Patty Loveless - You Don't Even Know Who I Am

Music video by Patty Loveless performing You Don't Even Know Who I Am. (C) 1993 Sony Music Entertainment
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[@rikkiwade5596]

When you love a song growing up, and you listen to it at 40 with some life under your belt, and it makes you weep.

[@DubLSFaN]

Yes,that comment hits home....

[@SHANETheCooldude]

Indeed it does

[@a68dart340]

40 lol you still a child. give it another 20 or.

[@veronicapalmer1828]

This part....😢😢

[@jameshowle3873]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@michaelyunkelo1757]

Great song by a great artist. Patty just gets better and better. Love her!!

[@kathyluebbering8375]

Yes it’s sad. It sometimes happens when the kids are grown and gone and you don’t know what hit you. Sad, but true.

[@dannyhuffman]

Hi Kathy hope you’re okay?

[@steveflack9483]

The absolute hardest thing 😢 in my 68 yrs. of struggling through this cold world. Caring for both my severe demented in their 80's. Then do their hospic hands on with no help from others.

[@steveflack9483]

Parents

[@JamesThomas-zh6mx]

Patty is my favorite female singer , I have lived it.

[@gordonward537]

With eyes watering. I loved her the first time and all I heard from her...God bless Reba for taking her under her wings...

[@seanjenkins331]

One of the best female country singers. Doesn't get the credit shw deserves

[@SusanNevells-dm4vs]

I love this song ❤

[@teresabodi9895]

Wow haven't listened to this in years but dang that's me right now , were at that point why would we care if the other left. 19 years SMH . We really don't know each other anymore.

[@keithstowing16]

listen to either way by chris stapleton

[@curtisanderson8013]

just sittin here and felt a Patty comin on!!!🌹🇺🇸🇺🇸🦾🌹

[@henrysaylor5890]

Kentucky Lady 💙😉

[@KylePippen-s3p]

Patty is so beautiful

[@sofaking777777]

Loved this in the 90s. Took me to be 39 for it to hit me

[@cathymoorman6521]

One of my favorites :-)

[@pedrohilson5461]

Hello merry Christmas

[@fredjohnson9997]

Hello Cathy..

[@amberelizabeth884]

Memories.. That's all 😔

[@Kimyungharrison1111]

Hello there Amber nice meeting you here

[@TO-vw3sy]

When I think about PURE country music, this nails it

[@barbarapeters525]

got that right !

[@DarrelLundell-s2m]

Because I don't want you to go!

[@DeannaSouders-w2x]

Yes I do love dee I even have your picture baby face 💋❤️

[@joshjacobs2330]

I was so high back then

[@jeffparkinson5005]

If you marry wisely, you'll probably be fairly happy...... If you marry unwisely, you'll learn what misery & regret are first hand.

[@bobstetson861]

I know ladies and gentlemen . Everything changed after 911 2001. I was Nashville recording my demo and no one wanted to listen to it. Songs like ( empties house , loneliness) Music is about emotions and real stories and today it's about rebellions or fake party emotions .. it sucks . I miss this real stuff Sorry the the big rich guys won't put old real music back on radio. Money talks.. Bob

[@blueeyedbeauty7330]

This song became me and my exhusband after 17 yrs of marriage!!!! I thought it was love but instead it was CONTROL!!!! IT WAS HURT!!!! IT WAS BEATINGS AND CHEATING!!!! I COULD HAVE DID WITHOUT MEETING HIM!!!! I SURE WISHED I COULD GO BACK THEM YRS AND MAKE SOME DIFFERENT CHOICES IN LIFE.... ***U DON'T EVEN KNOW WHO I AM*** U LEFT ME ALONG TIME AGO*** YOU DONT EVEN KNOW WHO I AM SO WHY DO I CARE IF U GO!!!!!!!!

[@Jameslopez5682]

Hello beautiful blue eye how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family

[@marybrennan4702]

Why did you take me for granted you said you thought of me as your adopted daughter someway to show love! I wasn't trying to steal your husband you always think the wrong thought!? I miss Bob Prince 🐕 reunions holiday's birthday's I bet in 5 years You've never thought about me Valerie fine with me

[@williamanderson3745]

Well yes you make a good point here in your comment, Hello Mary how are you doing 👋👋

[@lauriedawnfranklin3972]

I can't relate to this song. That frustrate me. But I love you so her voice and the ending is wild. Unbelievable. To me. I love you so much @LorianSynaro I Love you so fckng much babe. FEDS WATCHING YOU AND ME. I know you are a good babe and I am so glad you liked it and call me when you get off work. Please. I love you so much. Thank you for being my Best friend in the whole wide world . I love you so much. I love you so fckng much!

