Iyanla: Fix My Secret Affair | Full Episode | OWN

[@mbalenhlebuthelezi3198]

Watching people heal rather than getting entertained by dysfunction! Man, I miss these times😢

[@elishamartin9863]

I feel the same way!!! I wish this show was still on TV. I miss shows with a positive purpose.

[@sconiersclan]

It takes me up and down as a man but we need this back soooooo bad. I . I hate that we are filled with the violence of Reality TV as a community this is really what we needed. Did i say this is really what we needed?

[@sconiersclan]

It was a lot of hard work for Iyanla i know. I think she was worn out from seeing all the dysfunction .

[@jackiwilliams9297]

👏🏽👏🏽

[@elishamartin9863]

@@sconiersclan right but in my own selfishness I wish she would've continued but I can definitely agree it was probably emotionally taxing for her.

[@here2laff397]

Ms Iyanla sure knows how to layer a question : “was he giving another woman what you think he should’ve been giving you, or was he giving the other woman something you weren’t open to receiving ??” HELLOOOO ‼️

[@ameliasantos5195]

Period!

[@KeriVKozosi]

Yoh 😮

[@NinJahBaeServicesLLC]

🤯

[@cnzinga7191]

She is on it, from all angles 🖤👍🏾

[@CashUnlimited8]

She’s very intuitive and that’s why she’s good at what she does!

[@pinkpetals601]

Iyanla is so good at what she does, that woman is gifted.

[@sconiersclan]

And anointed by God

[@CeeTeeUSA]

If Iyanla considered him at all, she would've told him to leave. Instead, she pushed him to be a doormat. When she divorces him I hope she breaks him..

[@karynpate800]

So so gifted

[@kianneabercrombie603]

Yesss she is!!​@@sconiersclan

[@katrinagiovanni891]

@@CeeTeeUSAit’s easy to judge someone else’s marriage based on a tv show. He chose forgiveness and I pray she chose to treat him with respect and love . Kids need their parents to stay together. Infidelity can be forgiven if one is truly repentant.

[@kkain123]

He was shaking because he knew something big was about to come out with her. He felt that in his spirit.

[@ileanaacosta5938]

He knew the whole time..what a man💪

[@Gem_Arnae]

Yeah I was thinking he has a hell of an intuition

[@kerrys1596]

I feel bad for him 😮

[@traceylee3354]

And he felt it in her spirit the whole time

[@sattasana7753]

Oh Mama Iya, she says cry with an agenda 😂😊

[@CosmicJournee]

One thing I always liked about Iyanla is the way she protected black men on this show. She often would turn the cameras off so they could have their breakdown in peace.

[@LHi-kl4wp]

Needd more likes😊

[@GoldenGraham25]

I’m glad you said this because after the DMX interview, everything changed as far as how the public perceived her platform.

[@nooneyyyy]

I pray for a man like him .. he accepted her outside kids and married her.. didn’t leave when she belittled him showing he has patience .. stayed after the accident and took care of and provided for her. I hope she realize what she had. He’s a good black man. Rare ..

[@Cicilouisetv]

Me too

[@cheyennedowdell]

right cause she was problematic before the whole car accident and the health issues. She seems like all she wants to do is fight because she has deep insecurities

[@talcareyifill5937]

She should get mine ...he cheated with endless

[@87Lohan]

He’s a good man and I just hope he realised that she didn’t even feel worthy of a man that good. It’s her own insecurity

[@audacityhour3104]

He’s a good person period. The world needs more ppl like him .. I’m wondering about her friends tho .. cuz he managed to be a good man without having a father .. we know how we want to be treated so treat others the same way.. no lie , I feel like ppl were in her ear cuz he’s so rare they find it hard to believe that he would stay with her, especially being a black man

[@aiti12vip22]

Ms. Iyanla. We miss you so much. I’m still watching and listening March 28th 2024. ❤️

[@babygroot81]

Same❤

[@naquishamarcelle6438]

Same

[@sistalucomedy4160]

Same

[@kimberlysales3752]

Same 4/1/24

[@danielawharton3679]

4/4/24

[@mariontwhatz3400]

I felt her burden fade away the moment he said "I forgive you" That was powerful

[@MzCandyApple5683]

Literally 🥹. You can tell this is real love. But they still need to continue the work and go to counseling! I hope they last 💯.

