Parents Gave My $75K College Fund Left By Grandpa To Golden Child Sister For Her Business…

[@emily.letsendbslintheuk554]

Parents are required by law to look after their kids till their of legal age (often 18 although some countries differ) so they can't charge you for things like school, food, rent, clothes etc, annoys me when parents favour one child and expect the other one to pay for everything even though they are still minors

[@agus_mimi]

i thought the same!! mother in this story is just the worst, especially because she went through the same thing as OP

[@SensiRD]

@@agus_mimi I think they're made up stories by ai tho

[@emily.letsendbslintheuk554]

@@agus_mimi exactly you ould think cos the mum went through it she would make sure that she didn't favour one over the other 😞, hate it when parents throw the "we have spent so much raising you" card on the table, its stupid and out of order.

[@princessmarlena1359]

“I rAiSeD yOu! So YoU oWe Me!”

[@BrightElk]

@@SensiRDYes but why does that mean we can’t discuss it just because it’s made up? People watch and read fiction all the time and no one gets uppity when we are discussing ironman or the Kardashians fake reality shows but when it’s these “oh no! it’s fake! You cannot discuss!” 🙄

[@flair541]

You know this whole story reminds me of that old saying. "An unloved child will burn down the village to feel it's warmth." Albeit here it's more punk rock than pure tragic.

[@ARcinder]

I told a friend of mine who was getting a divorce and was forced to give up his house to wait. Just wait. He thought I was talking about karma, I don't believe in karma. I asked him how much money he spent per year to upkeep the house. Gas, electricity, water. TAXES. You think a barista is going to keep up with that? Give it half a year and she'll have to go bankrupt... She didn't make it 4 months.

[@DragonOfTheMortalKombat]

Nice that she went bankrupt but did he get the house back ? Prob not

[@ARcinder]

@@DragonOfTheMortalKombat honestly he didn't want the place anymore. Too many bad memories or something like that. At this point if you're willing to marry in this toxic relationship ecosystem you need to be willing to lose a lot of money.

[@rosevalety3408]

@@DragonOfTheMortalKombat I think that given 4 month, you can think a lot of what you want to do with it, easier to deal with important matters once the embers of hurt have dulled. That was a smart move I think, hope he's doing okay now

[@BK-tp6jf]

​Great men and women exist everywhere most people marry without having the man or woman truly vetted by friends and family and God a lot of people think they can fix some deranged person and that's most of the divorces we see ​@@ARcinder in my culture we marry quickly yet the marriages last because we talk family money religion values etc before and have our family and theirs ask questions do background checks etc. .

[@DarkEinherjar]

Karma didn't strike nowhere nearly as hard as it should have.

[@forgedude]

IMHO it is b/c Karma is a made-up concept fed to the weak to suppress their retaliation. Of course, in some cases, it seems to work, but those are just coincidences or natural outcomes of imbalance caused by a person. For example, many "bully got karma" stories have that in common b/c a jerk will always be a jerk and, down the line will jerk around the wrong person to mess with (or end up in a nasty situation) and face punishment.

[@HellyeahRook]

Yeah loosing all of that money means that Dad probably won't be able to afford payments to OP.

[@Cassandra_Solidor]

@@HellyeahRook It's a court order. If he cannot afford to pay outright (or in this case, monthly), he'll be forced to sell any property he has to continue making payments or wages will be garnished. Unfortunately, it might take longer which could cause problems for OP and her tuition but Dad will have to pay her one way or another.

[@senorpugbottle4462]

Man I'm so sick of parents like this. Like ok congratulations you managed to avoid jail time by doing the bare minimum that is required of a parent. Doesn't mean you're entitled to act this way.

[@robinjameson4261]

If she actually charged it I would say very well. we're doing this. put it in writing. then I will take that writing to the IRS and have them reported for lying on their taxes for 18 years by claiming I was a dependent and yet still charging me

[@KadeBoucher-nr6lu]

😂😂😂

[@BrownLove7562]

@@robinjameson4261Omg that is so petty!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@robinjameson4261]

@@BrownLove7562 If they're going to try to destroy my life and charge me for things that it is illegal to charge me for, then it is not a matter of being petty. it is a matter of being a proper citizen and reporting criminals

[@shadowsnake5133]

​@@BrownLove7562 nah, it's what's legally required. Petty is then showing that to everyone else and sueing the second they went behind his back to talk shit, as if they have any legs to stand on.

