Owing an Ex

The plaintiff dated the defendant and alleges he cheated on her with multiple women. She loaned him money to fix his work truck, and she claims he hasn’t paid her back in full, so she’s suing for the balance on a loan. The defendant argues the money was a gift and he even gave her money just so she’d leave him alone.

[@ooakRAREGEM]

I can't believe the judge allowed this lunatic to speak to her this way.

[@sheilae.9670]

Yea, me too

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

She spoke to him in the same manner.

[@tbecker97204]

It was kinda funny because the more he spoke, the deeper he dug himself into that already cavernous hole. LOL

[@KilgoreUSA]

You don’t speak to a judge in that manner there’s a certain amount of decorum and respect.

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

@@KilgoreUSA she’s not a judge.

[@mary5305j]

Defendant is not just crazy, he seems dangerous. Yelling at the judge trying to bring up unrelated stuff. He’s dangerous.

[@kakishisfriend1126]

Right he is unhinged

[@gracemunich1476]

dangerous, ignorant, tacky and despicable. Not insane….. a thug

[@Julie-sl8ul]

HOLY 💩!!!

[@bigd1345]

I was ready to type in the same thing. Very dangerous, and I'm guessing he's a predator.

[@KimWorsham-i3w]

He lied about his girlfriend not being in the room, when the plaintiff is clearly knows who she is and that she is there

[@jezabelpagan4797]

As soon as he started screaming his answers I knew the man was worth $0.

[@magicworld3242]

As soon as the judge heard the plaintiff's BS story. She automatically made her into a victim. Just because she's a woman, doesn't make her the victim 🤦.

[@dr.immaculadidier6843]

🤣🤣🙄🙄🙄

[@r1verman]

​@@magicworld3242the only victims in this case were that woman's little girls. She's a desperate idiot trying to buy love and he's a lying douche bag.

[@donniee.2238]

As a man, I have to disagree with your very generous zero.

[@popeye82]

As a man, I agree with your zero assessment.

[@oldageisdumb]

“You can’t buy someone’s love. If you think they will like you more, in reality, they will respect you less.” Very well said, Harvey.

[@pammers5588]

That’s a great point

[@Ras7685]

Oh ...yes you can. You see it all the time , men with money get these younger good looking women all the time.

[@oldageisdumb]

@@Ras7685 Are you under the impression that’s love? No, friend, that’s just a high priced hooker

[@I.am.Mrs.Mathers]

@@Ras7685you can NOT buy love. Period. You can buy sex and arm candy, but they will never love you if you have to pay them to stick around. Real love is priceless. Just like you can’t buy loyalty.

[@Ras7685]

@@I.am.Mrs.Mathers you are preaching to the choir missy

[@PCross38115]

The fact that she had to borrow from her retirement, speaks volumes. I would've just told him that I didn't have it and blocked his number. Go play in somebody else's pockets.😂😂😂

[@Thequeenbee707]

💯💯💯💯

[@Thequeenbee707]

The fact she had to borrow out of her retirement & that she has 3 children depending on her 🤦🏽‍♀️ and I would bet those kids went without some things because she didn’t have the money and wouldn’t borrow out her retirement for them but she did for THIS guy 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@_theonlyme_]

Play in somebody else's pocket 💯👏 best quote for these kinda women!!

[@projectkj7643]

When she’s 70, she’ll regret using her 401K as a man lure!

[@talltalllady]

" I don't care how I look" Is probably the only true statement that he made. And it shows in so many ways. One of them being his wrinkled shirt on national television.

[@vivianpatton5692]

Exactly

[@jennross6466]

And stupid women still throw themselves at him. The moment he spoke I knew he was a douche. His Momma should be so proud.

[@LunnaJannah]

And his nic name vagina... Come on it should be Humpty Dumpty

[@raycurry4168]

And the pATHETIC women that want to be with him!!!!!! Mind boggling.

[@khayriyyahcrosby7592]

This dude😂 what a big tub of lard. JM had me hollering when she referred to the other woman as the Basement 😂😂😂😂 love her

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

Factzzz 😂😂😂

[@KrazyVideoChick]

Tub of lard😂😂😂😂

[@carolsanchez2006]

Same 😂😂😂

[@silvermillennial]

I had to rewind that bit because it made me spit out my tea LOL

[@talltalllady]

Right. Lmao 🤣😂 13:01 I had to watch it a few times. Love how everyone else laughed too 🤣

[@finally97]

Anatomy of an abuser. He's dangerous, and I hope Basement is safe.