[@gettingitdonewgenesisrenea4828]

That was the moment to shout 🙌🏾

[@busisiwemichelle5391]

He forgave her thats soo sweet l pray she doesnt do it again

[@stephanievaughan1773]

These are the things that people really don’t talk about. Women go through real things with their body.

[@kimbell6761]

💯

[@mazvitashonhiwa]

Truth

[@zahramissy4837]

Very

[@carriehardin6552]

This!!!!

[@howmoon67]

So true about Women issues. It is real. It makes me feel so sad for both of them..

[@MM-pi1cb]

We still need this show . Especially in these sad times .

[@KairoK]

I feel for them both. And that man is a fine sensitive soul

[@detrickharris7515]

AGREED😍

[@clashon4life843]

It’s His Meek Humble Spirit! She Doesn’t Deserve

[@magdasanon5469]

She doesn't deserves him

[@rnopes21]

This guy's gut is spot on!

[@UpwriteSolutions]

I believe he already knew deep down what she had done, but hearing it made it real.

[@Cantwithyou]

Seriously, right before she was about to confess, he knew!

[@GoldenGraham25]

Men know too. I’m not saying men are dogs but you know how dog know their scent - they can also sent when another has covered up what they’d already marked. I noticed this when I used to walk dogs.

[@mjhunter502]

Iyanla: "I'm not taking the cameras." Cameraman: *peers through the window from inside* 😆

[@annetteodanga]

Lol

[@sharris3480]

😂😂😂

[@shaneecuevas7990]

Through the trees! Caught the audio and everything!

[@carmenjackson5799]

😂 I'm glad they did!

[@ftr911drvr]

😂😂😂😂

[@lavonneevans988]

She was turning her back on him because she couldn’t face him knowing what she’d done . Wow !

[@lovingmylife9415]

She never stop 😂

[@islandgurlkollectionz4171]

This man loves this woman

[@Exxtol1]

That's a good man right there. Crazy she tried to push him away. Most women would die for that kind of love and for a man that runs his own business.

[@alvinajackson3625]

I agree and disagree. Most women who are “healed” would die for that kind of love and for a man that runs his owned business.

[@CeeTeeUSA]

If he doesn't leave, he's a sucker. If he doesn't leave, everything he gets he deserves..

[@moy16ful]

I would love to have him

[@donnamoore5977]

@@CeeTeeUSAyou’re wrong on all type of levels 🙄

[@UpwriteSolutions]

I have a cousin like this. She has so much baggage and trauma and pushes her husband away with verbal abuse.

[@rickabeauxx7420]

My heart broke for him. But you can tell she was genuinely sorry.

[@zzizahacallar]

Oh well he's a good husband

[@Tre_NP]

Man!! I’ve been with my husband twenty years and I had tears running down my face the entire episode. He’s a good man. He reminds me of my husband. I hope she honors him. Beautiful family.

[@truthhurts7045]

This can cost you everything but it can gain you your freedom.

[@reginadavis7499]

So powerful

[@shalondacross8327]

She said a word then 🙌🏽

[@annade2789]

Sounds like something a police officer would say

[@annade2789]

Well a detective lol

[@blackcosmos]

"Love is durable....Trust is Fragile" Iyanla Vanzant 💕

[@gloriahenry5446]

I didn't like the fact that she cheated on him first, and when she found out that he cheated, she scandal him in front of their children and kept what she did a secret. That was absurd.

[@cheyennedowdell]

right cause she is problematic and insecure as hell

[@Maria-ll6dc]

Narcissistic

[@Sam-xn5kt]

@@Maria-ll6dc It’s not narcissism.. You need to replay that clip bc you missed the entire point.