[@lauriedawnfranklin3972]

Be safe and be careful. I Love You!

[@AndyHoffman-o8f]

2024 anyone?

[@PracticalPearlTarot]

This song is timeless. 🕯

[@rnrbruner]

Absolutely

[@Kathy-f3i]

Yep!

[@kmueller7423]

Nope.

[@ulricnayamin8022]

Still playing mom and dads music! Right?

[@sharoncrosby6788]

Perfect example of what happens when you both quit trying to communicate

[@williamanderson3745]

Yes you make a good point in your comment,Hello Sharon how are you doing 👋👋👋👋

[@DaveAnderson-xh7qe]

Yes. Truer words were never said. I was blind, but now, I see. Thankyou. ❤

[@flametexas]

Who’s here in 2024? This woman is a gift to country music!

[@Chads6Strings]

Me 🙋🏼‍♂️

[@amandajanewalker1972]

Me ....I am

[@joegatt2306]

Present

[@jamesbonnell8843]

Patty sings this song with so much emotion that if you don’t get a tear in your eye there is something wrong with you!! Very emotionally done by one of the best female country music singers of our time!! Beautiful sad love song!! I agree 100% that Patty Loveless belongs in the Country Music Hall of Fame as a singer!!

[@ginadisbrow9324]

Just unbelievable that she's not yet been inducted. However, I haven't researched whether or not she resides in TN. I found out only lately that it is a stipulation of a CM artist. That is the only reason that George Strait has never been inducted. He's always decided to remain a resident of TX. I think this rule is just preposterous.

[@twylah9047]

Come on now its a Song...

[@sanctuspiox]

I MISS my wife….she left me for another man, left me and our 4 little children😢It’s been over 23 years since and I still 😔

[@maryaustria3927]

​@@sanctuspioxsorry to hear

[@darrellgarrett72]

@@sanctuspiox23 years? Maybe it’s time to move on

[@RalphChichester]

married to the same woman for 64 years. She will tell you that this song tells it all. When we look at are family, we thank GOD that we made it together. This song brings it all HOME. Patty is timeless. Love her.

[@judyworldwar3patriot179]

I So thankful I Just found her I'm 69,so thankful Yaw made it please pray for my husband and me 33years 9 months Judy Pearls 🌸🌼🌎

[@ronp8865]

When I was in high school I didn't have to go searching for good music, it was on the radio. I miss the 90's.

[@geraldcheetham9330]

same

[@76adrienne]

Peach 🙌🏻

[@michaelsizemore4667]

Ron P 90’s we’re the last good era in Country Music before it went to hip hop

[@sakeeler]

Damn right. Nobody knows what music is today. It's just getting drunk and jacked up trucks on repeat. There's no emotion anymore.

[@mollyjordan9629]

Me too

[@donbirak9119]

Sad story of two people who forgot why they loved each other and grew apart. Patty’s stylings are powerful.

[@valleyguy633]

One of the many great things about Patty is that you can understand almost every word of every song.

[@wesgreen8118]

This song saved me once I wonder if 2 is to much to ask

[@tracylyn85]

Been there unfortunately and this song explains it all I miss the 90s

[@adamwhitfield5571]

@@wesgreen8118 nope!! It's not brother! This is life, it happens to the best of us. And man sometimes we just need that reminder. God bless u my man.

[@adamwhitfield5571]

@@tracylyn85 100%

[@bryce1597]

When someone asks for a sad song, I play this one. Absolutely heart wrenching stuff.

[@TheHavrelandtExperiment]

Listen to She Never Stopped Loving Him, that song makes me cry like a baby every time I listen to it even though I know how it ends. My throat gets a knot in it and it's so painfull.

[@chad1018791]

My wife told me she used to sing this about me and I deserve every ounce of it. When we were first together and then some I took her for granted and treated her like crap. She did stick around for me and I honestly can’t believe she did and it breaks my heart that I broke hers so much

[@Brandigarrison372]

I wish my husband would see it before it is too late.