[@christopherramon-reid2000]

Anatomy of a fool

[@Diva8204]

When he got mad that she saw his lie further proves that he is a problem. Then basement girl in the back,smh

[@projectionv.accountability1010]

"Basement girl in the back" made me laugh a lot more than I'd like to admit 😂

[@r1verman]

Was "basement girl" a girl? It's questionable.😂

[@kensybensy]

she really loaned a man she barely know a thousands, knowing she's a single mother with 3 kids... girl what?! neverrrrr

[@gianalogan8957]

Stop meeting men online, giving them money and having them around your children. Poor parenting.

[@gracemunich1476]

perform due diligence on these men no matter where you meet them. Take it real slow, meet for coffee or lunch….. NEVER lend a man money. Keep him away from your kids. Wait at least a year before you introduce him to your children.

[@NickysWorld88]

Watching these judge shows is enough for me to stay away from online dating lol

[@namenamr4460]

​@@NickysWorld88yes !!

[@SweetandSassyRedhead]

really? easy to blame the plaintiff and NOT the defendant

[@aiming4peace254]

​@@SweetandSassyRedhead Yes, really. The first layer of blame goes to a woman with 3 kids, falling for a man that isn't very mature. Since she has kids, it is *her* job to be very careful. He's an oaf and a hothead in need of cash. I blame him for being a L. How was their relationship going well? What did she see?

[@paulathomas4655]

Can’t help but notice “basement” wasn’t by his side in the hall 😂😂😂😂

[@redapol5678]

They’re never by their side if they are sat in the audience. Only the ones who sit as the “witness” walk out of the courtroom with them. There have been other episodes similar

[@tracylangsley4064]

Didn't bother him that she was a single mother with 3 kids when he asked her initially for the loan🤦 I don't understand women who give men money in such new relationships think of your bloody kids first so this doesn't happen 🤷

[@Kimberly0807]

That’s what am saying! I got no kids and we’ve been together for 3 yrs and I still hesitated

[@broeheemed32]

Serial-breeding single mothers don't have room to be all picky.... they need to be accommodating to get a man. Any man. They have little value to most men, so they have to take what's still available to them... and usually have to pay for the privilege..... just like when men have to pay for a young, attractive CHILDLESS woman. Single mothers are lucky to get a man at all these days.

[@magicworld3242]

You got it backwards, If she's a single mother with 3 kids, Why the hell is she loaning any money to anybody ? She's the stupid one. She was trying to buy him. She gave him thousands of dollars after knowing him for a couple of months ? And you're blaming (Him) for her stupidity ? 🤦

[@ultimatecouponlady]

She shouldn't be giving him money at all! I don't care how long they've been together, and especially if they're not married!

[@lisaparrey1343]

I own my own home and was a single Mum (theyve grown up) due to domestic violence. He was a bludger and didn't want to work. The last thing I am going to do is hook up with another loser. I am only interested in men with money. Not so I can have some but so I know they aren't after mine and to know they have the right ethics in life

[@reekah21]

She recognized his aggression real quick and asked him to step back

[@backshotbarbie2035]

Judge Judy and judge Mathis would have ate him alive

[@IvanaGirl]

Eaten

[@arifabdulrehman19]

Quote from Judy “ is that the prize all these women fighting for “

[@MariaxMariaxMaria]

😂😂😂 frrrr

[@hadley407]

I think you mean prize. Big difference in price and prize

[@jaleinegreen7411]

JJ also calls these men “Prince charming “ 😝

[@mymobilebuddy4392]

I wouldn't hitch my wagon to that falling star.

[@NickysWorld88]

😂😂😂

[@quitifa]

“Do you see her in the court room?” “no”. “Is that her?” “There she is!” Case over right then. 9:01

[@mnelson2008]

Her eyes are so sad. Poor thing. He's a bad man. Glad she got away.