[@pixelthesketch5257]

Whether fake or not, I hate stories where the parents use the, "Well if you want your money back, I want all of MY money back after having to raise you for all those years.", as if they didn't choose to raise a family and lose a lot of money doing so. Make me physically angry.

[@pseudodistant]

First one I am confident wasn't fake. I know someone who went through something very similar. Second one has to be AI tho. Nobody says "I had to ask myself if I will continue to believe her lies which were lies".

[@MrAntice]

@@pseudodistant Second one was 100% AI. It was written on the level of early chatGPT. First one. I think I saw that one on reddit a long while ago. With OP being active and replying to advice.

[@limitlesspursuit]

My mom used to do that. Too often. Definitely makes me wish I was never born to her as my mother.

[@DragonOfTheMortalKombat]

​@@limitlesspursuit then don't talk to her anymore ?

[@limitlesspursuit]

@@DragonOfTheMortalKombat duh

[@ThePawerStation]

Story 1: Mom is going to have some resentment and this is not going to be good for dad (I kinda feel sorry for him, for being such a doormat). Cheating is coming. Story 2: The audacity to feel entitled to beg money to your ex and bash him after CLEAR AND OBVIOUS REJECTION. Dude, he dodged one of the greatest bullets ever.

[@JRMAV1]

Don’t feel bad for him, he chose to be a doormat, didn’t stand up for his daughter or anything, he a coward and scumbag.

[@eboniclarke177]

Makes me wonder where her dad was when her mom was abusing her and why she'd treat any of her kids like she was treated.

[@reillycurran8508]

I'm just wondering why the uncles didn't keep her on at the farm, she knows the animals already and had been living there for years at that point

[@macrack1011]

Because it's fake and that wouldn't have made a good story

[@cocoace7587]

That was my first thought. But , the uncle probably had his own family and kids to get settled. His kids would never feel like it's their home if OP stayed . Always do what's best for YOUR immediate family . 😊❤

[@forgedude]

If your parents ask you to pay for living expenses when you are just a kid... tell them they will be paying their own nursing home bills and funeral bills, too lol.

[@juhanipolvi4729]

Also, the golden child should also be forced to pay for their living expenses. No doubt the parents would argue against that, though...

[@TheKingErix]

“Mom doesn’t work”. That just makes so much sense.

[@goldyd144]

Story 1: Sounds like OP's mom had two children explicitly for the purpose of having a golden child/scapegoat dynamic to vindicate herself for her crappy childhood as a former scapegoat. People would rather psychologically torture their children and scar them for life than address their own trauma. 😒

[@Aini-Hafa]

I was surprised she actually admitted to it! Most people are not aware that they project on their children. But being aware and deliberately going through with it is evil!

[@aking3624]

Mom suffered from neglect so she did the same to her own child?🤬

[@kianna2530]

Some parents shouldn’t have a second child if they’re going to mistreat them! So sad

[@ImmortalKakuzo]

"After grandpa's demise." Is wild🤣🤣

[@stardustdeath2497]

Dad is like the boyfriend/ex husband of the sister except he found a way out due to mental distress vs where dad was too deep in. Dad is a victim too to the wife/mom because clearly the mom is just like the sister.

[@mrlag7532]

Yeah I guess he sort of is a victim. Just hard to find any sympathy for him after what he let happened

[@jordanwardle11]

Not a victim. A contributor

[@Ohiofelonstate]

Nahhh the sperm donor is just as guilty in the abuse as the egg donor..no sympathy..

[@jeanetteporter8114]

No he isn't, he realize golden child isn't reliable, Op is she getting a career, therefore she will be earning a lot to take care of him, he doesnt care about Op he looking at the benefits if he cared why put his child thru he'll all her life

[@axinhedgelion8417]

@@jeanetteporter8114during OP’s childhood, the father was like up to his eyes in debt. So he wanted to save money.

[@cc_snipergirl]

Making a child feel like a burden is one of the most coldhearted things you can do. They didn't ask to be born, and they are not responsible for whatever choices you or your parents made. They're children.

