the next person, really ☝🏽.
@geoffreygitonga4012 ай бұрын
Thanks Jessica you really help Soo many people out here...am proud of you 🎉🎉🎉
@claymorekwaramba69373 ай бұрын
An On Time Word ! Y'all need to pay attention! Jess O stays dropping some brutal truths 💯💯🖤❤️
@matthewokunola56733 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for this. This is what I'm currently going through. I've been played . I'll work on what you shared here and I believe it going to be helpful. Thanks
@shaamadam78933 ай бұрын
I had the same situation last year. She used to text me regularly and we used to go out for a date but she suddenly changed telling that she will be busy with her life and will not able to answer my messages as before! I did stop texting her and I walked away!!
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Good for you
@davidrivas64123 ай бұрын
She is not busy for the man she has burning desire for. The thing is she lost interest so good thing you moved on. Good for you
@Rough_Coins3 ай бұрын
🫡🤙🏿
@some3sharks2 ай бұрын
You might have showed her too much attention which made her lost interest
@RevealedFilms2 ай бұрын
Busy getting her face shoved in pillows by guys who show less interest. Lesson learned kiddo, they want the guy who doesn’t text regularly and makes them wonder.
@esssaaaa5417Ай бұрын
I like that you made this actually a positive experience, by making this about one’s personal strength and a learning experience. Ty 👍
@imanishimwerenovat86223 ай бұрын
Watching this from Lusaka Zambia 🇿🇲🤝, and I think you deserve 1M+ views.
@journeywithdr.collinsokafo9414Ай бұрын
They play games with the good guys and get bent over by the bad guys. I did not set boundaries in my own relationship, but I have learnt my lessons. Thanks for this video.
@ImadAhmadsalih3 ай бұрын
keep remembering this, how you helped me believed in myself anf move on with my life ladle. and now i living my best ever life Emad from Norway
@YolanchiMiller3 ай бұрын
I walked away but healed was the baddest move i ever took , it ate me from inside until i ate it up now im 🔥🤝🏾
@paulkazibacharles25 күн бұрын
Thank you for this wisdom.
@Shiv005323 ай бұрын
Lady I must say " You have an amazing soothing voice".
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Thank you! I appreciate that
@Shiv005323 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS Welcome
@LukeShowBiz3 ай бұрын
💯
@brightmafara99203 ай бұрын
I follow this lady for her eloquence in the English language
@raymondwittah6193 ай бұрын
Jessica ano ne brofo bekumi ooooooo. My listening crush from the days of City FM. One of our best radio presenters in Ghana. I love her soo much. She could be on the radio from morning till late afternoon and we never get bored of listening to her lovely voice. I love her very much.
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️ appreciate you. Thanks for finding me here
@XIsports393 ай бұрын
I love it Jessica🫡 whenever you’re giving it to us everyday 🙏
@Hardcorehiphop68773 ай бұрын
You are right about this. Thank you. I really appreciate you Jessica. Blessings to you.
@godleveleldritchblast52573 ай бұрын
8:17 basically be the leader. This is always a topic that comes up in these videos when talking about our other halves. Setting boundaries and its always targeted at us men. Set boundaries because you are the leader. She does not respect a man who has no boundaries. You could do the most debauched things under the sun but if you set boundaries with her she will see you as a masculine man. I know because i tested it myself. This comes from experience and wisdom.
@moeketsiclemend.57913 ай бұрын
Thank you Jessica Os🙏🙏. I am facing that currently 2:31.
@michaeljewell533 ай бұрын
Blowing hot and cold game seems to be on the increase with many women lately and has certainly been a popular pass-time with many of my ex's, but yes your right Jessie it's very confusing to most guys when they get this,In my case Im afraid I tend to loose interest fast (maybe I should be more 'playful' ) but I do try to look at myself and think 'what did I do wrong'? thanks for great Vid again Jessica 👍🏻x
@paulcolin90713 ай бұрын
Same even if I found her very attractive initially
@femipopoola89553 ай бұрын
Brilliant! Brilliant!! Brilliant!!! tips on how to handle games playing & manipulation esp from the female side. You're so intelligent 🧠. Beauty + Brains 🧠 Thank you Jessica
@Herv663 ай бұрын
Thank You so much for your content. It's really appreciated! 🤩💯
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
You're most welcome
@mondaybakare94543 ай бұрын
I always like the dopamine you always bring
@abahiduh32463 ай бұрын
"Think of ur emotions as the ocean, when you stay calm and steady you are as a peaceful sea" 👈Jessica, this powerful 💥hot like fire
@Yawziggyentertainment3 ай бұрын
This video came at the right time 😂😂, Thanks jess
@robertevansjr97422 ай бұрын
Jessica, you are wise above your years! Im impressed!
@fawhoogangdem70593 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video Princess ❤
@trappnathaniel5000Ай бұрын
Much appreciated advice!
@onyekachukwujoe68832 ай бұрын
Thank You Jess, You are the best.
@alycemaloney29823 ай бұрын
Heck with women & their games. When people start pulling sh*t with me, I just walk away. That's not the type of person I would want to be with. I will communicate concisely that the game is over & I will be done 😂
@ytuser130820113 ай бұрын
same.
@Kingglory19973 ай бұрын
When you are with right person, you’ll always experience a sense of peace.
@serwornu15723 ай бұрын
@@alycemaloney2982 fact
@marguskiis77112 ай бұрын
You remain alone.