[@bnarli8745]

I hate when people say, “stay single,” when really they picked the biggest sleaze ever and showered them with $. It’s not, either, pick a giant sleaze ball or stay single!

[@13lilfrogslvr]

That dude is such a gentleman. I can see why women are flocking to him 😂😂

[@christopherchance4860]

He's got to learn to stay away from the crazies

[@neededtobesaid4275]

Most single moms with 3 kids only have so many options. And he replaced her already. Must be something in the water...

[@projectionv.accountability1010]

Yeah, he's a real prize.

[@KSakamoto]

@@christopherchance4860lol if he doesn’t seem like the crazy one to you, *you* need to learn how to spot the crazies.

[@13lilfrogslvr]

​@@neededtobesaid4275He seeks out the desperate with that attitude for sure

[@cowgirlbebop14]

I know dudes like the defendant are trash, but honestly the women who enable them annoy me the most. You are a single mom of THREE children, and you are giving money to a man who you've been told by multiple people is cheating on you and you've only known for a few months? There will always be crooks in this world, but don't willingly open up your home, your legs, and your wallet to one!

[@citytrees1752]

At least she didn't have a baby with him.

[@juliannazeldaclark1192]

We get lonely as women and this is understandable but dumb. Ladies…have some compassion. I’m happy she learned about him before having him around her children.

[@raycurry4168]

Aside from the $$ what kind of mother brings a man she does NOT KNOW into her home with 3 daughters!!!!!!!!! I am amazed by how often this happens.

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

first thing i thought if u r a single mom how do you draw money from a fund , wow wow wow

[@deemcgriff4196]

👏🏽❤👏🏽❤👏🏽❤👏🏽

[@fitnessfocused]

I never trust anyone who refers to their exes as crazy. My immediate thoughts are… Are they? Why didn’t you see it and leave immediately. If they’re all crazy, maybe it’s you…

[@lilymilner7995]

Right!!!

[@tdc9136]

Because women want to "fix" the men.

[@billyjobobb]

How in the world does that poor excuse for a man have multiple women fighting over him.

[@NickysWorld88]

Desperate smh

[@garydumont9701]

What is wrong with women getting online and and then give a stranger money who is crazy here? That pig can't be that good looking he has no hair he's overweight who's crazy?

[@eatmyshorts808]

big 🐓

[@projectkj7643]

Hung

[@elliebellie7816]

One another episode, a woman got beat to heck and back, she even lost a few teeth, and the "boyfriend" spent 90 days in jail. As soon as he got out, she wanted him back and so did his WIFE!

[@december017]

I wish Judge Judy had this case it would’ve been so funny😂

[@pattyp3429]

JJ would have thrown them both out of her court

[@jermainethomas1570]

She wouldn't have gotten a dime

[@Ras7685]

As many as I watch of these.....I'm constantly amazed just how hard up women are for a boyfriend .........

[@Serenity229]

That’s the one thing I’m always curious about. How desperate some women are to buy the love of some men.

[@pattynellis7347]

I fell lucky married 36 yrs to an awsome man God is good

[@CandidLy1]

Not so much desperate as naive and trusting

[@Serenity229]

@@pattynellis7347 right I’ve been with my hubs for 15 years. I’ve given that man like 200 bucks in our entire relationship lol

[@pattynellis7347]

@CandidLy1 they want it so bad ..they feel there gonna make it happen and it don't

[@brettsfav4]

These women must be crazy to be with him and why on earth would you give him money from your retirement? You just met this guy. I just don’t get it and I’m glad JM told her how ridiculous it was to do that.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

I'm glad she did as well. And her introduction of being a single mom of three kids for sympathy had me rolling my eyes. Were you thinking of your three kids and how they need that money instead of you handing it over to some strange dude ma'am? I don't understand how some women are that desperate for ANY guy that they put their needs over their children's needs...smh..

[@naturalanimals8902]

They are not crazy, these are the men they qualify for. Single women like to believe that they are valuable to good men; but they aren't. They have very few options; and must choose from the bottom of the market. You can all pretend that you have a lot to offer, but you can't beat women with no kids or foreign women.

[@metalmoth6608]

​@@naturalanimals8902 So not true, there are tons of guys that go for single moms, get off the Internet for awhile buddy and step into the real world.