[@darrellwilliams731]

Didn't you catch what was said she owned it and she is making amends from it you can do wrong and seek redemption

[@darrellwilliams731]

She revealed she hated herself but was too adfraid to turn it inward and I stead blame him and set it all up to make him leave instead of dealing with it properly meaning not tell him the truth but she with help owned it and is gonna work it out that man is a champion most would get up and leave easy

[@Jeremeec]

They got me over here crying like I done cheated and I’m single 😂 what a powerful episode . I felt every emotion . I miss Iyanla on our tv screens . We need this .

[@1Lat523]

The same. I feel like repenting to the Lord about cheating and I am single as well😭😭😭😭fix it Jesus

[@tealadagoat4722]

Lmaoooooo right I felt this 😭

[@Jeremeec]

@@tealadagoat4722 aaa

[@lovingmylife9415]

You will be a future cheater😂 ijp😂

[@ATAplayallday]

The fact this lady cried through it all let you know she’s ready for change. ❤

[@ThatLitAstroChick]

It's always the cheaters who project cheating onto their partners....

[@Lzumm7]

YESS smh

[@NannDeGool]

On point!! 💯 My ex put me through the trenches and I started questioning my own sanity. When the dust cleared; HE was cheating...SEVERAL different women....SEVERAL different times! 😢😢😢🤬🤬🤬

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

@@NannDeGoolwow! I am glad he is an ex

[@jaida7593]

@@NannDeGool yes gurl. when they start blaming u. its cause their cheating

[@ohrheeco]

Whole time we be at home minding our business. Once he started accusing me... I started my investigation because when a woman wants something done... she does it herself. Cause WHAT!!!! I am not going to cheat. I'm going to leave you....

[@kkain123]

Iyanla said I'm not taking the cameras but didn't turn off the mics 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and they still followed on the low💀💀💀🤣

[@amber.cartomancer]

Welcome to TV

[@annetteodanga]

🤣@@MissKimT

[@stephanieclayton4799]

😂😂😂

[@starhurd824]

Yeah but it allowed him to get it out far away then cameras being directly in front of him.. I’m sure they edited out a lot.. he started crying right then and she was trying to protect him.. so yes the cameras still rolled lol.. but she still respected him and like she said protected his dignity❤

[@bakerbwoy123]

She helped this family and probably helped a lot of viewers. Try to see positives instead of looking for negatives everywhere 🙄

[@yvanobam3902]

This man is her guardian angel, God bless him. He is a great man !

[@Sunshine25fine]

He’s a gentle spirit. I pray he has not let her selfishness damage him🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@jsmith7881]

I’m glad the kids were apart of the conversation at the end…this was a great episode!

[@Poeticfloetic]

*Part of. Apart means separate from.

[@azebenoit8842]

I've noticed Iyanla always carry her bag wherever she goes very smart lady!

[@khulanelehrsa6621]

The most powerful episode ever. Thank you Ms Iyanla for the work you do

[@jassmonique2097]

The confession ending made me cry. To hear somebody say they forgive you and feel that weight lift off of you to have a new beginning is beautiful

[@mari2cam]

This family will be stronger. I'm glad Iyanla was protective of Don.

[@faithwatkins7811]

One thing about Iyanla is she's about what's right and who's right whether man or woman just cause you're a woman don't make you right don't make you a victim and Iyanla will check you

[@JustTooMuch10]

Bro is solid asf

[@bludiva27]

Felicia has some beautiful skin. As much as she was crying and wiping , her face stayed beautiful and there was never any makeup on the tissues.

[@lewisscott3950]

Please bring this show back !!!!

[@HARRIS4276]

I feel the wife too. When we don’t feel attractive we pull back from intimacy, but it has nothing to do with them it’s us. I wish I could watch all of these again.

[@ntombifuthigumede]

OMG. What a man! When he took his glasses off I just couldn't😭😭😭😭💔💔

[@AnywaysMel]

I Felt That Fr.. I Literally Felt All His Anxiety 😭😭🥺

[@sheilamcgee7101]

His face change after she told him I would have took that to my grave

[@ChooseU4ever]

WE APPRECIATE THIS BROTHER - had to write that all caps.