@marguskiis77112 ай бұрын
@@Kingglory1997 problem is: you never find the right one.
@AphrooneRichardson3 ай бұрын
Greeting from CHI-TOWN CHICAGO, IL, USA! Thanks for sharing this highly informative and enlightening podcast! AMEN-ASE!
@javanoflagos14392 ай бұрын
Jessica you just helped my life, this particular video is for me cos I'm in this situation
@billskab83503 ай бұрын
See your emotions as the ocean ❤
@josephsampa81313 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your videos. Much love from Zambia 🇿🇲
@stochasticxalid98533 ай бұрын
I subscribed yesterday sister. You really know what you are talking about. Thank you from the very bottom of my❤ for your amazing work. Love your voice. Thanks.
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Thanks and welcome
@champojm3 ай бұрын
Thanks Jessica. I wish I could take back time and listen to you 10years ago.
@emmanuelunique7789Ай бұрын
This came in timely ❤
@zlatnik823 ай бұрын
Spot on Jessica 👌🏽 clear cut explanation
@ChalyFlowsАй бұрын
Thank you 😊 so much 👍🏽
@jgirling68902 ай бұрын
The reason why it drives you mad, is because "Your Queen" is treating you like an option. 1 - Sacrifice your Queen, and she MIGHT come running back wanting you as her King 2 - Start getting more involved with other pieces on the board, she aint the only piece you have to play with 3 - ACT LIKE A KING
@rodgamwo5 күн бұрын
❗️
@kevinc71283 ай бұрын
Jessica, you are a genius ! You’re analysis is always on point ! 👌🏽
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@ytuser130820113 ай бұрын
The real question is: do you really want to be with someone who is able and willing to do this to you? I would never do this to anyone, so we know there are people who don't do this. Choose them instead. Discard people who are toxic, manipulative. Those are your boundaries right there.
@johnnycorn72253 ай бұрын
This is the best post I've seen in a while on this subject.
@larennkambule60683 ай бұрын
Hey that's very wise advice from this beautiful woman! Kudos!
@InfiniteManifest66492 ай бұрын
This channel loves your videos. very educative and almost the same relationship tips as this channel, even though our channel uses faceless automated videos we agree with you on all your videos. Well done and continue to engage your audients with these wonderful videos.
@pedrosantosvianadevasconce3226Ай бұрын
Very good advices, Jessica!
@andrewessiaw38363 ай бұрын
Jess, I needed this video two weeks ago. Anyway, thanks for this.
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Better late then never! lol! Glad it was helpful!
@SamuelByaruhanga-x3fАй бұрын
Wooooww am speechless ❤❤
@MoorBloodАй бұрын
Men, if women are playing games. Just walk away. A woman doesn’t play games with a man she wants to be with. You’re a second or third option if she’s playing. Don’t settle for this behavior. That simple.
@Justlordfx2 ай бұрын
Thank you for such a wonderful education Please my question is,am i to take one of the points to deal with such situations or i should follow all the 4 tips . Because am currently facing this topic. Thank you
@carllucas10722 ай бұрын
🎉 Thank you for sharing 🙏 Live Coach
@JessicaOS2 ай бұрын
Any time!
@Its_superdave093 ай бұрын
Great tips! Really helpful
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@harrydabigfoot53663 ай бұрын
I dont know why but i felt everything that was said connects with my current situation .🙌
@jamesigamba57633 ай бұрын
Thanks 😊😊 Jecissa 0s, for the advice. I also did this to my ex she was not ready to respect me or take my redirections
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Good job!
@YouTubebuddy2773 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOSmadam I am going through the same situation. The girl used to give me attention when I approach and told her I like her she's not flirting with other guys.
@xxxyyy-iy4hf3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the lesson. Blessings.
@AnnyBen54332 ай бұрын
God bless you Jessica
@djamazing5209Ай бұрын
I love you God bless your soul 🙏🏾
@YalaMan013 ай бұрын
Is there a better video on KZbin? This is a helpful video.
@stylishlaunda3 ай бұрын
Nyc video Jessica this is what a was searching for quite a while thankyou so very much
@Ahmedyussuffarah3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for the good advice my dear sister
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
My pleasure
@DabohChelsea-ik7bm3 ай бұрын
Thanks very much ❤❤❤ I really do appreciate it a lot
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
No problem 😊
@sportingarenatv74953 ай бұрын
I like what you do great content have experienced something similar you are very right thank you for sharing.
@Diirexz3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much,I really appreciate everything you said because right now I'm going through married situation and definitely I apply them in this situation ❤
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Best of luck!
@Franklin-ef893 ай бұрын
Always concise ❤
@AztecRose-zs4ptАй бұрын
I love your words ❤️
@christineMaccallum-uo3qx3 ай бұрын
Hallelujah hallelujah is the highest I praise 3 I Hallelujah hallelujah is the highest I praise 3 I ❤❤
@dynamic9016Ай бұрын
Another good video.
@godleveleldritchblast52573 ай бұрын
6:03 I dont respond with my own games. I just tell them straight up. If you aren't happy being here the door is there. You can leave at anytime. If they play stupid game, i just flip the script on them. You want to compare me to other men then i say, "well if you want that then go find him. You sit there acting like you are perfect but nobody is perfect". I make it clear if they want something else that the door is there. My answer is always the door is there. Saying that i kept my own house clean and cooked the meals(where i live, most women cant cook to save their lives) so i would constantly be asked "what am i here for" they knew why they were there because they brought nothing else of value to my life.