[@naturalanimals8902]

@@metalmoth6608 : low class men like these; men who can't do better. Quality men, the men most women want, don't see single mothers as options. This is why so man of them end up on this channel trying to get their money back. What sort of man compete with other men to pay a single mother's bills and care for her children by other men; a man with no standard, no class, no dignity, no integrity and no other option.

[@TEX686]

All because she wanted to have a man in her life, she gave him money from her retirement acct. she has 3 kids and this guy could also have been a pedophile, she wasnt too smart 🙄🙄 sometimes these women need to be smarter

[@SoloLeaux]

Watch out for dating people who claim all their exes are “crazy psycho stalkers and they are always the problem”

[@jmar5127]

Watch out for single mothers giving men money they barely know out if her retirement instead of prioritizing her kids. She's a disgrace. Atleast he's not denying who he is.

[@SoloLeaux]

@@jmar5127 you’re so insecure with yourself as a man you took a comment that was generalized asf and made into something about bashing women. Deal with your mommy issues somewhere else.

[@welcometobangkok8220]

@@jmar5127 why are we watching out for them? she's the one with the good heart. original commenter is right. stop trying to turn everything on women. this guy is a douchebag.

[@VladmirPoopN]

​​@@jmar5127you white knighted for a greasy sleezeball, who calls himself "Vagina" on his phone (cuz he gets so much according to him), who can't repay loans Lololol bruh. // Edit: were you crushing on him?

[@rissa311_yt]

His behavior was absolutely disgusting. You can tell he has no respect for women. I wouldn't be surprised if he had domestic violence charges.

[@bethanyyoung2137]

Im 25 and im already done dating 🤣 people these days are something else and i cant connect

[@missy67]

Defendant is a real "catch" - not! Between his smirks in the courtroom, arguing with JM and saying the plaintiff "was crazy and on drugs" to distract from the situation - hopefully the new "basement girlfriend gets a clue as to who he is. And somehow he has printed out their text conversations, yet it's not in his phone anymore. Very convenient.

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

Is she on drugs?

[@buffalowill2789]

SINGLE MOTHERS! stop giving these washed up guys your childrens money!

[@Bebe-og3bc]

What a creep! He really thinks he's Casanova! Ahahaha! Just a liar! Great job judge!

[@MariaxMariaxMaria]

JM just loves spilling this ☕️☕️🤭🤭😂 love her!!

[@keith2964]

I'm a 67 year old man and based on my Morals and Values I have always supported myself and never borrowed money from a female or anyone! What a Looser!!

[@Orcl1100]

The defendant has all the charm and charisma of a rock

[@dollarperlike4087]

THREE kids and giving a grown man money! Nooooo 🤦‍♀️

[@Elle253]

they never think about being single moms before loaning money lol okay

[@leir2005]

It becomes a war cry though when the person doesn’t pay them back

[@constancestinger5976]

Real jerk! She should be thanking God she's rid of him.

[@amybuck2047]

I am not understanding what any woman would see in this snake.

[@rayannesheahan7908]

Low self esteem is a true killer… and predators can smell it a mile away Know your worth girl!

[@carolynthornton8017]

IN MY VIEW Ladies, the way a man treats another woman is a window showing you how he will eventually treat YOU. It is the question of when.

[@wvrjl]

Blocked texts are not erased. You can retrieve them.

[@mymobilebuddy4392]

This guy is a piece of work. Girls RUN. AWAY

[@vivianhamilton616]

What the heck did she see in this guy?! 🤮

[@Britty0189]

A warm body

[@naleebrooklyn]

She was desperate and no self esteem

[@aussiemouth747]

He's repulsed!

[@TequilaMockingBird91]

Plaintiff is so beautifully graceful. I don’t think she’s “crazy”. I think she was just hopelessly naive. You can tell how pure her spirit is from her laugh at the end with the interviewer.

[@KSakamoto]

“She’s on drugs” is a really stupid defense to why she DIDNT cash a $500 check 😂

[@merrymaid2890]

Exactly what I thought. If she was on drugs she would have cashed the check immediately. 😂

[@miotch8225]

And when he's pushed on his other actions, his defense is "that's not relevant".

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

What if she lost it?

