Over 50 I now know the real reason why I don't belong anywhere

[@EricLashxwn]

Im 31 and been knowing it since a kid but now i truly know because god been showing me more and more everyday.

[@KeeloReed]

Literally just spoke to my whole spirit/ my whole everything 😪

[@jeanskrrs]

oh my goodness, you are such a kind & gentle soul :) with what you said from the start i am so glad many people feel the same way.. and am hoping we all soon begin to feel belonging and contentment and love within ourselves

[@andreajane1111]

you are so kind, thank you. Yes it is possible when you connect with the pain and hurt that you have embedded within your heart and heal it. Much love

[@chriscrosby5875]

I really appreciate this video and I’m hoping this video reaches more people. I think it’s a growing trend with people sharing superficial parts of themselves without it going any deeper than that and being vulnerable.

[@andreajane1111]

Thank you for your kind comment and you are welcome. It is my intention to help people understand themselves better and how they can live a life of happiness and fulfilment

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

I agree. I can meet people and that's how it is. They ignore the relationship without guilt. It seems like they just float off.... I don't smother but I do try a bit to keep it alive but when no response after a few reach outs....I quit.

[@chriscrosby5875]

Yeah @bluejeansandjellybeans some people are really lame but they can float off like fart in the wind that they can be.

[@michelleugalde5444]

"i get to choose how i want to think and feel, nobody else get to choose that", i think this is gonna be my new everyday mantra. i feel u andrea, i'm in my 20's and i have always felt like i didn't belong anywhere all my life, i always felt like i was different and i didn't know why until this past year, now i know why and it's because i was made for something else, something nobody (or at least, few people) can understand, now i feel different in an amazing way. i'm so proud of u for taking care of yourself, don't ever feel like you've already wasted years trying to figure it out why you've always felt that way, now you're free and you get to choose you everyday routine, and i can tell that choosing nature, meditation, rest, breathing work, reading and writing whatever you feel, it's gonna make you feel in the present. i enjoyed this video, thank u so much for sharing your story, i really connected trought u. have an amazing life sweetie:)

[@andreajane1111]

@@michelleugalde5444 thank you so much for your comment. Yes it is my mantra too 😊 Iam so happy you are learning how special you are. I do love nature and everything else you mentioned ❤️

[@Firegirl010]

I'm 16 and i've felt that way since forever. Due to that i locked myself down and became someone I wasn't. I was nothing basically and just existed. After a lot of internal work that i did I think there is one thing that is important to realize: You cannot make a foreign puzzle piece fit into your puzzle, you have to choose the right piece and that is your true self. You will belong anywhere when you belong to yourself. This video is making people feel seen and I thank you for uploading this extremely valuable video!

[@andreajane1111]

@@Firegirl010 thank you so much for sharing your experience. You are so special ❤️

[@vjvvxrse]

thankyou ❤

[@cupofkoji]

Really needed to hear this, thank you for sharing this! Personally, just breaking free form the people pleasing phase has been really important for me (although I do slip up once in a while) but connecting this sense of insecurity and constant need for love with our parents makes a lot of sense now that I think about it… not in a manner of blaming them but understanding that they too craved loved growing up and might have never received it. At the end of the day we all just want to be loved, right? and I think that is how shame works, we are afraid of not being loved so we seal ourselves away. We let shame dictate our lives and miss beautiful opportunities… unless we learn to like ourselves and love who we are first, we will never break free from these shackles. I might have rambled on hahaha, have a lovely day ahead!

[@andreajane1111]

@@cupofkoji you are welcome 🤗 we all just want love, you explained it so beautifully

[@lorettaehnes6588]

I'm with you, sister. I moved to another state to be closer to my children, grandchildren. Turns out I could have moved anywhere and be just as ignored, and probably not have the angst of it right in my face. Where i left, I had a tribe that cared about me. I didn't have a good relationship with my mother, so I am figuring it's karma I must have coming

[@andreajane1111]

I feel for you sister. It does feel harsh when your family ignore you. Life and people can mirror back to you what you are feeling inside. I have done some other videos about self love which will help you to understand that what you are feeling about yourself inside is reflected back to you from life and other people. Do you know about inner child healing?

[@ramendalia2417]

you just explained perfectly how ive felt my whole life, thank you for this Andrea

[@andreajane1111]

@@ramendalia2417 you are welcome 🤗

[@MetalBere]

❤

[@slumpygoodgirl]

ugh, i love you for that, thank you

[@andreajane1111]

@@slumpygoodgirl so happy I helped you ❤️

[@heba6488]

im 18 rn and thats almost exactly my reality, thank you for making this video, your voice is really soothing you should have a podcast, thank you for sharing your vulnrability with me that way.

[@andreajane1111]

You are welcome. I am so happy that I helped you and thank you so much for the lovely compliment. I think I should definitely start a podcast this year

[@flubby4203]

this is such a beautiful video i have just recently turned 19 and this is how i’ve felt for so long it’s so comforting to hear someone talk so clearly about something i’ve been struggling with thank you so much for this video ❤️

[@andreajane1111]

@@flubby4203 you are welcome 🙏 Iam so glad it helped you

[@nataliagronek7469]

I Love for saying that out loud luv luv u❤❤❤❤

[@andreajane1111]

@@nataliagronek7469 love you too ❤️

[@skiplee5490]

When you get old,you become invisible.

[@Ms7sOo]

This is me, I should appreciate myself more

[@andreajane1111]

@@Ms7sOo yes because you are good enough the way you are

[@eloiseprays]

I feel like this, but it feels like an adventure and freeing. Im not alone, Jesus is always with me ❤ God bless people, ask Jesus to keep you company ❤❤❤

[@gone245]

me in 30 yrs

[@andreajane1111]

@@gone245 you can be her now

[@5kl9f]

Humnism at its finest. (gag)

[@skaycgoldenridge]

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[@5kl9f]

Ah. And here folks we have a new-ager. Don't listen to this total baloney.

[@andreacastilla7954]

thank u for this video Andrea 🩵

[@andreajane1111]

You are welcome 🤗