Overcoming Compassion Fatigue With Kimberly Parker

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@laurapaskavitz2689 6 ай бұрын

My friends psychiatrist has told her there is nothing that can help her. 🤬 She needs a specialist who understands her illness & can actually support her & help her to thrive. This same psychiatrist said he doesn't believe in psych meds anymore & was going to retire. He didn't retire. This guy is a real piece of work! 😢

@jenniferlynn329 6 ай бұрын

That's why counselors need counselors.

@karmencopes6165 5 ай бұрын

There is always hope. I believe that there is always the opportunity for anyone's mental state to improve. I am sorry to hear that her psychiatrist has given up.

@hopeandjazz9535 6 ай бұрын

I'm not comfortable with medical assisted ending of life for mental health suffering.

@dennistate5953 6 ай бұрын

Thanks y'all. Terrifically overwhelmed just now. Not giving up just hurting a lot.❤😢

@thecreativemastermin 5 ай бұрын

I'm sorry this is a clickbait video.

@patricialomden8519 5 ай бұрын

I don’t think eating unhealthy foods is self care. Nor is drinking alcohol.

@19Billebob94 6 ай бұрын

Just a note, the Dutch professional is bound to say that there were was nothing else that they could do to help the patient by the law. The law requires that you have to have tried all other therapies before going through and respecting the patient’s desire to terminate their life for it to be done legally. Regardless of what your view is on the topic, if it’s a humane or despicable act to decide to grant this person’s wish, this is way the doctor said that.

@Dan-w6r2l 2 ай бұрын

I'm a chronic life long sufferer of numerous mental illnesses. Tho I would never do assistant suicide. I totally see why someone would. Sufferring fay in - out. With no hope. My Christianity is what saves me. My faith of eternity with Jesus is all I look forward to.

@BipolarCourage 6 ай бұрын

I have permanent impairment from a mental injury AFTER treatment. I am diagnosed with PTSD and bipolar disorder. My clinicians say where I'm at now is as good as it can get. It has been a lot worse. It's a myth that all psychiatric conditions are fully treatable to the point of remission. I rely on support services to survive. Sometimes, I feel like a burden. I would qualify for 'euthanasia'. I made a video a few days ago about my thoughts about this topic.

@jenniferlynn329 6 ай бұрын

I hope you can find friends and peace. I find that if I go outside and do something with my hands, it's better. I woke up, took my thyroid pill, changed clothes, and I was weedwhacking at 6:45am. Then stop when the battery died. Watched TV "Wish Man" on Peacock for 20min, 5min of KZbin, then saw yours. I'll go to the cemetery later end water/weed. You know which plants need the additional attention because of the wilting from dry hot weather. We're the same way; we need attention too. Try thinking of things you can DO instead of things that you aren't up to anymore. Don't make a Don't list. (Irony) I'll be thinking about you today.

@BipolarCourage 5 ай бұрын

@@jenniferlynn329 I think making a sense of purpose helps.

@ravingcuriosity6345 5 ай бұрын

Please, don't believe in "as good as it gets"! New things are being discovered all the time (new treatments, new medications, new explanations to certain conditions, and also separating better what before was bundled into one condition).

@BipolarCourage 5 ай бұрын

@@ravingcuriosity6345 have been assessed by multiple clinicians. Just reality. Has been a process of adjusting to it.

@piexactlyequalsthree 5 ай бұрын

I hear you! Whatever you decide, let me share my thoughts: We all are are burden to someone if we are aware of it or not. We are all connected somehow. Being a burden shouldn't be the reason to end a life. If we let this chain of thought how suffering and feeling like a burden is a valid reason to end a life let take over the world, it will become a cold place for the entire world.

@qotu01 6 ай бұрын

The state of Victoria in Australia has medically assisted dying. But not for mental illness. Belgium was the first to allow it at all, as well as for mental illness, as far as I know - and psychiatrists started to object.

@MsCristina38 6 ай бұрын

Take care of yourselves sweet doctors ❤

@sarahs413 5 ай бұрын

I wonder if she ever had the option of going through a full DBT course. I can't even BEGIN to tell you how much that has changed my life for the better with the various similar disorders she had.

@faux_vampire 6 ай бұрын

It was her choice after all, right? No one forced her? It’s sad but it was her life. Not yours. “I was in the same situation” - no. You weren’t. Your general circumstances might have been similar but you’ve never been in her shoes, never experienced what she had. Everyone is so focused on quantity and not on quality. That being said, I’d be interested to see her doc records and credentials. Because one thing is “I can’t help you” and the other is “the medical professionals never seen this getting better “

@Dan-w6r2l 2 ай бұрын

Ive been being treated for over 25 yrs and I am worse now, cuz w/ age cognitive adaptability becomes unmanageable. A little stress is impossible to overcome.

@faces_of_japan 6 ай бұрын

Thanks as always for the quality content Kyle, always thought provoking and insightful.

@sarahs413 5 ай бұрын

It is VERY alarming that this practitioner FED her that hopelessness. I have BPD,, PTSD, Depression and Anxiety. I lucked out with those who have worked with me! I could have EASILY felt that way had I had a psych practitioner as she's had! That REALLY needed to be a situation of a referral to another practitioner.