[@therychperspective]

She said “the guilt in you is attracting punishment” WOW😩💯

[@jaydaholbrook]

Nobody at all : Iyanla : “NOT ON MY WATCH” 😙

[@KrystalSpears]

😂😂😂

[@christinasornbutnark1208]

Iyanla is magical. I’m so grateful for these videos.

[@TheAlchemicalProcess]

I can't put into words how much I respect iyanla for stating that she didn't want her to confess tol her husband on national TV....Wise Wise elder❤❤❤

[@ForeverLuckyLika]

MY EYES COULDNT STOP WATERING. I TRULY HOPE THEY MADE IT AND GOT THROUGH THIS ROUGH PERIOD IN THEIR MARRIAGE. THEIR KIDS ARE STUNNING.

[@nonzak8362]

This has got to be my favorite episode. I see how Iyanla was conflicted about a lot of things but she saw that a lot of people will learn from this. These are good people . He’s a great father and you can see the fruits of his labour.

[@makalahthompson4042]

It’s so crazy how he knew, I believe he knew exactly what she was gonna say. This made me emotional😩

[@Kimbrough187]

And she got off light! She had amazing iyanla to break the ice, and smooth it over.

[@Uncontrolledd]

That's precisely what she's there for so the truth can be told.

[@Poeticfloetic]

*break

[@bevans8489]

Don is a damn good man!!!!! I'm also glad that Felisha owned up to the way she acted and apologized to her children, publicly. Many times, the parents go on their healing journey and never address the damage that they have done to other members of the family.

[@SM-db8gx]

First I was pissed at him, then I was pissed at her and then I cried for both of them in the end. 😂

[@LamonteDre54]

And I'm going to keep it real. The husband and the wife was a great demonstration. Example to encourage people like me that you can work through anything if you put the work into it. Thank you Lyanla 😊

[@BluLover75]

When the sister hugged her little sister and cried that broke me down. That’s love ❤❤ I’m so glad she apologized to their kids.

[@GoldenGraham25]

Me too! It shows the bond they’ve made as a family❤

[@bludiva27]

"I'm glad that this thing hurts you more than you are afraid of it." Truth!!!

[@symplelife3760]

I definitely understand her pain with the hysterectomy!! menopause is no joke. It definitely will cause a marriage to end.

[@divatz78]

I heard it can drive a woman insane if not treated properly

[@mongiwamabaleka4820]

I was considering a hysterectomy and after this am so rethinking it

[@CoffeeCrazy]

Failure to control your symptoms can cause failure of marriage. It does not cause you to be without control. You are well aware of your feelings, irritability, depression.

[@mongiwamabaleka4820]

@@CoffeeCrazy it sounds like labour kk. You know before you experience it you think its one thing then when you are actually experiencing it you almost lose your mind. I hope there is a way of minimizing this

[@symplelife3760]

I don’t blame you

[@FeriaMoney]

AT LEAST THIS LADY IS BEING HONEST

[@Joan-r6w]

Im so proud of these people who reach out to Iyanla because they want to fight for love. Love conquers a multitude of sins❤❤

[@makeithappen1598]

This man will have lots of questions! It’s not going to end here! Every small argument, he could bring it up. I don’t think he’s had time to process it yet. He might even still be in shock!

[@konye618]

She's like that. He is not like that

[@jamiacouture5007]

He already knew, he just needed confirmation.

[@TheeArii98]

He Already Knew She Had An Affair. Confirmation Was What He Needed. He Made Peace With It Long Ago

[@CoffeBoayke]

God bless him

[@bippityboppityboo2u]

Its been about 10 years since this came on the tv and wow!! This was always one of my favorite episodes! Iyanla is truly gifted at helping folks do their work.

[@Queenweezy]

He seems like a decent man

[@Belovednne]

Very! He deserves better. 💯

[@krisbrown1593]

Looks are deceiving!

[@bjackson4825]

@@krisbrown1593bitter

[@heyitsmyTeeTa]

Damn this is tough. This man stood by her as a husband should and she gaslite him!!!! I think she wanted to make this man suffer because she was suffering. The lack of communication on her end is unforgettable.