[@DarkslayerNinja]

Real parents should love their children equally and no picking favorites for no good reasons.

[@maxwarden7500]

I will never understand how can a family cast out, betray or abandon one of their own like that.

[@nathanbates9561]

She claims to be a Christian, and yet she treats her own child like she's a stranger living in her house. Wow!!

[@jeanetteporter8114]

Story 1, Op you don't owe your parents for doing the job as parents, Low to no contact, they aren't worth the mental gymnastics, your parents are abusers, dont trust the sweetness now from your dad, this maybe a ploy to get you to start taking the money or give it back, I don't trust your dad, because why see you now as a daughter but years earlier you weren't nothing, the sister is in trouble they are stuck with her child, so you need to be there for family, Op dont dont fall for this bd from dad, dad was just as guilty as mom and sister, there isn't a do over,

[@letricblue]

First story is a testament to the following, Hard Times Create Strong Men, Strong Men Create Good Times, Good Times Create Weak Men, Weak Men Create Hard Times

[@atomic3325]

Grandpa should have really just spent the extra effort to setup a proper education fund for her and the mess could have been avoided. Or at least had the executor of the will set it up.

[@korytoombs886]

Yeah, I'm wondering how the will was set up, where the parents could access the money so easily? Had the grandpa given the dad 100000 and said use 75000 for her education, is that really legally enforceable once the money hits that guys account? The money should have been put into a special bank account.

[@escapetherace1943]

@@korytoombs886 it's easy to figure out. Grandpa had everything sitting in a savings account and left a written will, but with no other paperwork. In that case the parents could do whatever they wanted with the money and following the will would be their prerogative, but with a published written will obviously if any party on the will wasn't given their dues they could sue if they wanted. The parents most likely figured they could just take the money and ignore the fact 75K was supposed to go to their daughter because she was 17 or 18 or whatever and naive and they thought they could take advantage of her. 100% they betted she'd just go with it and not hire a lawyer or anything

[@lucifersatan8240]

2:23 "YOU WHERE SUPPOSED TO DESTROY THE BAD PARENTS, NOT JOIN THEM!"

[@Lavender2005]

I cant believe that sued is cencored in the thumpnail

[@Mcflame1539]

Parents of a golden child are massive FAILURES. Why? Because part of being a parent is teaching your kids right from wrong and not always giving in to their demands. And parents of a golden child refuse to do that to their golden child. And the golden child usually ends up doing something illegal because they think they can get away with it. But then both reality and karma strike and they are shown, the hard way, that their actions can have consequences.

[@morrigancarroll7115]

17:40 "her stupid lies that were lies!" lmfao

[@ashvika4648]

Look away from they're struggle just like they have

[@akiralyrics9590]

5:39 They STOLE money from her and expect to pay rent? What's wrong with them??

[@becauselifts9913]

I remember the original BORU post. What is this nonsense? Did they take it, translate it into six different languages and then back to English?

[@sadnesswithasideofsalt]

Not everyone is a native English speaker.

[@becauselifts9913]

@@sadnesswithasideofsalt I know. The original post was in clear American English.

[@MrArielK]

It’s AI

[@crimsonwolf8174]

​@becauselifts9913 do you got the title of the og post?

[@daisyannholland2576]

Okay but is no one going to talk about how the mother in the first story was a hypocrite? She was treated the same way op was treated and thought it was okay? That should have been brought up during the legal path.

[@Totally_human1]

What kind of crack was the dad on for 20 years not realizing he got another child💀

[@CoJaP0123]

This is literally Young Sheldon. A woman named Mandy gets knocked up and is forced to marry by religious parents. And while this is happening, there is also a secret gambling business going on. 😂

[@Lucky_RFMDA]

15:01 Who else got a mini heart attack when he hit the TNT minecart.

[@Deadgaywalking]

Me

[@edgarallanalejandro641]

Dad was not a narcissist his just neglectful

[@ladyofthewaters]

I would take the parents to court. If mom and dad wanna use feeding, housing and clothing as expenditures then let’s rock! The judge would laugh mom’s stupidity out of court.

[@feanor5037]

Not to minimise OP's other experiences but hand-me-downs aren't a sign of a lack of love. The other behaviours are, though.