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

@@merrymaid2890not if she lost it

[@merrymaid2890]

@@PeopleRTheProblem If she’s on drugs as he says and somehow looses the check, she would tell him that. Because she would want him to cancel that check and write a new one as soon as possible.

[@donnamcd123]

He sure thinks he’s God’s gift to women. 😂😂😂

[@0flying0unicorn0]

I hope that basement woman runs

[@SRFAA]

I like how she's referred to as the basement woman lol. Just to differentiate her from the other women.

[@3l3llala13]

How in the heck does this guy have a girlfriend ? The current gf needs to do herself a favor and dump him.

[@pattynellis7347]

He looks like he can be violent

[@projectionv.accountability1010]

Agreed. If he doesn't have a domestic violence record it's only because he's not been caught yet.

[@ElizabethaSara]

Exactly!!

[@pattynellis7347]

Love this judge❤

[@ginger7344]

I bet the dbag defendant has a record. You can just tell.

[@projectionv.accountability1010]

He screams DV.

[@irideaunicorn1620]

Lol the change in his demeanor when the judge says "give me your phone" and then the fast clicking on the screen as hes explaining how everything is deleted

[@setfree9872]

Why is he so angry?

[@projectionv.accountability1010]

He can't manipulate women who aren't broken.

[@Neenaross214]

Because he can’t see his peniz and it’s probably been years and he misses it 😂

[@Linjt1224]

If you looked like that, you'd be angry too!🤮🤮

[@Pinkdiamond12]

A big red flag that he is the one that's toxic. Is that all his exes are called crazy by him.

[@sheeeeeeesh667]

The guy laughing at 2:20😂 me af

[@debbiem6406]

The only truthful thing he said was at the end. “I don’t care how I look.”

[@pink16ful]

What some women see in some men is mind-blowing😮 god he was annoying

[@gianalogan8957]

He is rude disrespectful to the judge I can I am believe she allowed that in her court room

[@bruthamann5697]

Basement Girl should've kept her hand down and took that embarrassment to the grave.

[@daywantiesingh8486]

This guy is a total jerk! He will get his share of Karma😂

[@pizzelle2]

I really hope the mom learned a lesson and doesn’t bring another loser lowlife around her kids. That “woman” he dug out of the basement who’s his current gf is even more pathetic

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

The plaintiff is just as pathetic. She was with him too. And she kept giving him money. She’s no prize either.

[@mymobilebuddy4392]

Dude, you drove the poor woman to drugs.

[@naturalanimals8902]

She is a bigger loser than him; she thinks good men are going to take her seriously and be a step father to her kids. Single mothers need to know their limits, not all men out here are fools. We prefer to have our own kids. When single mothers overvalue themselves and go after men who are out of their league; then we get cases like these. Single mothers need to choose someone in the same position as them. They need to choose an average man with kids, who has a lot of baggage, but treats her well. Men with their stuff together, have absolutely nothing to gain, from a relationship with a single mum. I mean, what exactly does a single mum brings to the table?

[@citytrees1752]

She looks like hard alcohol and soft drugs.

[@amandamatheny3675]

I would say this guy is why people say that men are dogs, but that's an insult to dogs.

[@cocoshauntel5979]

Him: “idc how I look”Based off that wrinkled up shirt that’s the only truth he told this whole case

[@WarGrowlmon18]

"Is this really happening??? Am I really having this discussion???"🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jennycandela1545]

This man has a bad attitude with the judge and I hope the judge makes him pay…this man is so disgusting 🤮🤮🤮

[@faznout]

I do not know what any of these women see in this guy. Why is it that so many women always want to fight over a guy who has no looks and nothing going for himself.

[@KDanielsDesigns]

Women women women. We got to do better

[@trekgirl65]

Always when you loan money, always to a promissory note, and when the person does not pay, take to court. The defendant always says the loan was a gift.

[@PutterJack]

Judge Milian is a savage and I love it❤

[@michaelnoelcurtis978]

He lied about his new GF. I don't know where she is as she not here. She in court room behind him. Clown

[@erikromero1433]

He seems like a winner…

[@aiming4peace254]

I wouldn't put a relationship on FB until it was really* well established, so this wouldn't be possible. And women: 1. never give a man money. 2. don't introduce your kids to a bf until you are thoroughly sure he's mature!