[@dra4myboys]

I have loved this song for 20 years. The sad part is, when I left he finally came around to the man I fell in love with. I was already gone, I do miss him.

[@Janellabelle]

All marriages have heartbreaking moments. The marriages that last have plenty. But, you HAVE to work it out and keep going. Unless someone beats you or cheats on you-then LEAVE the 1st time they do! Otherwise...you swore to your God and the country in front of many ppl (or a few ppl) you'd love eachother for better or worse until DEATH do you part. All we have is our word. And loving eachother involves plenty of forgiveness and compromise. When you don't consider divorce an option, you stay married Met my husband when we were 20, 15 years later, we've seen our share of struggles, and we have hurt each other because we are not perfect. But if I knew then what I know now, how hard marriage is sometimes, I'd do it all over again. ❤

[@sanctuspiox]

Glad to hear that the two of you are still together unfortunately I kind of did the same thing, but my wife was having an affair and things just fell apart so fast.

[@mariatorres9789]

Never let her go, and just love her, and show her you love her, & hold her. That's all she wants and needs. ❤ I wish mine had listened.

[@charitysteveboisseau5989]

"He called to tell her he was sorry, but couldn't remember what for..." One of the saddest lines of any song....I love this song...I always like to think that they get back together in the end, despite it all.

[@ericlittle294]

Agree. But I know a bunch of men who feel that way. It's like, what did I do now? We go to work every morning and come home to them every night. It's a tough thing to realize. I'm so thankful for my wife. She supports me, builds me up and doesn't walk around like a victim all the time. That's hard to find now days.

[@bethgott9768]

Leaving Marty .what I did. GRANT AVERY elopement

[@vvvdpkn]

The line of an alcoholic, I know exactly what it's like..

[@Jimmy_Watt]

​@@vvvdpknMy mind didn't go to alcohol with that line. Just too many insignificant distractions along the way, diverting attention from what really matters.

[@DaveAnderson-xh7qe]

It cuts both ways. Women aren't the only ones who suffer. May we all be delivered from our fears. ❤

[@lonnyjohnson2061]

Patty Loveless sings it like she's lived it. You know she feels it.

[@cuttnhorse2013]

She has lived it!❤

[@Dishtech48]

This woman , Never got the fame attention, she well Deserved ! Doesn't get any better than this... Thank You Patty Loveless................................

[@jeanniebell9493]

Always my fave, and always will be !

[@TheYousellouttube]

She's in the hall of fame.., 5 number 1', 35 songs in the top 20..I think she got plenty my friend. XD

[@Dishtech48]

@TheYousellouttube I meant like , when she sang with Vince Gill, He seemed too not have alot too do with her at times.

[@kenneththrasher1152]

​@TheYousellouttube ... NOPE. Her Voice and Talent DESERVES WAY MORE RECOGNITION AND ACCOLADES THAN THAT!!

[@Dishtech48]

@kenneththrasher1152 yea agree. Like she gets pushed back by Vince,as she is just a backup Singer.

[@donchapman1122]

48 years old here...married 20+ years...with 3 GREAT kiddos!...Me and my wife struggle with issues like this....EVERY Day!...This song was what "County Music "...used to be!

[@gingerharris7583]

You have no idea,I've been with the same man for a long time and he still tells me that his ex is better than me!

[@xtreme3353]

​@@gingerharris7583 wow I'm so very sorry to hear (read) this

[@deborahfolwer2989]

Well Ginger tell him to go back to the ex and you get out of Dodge. No respect is worse than loneliness.

[@robertjackson6588]

cut's tooooo the bone ..........

[@dianapatrick4482]

Oh but you feel this song , so I think you & yours will be ok.. this is also me & my husband, 37 yrs married now . 💓💔❤️

[@SpaceTed]

Congrats on the Hall of Fame, Patty. So deserving!

[@lyndagaines5165]

Congratulations . You deserve to be there with Loretta Lynn. Patty you have an awesome voice. Love you singing with Vince Gill .