[@antoineosburn8626]

Facts! Say it again.

[@Mannymoe3]

Saw the other day it was a woman who was in a relationship with a man who oldest son ended his life. The boyfriend desperately wanted a son, but the mother gave it up for adoption out of spite (her own words) because of cheating but lied telling him his son passed by strangling from his umbilical cord. I believe the older son ended his life via strangulation is to why she made that up to hurt him. Most women sided with the woman but men get no pass for even the tiniest of spiteful things out of being cheated on, sad world we damn live.

[@Belovednne]

Self sabotage at it's best. Smh. Can we leave good men and women alone, for each other? please!

[@HARRIS4276]

I remember this episode.. of all the episodes of no good cheating and dl men on the show he seemed like a good one.

[@sipesihlenonxuba6187]

This man is very intuitive!

[@yosea8701]

Wow! She was out of control arguing with him when he was driving, and he lost control of the vehicle . She said he should've had more control of the vehicle. I hope they worked it out because they seem to love each other so much.

[@IAm_Meeh]

This gives me chills and i love the way they did this together ... good job and praise god for healing

[@TheTeelyn1]

That was so tough to watch. But, I love how these two decided to begin the healing. 🙏🏾

[@leelee2357]

Beautiful black family.... I wish them well💪🏾❤

[@hadeev]

My eyes got a little teary, and my heart leaped when Don forgave Felisha. They are truly remorseful for what they did, and I’m glad they love each other enough to want to work things out. I pray they continue healing, loving and growing together as a couple and as a family.

[@NaomiAde94]

This is one of the few episodes where I really liked the couple and wanted them to make it/stay together. Yes, there was bad behaviour on both sides but there seemed to be genuine love and commitment there. Beautiful family.

[@CoffeeCrazy]

Where was his bad behavior. Lol

[@helpkelp3595]

@@CoffeeCrazyWell he did emotionally cheat. It may not be as bad a physical cheating but it's still cheating

[@helpkelp3595]

I agree. She just seems like someone who isn't use to being treated right and self sabotaging to save herself from more hurt and he's just trying to love her but not understanding why she won't let him. I believe her healing will better their relationship

[@CoffeeCrazy]

@@helpkelp3595 regardless she used that to punish him . While both are wrong, physical cheating is wayyyyy worse. Can you get pregnant off of emotional cheating? Catch a std? Also you are joining your body with another that have wayyyy more emotionally ramifications than talking.. Again, he was wrong but she was wrong PLUS abusive..

[@Forevermy3k]

@@CoffeeCrazy- Why don’t guys think like this when they’re cheating? They make it seem like it’s just physical for them, but when a woman cheats it’s emotional so it’s worse…. Make it make sense!!!

[@Sandramundy]

This was so lovely. This man loves his wife! Powerful episode! Where there is love there is Hope! ❤❤❤

[@ThetrueTeddyB]

I was waiting for the brother to channel his inner DMX😂

[@najwawatson55]

Secrets will kill and destroy a great thing. ❤ May others receive their freedom after years of trouble and trial. "Love is durable, but trust is fragile." May we all have our trust renewed, each and every day. Adults and children collectively ❤

[@Rebecca-hc5ju]

Wonderful sentiment! I'm sending you love 💜💫💞

[@najwawatson55]

@Rebecca-hc5ju Thank you beloved, i'm sending you love too!! ✨️🌺

[@theodorecoleman2063]

He is a great man she is truly blessed. I pray they moved forward in happiness ❤😊🙏🏽✊🏽

[@noterleej9312]

Don is one fine brother.

[@sheilamcgee7101]

Yes he is

[@j.g.3719]

This is why they say if you get cheated on, it was likely more about who they are and not about who you are. As soon as they felt like the relationship lacked what they needed, they went somewhere else instead of communicating.

[@MamanPotentielleTLubangu]

I LOVE THIS FAMILY SO MUCH 😭😭😭😭

[@aprilcontessa]

We need to see more healing to understand forgiveness

[@tamaragore437]

What a good man!!! A great man, actually, and my heart goes out to him. His heart is good.❤

[@beej6658]

Seems like a good guy. Hope they can both work it out.

