Wendy: Get him on his meds or stay away Ruth: Loud and clear boss lady, do neither and watch him spiral out of control 🤙🏾
@reecethe4 жыл бұрын
@SSJaye Ruth should have listened to Wendy
@alexcapek5613 жыл бұрын
@SSJaye Ruth should of known that the person that knows what's best for Ben, is his fucking SISTER. If she would of listened to Wendy, Ben could of stayed and nothing would of happened, she's the one who LITERALLY tells Ben that she launders money for a drug cartel. This is all on Ruth. Not to mention she gets him out of the mental institution where he should of stayed - avoiding all of this mess and his death.
@scottb98202 жыл бұрын
@@alexcapek561 Could not agree more. Wendy had no choice...and she literally was trying every which way to get him out of there alive. When he bought the burner phone at the convenience store, Wendy knew...if he didn't go then all of them - Wendy, Marty, the kids - were going to be murdered. When Ruth acts all self-righteous with Wendy in the scene when she quits and goes to Darlene Snell (what????), it almost didn't ring true...she was too smart not to know that Wendy was right. In this scene, Wendy laid it all out in a rare moment of full honesty and even vulnerability and Ruth ignored it all.
@meliiina_46472 жыл бұрын
Ben died because of Ruth's ignorance. people are just too short-sighted to see it.
@nirjhar4803 Жыл бұрын
@@alexcapek561 I think putting the blame solely on Ruth is a bit unfair... Wendy was actually the one to reveal they worked for a cartel, and despite that he seemed stable enough up until he figured out what Wendy truly is. There's also an argument to be made for Wendy commiting Ben far earlier into a private facility instead of a horrible state hospital later on. There's alot of factors for Ben's spiral imo.
@Qocaine4 жыл бұрын
The two women solely responsible for Ben's death. 1: if Wendy would've sent him away like Marty said from jump, then his death would've been avoided. 2: Ruth not only didn't make him take his meds, she got him out of the hospital AFTER seeing him spazz and knowing what he was capable of.
@studentstudent85093 жыл бұрын
I can honestly see the difficulty in forcing someone w mental health issues to take their meds, but yeah she should’ve definitely left him alone after that as the alternative. Or left him in the hospital.
@prettypoppin_5523 жыл бұрын
Nah this is all on Ruth. The fact that wendy didn't send him away from jump is irrelevant because after she had him committed he was no longer a threat to the byrdes, the cartel, himself or anyone else and was 100% safe
@davidcraig77713 жыл бұрын
@@prettypoppin_552 no. Wendy knew what he was capable of and the risks.
@prettypoppin_5523 жыл бұрын
@@davidcraig7771 You're missing the point. That doesn't negate what I said.
@prettypoppin_5523 жыл бұрын
@@jayclearmen411 🤡
@BatmanHQYT2 жыл бұрын
Laura Linney is so perfect in this role. The way she switched from concerned and almost on the verge of tears to the stone-cold "help get him back on his tears, or don't see him" was masterful. I think the way Wendy communicates with people is fascinating in the way she uses cues like her tone of voice and eye contact to assert power.
@joseluis50553 жыл бұрын
I don't think Ruth truly understood Ben's condition. It cost Ben's life
@marioboyd5572 жыл бұрын
Not only his life 💀
@isaqoabudo5604 Жыл бұрын
@@marioboyd557 His job
@marioboyd557 Жыл бұрын
@@isaqoabudo5604 😮
@buffaloshrimp45204 жыл бұрын
Wendy is right to blame Ruth but she shares some as well Marty knew something like this would happen and Wendy on a power trip undermined Him bens death is totally these two women fault and they know it
@Qocaine4 жыл бұрын
True
@houseofmatrix61742 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree
@JaimeGirl3 жыл бұрын
Marty was right. Wendy screwed up by letting Ben stay , and Ruth made it worse by getting him out of the hospital. Ben wouldn’t take the meds. Even someone like Ben, if they make enough noise, sooner or later someone was going to get curious and start looking around. In the hospital, he was safe and covered- just a guy way off his meds. But Jesus, how does Wendy not see what was completely obvious to Marty- that this guy should NOT be around a cartel operation? Good lord, a blind man could see this coming
@BatmanHQYT2 жыл бұрын
This was a wonderfully written and acted scene. Wendy's description of bipolar disorder was particularly eloquent, "losing all sense of scale and perspective" was a great way to put it. All I feel is that Wendy could've been a bit more stern and explicit about the danger Ben would pose to them (ex: the violence) instead of letting Ruth find out for herself. I think both were blinded by their love for Ben in their own ways.
@cameronavon13372 жыл бұрын
It’s quite weird how Marty and Wendy foresee everything that will happen, warn other ppl yet are still powerless to stop it
@willldo42 жыл бұрын
Wendy built the coffin. Ruth put the nail in it.
@tyresmith98332 жыл бұрын
Wendy warned her how he acts when he is off his meds, but she decided not to listen.
@purpleglitterladette2 жыл бұрын
She should have gone into details more about how serious his condition is rather than just saying he overreacts to stuff like the fact that he could turn suicidal and that
@neonrays282 жыл бұрын
Ruth is to blame. Wendy was at fault for the beginning but she solved the issue by putting him in the psych ward. Ruth is a 100 percent to blame for his death.
@JoseFuentes-lw4qe2 жыл бұрын
Well for Ruth’s sake Wendy is lying like half the time
@moonlightreveries14592 жыл бұрын
I get why they say borderline personality disorder might be or theoretically is on bipolar spectrum. They are extremely similar in some ways. Dangerous impulsivity, huge reactions to small things. Extreme constant mood swings (difference in bipolar is longer lasting well defined episodes of mood, with good periods of stability in between episodes (manic or depressive). Bpd is constant instability. Happy angry sad horny ashamed guilty religious not religious….. It is hell. But we will make it 😎
@MCD201112 жыл бұрын
people who have a loved one with bipolar gets this….
@Mr.KyleRichey6 ай бұрын
Two things were working against Ruth, she care for Ben and Ben has made the medication seem like it makes him feel awful, empty, and as someone who loves Ben, she doesn’t want him to feel that way, but at this point in the show she’s also lost any sense of trust in Wendy, so it’s hard for her to believe this is genuine. But I love this scene because you can really see Wendy isn’t being vindictive or manipulating Ruth, she concerned for not only Ben’s health but Ruth’s as well
@jstdun4 ай бұрын
Linney's stuttering in this show drives me up the wall.
@jeangreatjacketmatsuda44533 жыл бұрын
warn ruths ben about wendy
@keithjefferson21963 жыл бұрын
Ruth is bipolar to so it was a match made in heaven.
@Soonerfrk113 жыл бұрын
Ruth isn’t bipolar. She for sure has a personality issue caused by intense childhood traumas. She doesn’t go manic without medication.
@connormcgregor31392 жыл бұрын
Ruth is not bipolar
@dimitriv49872 жыл бұрын
Didn't know you were a psychiatrist
@purpleglitterladette2 жыл бұрын
She's got ADD
@buddahstar82 жыл бұрын
If this scene never happened then I would agree with Ruth about Wendy. But she came to her on the level to save her brother. But she didn't listen so to me Wendy's rt and Ruth definitely Killed Ben.
@jusltv2 жыл бұрын
which episode is this
@landscaping3716 Жыл бұрын
Ruth killed Ben. She was a horrible girlfriend.
@coreytripp9939 Жыл бұрын
how does their daughter have that accent? when literally none of them do? what she just decided to start speaking slackjaw