[@korytoombs886]

That part annoyed me. Some families are just poor. She almost sounded a bit entitled in that. I didn't grow up rich, so I know how it is.

[@bethmck1821]

So... I’ll be that person... Basically, the OP lives in a state where it is legal to record a conversation without the consent of the other person. So OP has been collecting evidence of times where the manager has been forcing his workers to do shady and illegal deals and basically screwing over the customer for the sake of higher profits out of pure greed. When OP is fired for refusing to do a shady deal with a big client, the OP submits all his evidence to the Vice President of the company. The Vice President of the company fires the management and OP ends up being reinstated as an employee so can work for the company again. OP ends up interviewing and getting promoted to the role of manager, basically replacing the guy who got fired.

[@TheTSense]

Government: So... you would like to be a "parent"? That's gonna cost ya. You have to provide the child everything, food, clothing, everything. That's gonna cost ya. Parent: Yeah, this is really important to me! Government: If you fail to do so, we will take your child away and throw you in jail. Cold iron bars to live behind. Still wanna take this deal? Having a child costs a lot of money and if you fail, it costs you your freedom. You can just walk away, but once it is born there is no way out apart from dying. Parent: Yeah, we want this deal. We are making the decision here. The unborn child cannot consent to these costs!

[@shreyaschavan8851]

What hurts more is the co-conspirator. She might have realised early on that her mother was manipulative and negligent. But the other person, the father, also not helping the OP out is what breaks most people.

[@BloxinGamer-k2s]

The sad part is the fact that a heard a story like this from this channel a while ago meaning this happened multiple times.

[@Burd_Poots]

Am I the only one who is confused about the fact that sued is censored?

[@XavierBaker]

Yep, thought it was SAed lmaoo

[@doctites974]

her dad locked tf in after that lawsuit

[@penguinpingu3807]

Op's "spawnpoint's" logic is so insane.

[@abhisheks8887]

Happy endings are always good.

[@missyjames8887]

I never understood the favoured child trope, now talking about which one is currently annoying me the most, that I understand. 😂 They alternate.

[@nikoclesceri2267]

This has really big “that happened” energy

[@Kevin7557]

Story 1: it is sad it took a court case to smack the father back into reality. Hope he mends his relationship with OP so she can be happy.

[@gurglequeen433]

Was OP an oopsie baby? Because I can't think of any other reason the mom would have another kid when she was so determined to only treat one child like a human being.

[@michellezevenaar]

Both my kids get hand me downs because I don't want my youngest to feel different because she gets her sisters hand me downs. It also saves sooo much money. They both regularly get a few new things that are their own style. I'm so afraid one kid will feel like the other is the golden child.

[@NicholleWillisLoves]

Dang, Mandy really took all that money and started a gambling ring???? 😂😂😂 That's straight ridiculous

[@NightmareKing0203]

as soon as she started hrowing things at op, they shouldve called the police for assault

[@emperorpalpatine2957]

lol they can't charge you for raising you. Silly Goose, Grandpa's Will and the funds for raising her are two completely different things. If she sues to get that money, she's gonna get that money and there isn't a THING you can do about it.

[@janmarie3976]

This is a violation of your grandfather's will it is a criminal case you need to take it to the District Attorney's office forfeit with the State Attorney General's office it's not a civil matter it is Criminal

[@brandonl7110]

Why couldn’t her grandpa given the money to her instead of her parents

[@ind6376]

Wait wait wait, the mum was mad / gruntled because they only got 150k? What??

[@foureyedelf6151]

I'm not usually one to say this is fake but the record skip "the lies which were lies and all her lies" just killed it.

[@davidransom4476]

Id I could afford to pay someone $10K on top of my monthly bills, I'd have a lot more than $75K saved up.

[@iccarus1975]

Mandy will go to her when she's successful

[@saikiscoffeejelly2014]

the guy in story 2 was SO CLOSE to being those obsessive ex stalker just stalking his ex around im glad he moved on

[@Su-AeXDowha4life]

Why is this giving young Sheldon 😂😂😂

[@Cyphlix]

what a mess of a family.

[@deadby2moro]

Why is the word "sued" censored? For a moment, I thought the title read "I SA-ed them and got kicked out" 😅

[@Dougy359]

This was definitely a fantasy written by a younger sister mad she had to wear hand me downs. Bruh that’s called being middle class.