[@jackychela4638]

Thankyou OWN watching from Kenya 🇰🇪🙏we appreciate you

[@HoneySuckle123]

Loving you right back, sister ❤❤❤❤

[@jackychela4638]

😊❤❤❤❤​@@HoneySuckle123

[@CupcakeMami]

Hi Jackie, I am a Kenyan too living in Switzerland. I have seen your comments before. Tuko Pamoja ❤

[@jackychela4638]

​@@CupcakeMami wow 😅 amazing thankyou mummy, let's keep learning I always love iyanla shows sana..pokea salamu😊❤️

[@TheMwendaa]

Hi family. Representing Nairobi city❤🎉😊

[@ogriss412]

This episode is the true essence of the power of forgiveness 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@dorothymatthews6690]

Wow! May this bring healing, peace and restoration to a lot of people, both married and single. This brings a new revelation to the scripture that says love never fails! Im so happy they made it!

[@GoddessPower777]

her repeating the BAN so quickly 😂. she looked like she meant it!!

[@minu2701]

This show gave me so much direction for my own life! So grateful for your guidance! Many greetings from Germany 🇩🇪👏🏽❤️ keep it up 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@vickiebelin3788]

This counselor is good at what she does. May God bless continue to bless her

[@tootall234]

The way her husband embraced her apology 👏👏

[@ShesFromVenus]

WHEW. This was so good. She got a GOOD man. 👏🏽 They have a beautiful family & their kids are a true reflection of the people that they are. I hope they are a happy, strong family again! ♥️

[@staciagrimes3515]

ok this one had me my soul in pain. he could feel the truth and his soul was hurt !! omg

[@kenyacwilson]

This one hurt me to my core. Her remorse and sorrow are so real, and he is such a loving gentleman. I pray this family has healed, and that they're bond is stronger than ever.

[@LaLa-bb5kb]

He knew he didn’t want to accept it! I hope they are still together

[@savagebae23]

My husband did this and then died now all i feel is guilt because i behaved very much like her but no cheating just badgering him daily about small things because i was so self centered

[@jennyoyster5054]

Girl, he wanted to cheat because he wanted to.

[@Mzdedeo]

You were hurt and had every right to be. Forgive him and yourself and let go of that heavy burden.

[@Millie-uf9pn]

What did we learn from this show about guilt? Iyanla spoke with Don, the father, about his guilt. He felt tremendous guilt about the car accident - he was driving and his wife's legs were broken. The guilt laid heavy on Don for many years. DON FORGAVE HIMSELF. Watch the episode again. You must forgive yourself love. Forgive Yourself.

[@misterburris]

Yo. That's a good dude. To his core.

[@TradesbyNao]

When are we going to have Iyanla back, we need her and more shows like this, instead of all the new toxic dysfunctional reality shows that are out presently,

[@thetotalpackage2005]

On the breakfast club she said she's done. It was too stressful

[@problemsolverthinktank859]

Keep the episodes coming ❤

[@cooperx2917]

The holy spirit done told him the truth... Gloryyyyyy 🙌🙌

[@Millie-uf9pn]

Truth

[@kevinlakeem7818]

This gotta be one of my fave episodes. A true example of forgiveness and accountability. She’s blessed to have that man as her husband because most men wouldn’t do what he did.

[@Nettassafehaven]

I really wish that the network would do a Where Are They Now with all of the past guest.

[@tampaflbeastforlife]

another great EP if they had DVDS i would of by all her seasons lol

[@karenmcgee1869]

Yup!

[@kkain123]

Right!!!

[@Maria-ll6dc]

Amen good investment

[@zigtgut1]

This was so powerful. Iyanla really helped to facilitate the beginning of their healing.

[@wynterj9330]

this was one of the best episodes. Very healing and good to see black family work through real life issues.

[@Jodie296]

Watching April 16th 2024 and have the worst headache from crying watching these all day. 😢❣️