[@adamwilliams5417]

Modern country should take note..this is country music at it's finest

[@traviswilson7969]

U got that right

[@rickcarmichael4661]

It's for city slickers too

[@robkay7517]

Sturgill Simpson - I wonder

[@josephcarino5829]

Yea, this new stuff sucks

[@leoheredia6934]

Totally agree 👍

[@Amalia-no7xt]

Still sounds amazing almost 30 years later 💗💗💗

[@wendysaslow8631]

I agree! 🙂

[@jeremyparsons5356]

@@wendysaslow8631 very beautiful

[@draya3245]

yea it does dear

[@user-mu5ny1ks6t]

That damn long?

[@samwdavis]

Reverse the gender roles and you'll get closer to the truth.... what happens more often.

[@lisalatham5776]

Most definitely belongs in hall of Fame u can't help but feel this song in your heart and soul

[@Channel4029]

Married 43 years and I am so thankful this song does not describe us. Just love each other as if you had just put those rings on each others fingers. Don't ever take each other for granted.

[@genec4599]

God bless you

[@bobbygzzz7116]

Very lucky..cherish it all..marriage is a job...i learned the hard way

[@adamwhitfield5571]

God bless yall!!!!!!!!!! That's so awesome to hear!!!!

[@pattyloveless6093]

Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on [e-mail] I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️

[@ginag669]

Don't get too comfortable.. Shit happens 😳

[@themxproductions]

This is Country Music. It makes you feel real emotion.

[@edwardhale2412]

Great Country Music with meaning. The crying sound of the Steel Guitar brings more life to the meaning of the song. This song ranks right up there with Sammy Kershaw Yard Sale. Love, Marriage, and Divorce.

[@juliahale9247]

I miss country music from the 90s. There wasn't a song you couldn't relate to somehow. Nowa days it's all about trucks and beer. Smh

[@utubecrimequeen]

Julia Hale I agree!!!💯💯💯💯

[@paultykwinski1365]

I miss the old tunes that started the real outlaw country like johny cash and friends look to the past to find real music

[@sunsgaming1828]

I do also

[@shanemartinez135]

Exactly.. it's more pop than County now 🙄

[@photonotavailable7936]

Julia Hale Agree. I miss country music from the ‘80s and ‘90s, specifically, ‘84 to ‘95. KZbin is my time machine.

[@jeffarmstrong-vv5jd]

Mostly a metal head but when I need my country fix, Patty is where I start. Voice that will bring you to tears. There will never be another like her.

[@GlennLandry-dd2ux]

Yes . Country at it's best.

[@Sheila-z3d]

How strong is your arm for lovelee

[@davidhrahsel]

We are the same bro, I'm also listen country music like country pop, bluegrass, country rock But my favorite genre of music is Rock n' Roll like Black Sabbath, Led Zeppelin, Metallica, Aerosmith etc etc...

[@jamesconner6431]

They need to bring this true country back

[@ArcoZakus]

That's what each generation says as it drifts into history. The wish never comes true. Each new generation brings its own styles in to replace the old. At least in this digital age the older stuff we like most is preserved on the www where we can still listen to it as if it never went away. I wish the same could be done for all the hair I'e lost over the years, or the miles I used to run every week. Looks like those are gone forever.

[@Amalia-no7xt]

I stopped listening to the new stuff like 20 years ago!

[@karingregg1695]

The closest ive heard was Joey and Rory. Unfortunately Joey passed.

[@keith2915]

Sad that it never will be back the garbage 🗑️ is in now sad but at least we can keep it alive by playing the daylights lol out of it

[@nicnaciswack8681]

People are always understanding of the woman's perspective I like this song because it shows both perspectives

[@raymondtobin5918]

Yes, and for once, the husband isn't portrayed as some sort of moron jerk. It really is a song about two decent people realizing they have nothing in common except their children.

[@rexdebruin4508]

Truth - and it wasn't just on the Country stations either... Nirvana, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the list goes on. There's still good music in all genres today, but it seems that you have to look to places other than the radio to hear it.

[@billybatchelor2863]

Perfect 👌

[@pattyloveless6093]

Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on [e-mail] I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️

[@rickyshaner1891]

If you seen a video of her in concert when she sings this song she says right at the start she sees the other perspective

[@gil52680]

This song is all about communication and remembering your other half. We sometime get stuck in our routines and forget to charish eachother.

[@BaahBen]

t takes two..Remember that.