[@leir2005]

Your Honor does NOT tolerate women who trick on men. I love these cases

[@carriepriegel6477]

What are you even talking about? The guy was as legitimate as a seven dollar bill.😂😂😂😂

[@fitnessfocused]

⁠@@carriepriegel6477 I think that you do not understand the slang used by Leir. But, they’re correct, JM does not, and what they said makes sense.

[@KarenWeems]

I can't believe this guy has A girlfriend much less numerous girls that fight over him. There are so many really GREAT guys that get passed over because why? You NEED this kind of drama? Be glad its over and do better!

[@mlily1111]

He is a major gas lighter. Scary

[@kristineo2926]

the guy in the backgrounds reaction to the D statement on the P being on drugs is priceless

[@TtrellstheElephant]

He is aggressive as hell… He also knew the world would judge her more harshly than him.

[@camarojai6832]

Oh he’s a piece of work..some would even say a TOOL 😤

[@feliciagallo9832]

Except tools are actually useful, lol 😉

[@ravenousruby6407]

He’s not even a babe. Narcissist much?

[@Julie-sl8ul]

WHAT DO THOSE WOMEN SEE IN HIM 🤮🤮🤮

[@insertwittynamehere_]

He’s a big bum. I hope the Plaintiff sees her worth and basement girl runs!!!!

[@QueenOfEverything69]

2:20 the guy in the back wearing the blue found it so funny that he was sleeping with his tenant in is basement 😂😂😂😊

[@JaySomething9]

I can’t wait for Judge Milians new show in the fall and the new cases! Sick of the recycled cases

[@Bebedollie]

Then don't watch these ones

[@nightgag]

The show is cancelled

[@redapol5678]

@@nightgagapparently she has a new show 🥳

[@markpolice3585]

I can't even imagine what this dude acts like in private.

[@Begotts]

Dude is a big D-bag! You can tell how he treats women because of the way he is. It’s one thing to be that way and own it but he was all over the place with a gift or loan. Glad that girl seen the light…now I hope basement girl see it too.

[@T.Jetson]

He said he does not care how he looks on national TV.. 😂😂

[@ctilly5859]

Doug was so disappointed in the plaintiffs answer 🥴

[@davidwhite3180]

He needs a meeting in a dark alley !

[@SRFAA]

"Some might say so" - That made me laugh.

[@tamekadavis6641]

Never lend money that you don't have.💯

[@yazzy03]

8:19 i spat my drink out 😩😂

[@shirleywiese5230]

Me too. 😂😂😂😂

[@delenareed9731]

Best part of this case referring to girl in tha basement and indeed girl in tha basement is in the courtroom audience 😂😂

[@carriepriegel6477]

He actually hates women. “Stud muffins” (he’s a muffin tbs!🤣) use and abuse, and his smirk fades quickly when called out- there is a darkness in his eyes indicating deep malevolence.

[@naiboogieb6587]

Thats a different one...thats the basement😂😂😂

[@melosidhe779]

I wish people would stop referring to women as "females". It's so disrespectful.

[@akufan]

LOL everyone laughing at her "Karen" haircut when she walks in!💇✂👀

[@elliebellie7816]

Why is a single mom of three children loaning a grown-azz man any money to begin with? And from her retirement account? Let him get a second job! Stay off those stupid dating websites.

[@TuesThruFri]

It’s sad, but it’s all out of desperation.

[@sherryn39455]

His business, his problem not hers. First time they ask for money, good bye

[@Rose-pt1sx]

Standing there looking like the mucinex monster. I wanted Douglas to shove him when he didn’t move from in front of her fast enough. He knows he heard the Judge.

[@MariaxMariaxMaria]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jb3702]

😂😂

[@jflowj]

you can see how much this guy hates himself. Of course he’s going to treat everyone else like crap.

[@VladmirPoopN]

He doesn't know he hates himself. A guy that says: _"That's why there's always THREE SIDES to every story!"_ - totally puts himself first; which is what happened I guess 🤷‍♀️ lol

[@katiemcfadin5930]

He’s a winner lmao but she’s an idiot for giving him that much money so soon.