Currently pregnant with my first child. Your videos always make me feel more confident in the decisions I plan on making for my baby so thank you for sharing important and accurate info 😊!
@asana_awakening4 ай бұрын
It’s so comforting to be able to look over at my baby’s bassinet during the night and see her pacifier moving. Helps my anxiety immensely!
@mandybeck43224 ай бұрын
And the cute little sucking sounds!! 🥰🥰🥰
@samcobb13534 ай бұрын
Mom of 4 under 4 and only 1 of my kiddos was a pacifier baby. My first hated pacifiers. Refused to use it. My second one used it like a lifeline. He’s currently a few months shy of 3 and he has 99% weaned off of them himself. My third was the one that could truly take it or leave it. She just did not care. So, for my own sanity (keeping track, keeping them clean, keeping them replaced regularly, etc), I opted not to use it for her. And so that I wouldn’t have to worry about the weaning process for her. With my fourth, he had lip and tongue tie issues that were diagnosed late so I refused to use a pacifier so that he would eat as much and as often as he wanted to. He’s now 5 months old and does not use or want one. He sleeps 12+ hours all night and takes 2-3 solid naps per day and no longer wants or needs a swaddle or sleep sack either. I hope this helps someone out there. ❤ It’s totally okay to have an opinion about pacifiers in both directions. And it’s also great to follow your intuition and instincts about it also.
@mamanursetina4 ай бұрын
Agree! Instincts are strong!
@TamDaWam4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the info. All of my babies had pacifiers their fine. With everything this day take the advice with a grain of salt you’re going to have people with a million different opinions and research that favor one side or the other! After my first kid my only advice to new moms was do your own research and trust your mom instincts on what you think is right for you and your baby.
@mamanursetina4 ай бұрын
Yes!!
@JessicaFrameMusic4 ай бұрын
My stepmom told us not to use a pacifier because of dental health (she’s a surgical assistant for an oral surgeon). But our baby’s pediatrician told us using a pacifier reduces the risk of SIDS. As an anxious mama who personally knows someone who lost a baby to SIDS at 4 months, I’d rather “risk” having to pay for braces than risk having to pay for a funeral and not see my baby grow up. Besides, he may already run the risk of needing braces because my teeth are jacked up and he’s got my genetics.
@mamanursetina4 ай бұрын
I’m so so sorry about the loss of your baby 🤍
@chloebesonderes75714 ай бұрын
First took one for 6 months, forgot them when we went camping so was forced to wean. Second refused and didn’t have the suck to settle she was all about the quick business breast feeds then back to life so she wouldn’t miss out on anything haha. Then my premmie twins had dummy’s too but they got over them around 7 months and I was relieved because it’s a true hassle finding them around the house and going hunting for the ones under the bed! I think they really help some young babies (and parents) but I’ve never been keen on toddlers walking around with them in their mouths and from my friends that continued their use into toddlerhood it was a huge drama to get rid of them! I think it’s a lot easier to stop use around 6-8 months compared to 2
@frnz19434 ай бұрын
My first baby is coming up on five months old. When he was born, he was eleven and a half pounds, and I had to do triple feeds in the hospital with him and for some time afterwards because we had to rush my milk supply coming in. (Poor little guy had much higher caloric needs right off the bat than my boobs were producing at first, and we were relying on donor milk for a while to supplement. Apparently, making an extra large kid is no guarantee of an immediate extra large milk supply. Who knew?) For a good while after he was born, my line of thought was that if he wanted to suck, it'd be better if it was on a boob. Now, even in the few occasions when I've desperately needed him to take a pacifier so I can get back to what I'm doing... no dice. It's the boob or nothing. On the one hand, I was never that enthusiastic about the idea of pacifiers and my child using one (plastics, etc.). On the other hand, it'd have been nice to have something as a backup...
@Serenity_escapes4 ай бұрын
I would also like to add, if the pacifier stops breast feeding you can still pump so baby has milk. Obviously direct contact is preferred but just as a suggestion
@mandybeck43224 ай бұрын
My mouth breather kid is the one who hated a pacifier 😂
@hannahm.98814 ай бұрын
5 kids...none of them wanted one. And I wasn't going to continue to try and force it. No thumb suckers either.