[@feanor5037]

Yeah moaning about hand me downs as the first & worst thing just reduces the credibility of the rest of the story

[@nathanbates9561]

​@@feanor5037 The dad is able to pay her back at a rate of $10k+ per month. How is that middle class? Didn't he have a business also?

[@feanor5037]

@@nathanbates9561 That's now, the hand me downs would have been 15 or so years ago. Sounds like their financial position changed a lot in the interim.

[@SanctusRexGAVIAL]

Her father was a doormap and she suffered for it.

[@zacharylewis2802]

Story 1: Dad only changed because he was confronted by the law for being a bad father. Mom has a favorite and couldn’t give a shit. Dad had to be told that he’s legally a bad father for it to get through to him. OP should go NC with her father after she receives the last payment. Tell him that you’re only willing to talk to him again after another 18 years, and to not contact you until your 36th birthday.

[@janmarie3976]

They can't do that parents are required to feed clothes and house you until you are 18 years old or you are emancipated by the courts so she has no grounds to stand on get yourself a lawyer and go for it

[@pewdiepie_1232]

This feels like a mild version of do it for dan but roles are a bit reversed

[@rich-y1c]

Crying about not getting new clothes and not hand me downs. LOL

[@FreakingDress92]

Mr. Reddito voiced this story, but it was told much differently. I wonder who altered the story (with his recent stories, I bet it’s him)?

[@Luna83644]

What was the true story?

[@FreakingDress92]

@@Luna83644 I think this channel has the true story. Reddito voiced a story a few weeks ago that I follow on Reddit and he had altered the ending, situation, and gender.

[@xenocide1307]

This girl could have used a better Dad. Hers didn't have an ounce of spine to push back on his abusive wife. I'm sure her Grandfather is looking down and proud of the fight in his little girl and how far she has come from such an awful place.

[@JLogg444]

There’s no hate like Christian love I guess

[@DragonOfTheMortalKombat]

True

[@kannonfps]

2:33 in the video and for real we need in every country in this fucked up world an actual control on who has the right to have kids ...

[@masainval]

In the first story, I literally jumped because my name is mandee and I was like oh no

[@NicholleWillisLoves]

How can you call yourself a Christian and yet treat your child like this???

[@redconvoy]

If the parents countersued, the judge would laugh them out of court, but not before telling them that it was their responsibility to take care of Op up until she was 18.

[@mogulmade]

Final Story: Another man dreaming 😅. Over 20 years married and you never figured out romance? You had to turn to your sister to plan a date after 20 years of marriage? You never did the vow renewal either. Boy please 😂

[@Brandon84J]

Women must get over the whole big wedding thing... and Valentine's day

[@stropitek]

Sue him

[@World_enjoyer]

sounds like a little bit of young Sheldon plot mixed in 'em.

[@carlmyers8864]

O. P. is so stupid for giving her dad a second chance. He o helped her because the golden daughter turned on him.

[@scvmbag]

No being good at math is not a flex

[@Elysium_Nova]

Narcissistic parents strikes again!

[@Watching2909]

Which side is the grandpa on in the first story?

[@alyssaneff213]

How are you passing down older sisters clothes when you’re six years apart?

[@nicolasreinaldet732]

I mean storage ? This acctualy seens a reasonable thing to do as long as you are acctualy passing down only what Is In good condition and replaces what Is not. Most humans In history lived under similar conditions, heck my own family situation In relation to cloaths was much like this and now that I am a addult I have also inherited more recent cloaths from my grandparents and my dad.

[@alyssaneff213]

@@nicolasreinaldet732 I know but in the story it said for her to use the next year and to be grateful. I have five kids so saving can make sense, but not when the parents say to use the next year when they’re six years apart.