[@scottturner1504]

Let me tell you how powerful this woman and her vocals are and the message in this song im a 48 year old man who listens to Tool and alice in chains...this girl is country

[@j.whitney2969]

So true!!!!! 💕

[@davidrowland5476]

True that bro

[@rodneyf.9595]

I have lived this song for many years , time heals but doesn't let you ever forget.

[@cpeet9346]

Time hasn’t healed me!

[@abrahudnall5744]

Say it again 🙌 I think it's just a huge misconception that just because you've healed doesn't mean that wound or scar doesn't have a little burn now and again. Hopefully one day the little triggers, memories, thoughts that tend to escape, feelings that muddle in the middle... It's always just another thought away.

[@rodneyf.9595]

@@abrahudnall5744 yes I sure hope so the little trigger things that happen hopefully will not be as bad as time goes Thank you

[@pattyloveless6093]

Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on [e-mail] I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️

[@rodneyf.9595]

@@pattyloveless6093 Thank you very much for your kind words 👍

[@randytoye6657]

Been married 13 years with 3 kids and this song is to fucking real that it kills me on the inside. The truth is just like poetry...and everybody hates fucking poetry!

[@deannadevine4124]

That’s how u know it’s real

[@rosaliewalker1655]

Amen!! So there now and the problem after you stay too long (26 years) you don't know how to physically check out even if you emotionally checked out a long time ago

[@realcanadiangirl64]

@@rosaliewalker1655 I checked out twice. Once after 14 years, the next after ten. I've been alone for ten years but I'm never lonely like I was with them

[@rosaliewalker1655]

@@realcanadiangirl64 I absolutely understand and very much appreciate your response. I've been married to a narcissistic bully for 26 years who also happens to be an alcoholic. But my youngest child just finished college so my next step is finding the courage to walk away. Alot of what kept me where I am (believe it or not) has to do with geography. I met him in the Army and moved to his hometown in Arkansas whereas my family is in Massachusetts which is 1,600 miles away

[@arizonagirl8841]

@@rosaliewalker1655 I walked away after 30 years with a narcissist. It's freeing & liberating and I'm finally happy with someone who is invested in me as I am them. Nothing toxic about this relationship. This is your life & your book. You have complete control of the ending. I pray you find the courage to close this chapter and finish your book with your own happy ending. Life is too short to love in misery, feeling broken and alone. May God bless you in whatever you choose to do. ❤️

[@amberhall9182]

90’s country… the BEST country. Can we go back?

[@Kimyungharrison1111]

Hello there Amber nice meeting you here

[@amberhall9182]

@@Kimyungharrison1111 hello Justice! Nice meeting you as well. 🙂

[@Kimyungharrison1111]

@@amberhall9182 how are you doing today?

[@brandonyoung827]

I love the passion in this song from both sides and as you get older you understand more and more how easy this can happen.

[@juniorsnyder404]

Why she is not in the country music hall of fame is a travesty. Truly a heart and soul singer. I love her

[@littlemissmegannn]

Takes my breath away every single time. At the beginning, I’m always like “OH MY GOD, SHE GETS IT!”....and by the end I’m always sobbing and feeling so guilty. Marriage isn’t easy, and there’s nothing like 90s country to remind you of that while also making you so grateful for it. 😍😍😭😭

[@noelkosobucki9722]

God bless you

[@joypaul995]

I get it. I dunno what brought me here but 42 years and we left eachother a long time ago😢💔🕊

[@marybrennan4702]

Maybe 😏 I would still have a wonderful family if you tried marriage counseling instead of leaving three strkes

[@mandyabbott1939]

THE GREATEST FEMALE RECORDING ARTIST OF ALL TIME!

[@gleanerman2195]

She's in the top 10 for sure, I love her music.

[@azcactus2008]

I love how this song covers both sides of the relationship. Fair is fair.

[@jbill2986]

"All is fair in love and war?"

[@azcactus2008]

@@jbill2986 No. It’s just refreshing to see both sides of a relationship being represented honestly.

[@jbill2986]

@@azcactus2008 didnt understand it as that. How do we know both are telling the truth?

[@azcactus2008]

@@jbill2986 you are hilarious. I guess we don’t know if either side is telling the truth. It’s just a story being told in a song. It’s nice to have a song sung by a woman that doesn’t come off like a man hating song. In this case I’ll give Patty Loveless the benefit of the doubt.🤣🤣

[@jbill2986]

@@azcactus2008 her story is important ;)

[@millielockhart4142]

Patti has one of the best voices in country music ! Her and Vince Gill duets are amazing !