@ravingcuriosity6345 5 ай бұрын

In my experience CPTSD could end up cascading all of those things you have mentioned. Maybe look into that. And I agree with you: We give the professionals a status of knowing-it-all and just believe what they say...even emotionally. This is very dangerous, because nobody knows it all, because we are still learning a lot about psychology and the functioning of the brain, because every professional is flawed, because often MDs lack the empathy that those patients need, because her psychiatrist could very well be going through the topic of this video - compassion fatigue! How was that sentence? Something like: A lie repeated a thousand times becomes the truth. We should find our own inner truth, and that can be made difficult if you have a bad professional mislabeling you (I know very well how hopeless this feels!).

@OftheTold-7 6 ай бұрын

This issue, to me seems, to question, 'what is the role of medical professionals when it comes to suicide', this is regardless of any moral concerns. It is a question of how, or if a populous would feel secure and comfortable being treated,/seeking treatment from professionals that have facilitated the suicide of an individual(s). This holds many implications, and bigger than any one individual, it would be/is the society in which we live, and are fostering to create.

@danavixen6274 6 ай бұрын

It seems like her doctors were VERY pessimistic. Human rights violation. 😔 Thank you Kyle and Kimberly! 😀

@stephsdlnthms3957 6 ай бұрын

I absolutely disagree with assisting in suicide, and I would argue it directly violates the do no harm principle. I would never, ever agree to be a party to such a thing. There are a litany of arguments against it. But perhaps most concerning is the high likelihood that this will result in abuse by governments, insurers and bad faith practitioners! If a treatment is more expensive than a person committing suicide can we say with 1000% certainty a client wouldn’t be pushed toward that option just because of cost? What if a society identifies something as a mental illness and shames people for it? In certain nations, for example, homosexuality is illegal. In those nations, if they identified homosexuality as a mental disorder and then promoted assisted suicide for homosexuality, would that be ok? Absolutely not. Suicide is a tragedy, not a solution. And we as practitioners cannot in one breath promote the suicide hotline and tell people to get help while also saying that we are willing to assist people in taking their own lives. At best it’s hypocritical.

@Tilly236 6 ай бұрын

I think people should be allowed to decide whether to live or not.

@netnobody6907 5 ай бұрын

regarding medical assisted suicide: to be fair i don't think i can realistically be happy, I've gotten close before to ending myself but since I've found the desire to continue regardless so i can secure a good future for those that still care to live within my social circle and more importantly to my family. i think people should have the right to end their own lives, but i also believe i got more things to do so i guess i need to make sure everyone is happy.

@sarahs413 5 ай бұрын

Hopelessness is ALREADY a struggle with BPD. For a professional to validate that distorted thought --- DEPLORABLE and ALARMING!

@StephieGsrEvolution 6 ай бұрын

As someone who has had severe, refractory depression for about 4 decades and has worked hard to recover, I wish suicide could be destigmatized. Not that every depressed person who struggles should be able to easily off themselves, but there's a point to which it's all just too much for too long.

@ravingcuriosity6345 5 ай бұрын

Do you wish you have had taken that path, instead of your 4 decades of crawling uphill? Im curious to understand the perspective of someone who fought for so long and seem to have made progres.

@StephieGsrEvolution 5 ай бұрын

@@ravingcuriosity6345 yes, definitely! I wish I would've died in one my suicide attempts back around then. That's the cold reality for me. I am fortunate enough that I worked hard in recovery for 3 decades and it helped. I am also fortunate enough that things are better and Ketamine infusions have been amazingly helpful for me. But 💯 I think severe depression and CPTSD are still challenges that I will always deal with on some level. All the years of suffering have been too much and I feel like I'm way behind in life. I would've rather have been done with it and moved on to the next life. 🤍🕊

@StephieGsrEvolution 5 ай бұрын

@@ravingcuriosity6345 the short answer is yes

@gayleklein8890 6 ай бұрын

Good advice!

@jhwwebster7273 6 ай бұрын

Somebody not in their right mind should not be making their own life and death decisions.

@StephieGsrEvolution 5 ай бұрын

"right mind" is very subjective and those who get to disagree don't have to live the life of the one suffering.

@TheWellnessTemple2024 6 ай бұрын

Human rights violation. Keep up the Great work Kyle🍀

@cammyr12Productions 6 ай бұрын

Maid has been causing alot of controversy among canadians. I would argue majority are against it than for it but thats an interesting stat u shared!

@seamon9732 6 ай бұрын

Completely the opposite: 86% of Canadians support Supreme Court of Canada decision: A poll by Ipsos for Dying With Dignity Canada in 2020 found that 86% of Canadians support the Supreme Court of Canada’s decision to recognize medical assistance in dying as a constitutionally-protected right, given that patients satisfy a series of stringent qualifying criteria.

@MedoryK 6 ай бұрын

@@seamon9732 As long as they lead by example, we are aces!

@stevenwendellnelson8861 6 ай бұрын

Please worship the CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE, THE LORD GOD and try not to worry too much about the differences between the different religions and denominations, try to think about the similarities and the things they may have in common more than the differences. Daily prayer is a fundamental part that many people do not practice although it is encouraged 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 "CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE, LORD GOD, I beg you to never force me to worship any false god and I ask you for forgiveness for my sins and immorality. Thank you for everything. Amen." Please pray this now, pray the words as you read them if you cannot look and remember them