[@faeriegraver]

​@@alyssaneff213my mum used to make clothes all the time. Knitting, crochet, and dressmaking. She had this weird thing where she used to make clothes far too big for me. She made me a knitted vest top in preschool that was enormous on me. I could wear it as a teenager, and it wasn't tight, there was still room. She always used to say it was because I would grow into it. But she was weirded out when I wore the vest top as a teenager because she'd intended it for me as a young child. I would want a fitted jumper, and she'd make it baggy. Her comments about how I would soon grow into it we're often really hurtful and messed with my self image. When I was about 12 or 13 she was making me a dress and a jacket. I accompanied her to her tailoring lesson. Her teacher corrected everything she had done, making it all fit properly. My mum was desperately saying "but she'll grow into it!" Her teacher told her no, she needed to make it fit me properly. That helped my self-esteem. I'm not bitter about my childhood any more, and I have a good relationship with my parents that means a lot to me. But I will never forget the negative experiences. I had an elder brother I was compared to, and was shouted at every day for minor things. In this case, because the older sister was favoured so much, the parents, particularly the mother, clearly didn't care about things like this. If she was much smaller than her sister she might have needed to wear belts to make jeans fit, and tops would be too large. There might not have been an huge difference in size. But if there was, the parents didn't care. It's a small thing in the scheme of the neglect, and at worst abuse. But it shows to you that you don't matter. It affects you.

[@Piexora]

sorry but crying about hand me downs is really dumb. I can't even think of a friend I had as a kid that didn't have to deal with hand me downs.

[@JonathanGames9.98]

the golden chld is the middle one for me

[@amandaleeclyden9198]

I wish my husband was like 2nd story guy

[@candicabral3767]

Wow I didn't know I was supposed to hate my parents because I wore hand-me-downs. I also didn't know I was supposed to hate them cuz they didn't ask me what my favorite dinner was. Oh the life of a gen Z! Always something to whine about

[@Wsplife]

They put a spin on Mandy from young Sheldon-

[@Oliverwalthall]

Is this young Sheldon or something

[@StrickerRei-Chn]

Op should have say... I wasnt asked to be born.

[@yaneriguzman2463]

I have 3 kids a 16 boy, 13 girls and a 3 years old girl no favorite 3 babies it’s all a see and feel in my heart the little one does requires more help and attention but nothing that I can’t handle if i buy shoes i have to have money to buy shoes for all of them

[@Blizzysstuff]

Why is the word “sued” censored in the title? Everyone censors the most random things nowadays I guess… Edit: it’s not in the title but it’s in the description and the thumbnail

[@akiralyrics9590]

4:38 I don't think it's even legal

[@jabrark5828]

Her mom is not a Christian. No Christian mother treats their child this way; frankly, I'm insulted she claims she's one of us when she could dare show favoritism on this scale against their own family. 1 Timothy 5:8 "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever."

[@DragonOfTheMortalKombat]

unbelievers aren't bad at all. We're just not superstituous like you cultists. And to think that there can't be bad people in your religion.........

[@akiralyrics9590]

6:52 Could they just put the baby up for adoption?

[@tmccrystalus8523]

Since I was a child, till I was 16, I also used almost everything second hand ie. clothes, phone etc, that my brother grew out of (me and my brother grew really fast, we both were 6 ft by the age of 15-16) or was getting new ones so the old one was of no use. It's not like my parents were financially struggling or something, it even made sense to me like why would you throw out stuff just used for a year or two. It was clear my parent's favourite was my big bro, but it never bothered me. Infact I was proud that my parents were so loving of my brother, let me point out they never let me feel unloved or unwanted, they loved me a lot but they just loved my big bro more. When I hear a lot of this favouritism by parent stories I sometimes wonder if this is actually the case or the op is overreacting cause we never hear the other side of it. I am not talking about this video, because in this one the parents are clearly fucked up, but lot of other where I just hear parents buying a bit more stuff for one of the siblings and one of the other siblings down the road earning some money and when their parents ask for some financial help they have some 'payback' moment.

[@akiralyrics9590]

4:12 Couldn't OP live with her uncles at her grandpa's house :/?

[@PhysPushscale]

How can someone make a kid and say you owe me cause I took care of you till 18. Like mate you made me its your responsibility you fking waste...

[@MrArielK]

How did OP pay the lawyer?

[@reillycurran8508]

Probably the lawyer considered it part of his duties as the executor of the will, Gramps would almost definitely have explained at least part of the situation to the lawyer when drafting the will, and I think lawyers get some compensation from the state if they privately take up a criminal case, which defrauding an estate for a felony amount would deffo qualify as.

[@adenharned1404]

@@reillycurran8508 Only public prosecutors can bring a criminal case against someone.