[@pedrohilson5461]

Patty Loveless angelic golden voice

[@pedrohilson5461]

@Debbie Lawson Absolutely 🤗

[@pedrohilson5461]

How's the pandemic over there with you Debbie 🤔

[@jeremywombacher3898]

When they do go rest high on that mountain together at possums funeral that hits me right in the heart everytime

[@jonathanbarnes3061]

Loveless and George Jones, Loveless and Dwight Yoakum Loveless and Vince Gill Loveless and Chris Stapleton, she makes everybody look good

[@UsualSuspect47]

This beautiful woman refused to sell out to the music machine. Patty had everything going for her. God given good looks, crazy vocal range and a rare sense of self worth with no ego. At any other time she would be the benchmark that others would aspire to, but I guess that's the way it goes sometimes.

[@michaelcarter1882]

I used to like this song when I was in high school but now that I'm 47 and been through a divorce it just hits me a lot different. I listen to this the other day and I cried for the first time in a long time. But it was good to let those tears out. I needed that release.

[@veronicapalmer1828]

It definitely hits different than it did in high school!

[@michaelcarter1882]

@@veronicapalmer1828 especially when what happened in the song happened in my own marriage. Nobody cheated we just drifted apart and became different people.

[@veronicapalmer1828]

@@michaelcarter1882, I understand.

[@bigpapi2658]

Best female vocalist

[@JohnWayne-rw1ve]

I've loved this song since I was a kid. I never thought I'd experience it at 40.

[@theeemaven]

I'm so sorry. Hugs to you John Wayne. Hope things are better today than the day you typed it.

[@JohnWayne-rw1ve]

Thank you for caring and for the kind message but no, it's not better, just finished now.

[@JohnWayne-rw1ve]

Ms.Miner, I pray that you see this....every single thing I've learned about love tells me I would not need any convincing to help my partner if they needed it. Even if I didn't want to I would still help. You broke my heart, but I would still help you. I never knew love, foster homes didn't teach it so I find it extremely odd that even with my life I still believe in true love. To all who are selfish and narrow minded........if you knew just how much that shit hurt, you'd probably still do it, so I'm wasting my breath. I STILL love you, even tho I don't want to.

[@blainekristin]

Me either.

[@itsmovinfast]

@@blainekristin odd how things turn out, or don’t. Im slowly learning to stop asking why. Hope this finds you well.

[@MNMMOMMA2]

"You don't even know who I am, so why do you care if I go". Jeezzzz, this hits home, like a punch in the gut.

[@Jameslopez5682]

Hello Momma how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family

[@joypaul995]

Got you in the feels too? Story of him and I 😢😢

[@MNMMOMMA2]

@@joypaul995 It sure does 😢

[@melissariddle9908]

Always called to say you're sorry, I stopped believing it long before I left

[@BaahBen]

two sides to the story.....

[@jacharysmama5193]

Heartbreaking to understand exactly what she's saying...

[@katiegauthier8814]

@@rosenruffles q

[@annabreen1834]

Polo

[@annabreen1834]

Renaee plll

[@phillipgeorge4278]

I get it Sometimes we just grow apart but stay together for fear of being alone? I guess help me out jachary’s mama

[@jacharysmama5193]

@@phillipgeorge4278, I've never been afraid of being alone. Tbh, I'm not sure what the answer to that question is...

[@maedatakemitsu5278]

Patty Loveless is my first female country singer with whom I instantly fell in love. She's got everything to be a country singer. In my mind, she exists as Patty Lovefull.

[@sgmillsjr5670]

I see what you did there. 👍♥️🙏

[@rekklessbehavior4835]

Patty is such a powerful woman. Bring the 90s and earlier country music back. Mama, they make them like that anymore. 😓

[@Jameslopez5682]

Hello Rekkless how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family

[@HardPen-jj5nl]

If my mother wasn't a BPD + narcissistic candidate & my father wasn't milquetoast, I coulda been a contender!

[@shirleybutler8637]

Best female country singer hands down!!

[@josecontreras2997]

One of the best from her time.

[@lynnmiller320]

It has been said she has a pure mountain voice and l love when she sings with other artists

[@liamroberts9047]

Hello, How are you doing?