@racheln43094 ай бұрын
If any claims like those are true, it likely has a lot to do with the duration and frequency of pacifier use. But most moms know that babies like to suck on moms pinky in a pinch, and I would bet that ancient babies sucked on all kinds of items to soothe.
@call_me_Lup4 ай бұрын
When I was a newborn, I only used a pacifier once. I loved sucking for milk, but I hated sucking on those plastic things.
@jenleigh42124 ай бұрын
Not actually a medical doctor since chiropractors don’t attend medical school.
@saschamayer40504 ай бұрын
Yeah, l wouldn't trust them on giving advice on anything. If it ducks like a quack...
@mamanursetina4 ай бұрын
I appreciate experts giving advice on their area of expertise but this ain’t it for me
@kimtalbot43734 ай бұрын
The minute i learned he was a Chiropractor, I discounted 100% of what he said. 🙄
@bfam74924 ай бұрын
PREACH
@latorw4 ай бұрын
I was all 5 of my babies pacifier for 18+ months and there were times I was so exhausted I would have loved to have them take a bottle or pacifier but alas they had other preferences.. no matter how hard I tried
@mamanursetina4 ай бұрын
I feel you. I had one that would never take either too! But 5 babies! You’re amazing ♥️
@Tasha-k7t4 ай бұрын
Hi! I’m currently 3 months pregnant with my second child & debating on whether to use a pacifier for them. I do love that it significantly reduces SIDS but, when would you say breastfeeding is well established? I believe that was the problem with my first I didn’t know much and pretty much gave her the pacifier shortly after she was born before we even left the hospital. She no longer wanted it by the time she was around 18 months but I believe that caused a lot of problems with being able to breastfeed her. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you so much 😊
@mamanursetina4 ай бұрын
I have a short on when to introduce a pacifier if you’re going that way. Usually a minimum of a month (per the AAFP) but also baby back to birth weight, your milk has transitioned, the latch is comfortable and easy to latch baby on and you feel confident
@steppingintopurpose95633 ай бұрын
Which pacifiers would you recommend please?
@staceygrant72174 ай бұрын
Anyone know the brand of the grey pacifier she's holding? I've never seen that shape. Seems perfect.
@andrinabaldonado93024 ай бұрын
The Ninni pacifier onyx, I do believe
@jonesfamilyfarms93254 ай бұрын
I had a binki until I was 4, and I had to get surgery to fix my airways in my 20s. At night I suck all the air out of my mouth, which caused my braces to cut my cheeks and I grind and crack my teeth 🙃
@mamanursetina4 ай бұрын
Oh no! Yes pacifier use over the age of 2 is definitely related to teeth malformations and the likes 😬
@tryphenarose3844 ай бұрын
That's too bad you were allowed to suck on a pacifier for that long. For my son, we quit the pacifier before the age of 1. My daughter was a little harder and is a loud crier, but we took it away sometime after 1 year and some months. Did it cold turkey, and she found other soothing mechanisms. Sorry you're dealing with these problems later in life.
@jonesfamilyfarms93254 ай бұрын
@@tryphenarose384 it’s okay, my parents were really young and we all three figured out things together. I don’t have any resentment towards it
@Hannah-ii6ku4 ай бұрын
Are avent soothies good?
@ccfulton224 ай бұрын
What was that second pacifier you had?
@andrinabaldonado93024 ай бұрын
The Ninni pacifier onyx, I do believe
@nobione_kenobi21144 ай бұрын
Does anyone have recommendations on breaking baby from the paci? My son is 16 mo and now only uses it at bedtime but I'd like to start transitioning on that
@jessicaroseelizabethp.79112 ай бұрын
Does he bite through them and cause holes? What I had done woth my son was stop buying them, and so when they got holes, they went Goodbye
@rochelleb9734 ай бұрын
My children were not thumb suckers or paifier babies
@mamanursetina4 ай бұрын
I had a couple in column a, one thumb sucker and one that wanted no part of any of it! Haha
@rochelleb9734 ай бұрын
@@mamanursetina lol
@jessicaroseelizabethp.79112 ай бұрын
My 1st was a pacifier baby, second is a thumb sucker so far!