[@dannyhuffman]

Hi Lynn hope you're okay?

[@FeelinFineFeelinFanc]

Things like this happen when 2 people really don't know each other at all, sadness, boredom, lonely, no love, and then indifference

[@kaylaaa6834]

Crazy how what you think could never end does the long and winding road. Patty loveless voice of a angel

[@williamanderson3745]

Lovely comment, Hello kaylaaa how are you doing 👋👋👋👋

[@kevinboyette6145]

If you show me one more dam Joe Biden commercial when I come to listen to patty KZbin I swear lol

[@raymondtobin5918]

This is so sad, they weren't cheating on each other. They just....fell out of love.

[@bobbygzzz7116]

Most cases peeps are not really in luv...just star struck..it will last a lil..then get old n boring..bang u divorced

[@michaelthompson5886]

It happens and it sucks

[@roybush8046]

in love with ideal of being in love...stupid!!

[@mitchellhall4592]

Yep

[@mitchellhall4592]

Married 34.years.dont say it cant happen. You can fall out.as easy as you fell in.

[@fburton8455]

There is much truth to this song. We take people for granted and don't talk. You have to talk and show love and affection. Tell your spouse you love and appreciate them.

[@TheMC1215]

“What we’ve got here is failure to communicate.” Don’t expect your partner of no matter how many days, weeks, months, years or decades to become a mind reader. Like all good things, one must continue to work and fight for a happy marriage. After three decades, and still going strong, we still work at it. And remember to be kind to one another, be forgiving, and ask for forgiveness when you’ve stepped off in it! But it takes two, so for some, unfortunately, reconciliation is not an option.

[@ambercourtney2029]

Civil war, Guns N’ Roses. I have always loved the intro to that song.

[@markusa5521]

@@ambercourtney2029 its from (cool hand luke movie). Its a classic. Paul Newman is in it

[@cpeet9346]

Somethings can’t be forgiven or forgotten! Especially when they say it didn’t mean anything. When no sorry was ever spoken.

[@misscleo378]

I would like to add that it important to be receptive to your spouse when they’re talking and try not to assume what they are feeling or saying. You can be the world’s best communicator but if your spouse is constantly tuning you out, what’s the point.

[@TheMC1215]

Someone said, “The reason you have two ears and one mouth is to listen twice as much as you talk.” I’m as guilty as most of thinking I know the answer before the question is asked. We are all a work in progress. Anyhow, if my partner is tuned out, I probably need to stop saying and start doing. Someone else told me, “Your actions speak so loudly I can’t hear the words you’re saying!” And sometimes it really is too late. There’s more life to live. Learn and move forward.

[@dianewiegel7136]

I don't know who you are.

[@bobhunt2764]

Hi!!! I kind of , sort of , well, pretty much think you seem amazing. Want to chat sometime? How are you 🌹 Kindly Drop a note / email address and I'll reply instantly. Just if you may wish to email too!!

[@thomsonstephensmith3010]

Hello Diane, Good morning.

[@gregakinson2800]

Ladies and Gentleman.....the best female Country vocalist ever...........

[@haroldstewart5955]

Amen to that

[@redfoxtrapper]

This song makes even a man cry still!!

[@goatbut29]

Love how this song covers both sides. No one is the bad guy, because both sides are broken. After 23yrs of marriage to the most beautiful woman on Earth, I can understand both sides. Whatever the choice. No one wins in the end.

[@countryboywilliams6755]

PATTY IS GREATLY UNDERATED ( IMO ) I`VE BEEN A FAN FOR YRS.~~SHE POURS HER HEART & SOUL INTO HER MUSIC...

[@peggygilbert5048]

. L L

[@shannongallagher2382]

Shes a good ole southern ⛰ mountain girl

[@countryboywilliams6755]

@@shannongallagher2382 YOU GOT THAT RIGHT

[@joshuawren1660]

She had a good teacher

[@rickyshaner1891]

I always thought she was underappreciated I seen her in concert in 2000 best concert I've ever been to

[@ministroabnervelazquez5216]

On my way to work and even though I just had my anniversary of 33 years with my wife, I still feel for those who this happened too. And to think that at times in marriage this can happen if you don’t nurture it. Me and my wife had some really fought times, but we stuck it through. God bless you all. A preacher in Jersey

[@mikesmith3078]

Patty is the queen of country and bluegrass music. She is so beautiful to me. red hair and emerald green eyes. WOW what a woman.

[@TheCreedance72]

Patty loveless has a voice and a way of singing that can always just hit me right in the heart beautiful Kentucky bluebird

[@loriwilber4652]

Didn't realize how long it's been since I last heard this song. Love it just as much now as I did then.

[@bobhunt2764]

Hi!!! I kind of , sort of , well, pretty much think you seem amazing. Want to chat sometime? How are you 🌹 Kindly Drop a note / email address and I'll reply instantly. Just if you may wish to email too!!

[@shannonburns6724]

A beautiful Gretchen Peters composition. Patricia delivers this like a freight train going by @ 70 mph and you are standing less than a foot away. Great read by Patty here. The finest female voice alive. Oh and I can tell you what a woman is. Take a look who'se singing this.

[@davidholton1990]

How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song

[@LunaMoonfae]

This song always makes you think that maybe you should appreciate who your with

[@panicmosem5969]

If you can't be with the one you love.... love the one you're with

[@jvsmith7888]

This is one of those songs that sneaks up on you. I remember hearing it on the radio when it was new and I didn't like it the first few times I heard it. I had recently gone through a painful divorce and this song hit a lot of sore spots. Still, you couldn't deny that this song was speaking to millions of people in this country who were going through something similar to this. I also like how this song presents both sides, it's not just his fault, it's not just her fault. Sometimes things just happen and you just can't figure out how to fix them. I very quickly grew to love this song and I still think it's one of Patty's best. This song is a good companion song for another Loveless hit, "The Trouble With The Truth."

[@mikecarroll2305]

My favorite female country singer. Love all her songs....

[@Kevinmiller1179]

This song is so powerful and with a truly deep meaning 😢

[@nathanlackey3307]

I FELT that for real!! 😢

[@jeffstogner7181]

Such an amazing voice. Wish more singers today sounded as good as she does. Makes me miss the 90's even more

[@silverbucket8046]

I try to tell my wife this but she just doesn't get it.

[@Craig-bz3dm]

Unfortunately I can tell you from experience that she probably never will then , sorry brother !!

[@silverbucket8046]

Thanks brother

[@jessicaarteaga9099]

She don't know what she's losing

[@tammybeck891]

Usually it's the woman feeling this way, a couple should be able to tell each other their feelings but in all honesty a strong relationship should never get to this point. If you love somebody always make it a habit to show them not just say it. Love works best as an action. Which ALOT of men don't seem to know that. so what if you say I love you. Show her you love her.

[@mikelei861]

Nor does mine!

[@markhaeft7076]

WOW......this song definitely hits that nerve when you have lived this

[@shawnaldrich7868]

this song came out when i was going through it

[@pattyloveless6093]

Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on [e-mail] I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️

[@nindyhunt]

I cried many of tears to this song back in 94. My divorce was final Nov 18th that year and my husband never seemed to know me. I was just his property.

[@AndyBenitez-jy7es]

Hi Nindy 💐💐

[@bridgettemctigue8697]

This makes me sick to know this feeling

[@cjturner2008]

Me too Im 5.0ft Even 108lbs Gay and been through so much like this song

[@genec4599]

Amen, been there

[@DaveB806]

When you say your sorry and you can’t even remember what for, because you’re told your always in the wrong. Being married can hurt so bad. Years later a song can bring it all back. 😢

[@robertmassey3524]

Totally understand

[@MORTAL-SKY]

This comment!

[@SusieDaw-ix6pv]

Still here in Nov of 2023. I'm 67 years old, all of the great music has been done in my lifetime. I'm blessed!!! Most everything I've heard on the radio as they were moving up the charts!

[@ginadisbrow9324]

Is this country music icon seriously still not inducted into the CM Hall of Fame? Her voice makes me cry with joy. And when paired with the likes of Vince Gill, the hair on the back of my neck stands up. She's just too real. I love you Patty. ** Edit and update!!!! So sorry, I googled after I posted this comment. Patty is scheduled to be inducted into the CM Hall of Fame (Finally!!) in October of this year. God bless you Patty for all of your hard work and payoffs, including giving your fans so much joy in hearing your God-given blessings of talent. We love you bunches!!!

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